
Engr. Toyin Ayo-Bello

Your legacy of love will forever light our way.
Obituary
Engr. Toyin Ayo-Bello, aged 68, of 44 Niger Road, Ilorin, Kwara State, passed away peacefully on 20th December 2025. Born on 23rd August 1957, he was a beloved father to four children and a respected member of his community.
Throughout his life, Engr. Toyin touched the lives of many through his dedication, warmth, and strength of character. He was known for his integrity, commitment, and the positive influence he had on those around him. His family, friends, and peers will remember him for his wisdom, generosity, and steadfast spirit.
A funeral service in honor of Engr. Toyin Ayo-Bello was held at AyoBello Memorial Baptist Church, 18 Oro Road, Off Taiwo Road, Ilorin, Kwara State, on 9th January 2026 from 10am to 12pm. Loved ones and well-wishers were invited to join the family in celebrating his life and legacy.
He will be deeply missed, yet fondly remembered by all whose lives he graced.
Celebration of life
Glorious Transition
Biography
We are gathered here today not merely to mourn, but to celebrate a remarkable life, a life of impact, kindness, and quiet strength. Any account we try to give in these few moments will be, by necessity, a mere sketch of a full and vibrant journey. For how can we possibly capture the essence of a man who traversed generations, touched countless lives, and built a legacy in both concrete and in hearts, within the span of a short speech.
What follows is drawn from the memories of those who knew him best, his family, his friends, his colleagues. It is an offering of love and respect for a man simply known to many as Loray, or the Lone Ranger.
Engr. Toyin Ayo-Bello was born on August 23, 1957, in Kaduna into the family of Rev & Chief Mrs Ayo-Bello of blessed memory. He began his early education at Baptist Day School, Kigo Road, Kaduna and later at Baptist Day School, Ilorin where he began his football hobby and was later know as little Rogogo.
From those early days, a path of distinction began. Engr Toyin Ayo-Bello later proceeded to F.G.C Sokoto for his secondary school education in 1970, after his secondary school education, he attended Kwara State College of Technology, Ilorin. He then proceeded to the prestigious Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, where he honed his mind in the discipline of Building Engineering. But it wasn’t just in the lecture halls where he made his mark. Many here may not know that he was celebrated as one of the best goalkeepers ABU had ever seen, a man of both formidable intellect and agile presence. That presence would define his professional life.
Emerging in the vibrant era of the 80s, Engr. Ayo-Bello moved among the best and brightest, his talent and character opening doors. He was not just a Building Engineer; he was a builder of communities. His vision and skill are etched into the landscape of our nation, from the housing estate at New Yidi Road to notable projects in Abuja and Lagos. He built structures that provided shelter, spaces that fostered life.
Yet, the man was far greater than his professional portfolio. If you sought the heart of Toyin Ayo-Bello, you would find it in his philanthropic nature. He had a quiet, steadfast commitment to helping those in need. He was a good and reliable friend, to colleagues and juniors alike, a rare constant in a changing world. His love for children was profound and unmistakable, a love manifested in the fierce protection, guidance, and unwavering support he gave to his own, ensuring they grew into the people they are today.
He is survived by:
2. Tosin Ayo-Bello (Daughter)
He will also be remembered by a vast community of friends who feel his absence deeply. “Even though you are no longer with us in body, the memory and love we shared will forever remain in our hearts.”
Those who knew him understood his philosophy: to live life easy, not to be troubled by the chaos. He carried a profound belief that if something was meant to be, it would work out for good. He championed the wisdom of taking one day at a time, facing the future not with worry, but with a calm and steady faith.
Engr. Toyin Ayo-Bello lived his life uniquely, with generosity, with talent, with a love that was both strong and gentle. So today, we take this opportunity not just to say goodbye, but to celebrate a life that made a decisive and positive change in everyone it touched. We will miss his kindness, his quiet strength, his reassuring presence. He will remain in our hearts for the rest of our days.
We pray now that the Almighty God, in His infinite mercy, welcome this faithful servant, this loving father, this true friend, into His eternal kingdom.
Amen.
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We began our journey in Fgc,Sokoto in 1971 up until our ABU days.
Throughout this period until we lost you, you treated me like a brother.
I'm sad that you left so early. May your soul rest in peace. Adieu!
I joined this family not knowing what I would find, I knew I had seen the love of my life, but nervous about acceptance. From Day 1 when I came to Dobale for daddy he put my mind at ease, he asked me to stand up and from that day treated me like one of his sons.
Daddy’s passing is painful, I know death is inevitable but I wish God kept him with us a little longer. His gentleness and soft spoken nature made relating with him so easy.
Whenever we spoke he always asked about his “nukus” and always made sure I promised to take good care of her.
You will be fondly missed sir, we lost a rare gem, but our loss is heaven’s gain. Rest in God’s bosom till we meet to part no more
Your Son,
Bakaten Moffi
A TRIBUTE TO OUR IN-LAW
A sage once posed the question: "what is the best time to die". After ruminating over the issue for some time, he came to the conclusion that the best time to die is whenever one dies. We have questioned in our minds and even aloud why you should depart now but we are reminded of the Scripture which says that there is a time for everything - a time to be born and time to die. It has pleased the Almighty God who is the giver and taker of life to call you home at this time. We all submit to His will.
In all of this, we recall the time we had with you within these two and half years of our getting to know each other. You calm demeanour, soft-spokenness and gentle disposition are part of the abiding memories you left behind with us.
We cannot forget the reception you and the family accorded us when we first came to Ilorin for the marriage introduction and the wedding proper. We had a deep impression that our in-laws are good people.
When you visited us in Calabar and we journeyed to Ogoja, our hometown, we got to know each other better. We cannot
forget your kind words to us in what you called "our hospitality".
We kept in touch in the months following. We wish you could have had many more years with us on this side of the divide but it is your time to go.
Fare thee well, our brother. Go with the Lord, our in-law Rest in the bosom of the Almighty God.
BARR. LEO MOFFI
on behalf of the
Alada Moffi family of
Ogoja, Cross River State
Engr Toyin Ayo-Bello, better known to his friends as "Loray". He's a kind hearted man, Grandpa as we always call him to distinguish him from the remaining daddies in the house 😅. He is a very good man to me and everyone around him. Daddy has sown quality seed into my life that is growing up to become a mighty tree just by his act! Through him, I discovered myself in Christ, I remembered telling him this only for him to laugh it off saying he doesn't remember doing anything of such.. and that's because there's a lot of good things he has done that he cannot even remember anymore, but to them that benefits, they will never forget.
Daddy is a man of his word, he love children to have discipline and to be in order. He's a well known person in his society, recognized as a humanitarian who's always ready to help when needed most.
The memory of daddy is forever in our heart, he might not be physically with us, but I believe he's well alive! (Jn 11:25)
Rest on daddy. See you on the ascension day.
Baba to feran omo enikeji gege bi omo re. Sun re o, baba Dada. (Baba that love his neighbor like his own child. Rest on baba)
While he wasn't always present, I am who I am partly because of him and for that, I am grateful for my father’s life.
I don’t have many memories (just dreams of a life that could have been but never was) so today I choose to remember my dad as the child of God that he was and remember that there was love, even if it was from afar.
I forgive you dad. For me. For my mum.
May your soul rest in peace.
May Almighty Allah SWT forgive his shortcomings and console the family.
Adieu Loray.
Your kindness spoke louder than words. You had a way of touching lives effortlessly.
Though death has taken you from our sight, it can never take you from our hearts.
I am grateful for every moment shared with you, even as I mourn the pain of goodbye.
May your soul find eternal rest sir, and May we find comfort in knowing that you lived a life that truly mattered.
My academic foray was memorable because “Loray” was my special Santa Claus. Beyond that, he was my confidant, my gist partner, as well as my quarrel mate. I can’t believe he won’t say “Kem Kem” anymore — that phrase that usually and magically ended every one of our heated conversations. I’m mortally saddened by your passing, beloved brother. Every minute brings your memory to my heart, and I’ve not mastered how to take or react to your absence. However, if there’s one chance to wish, I’d ask to live with you again. Please be my brother in the next life; I will definitely be “Loray’s Sister” again, and I believe the lives you influenced would want you around again as well.
I pray that God grants your soul rest among His beloved . Thank you, brother, for living a charitable life.
Adieu Loray!


