Emmanuel Gbolade Lasekan (Brother Agba)

Tribute to my beloved Dad

God has not promised us a life untouched by sorrow,
a journey without loss,
or an earthly home where death never knocks.

He has not promised that those we love
will remain beside us forever beneath the sun.

But He has promised to be near
when the night grows heavy,
to comfort us when our hearts are broken,
and to lead us beyond this earthly journey
into everlasting life.

So, now that the sun has set upon your earthly days, rather than dwell in pain of your departure.
I choose to thank God for the life you lived

My Baba Yetunde—
not Baba Biola, as I fondly teased you—
I thank God for the privilege
of calling you my father.

You lived simply, humbly, and quietly,
yet your life spoke with a strength
that needed no loudness.

You were a man of peace,
a keeper of tranquillity,
a vessel of tender love.
You showed us what peace can mend,
what stillness can withstand,
and how calmness can stand like a fortress
in the midst of turmoil.

You taught us not only with your words,
but with the gentle testimony of your life.

You lived devoted to God,
to your family,
and to all whose paths crossed yours.

As I grew older,
your life became an open book before me—
a sacred lesson in fatherhood,
in marriage, love, family values,
in integrity,
and in the quiet dignity of a good man.

Though my heart aches
at the thought that I will not see you again
in this earthly life,
but I thank God for every year He gave us,
every conversation,
every lesson,
every laugh,
every correction,
every shared moment,
every cherished memory,
and very important, every beer we shared.

You are no longer here
for me to call,
to speak with,
or to sit beside.

But you remain with us
in the memories you left behind,
in the values you planted,
and in the dreams you inspired.

I will carry your legacy
like a lamp through the years,
and I promise to keep walking
towards the dreams you had for me.

You may no longer be with us in body,
but the love you gave
will not fade.

The lessons you taught
will not be forgotten.

The memories you created
will continue to breathe
through all who knew and loved you.

I believe you did not truly die;
you simply became an angel
watching over us from beyond the veil.

I love you, Dad.

Till we meet again, to part no more.

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED FATHER

BABA YETUNDE

Where do I begin?

Today, I celebrate the life of a man filled with love and compassion.

My dad was a caring husband, loving father, devoted Catholic, and kind-hearted person. He cared deeply for his family and made sure no one ever felt forgotten.

He protected me physically, emotionally, and spiritually. He was my adviser, my source of strength, and the person I turned to whenever I needed wisdom or encouragement. His support, guidance, and love shaped my life in countless ways.

He taught us by example how to pray, forgive, serve, and do what is right. God, family, character, and kindness were always important to him. He was also a proud and loving grandfather to Damilare, Taiwo, Kehinde, Boluwatife, and Atirola.

Last October, he was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer. Even in pain, he chose faith, courage, and dignity. I did my best to make him happy during that difficult period, and he fought a good fight.

Daddy, you touched so many lives. Your legacy of gentleness, devotion, faith, and love will live on in your wife, children, grandchildren, siblings, and everyone whose life you blessed.

It is still difficult to believe that you are no longer with me, but I take comfort in knowing that you are now free from pain and resting in the bosom of our Lord.

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”
— 2 Timothy 4:7

Rest well, Daddy. Your race is finished, and you fought well.

Thank you for everything you gave us. We love you, we honour you, and we will miss you forever.

Eternal rest grant unto Emmanuel Gbolade Lasekan, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Baba Yetunde, till we meet to part no more. Amen.

Sùn rẹ, Baba mi. 🙏🏽

Aláni Adé, ọkọ Alákẹ́,

Mo fẹ́ ẹ, ṣùgbọ́n Ọlọ́run fẹ́ ẹ ju mi lọ.
Mi ò rí ẹni bí Gboláde mọ́.
Mi ò rí ẹni baja mọ́.
Mi ò rí ẹni bàsòrò mọ́.
Mi ò rí ẹni tí mo lè pè ní ọkọ mọ́.

Ikú d’órò, ikú d’órò, ikú ṣe kà.
Óni Olódodo lọ.
Ó lọ sí ibi tí kò sí ìrora,
sí ibi tí kò sí ẹkún,
sí ibi ìsinmi.

Aláni Adé, ọkọ Alákẹ́,
ọ̀dí gbere, ọ̀dí arinàkò,
òtùdí ojú àlá.

Olólùfẹ́ mi,
Olórò mi,
Olùbàjà mi,
ẹlẹrin mi, mi ò rí ẹ mọ́.

Kò kin sọ̀rọ̀,
kò de kin baayan jà.
Ẹ̀mí ni mo jẹ́ kò máa sọ̀rọ̀.
Ẹ̀mí ni mo là lohun,
ṣùgbọ́n ọ̀rọ̀ kò sí mọ́.

Sùn re o, ọmọ ọlọ́wọ́ Mọ́dé,
ọ̀hàhà bàbá Erin,
ọmọ Arogundabíjẹ.

A ó pàdé lẹ́sẹ̀ Jésù.
Títí di ọjọ́ náà,
odàbọ̀, Aláni Adé.

Sùn re!
Sùn re o!

To my dear Father,
Gbolade Emmanuel Lasekan. 🕊️❤️

You came into this world, you saw, and you conquered. Now you can rest well. Now your voice can be heard clearly. Now you don’t have to be scared before you say or do anything.

At 72, you have truly done so much for yourself. Four grandsons and one granddaughter only you get to have this many grandchildren. ❤️

I don’t want you to leave me behind, but low-key, I really want you to go and rest because the pain was too much. You fought so hard for a whole year, battling this sickness called cancer. But who are my to question or blame God?

I remember when you were diagnosed, and I was preparing for my wedding. You were literally on your sickbed. But after hearing the good news, you called me the next day and said, “Tobi, I’m fine now.” You said you could eat by yourself again and that you could walk properly.

Seeing you dance on my wedding day was one of the happiest moments of my life. ❤️

Thank you so much, Dad. Thank you for everything.

I learnt so much from you. Is it your patience I want to talk about? Hmmm… Oshey Baba mi. ❤️

I don’t want to say goodbye, but I’m happy that you’re now at peace, enjoying the greatest rest in heaven.

I will forever love you Dad until the end of this world and beyond.

Please watch over me and my family. And don’t ever forget to keep protecting us, just like you always did. I will miss your voice, your presence, your advice, and everything that made you my Dad.

Sun re, Gbolade mi owon. 🕊️❤️

Rest well, my easy going Man.
You fought a good fight. You did well.
I love you forever. ❤️

From your lovely last born,
Mrs. Oluwatobiloba M. Cardoso

Hello Uncle

Your loss is a heavy blow not just for your family but it is felt by many people who have known you. I already missing hearing your voice on the telephone and the promise I made to come and visit with you next year means we will not meet again.. It is painful news to hear especially when you seem so fine and healthy when we last spoke even though I knew you were very sick but yet it never felt like you were going to leave us so soon. You are in a place where you are now free from pain or suffering.

Rest in Peace

Love you always
Kehinde Salami

On behalf of my family, I commiserate with my dear childhood friend and sister, and the entire Lasekan family on the passing of our beloved father,grandfather Baba Yetunde.

Daddy was more than a father to yetunde alone, he was a father to all of us. Growing up, his house was our house. He never chased us away, he welcomed us with love, with a smile, and with fatherly advice.#Tofikah in his voice #
He was a kind, calm and responsible father who raised his children well. His legacy lives on and all his children.
My prayer is that God Almighty will comfort you Yetunde and your siblings , mummy , and the whole family, and give you all the strength to bear this great loss.
Rest well, Baba Yetunde.
Your kindness will never be forgotten.

Sun re o!

your daughter
_Taofeeqah Olabisi

*TRIBUTE AND CONDOLENCES TO OUR DEAR BRODA AGBA*

It is with immense sadness that we learned of the passing of our dear *Father, Uncle, Cousin and Grandfather, Broda Agba*, called to God in Nigeria at the age of 72.

Today, a great soul has left us. A good, wise, humble and loving man has passed away.

He was for us an adorable and kind cousin.

Broda Agba was a man respected by all. He leaves us the memory of a man with a big heart who touched everyone who knew him.

In this painful time, we extend our sincere condolences to his wife, his children, his grandchildren and to the entire family in Nigeria.

May the Lord welcome him into His Kingdom and give you all the strength to overcome this trial.

*Goodbye Broda Agba.*

*The family Olga, Chérita, Laura and Alice from Cotonou*

Ode to my brother - Broda Agba

My dear oldest brother, our firstborn, was known affectionately as Broda Agba. This honorific name reflected not only his cherished place in our hearts and family but also his respected role amongst friends and in the community.

We all called him Broda Agba. Even our parents called him Broda Agba. Mama School, our beloved maternal grandmother, Maria Ibiduni Coker, née D’Costa, called him Broda Agba, as did our paternal grandmother, Mafour, née Boyle. When I shared the news of his passing with a childhood friend (Bro Francis) of my third brother, Broda Ladi, he exclaimed in disbelief, “Broda Agba is gone?” Even in that moment of shock and loss, he instinctively called him by the name we all knew and loved. His simple question captured what so many of us felt: How could someone whose presence had always seemed so constant suddenly be gone?

Many people probably thought Broda Agba was his real name, although he was christened and baptised Emmanuel Gbolade Lasekan. He was a devout Catholic who placed God at the centre of his life. His humility, loving heart, and boundless kindness made those around him feel welcomed, cherished, and safe. He was a devoted family man, deeply loved by his four children and five grandchildren, several nieces and nephews and their children. He was blessed with a wife who shared his love of family. Together, they placed family at the forefront of their lives, second only to God, and warmly welcomed immediate and extended family into their home.” A gloried summer holiday home for the 3rd generation of our family. He was indeed “Baba Gbogbowa”.

Although several years separated us and we were raised at different times, nothing diminished the special bond between the firstborn and the lastborn. 4 other surviving siblings (our parents were massive producers of twins) stood between us, making six of us from our mother and father, plus five more from our father. Broda led with quiet strength. His instructions rarely sounded like commands, they came as gentle requests, offered with patience and unconditional love.

When both our parents passed away, Broda Agba quietly stepped into the role of parent for me, It may sound amusing to hear a middle-aged woman say that she still needed someone to watch over her, but I was deeply grateful for his care. If I failed to return his telephone calls, he would chastise me lovingly and say, “You know now that Nana (Mummy) has gone, I am your mother and father now.” Beneath those words was his promise that I was not alone and that, for as long as he lived, he would continue to look out for me.

Family losses weighed heavily on him over the years. The loss of Sister Peju last year tested his faith deeply, but even in sorrow, God blessed him with the joy of a new granddaughter. Broda Agba remained present through the family’s hardest moments and celebrated every joyful milestone with a grateful heart.

The dreadful cancer was diagnosed at a late stage, leaving us with little hope of recovery. Yet, through the pain and life-altering moments, his courage and unwavering trust in his creator was inspiring.

We thank God for the blessing of his life and every moment we were privileged to share with him. We pray that the Almighty, whom he loved and served so faithfully, will receive him into eternal peace.

It is difficult to write a eulogy for someone who remains so vividly alive in our hearts and minds. Though Broda Agba has left our sight, we will always remember his gentle voice, open home, and fatherly care.

Rest peacefully, my dear Broda Agba. You were our firstborn, our beloved brother, our father figure, and one of our family’s strongest pillars. We will miss you deeply and will cherish you always. As much as we long to hold on to you, we trust that our Mighty Father knows best.

“Enjoy your Gulder beer with the greats, young and old,” and may the Almighty watch over and comfort all of us you have left behind.

Love eternally,
“KASH” Aburo Kekere - Kasope Lasekan ‎

Tribute to Daddy Yetunde / Uncle

To the one I lovingly called Daddy Yetunde, or Uncle,
You were such a calm, easy‑going soul, deeply rooted in your love for the Lord. And oh, your wonderful, amazing sense of humour! You brought light and joy to every gathering, and a smile to every face.
I will truly and deeply miss you, our gentle conversations, and smiles.
Your life is our family’s greatest treasure — a legacy of faith, kindness and love that we will cherish and value forever.
Rest in perfect peace, beloved uncle. 💛

TRIBUTE TO MR. GBOLADE EMMANUEL LASEKAN

It is with a heavy heart that I pay tribute to my wonderful, loving, and caring in-law, Mr. Gbolade Emmanuel Lasekan, a senior brother to my mother-in-law.

Your passing is a great loss to the entire family. You were a kind, loving, and caring person whose presence brought warmth and joy to those around you. You will surely be missed by everyone who knew and loved you.

Though your time with us has come to an end, the beautiful memories of your life, your kindness, and the moments you shared with your loved ones will forever remain in our hearts.

May Almighty God comfort the entire family, strengthen everyone you have left behind, and grant us all the grace to bear this painful loss.

May your soul continue to rest eternally in the bosom of the Lord.

Rest in perfect peace, Mr. Gbolade Emmanuel Lasekan. 🕊️🙏🏾

You will be greatly missed, but your memory will live on forever.

*Tribute and Condolence Letter*

To the family of my dear cousin,

It is with deep sadness and a heavy heart that I learned of the passing of our dear *Broder Agba*, called to be with the Lord at the age of 72 in Nigeria.

In these painful moments, I would like to express my sincerest condolences. I could not be physically by your side, but please know that I am with you wholeheartedly from Cotonou.

Broder was not just a cousin to me, he was like a big brother. I will always remember his wisdom, his kindness, his humility and his precious advice. He was a man respected and loved by all.

His departure leaves a great void, but we must thank God for the 72 beautiful years He granted us by his side.

To his wife, his children and all his loved ones, I wish you great courage. May God strengthen and comfort you in this trial.

May his soul rest in perfect peace and may the earth rest lightly upon him.

With all my love and support,

*Laura*
From Cotonou

Little did i know that you are bidding us goodbye on your birthday my dear Uncle. You have lived a great life and inspired me with your gentle nature, smile and humility.
You will be greatly missed but you will always be remembered. May the lord grant you peaceful rest in his bosom till we meet in Heaven where i believe you will be forever.
Rest on my Big Uncle.
Adiu, From Idowu Famosa Sanni

Br. Agba - The facilitator of my existence.

It's taking me a while to do this write up. For how do I write something about someone who is the facilitator of my coming into this world? (Emi nikan lo ye, ko le ye enikankan)Yes, he was my nephew and older, he called me Uncle and I called him Brother Agba.
The mutual respect we had for each other, the discussions about family issues before taking decisions etc. can almost be physically felt.
He was a carbon copy of his Grandfather, physically, mentally and psychologically. I never lived with my father, but we (myself and Br. Agba) lived together and I learnt a lot from him - humility, dedication, love for other people, self denial, etc.
He was a fashionista - from head to toe. Check out the Afro hairstyle, the sideburns, the heavy/long polo, tight fitting shirts, the James Brown style Bell-bottom trousers, and the 6 inches platform shoes, etc.
How about his neatness and well organized behaviour? See him in both the Boys Scout and Brigade uniforms - always neat and gay.
We enjoyed our music together - from James Brown (Say it loud - I'm Black and Proud) to the obvious love of Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, Orlando Owoh, Fuji Music (He was a Band Manager of a Fuji Band - one Musibau who played overnight at the naming of his daughter in Danmegoro, Mushin in 1987) He used to pack a minimum of ten different albums (only few can understand this) to parties.
His dedication to duty was excellent. Always the first to be in the office at the Ministry of Works, and the last to leave.
A dedicated Community worker. Very active in the Landlords and Residents Association, Phase 4, Adeniji-Adele Road - an active member in the Security Committee between 1989 and 1996. A dedicated Small Christian Community, Phases 3 & 4 and environs member. A commited member of the Annual Archdiocesan Chrism Mass Planning Committee (Active in the Security Committee)
He is always ready to compromise his position on issues, especially if he sees a superior argument.
He has a special way of calling me "UNCLE" and I reciprocate specially, "BROTHER AGBA"
Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord and let Perpetual Light shine upon him. May his soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.

I never had the opportunity to meet you in person, but I spoke with you countless times over the phone. You were exactly as you sounded a calm, kind, loving, and such a free spirit.

You will truly be missed, sir. May God grant comfort and strength to everyone you have left behind. God loves you more. Continue to rest peacefully in His bosom. 🕊️

TO OUR DEAREST GRANDPA

Thank you for being our favourite Grandpa, always. Thank you for giving my twin brother and me the beautiful names that everyone calls us today Oluwatamilore and Feranmi. Those names will forever remind us of the special bond and love you shared with us.

Thank you for always checking up on us, caring for us, and making us feel so loved. My twin brother and I will forever miss you, Grandpa.

We will always cherish the memory of the last time our mum was around and we came together to see you. She told us not to disturb you because you were not feeling too well, but you insisted that we should sing and dance for you. That moment will forever remain one of our most precious memories of you.

Though we are sad that you are no longer with us, we are grateful for the beautiful memories, love, laughter, and joy you left behind. You will always have a special place in our hearts, and we will continue to remember you with love.

May Almighty God forgive all your shortcomings, grant you eternal rest, and may your gentle soul continue to rest peacefully.

Rest in perfect peace, Grandpa. We love you, and we will forever miss you. 🕊️❤️

From your grandchildren,
Taiwo Oluwatamilore
&
Kehinde Feranmi

Tribute to grandpa

Grandpa is a very nice man to me and his family. Grandpa is a very good man, he likes and joke with everybody in his community, there was one thing about Grandpa that taught me lesson is the spirit of accommodating, gifting and appreciative and I'll forever be grateful.

Grandpa don't know me from anywhere and yet he accommodated me like his grandson. I just want God to see all this and forgive him all his sin. May God protect all is families that he left behind. Amen.

Adieu to a Dear Cousin

When I first heard it was as if I was daydreaming.

Broda Agba that's the name I call him also by some members of the family

You played a huge role in people's life both near and afar

No distance is too far for you when it comes to family issues, both in Lagos State and beyond

We give Thanks to Almighty God for your Life. As much as it pains us, that you may not be with us physically. You are always in our minds

You touched a lot of hearts. We all love you But God loves you Best

Olufela Brimah & Family

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED COUSIN AND BROTHER, BRODA AGBA.

To the family, you were affectionately known as Broda Agba, our big brother, uncle and a constant source of joy. Having you as an older cousin was a true gift and it’s been an absolute pleasure being related to you.

You brought a vibrant, fun-loving spirit to our lives, and I will forever cherish the memories of you dancing at our family events and the warmth of our telephone conversations. You were a jolly good fellow indeed.

Yet, for all the light you brought into a room, Broda Agba, you remained entirely unassuming. You never looked for praise or the spotlight. Instead, you showed your love through your quiet presence and the wise, gentle advice you offered whenever it was needed most.

You never asked for anything and expected nothing. You were contented and grateful, and ever so thankful for whatever was done for you … “Sarah ose gan. Sarah Joor bami dupe fun Biola ati Yetunde. Won se gani. Bami dupe fun Kasope”.

Very rarely did you raise your voice except upon the insistence on saving a situation that may not be correctable if you did not voice your opinion sternly.

I am deeply grateful for the final tender memory of sharing my meal and feeding you at Yetunde’s marriage introduction just a few weeks before you passed. You struggled to participate fully to make her day and never complained. Even near the end, your gentle spirit was a comfort to your wife, children and siblings.

Thank you, Broda, for the laughter, the joy and the silent strength you gave us. Your legacy of humility and joy will live on in our hearts forever. Rest in perfect peace, my beloved egbon, Mr. Gbolade Lasekan. You will be sorely missed.

ABURO YIN,
SARAH OLAYEMI TANKO OSUNDE
(OMO GRAND AUNT YIN NURSING SISTER MARCELLINA DUROJAIYEOLA FASHANU
(OF BLESSED MEMORY)

Adieu To My
Dear Cousin.

When I first heard. It was as if I was daydreaming. Is it real?

Broda Agba the name l normally call you and well known within the Family.

You played a huge role in terms of family affairs both near & far.

No distance is too far away when it comes to family issues. It doesn't matter whether in Lagos State or beyond. Your presence is highly appreciated.

We give Thanks to Almighty God for your Life. As much as it pains us you may not be with us physically you are always in our minds.

You did touch a lot of hearts in your simple and lovely ways.

We all love you, But God loves you most.

'Fela Brimah & family

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED UNCLE

It is difficult to find the right words to describe the pain of losing a man who was not just my uncle, but someone who played a very special role in the life of my mother and those close to you.

You were a devout man, calm, gentle and deeply caring. One of the things I cherished most about you was your exceptional way of checking up on us. You genuinely cared about our wellbeing and always made the effort to know how we were doing. You did this even during the difficult period when my mother was sick and continued to check on us until God eventually called her home.

You were also a very close family friend to my father’s family, and this made the bond between our families even more special and Ofcourse in ended well. You were a man who believed in family and showed that love not merely with words, but through his actions. You loved all of us both your biological children as your nephews and nieces equally, there was no disparity at all.

Sometimes, even when you do not have much on you, you would still find a way to come and check on us. We would gist about parishes, small Christian communities (SCC) and other peculiar matters relating to our Christian lives. That simple act of showing up meant so much to me. It is one of the qualities I will cherish and remember for as long as I live.

You were a supportive uncle who was always there to guide and counsel me. On countless occasions, you gave me advice that was worth far more than money. Those words of wisdom have stayed with me and till today, continue to guide me in the steps I take in life.

I will always remember your calm voice, your peaceful nature and your dislike for trouble. Yet, despite your calm disposition, you were never afraid to speak the truth. You stood for what was right and spoke your mind whenever it mattered.

Indeed, your passing has left a painful emptiness in our hearts. But I am grateful to God for the privilege of knowing you, for the love and concern you showed me, for your guidance and for every little way you made a difference in my life.

Thank you for being there. We lost a wonderful personality but God gained a loving soul. I will carry your memories and your words with me always. Don’t forget to greet my dearest parents especially, your younger sister Peju and our loved ones over there. Eat what they eat and drink what they drink over there.

O compassionate Lord Jesus, grant him eternal rest o lord. Eternal rest grant unto Mr. Emmanuel Gbolade Lasekan and let perpetual light shine upon him.
May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen.

Daddy carried a warmth that made everyone around him feel safe. He was endlessly kind and generous — the kind of person who gave without being asked, and never made you feel like you owed him anything for it.
What I'll remember most is his calm. No matter what was happening, he had this steady presence, and always a smile waiting. When life got complicated, he was the one you went to. He had a gift for advice — never preachy, never judgmental, just honest guidance that somehow always kept you from going astray. He listened first, and when he spoke, it mattered.
He didn't just tell us how to live well — he showed us, every day, through the quiet consistency of who he was.
I'll carry his kindness forward. That's the best way I know to keep him close.

It was God indeed, when I heard the news of your death daddy. It was extremely sad, even burst into tears, but as they say God has the perfect time for everything and I believe that was the right time God took him away. Daddy was a loving, kind, strong, and all you could think of.
It was so sad death took him away, but I know God has reason for everything in a man's life, well I pray may his gentle soul rest in perfect peace and may he continue to rest in the bossom of God.

Daddy! You truly were an amazing and special person!
You may have passed on but your memories would always lives on with us.
You showed love to all that crossed your path, you were always full of live, always smiling, showing care, love and concern for all of us. Thanks for your prayers and words of encouragement to us. I know you are in a much better place.
Until we see one another again to path no more. Rest on in the bosom of the Almighty.

" Sleep on beloved brother, sleep and take thy rest"
We cannot forget your care, commitment, loyalty, generosity, and love for all of us
The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh.
May God Almighty grant your good soul eternal rest and perfect peace. Amen

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BROTHER
I never thought you’d depart from us so soon, i am yet to come to term with what i saw and witnessed I have accepted it but my heart has refused to accept it you were full of life , love and heart big enough for the universe may God in his infinite mercy accept your soul into his paradise .
Amen.
May your soul and souls departed through the mercy of God rest in peace .
Amen .
Your Brother Julius Olushola Lasekan(Shasha)

Rest on uncle, no more pain. Now you're dancing with the angels. We love you, but Jesus loves you more. Good night, till we meet again at His feet. Omo olowo ki jeran edun, omo eki lagbo. Sun re.

In Loving Memory of My Dear Uncle

You may be gone from our sight, but never from our hearts. Your love, kindness, wisdom, and beautiful memories will forever remain a part of us. You lived a life that touched many, and your legacy will continue to speak for you.

Rest peacefully, dear Uncle. You will always be remembered, deeply missed, and forever loved.

ADIEU BRODA AGBA
It started at Alakara in the late '60s to Mushin in the late '70s. It was family routine to treck from Mushin to Alakara and vice versa at least once in a week in the '70s until Broda Agba got an accommodation at Mushin in the early '80s, then we started living together. He was into part-time photography business, so whenever there was any activity at school, I used to go with his POLAROID camera and made some money back home.
He married his wife Iya Yetunde into my hand at Mushin and life became more merry, the neighbours at his Danmegoro residence were like one family until I left for Kaduna in 1987.
I was highly elated when you came with Nana to visit me at NAF Base Kaduna, you really made me proud that year.
On two different occasions you performed a fatherly role on me by going with me to my wife's village at Amucha in Njaba Local Government Area of Imo state, proving that the knot of Kinship must remain steadfast.
I remember what you told me you told me when I visited you in June this year and I promise that the knot of our Kinship will remain steadfast.
Broda Agba, you were always available for us, kind, humble, and a source of inspiration to us. You have created a vacuum in the Kinship but we can only have solace in God who will surely provide for us everything we desires.
May God forgive your shortcomings and grant you eternal rest.
Adieu Baba Gbaa.
Waheed Brimah.

*Tribute to my in-law....*
Brother Emma as I used to call you back then when I never knew we would become in-laws, because I know you were an easy going and peaceful man all I could mutter when I came to visit you in the hospital was that God should ease your pain and give you peace..... Only for me to hear the news of your demise the very next day.... I thank God for you knowing that you have gone to rest with your Creator in peace...... May God forgive all your shortcomings, give you merciful judgement and grant you eternal rest..... Amen ...
Sleep on beloved brother Emma.

Your Life was a lesson
The way you cared for people was a Lesson
The way you loved your children and Family was a lesson
The way you prayed was a lesson
The way you gave without expecting anything in return was a lesson.
You have love for children ,families neighbors your co- Retirees and everyone who crossed your path.your heart was big enough to accommodate everyone.
You made everyone always feel at home whenever they were around you.
In summary you had a genuinely kind heart and that's one of those things that made you special.
Funke Brimah&family

TRIBUTE TO MY FAVORITE GRAND FATHER

Grandpa I remembered when you always take me to school, when you take me to church, when you gave me money to put in my piggy bank, when you make me laugh.

Grandpa I remember when you give me your phone to play with, when you remain food for me and when your sickness started it affected me so.

I love you so much grandpa and you will always be my super hero for life.

Your Grandson Damilare ( PA )

Daddy Yetunde, as you were fondly called, you were a quiet and reserved man, but above all, you were a true peacemaker. You were content, gentle, and never one to worry about things beyond your control. Your calm nature and peaceful spirit made you a special person to everyone who knew you.

Though we mourn your passing, we choose to believe that we did not lose you; God gained you. Your memories, your kindness, and the peace you brought into our lives will forever remain in our hearts.

We will surely miss you, but our hearts are comforted knowing that you have gone to rest with your Maker.

Good night, Daddy Yetunde, but not goodbye.
Until we meet again with our Ultimate Daddy in heaven, rest peacefully. 🕊️❤️

You will forever be remembered and deeply missed. LEYE for the ODIGIES'

In Loving Memory of Baba Yetunde

We remember Baba Yetunde with deep gratitude for the life he lived and the love he shared. His gentle spirit, humility, and kindness were a true reflection of his character. He was devoted to his family and always a source of love and support.

Though our hearts are heavy, we take comfort in the beautiful memories he leaves behind. May his soul rest in perfect peace. Amen

Rest in peace, Uncle. 🕊️

I will always remember your kindness and the support you gave me last year when you attended my mother-in-law’s funeral at Ifaki Eliti last year. I am truly grateful for that gesture.

My heartfelt condolences go to your lovely wife and your children, Kasope, cousin Shola, cousin Ladipupo and other family members whom I hold very dear. May God comfort and strengthen them, and may your soul rest in perfect peace. Sleep on uncle 🕊️

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED FATHER-IN-LAW

I fondly remember my beloved father-in-law, a quiet and gentle man who spoke few words but listened more. A man who gave great advice, who always wanted the people around him to be happy, and who loved his family deeply and unconditionally.

I am truly grateful for the way you welcomed me into your family with open arms and quiet kindness. From the very beginning, you made me feel accepted, and I will always cherish that.

When I heard of your passing on the 6th of September, I was deeply shocked. We had visited you just the previous day and prayed for your recovery. It was difficult to believe that the very person we had prayed for would be gone so soon.

Your passing reminded me of a profound truth: *there is nothing more certain than death and nothing more uncertain than the time of dying. Therefore, we must always be prepared for that which may come at any time.

That thought made me reminisce about the memories I have of you and the moments we shared over the years.

I remember when I first met you and your daughter, my wife, back in 2013. She was waiting outside for you to finish from High Mass at Holy Cross so that you both could go home. That was the first time you saw me with your daughter. Although I introduced myself as just a friend, I believe you understood more than I said. You simply smiled.

From that moment, you always had me in your corner. You rooted for us, supported us, and, in your own quiet way, showed that you wanted the best for us.

I could see the happiness on your face when we got married earlier this year. Even though you were already becoming ill, you stayed strong because you wanted to be there for your daughter by all means. That memory will remain very special to me.

I also remember the long walks the three of us would take from church to Phase 4, talking and sharing conversations along the way. Those moments may have seemed ordinary at the time, but today, they have become precious memories that I will forever hold close to my heart.

I could go on and on about the kind of man you were, but words can hardly capture the impact of your life and the love you had for your family.

Thank you for raising the wonderful woman I am privileged to call my wife and for giving me the opportunity to become part of your family. Through her, a part of you will always live on in my life.

Your wisdom, your quiet strength, your kindness, and that gentle smile of yours will remain in our hearts forever.

Though your departure leaves a void that cannot be filled, we take comfort in the beautiful memories you left behind and in the lives you touched.

May God receive your soul, forgive your shortcomings, and grant you eternal rest in His heavenly kingdom.

Rest peacefully, Dad.
You will forever be remembered, forever loved, and forever missed.

Rest in God’s light and eternal peace.
From your beloved son in-law
Mr. Olaniyi M Cardoso

Dear daddy,
My heart is heavy as I write this. Losing you has left a space in our family that words can never truly fill. You were not only my uncle and my mother Peju’s elder brother you were a father figure, a protector, and a source of steady love to so many people.
I will always be grateful for the deep love, care, and support you showed my mum, Peju, while she was alive. The bond you shared as brother and sister was beautiful, and it was clear how much she meant to you. Even after her passing, you chose not to let that love end. You continued to hold us close, to care about us, and to love us as your own family. That meant more to us than I can ever fully express.
You fought a good fight through sickness with strength and courage. Your life showed resilience, faith, kindness, and a heart that always had room for others. You were truly a father to everyone not only through words, but through the way you welcomed people, cared for them, guided them, and made them feel seen.
I keep thinking about our last visit to see you last year with my family. It is now a memory we will hold dearly in our hearts. My children were so saddened when they heard of your passing. They felt your love too, and they will remember you as a kind and loving grandfather figure.
Thank you for loving my mother. Thank you for continuing to love us after she was gone. Thank you for being the wonderful uncle, brother, father, and family pillar that you were.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. May God forgive your shortcomings, reward your goodness, and grant you eternal rest. You will be deeply missed, forever loved, and never forgotten.
Rest peacefully, dear Uncle.

May you look back at your precious memories and find peace in knowing that Brother Agba will continue to live on through you, his loved ones. May God grant you all strength to bear his loss but know that he is so connected to you he remains a part of you all. May he rest in peace with the Lord. Amen

My uncle wasn't just family to me. He was home.
I had the blessing of staying with him, and in that time I saw the kind of man he truly was. He opened his doors to me, and in doing so, he opened his heart.
He taught me more through how he lived than through any words. His generosity, his discipline, his laughter around the house - those are the things I'll carry with me always.
He looked out for me like a father, guided me like a mentor, and loved me like only an uncle can.
His absence leaves a big space, but his life leaves an even bigger legacy in all of us who knew him.
Rest well, my dear uncle. Thank you for the home, the lessons, and the love. We will miss you, and we will honor you.

TRIBUTE TO OUR BELOVED UNCLE, LATE EMMANUEL GBOLADE LASEKAN

A good man may leave this world, but the love he gave and the memories he created never die.

It is with a deeply saddened heart that we, a group of women who have shared a beautiful friendship since our younger years, write this tribute to a man who was far more than our friend's husband. Late Emmanuel Gbolade Lasekan was our beloved Uncle, a father figure, a friend and a cherished member of our family.

We have known Uncle Emmanuel since around 1987. At that time, there were five of us who were very close friends. We grew up together, shared our joys and experiences, went out together and built a bond that has remained strong throughout the years. Sadly, one of our sisters is no longer with us today, leaving four of us, including his beloved wife.

Throughout all these years, Uncle Emmanuel remained a wonderful part of our story.

Whenever we went out together, he was always supportive. He was a genuinely kind, easygoing and peaceful man. In all the years we knew him, we cannot remember him insulting or deliberately hurting any of us. Instead, he welcomed us with patience, understanding and warmth.

To us, he was never simply our friend's husband. He was our Uncle.

We were so close to the family that we never saw ourselves as outsiders. We called one another Auntie mi, Sister mi, Uncle mi, because that was how we truly saw ourselves—as one family.

We still remember those beautiful days when we would arrive at our friend's home and jokingly say, “Daddy wa, awa fe lo yara o, ni tori wipe awa lani yara, Uncle Emmanuel (daddy yetunde) would simply smile and accommodate us.

There were times when he would leave his own bedroom for us and our friend to use while he moved to another room. We could stay for three or four days, making noise, laughing, talking and enjoying ourselves, and he would patiently tolerate all our youthful “nonsense.” He never made us feel like unwanted visitors. Instead, he made us feel at home.

That was the kind of man Uncle Emmanuel was.

He had a rare ability to accommodate people. He was patient. He was tolerant. He was respectful. He was generous with his heart and his home. He treated us as though we were his own children—as though we had all come from the same womb.

We shared so many beautiful memories with him, and today those memories have become even more precious.

Uncle Emmanuel, we respected you deeply. We admired your calm nature and the way you handled things with patience. Even when situations were not easy, you had a way of remaining peaceful and understanding.

You were also a man who loved and tolerated his wife. As women who grew up together with her, we saw and appreciated the patience and understanding you often showed. You were a man who knew how to accommodate the person you loved.

Today, we are struggling to accept that you are no longer here.

Your absence is painful.

We already miss your presence. We miss the warmth you brought into the home. We miss knowing that Uncle Emmanuel was there—the man who welcomed us, supported us and treated us with love.

Sometimes, life gives us people without telling us how precious they are until the day we have to say goodbye.

Today, we realize even more clearly how much your presence meant to us.

To our dear sister, your wife, we cannot pretend to know the depth of the pain in your heart. Losing a husband and life partner is a pain that words cannot easily describe. But please know that you are not alone. We stand beside you, we mourn with you, and we will continue to hold you close in our hearts.

To the entire Lasekan/Odetola family, please accept our deepest condolences. We pray that God will strengthen you, comfort you and give you the grace to bear this great loss.

Uncle Emmanuel, thank you for every kindness.

Thank you for every welcome.

Thank you for every time you made room for us.

Thank you for your patience.

Thank you for treating us like family.

Thank you for the beautiful memories that will remain with us for the rest of our lives.

Although you are no longer physically with us, your memory will continue to live in our hearts.

You were loved.

You were respected.

You were appreciated.

And you will never be forgotten.

Rest peacefully, our beloved Uncle.

May Almighty God forgive your shortcomings, grant you eternal rest, and give your family the strength to carry on.

Until we meet again, Uncle Emmanuel, rest in perfect peace.

With love and heartfelt memories,

The Four Sisters and Friends

On behalf of the friendship we shared, the memories we created, and the family you became a part of.

Forever remembered. Forever loved. Forever missed. 🕊️

Name: Iya mulika
Iya Kazeem
Iya Blessing
Iya Yetunde

Hello daddy,
As we fondly call you Baba Yetunde, my only padi in the house that takes care of me well whenever I visit, I just want to let you know that I personally miss you, your absence is greatly felt. You literally taught everyone around you how to live life peacefully and joyfully, you were a father to all, you made life seem so easy even when sometimes it can be overwhelming,thank you for always having my back whenever Yetunde wants to bully me.
May God continue to rest your gentle soul…Amen

I miss you so much!!!! Daddy Sun re !!!

From: Anthonia Ojukwu