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Elizabeth Afolashade Gbenle

JulJuly 21st, 1964 MayMay 25th, 2025
Nigeria
Elizabeth Afolashade Gbenle

Forever in our thoughts, always in our hearts.

Obituary

Elizabeth Afolashade Gbenle (Àníké-Ade), a cherished wife, caring mother to not just her children but people around her an amazing friend, and lovely sister, passed away peacefully on 25 May 2025, at the age of 61. Born on 21 July 1964, in Nigeria, Elizabeth spent her life deeply committed to her family and community, leaving behind a legacy of love, compassion, faith and resilience.

In 1985 she married to her lovely husband, Joshua Afolabi Gbenle, and shared 40 years of a loving marriage. Elizabeth was a dedicated partner and an inspiring matriarch to their three beloved children and to her grandchild. Her nurturing spirit and unwavering support helped shape a household filled with warmth and understanding, where values of integrity, respect and kindness are always upheld.

Elizabeth's life was marked by her selfless dedication to those around her. She was known for her gentle nature and vibrant spirit, which left an indelible impact on everyone who had the privilege of crossing her path. Her joy for life was evident in her engaging stories, comforting presence, and infectious laughter that could light up any room. She was a listener, a comforter and a beacon of hope to those around her.

As we remember Elizabeth, we celebrate a life well-lived, filled with compassion, love, and unwavering hope. Her legacy will continue to inspire and guide her family, friends, and community for years to come.

She is survived by her husband, Joshua, her three children, her grandchild and a host of relatives and friends who mourn her passing but find comfort in her enduring spirit.

Elizabeth Afolashade Gbenle will be dearly missed and lovingly remembered by all who knew her

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June 13, 2025
May our Lord Jesus welcome you to His kingdom. Amen
Isaac Amadi
June 13, 2025
Mummy Bolly as I popularly called you. You are such a calm and cool person . Gentle and very loving.
Your departure from us is a great shock and saddened. It left many of us, your friend, speechless. It was difficult to believe at first but somehow we have to accept what God has brought our way
We love you but God loves you more. He knew far more than us
May your soul continue to rest at d bossim of the Lord.

Sun re oooo Anike Ade, Abiyamo laiye, Abiyamo lorun

MUIBAT Folashade Aribidesi
June 13, 2025
I would like to celebrate the beautiful life you have lived with love, peace, kindness, humility and the fear of God. All these and more resonate in your relationship with family, friends and loved ones.
I met you in 2016 to introduce you myself as your Son in law, Samuel. You are such an amiable woman of God that cares for people around you Heaven has gained a beautiful soul. You will be dearly missed Mummy Bolaji. May God continue to strengthen Daddy and the Children day by day and give the entire family fortitude to bear your exit.
May your soul rest in perfect peace. 🙏🏾🥰😭
Mr Timothy Badmus
June 12, 2025
Mr Sola!....As you fondly called me with smiles so full of joy...
At every opportunity we have to chat,,You always pray for and with me. Heaven has gained another sweet and gentle soul. You are loved by many and will be greatly missed. We celebrate you! Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family and May God's everlasting Grace uphold us all to bear this great gap and fortitude to bear this lost....it is finished!! You have fought the good fight of faith....
Rest on sweet angel...
Adesola Sopelu
June 12, 2025
I still can't believe you have gone to meet the Lord. My few encounters with you were pleasant. I remember my first encounter with you in 2008, when I came to Lagos from maiduguri to delivered Bolaji's message and to pick up somethings for him. You were so accommodating, your love for Bolaji and his siblings were second to non. You were always worried about how Bolaji was doing in maiduguri especially whenever the sun is out due to the ( exaggerated weather). You were a run to for your son and he never took it for granted.
God knows best, I wish my friend, his siblings and dad the strength needed.

My sincere condolences to the family
Aderele Adeyemi
June 12, 2025
Mummy, you loved me deeply without ever seeing me. You cared endlessly, prayed for me daily, and made me feel known and cherished from afar. Your calls meant everything especially to Jayden, who will miss your sweet check-ins.
I will forever carry your love with me.
Find eternal rest in the Lord. You gave so much, and now, may Heaven give you peace. Amen
Priscilla
June 12, 2025
May God Rest Her Soul In Eternity And May Light Perpetual Continue To Shine Upon All The Faithful Departed In Christ
In The Mighty Name Of Jesus Christ
God Almighty Will Take Good Care Of Everything She Left Behind And May Her Good Dreams For Her Children And Family Come To Fulfillment Amen @ Christ Anglican Church Ijomuoro Lagos Branch
Olawale Odewole , Secretary General,
June 11, 2025
"The righteous perish,
    and no one takes it to heart;
the devout are taken away,
    and no one understands
that the righteous are taken away
    to be spared from evil.
Those who walk uprightly
    enter into peace;
    they find rest as they lie in death" Isaiah 57:1-2.

Knowing you was just for a few years but will never forget your heavenly smile. You smiled from the heart. I emphatically told my Sister it can't be you because I recently saw you.
Trying to get over the shock, I stumbled on the above bible passage and I understood you have gone to rest. You will be deeply missed.
Oladejo Olayemi
June 10, 2025
O death, where is your sting . I don't really know where to start and how to start. It is hard to believe that truly you are gone forever.
Several questions to ask, why now, why you? But the Lord is an unquestionably God, only Him knows why you have to leave now. We have been friends for four decades, through thick and thin, sharing Happy memories and otherwise, but never prepared to write your tribute now.
You were an extremely beautiful soul deeply in and out, a cheer giver, humble and generous your ever smiling face melt any ice, a loving mother to not just your biological children but all , a dutiful wife to your husband and his household, a deep believer of the scriptures,
a true friend in all ramifications 😭😭😭, but then your home calling was not only shocking but painful, sad and hurts . It will take so long to heal the wound created in our hearts.
My visits to Bode Thomas will be reduced drastically, Truly, heaven gains what we lost, but our only hope is that we will meet in the morning of resurrection because you died in Christ.
Rest on, beloved, you will be missed dearly but never to be forgotten. The saying that says God takes the righteous people away before the evil day applied to you.
You were always helpful to all and sundry, there was never a time, I sent people to you to drop a message that they will not come or called me to appreciate you, your death changed my perspective about this life that all is vanity and we can always be called back anytime without preparation.
Good night, ayanfe, Abiyamo toto, ore otito, Obinrin rere lodede oko. You have only changed your address, you will live in the hearts of many forever.
O digba ose, Anike Ade aya Gbenle, omo Abikoye, iya Bolaji 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔a o pade lese Jesu nibiti a ko ni pinya mo lailai💔💔💔💔💔💔
Arinola Aroyehun
June 10, 2025
Mama,May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace In Jesus Name Amen.
My Brother bolaji Gbenle,May God console the entire family In Jesus Name Amen 🙏
Stanley Chijioke Ajawara
June 9, 2025
Mummy Bolaji had a beautiful spirit. She exuded love and I can testify that she was an expression of God's fruits of the spirit. You will be dearly missed. I will hold on to the beautiful smile and words of our last meeting and I choose to celebrate you now and always. Rest in peace mummy 🕊️
Oladayo Oladejo
June 9, 2025
Writing this feels so surreal.
With your angelic and charming smile, you welcomed all. Student!! as you fondly call me, still resounds in my ear. You were an epitome of generosity and kindness. I ll never forget the times I ll have to resort to sending people to buy things for me from your shop, because you ll never let me pay, nor the times you ll see a stranger sweating under the hot sun, and you will offer them water.
You showed me that family isn't just about blood ties, but about love and care we show each other.
You were a great mum to your kids and to all who encountered you.
I ll miss you dearly mummy.
May you continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord... amen
Stella
June 9, 2025
I'm still in shock that I'll be writing your tribute so soon, dear mummy. You were an incredible woman - hardworking, amazing, and a cheerful giver. A great support in the community and a lover of God. Your impact was truly felt by many. Your soothing voice still echoes in my mind and I cherish the memories of our time together. You'd always shower me with gifts and affection. My siblings would often tease me about being your favorite, but your love was always genuine. Your nickname for me, “my princess”, always brought a smile to my face. Who will call me my princess now? Who will give me those big, wide hugs now?
I'll miss you dearly mummy. Heaven truly gained an angel.

Busola Ajagunna
(Your Princess)

Busola Ajagunna
June 8, 2025
Continue to rest in peace, Mummy.
You were an amazing mother—always watching out for us, loving deeply and caring genuinely.
We’re heartbroken that you’re no longer with us, but we find peace knowing you’re with your Heavenly Father, where there is no sorrow.
You fought the good fight of faith.
You will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
Tobi Abikoye
June 8, 2025
Mummy meant so much to me—she was kind, warm, and always made me feel welcome. Her presence left a lasting impact, and I’ll always be grateful for the moments we shared. My heart goes out to the family during this time.
Folarin Adubi
June 8, 2025
She was like a mother and big aunt to me. Prays and ask of everyone she knew with me if Fine and OK.. Love you momma Ayinke Stores. RIP.
Aiyegoro Omolola
June 7, 2025
You were like a second mother to me. Always kind, warm, and a true friend and confidant to my mom. It's still hard to accept that you're no longer here. I can't picture passing through Bode Thomas and not seeing you in your shop. Your presence is deeply missed, and you'll forever live in our hearts. Rest well, till we meet again.
Ibrahim Dosunmu
June 7, 2025
Sweet is the memory of the righteous.

*You* may be gone but never forgotten.

Rest well my adorable sister and friend.
Opeyemi Olasumbo Olaiya
June 7, 2025
It seems like a dream,I woke up to hear the sad news ,and it automatically ruined my day,she wasn't just a mother to her children ,she was a mother to all, advice when needed and scolded when necessary.i remember seeing you last year and you were so happy to see me and wanted us to catch up on old times ,but I had limited time to spend so we couldn't talk at all ,little did I know that I wasn't going to see you again .I pray your gentle soul rest in Peace and may the good Lord give those you left behind the fortitude to bear the loss .it's a very painful exit Goodbye (Mummy Bj ) as I usually call you.
Osa
June 7, 2025
OMG!!!!
This is so shocking 😩😭😲
Mommy,like i fondly call you.Though she may not have been my mother by birth, but mom left a mark on everyone who knew her — including me.She was a beautiful soul ,kind, wise, warm, and full of grace. Her presence lit up every room. Her love for God and her family was deep and constant, and it showed in everything she did.
Mommy,you'll be greatly missed.....
May your gentle soul rest peacefully in God’s loving arms. 🙏
Vivian
June 7, 2025
She was beautiful in and out, genuinely loving and affectionate which is quite rare. Still in shock but we submit to the will of God. Rest at the bosom of your maker till we meet on resurrection morning ❤️❤️❤️
Funmilola Arekemase
June 7, 2025
To Mr.Abolaji and family,

I'm Sorry that you've lost someone who you and your family loved so much. I'm sure you and your siblings made your mother so proud; I'm sorry her light is gone from your life. You've experienced such a huge loss in saying goodbye to your mother.

My thoughts are with you during this time of grief. Your mother was an extraordinary woman, and her memory will continue to live on through the love she gave and may her soul continue to rest in perfect peace.

Please accept my sincere condolences.
Simon N. Dickson.
Simon N.Dickson.
June 7, 2025
Who are we to question God….. A good heart has stopped beating, a good soul ascended to heaven, and I am honoured and blessed to have known you. Thanks for your words of encouragement and prayers. Rest on ma.
Adeola Oladipo
June 7, 2025
Intact, am still in shock. Her death is shocking! I still can’t believe she is no more. May her gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace.
Thompson Toyin Bilikis
June 7, 2025
I’ll remain eternally thankful for the gift of you.
Rachael Obadiaru
June 6, 2025
She is a nice woman..my condolences 😭
Victoria
June 6, 2025
My baby mommy like I will call you because you are literally always the cutest. You never fail to send me prayers every morning. It feels so unreal but I will always love you ❤️
Oyindamola
June 6, 2025
My sweetheart auntie, may her soul rest in peace
Olabode Adeboye
June 6, 2025
Sweet mummy bolaji
.the news of your departure Came to me like a shock... Thanks for maturing us from our JSS 1 till date (1997)
You are such a nice woman that have never seen in my life.you too me like ur sis law, your strong advice keep my marriage till today.i never knew last year November will be the last time I will see you again sweet mama with a sweet smile always..she will open her fridge for us to drink and wine with us after school..you thought me to keep quite even when I knew my husband is cheating on me
That I shld face my work and my children that he will surely change for better.
Sweet memories lingeriny heart my mentor
Dunni Ashabi Arewa,s friend
June 6, 2025
June6,2025
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of mummy,my deepest condolences to the family.
Mummy has been a good mother to me while growing up,she treated me like a daughter that most people thought I stayed with her.she advices me has a mother,gives me money,she will call me ikeoluwapo take drink from the fridge.i will always branch at her shop anytime am coming back from school...mummy u will always be in my heart ❤
A mother's love is a greatest gift we receive, you were blessed to have such a caring lady to call mother,our prayer are with the family in time of grief....
Love you mummy ❤
Shyngle Ikeoluwapo
Shyngle ikeoluwapo
June 6, 2025
Mummy Ayinke, you will be greatly missed. I can never forget all your words of wisdom, your kindness and your love. I'll miss how you fondly call me 'Amama'.
Rest peacefully ma.
Hope Udoh
June 6, 2025
A good mother, so caring, even before seeing me, she liked me even before she met me just because we answer the same name, during my service year in Port Harcourt with my friend Afolake i enjoyed talking to her on phone she does pray for me. She always prays for me to have a good husband (Ibujoko ayo). I remembered vividly coming to her house for the first time, she saw that i had nothing, she gave me foodstuff so that me and my mother could eat, she was so caring, loving and down to the earth, she does not underrate anyone. I will forever cherish you because you are a good mother to all not just your children alone.
Heaven Gain another Angel.
I Love you
Rest In peace Mother
Elizabeth Oluwabukola Ejowo
June 6, 2025
I've know her since 2004. She has been a sister to me. She's a lovely mother, very kind, generous and selfless. I pray that she rests in peace and God will continue to protect and provide eternal gifts and healing for her children and relatives🙏.
Iya Ibeji
June 6, 2025
Mummy Ayinke as I always call you. I never knew you will leave us so soon. You are good woman, a daughter of Zion. I thank God for the live you lived, a life of humility, a life associated with love, kindness, not bearing grudges, ever cheerful, you are a chronic giver, friend to everyone in the neighborhood, Mummy Ayinke your prayers hit my Whatsapp every morning before anyone else and when I didn't receive from you that Sunday I thought maybe because you were preparing for church not knowing that you have gone to be with your maker, not knowing that an Angel has gone home. Mummy Ayinke passerbys that you called to come and drink water when they are walking in hot sun will surely miss you. May heaven receive you, may you find rest in the bossom of the Almighty God. Thank you for the love you show me and my children. May your good works continue to speak for your children. We will forever miss you. Rest in peace
Mrs Ajagunna
June 6, 2025
Farewell, my dear friend. The memories we made together will always hold a special place in my heart. Your kindness, loyalty and willingness to always be there for those who come across you have been a true inspiration. I will miss our conversation, our gist and the good times we shared together as well as the everyday prayer messages you never forgot to send.
You always said to me "Iku o ni yawa" Hmmmm! Iku it yawa bayi o my beloved Anike-Ade.
Rest On my jolly good friend.

Adekemi Osindero
June 6, 2025
"Sweet is the memory of the righteous" I celebrate a rare gem, I called her sweet mother, the very first time I met her, the magic she used to welcome & accommodate me into her lovely home was just too much and there is no doubt she is an amazing and ready to sacrifice all she has to make sure you one is comfortable when you visit. You are a good testimony with all I have seen around you and you will forever be missed in our heart, sleep on till we meet on that glorious day.
Tope Olaniyi
June 6, 2025
I’ll miss you mummy. You who made family out of strangers, loving them like your own and like you had known them all your life. I was always taken aback by your kindness and generosity, till I understood. Sleep well, mummy. Now you can take a breather and rest well.

All my love,
Sope
Mosope Onifade
June 6, 2025
Death ends a life, not a sisterhood.”
“Our bond transcends heaven and earth.”
“Sisters share roots that can never be uprooted.”
“Our connection knows no distance, not even this one.”
“Forever my sister, eternally in my heart.” Rest on my sister 😭😭😭😭
Adenike Owolabi
June 6, 2025
It’s so sad that you left so soon.
You took me like your own and loved me. I will never forget your love, care and all the memories we made. Thank mama for everything, you were amazing!
Rest well Mum.
I love you ❤️
Victoria
June 6, 2025
Mumsy, you lived an exemplary life full of courage, kindness and resilience.you are a role model to many of us at Tomori.. your demise left great loopholes in our hearts. Continue to rest in the Bossom of the Lord mummy.
I will always miss the soft solitude I feel whenever you call me 'Ashabi mi'
ASHABI AZEEZAT
June 6, 2025
“In loving memory of a life well-lived.” gone but not forgotten. Rest In peace mumsy.
Olabode pelumi
June 5, 2025
Knowing you has always been a blessing,Mumsy.
I treasure every moment we shared no matter how small. Sitting on your lap, visiting your shop, always leaving with a little gift… those memories are forever going to be in my heart.
I miss your smile, your laughter, your jokes—I miss everything about you. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I still wish it wasn’t true, that you were still here.
My beautiful Mumsy, you will forever live in my heart.
Maizarat Olajumoke
June 5, 2025
Mumsy’s passing is a great loss that weighs heavily on my heart. During the time I knew her, she showed constant kindness and genuine love for everyone. Her calm presence, gentle smile and strength made her a comforting mother figure to many.
I’ll always cherish the warm hugs she gave me every morning and her ever-present smile. Though her time with us was brief, her lasting impact and loving spirit will always be remembered and held dear in my heart.
Faidah Jimoh
June 5, 2025



Mumsy
Forever in our hearts
This is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to say I still can’t believe Mumsy is gone It feels so unreal😞 She was always so sweet and playful with me, full of kindness.

Every time she saw me, she’d say, “Muftiat, you’re so pretty,” with that loving smile that made me feel seen and special. She never let me leave without asking me to sit on her lap and offering me something to drink that was her way of showing care
she truly loved me. She made me feel valued in such a pure, gentle way. I’ll always hold onto that love
Mumsy had a special way of making everyone feel welcome and cherished. Her warmth, her laughter, and the way she carried herself left a mark on everyone who had the privilege to know her. She was a light and a beautiful soul❤️May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace
Bamigbaye muftiat
June 5, 2025
Words really fail me,cause I never imagined writing a condolence message this early to you. Heaven really gained an angel 😇,you were really a mother to all. Very accommodating,always smiling,selfless,kind,encouraging n prayerful. My regrets was never coming to say hi to you,when your thoughts crossed my mind before your demise. Mummy as usually call you,you are missed by me already,your demise came as a shock,am even still in shock. Continue to rest in the bosom of the lord amen. You're gone but not forgotten❤️. Thank mummy you for loving me as one of your own. I miss you 😔.
Aguh Chizoba Caroline
June 5, 2025
I love you❤️
Folake
June 5, 2025
Wow! It’s really real. You have left this world. In all I’m grateful for the short period we knew each other. Your selfless and kind heart was top notch. It’s weird that I still check my last message to you and wait for your early morning prayer messages and your comments on my WhatsApp status. Wow!
We love you Grandma. Ibukun still asks of you. It is well. Keep resting Grandma Lagos❤️
Anne Sanwo
June 5, 2025
Memories of the love, care and kindness you have extended to us would forever live in our hearts.
Rest well mummy
Mary sanwo

Family tree

Baba Eli
Iya Eli
Joshua Afolabi Gbenle
Grace Afolake Gbenle
Samuel Abolaji Gbenle
Children
Josiah Tobiloba Gbenle
Philip Ibukun Gbenle
Joshua Afolabi Gbenle
Grace Afolake Gbenle
Samuel Abolaji Gbenle
Josiah Tobiloba Gbenle
Philip Ibukun Gbenle
Elizabeth Gbenle

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We will come together to remember and pay tribute to the wonderful person. While we mourn the loss of our dear, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
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Location
No 30, Bode Thomas Street, Surulere, Lagos
Date/time
12/06/2025 5:00PM
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RCCG Liberty House, No 88, Adetola Street, Aguda, Surulere, Lagos
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13/06/2025 10:00AM
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