
Elder Isaac Adetunji Akinneye Osinoiki

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
THE LIFE/LEGACY OF ELDER ISAAC ADETUNJI OSINOIKI
Elder Isaac Adetunji Osinoiki was a distinguished lawyer, devoted Christian, community leader, family patriarch and servant of humanity whose remarkable life spanned more than nine decades. His was a life defined by faith, discipline, scholarship, professional excellence, family and service to his community.
EARLY LIFE AND EDUCATION
Elder Isaac Adetunji Osinoiki was born on January 11, 1934, to the family of Late Isaiah Oduwoga Osinoiki and Late Alhaja Jeminatu Adifagbola. His maternal grandfather, Late Oba Fabajo Adifagbola, Oregunsen II, was the Ologere of Ogere at the time of his birth.
Growing up within a family deeply connected to the history and traditional institution of Ogere, Adetunji was raised with an appreciation for discipline, responsibility, service and community.
He began his primary education at Christ Church School, Ogere, and completed his Standard Six education at St. Paul Anglican Primary School, Odogbolu.
He subsequently proceeded to Ijebu-Ode Grammar School, where he completed his secondary education as a member of the 1954/55 set. Following his secondary education, Adetunji worked briefly as a court clerk. His experience within the legal environment awakened in him a passion for the law and set him on the path to what would become an illustrious legal career.
The opportunity subsequently arose for him to pursue his legal education in the United Kingdom. He travelled by sea via Liverpool and studied law at Holborn College of Law, London, where he obtained his LL.B. degree in 1962 and was called to the Middle Temple Bar of England and Wales. Upon his return to Nigeria, he enrolled with the Supreme Court of Nigeria as a Barrister and Solicitor and commenced his distinguished career in legal practice.
He practiced law with distinction, earning the respect of colleagues, clients and members of the wider legal community for close to six decades.
MARRIAGE AND FAMILY
Family was at the heart of Elder Isaac Adetunji's life.
He began his family journey with his marriage to Ms. Adeyinka Mutiat (Nee Oduneye) in 1968, a union blessed with two children. Although that chapter of his life eventually took a different course, it remained an important part of his life's journey.
In 1972, he married Mrs. Margaret Olufunmilayo Osinoiki (Nee Oyekan), with whom he remained married until his passing. Their union is blessed with six children. Together, Adetunji and Margaret built a family grounded in faith, discipline, education, love and service.
His children are: Omotunde, Adebajo, Oludare, Adetunji Junior, Olukayode, Kolawole, Adeyemi and Aderonke Osinoiki.
To the glory of God, all his children are alive and making meaningful contributions across different industries and walks of life. He was also blessed with many grandchildren, who brought him immense joy and gave him another generation through which to extend his values and legacy.
Elder Isaac Adetunji was a devoted father and grandfather. He cherished his grandchildren and gave each one a special praise name, reflecting his affection for them and the unique place each held in his heart.
A MAN OF FAITH AND SPIRITUAL SERVICE
Elder Isaac Adetunji loved God and devoted a significant part of his life to His service.
He worshipped at Christ Apostolic Church, Alagomeji, Yaba, where he was ordained an Elder in 1989. His commitment to the church, not just his local Branch but the entire Mission went beyond attendance; he actively served in leadership and participated in numerous church initiatives and committees.
Among his many areas of service were his roles as:
• Secretary, World Soul Winning Evangelical Ministry (WOSEM), under the leadership of the late Pastor T. O. Obadare;
• Secretary and later President, Christ Army Band;
• Chairman, Revival Committee, CAC Yaba;
• Adviser to a Battalion of the Boys Brigade (while it operated within the Church); and
• Leader and member of several church committees.
His faith was an integral part of his identity. He believed in serving God through service to others and remained committed to the work of the church throughout his life. He is reputed to keep awake between 1:00am -3:00am daily praying.
COMMUNITY LEADERSHIP AND TRADITIONAL SERVICE
Elder Isaac Adetunji's service extended far beyond his professional and spiritual life.
He was a pioneer member and the first Secretary of the Ogere Community Development Council (“OCDC” as it was then called)- which itself was the second to be so formed in the entire old Ijebu Division, playing an important role in the organisation and development of his community.
He was also a pioneer member of Ogere Club, where he served at various times as Secretary and President.
His commitment to Ogere was deeply rooted in his heritage. Until his passing, he served as the Head of Princes (Olori Omo Oba) in Ogere, a position he carried with dignity, wisdom and a deep sense of responsibility.
He maintained a cordial and respectful relationship with all the Ologere’s, past and present, reflecting his ability to honour tradition while fostering unity and goodwill within the community.
His commitment to education and youth development was also demonstrated through his annual support and donations to his alma mater, Christ Church School, Ogere where the Green House is named “Osinoiki House” after him.
Wherever he found himself, he sought to contribute positively and make an impact.
THE FAMILY PATRIARCH
One of Elder Isaac Adetunji's most enduring roles was that of Olori-Ebi of the Osinoiki family.
He embraced this responsibility with seriousness and dedication and worked to ensure that the extended family remained connected across generations.
One of his lasting contributions to the family was the introduction of the annual family meeting in Ogere every Christmas. He brought together his siblings, cousins, their children and members of the extended family to Ogere for fellowship, celebration and quality time together.
What began as his initiative became a cherished family tradition that has continued to this day.
Through this annual gathering, he created an enduring platform for family members to reconnect, strengthen relationships, celebrate their shared heritage and create memories together.
This tradition stands as one of the clearest examples of his understanding that family unity is a legacy that must be intentionally nurtured and preserved.
THE MAN BEHIND THE ACHIEVEMENTS
Beyond his professional accomplishments and leadership positions, Elder Adetunji was remembered for his distinctive personality.
He was a disciplined and composed man, yet quiet and measured in his manner. He did not need to be the loudest person in the room to command respect. His presence, principles and consistency spoke for him.
He had a keen interest in football and was a passionate supporter of the English football club Arsenal. In his quieter moments, he also enjoyed watching WWE wrestling, providing a glimpse of the lighter and more relaxed side of a man whose life was otherwise characterized by responsibility and service.
HIS ENDURING LEGACY
Elder Isaac Adetunji Osinoiki leaves behind a legacy that cannot be measured merely by the positions he held or the professional accomplishments he achieved.
His greatest legacy lives in the family he built, the family traditions he established and preserved, the people he mentored, the communities he served, the church to which he gave himself and the legal profession he represented with distinction.
He remained remarkably active and engaged with his family, faith and community throughout his years. On September 8, 2026, after 92 years of life, he transited peacefully into eternal glory surrounded by family.
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I also use this medium to express my appreciation of your care, fatherly advice and prayers you gave me since the day I met you at CAC Yaba. You also took the pain to always prayed for me every 1st day of each month since I openly announced that I needed it. You would even apologized for when it was not done on time. I gratefully say a very big thank you as I continue to enjoy the prayers you already prayed and seed you sewn in me.
Continue to rest with your maker and our creator…Daddy
Uncle, I wish you were still here in our midst, but God knows best. I thank God for a life well spent.
I will always remember your gentle voice and the fondness with which you called me “OJE.” That precious memory will remain with me forever.
Sleep on, dear Uncle, until we meet again at Jesus’ feet.
Adieu.
Diji Ojemuyiwa
DADDY ADETUNJI - OLORI EBI OSINOKI
Aged :92years
To God be the glory for a fulfilled life
It is with heavy heart but with total submission to the will of God that I bid farewell to my dear elder brother,Daddy ADETUNJI.
Though you were my brother,you were a father to me,At 93 you lived as our patriarch our olori Ebi- the head that held the entire Osinoki family together in love,unity and peace.
You were a man of wisdom, discipline and rare integrity.You taught us that a good name is better than gold,that hard work pays and that family is everything.Your words were law mixed with love and your prayers were our covering.
Egbon, you carried the burden of the whole family on your shoulders with fairness and the fear of God.Your doors were always open,your advice was always golden, and your presence commanded respect.
93 years is not just age,it is a legacy,you saw generations,you built generations and you blessed generations.
Baba,,Egbon, though you have gone to rest,your legacy will never die.The Osinoki family you laboured for will continue to make you proud.
Sunre O,Egbon mi atata,rest well in the bosom of the lord till we meet again.
Your brother
Daddy Lawyer.
The blow was hard and the shock was severe, when your death was announced to me by my brother Chief Olusoga Osinoiki.
We thank God for a life well spent and worthy of emulation.Rest on my beloved daddy and OLORI EBI continue to rest on the blossom of the Lord till we meet on the resurrection morning,when we shall meet to path no more. Daddy Surulere was a father figure whose presence of wisdom,care and commitment where always felt whenever family gatherings and important moments arose especially during the Christmas party in his house every year, When all the family will be together in his house at Ogere. He was a devoted Son of the most High God whose life reflected, faith, humility and love for people he came across. My encounter with him as a Christian and family settings left lasting memories for valuable lessons for anybody to occupy in the family. His encouragement counsel and commitment to the work of God to the family inspired a lot of lives including mine. It shall be well with our family that you left behind in the mighty name of Jesus Christ (Sun re oo Baba dada,Omo Onipakala, OLORI EBI, oniwa tutu. We all that remain as the children and family, please let us remember psalm 39v4(Lord make me to know my end and the measure of my days, what is it that I may know frail I am) We shall all go one day so accept Jesus Christ as your Lord person saviour because tomorrow may be too late. His memory will remain a blessing to our family and to all who knew him. Farewell Daddy Lawyer Osinoiki you will be greatly missed.
Goodnight OLORI EBI Goodnight. Goodbye till we meet again son of God
Today, I celebrate not just an Uncle, but a rare gift in human form. You were not just my uncle, you were my mentor, my guide, my safe place and a trusted confidant.
You were more than family to me, you were wisdom wrapped in kindness,strength clothed in humility and discipline balanced with compassion. You were also my prayer warrior, not minding we are on the phone, you will pray and bless with strong words of wisdom.
Oh how I will miss that!
You have always been a strong pillar of support in the family, standing firm and steady even when situations became confused and uncertain.
You listen quietly without judgement, you advise gently without control, you correct firmly, without condemnation.
You possess a rare and profound gift of keeping the family together, the ability to make the past breathe; you understood that a family without unity is like a tree without roots.
You bridged the gap. You translated old traditions into modern relevance making sure the younger generation understood the weight and honor of the Adifagbola family.
You may be gone from our sight but you are forever in our heart.
Ecclesiastes 3: 1-2 “that to everything there is a season and a time for every purpose under heaven; a time to be born and a time to die”.
Though your time here on earth has ended, the impact of your life will continue to live in us.
You taught us values that will never fade- hard work, humility, love for family and faith in God. Your life was a testimony of strength and faith in God.
Adieu my blessed and beloved uncle. Your memory will remain evergreen in my heart until we meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Adieu Baami Agbara
Your beloved Niece
Oladunni Olayemi
“A life well lived is a legacy that never dies.”
With profound respect, heavy hearts, and deep gratitude to God for a life beautifully lived, we, the Federal Government College Ikom Old Students Association Y2K, Lagos Zone, join the family of our dear brother and fellow alumnus, Michael Osinoiki, in honouring the memory of daddy.
Elder Isaac was more than a father; he was a man whose life represented the enduring virtues of wisdom, discipline, integrity, sacrifice, love and service. Through his journey in life, he left footprints that will remain indelible in the hearts of those who knew him and, most especially, in the lives of his children and loved ones.
As fathers often do, he built not only a family but also a legacy. His teachings, principles, counsel and examples will continue to speak long after his earthly journey has ended. The values he instilled in his children are a reflection of the man he was—a man who understood that the greatest inheritance a parent can leave is not material wealth alone, but character, knowledge, faith and a good name.
Today, as an association bound by the strong spirit of oneness that was nurtured at Federal Government College Ikom, we stand shoulder to shoulder with our brother Michael Osinoiki and the entire Osinoiki family. Your loss is our loss, your grief is shared by us, and your family is embraced by the warmth and strength of our collective togetherness.
Though words may never be sufficient to fill the void left by the departure of a beloved father, we pray that the beautiful memories of daddy will continually bring comfort, strength and courage to the entire family.
His earthly chapter may have come to an end, but the story of his life continues through the people he raised, the lives he touched, the values he imparted and the legacy he left behind.
Elder Isaac Adetunji Akinneye Osinoiki, you came, you lived, you gave, you nurtured, and you left a legacy worthy of remembrance.
On behalf of the FEDIOSA Y2K, Lagos Zone, we extend our deepest condolences to our brother Michael Osinoiki, his family, and all loved ones of the deceased.
May God grant the family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss, preserve the legacy he left behind, and grant daddy eternal rest in His bosom.
Rest peacefully, Elder Isaac Adetunji Akinneye Osinoiki.
Your memory will live on.
Your legacy will endure.
Your impact will never be forgotten.
Signed:
FEDIOSA Y2K
Lagos Zone
Daddy, where do I begin?
Your departure has left a void in my heart that words can never fully describe. The pain of losing you is immense, yet when I think of your life, three things stand out above all else: your unwavering faith, your steadfast discipline, and your sacrificial love.
Faith
"Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you." (Matthew 6:33)
Daddy, you were the living embodiment of this scripture. In everything you did, God came first.
One memory that will remain with me forever was your 90th birthday celebration. It had been a beautiful day, filled with joy, laughter, and thanksgiving. By the end of the festivities, you were understandably tired and went inside to rest. After most of the guests had left, we, your sons, sat outside talking about what a wonderful and successful celebration it had been.
Around 10 p.m., you came back out, sat with us, shared stories, and made us laugh with your usual jokes. Then, as the clock approached 11 p.m., you calmly announced that you needed to prepare for the church night vigil.
We all pleaded with you to stay home. After all, you had just celebrated your 90th birthday and deserved to rest. We told you God would understand if you missed just one vigil. But your mind was already made up. Nothing could separate you from your devotion to Christ. You quietly got dressed and went to church.
That was who you were. Your faith was not one of convenience but of commitment. Not one of words but of action. You loved God wholeheartedly, and your life reflected it every day.
Discipline
"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
Daddy, you were a man of discipline, integrity, and wisdom. You carried yourself with calmness and dignity, and your presence shaped every one of us.
You corrected us when we were wrong, but always with love. You never disciplined to hurt; you disciplined to build. Much of who we are today is a reflection of the values you instilled in us.
Whenever I got into trouble, one of my favourite "punishments" was combing your hair or massaging your back until we both drifted off to sleep. In fact, I became so good at it that I often joke that I earned a degree in massage therapy long before I obtained my GCSEs!
What seemed like punishment at the time became some of my most treasured memories. Those quiet moments with you are gifts I will carry in my heart forever.
Love
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son." (John 3:16)
Daddy, your life was a reflection of that kind of love, a selfless love that gives without expecting anything in return.
You gave yourself wholeheartedly to your children, and not just your biological children, but to every child whose life crossed your path. Your door was always open, your heart was always available, and your support was unwavering.
For all the important milestones in our lives, you were there.
You were there on our first day of primary school. You were there on our first day of secondary school. You were there when we stepped into university. You were there when we took our first steps into marriage.
Your presence on those significant occasions spoke louder than words ever could. It was the evidence of a father's love, protection, and unwavering commitment to his family.
No amount of gratitude can ever repay the sacrifices you made for us. We are who we are because you loved us so well.
A Lasting Legacy
Daddy, although you are no longer with us physically, your legacy lives on.
It lives in your children. It lives in your grandchildren. It lives in the countless lives you touched through your faith, wisdom, kindness, and prayers.
Today, we mourn your passing, but we also celebrate a life beautifully lived and a race faithfully run.
We celebrate a legend. We celebrate a pillar. We celebrate a prayer warrior. We celebrate a father to many.
Thank you for the values you taught us, for the sacrifices you made, for the prayers you prayed, and for the love you gave so freely.
The memories we shared will remain in my heart forever. Though tears fill my eyes today, I find comfort in knowing that you are resting in the bosom of your Maker, receiving the reward of a life well spent.
Daddy, I love you deeply. I always have, and I always will.
Rest well until we meet again, where we shall part no more.
Goodnight, Daddy. Your legacy lives on. ❤️
Grandpa, I will miss your prayers, and the money you always gave me whenever I came to visit you.
I will especially miss the way you used to call me “Adebola mi.” I will always remember you
Rest in peace Grandpa
Though I miss him very much, I am grateful for the wonderful life he lived.
Thank you Grandpa for always loving and praying for me.
I love you Grandpa, and I will never forget you. Rest peacefully. ❤️🕊️🙏
One of the things I will miss most is Daddy's Sunday calls. Without fail, he would call, pray for us, and cover our family with love, wisdom, and heartfelt blessings.
I will always cherish the special way he fondly called me “Ayetty Yetty,” a name spoken with so much affection that it will forever echo in my heart.
His love for his family was evident in everything he did. He cared deeply for those around him, always ready with words of encouragement, a listening ear, and a warm smile.
His gentle spirit and selfless heart touched so many lives.
Daddy was a prayerful man who trusted God through every season of life. His faith was not merely spoken but lived daily through his humility, generosity, and steadfast love.
He taught us the value of family, integrity, and placing God at the centre of our lives.
Though our hearts are heavy with grief, we are thankful for the gift of his life and the legacy he leaves behind.
His love lives on in his children, grandchildren, and all who were blessed to know him.
I will miss him dearly, but we are comforted by the knowledge that he has finished his earthly journey and is now resting peacefully in the presence of the Lord he faithfully served.
Daddy, thank you for your love, your prayers, and the beautiful example you set for us all.
You will forever be loved, forever remembered, and forever missed.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. 🕊️❤️🙏🏾
My father-in-law was a soft-spoken man, but he carried so much wisdom. He was intelligent, disciplined, accomplished, and deeply grounded in his love for God. He didn’t need many words to make an impression. And when he did speak, you listened.
One of the memories I will always treasure happened the very first day I met him. He looked at me and said, “Esoe.” I had no idea that in Ijebu, it means welcome. So, naturally, I thought he simply didn’t know how to pronounce my name! Everyone laughed, but he noticed my confused expression, called my name properly, and explained what it meant.
Today, that memory means so much more to me.
Because that was exactly who he was. He made me feel welcome. He made me feel like I belonged.
And perhaps that is one of the greatest gifts someone can give you—to make you feel that you have a place in their family.
I will also remember his prayers. Whenever he had the opportunity, he prayed for us. Those prayers were an expression of his love, his faith, and his desire to see his family covered and blessed.
We will miss his quiet presence. We will miss his wisdom. We will miss his prayers.
But we will carry him with us—in the values he taught, the lives he touched, the family he loved, and the legacy he leaves behind.
Thank you, Dad, for welcoming me, for praying for us, and for loving us in your own quiet and beautiful way.
You may be gone from our sight, but you will never be gone from our hearts. Your legacy lives on through all of us.
Rest peacefully, Dad. You will be deeply missed.

Daddy, thank you for your kindness, prayers, and for accepting me as part of your family.
We thank God for the life you lived and the legacy you left behind. You were more than a father-in-law to me. You were a father, a loving and prayerful grandfather to your grandchildren.
Though you are gone, your legacy lives on through the family you loved and nurtured. Your memories will remain with us and your impact will never be forgotten.
May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Seun Osinoiki
Grandpa,
I honestly don't know how to write this tribute because there are so many things I wish I knew how to say, and so many things I wish I could remember.
I may not have countless stories to tell about you, but there is one thing that will always connect me to you. You gave me two names, and those names have become a part of who I am. Every time I hear them, I am reminded that a part of you lives on in me.
Sometimes we don't realise the things people leave behind until they are gone. You left me something I will carry for the rest of my life—your love, your name, and the memory of knowing that you were my grandfather.
I wish I had more memories to share, more conversations to remember, and more time to know you. But I am grateful for the part of you that I was given, and I will carry it with me.
Rest peacefully, Grandpa.
Thank you for the names you gave me. I will carry them with pride, and I will carry a piece of you with them.
Rest in peace. 🤍
Where to begin exactly is what I am pondering right at this moment because wonderfully created rare gems like you only come once in a life time and before you know it, God calls them to his bosom at the very time when no one expects.
Daddy you were always with my dad when I was quite young at the age of eight yrs old and I always remembered the closeness between my Dad Pa Isaac Oyekunle Sosimi of late memory that I consciously had in my mind that i had two wonderful Dads in my life. You also shared the same first name with my Dad (Isaac)
You were at my Dads funeral in Ogere in the year 1975 September .
You were also present at my Dads 25 years remembrance service in Anthony village at my fathers residence in the year 2000 to my surprise ,then i knew you were closer to my Dad than what I thought.
to Crown it all I met your Daughter in London in the year 2004 and you have since then become the Father figure in my Life which i never had and i do not regret this decision because since the day you gave Teniola Omotunde to me as my wife you became more than a father to me because you never stopped praying for me any time we were able to speak,to the extent that whenever I visited Nigeria you always gave up your bedroom for me and you Loved me like your own biological Son and I will never forget that fact because two weeks before you departed this wicked world you said to my Wife to tell me to make sure that i should be calling you everyday but I had no Idea that you already knew you were on the exit door.
Daddy, Grandpa as I usually called you, Your type is very rare on this earth because all you always did was pray any time anyone called you which is one of the things we had in common and as an Elderly state man I cherished every single moment you were able to pray for me because all your prayers were from the heart.
You loved all your children equally and always strived to make sure they were all at peace with each other no matter the situation at hand.
Grandpa you have always wanted the best and happiness for everyone around you and I learnt a lot of that from you. You always call me Tolu Mii every time you spoke to me and it meant a lot to me because it meant I was yours , what more could I then expect from such a wonderful Dad but, now you have left us behind ,what to do next I don't really know, because there is no one to pray for us anymore. We miss you so much Grandpa because you have left a very big Void that can't be filled by anyone in the life of Teniola And Myself .
All I know is that you are in a better place and God loves you more is why you are no longer with us but I know your legacy would live forever in Jesus name.
I pray for you today Grandpa Isaac Adetunji Osinoiki that may the good God rest your gentle and precious soul in perfect peace at the bosom of Christ Jesus. Amen
Rest In peace Grandpa till we meet to depart no more.
We thank God for blessing us with a man of great faith. A strong believer of Christ and a prayer warrior
Myself and my brother grew up under your roof to admire your ways of singing and praying We listen to your words of God.You taught us to put God first in everything we do in life you taught us to be honest in our ways of life,you taught us the importance of prayers in life Your legacy will forever lives in our hearts
Thank you for your guidance, financial support and the spiritual moment we had together.
We promise not to give up on our dreams.
Grandpa to us you're not dead,you live on in our heart we don't really want to say GOODBYE.We would say SLEEP ON our beloved grandpa till we meet to part no more.
GOOD NIGHT GRANDPA,
Your Grand Children
Aboyade Oreoluwa and Desalu Oluwatobiloba

Glory be to God Almighty for a life well spent on earth.
Barrister Isaac Adetunji Osinoiki was a great man of virtue — very kind, loving, and deeply prayerful. Whenever he called any of his siblings, he would always pray for us. His words were always seasoned with blessings.
He was the Founder and life Chairman of the Osinoiki Descendant Union. With so much passion and commitment, he gathered all of us together every December for fellowship, celebration and to discuss matters concerning the Osinoiki family. He was a true unifier who loved us all dearly and never ceased to pray for us.
He also stood as a pillar to the family, using his professional knowledge and wisdom to help the family in legal matters and in all other areas of need.
Brother Tunji, we will greatly miss you.
My prayer is that your soul will continue to rest in perfect peace.
*Sir Pharm. Oladeji Alfred Osinoiki*
_Secretary, Osinoiki Descendant Union_
Words feel inadequate to express what you meant to me and the profound gratitude I carry in my heart for the life you lived and the love you showed me.
Coming from a Christian home where my late precious dad taught me the discipline of Christ, which I cherish and am forever grateful for, God blessed me even further when I married into a Christian home where that same faith was not only professed but lived. As the head of your home, you upheld the principles of Christ and demonstrated, through your life, what it meant to lead with faith, love, compassion, and prayer. For that, I will always be grateful.
From the very first day I stepped into your home, you embraced me—not simply as your son's wife, but as a daughter. You made me feel accepted, loved, and at home. You never judged me. Instead, you listened, consoled me, prayed for me and with me. You opened your heart to me, and I will forever treasure that. You held my hand both physically and spiritually during my challenges, and you walked the journey with me. A call from you on a Sunday morning in 2008 saved me from a story I may not have lived to tell. You said, “Yemisi, Ileri Oluwa a se mo e lara," and indeed, O se. Daddy, we shared happy times together; you told me a lot about yourself and your challenges.
Always, you referred to me as “my daughter”. The day before we left Nigeria, we came to say goodbye, and you gave my kids and me a cap each from your wardrobe that we should remember you with it always. A significant gift I will forever cherish.
I am grateful I had the opportunity in May 2026 to talk to you, and I thanked you profoundly for loving me and especially for the support you gave to me through the years. After we spoke, you called me back, and you reminded me of the early years of my marriage and the challenges, and we laughed over them. It saddens my heart that you wouldn’t call us in the morning on our 20th wedding anniversary to pray for us. This is a marriage you contributed immensely to its success.
No daddy to call me at 4pm on Sundays to pray for me anymore. I am grateful I was able to play my part in taking care of you during your final moments via the internet.
I count it a privilege and a blessing to have called you my father-in-love, but more importantly, my daddy.
Rest peacefully in the arms of the Lord you served so faithfully, and say hello to my dad for me.
You were a gift to my life, and I will forever be grateful that God made you my father-in-love.
Your daughter
Yemisi
There are some figures in our lives whose steadfast presence becomes an anchor, holding us steady when the fiercest storms threaten to capsize our world."
To my dear father figure, Elder Adetunji Oshinoiki, words can scarcely capture the depth of my gratitude and reverence. You have been far more than a mentor or an elder; you have been an unwavering pillar of strength, a source of profound wisdom, and an unshakeable support system—especially during seasons when the ships were down and the waters of life grew turbulent.
When challenges tested my resolve, your doors were open, your counsel was clear, and your faith in me never faltered. You possessed that rare, God-given grace to lift weary hands, to speak courage into quiet moments of uncertainty, and to walk alongside those you care for with genuine paternal love.
Your legacy is written not just in the achievements of your remarkable journey, but in the countless lives, including mine, that you have steadied, nurtured, and inspired.
Thank you, for being a beacon of light, a sanctuary of wisdom, and a true father when it mattered most. Your impact is etched permanently in my heart.
Till we meet again and part no more. Sún rẹ o baba réré, baba àtàtà.
With deepest respect and enduring gratitude,
Dr. Lekan Olúwalónimí-Olúyẹ̀lú.

To the world, you are a man of integrity, a pillar of our family, and a respected elder.
But to me, you are my protector, my confidant, the one person I could always count on.
Brother, you were my anchor in every storm. Your support is the one thing I never had to question.
No matter what happened, what I did, no matter the mistakes I made, you were always on my side.
You never judged me. When everyone else doubted, you stood firm right beside me, shielding me with your strength.
Your unconditional support gave me the courage to do as I wish.
Your life was a beautiful masterclass in loyalty, love, and devotion.
You wore the title of 'Elder brother' not just as a birthright, but as a sacred duty to protect and love those you left behind.
Thank you, for being my fiercest defender.
The world feels emptier without your steady presence, but your memories remain etched into the very fabric of who I am.
Continue to rest in perfect peace in the bosom of the Almighty, until we meet again.
Chief Mathew Olusoga Osinoiki
“Milord”

It is difficult to put into words what you meant to me and the impact you had on the person I have become today. When I think about you, I think not only about the memories we shared, but also about the lessons you taught me, many of which I continue to carry with me every day.
One of the biggest turning points in my life came in 2011, At a time when I could have easily remained at home(You said Omo yii o gbudo joko sile), you made a decision that changed the entire trajectory of my life(Thanks to Mr Adeneye & Uncle K as well) You told me in your own way that I could not afford to just stay at home and you found a way to make sure I was enrolled in university. Looking back now, I realise that decision opened a door that completely changed the course of my life.That opportunity became the beginning of the journey that has shaped who I am today. You saw something in me and believed that I needed an opportunity to become more than what my circumstances at the time might have allowed.I will always be grateful for that.
I also remember 2018 when I was preparing to leave for my master’s degree in Germany, You shared stories with me about your own experiences when you travelled abroad. You gave me advice that seemed simple, but has stayed with me ever since. You told me not to buy things that I did not need, I took that advice seriously. It became a principle I have tried to live by, to be content, to spend wisely and to understand the difference between what I want and what I actually need. Although Grandpa, I must admit that I failed you spectacularly when it comes to sneakers. Somehow, despite everything you taught me about not buying things I don’t need, I still have more sneakers than I could possibly need. I hope you will forgive me for that one.Some of my most cherished memories of you are from the years 2014 to 2016. Those weekends when I would come from CMUL Idi-Araba to Clegg Street to spend time with you are memories I will always treasure. They were ordinary moments, but they have become some of the most meaningful moments of my life. I remember giving you massages, sitting with you, talking and simply spending time together. There was something special about those weekends. At the time, I did not know that one day I would look back and realise how precious those moments were, And then there was baked beans. I never really liked baked beans before. Somehow, through spending time with you, it became something I grew to enjoy. To this day, baked beans still and will remind me of you. It is amazing how the smallest things can carry the biggest memories.
You also taught me the importance of patience. I still remember the Yoruba saying you shared with me: „Suuru o kin poju a fi ti o ba to“
That lesson has stayed with me. I have carried it into the way I relate with people, the way I handle difficult situations and the way I try to understand others. You taught me that not everything requires an immediate reaction that sometimes the best thing you can do is wait, listen and allow time to do its work.
Your teachings were not always delivered through big speeches. Many of them came through conversations, stories, advice, and the simple experiences we shared together. Looking back now, I realise that you were shaping me in ways I did not always recognise at the time.
Your legacy lives on through the people you influenced, the values you passed down and the lives you helped shape. Grandpa, thank you for believing in me before I fully understood how important that belief was. Thank you for the opportunities you created for me. Thank you for your wisdom, your stories, your patience, and your guidance.
Thanks for the prayers and the calls when we do talk on the phone, the asking about the ,wife‘ and I planned to bring her but I guess God knows best
And as I continue through life, I hope that the person I become, the opportunities I create for others and the way I treat people will always reflect the lessons you left behind.
Your journey may have come to an end but your teachings continue through us all.
May you rest peacefully, Grandpa.
Love Akiniyi Akinola
Today, I remember my Grandad with sadness, but also with gratitude for all the memories we shared. To me he was kind, caring, and sometimes strict, but always because he wanted the best for the people he loved. He was also a lot of fun to be around, and I will always treasure the laughter we shared. Although I wish I could have had more time with him or at least been there for his final moments, I am forever grateful for the lessons he taught me and for the love he gave me.
Grandad, you will always be remembered in my heart. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten.
Rest peacefully. You will always be loved and deeply missed.
Our second meeting was in 2009 shortly after I had my first child. My wife and I took her for immunization at FMC Oyingbo (Railway compound), we had a brief stop over at your law chambers somewhere around Apena at Ebute-Meta. You got off your chair on sighting our baby, took her from her mother, and prayed for her. Daddy, my wife and I really cherished that very moment, and it will forever remain in our hearts.
Thank you, Daddy, for bringing forth beautiful and responsible children.
My only prayer for you now is for you to rest peacefully in the bosom of your maker till we meet to part no more.
Omodele Adebule.
Adetunji mi,
To God be the glory for the journey of our 55 years of togetherness, full of memories and testimonies that can never be erased from my heart.
In spite of all the challenges and the insignificant human frailties, looking back, the journey was swift, sweet, and comfortable. Here we are; the covenant of God over our marriage did not fail.
My love, my friend, my confidant, my husband, my father, you were indeed a soldier for Christ; a prayer warrior; a man of great faith; a man of principles; a courageous man to the core; a man full of wisdom, knowledge, and power.
You impacted your generation, your siblings, your children, the Church of God, and your community. Your legacy lives on.
Numbers 23 vs. 10b says:
“LET ME DIE THE DEATH OF THE RIGHTEOUS, AND LET MY LAST END BE LIKE HIS.”
You stood for the truth at all times. Your discipline was legendary, raw, and rugged.
Thank you for all your support and guidance—physically, spiritually, and emotionally. When everyone was focused on problems, you were busy looking for solutions.
I am grateful for the grace of the 55 years we had together on this planet.
You are deeply loved by all your children. You will forever be in our hearts.
You will be missed in so many ways, most especially your prophetic prayers.
I don't really want to say GOODBYE. I will say, SLEEP ON, MY LOVE. We shall meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ, and we shall meet to part no more.
Goodnight, Adetunji mi.
AGBARA MUDA
OMO GUNSENMADE ANIKAN GBILE
OMO NITUN MARO
MARO TAGBEDE OTA
OMO NITUN MOSAGBARA
OMO JAWO NIDI AGBA
OMO ISEJE A FEPO LADA
OMO OGBOKU ALASA
ASAJU OMO ARA IGBORE
OMO DADE BOBA YUN OKO
OMO LIPAKALA AGBENI MA DEIN
OMO MEMU MEMU MEMU ME FU VIN
SUNRE OOO
Your Wife,
Deaconess Funmi Osinoiki



In Loving Memory of Big Daddy Today, I celebrate the life of an icon, my Big Daddy. He was a man of quiet strength, immense generosity, and fierce loyalty to his family. He spent his years doing good, lifting others up, and expecting nothing in return.
He was a pillar of strength, wisdom, and unshakeable love. Big Daddy didn't just guide the family, he protected it. I will always remember how his presence alone could bring order to a chaotic room, yet his heart was always soft enough to listen to our smallest worries. He was a man of profound integrity who taught us the value of hard work, respect, and family unity.
I know how my dad always speaks high of him each time he gets the opportunity, it shows how he loved and sacrificed for his siblings. Each time I visit he always pray for me (my prayer warrior) I love you big daddy and I will miss you so much.
Your prayers will always stay with me.
Rest in peace, Big Daddy. You have run your race beautifully, and your memory will remain a guiding light for us all.

If a life is measured not just by years but by impact, then my father lived a truly full life. Ninety-two years of grace, wisdom, faith and service.
To the world he was Elder Osinoiki, but to me, he was simply — Daddy.
He did not just take us to church, he showed us Christ at home — in his honesty, in his discipline and in his love for humanity. We never missed the early morning prayers at 6am and the evening prayers at 8:45pm
Daddy was love in human form. Firm but kind. Disciplined but full of grace. There is a saying…” spare the rod and spoil the child” …. Daddy, you barely used the rod but never spoilt any of us. I remember while growing up, he ensured things were in place every time. At times I felt singled out to do every house chore and it felt like punishment for crimes I didn’t commit, little did I know you were teaching me life’s lessons.
You believed in hard work, education, respect for all, contentment and more importantly, justice. You would say, “Do what is right even when no one is watching.” These lessons and principles have helped shaped who I am today, and I am grateful to God for bringing me to this world through you.
Though I mourn because I will not see you again in this flesh, I am glad knowing fully well that you have gone to rest in the bosom of our Lord — a rest you richly deserve.
Adieu, My Dear Father.
You fought a good fight. You kept the faith. You have been called home to glory.
Rest well, my father, my mentor, my hero.
Your labor in the Lord and in this world will never be forgotten.
I love you, but God loves you more.
Sun re o, baba mi. May your powerful soul rest in perfect peace.
Your loving son,
Adetunji Osinoiki Jnr

Losing you has ripped a hole in my heart,from the very first day I was brought into this world till the last day I saw you when I came home to spend time with you last month.
Thank you for your openness, the advice you gave,your words of encouragement, your prayers,the everlasting love we shared on the days we didn't realise we needed it.
Thank you for your laughter and for being supportive in your own little ways.
I miss you Dady.What a magnificent soul you were.
Rest in eternal peace.
Love,your Princess,
Aderonke

I got so attached to him and he has so much respect for me that we see regularly.
Daddy was deep in Christianity religion and makes me to believe in prophecy , and God's prophets and I too started prophesying like Saul in the Bible .
Daddy will not do anything without prayer and sees clearly but hardly talks. He believes in power of prayer and fasting . His prayers covers everyone around him and not necessarily his biological children.
Daddy is a giver who gives in secrets. He was a marriage councilor and teaches Bible to the sinners
May God console everyone he left behind
Yomi Arogbonlo
[ Babawale ]

My prayer warrior, My Pillar,My Hero,
Words are simply not enough to express the pain in my heart as I say goodbye to you. Losing you eventually, yes I have imagined it and wrongly thought I could handle the pain. Yet, beyond the tears and sorrow, I am grateful to God for the privilege of having you as my father.
I remember while growing up as small as I was you listened to my advice, and made me feel in top of the world. The days we will pray and shed tears of accomplishment together.
Dad, you were more than a father to me. You were a guide, a protector, a teacher, and a source of strength. Through your words, your actions, your prayers, and even your silence, you taught me lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.
Dad will tell you the hard truth however uncomfortable it is to hear.
You worked hard, gave selflessly, and placed the wellbeing of your family close to your heart. Many of the values that define me today were planted by you. Your legacy lives on, not only in the things you accomplished, but in the lives you touched and in the family you raised.
I will miss your voice, your prayers, your advice, your laughter, and those little things that made you uniquely you. I will miss knowing that I could always look towards you and find my father there.
Death may have taken you from our sight, but it can never take away the memories you gave us. Your love will remain in our hearts, your teachings will guide our steps, and your name will continue to be spoken with honour.
Dad, I wish I had more time. I wish I could have one more conversation with you, one more embrace, one more opportunity to say, “Thank you for everything.”
Thank you for giving me life.
Thank you for your sacrifices.
Thank you for your love.
Thank you for the lessons you taught me.
Thank you for being my father.
As I celebrate you today, I choose also to celebrate the life you lived and the legacy you left behind. I pray that God will grant you eternal rest and give the entire family the strength to bear this painful loss.
You lived. You loved. You gave. You left a legacy.
Rest peacefully, Dad.
You will never be forgotten.
You will forever remain a part of me.
Until we meet again, may your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Your loving son,
Olukayode

Your Sunday Sunday phone call after church was a tradition and hearing your bell voice chanting " Ranti Miii Ranti Mii" with a stint of Remo accent hits differently.
You loved me specially and I knew it. I did not and would never take it for granted for ever.
You were so witty, you could make the devil laugh.
Every word that came out of your mouth was seasoned, meaningful and impacting.
You wanted me to be a lawyer and you eagerly awaited that "but It is what it is"
Morounranti is too much of a social butterfly 🦋 for a profession like that.
Your kindness touched everyone you met, especially my siblings and I and the lessons you taught us will stay with us forever. Though you are no longer with us in sight, your spirit and legacy live on in our hearts. Rest in peace dear Daddy.
Omo Olipakala
Agbenimadein
Sun re o
Olowo ori Maggie!
Baba D-Law
Adieu to the SILK
Will miss you specially because you took away the well of wisdom I was drawing from....
OTUNBA 'RANTI KOIKI
( RSOK)

You fondly called me “Emioga,” and I will always treasure that.
I remember during one of the most difficult seasons of my life, you did something I will never forget. You called me every day, You prayed with me, encouraged me, and reminded me that I was not alone.
Then one day, you called me and said
“Emioga, I read Psalms 1–150 in this water. Drink it, just have faith and you will be healed.”
Those words became a precious part of my life. You taught me to hold on to my faith and to turn to God in moments when I needed strength. What you gave me that day was far greater than the words themselves. You gave me something I could carry with me long after the conversation ended. (Daddy was 80years old at the time).
Whenever I return to those Psalms and I hear the name Emioga, I will always remember you.
I will miss your calls. I will miss hearing you say “Emioga.” I will miss knowing that somewhere, there was a father who cared enough to check on me and pray for me.
If I could have one more conversation with you, I would simply say thank you for loving me not merely as your son’s wife, but as your daughter.
Your voice may have fallen silent, but the love you gave and the lessons you left behind will continue to speak.
You were my father-in-law by marriage, but my father by love.
I pray that God grants you eternal rest and receives you into His loving arms.
Sleep peacefully, Daddy.
Your Emioga
Emiola Osinoiki
Uncle, you were a Counselor, and a covering. Your words carried wisdom, your life taught integrity, and your presence brought peace. Your legacy lives in our hearts, in the values you instilled,and in the family you helped hold together.
You may have left this world,but your impact will never leave us.
Rest well dear Uncle.We love and honor you and will never forget you
Sun re o
The passing of our dear Daddy Lawyer at the remarkable age of 92 marks the end of an era for our family. He was much more than an uncle; he was our patriarch, a distinguished barrister, a respected community leader, and a man whose wisdom, strength and presence commanded admiration.
For me, Daddy's loss is deeply personal. During some of the difficult moments of my youth, he was there for me—offering guidance, protection and counsel when I needed it most. Those acts of kindness helped shape the course of my life, and I will forever remain grateful.
He lived a long and meaningful life, leaving behind a legacy of service, leadership and devotion to family. While we mourn his passing, we also celebrate 92 years of a life that touched many and made a difference.
Rest peacefully, dear Uncle. Your voice may now be silent, but your wisdom, kindness and legacy will continue to live through us.
You came, you served, you guided, and you left your mark.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
In 2001, when I was a teenager, daddy would personally drive me to my lessons at Offshore in Akoka, Yaba, on his way to work each morning. His car became a moving citadel of knowledge, where he ignited my soul with visions of greatness and taught me to pursue my passion with unwavering resolve.
He was a father to the fatherless, a mentor to the lost, and a harbour for the weary. Then, in 2009, when I bought my first car, I took it to Daddy, and he blessed it. I had nowhere safe to park because our house didn’t have a parking space. Daddy opened his gates and gave me unrestricted access to park there anytime, no restrictions, no questions. It was a simple act that spoke volumes about his boundless generosity. His kindness flowed like an inexhaustible river.
Today, we do not mourn as those without hope, for Daddy has simply relocated to a higher court, where he now rests in the eternal embrace of the Almighty God. His legacy of love, sacrifice, and unwavering resolve lives on in every life he touched. We will carry his torch forward with gratitude and grace until we meet again.
Farewell, Daddy Lawyer. You ran your race, and you emphatically won your case. Rest in perfect peace.

Adieu baba mi, till we meet to part no more.
Omoba Adebajo Osinoiki

Where do I begin to honour a man I have known all my life?
A man who called me Darestik with pride, and whom I called Chairman with reverence. Even speaking of you in the past tense sends chills through me. I truly believed you would live forever. Perhaps that is why I never paid attention to your gentle warnings, your subtle notices. Every time I travelled, you told me you would wait for me — and I believed you.
There are too many stories to tell, too many memories to hold. You cleaned up after me countless times and never complained, even when my frailties showed. You held my hand through life and forged in me a man of steel. You taught me leadership, responsibility, and the courage to stand firm in the face of life’s storms.
You believed in me completely. You never doubted me — not once. You made me believe in myself and taught me to look out for my siblings. You showed me what family truly means: how to be selfless, how to protect, how to nurture, how to build bonds that endure.
Chairman, who will I run my ideas through now?
Who will I share my dreams with?
Who will make lemonades with me when life throws lemons my way?
Agbara, as your parents fondly called you — you were an unwavering pillar of strength. Not just to us, your children, and not only to the extended family, but to everyone who crossed your path. You carried people’s burdens with grace, and you lifted others with a quiet power that needed no announcement.
I remember sharing my first appeal brief with you. You told me how proud you were, and you meant every word. You never hid your confidence in me. You trusted me to handle any issue, and that trust shaped me more than you ever knew.
I am strong-willed — a trait I know I inherited from you. After that incident with law enforcement, you taught me anger management and emotional intelligence. You taught me how to stand tall without losing myself, how to be firm without being hardened.
If I ever came back to this life, Chairman, I would choose you again and again.
A father, a mentor, a friend, a compass.
Rest in peace, Agbara.
Toni, Ileri, Yemisi, and I love you deeply. We will miss you greatly.
Sun re o!
Daddy, Baba, as I fondly call you. You're more than a father-in-law to me, indeed, you're a father to the ALAYANDE. Thank you for being a father figure to my late husband, I'll miss all your advises and prayers, I still remember all the Psalms you gave me to be reading when travelling, about to sleep and when I'm in danger, they're working for me.
You'll forever be missed and remembered.
Baba,
May your soul continue to have eternal rest 🙏
Adieu Grandpa.
Dcns. 'Bukola Alayande.

I was fortunate to meet this great icon while serving as an Associate in the law firm of Oludare Osinoiki & Co. Baba was the father of my boss, Mr. Oludare Osinoiki, but over time, he became much more than that to me. He became a mentor, an adviser, and someone I could always turn to whenever I encountered a difficult legal or procedural issue.
Baba had a remarkable way of explaining law and procedure in the simplest possible terms. Whenever I was having an issue with a case and needed the perspective of someone with experience, he was one of the people I could always approach. He was always willing and ready to help, and he did so with a smile on his face and without making you feel that you were imposing on him.
Away from law, Baba became my English teacher.
I can still hear him say, “Ahmad, don't use that word if you want to be taken seriously.” Those seemingly simple corrections taught me something much deeper about language, precision and the importance of choosing one's words carefully. They are lessons I have carried with me.
Baba also had a wonderful sense of humour. He was warm, engaging and delightful to be around. You could hardly feel bored in his presence. His conversations were often filled with wisdom, wit and those little lessons that stayed with you long after the conversation had ended.
Looking back, I realise that some people mentor you deliberately, while others mentor you simply through their wisdom, generosity and the way they conduct themselves. Baba was one of those rare people whose presence itself was a lesson.
He was not my teacher by profession, yet he taught me. He was not my father, yet he showed me the warmth, affection and generosity of a father. He was my boss's father, but in many ways, he became mine too.
His passing is a personal loss to me and a great loss to everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.
Elder Isaac Adetunji Osinoiki, Baba, journey ye well. Your voice may have fallen silent, but the lessons, wisdom and memories you left behind will continue to speak.
Your presence will be sorely missed, but your legacy will endure.

Growing up, I couldn't pronounce most words well, so "oremi" My friend came out as "Oyemi." I called everyone that way, young and old, and it just stuck. To this day, the people I called that back then still call me Oyemi, and Daddy Osinoiki was one of them. Right to the end, that's what he called me ,my friend, Oyemi.
Some of my sweetest childhood memories are of our holidays together in Surulere, Clegg. Simple days, full of warmth, the kind you don't know to treasure until much later.
Just last November, my big sister Sola and I went to visit him in Ogere .We took a picture together, and he filled the afternoon with stories and gists, the way he always did.
Daddy Osinoiki was old enough to be my father, but he carried himself like a friend to a small girl who couldn't even pronounce things right. That's the kind of man he was.
Rest in peace, Daddy. I'll carry your name for me for the rest of my life.

You are gone from this world, dear uncle but you are never truly gone from my heart..
I hold tight to the memories of your wisdom, of yours and Alhaja's teachings -that a woman has to be self sufficient, hardworking, be knowledgeable, clean and neat - YOUR EXACT WORDS TO ME.
You taught me to never give up on my dreams.
After the passing of my mum and I had to stay with you and Alhaja, you both disciplined me, when it comes to house keeping., and that has helped me in a very good way even up till date.
Though there is a heavy space left behind, I find peace knowing your spirit lives on in the lessons you taught me and the love you shared.
REST IN ETERNAL PEACE MY BELOVED UNCLE.
Mama Teni
[ Bimbola]

What has death done that man is unable to undo? Where do I even begin?
From my cradle all the way to your grave, you were simply a father. A father in every sense of the word. When I look back on my life, there are simply too many memories, too many moments, too many lessons, and too many reasons to be grateful that I had you as my father. As a child, you were simply Dad. You were present. You showed up. I remember your presence at every Open Day and PTA meeting at St. Catherine's. I remember the countless times you drove me to Odogbolu. At the time, I probably did not fully appreciate what those moments meant, but today, looking back, I realize that those seemingly ordinary acts were some of the greatest expressions of love. One specific memory has stayed with me. In July 1998, I erroneously provided you with the wrong last day of school. You came to pick me up a day early. The school authorities refused to release me and you promised to return the following day. But the sadness on my face melted your heart and the rest is history. You took me home with you that day. July 23,1998. To me, that was more than simply leaving school a day early. In that moment, you became my hero. It was one of those childhood experiences that stayed with me, and it remains one of the countless memories that remind me of the kind of father you were—a father who could be disciplined, but whose heart was always tender toward his children. I also remember the sound of your distinct car horn. That horn meant one thing: Dad was home. And suddenly, we all became very busy! We scampered around, putting everything back exactly where it belonged. Everything had to return to the order in which you had left it. You were a disciplined man, and you taught us discipline not merely by words, but by the way you lived. One of the things you taught me was to always keep to time. You believed that being punctual was a reflection of responsibility, respect and character. You instilled that value so deeply in me that I can honestly say I have never arrived late for any important event since. That was you. You taught us lessons that went far beyond the classroom. You taught us responsibility. You taught us order. You taught us discipline. You taught us that our word mattered and that commitments should be honoured. As I grew into adulthood, you never stopped being my father. You were always there—quietly providing guidance, wisdom and those life-altering nuggets that somehow had a way of staying with me long after our conversations ended.
You were quiet, yet wise. You did not always need many words. Sometimes, a few carefully chosen words from you were enough to change my perspective entirely. Even after my education and as I began navigating life as an adult, you continued to look out for me. I remember casually mentioning, during a random conversation, that I needed to change my car tyres. I thought nothing more of it. The next day, I received a cheque from you for the tyres. That was Dad. You listened. You remembered. And you acted. You never stopped being my father simply because I had grown up. How many times did you drive me to the hospital? From broken bones to operated feet, you were there. One particular journey remains unforgettable. I was in pain, and my left toe needed to be operated on immediately. You made a double trip to Ijebu on my account. From Lagos to Ogere, then back to Lagos, and from Lagos to Ijebu-Ode. Those moments taught me something that perhaps I did not fully understand at the time: a father's love is sometimes expressed not in grand declarations, but in the miles he is willing to travel for his child. And you travelled many miles for me. Spiritually, you were nothing short of a leader. 8:45 p.m. every night was sacrosanct. No matter where we were, somehow, everyone found their way home. From the ends of the earth, we returned for family prayers. That was our tradition. And remarkably, that tradition still holds to this day. You gave us more than a childhood home. You gave us a spiritual foundation. You taught us the importance of prayer, family and togetherness. You created a rhythm that became part of the fabric of our family life. Today, even though you are no longer physically here to call us together, the tradition you established continues to bring us together. Your voice may have fallen silent, but the values you planted continue to speak. My father, you were more than a dad. You weren't always perfect, none of us are, but you were present. You inspired. You guided. You led. You protected. And you did all of this not only for me, but for all my siblings. But your fatherhood extended beyond your biological children. You fathered many. Biological and otherwise, there were so many whose lives you touched. You were a pillar of strength. A support system. A guide. You carried responsibilities that went far beyond yourself, and you did so with a quiet sense of duty. As I look down at you today, I am certain you would be proud.
Proud of the children you raised. Proud of the family you built. Proud of the values you instilled in us. Proud that the traditions you established continue. Proud that the lessons you taught us continue to shape our lives. Words will never be enough to describe your impact on my life. And not just on mine. Your impact lives in so many people whom you fathered, guided, encouraged, supported and inspired. If only I could equate you to God—but that would, of course, be blasphemy in itself. Yet, Dad, that is perhaps the closest I can come to describing the enormous place you occupied in my life. There will never be another Elder Isaac Adetunji Osinoiki. There will never be another you. Today, we mourn your passing. We mourn the loss of your physical presence, your voice, your guidance and the comfort of knowing that you were always there. But death cannot undo what you built. It cannot erase the lessons you taught us. It cannot take away the memories you gave us. And it cannot diminish the love you planted in our hearts. You are forever entrenched in our hearts.
Forever loved.
Eternally missed.
I love you, Dad.
Good night.
Adeyemi Osinoiki
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