Eileen Maye Black
I shall pass through this world but once. If therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do, let me do it now: let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
Obituary
On Monday, June 8 at 3:10 AM, 2026 the world lost the brightest light, the gentlest soul, a truly evolved spirit. Eileen Maye Black née Dunlop was born on November 28, 1944 in Philadelphia. She was the daughter of Jeanne Cameron Dunlop and William Dunlop, one of four children. She had an older sister Nancy Dunlop Macey and two younger brothers Wayne and Scott. She had a wonderful childhood living in Upper Darby and one day she met a boy, Ira Black, in high school in 1960 when he asked her to the sophomore dance and on that day, he realized that he had just met a very special girl. They began dating and then after high school, Eileen attended Pierce Junior College, earning an Associate’s degree in accounting. Ira served with the 82nd Airborne Division and 1st Air Cavalry in multiple combat deployments, including Vietnam. Four years after meeting, they were married. Two daughters would follow. Alisa Dupuy née Black and Kathrina Black. Eileen and Ira spent the next years raising their girls, having lots of crazy adventures and living out their love story. To get a fuller idea of their life together you can read Ira’s book “Gypsy Writer on the Run."
Eileen worked for Good Samaritan Day School in Paoli then Newark Day Nursery in Delaware before leaving to become Ira’s CFO when he started his magazine “The Nor’easter." After selling the magazine, Eileen and Ira began a new adventure by first snow-birding to then moving to Tucson, Arizona. Eileen discovered many new activities and made so many new friends at Voyager Resort where they have lived permanently since 2013.
In June of 2023, Eileen was diagnosed with pneumonia-induced interstitial lung disease which, after a fall on June 5, ultimately caused her demise. She was brave and full of grace these past three years. She was joined at her bedside by her husband, her daughters, her son in law Bernard, her two grandchildren Patrick and Chelsea and her niece, Amanda. Eileen was a true light, a fully evolved soul who walked with kindness, gentleness and empathy for all. She was loved and will be missed by all who knew her.
Ira's Tribute
I have the overwhelming sense that Eileen, the love of my life, lives on, vibrating to a different measure behind a thin veil I cannot see through. Though I cannot see her I have faith that I will. I wait for the time when we can soar together again, both aware of each other. Until then, I will endeavor to live the remainder of my life as best I can without her. But I know that when I need her, I can just whisper her name in my heart. And she will be there.
Service/Memorial
Eileen had many friends and loved ones far and wide. In lieu of a memorial service, we are using this online tribute website instead. It will make it easier for everyone to have a chance to share their thoughts, prayers, memories, photos and funny stories.
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July 3, 2026
Eileen became my Aunt Eileen from day one. She will be missed. She is a mother and a grandmother to more than just her own. She loved us all. I think of her every time I see a hummingbird visiting my yard. So this seems fitting…..
Long Afternoon at the Edge of Sister Pond
As for life,
I’m humbled,
I’m without words
sufficient to say
how it has been hard as flint,
and soft as a spring pond,
both of these
and over and over,
and long pale afternoons besides,
and so many mysteries
beautiful as eggs in a nest,
still unhatched
though warm and watched over
by something I have never seen –
a tree angel, perhaps,
or a ghost of holiness.
Every day I walk out into the world
to be dazzled, then to be reflective.
It suffices, it is all comfort –
along with human love,
dog love, water love, little-serpent love,
sunburst love, or love for that smallest of birds
flying among the scarlet flowers.
There is hardly time to think about
stopping, and lying down at last
to the long afterlife, to the tenderness
yet to come, when
time will brim over the singular pond, and become forever,
and we will pretend to melt away into the leaves.
As for death,
I can’t wait to be the hummingbird,
can you?
~ Mary Oliver ~
Long Afternoon at the Edge of Sister Pond
As for life,
I’m humbled,
I’m without words
sufficient to say
how it has been hard as flint,
and soft as a spring pond,
both of these
and over and over,
and long pale afternoons besides,
and so many mysteries
beautiful as eggs in a nest,
still unhatched
though warm and watched over
by something I have never seen –
a tree angel, perhaps,
or a ghost of holiness.
Every day I walk out into the world
to be dazzled, then to be reflective.
It suffices, it is all comfort –
along with human love,
dog love, water love, little-serpent love,
sunburst love, or love for that smallest of birds
flying among the scarlet flowers.
There is hardly time to think about
stopping, and lying down at last
to the long afterlife, to the tenderness
yet to come, when
time will brim over the singular pond, and become forever,
and we will pretend to melt away into the leaves.
As for death,
I can’t wait to be the hummingbird,
can you?
~ Mary Oliver ~
July 3, 2026
My memories of Eileen (or Kat and Alisa's mom, as I think of her ☺️) almost totally exist around the house and the beach there in Northeast. It was a happy place with happy memories and on my visits there I felt so welcomed and included and this had much to do with Eileen. She was warm, open and loved anything that had to do with her girls, and that included their friends. Her light shined brightly, and I don't remember her without a smile on her face. My prayers continue to be with all of you navigating this new season.
July 1, 2026
I always felt a special bond with Aunt Eileen and Uncle Ira. From the minute I joined the family they liked my smart ass sense of humor and we also had a connection over our mutual appreciation of music (Queen!). Peace to the family, I’ll miss her ability to light up the room with her smile !
June 29, 2026
As a child, one of my highlights for the year was going to Aunt Eileen and Uncle Ira's house in Newtown Square on Christmas Eve for a party. I remember being so upset when they stopped having it and I still have faint memories of parties at their house in Havertown as well. I will remember Aunt Eileen as always smiling and her famous greeting, "Hi-eeeee."
June 29, 2026
My aunt Eileen was the best. She always asked me about me going into nursing and I always had the best conversations with her. She also helped me during my homecoming freshman year and made my hair look so pretty. She will be missed so much. I love you
June 29, 2026
Eileen welcomed me with such kindness from the very first day we met. Even though we lived far apart, she always made me feel like I was part of the family.
I will always remember her warm smile, her gentle heart, and the way she truly listened to others with so much care and compassion. She had a rare gift for making people feel loved and valued.
I feel incredibly grateful to have known her. Her kindness and beautiful spirit will always stay with me.
Rest in peace, Eileen. You will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered.
Yoann REYNAUD
I will always remember her warm smile, her gentle heart, and the way she truly listened to others with so much care and compassion. She had a rare gift for making people feel loved and valued.
I feel incredibly grateful to have known her. Her kindness and beautiful spirit will always stay with me.
Rest in peace, Eileen. You will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered.
Yoann REYNAUD
June 28, 2026
The very first time I met Meem, we spent the morning having breakfast together in Arizona. Somewhere between coffee and conversation, we ended up exchanging our favorite lip combos—and that’s when I knew she was a real one💄
She was the definition of a girl’s girl, but more than that, she was a kind, empathetic mother, grandmother, and friend. She had the sweetest soul and the most innocent (yet hilarious) one-liners that always had us laughing.
We miss her dearly, and I’m personally so grateful for the love, laughter, and memories she gave us. We’ll continue to keep her spirit alive and carry a little bit of Meem with us every day ❤️
She was the definition of a girl’s girl, but more than that, she was a kind, empathetic mother, grandmother, and friend. She had the sweetest soul and the most innocent (yet hilarious) one-liners that always had us laughing.
We miss her dearly, and I’m personally so grateful for the love, laughter, and memories she gave us. We’ll continue to keep her spirit alive and carry a little bit of Meem with us every day ❤️
June 28, 2026
We’ll all miss Aunt Eileen and her positive, loving ways. I will miss the stories of watching Billy and I. Suggesting to my mom that maybe something was wrong with me. I cracked up every time she told that story in her gentle kind way. So many memories of Line Rd, Maryland, and the Newtown Square house. All with our wonderful Aunt Eileen there chatting, listening, hugging. Aunt Eileen will be missed. Our love to you all. xoxo. Kristen
June 28, 2026
Eileen
You will be missed by plenty, as you helped so many.
You were a kind human being, always attentive to others.
You would listen and offer support and advice as needed.
Always keeping yourself up, there was nothing that a little bit of lipstick couldn’t fix…
You were a shy person, very humble, but you would step up if somebody crossed the line.
Being the best mother-in-law that I could have wished for, you were also a beloved grandmother
You did a great job raising 2 beautiful daughters and mentoring 2 wonderful grandkids, showing them values and guidance.
You were like a second mother to me, becoming my American mother.
You and Ira welcomed me in your family from the very first day, when I came to the United States to ask for Alisa’s hand.
You were always here for us, in hard times and in good times.
We shared so many memories in so many places.
You left a beautiful legacy of love, acceptance, and care.
I’m very thankful that we were all able to be there to accompany you for your last journey along with Ira, Kat and Amanda
I believe that you now rejoined your loved ones, Pop Pop, Mom Mom, GrandDad, Grandmother, Nancy and Scott, Jon and many more…
Paddy & Mane will finally be able to communicate with you
Meem, until we are reunited once more, go explore the other side in peace, and keep an eye on your family and friends
The whole French Tribe is joining me to wish you the best journey
We love you
You will be missed by plenty, as you helped so many.
You were a kind human being, always attentive to others.
You would listen and offer support and advice as needed.
Always keeping yourself up, there was nothing that a little bit of lipstick couldn’t fix…
You were a shy person, very humble, but you would step up if somebody crossed the line.
Being the best mother-in-law that I could have wished for, you were also a beloved grandmother
You did a great job raising 2 beautiful daughters and mentoring 2 wonderful grandkids, showing them values and guidance.
You were like a second mother to me, becoming my American mother.
You and Ira welcomed me in your family from the very first day, when I came to the United States to ask for Alisa’s hand.
You were always here for us, in hard times and in good times.
We shared so many memories in so many places.
You left a beautiful legacy of love, acceptance, and care.
I’m very thankful that we were all able to be there to accompany you for your last journey along with Ira, Kat and Amanda
I believe that you now rejoined your loved ones, Pop Pop, Mom Mom, GrandDad, Grandmother, Nancy and Scott, Jon and many more…
Paddy & Mane will finally be able to communicate with you
Meem, until we are reunited once more, go explore the other side in peace, and keep an eye on your family and friends
The whole French Tribe is joining me to wish you the best journey
We love you
June 28, 2026
What an amazing person and what a remarkable life! Eileen was one of those people whose strength was matched only by her compassion. She supported everyone around her and I’ll always remember how she made me feel like family. I’ll carry her warmth and wisdom with me always. A part of her lives in all those she loved. I’m holding you close and I am here for you in whatever you need.
June 27, 2026
Eileen, you now reside in Paradise with our heavenly Father. God bless you, beautiful lady. 💜
June 26, 2026
We will always remember your smile, your laughter and I will never forget our Ocean City Murder Mystery weekend with Nancy!
June 25, 2026
Eileen was outstanding. I will always remember how generous, how welcoming she was, even when a massive tribe of French kids in swimming trunks would crash in Maryland for the summer. We would feel at home instantly.
Alisa, she transmitted this fantastic quality to you, and there is a bit of her when you show the same generosity when hosting even younger generations in the US.
Another lasting memory I will keep in my heart is the tenderness of her relationship with Ira. I was always touched by this mutual admiration.
Ira, I am thinking of you and sending my warmest thoughts.
Alisa, she transmitted this fantastic quality to you, and there is a bit of her when you show the same generosity when hosting even younger generations in the US.
Another lasting memory I will keep in my heart is the tenderness of her relationship with Ira. I was always touched by this mutual admiration.
Ira, I am thinking of you and sending my warmest thoughts.
June 25, 2026
Aunt Eileen was the kindest Person I have ever known. She was also the most positive person I have ever known. She faced life with an infectious smile and laugh that I will always remember. I will always remember fun times at her house in Newtown Square. I remember ice skating on her back yard one winter when it froze over. Aunt Eileen never raised her voice except for one time when someone said somebody’s best was not good enough! She was a great listener and I loved hearing her perspective on difficult situations. She would always spin it and look at situations in a positive light. She was a wonderful friend to my mother. I envision my mom Aunt Eileen and mom mom having ice tea together now. Of course Poppop is there also with his martini. Her light will be missed but not forgotten
June 25, 2026
Eileen carried a kind of warmth that needed no words: her smile said everything. Every summer in Maryland, she welcomed us with such tenderness, and those moments together are memories I'll always hold close.
What touched me deeply was the way she reached out to my grandmother Carmen, bridging the distance between them with patience and genuine love, even without a shared language. That said so much about who she was.
I find comfort in believing that she and Carmen have found each other again, and that Eileen's beautiful heart is still watching over all of us. We are so lucky to have met someone so full of light.
She will be deeply missed, and never forgotten.
What touched me deeply was the way she reached out to my grandmother Carmen, bridging the distance between them with patience and genuine love, even without a shared language. That said so much about who she was.
I find comfort in believing that she and Carmen have found each other again, and that Eileen's beautiful heart is still watching over all of us. We are so lucky to have met someone so full of light.
She will be deeply missed, and never forgotten.
June 24, 2026
Meem was truly loved by everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. Her smile was contagious, lighting up every room she entered, and her kind soul left a lasting impression on all who crossed her path. She carried a remarkable sense of peace and calmness.
One of the greatest gifts she leaves behind is seeing so much of her in my best friend Chelsea. The same warmth, kindness, and beautiful spirit shine through, a reflection of the incredible woman she was and the love she shared so generously throughout her life.
Her compassion, grace, and gentle nature touched countless lives, and the memories she created will be cherished forever. She will be deeply missed, but her legacy of love lives on in all those fortunate enough to have known her.
One of the greatest gifts she leaves behind is seeing so much of her in my best friend Chelsea. The same warmth, kindness, and beautiful spirit shine through, a reflection of the incredible woman she was and the love she shared so generously throughout her life.
Her compassion, grace, and gentle nature touched countless lives, and the memories she created will be cherished forever. She will be deeply missed, but her legacy of love lives on in all those fortunate enough to have known her.
June 24, 2026
When I think of Meem, I think of her infectious laugh, her warm smile and continuous positivity. Growing up, she treated me like another grandchild. I was shown love and kindness by her and I know I am a better person having had her in my life. I always cherish the memories of visiting her in North East with movie nights and winding down with a cup of hot tea. No matter how many years passed, Meem would send messages or cards to check in. The world is a lot less bright without her in it and she will truly be missed by many.
June 24, 2026
One of the things I will always remember most about Meme was her voice. No matter the situation, it had a way of creating a sense of calm and comfort. Hearing her speak always warmed my heart and made me feel at ease.
Her smile and laughter were equally special. They had a way of making time feel endless, as if there was nowhere else you needed to be in that moment. She brought joy to those around her so effortlessly and made every gathering feel a little brighter.
I am incredibly grateful for the kindness, warmth, and genuine care she showed to everyone she met. She had a remarkable way of making people feel welcomed, valued, and loved.
I feel truly blessed to have known Meme. While our hearts are heavy, I know her memory, her laughter, and the love we shared will forever stay with me.
Her smile and laughter were equally special. They had a way of making time feel endless, as if there was nowhere else you needed to be in that moment. She brought joy to those around her so effortlessly and made every gathering feel a little brighter.
I am incredibly grateful for the kindness, warmth, and genuine care she showed to everyone she met. She had a remarkable way of making people feel welcomed, valued, and loved.
I feel truly blessed to have known Meme. While our hearts are heavy, I know her memory, her laughter, and the love we shared will forever stay with me.
June 24, 2026
My grandmother, Meem, was the kindest soul I’ve ever met. People always gravitated towards her and I always felt lucky to have her as my grandmother. Some of my fondest memories are the simple ones: the back scratch letter guessing game, cuddling up on the couch to watch Johnny Carson, buying Patrick and I each a packet of chicklet gum every time we visited them in Maryland, and always having her yellow container filled with marshmallows and my favorite (now discontinued) snackwell cookies stocked. She had a way of making every person she talked to feel like they were her favorite person and that you’ve been best friends forever. I’m so grateful that she was able to be there for my engagement party and pick my wedding dress with me. I will never forget that experience. She, and Pop, helped shape my relationship into what it is today and I will continue to aspire to the relationship that they had together. True love in its purest form. She will be deeply missed but I know she’s still forever with me in memory and in my heart. I love you, Meem
June 24, 2026
Eileen was the first of the Dunlop clan that was friendly to us down at our river community. Her laugh made you smile just hearing it. She spontaneously invited us to her grandson Patrick’s birthday celebration (he was maybe 5) She helped me out when a neighbor was in distress and I didn’t know what to do. And just a few years ago, she and Aunt Nancy stopped in unexpectedly to see our rebuilt cottage. We had a lovely visit. I think everyone was drawn to Eileen’s kindness and positive energy.
June 24, 2026
As a musician and friend of Alisa, I visited the Black household many times circa 1980. Though I do not not recall specific details of our conversations, I do remember how Eileen made me feel: unconditionally accepted and loved. Eileen had a presence about her that, without any need for words, signaled that she accepted and loved you for who you are. I am grateful for the time I got to spend in Eileen's presence and with the Black family as a whole. The legacy of Eileen's kindness, love, and acceptance will live on in my heart. Sharing my love and condolences to the Black family and all those that are near and dear to Eileen thorough the ties of family and friendship.
June 24, 2026
I truly and deeply loved Eileen.
When we went to USA, she welcomed us with such warmth and generosity that we immediately felt at home and family.. even though we barely spoke any English 😅 We were just the “Frenchies,” a little shy and unsure of ourselves, but she never let us feel different or out of place. She always had that bright smile, that joyful energy, and that genuine kindness that made everything feel easy and natural.
Some of my sweetest memories are from those days in Maryland. After spending hours outside playing with my cousins, running around, laughing, and coming backto the house tired and sweaty.
She would always have a cold Capri Sun ready for me !
I can still picture it.. the condensation on the pouch, the little straw, and the way she would hand it to me with that caring look, as if it was the most important thing in the world to make sure I felt refreshed and happy. It was such a small gesture, but it meant so much. It was her way of showing her love; simplethoughtful, and full of heart ❤️
We miss her more than words can say. I hope she is resting peacefully in heaven, surrounded by all our loved ones who have gone before her. And I hope she knows how deeply she was loved, and how forever grateful we are for the beautiful memories she gave us.
When we went to USA, she welcomed us with such warmth and generosity that we immediately felt at home and family.. even though we barely spoke any English 😅 We were just the “Frenchies,” a little shy and unsure of ourselves, but she never let us feel different or out of place. She always had that bright smile, that joyful energy, and that genuine kindness that made everything feel easy and natural.
Some of my sweetest memories are from those days in Maryland. After spending hours outside playing with my cousins, running around, laughing, and coming backto the house tired and sweaty.
She would always have a cold Capri Sun ready for me !
I can still picture it.. the condensation on the pouch, the little straw, and the way she would hand it to me with that caring look, as if it was the most important thing in the world to make sure I felt refreshed and happy. It was such a small gesture, but it meant so much. It was her way of showing her love; simplethoughtful, and full of heart ❤️
We miss her more than words can say. I hope she is resting peacefully in heaven, surrounded by all our loved ones who have gone before her. And I hope she knows how deeply she was loved, and how forever grateful we are for the beautiful memories she gave us.
June 24, 2026
I will never forget. At our wedding 17th of March 1990 at the party in the evening Eileen asked for some ice. The german server brought her ice cream and she looked with big open eyes very surprised and then she tried to understand why she’s got ice cream. In Germany when you ask ice, you will have ice cream. In America if you want ice you have ice cubes… That was so amazing.
June 24, 2026
Alisa, j’ai souvenir de ta Maman comme d’une personne solaire, adorable, et toujours souriante.
Elle laisse un grand vide, mais nous retrouvons son sourire et sa joie de vivre en toi chaque jour.
Courage à toi, ton Papa, ta sœur, et tous ceux qui l’aimaient tant. Elle est à présent dans chacun des moments de votre vie.
On t’aime fort Alisa ♥️ bisous à tous
Elle laisse un grand vide, mais nous retrouvons son sourire et sa joie de vivre en toi chaque jour.
Courage à toi, ton Papa, ta sœur, et tous ceux qui l’aimaient tant. Elle est à présent dans chacun des moments de votre vie.
On t’aime fort Alisa ♥️ bisous à tous
June 24, 2026
Our paths did not cross often, but I remember her beautiful smile and kindness. The love of her large family was a testament to her lovely and blessed life.
June 24, 2026
I only met Eileen once, however, she left a strong impression on me as a kind and loving woman with an incredible spirit for life and love of family and friends. May she rest in peace and may her spirit live on in the hearts of those she loved and whose lives she touched.
June 24, 2026
Eileen was a woman of unmatched beauty, grace, and generosity. Although the world is dimmer in her absence, her energy stays with all of us that she touched in her life.
June 24, 2026
Hi Ira
Nous avons été très attristé d'apprendre le décès d'Eileen. Je garderai le souvenir d'elle comme une femme généreuse, toujours souriante et pleine d'humour. Elle nous a toujours acceuilli les bras ouverts notamment au Maryland quand toutes la famille française débarquait !
Je garde aussi le souvenir d'un couple magnifiquement uni, comme des Hirondelles qui ne se séparent jamais. Je crois ne vous avoir jamais vu l'un sans l'autre!
Je vous envoie tout mon courage dans cette dure épreuve. Je suis sur que vous vous retrouverez dans un autre monde.
On vous embrasse,
Marine
Nous avons été très attristé d'apprendre le décès d'Eileen. Je garderai le souvenir d'elle comme une femme généreuse, toujours souriante et pleine d'humour. Elle nous a toujours acceuilli les bras ouverts notamment au Maryland quand toutes la famille française débarquait !
Je garde aussi le souvenir d'un couple magnifiquement uni, comme des Hirondelles qui ne se séparent jamais. Je crois ne vous avoir jamais vu l'un sans l'autre!
Je vous envoie tout mon courage dans cette dure épreuve. Je suis sur que vous vous retrouverez dans un autre monde.
On vous embrasse,
Marine
June 19, 2026
Eileen may have been my friend Kathrina's Mom, but she quickly became my friend as well. She was the same age that one of my sisters would have been, so she felt like a big sister to me, and I told her so (My parents and all my siblings are gone). She was my rock when this big move of leaving Maryland happened. Leaving a town I lived in my whole life and all that I left behind, friends, children and a grandson, she allowed me to feel like I could do this and it would be okay. I will treasure the few times she was able to come and visit me on her own in her little cute scooter, she loved my desert view and my lemon cake :) Like many, I need to carry on without that strength and encouragement. I will miss our many random morning text messages and phone calls about recipes, pictures of family, life in general and all the deep spiritual stuff. My morning coffee will not be the same for a while, but my heart rest knowing that she is now in her perfect health with the Lord.
June 18, 2026
When Ira and Eileen lived next door to us in the Bay at Voyager, they hosted our Native Flute group each week. Eileen would pop in from the living room to let us know when she liked a song or to bring in goodies for a snack. She was Ira’s biggest fan. More recently, we enjoyed weekly breakfasts with them, when Eileen kept us posted on her health and the latest family news. We loved her sense of humor, her devotion to her family, and her determination to live the best possible life no matter what challenges she faced. Her faith in humanity inspired us. We will remember her in her sparkly jacket, laughing over a blueberry pancake (no butter).
June 18, 2026
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the honor of meeting her more than once and I could tell instantly she had a huge heart. I am sending up prayers for you and your family. I'm glad you had the opportunity to say goodbye. ❤
June 18, 2026
Heartbroken to hear this news, especially for you and Alisa and your dad. I was blessed for the time Laurel and I were able to spend with her. Much love to you and holding you all in the light. Please share info on services when you get there.
June 18, 2026
Eileen will always be in my heart, as one of the best people I’ve ever known.
She was the first person to hear I was pregnant with Annie, even before Mike, and shared my happiness in that moment.
I had the privilege of working beside her for 13 years and loved every day of it, and have missed her since but reveled in the joy she showed when sharing posts with her family.
Hugs to all of you 🥺
She was the first person to hear I was pregnant with Annie, even before Mike, and shared my happiness in that moment.
I had the privilege of working beside her for 13 years and loved every day of it, and have missed her since but reveled in the joy she showed when sharing posts with her family.
Hugs to all of you 🥺
June 17, 2026
Eileen Black
Delicate yet determined
Fragile but fierce,
She was a woman and a warrior.
A hummingbird spirit, graceful and beautiful,
yet fearless in the face of life’s challenges.
We are so glad we got to know you Eileen. We will always remember your smile. Roz and Manny
Delicate yet determined
Fragile but fierce,
She was a woman and a warrior.
A hummingbird spirit, graceful and beautiful,
yet fearless in the face of life’s challenges.
We are so glad we got to know you Eileen. We will always remember your smile. Roz and Manny
June 16, 2026
I was honored to be Eileen’s nail and self-care companion for a little over 2 years. “Just a little smidge of water” became a rhythm appt for us. Epsom salts,sugar scrub,lotions and oils in Citrus Cardamom with her fav lacquer in Spa Ritual-Pretty Pink Moment.
I don’t even know where to begin. I know that she will be missed so much. Her smiles, and giggles were her signature. It was very adorable and unique that if I closed my eyes I could tell her apart. Pure & playful. She was such a gentle light that brought calm,joy,& happiness wherever she went.
I was always inspired and in awh by her and how gracefully and joyfully she appreciated life. She enjoyed her meditation and ride her recumbent bike. Simple bliss like her rechargeable candle lights during Xmas and a fisherman’s jacket with multiple pockets. She shared recipes typed them and even sent me a packet of the Good Seasons Italian dressing soup made in a crockpot with Trader Joe’s brown rice and phila cream cheese.I keep in my keep sake box along with her thoughtful Xmas cards she hand wrote me. Eileen’s favorite bread was Silver Hills the blue package and enjoyed having two pieces at 100 Cals each. It brought her joy.
Each and every appt was special and it brought me happiness that I was a part of her self care ritual. Window seating on the right with a bit of sunshine & Mountain View. Eileen always mentioned how her feet and toes felt so much better and how much she loved the pink shimmery lacquer that matched her favorite pink floral embroidered jean jacket with her fav multiple pockets that her daughter helped stitch more beautiful pink flowers.
She loved her family dearly and with so much pride and how creative her girls are. And loved her husband. 66 years loved says a lot. Ira was always patient with her and took her to her nail appts every month enjoying a book until she’s ready. She was always up, ready to go and early for each visit. I’ll definitely miss her gentle smile and “are you ready for me?” And I’d always greet her good morning and let her know it’s always a good day when I get to see her. One thing that stuck out most during one of our appts was when I was running a little late. Eileen always had this sense of calm and grace to her and it showed up during that visit. She had something to do with the house and had to be there on time that afternoon but she made time to come visit and get her toes and feet freshened. What stood out to me was I was running late and instead of being frustrated she stopped and said in her soft tone and jaw drop “oh my gosh I’ve never seen your hair down, it’s so long and beautiful!” She embodied calm and most importantly presence.
I feel so grateful to have met such a spirit like Eileen. She was calm, grounded, joyful,loving,& mainly an altruistic being. It was unreal but real. Bc she’s unconditional. That showed. My heart & prayers goes out to Ira,Alisa,Kathrina,grandbabies & family. My heart is with you all. I will miss you Eileen! 💗🥺🙏🏽🫶🏽✨
I don’t even know where to begin. I know that she will be missed so much. Her smiles, and giggles were her signature. It was very adorable and unique that if I closed my eyes I could tell her apart. Pure & playful. She was such a gentle light that brought calm,joy,& happiness wherever she went.
I was always inspired and in awh by her and how gracefully and joyfully she appreciated life. She enjoyed her meditation and ride her recumbent bike. Simple bliss like her rechargeable candle lights during Xmas and a fisherman’s jacket with multiple pockets. She shared recipes typed them and even sent me a packet of the Good Seasons Italian dressing soup made in a crockpot with Trader Joe’s brown rice and phila cream cheese.I keep in my keep sake box along with her thoughtful Xmas cards she hand wrote me. Eileen’s favorite bread was Silver Hills the blue package and enjoyed having two pieces at 100 Cals each. It brought her joy.
Each and every appt was special and it brought me happiness that I was a part of her self care ritual. Window seating on the right with a bit of sunshine & Mountain View. Eileen always mentioned how her feet and toes felt so much better and how much she loved the pink shimmery lacquer that matched her favorite pink floral embroidered jean jacket with her fav multiple pockets that her daughter helped stitch more beautiful pink flowers.
She loved her family dearly and with so much pride and how creative her girls are. And loved her husband. 66 years loved says a lot. Ira was always patient with her and took her to her nail appts every month enjoying a book until she’s ready. She was always up, ready to go and early for each visit. I’ll definitely miss her gentle smile and “are you ready for me?” And I’d always greet her good morning and let her know it’s always a good day when I get to see her. One thing that stuck out most during one of our appts was when I was running a little late. Eileen always had this sense of calm and grace to her and it showed up during that visit. She had something to do with the house and had to be there on time that afternoon but she made time to come visit and get her toes and feet freshened. What stood out to me was I was running late and instead of being frustrated she stopped and said in her soft tone and jaw drop “oh my gosh I’ve never seen your hair down, it’s so long and beautiful!” She embodied calm and most importantly presence.
I feel so grateful to have met such a spirit like Eileen. She was calm, grounded, joyful,loving,& mainly an altruistic being. It was unreal but real. Bc she’s unconditional. That showed. My heart & prayers goes out to Ira,Alisa,Kathrina,grandbabies & family. My heart is with you all. I will miss you Eileen! 💗🥺🙏🏽🫶🏽✨
June 16, 2026
For Aunt Eileen’s 75th birthday, I typed up 75 things that made her awesome! It’s framed hanging in her home. Those 75 things I’ll remember. And I’ll miss her handwriting…😘
June 16, 2026
We met Eileen and Ira as neighbors at Voyager RV park and immediately became friends. Every Thursday we would have breakfast together at First Watch-sometimes arriving there before opening time. Eileen was known to be an early bird-starting her day at 3am! That explains the early breakfasts. My favorite memory of Eileen? Her ready smiles and giggles. What a delight she was. She will be missed.
June 16, 2026
We are all better people for having had Eileen in our lives. Eileen always was upbeat, had a genuine smile on her beautiful face, and that laugh (unforgettable). When talking with her, she focused on you: how have you been, what is going on in your life, how is the family. She loved her family with all her being and she was adored by them. We have had some fun get togethers these past few years and those memories will be in my heart forever. She is truly loved and will be missed by us all. Thanks Eileen for honor of being your friend.
June 16, 2026
I met her my first year at Voyager while taking dulcimer lessons. Always enjoyed her company. Always positive and had a great time with her. She will be missed. Excellent memories were made! So lucky to have known her.
June 16, 2026
My dearest friend I had the great pleasure to meet you when you were 13 and I was 12. Our friendship grew stronger over the years. I was so lucky to be in your life and share so many memories with you, your beloved husband Ira and beautiful daughters Alisa and Kathrina. Heaven has opened arms for you and your light is shining so very bright. Until we meet again thank you from my heart
June 16, 2026
Eileen was such a kind soul. She always made Mer and I feel well liked and we can't picture her without a smile. We feel sad for Ira and her girls and hope they remember all the healthy times they had with her. Love to you three.
June 16, 2026
In the mornings Ira and I would go for a bike ride and then have tea and I could visit with Eileen and Ira. We would share stories from our pasts.. I loved hearing about Philadelphia and Eileen's adventures with her good friend, from going to movies to shopping for underwear. And stories of her life with Ira and their daughters. Every tea time was filled with her wonderful laughter. I will miss it so much. And my heart aches for Ira, Alisa, and Kathrina.
June 16, 2026
Your laugh, your voice. Please never let me forget.
June 16, 2026
Mommy, I will miss you more than I can even acknowledge right now. You have always been my guiding light, my strength, the giver of good advice. You knew immediately if anything was wrong or “off” as you would say and always could get me to open up about it and help me see a way forward. I always knew you were special and different. You weren’t like anyone else, even during my childhood. All my friends would say “I wish your mom was my mom” so I always knew how lucky I was to have you. It will be so hard not talking to you every day on my way to the gym or calling after a show to tell you how it went or updating you on the kids’ lives. You were such a light in this world. Your empathy and love knew no bounds. I always wondered with true wonder how it could be that you never experienced jealousy or envy. You felt joy and happiness and gratitude but also grief and sadness for others, never anger or resentment. You gave everyone grace and compassion. You embodied what I imagine Jesus wants us all to be like. I’m sure you must’ve heard, at 3:10 am on June 8, "Well done, good and faithful servant" because you were the best and I’ll love you forever Mom. ❤️🙏🏻🥹😇
Favorites
What was Eileen's favorite Restaurant? Vivace's
What was Eileen's favorite Music / Song? Anything by Queen
What was Eileen's favorite Movie? "A Few Good Men"
What was Eileen's favorite Travel destination? Traveling to Germany with her husband, Ira and her dad, Bill Dunlop.
What was Eileen's favorite Food or Dish? She loved coffee ice cream and mom and dad shared that as their last meal.
Eileen loved quotes. This is another one she loved. "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference."
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