Mrs. Edna Ibru (née Park)

My heartfelt sympathies go out to my brother and sister, Dido and Sheri, on the passing of aunty Edna. Though she is no longer with us physically, her spirit will forever remain in the hearts of those she loved and touched. Rest in peace, Aunty Edna. 🙏🏽

I have not known moma Mrs Ibru but through the son Paul Ibru and his wonderful wife Moma Shade Ibru I have been able to witness unconditional love, unwavering kindness and compassion, wisdom and knowledge they impart into me and my ministry here in Uganda Africa. I am grateful that I am part of the people you have loved and supported in one way or the other indirectly Mrs Ibru. May you live in the sweetness of God’s glory.

PASTOR PRINCE HARMONY - UGANDA

A tribute to Mama Edna.
She was a remarkable woman , imbued with charming personality. In my encounter with her, she left a legacy of love, kindly and generosity. She remains a voice for the voiceless. Your legacies remain evergreen memories in our hearts.
May the Almighty repose her soul and console the immediate and extended families, friends and well wishers on the irreplaceable loss IJMN Amen. Rest in peace Mama.

FAREWELL TRIBUTE TO MY WONDERFUL AUNTY, LATE MRS. EDNA PARK IBRU

Aunty Ogbodu as she was fondly called by most of her Itsekiri family decent, was more than just an aunt to me, I first got to meet her as a little boy at the age of ten while living with mama Sapele, her late grandma back then in Warri, Delta State. Mama was very fond me as I was her letter writer and she would request of my assistance in writing letters to aunty Ogbodu, back to back and she often responded positively as she took very good care of her late grandma.

After some time of letters correspondence, she came visiting her late grandma and then i was introduced to her as that little boy writing and send all those letters from grandma, she was wowed.
Since then, I became her darling little brother and she was very caring and supportive. She kept a close tab with me over the years, always calling to check up on me, making sure I was doing good and fine.

Aunty Ogbodu was always ever cheerful, you can never have a dull moment when around her as she had doses of stories and powerful experiences to dish out always.
I will forever cherish some of the powerful reception received and the wonderful thoughts you shared with me when I first visited with my wife Shortly after I got married.

You will be greatly missed aunty Ogbodu, but we're greatly consoled by the many positive impacts you made on the lives of people you came across as well as a good life of generosity and kindness you exemplify, knowing that you're now in a better place at with the angels.

Rest on ma, for you fought a good fight, you have finished your course….. Farewell ma.

From dust we come, and to dust, we return. Aunty Edna, may your legacy of love and kindness always be remembered. God's grace precedes you. Your spirit lives on. Rest on, in the glory, and presence of the Saviour.

A farewell Tribute to my dearly beloved big sister, Edna Park Ibru.

Sister Edna whom I fondly called by her Itsekiri name, sister Ogbodu, was a very charming and lovely sister. She was a very classy and elegant fashion goddess. She was so wonderful and full of humour whenever you are around her. A very nice and generous big sister. I never new that my last visit to her U.K residence in December was going to be the last time I'ld ever see the beautiful face of my lovely Itsekiri sister, Ogbodu.
Sister the news of your passing still feels like a dream even till this moment, as flashes of some of your jokes and wise counsel shared during my last visit to you, keep dropping in my thoughts each passing moment.
Though you're in a better place now, I'll forever miss you.
Farewell my darling big Sister

Edna, I called you Edna from the day we met in the dome in the early seventies. I was on one of my usual vacations from Paris and you came to the dome to see your children Dido and Sherry as I fondly call them to date. I was then a girl friend to Felix Ibru the father of your children. There was no iota of animosity  in your character. On the contrary you came with presents for every child in the house regardless of who mothered them for Felix. I saw you then for who you were till you passed on. Your heart of gold left a huge impression on me forever. You love effortlessly and genuinely as I recall your favourite joke "efuo le efuo" which you interjected between jokes. You loved your children and despite all odds,you  brought them up, supporting and fighting for them till they became enviable giants for the kingdom of God and for mankind. Edna would axe anyone who stood between her and her children as I came to realise much later.  Edna was a fantastic ally and friend. She was  a fearless fighter and a very uneasy enemy to have. Don't cross Edna, her weapon was her mouth only and she used it generously with venomless venom when provoked. However, Edna was always misunderstood but I know she was a harmless enemy. She loved and lived life to the fullest. She kept me laughing for hours on the phone and bad mouthed me any second we disagreed on any point. Edna loved peace but will not allow anyone to put her down. A free spirited freedom fighter to the core. Would you believe we shared the same husband? I loved her sense of humour despite her occasional and unpredictable outburst (even at me) because I knew she was harmless in her heart. A bundle of contradiction. She honoured Félix Ibru till death and after death. Who can fault her? Certainly not me.  I loved her even more for her undiluted loyalty and honour to the man we all called our husband. Adieu Edna, I can go on and on about you. Not to worry,  we shall not share same husband in the next world. Rest in perfect peace forever for your children Dido and Sherry are kingdom children  to the glory of God. Amen. I forgot to tell you how much  I love your harmless madness 💛

My Dear dear Aunty Edna,
a bright ray shone whenever and wherever you appeared.
You simply just brought lots of action and fun everywhere you went.
Miss Nigeria. Oh yes!!!, pride and joy you brought to the family.
Your warm and welcoming ways will always be remembered and cherished.
May your star continue to shine on.
Rest in perfect peace.
Olorogun Oskar C.J. Ibru

May her beautiful soul rest in peace.
She was a caring person. Always making people laugh with her gist.

You will be missed by all your loved ones.

E su re ninu.Oluwa.

Edna,
It is shocking news for me to hear of your demise as l was just about to call you to chat as usual. We normally talk for ages whenever we call each other. We both met through another friend over 20 years and we have been close and shared a lot of jokes together on the phone for hours.

Edna whenever we are in Nigeria at the same times we are always in and out of each other's house. I will really miss you. I would not have known where Warri is (even though am a Nigerian) if it wasn’t for your friendship when you invited me for your late husband's (Mr Felix Ibru) memorial which was an experience l will cherish. Yes we loved you, but God loves you more.

Ore, you are now resting with your Maker and no more pains. Rest in peace Edna and may the perpetual light shine on you and all souls departed through the mercy of God. Amen.

I pray that God will continue to protect and bless Dido and Sheri and all the families you left behind. All your struggles over your children will not end in vain in Jesus Name. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Amen.
Mrs Margaret Farodoye-Brierley

17/2/25

TRIBUTE: MRS. EDNA PARK IBRU

It was with shock that I received the sad news that on 15th January 25 my sister-in-law late Edna Park Ibru passed on to glory. At “Christmas/ New year” period I sent her seasonal greetings; little did I know that she would pass on so soon.

She was a woman of distinction who blazed the trail in 1964 when she was crowned as Miss Nigeria.

We will remember her for her hard work, her passion for the unity of the family and love for family and friends

She was mother to two adorable children namely Aidido (Paul) and Sheri; my nephew and niece respectively.

She had good humour; there was never a dull moment with her.

She would be greatly missed. May her gentle soul find sweet repose.

Goodie M. Ibru OON, DSc (Hon)

Aunt Edna was an amazing woman. She was full of laughter. She was full of love. She saw joy in all situations even when she was ill in the hospital. She was fiercely protective of those she loved, and that included me. May her beautiful soul rest in peace. Amen.🙏🏾

A Tribute to Edna
It is with a heavy heart but a deep sense of gratitude that I write this tribute to my very dear friend and sister, Edna Ibru (née Park) who has gone on to be with the Lord. Our bond stretches over an incredible 55 plus years, a testament to the enduring nature of true friendship.
Edna was not just any friend; she was a major figure in my wedding, and over the years, she maintained a close and heartfelt relationship with me and my late wife, Caroline Equawumi (Kpenosen) Barrett. I have fond memories of listening to Caroline and Edna talk about their lives growing up in Sapele and living in Lagos as young adults before moving to London. Their conversations were always filled with joy and enthusiasm, especially when Edna spoke about her children. She was so proud of their accomplishments and would beam with pride and excitement at every mention of their successes.
Throughout her life, Edna touched the hearts of many with her warmth and compassion. She had a unique ability to light up any room she entered, drawing people in with her genuine spirit and infectious smile. Her presence was a beacon of positivity, and she was well respected by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Edna was known for her sage advice on key matters of life. Many sought her counsel, and she never hesitated to share her wisdom, guiding those around her with love and understanding. Her insights were invaluable, and her words carried weight, often providing comfort and clarity in times of need.
She has completed the work God assigned to her with grace and dedication. Edna's impact on my life and the lives of my family members is immeasurable. We are better off for having shared in her life and for the countless memories we created together.
As we bid farewell to Edna, we do so with the knowledge that her spirit lives on in the hearts of those she touched. Her legacy of love, compassion, and wisdom will forever be a part of us. Rest in peace, dear Edna. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

A NOTE TO MY IN-LAW, EDNA

Many decades ago, when I found out that you were my in-law, I felt assured that I was in a good lane. You were always on the front foot with your loyalty, about family, and issues concerned with a responsible future. As time snapped at our broad breath of expectations, in your reminiscences, you sprinkled endearing nuggets that connected me with my youthful days in Lagos. But regrettably and in a forlorn blur, time exerts an inescapable and inevitable demand on our mortal reach. God has called you!

Be with your maker in peace.

Your in-law on behalf of the Amooquaye family.

A Tribute to My Beloved Aunty Edna

Though our paths crossed only a few times, your presence and legacy have always been a part of my life. My mum spoke so highly of you—of your kindness, your unwavering support, and the love you showed her and my sister Susan when she first arrived in the UK. Susan had the privilege of staying with you, and through my mum’s words, I came to know the remarkable woman you were.

You were more than just family; you were a force of grace and elegance. As a former Miss Nigeria, you carried yourself with poise and confidence, always standing out in any room. Your sense of fashion was impeccable, and your entrepreneurial spirit was truly inspiring. Beyond your beauty and success, you had a heart full of warmth and generosity.

My mum always said I remind her of you—a comparison I will forever cherish. She adored you, and I know how much you loved her cooking, a bond that brought you both so much joy. You will be deeply missed, but your legacy of strength, style, and kindness will live on in our hearts.

Rest peacefully, my beautiful Aunty Edna

Aunty Edna! Your demise is a total shock, I found it difficult to believe. May your kind, generous soul rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord. Amen. You were always willing to be of help. I met you through Aunty Matty,later you mentioned you knew

my Mum long before. I was planning my wedding and needed to have outfits made. She said you were a designer and would be willing to help



. True to form you designed and made two beautiful outfits without charging a penny. I never forgot. Over45yrs ago. Throughout the years I
got to know that was your nature. Giving of your time and resources when called to. You were a kind Soul unafraid to take up an underdogs fight... Aunty Edna rest well. The Almighty will continue to protect and bless Aidido, Sheri and their siblings. Peace will reign in the name of the Almighty. Amen.

Tribute to Eddie my Love.
I woke up each day hoping and praying that someone will tell me that it was all a joke but it is gradually dawning on me that you are gone forever.
I believe that you are somewhere safe watching over us, and your beloved children, Engr.
Dido and Barr. Sherry that you have worked so hard to protect even with your life.
I and Chief and Mrs. Lexy Ajufo of London Misses all the wonderful times we had together. Our friendship has dated back even before you were crowned Miss Nigeria in Lagos in the early 60's.
Each time I called you "Eddie my Love", you have always responded by calling me "Ayi for real"
Even while you became very frail and weak, you have always created time to call and check on my health.
This wasn't our plan but the plan of God. " Death is Evil" All memories are still in my heart.
Goodnight Eddy my Love!
Rest in Perfect peace.
Hajiya Ayi Braimoh.
"Ayi for real" Benue, State

Mama mi le Eko
(Meaning)
My mother in Lagos. This was what I used to call you.
You stood for me as my mother during my court wedding.
You loved me so much and showed it in several ways.
Your very funny utterances will be missed.
A-do ma do body.
Khaki no be lather .
Experience is the best teacher etc
You fought for what you believed in with your never giving up attitude.
Such a strong and vibrant woman that brought Joy to many.
I will miss you so much Sis Edna.
Rest in perfect peace till we meet again.

Chichi Moore

Tribute to Eddie my Love.
I woke up each day hoping and praying that someone will tell me that it was all a joke but it is gradually dawning on me that you are gone forever.
I believe that you are somewhere safe watching over us, and your beloved children that you have worked so hard to protect even with your life.
I and Chief and Mrs. Lexy Ajufo of London Misses all the wonderful times we had together. Our friendship has dated back even before you were crowned Miss Nigeria in Lagos in the early 60's.
Each time I called you "Eddie my Love", you have always responded by calling me "Ayi for real"
Even while you became very frail and weak, you have always created time to call and check on me about knee pain
This wasn't our plan but the plan of God. " Death is Evil" All memories are still in my heart.
Goodnight Eddy my Love!
Rest in Perfect peace.
Hajiya Ayi Braimoh.
"Ayi for real" Benue.

TRIBUTE TO MY ELDER SISTER, LATE MRS EDNA PARK IBRU.

Sister Edna (Ogbodun), where do I start from? It has been so difficult for me to come up with a tribute to my late sister Edna.... indeed death will come knocking someday, I tried to unravel how we became so close but could not. She was the best sister anyone could ever wish for, I was telling my elder sister, Julie Park, recently, when the news of sister Edna's demise was broken to me about how I got to London in 1985 in what was one of the worst winter in many years. After about two weeks or so I just couldn't take it anymore and I wanted to come back to Nigeria, I was putting so much pressure on Churchill to help facilitate all arrangements for me to return to Nigeria when I got a call from sister Edna summoning me to her house on Harrow road. The next day I went to see her, I think it was Sandra or Sheri who came to the door and immediately I walked in sister Edna called my name “Opel” and I answered “Ma”, and she said, “Uwó akpalakpa mo gbó gin wo fé yidé re Nigeria”. ( Opel I heard you are planning to go back to Nigeria and come back during the summer season) I answered in the affirmative and she looked at me for about 5 minutes or so before she then asked me if my father or my mum was the Nigerian Ambassador to the UK. I said No and she then asked who guaranteed me that if I left I would be able to come back and still be able to get my visa at the point of entry as it was then. This was me just looking at her like a zombie and the next word she said was that she wanted me to come back to her house the next day with my passport and my return ticket to her house the next day and that was how she ended up not just being my beloved elder sister but also a friend and a confidant. That was how I remained in the UK for so many years.
I am one of sister Edna's beloved brothers. By the Grace of God, I am financially okay but she still sends me money now and then for the “boys' outing” as she puts it.
My sister Edna has fought a good fight. She has finished her race, only God almighty will give her the crown that befits her to wear. Good night and goodbye my dear sister, till we meet again to part no more.

Odejuma Ogbodun!!

Clement Opel Edewor.

RIP Aunty Edna
I was sad to hear of your passing. I haven't been able to meet with you for such a long time but I recall visiting you with my family as if it was yesterday.

Aunty Edna was a very good friend of my mum. As a young child I remember our frequent visits to see Aunty Edna in Shirland Road. My siblings and I were always allowed to play and have fun while the adults were discussing - those were happy times. Years later when. I returned to the UK alone, my mum gave me a note with Aunty Edna's last know address and told me to look for her. My mum trusted that Aunty Edna would look out for me. I am grateful for her love and concern for all of us.

Adieu Aunty Edna.

Rest in Peace.

MY TRIBUTE TO MAMA EDNA IBRU

As I sit down to write this tribute, my heart is filled with a mix of sadness and celebration. Sadness, because I'll deeply miss the warm smile and gentle guidance of an extraordinary woman who became like a mother to me. Celebration, because she lived a long, fulfilling life, and her passing was peaceful.

I still remember when we struck a connection, when she realised I was related to the Late Justice Esho. It was as if fate had brought us together, and our connection grew stronger with each passing day. She welcomed me warmly. She was loved by all because of her kindness, hospitality, and care that knew no bounds. Mama does not keep grudges, if she quarrels with you in the morning, by evening she will call you go say hello. I’m so blessed to have her in my life.

Over the years, I had the privilege of visiting her in London, and our conversations would flow effortlessly for hours, like those of old friends. She'd share stories of her childhood, her family, and her life experiences, and I'd listen with rapt attention, learning valuable lessons and gaining new insights. Her wisdom, wit, energy and strength inspired me, and I'll always treasure those moments we spent together.

I'll never forget the beautiful flowers I sent to her last August on her birthday, not knowing that it would be her last. It's a memory I'll cherish forever, a small token of appreciation for the love and kindness she showed me, and she was very grateful for it, that I made her day! May God grant her eternal rest, and may her memory continue to inspire us to live with kindness, compassion, and generosity. Rest in peace, dear mother. You will never be forgotten.

I will truly miss hearing Aunty's hilarious stories and jokes.There was never a dull moment with her.Even when she wasn't feeling well,she still found ways to make people laugh.She cherished being surrounded by family and friends,and her heart was open to helping those in need.Aunty Edna was a go-getter who achieved anything she set her mind to.As a fashion icon,I admired her deeply.Aunty will be missed more than words can express. May her soul rest in peace.Amen.

Funmi Obichie

In Loving Memory of my sister, Edna

Sister Edna was a woman of incredible style and grace, a true embodiment of fashion. Her outfits, from her dress to her shoes and bags, were always meticulously chosen and perfectly put together. During the short yet cherished time I spent with her in Lagos, she created some wonderful clothes for me. The memory of that beautiful silk shirt she made still lingers with me.

She helped me move to the United Kingdom and continued to support and encourage me.

Sister Edna was not just a protector, but a fierce defender who took no nonsense. Yet, she balanced her strength with a heart full of humour, always bringing joy and laughter. Jovial and peaceful in her charismatic way, she possessed a courageous spirit and never hesitated to speak her mind with conviction.

Her generosity knew no bounds, always striving to provide the best for her family. When Sister Edna made a promise, she pursued it relentlessly until she delivered it. Her unwavering dedication and commitment were a testament to her boundless love and care.

May Sister's spirit live on in our hearts, her memory cherished by all who knew and loved her.

My elder sister, Edna, was a strong and admirable woman. Her strong will made her stand out. She always followed her principles and worked hard to do what she believed was right. When I moved to London many years ago, sister Edna helped my husband, Timothy, and me. She gave us helpful advice and support as we adjusted to city life away from home, encouraging me to follow my dream of fashion design.

Many people misunderstood sister Edna, but she had a fierce determination to support just causes. She fought for what she believed in, expressing her ideas with passion and grace. Her absence will leave a deep hole in the lives of everyone who knew and loved her.

May her soul rest in peace, and may we always cherish her in our memories.


Julie B. Park

My lovely sister is gone, I miss you And you will always be in my heart. I love you sissy but God loves you better I pray for the children you left behind, May Almighty God continue to protect and bless them ín Jesus name Amen.

TRIBUTE TO MADRE

It was a relationship that spanned less than a decade but yet so intense and impacting! Our path crossed just by stroke of chance, and she spotted me merely by the tribal incisions on me. And the rest is history.
After this memorable occasion, calling you Mama or Mumsy, as I later addressed you, was nutured simply by the fact that you treated me as your own and as a mother would treat her son. At a point, you unofficially assigned roles to me as aide or PA even until your passing on.For this reason, l never hesitated to introduce you as my adopted mother, not because I was in want of one, but your love and concern for me endeared you to me.

You were a mother, one with a strong character who wants the best for her children and her loved ones around her. You were generous, thoughtful, vivacious, and a bridge builder! A goal getter at that who will not take no for an answer for something she believe is doable. You were prepared to network primarily to achieving targetted goals for the common good

I respect and appreciate you even in death for the memories and legacies you left behind. The news of your death came to me with unforgettable pains as I could remember what you shared with me on the phone in one of your last calls to me after Christmas.

As you have departed, it is my sincere wishes that your dream for your children, both biological and unofficially adopted children like me, would come to pass in our lives and by extentions to your family and all your loved ones.

Rest on, Mama.

UTIEYIN SOLA DUDU

My pretty look alike aunty. I was privillaged to first meet with you at the age of 5 years old, in lagos when you came to visit my mum, your late aunty mary. Immediately you saw me. You fell inlove with me, and i did same. You visited the 2nd time then i was already a teenager, and you then told me that you will one day take me to london and that i will meet shery and dido. You will always look at me and smile, and u will say i reminded you of yourself growing up. After many yrs i came to london on my own without no one to love and care for me. I kept on trying to get intouch with you, no way till i i one day did. But i did not know you were leaving soon. After our 1st meeting you that you made sure that i was introduced me to both of your children, saying this is your blood o. You ppl should communicate as family. Cos she is my family. Those were your words. After then you gave me your words that i can come at anytime i want to. But must make sure shery will be home to open the door for me. Which i did couple of times. We will chart and chart about family, my mum, my life, your life experience. Atimes you will scold me for not coming to you when i 1st git to the Uk. I will end up crying and you will later explain to me that it hurts you to see that am still struglling, and i will cry myself up that why is it now that you are sick that i had to meet with you. My mum tried to meet you whenever she was around, but was unable to see her sister which made her sad and continued to encourage me not to give up in my search to meet you. The few times that i visited you. You made me feel loved by a mother. And anytime am leaving you will repeat that same word, you can visit anytime o. Sometimes i will be on my way to you, but you will be on your way to the hospital. You even promised that when you are well we will both travell home to okpara to visit my mum your aunties grave. Mummy i cherrised the times we spent together, but most of all i will miss you so much. I will always remember those day in lagos that you and my mum will be dragging who i look like. You will say kosephine you are so pretty o. And my mum will say is she not her buetiful mum. And you will say yes but that its you i look like. Mum thanks for sharing your last love with me and and for always assuring me that i will be okay. I Love You. But God Loves You More. Rest In Perfect Peace.Su Re O.

Aunty Edna as we fondly call her though a mother but have no objection to it. I will miss you greatly because you have been part of my family for over 30 years+ which I didn't wish it to end like this but God knows best.
You watch me grow into a lady, woman and also a mother what can I say about this kind, caring and generous soul that place our priorities first before hers. I remember all the stories you tell us to be a better person even though we had our differences which was normal between parents and children.
I remember your words, you will tell me Bukie bukie you are my favorite,each time you call you will always call that name no other calls me that which I will miss greatly.
Your words like sea never dry, egbe ruku ruku, yawun yawun and so on OH! I will miss this mother of mine.
A fashionista, she stands out in all is it her shoes, bags, English wear or even the native attire and her charisma was so intimidating if you are not bold and confident because all this you will see in her. She was a pillar that makes the foundation stand firm and even the building I will forever miss this mother of mine.
She loved education, she will always tell my brothers and I about the success of been well mannered in every thing we do. When she is angry she will tell you the way it is she doesn't mice word. She fought a good fight. If I continue writing I can use a whole year to write a book about my mother Aunty Edna.
Her last days she will always talk about Jesus Christ that I should also tell my father that there is no other way except this. Each time I heard this I hope she is in a better place.
Aunty Edna (my mother) I will forever miss you

Edna Park: A Woman for All Seasons

I met Aunty Edna in 1989 when she took me under her wing.
She was a woman of deep convictions, often propelling her into action. She was feisty and brutally honest: a no-nonsense woman comfortable with the rich, famous and poor. She could deal at all levels, and her personality demanded respect. You had no choice but to admire and give her due respect.
She was intelligent and very wise. Often, she would say to me, ‘You must use your loaf to get on in life—a colloquial way of saying you must use your head, or you must be wise and discerning to get the best in life’. She was very astute and would have made a brilliant politician if she had gone into politics.
She was a conservative at heart but Labour in her compassion for helping those in need or vulnerable.
She hated to see people taken advantage of and would always stand on the side of the vulnerable to fight an oppressor.
Aunty Edna was also very fashionable and was quick to tell you if you didn't ‘package well’. She was fun-loving and was never short of stories of her escapades in ‘her days’. Edna Park, a woman for all seasons, fare thee well till we meet again, at the bossom of our Lord, to part no more.

My DEAREST 'Auntie E', 'The Original K.G.B'!
I am utterly devastated that you have left us so suddenly. I cannot express how much I already miss your presence in my life. Just this Sunday, I had a strong urge to speak to you, and tell you how much I love you. I am so full of regret that I didn't get to call.
Our lives on earth are truly fleeting. I am however greatly encouraged that you lived a full life. You lived yours to the max.
You impacted positively on so many lives, it's incredible. My parting words to you will be "THANK YOU WITH ALL MY HEART..." I will never forget you.
May GOD keep you in HIS Bosom eternally.
AMEN.
All my love, OLOTU

A Tribute to MUMMY EDNA.

Many years ago, I got the privilege to meet Mummy Edna at her London residence. The reason for being at the residence was to meet up with Paul, Mummy Edna’s son, whom at the time was a PhD student at the Imperial College of London circa 30 years ago. Once I got to the house, I rang the doorbell and was buzzed in.
On reaching the first floor of this beautiful home, I was greeted by a most beautiful and elegant African lady, she was indeed drop dead gorgeous. Dwelling in the thought of Mummy Edna’s beauty, my mind wondered to one fact, that Paul has an incredibly beautiful sister. My first encounter went something like this, having been told Paul was away: “My name is Henry, please be kind to mention to Paul that I visited; by the way, you must be Paul’s elder sister, what is your name?” No sooner, when Mummy Edna realized
that I had mistaken her for Paul’s sister, she set me straight, and with great poise and grace. She very softly
corrected my quick (but not unreasonable) assumptions, by announcing that she was Paul’s mother. In sober attitude I immediately reverted from my euro-centric ways to my Urhobo ways (an African sub-culture in Nigeria). I then proceeded to greet her properly in our native dialect “MIGWO”, which translates as “I offer greetings to you my elder on my knees”, then Mummy Edna replied “VRENDO” which translates “rise up from your knee and thank you”. Since then I fondly referred to her as Mummy, because she took me as a son, and treated me as such.

When Mummy Edna spoke to me she often used our native vernacular sometime to put across her unique and sage point of view. Mummy Edna was in fact a dear mother to me (I'd lost my biological mother at the age of four years old). She gave me sound advise and encouraged me to always connect deeper with Paul (or Dido), to get him never to forget home, to which I promised. To those who didn’t have the honour and privilege to know Mummy Edna, let me say this for her: Mummy Edna impacted me in a profound way, she showed me love, great compassion and direction, she was very full of life, a very energetic individual, resilient, determined and very hard working. She didn’t allow the trappings of fame or wealth interfere with her humanity,
she was very down to earth.

I could pin a ten thousand words eulogy on her, but that would still not sufficiently do her beautiful memory justice, she was way
more than just nice words, she marked out her legacy, and I am part of that, her God-given wisdom shaped me. Mummy, many thanks for showing us love and guiding us from your wells of life's experiences. You opened doors for other women in our culture and brought pride to our nation in Nigeria as the first Miss Nigeria from Mid-West to represent our nation. Mummy you were incomparable, and I thank God to have shared precious time with you as a son. Mummy, remain young, radiant, beautiful, and at rest in heaven, until we all meet again in the arms of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
Rest in Peace forever..Amen.

Adios MUMMY. Respectfully I remain your son.
Oghenejinavi Henry Numa

Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

It is with great pain that I share this tribute for my beloved cousin who turned by sister through our years together as we grew older. I am loss for words knowing that you are no longer with us.

The great memories from our childhood and youth will forever live with me. Our continuous support for each older in our elderly age as we lived in the United Kingdom I will forever cherish.

You touched my lives particularly mind with your kindness and love to those who were previledged to be close to you. Our family will forever be grateful when you opened your doors and welcomed us during the very difficult times during our early days in the United Kingdom.

This opportunity led to greater things for me and my immediate family. Together we keep you and your children in our prayers that you find peace with your God and your children continue to live in your legacies and values in God's protection with love.

As we grief your loss, we will continue to celebrate your life and your spirit lives until resurrection. Rest In Peace my dearest and loving sister.

Today I celebrate the life of an extraordinary woman, a paragon of beauty and beloved Aunty Edna, who left an indelible mark on the lives of those she touched.
Aunty, you may have left this earthly realm , your memory and legacy will continue to inspire and guide us for generations to come.
Aunty Edna was a pillar of strength, a shining example of resilience and a beacon of hope. Her life was a testament of passion, purpose and dedication to those she loved . She had a heart full of love and a spirit that never grew old . She was at ease with both young and old cracking old jokes and having fun . There was never a dull moment with her .
Her family was her rock. Aunty Edna was a woman of strong convictions and unwavering principles.
Her wisdom gained from years of experience was a treasure trove of knowledge that she shared freely.
As I say goodbye dearest Aunty , I take comfort in the memories we shared.
Those long telephone conversations, your warm smiles, infectious laughter and generous spirit.
I recall your funny old stories ,wise counsel and unwavering support always. I will forever cherish my last visit to you in London last June.
Your passing leaves a void in our lives but your legacy will continue to inspire us to live our lives with purpose and dedication to those we love. You may be gone but you will never be forgotten. Your memory will live on in our hearts forever.
Rest in peace beloved Aunty Edna. Your life was a blessing to us all.
We will miss you dearly.
Farewell dearest Aunty Edna.

M. Aleladia Esq.

Aunty was an amazing woman.Her love, kindness, and beautiful smile will be deeply missed .She was a great pillar of support to her loved ones. A lot of times we had our disagreements but she would always find a way to make peace. Aunty Ogbodu, you are greatly missed; as you are now with the angels. Keep resting in peace, my beautiful aunty.

Ama Renner.

Mama Edna Ibru - A Tribute

Your transition in to glory came at a time when it is least expected. You were a good mother to all of us. Kind, loving and godly.
Your departure will be greatly missed by all.
Rest on peace Mama.

HRM Oba Olusayo Oyelowo JP.
The Elelega of Elega Kingdom, Oyo State.

My beloved Aunty,

Thank you for your unconditional love towards me.
You took me into your home from the day you set your eyes on me and made me who i am today.

When I was younger, I thought your were hash, only did I know that you were moulding me to be strong and resilient young lady.

I never told you thank you.
When I look back at my life now, it is you that I see that made me to be a success in life.

My aunty, when I would call you, you always made me laugh with stories you told me and how you handled some situations.
One day I remember, I laughed so much I piss on myself.
Thank you for the laughter.

My beloved Aunty, you are not gone, because you had many children that you touched their life, that lives on, to have wonderful things to say about you.

I can never forget you, because God gave me a granddaughter that is born on your birthday.
I can already see your characteristics in her.

To be absent in the body is to be present in the lord.
Rest in peace my beloved Aunty.
I celebrate your life.
I am going to miss you, thank you for the shelter you gave me.
I love you.

Sister Edna my esteemed sister in law, I am saddened by your passing and I am still processing the news. Your departure has left a void in my life and the lives of all your loved ones. While we are devastated by your passing, we find solace in the understanding that as you transition into eternity, you will be guided by the benevolent hands of the angels of light. I am also reassured that you are in a better place where there is no more pains or sorrow.

Sister Edna, I thank you for accepting me into your family and for raising your beloved sister Sandra, my wife. Thank you for the virtues you instilled in Sandra to make her a wonderful person and a great wife. Thank you for your kindness, devotion and generosity to your family and all those who knew you. I am already missing all your funny stories and jokes that you shared with me whenever we were together that often made me laughed hysterically.

Sister Edna, you lived a fulfilled and accomplished life and you did it your own way.

Sister, you might be gone but we take comfort in knowing that your spirit lives on through cherished memories and the legacy you left behind. You will never be forgotten because your spirit remains alive in our hearts.

I pray to God to comfort your family and all who mourn your passing and to give us the fortitude to bear this loss. May your soul rest in perfect peace my dearest sister in law. Amen.

My sister Edna was more than just a sibling to me; she was a guiding light and a protector.
After the loss of our mother when I was just a toddler, she stepped in without hesitation and took on the role of caring for me. Despite having young children of her own, she made sure I lacked nothing. Her selflessness and love shaped me in ways I will forever be grateful for.

Sister Edna was a remarkable woman—a caregiver, a storyteller, and a role model to many.
Her legacy lives on in the lives she touched and the love she shared.

She was a strong woman, a straight talker who never shied away from speaking her mind. Yet beneath that strength was a heart of gold. She was generous to a fault, always putting others before herself and finding ways to help those in need. She loved life to the fullest, living it with passion and purpose. Sister Edna was also a woman of style and grace—always fashionable and taking great pride in her appearance. That’s one trait of hers that has certainly rubbed off on me, and I’ll carry it as a reminder of her elegance and confidence.

One of the things I will always cherish is her infectious laughter. She had a way of telling stories that would leave everyone in stitches, laughing until tears streamed down her cheeks. Her joy was contagious, and she had a unique ability to light up any room she walked into.

To my niece and nephew, Sheri and Dido, I want you to know how deeply proud your mother was of the lives you’ve built and the people you’ve become. My sister often spoke of her love for you and the joy she felt in seeing you grow into such kind, strong, and capable individuals. Though she is no longer here, her spirit lives on through you, and I know she will always be with you in your hearts and memories.

I will forever be grateful for her and all she did for me. Rest in peace, dear sister. You will always be in my heart.

Mummy, you’ve finished your race.
God called your gracious, generous and caring soul home too soon.
We cannot thank Him enough for granting us a trail-blazing mother so special, so amazing.
Full of life and energy, your faith-filled love for us was boundless.
And when against all odds, you stood your ground to defend the weak and vulnerable.
You broke through many of life's barriers, teaching us to overcome and reach for the stars.
We’ll never forget the marked out Psalm 136 of that well worn Bible of yours.
You introduced it to us in the earlier years of our lives.
And how the cherished memory of its words have stayed with us ever since!

Mummy, your convictions about God making a way were unshakeable.
Your compassion, warmth and infectious laughter could easily lighten up a room with your radiating smile.  
Trusting God to help you turn life's untimely challenges into victories, small and great.
We recall in our younger days how you would sing "experience is the best teacher, but the fees is high".
You tirelessly fought for us, sacrificing much along the way, that we might stand on our two feet!
And always full of those wise words of many years, you opened up your life to help others.
Sharing out what God gave you to give countless others a good start in life.
A mother to many, your kindness was reachable, and changed many lives beyond your shores.
You were beautiful inside and out, and travelled with a light yet very big (big) heart.
And it is a small wonder that to many you were known as "Mama".  

As a wife, you cared and fought for your husband's honour.
We think of the Proverbs 31 woman that God enabled you to be.
Your heart was always to bring Daddy good, that he never suffered harm all his days.
And when he was called to glory, you stood by him by God's strength, unwaveringly advocating for him.

Mummy, your amazing story of God's covenant grace is just beginning a new phase of His goodness.
You have finished your race, strong and full, the one He set for you, in a great mystery.
You have left us with powerful and cherished memories of your sweet presence.
And God, according to His mercy, blessed us to be right there by your side,
At your peaceful passing to glory.

To God be all the praise, honour and glory
To have you as our loving mother, chosen by God.