Dominicus J. Young

To My One and Only Fun-loving Son,
You were my greatest creation and my deepest joy. In our short time together, you taught me more about resilience, pure love, and being present.
I will always remember the way you and I would have our dance tags, bike rides, trips to the park, play our Jenga games and So many more Mother and Son Quality Time. You were a light that didn't just brighten a room;m, you gave it purpose.
While my heart is heavy with the short amount of time we had between your arrival and your departure. I will choose everyday to celebrate the quality of your life. You were loved fiercely, Protected in my heart every second, and you will be Honored through every step I take from this day Forward.

My promise to you is simple, Your name will always stand for Love, and your Legacy will be one of Truth. Rest now, my Sweet (Forever) Young Man. Your mother has it from here.

WITH ALL MY LOVE, Your Mother~Mar'nene Butler

Dominicus, our DJ, had the kind of personality that filled every room he walked into. He was funny, full of joy, curious about the world, and carried an energy that made every moment feel a little brighter. When DJ was around, you felt it.

One of the things that always meant a lot to me was how much he admired the things I could fix around the house. I like to think that seeing that may have played a small part in sparking his interest in becoming an engineer someday. That curiosity was also fostered by Mar’nene and the science projects she helped DJ complete. DJ was always curious about how things worked and eager to learn. As a Manager of Engineering, I was even looking forward to the possibility that one day DJ might come work with me if he chose to follow that path.

Some of my favorite memories are the small moments that showed just how perceptive and thoughtful he was. He understood my dry sense of humor better than most people. More than once he would turn to his mom and explain, “He’s joking,” making sure she knew I wasn’t serious. I still chuckle about that every now and then when I think about it. That was DJ — paying attention, connecting the dots, and enjoying the moment.

I’ll always remember our long bike ride through River Legacy Park, the times we practiced dance moves together, and the night we watched Gremlins. DJ stood behind the couch for the entire movie — watching but keeping a safe distance just in case. It still makes me smile thinking about it.

Every outing, every trip, every simple moment was filled with his high energy and high spirits. DJ had a way of bringing life to everything he did.

One of the most beautiful things about DJ was the relationship he had with his mom. The love between them was something special — the kind of bond you don’t see often. They cared deeply for each other, and it was clear to anyone who spent time with them.

DJ also loved both of his parents very much, which was an admirable trait to see in a young man. I could see the love they had for him as I watched them cheer him on at his basketball, soccer, and flag football games that Mar’nene organized. We all attended those games together when DJ was young and still figuring out which sport he liked best.

When only a few tell a story, the picture can be dim. But when many tell a story, the light begins to shine through. Looking through the many pictures and memories people have shared, it’s clear that DJ had an entire village around him. He had people to laugh with, learn from, and grow with. He was loved by many, and he loved deeply in return.

Thank you to everyone who shared those moments, who loved this young man, and who helped add to his joy. To all the family and friends who grieve, blessings to you.

In just 17 short years, DJ truly lived. He embraced life with enthusiasm and curiosity. In many ways, he showed all of us what it means to seize the day and take every opportunity life offers.

To my wife, Marnene — we have walked through deep fear and uncertainty before when my own son almost lost his life just a few years ago. Now we face the heartbreaking loss of your only son, Dominicus.

Please know that I love you, I grieve with you, and I will stand beside you through this difficult time and every day that follows.

At last, I leave you with this verse. For all who believe in Jesus, we know that death is not the end.

1 Corinthians 15:55–57
“O death, where is your victory?
O death, where is your sting?”

For sin is the sting that results in death, and the law gives sin its power. But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.

With love,
Bonus Dad and husband to Mar'nene

My condolences to the family
DJ was so kind ,always helping me in class. His smile and willingness to help. Am always grateful.

My first God Brother I love you forever . We will always keep you at the top of our minds rest in heaven baby boy you STILL ARE LOVED ❤️

My heart pours out to my friend Marnene and her family. I am praying for you and your family during this difficult time.

-Love,
The Williams family (Natasha)

My sincere condolences and prayers to the entire family May God give you all comfort and strength 🙏

To Marnene

I don't have the words to express my feelings. I remember DJ and the Smiths Kristi and Johnathan baby. That day you all brought your babies to experience going into the pool for a dip. So cute. Dj was quiet, polite, and always smiling. He was always eager to do church projects like Care Bags for the homeless. He was a pleasant young man. I am going to miss him. Marnene my heart bleeds for you and your family, I am praying for you all.
~ Mama Marcie

We lift you in prayer for comfort. We thank God for the time allowed and the forever cherished memories. I love you and I'm here.

Condolences to you and the family, nephew DJ will be missed, continue to ask God for strength. Niece we love you and we will continue to lift you up in prayer.

From: Simmons Family, uncle Joe Sr, aunt Velma cousins: Joe Jr and Jason.

So sorry to hear of your sons’ passing. May God comfort and give your strength. Praying for you and your family.

Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. Matthew5:4

Our prayers and love goes out to DJ’s family, relatives and friends
Special prayers for the family.
God has it all in control and He will not leave you.
My present will be with you all in spirit


Love Archie

A thriving young man gone too soon! I remember DJ being a kid with lots of energy who loved video games and his Mama. He grew up into a fine young man, that took care of his school studies, was intentional about sports and his future, and loved his Mama, my Sis-in-luv, Marnene.

I too have one son and my heart broke for you Sissy when I heard that DJ was gone. Only God can help you with this pain and healing process! I immediately began praying for you daily for God to help you through this tough and trying time, and He will do just that. Just trust Him. I know my brother David is also grieving the loss of his "bonus" son. Help each other through this time and pray like never before! I love you both and Mama and I will be there to say goodbye to an amazing kid and give our support in deed, not just Word.

In God we love and trust!

Your Sissy,
Sherrita
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I send my love as all I can think of is how much DJ was nothing but joy and happiness when I recall his loved ones especially my dear friend Marnene to see her light up with every story about his brilliance and how much energy he has and full of life… speaking his loving spirit out loud..to every life he touched he will be greatly missed-to the family it is with great pleasure to have had just a glimpse of someone who grew up to be such a blessing. My heart my prayers goes out for or you all🙏🏾🙏🏾

I am praying for your strength and comfort. I can say God will see you through these days.
Much love 💗
Ms. Ann

To my older brother, though we never got to hang out as we got older, your presence was always felt. It hurts that we missed out on shared laughter and siblinghood. As we lay you to rest, know you're a missing piece of our family. Your memory will live on until we meet again.I love you DJ💕. ~Your little sister

I will always remember DJ’s competitive spirit and his willingness to help, whether at church or during different events. One memory I will always cherish is how wonderful he was as a baby(toddler) when Rob and I watched him for Marnene and took him with us to a wedding. He was such a good baby, and that moment has always stayed with me. 💛

Sad that [I] missed the memorial but do give [my] condolences. [I] grew up with DJ since elementary school… School is empty without him there. He was very funny and reserved when he wanted to be.