David K Adams

Forever in our thoughts, always in our hearts.

Obituary

David K. Adams, 74, of Murrieta, CA, passed away peacefully on May 23, 2026. Born on September 21, 1951, David led a remarkable life marked by loyalty, humor, and unwavering devotion to his family.

Services details below.

A proud Vietnam veteran, David exemplified courage and commitment, carrying the experiences and bonds of his service throughout his life. Those who knew David quickly learned to expect a grin, a well-timed joke, or a bit of cleverly delivered sarcasm—he was always ready to lighten the mood and make those around him smile.

David was a spirited Raiders fan, never missing an opportunity to cheer on his team. His enthusiasm for the game brought friends and family together, filling his home with energy and camaraderie.

Above all, David was devoted to his beloved wife, Kathy, with whom he shared a deep and enduring partnership for 51 years. He was a loving and involved father to his two children, Justin and Nicole, and Papa to his two grandchildren, Lennon and Blake, cherishing every moment spent together. Whether telling a story, sharing a laugh, or offering wise counsel, David’s presence brought warmth and comfort to all who knew him.

David’s legacy is one of love, laughter, and steadfast commitment to those dearest to him. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered by his family, friends, and all whose lives he touched.

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With Heartfelt Gratitude

On behalf of our entire family, thank you to everyone who joined us to celebrate the life of David K. Adams—whether you were with us in person or virtually.

Your presence, kind words, prayers, flowers, cards, and messages of support have meant more to us than we can express. Seeing so many people come together to honor David's life was a beautiful reminder of the impact he had on those around him.

Thank you to everyone who shared stories, laughter, and tears as we remembered a devoted husband, father, grandfather, family member, and friend. Your love and support have brought us comfort during this difficult time and will continue to carry us forward.

For those who were unable to attend, or for anyone who would like to revisit the service and celebrate David's life again, a recording of the Celebration of Life is available here:

https://vimeo.com/1204578407?fl=pl&fe=vl

We are deeply grateful to everyone who helped make the celebration of his life so meaningful. David will be greatly missed, but his legacy will live on in the memories we share and the lives he touched.

With heartfelt gratitude,

The Adams Family

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June 26, 2026

Thank you big cuz cause if it had not been for you wearing that Raider jersey that day you were flying back home and I checked you in at the airport and found out you were my cousin, lol you were the reason i reconnected with family and for that I am FOREVER GRATEFUL, LOVE YOU BIG CUZ R.I.P #adams

Darnell Adams

June 26, 2026

To my uncle I love u rip. Thanking GOD for such a wonderful uncle. I remember when I graduated from boot camp 1988 in San Diego u and your family came to see me march. Also Aunt Carolyn. After the graduation I had to stand watch. But on Saturday you came to pick me up came over your house with my uniform. I really going to miss from nephew thomas

Thomas Adams

June 25, 2026

We send our deepest condolences to Kathy, Nicole & Justin and to their extended families. We were devastated to hear of David's illness and his passing and are very sorry not to have had the chance to say our goodbyes and share some final laughs with him.
From Paul: I met David when we were both attending Palomar College. He had invited me to his house in south Escondido for one of the best parties I can ever remember, his were always the best!! It was 1976, 50 years ago and I was 19 at the time and had just returned to CA. Our friendship continued when he became a hair stylist and for many years he cut my hair and offered his words of wisdom. He was always positive and never let anything get him down. He was very polite, but didn't hold back when he wanted to get your attention by voicing an opinion, issuing some sarcasm or telling a joke to make you laugh. He was always so witty. He trusted me as his auto technician for many years and a good time was had by all whenever he brought his car in.
From Arah: I met David & Kathy in 1985 when I met Paul. David immediately accepted me into the group and there was always laughter whenever we were together. One of my funniest memories, that David never let me forget, was one Christmas Eve when we were helping the elves assemble toys and I put the stickers on upside down on Nicole's Powder Puff Big Wheel. We laughed for hours and he reminded me of that night every chance he got. Paul and I were so honored to be chosen as Godparents to Nicole and Justin. We were so fortunate that he was able to meet our own children and share his humor with them.
We were truly blessed to have had the privilege to be friends with David and he will be forever missed, especially when the Raider's game is on.
We are so sorry to miss the funeral in person as we are out of state but will be watching online and sending you all our love.

Paul & Arah Smith

June 23, 2026

Rest in peace Uncle. You will be missed.

Geraldine Proodian

May 28, 2026

It takes one to know one, for sure, just as Dave said my Dad was a good man, you were too David, God bless your soul. Good heart, outspoken on anyone taking advantage, protecting family, yes, indeed, you are a good man.

Jim Richards

May 25, 2026

Dave was one of those rare souls who carried strength, energy, and kindness all at the same time. We shared many wonderful moments as neighbors, and I always felt comforted having him around. My wife and kids will be deeply saddened by his passing. I hope that somehow, someday, we will meet again.

With love from the bottom of our hearts,
The Ocanto Family

Have a peaceful journey, brother.

Jose Raul Ocanto