Christine Mains

Chris, I have so many memories with you. I can’t even fit them all here but I wanted to share a few meaningful ones that are a testament to who you are.

Not that long after moving into the ward, you invited me to come do a French cooking class with you. It was so fun and I knew right away we were going to be good friends because we both loved cooking. If someone is new you are so good at making them feel welcome.

We both were Asian gals trying our best to be Asian moms but not be Asian moms. We sent our oldest to tennis camp (because we both love tennis) and that was beginning of the snow-loving, violin-playing friendship of our oldest boys. Let’s not forget kind Melissa drove Jacob from band and would have snacks for him and Ryan who picks up Noah and drops him off. Even your children are a blessing to me. We couldn’t fully admit to being tiger moms but I would tell Phillip we were both cougar moms (in reference to BYU) ha ha

You found out we had a love for snow and invited us to Leadville and Ski Cooper. We fell in love with the place and went almost every spring break. I admired you so much for skiing as much as you could, even though your health sometimes didn’t permit it. I’m so glad we have those memories together. You loved the outdoors and were happy when others were.

Phillip works many holidays. More than once your family served with us at Mercy and the Salvation Army. You loved hearing the kids play. Your family and the Dyers even came on Christmas Day one year. You didn’t care what day it was you were always ready to give.

You brought me a dumpling dough press from China, which I think it was your motto if we can do something easier let’s do it that way.

You brought soup to me after I had the lasik eye surgery. I thought it was going to be a simple surgery and you were so thoughtful to think of me, but you had no idea that it was going to be so rough and my right eye actually didn’t heal for quite some time and I couldn’t see out of it. When I was having really hard days, I would think back to how you had ministered to me and think about how Heavenly Father was aware of my circumstance. You helped me feel His love. I think we can all say “how did she know?” but you just followed the Spirit always.

You were incredible ESL teacher for Riley at Elm Tree. Because she was also from China, she felt right at home with you. It was so wonderful to have such a loving teacher be around her at church, school and our social lives. She adores you. Losing you has been so hard for her but she is learning gospel truths through you.

I didn’t start running until 2018 but you were such an encourager. You had such a bright smile when running when the rest of us were miserable. Haha I’m glad we shared many half marathons together. You didn’t care about your pace, but the joy in the journey and that represents who you were in life. Enjoying the journey.

Esther mentioned to me that you had planned a week of surprises for me when we were having trouble with Gio. Another thoughtful thing you did to show love and I never knew it was you but I should have guessed.

You came and helped me with the food at girls camp even though I hadn’t even asked you to. You’re were always willing to help me with whatever I needed and make my load lighter. Even though I was your ministering sister, but you always ministered to me more. You just were always thinking of others.

Celebrating through Lunar New Year with you and Fan was a highlight for me this year. You knew my back was hurting and we couldn’t do our big event like we wanted to, but you still were willing to come over and celebrate. It was so much fun. I love how you love celebrating anything and everything you can.

This year you brought a huge bouquet of flowers to me and left them on my porch for my birthday early in the morning with an incredible card. You texted me bright and early and said there’s something on your porch waiting for you. The first thing I woke up to a gift from you. That card is in my nightstand and I will treasure it always.

I have a couple regrets. You told me once you wouldn’t mind some red cowboy boots. I should have bought you some. You are just so fun Chris!

Your funeral has been a testament of how many people you have touched through teaching, sharing, serving, loving and bringing light to others.

Your loss is felt Chris but I’m so glad you have no more sickness. I doubt you are resting though. I’m sure you are serving others just as you did here. Love you and miss you my dear friend.

Sister Mains was my teacher in church. She loved me and I loved her! Our class misses her so much and loves her. I know that I will always remember her. And that she helped me through this hard year for me and my family and our ward.

I’ve lost track of how many times I’ve thought to myself that “when I grow up, I want to be Sister Mains!” I felt that way as a 15-year-old young woman, and I still feel that way almost 20 years later. I’m so grateful for her example of joyful discipleship, for her testimony that was often shared in the form of smiles, humor and love. And I’m especially grateful for the waves and thumbs up when we passed each other out running or walking! I’m grateful to Chris for being a personal and spiritual mentor to me as a leader and in the times we were lucky enough to serve together. She was such a pillar of our ward family - Chris, we miss you and I look forward to seeing your smile again!

She was so kind.

Sister Mains was the caretaker of our ward. She was there at the door to greet the nervous new family walking into church, she was in primary comforting the tired sunbeam child, she was the one who made young women want to come to mutual just because they knew she was teaching. Her trusting eyes and beaming smile lightened everyone’s hardest days and her testimony of Jesus Christ was apparent to all who knew her. She was our children’s primary teacher for the last couple years. There were many Sundays that our daughter only came to church because she knew Sister Mains was expecting her. Chris boosted her confidence as a daughter of God and helped strength her love for our Savior. To say the least, she is our hero. We love you Sister Mains.

To know her is to Love her!!!
We all just lost a very bright light in this world but I know it will still shine with us in the many ways she has influenced us all for good. Chris Mains was a dear friend. She had a way of making me feel special and I know that she had that effect on the many people who also consider her a dear friend. She was an eternal optimist and could find the bright side of anything. Chris was a great cheerleader/encourager, so easy to talk to, thoughtful, kind, helpful and service minded. She was so fun and a child at heart!
The moment I heard Chris was in the hospital, my mind raced through so many memories and the many times she had done something kind for me. I know she has been a light to so many people, so I can only imagine how many other people are having similar remembrances of all the good she did and all the love she shared. I remember a Christmas several years ago when I was feeling burned out from life and desperately needed a night out and was so disappointed to be unable to go to a RS/church activity because of an event one of my kids had that same night. She had been so thoughtful to gather up some things handed out at the activity and drop them off to my house that night. It had meant the world to me just to know that someone noticed I wasn't there and cared enough to bring me some little gifts. I remember the meal she brought us when Ashlyn was born. (Chicken Florentine has been a family favorite ever since!!) The peach cobbler she also brought got dropped by my door and she went home and made us another one!! When I passed my Praxis exam, she took me out to celebrate! When I had hand surgery, she came over and helped me wrap all my Christmas gifts and caramels! When I moved last year (which was heartbreaking and overwhelming for me) she helped me pack and move in. When I was having a hard time, she knew just what to say: she was incredibly thoughtful, sweet, nonjudgemental, and full of empathy. My last memory of her was at Bentonville Schools PD in a large crowded hallway; she saw me and said to the person next to her, "hey, I love her!" Just like her to throw out her joy and love everywhere she went.
I love you Chris and the whole Mains family!

Chris was an excellent example of being a righteous daughter of God and I’ve learned a lot about being a mother from her. I always admired her joyous smile, her patience and her willingness to serve. Much love to her and the Main’s family!

Sweet Chris has touched so many hearts with her kindness and goodness! One of my favorite memories of Chris was a few years ago (2017). I was asked to serve as our ward’s Relief Society President (leader of our Women’s church group). Her husband, Todd, was also serving as our wonderful bishop.

I was overwhelmed and humbled, but wanted to do my best. I’ll never forget how loving and supportive Chris was after I was sustained that day. Immediately, she ran over to give me one of her “big hugs and warm smiles.” Then she said, “I raised my hand extra high when your name was called.” That was just so “Chris!” It may have seemed like a small gesture, but it was so genuine and encouraging. She always saw the best in everyone and Christlike. I have no doubt she is doing the same in Heaven. I’m beyond blessed to call her my friend!
Love, Tracy Trudo

I have been privileged to know Chris and the Mains family for 24 years. Here are some attributes I love about Christine.
Celestial
Happy
Ready (for anything)
Inspiring
Serving
Teacher
Intelligent
Nice (& Kind to all)
Everyone’s best friend

The list could certainly go on and on. But this certainly captures who Chris is. She knew how to love anyone and everyone. She served and never wanted recognition. She was always up for adventure. She was kind to everyone. She loved having fun and was up for any challenge that came her.
Some of my favorite memories of Chris:
I loved reminiscing with Chris about the state of Oregon (we both grew up in Oregon) and especially the Oregon coast. We both loved going back home to Oregon and visiting Mo’s seafood. When she would go there she would often send me a photo of her at Mo’s. And I would do the same when I visited Mo’s. One time she came back from her trip to Oregon and brought me a bag of Mo’s clam chowder cracker's!!! I will think of Chris every time I visit Mo’s.
I remember when Chris was diagnosed with Lupus. I thought to myself of all people, why Chris? Chris was always so energetic and involved in all kinds of athletic and physical type of events - she was just such an active person. And to see her so tired and zapped at times was very disheartening. But if there is anyone who won’t let anything get her down it is Chris. And it seemed within a relatively short time Chris was figuring out how to gain her strength back and soon I saw her out jogging and running around the neighborhood again. To me it was miraculous. The Lord loves effort - and Chris gives everything she does 100% of all her effort.
This past year I was privileged to serve with Chris at our church’s temple. This is a place where we strive to ensure that those who come to the temple will not be distracted - so that they can feel God’s love for them and come to a place where they can feel peace in Christ. Chris is the ultimate example of how we should all serve in the temple. She is so kind and gentle with all who came to the temple. She always has her great smile and she really just exudes the love and kindness and peace of our Savior. Chris truly is a beautiful disciple of Jesus Christ.
I love Chris and I love the Mains family. I know Chris loves her family. She has loving parents and siblings. And Chris has raised three incredible children and has helped Todd become the incredible man that he is today. I will greatly miss seeing Chris and her happy smiling face. But I thank God that I have had the privilege to know such an incredible person. And I am thankful I still get to be around Todd and watch their children grow into adulthood. All who knew Chris are deeply blessed. And I know she would want us to pass on her kindness and love to others.
I am thankful for the knowledge That because of Jesus Christ we will all have the opportunity to see Chris again and see that happy smiling face and feel of her genuine kindness.
With love,
Clint Bland

I met Chrus about ten years ago while we were both working at Elm Tree Elementary School. We were instant friends as we had a lot in common and she had this bubbly yet easy-going personality. She was always smiling and we laughed together a lot. I wish I could say we stayed close all of these years, but after working in different schools we didn’t get together. Many times though I have fondly thought of her. Her positivity would make anyone feel good. She will forever be someone that will bring me to a smile. Sending much love to you Chris♥️ (and to your family)

I was blessed to have Chris and Todd train me as a temple worker last year and I have had the privilege of serving with her a few times since. Eventhough I have only known her for a year, I miss her dearly. She is so Christlike, so loving. We need more peole like her on this earth! I am grateful for her wonderful example!

In 1992 someone in an office at BYU decided it would be a good idea to take a random group of girls and assign them to live together in the basement apartment of Wells Hall 151. That fall I met Chris, and my life changed forever. When you live with someone you get to see every side of them and truly know them, and after living with Chris for 3 years until I was married, I can honestly say she was one of the best people I’ve ever known.

Chris was like a sunbeam put into human form. Her beautiful bright smile radiated goodness and lit up a room. She was full of energy and a love of life. This meant we stayed up way too late on a regular basis for late night movies at the Varsity Theater, dancing at the Wilke, the Palace, or Jakes, or just to take late night walks and talk, especially after it rained. It meant Chris was always up for an adventure - so we did a lot of hiking, snowball fights, donuts in parking lots, picnics, and hosting. She was a person who naturally gathered people. She sought out the one, frequently leaving the group to go sit or walk with someone who was alone and left them feeling warm and loved after every interaction. She invited anyone and everyone into her circle and her life; because of that she always had an abundance of friends and people who loved her around.

Chris loved to learn new things. While most people were trying to get through college as quickly as possible, Chris saw every semester as a new opportunity for growth beyond just book learning. I have never seen anyone so excited to learn how to make a jello salad or spaghetti sauce from scratch, buy tap shoes to take a tap class, decide since you now live in Utah you have to learn how to ski and practice wearing your ski gear in the apartment so you’re ready, or ask the guys from the ward how to best tackle someone. Years later when we were deciding on activities for a roommate reunion, Chris said we should all teach each other something new we’d learned since being roommates. I still have the fleece blanket she taught me to tie there and have used that skill for MANY service activities, I think her love of learning combined with her love of people is why she was such an excellent teacher.

Despite her small stature, Chris was a spiritual giant. Even as a freshman away from home for the first time I would often find her studying her scriptures or she would ask a gospel question and then we would work to find the answer and talk about it. She was excited to accept church callings, the best Family Home Evening mom BYU has ever seen, always willing to teach a lesson, joined the ward choir every year and supported every church sponsored activity she could. But more than that she understood God’s plan and what it meant to be a disciple of Christ. She treated others as the Savior would, and consistently lived a life serving others and bringing them to him, whether through her mission, as an EFY counselor, getting involved in BYUSA’s service week and activities, or simply leaving encouraging notes or making her roommates bed during finals week.

As one of the last roommates to find her eternal companion, she would sometimes wonder why it was taking her longer. I used to joke with her that it was a case of “last the best of all the gang,” and I honestly think that was the case. I remember the day she first told me “I think I found the one” and then proceeded to tell me about Todd and the pure joy in her voice. Chris always had a light, but when she first introduced me to Todd that light was shining even brighter and I knew he must be incredible to have won her heart.

Through the years, no matter how much time passed between visits or conversations, things always picked up right where they left off. I always knew I could call her for advice or to get her thoughtful perspective on anything I was dealing with. Often through the years I have asked “how would Chris respond to this” and then felt confident moving forward the way I thought she would. And although I am heartbroken that it will be so long before we get to have our next conversation, I know the Heavens are rejoicing that she is there, and that when we do there will be lots of hugs, things will pick up right where they left off, and I will feel light and love from her like I always do.

Her unfailing kindness -the beauty of her and her family -super cool husband and the greatest children i ever had the honor to teach- looking forward to seeing her again someday we will know her by her smile

i hope this quote will be acceptable- it is intended with the greatest honor and respect for her, her Savior, and her Heavenly Father and the beautiful family, her Fathers house, and temple where she dedicated her life

"And I saw the spirits of the just, which had been saved, walking upon the earth; and they told me that they were the spirits of men who had died in the faith of the gospel, and who had been redeemed from the world, and had come to visit their brethren; and I saw their glory, and it was exceeding great; and I saw the glory of the Son of God, and it was greater than all; and I saw the glory of the Father, and it was the greatest of all." -Joseph Smith

"她永远活在我们心中，激励我们做该做的事"
She will forever live in our hearts, inspiring us to do what we should do."

Chris was known at ETE as the happiest, kindest, most welcoming person. She always had one of her beautiful smiles on her face!l, even if she was having a bad day, you would never know it. We used to always say that we wanted to be more like her!
One of my favorite experiences with Chris was completing a half marathon, this might not seem like a big deal to some, but it was a huge deal to me, as this is something I would never have even thought about doing, with her encouragement and coaching through the whole race, we did it together. It is an experience I will never forget and am so proud of, thanks to Chris! She has touched so many lives in so many ways. I will miss her and think of her everyday!

I will never forget the first time I met Chris. Her son, Ryan, was in my Kindergarten classroom. She had such a joy about her and was always willing to help. Soon after, she came to work at Elm Tree and continued to bless our school with her kind, gentle spirit. She always loved to collaborate with staff and extend support wherever needed. Chris was always the first to volunteer if help was needed anywhere. She had such a servant's heart daily. Her contagious smile, kindness, and knowledge will be missed. She touched the heart of the students that she worked with and the staff. She was the kind of Human that we all should strive to be... the world was brighter with her in it. I cannot wait to see her again one day. I love you, precious friend.

I will always be so grateful for knowing Chris. I remember so long ago when our cute kids were at Elm Tree together. It was always so much fun to see eachother and cheer for our families together. As our families got older and kids grew it was always so fun to see eachother and catch up and to feel your amazing love and true joy in everything you did. Always a smile and always kindness and happiness. I will forever cherish my friendship with Chris and Todd. So thankful for so many wonderful memories and examples of kindness and love. Chris you will be missed in so many ways. But I know you have touched so many lives here and I know that you have already been continuing on with being amazing you.
Love you
Misti Harris

Chris was a joy to be around. I am going to miss her cheerful attitude and kindness. I loved how she always made everyone around her feel loved and saw the good in everyone and everything. She taught me to not judge others, treat everyone with kindness regardless, and embrace the moment. So many fun memories to be cherished forever. I hope to develop her same gifts for positivity, kindness, and goodness. Can’t wait to see you again.

Chris has always been so kind and welcoming. I have always enjoyed being around her and experiencing her warm and calm energy. She has planted so many seeds of goodness and caring into this world, they will continue to grow for a long time.

Chris had the warmest smile and made everyone feel loved and welcome. You will be missed <3

I have 2 things to share - 2 times Chris impacted my life that still to this day have an effect on me.
Chris gave a lesson in RS one Sunday. She talked about how much she did not like running hills. She said she had talked to someone about how to get over this dislike of running hills. The advice she got was to run more hills. She said she had been putting that to the test and slowly it was starting to work. She likened this to the hard things we have to do in life. I loved this so much that I have taught this princple of "running hills" to my children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews.
The 2nd share I have is I was frantically gettig ready for an event at my house. My door bell rang and there was Chris. She did not know this was going on. She said she was in my area (which was not anywhere near where she lived or worked) and had a free hour - she wanted to know what she could do for me for the next hour. Now if I had had a free hour - I probably would have spent it on myself but not Chris, she spent it on me. She brought that big beam of light of hers into my kitchen and chopped and talked and lifted me up.
The world is going to be different now without her bright beam of light. Her friendship and example will impact me for the rest of my life and for the generations that follow me.
I love you so much Chris!
I love you so much Todd, Eric, Melissa and Ryan!

Being Chris's younger cousin, I always looked up to her. She was the cool cousin everyone loved to be around. I remember when she was an EFY counselor—she was so energetic and positive, just loads of fun to be with. She was confident and fearless, and I remember thinking I wanted to be like her when I was older. She has always been a great example of serving the Lord through her mission, EFY, teaching at the MTC, temple service, and other church callings. Chris and Todd are spiritual giants! Whenever I had a problem or question, she would lovingly and patiently take time out of her busy schedule to help me think through my dilemma. When my husband and I were at BYU, Chris and Todd would have us over for dinner. That was the first time I ever had soup in a bread bowl—who knew you could do that? Chris, thank you for sharing your light and positivity with everyone around you!

The last time I saw Chris Mains was in the parking lot at one of our PD days at the beginning of this school year. A group of us were walking into the building and she was in the passenger seat of a car that went by. She had her arms hanging out the window and yelling out to us, "hello to my favorite people!!!" With the biggest smile on her face. Man, I wish I could have hugged her neck that day.
One of her many gifts was making every person feel special. She was never shy to give a compliment to you in the most genuine way, and make YOU feel amazing.
Her smile and attitude was infectious. So many have said how she was such a light in this world, and I have to agreee completely.
Since her passing, I have been reflecting about the loss of one of the most amazing people I have ever met. And she impacted so many in the most positive way that I feel she left a piece of herself on each person that she touched. May we not forget that. May we each attempt to take on the light that she emulated in this world and keep spreading it to others. Chris, thank you for your love and your example. You showed us what it looked like to be the hands and feet of Jesus. ♥️

Chris Mains, I now know I am going to live a very long life because it will take me many, many years to accomplish a small percentage of what you have in your short life. We have cooked together, ski’d together, ran together, served together, hiked together, biked together, and tried to be Asian together. You were a friend and teacher to all. Your radiant smile and positive glow attracted people to you. You said “it will all work out” to me so many times. You loved my children like they were your own. I know your important mission continues and that you will continue to bless those lucky enough to know you. Farewell to my very best Asian friend.

I sure am going to miss this beautiful soul. Chris Mains was the kindest and most positive person I've ever met. Her love for her students and just people in general was evident in everything she did. I will miss carpooling down to ARKTESOL with her and hearing all her stories. Rest in Jesus my friend.

My heart CANNOT process this news! 💔 Every loss hurts, but this one is a gut punch! Please pray for this sweet family during this devastation!
Chris Mains, I’m so glad my last memory with you was a running hug attack to each other! I’m so going to miss those!! Anyone who knew you felt loved and treasured!!
“The Lord is close to the broken-hearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed.”
Psalm 35:18

Chris Mains, you will be forever missed my friend. I’m so glad we got to catch up a couple weeks ago. You are truly one of the nicest people with the most genuine love for children. God bless your family at home and at school. You are a tremendous loss. 🙏

The angels have gained one of the best teachers I have ever had the pleasure teaching with. Mains was a TRUE Marigold. 🌼
I learned so much from her in a short time. She had such a big heart and was always so happy. We took a picture together the first day of school this year at the spur of the moment. It’s crazy how life changes at the spur of the moment. Big prayers for her family and my new school family as we treasure her memory. Fly high and teach on amazing Mains. 😇

My heart just breaks at this news. Chris was one of the most exceptional people. The connections she made were a lasting impression. I always felt at home speaking with her and sharing updates on family. My heart is broken at this news but I rest in the power of seeing her one day again. Our world is a little bit more dim. Love you big, Chris Mains ❤️
Pray for this sweet and amazing family.

I am really sad to see that Chris is no longer with us, I can’t quite process this yet. Chris Mains you were always welcoming, bubbly and smiling. I don’t know what happened, but this angel went to heaven much too soon. I wish I had seen her recently, but it had been a while. We became quick friends at Elm Tree, but when I changed school we soon lost touch and just ran into each other now and again (kept saying to each other we need to get together). Life is fleeting, see fri… See more

Last week I lost one of my dearest friends, and I’ve been thinking for days about how to formulate actual words to pay tribute to her.
Chris was so thoughtfully and purposely well-spoken. She never held back a kind word or a compliment. She’d generously tell you something very specific that she admired about you, and how she would hope to improve in that particular thing, or ask how you did something so well, etc. Without fail, when we met for a run, her first question was always along of the lines of: How did your presentation go? How’s your dad/brother/friend doing? How did that seminary lesson turn out? How’s Jimmie’s job? She had a way of making whomever she was talking to feel like the most important person in the world, including her family and children. She loved going to support them in all of their activities.
One of my favorite phrases to hear Chris say was, ‘Well, Kasey, you planted a seed.’ 🌱😊 This occurred usually within a week of when we first discussed a new possible race to train for and register. We’ve had many great adventures, and the trail or greenway was where we had our best conversations and grew our crazy race ideas (like 200-mile overnight relays and travel marathons). It’s also where we grew our friendship over +20 years. While running, we felt most free to share our challenges and our triumphs, where we were feeling strong, and where we were struggling; encouraging each other to keep it up, one lamp post, one mile, or one week at a time.
I remember last summer when my parents were visiting, my mom and I unexpectedly ran into Chris while she was volunteering at the temple open house. There she was with her bright smile and sparkling eyes, standing just inside the door to welcome us. She met my mom, and I burst into tears as I finally introduced two of my very special people to one another. I imagine that’s what heavenly reunions must feel like, and I’m sure Chris is already spreading her bright light and positivity there, just as she did while she was here with us. Chris is a true disciple of Jesus Christ and she loved everyone BIG. I will miss her greatly, and I am forever a better person for having been her friend!

Chris was a cheerleader of persons!
Like so many I was a running buddy of Chris’. In 2019 we trained for the Mount Charleston Marathon together. She would not only encourage me through our many conversations along the way but she would push me to run harder and fast. She would say, “I can tell you have more juice in the tank, go Mary run faster you got this!” We got to go to the temple the day before our race too, that and a trip to In and Out for a pregame burger.
I always loved seeing Chris, I knew I was going to walk away feeling loved and lifted. Thank Chris, I will carry your warmth, cheer and love always!

When I joined the church last year, I was always intrigued by the temple. When it came my first few time in the temple, it was beautiful, bright, peaceful and felt like home. That is where I first met Sister Mains. To me, she was the perfect example to be like Christ, and the type of person Heavenly Father wanted to serve in the House of the Lord. Seeing her in the Baptistery and how eternally grateful she was to be there was inspirational. She was a very bright light in this world. In my testimony in the temple, Sister Main plays a part in it, and how that Heavenly Father places these people in his House to show His Love, to welcome us into his Home. I’m eternally thankful for Sister Mains’ humble spirit, fantastic advice, and her selflessness.

Todd , Erik, Melissa and Ryan,

What a privilege it is to have a friend like Chris Mains. For over 22 years she has been a bright light in our family’s life and so many others. Her sweet smile and humble heart was always present in our conversations. We will remember Chris as the always engaged, generous friend who listened before she spoke, and was a sincere and ever present friend to everyone she met.

As we reflect, we are eternally grateful for the memories of game nights, school assemblies, church events and accomplishments, birthday parties, pool parties at memorial park (including fun with “everyone’s favorite aunt Kim”), days at the lake, long days and nights working together to help finish each other’s attic and we can’t forget the day Chris sensed my fear of teaching our young Mariah to drive and stepped right up without skipping a beat and volunteered to teach her! Truly a brave soul. 💛

Wonderful, blessed events. We love each of you and continue to be in awe of your love and strength. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
Until we meet again Chris!! ❤️
Love Kendall Kate Mariah Makenna Ally Chase and Caroline.

The included image is from Adam & Ally (Wilcox) Edwards Wedding. September 22, 2023

My life is so much better having had Chris and the whole Mains family in my life! She was eternally optimistic and had a genuine love for anyone and everyone. Her example has meant so much in my life and I know has impacted me in more ways than I probably even know. She had the most contagious testimony of the Savior, showed up for others, and helped me look for the joys even in hard things in life. I was reminded while reading this tribute how she is the one that taught me how to play Rummikub, and I remember her and I just playing it together when I was younger. I’m so grateful for all the memories my family has shared with an incredible individual and family. Sending love to each of you - Todd, Erik, Melissa, and Ryan.

Sweet Chris-
My church cleaning, school talking, and corn dip loving, friend! You have been and will continue to be a beautiful example of what sincere service, joy, and genuine generosity looks like. Your amazing smile and bubbly personality lit up the world.......a ray of sunshine and a little ball of dynamite all in one package! You were so much to so many. We love you our precious friend and neighbor. Love, The Isabells

I met Chris when we were EFY counselors together. Was had so much energy and joy! She spread light and love everywhere she went!!! I can’t help but smile when I think of her little body running around doing good, serving counselors and youth, doing EFY cheers, sharing testimony and giving hugs, etc.


Philippians 1:3
“ I thank my God upon every remembrance of you,”

Enos 1:27
“ And I soon go to the place of my rest, which is with my Redeemer; for I know that in him I shall rest. And I rejoice in the day when my mortal shall put on immortality, and shall stand before him; then shall I see his face with pleasure, and he will say unto me: Come unto me, ye blessed, there is a place prepared for you in the mansions of my Father. Amen.”

2nd Timothy 4:7-8
“ I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith:

8 Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing.”

Text sent on 09/05/24…

Todd - I will never forget a powerful testimony I heard from a man whose wife had passed years before. He truly rejoiced in their joint partnership and unique ability to work together on family history from both sides of the veil at the same time. His faith and joy left a lasting impression on me. I have no doubt you will someday stand boldly and share the same story.

Chris was not one to waste any time. I am sure she has already found someone to direct her to those in need. She’s probably reviewing last weeks come follow me and brushing up on this week. I bet she’s praying that the Lord will comfort all of us. She is hugging loved ones and friends from the past.

Huge hugs to you and prayers for comfort. I have so much love for you and your family. - Ashlee

Text message sent on 09/04/24:

Chris - I love you! I love you with a tinder and grateful love. You have truly been an instrument in the Lord’s hands and helped me overcome the most difficult earthly challenges I have ever faced. You were by my side always.

Before I became active, you reached out and invited me to accompany you on ministering visits. You were so in touch with the spirit. We had never met before but your was so strong that you knew “seeds needed to be planted.”

A few years later, Rodney decided to investigate the church and you were there waiting and ready to jump into not my life. Your entire family blessed our lives tremendously. On September 18, 2018 my family knelt together in the Kansas City Temple, and were sealed together for time and all eternity. You and Todd were with us in the sealing room that day.

In 2019 when my life fell apart, you promised me that the Lord had a plan for my life, that he loved me, and that he was grieving with me. You helped me learn to cope with my new life. You helped me redefine happiness. You walked beside me and lifted me up.

Chris, I am confident that you were part of the Lord’s plan for my life. It was no coincidence. I am eternally grateful for you. I know you will continue to bless the lives of those around you. Your thoughts, words, and actions will forever influence every person you have ever met. I am a better person because of you. I want to be like you. Being like you will bring me closer to Christ. - Ashlee

Text message sent on 09/03/24. Todd shared with Chris:

Chris - I stopped by LR yesterday. Your husband is such a great man! I have always been amazed at his dedication to the Lord and service to all. I was so impressed by his strength, confidence, and patience. I love how he is sharing so much with you.

I’m not sure you will ever comprehend the effect you have had on my life. I love and appreciate you beyond words! You have been an Earthly ministering Angel to me. Your words are truly inspired. Thank you for walking beside me on the journey through the toughest days of my life. Thank you for helping me keep everything in perspective. Thank you for loving and serving me.

As you heal and gain strength, I will walk with you. I will cheer you on. I will remind you of all the good and beauty in this life. I simply cannot wait to walk beside you again.

Chris was always positive about every situation. She always looked on the bright side and always put effort into making sure everybody was having a good day. I don’t ever remember seeing or hearing Chris speak negatively or critical about or to anyone. She was a real light to the world .

Todd and Chris value relationships, service and love. Todd is my cousin but always feels more like a brother. Our family lived in China for nine years and in that time, Todd visited us over a dozen times. These were highlights for me as he would always bring us a large box of items on my American wish list. He would go out of his way to stay with us even if his next meeting was several hours away. As Todd spoke with Chris on the phone, I admired how she could remain calm during these extended visits to Asia. She seemed to always have everything under control at home and was completely supportive of Todd doing his work halfway around the globe. What a treat for us when twice Chris came along too!! Her love for life and adventure is contagious. Her smile lights up the room and her positive attitude lifts everyone around her. She has this steady rhythm about her and grounded perspective that couldn’t be ruffled. She is gracious and helpful to all those in her path. Chris, your influence and testimony of Christ will live on. Our heart breaks thinking of this world without you, but our sadness is not one of despair…it is filled with hope! You are near, and we will all be reunited again! Todd, Erik, Melissa and Ryan you are in our prayers.

(Pictures: Easter 2011 in Shanghai, Christmas 2014 in Shanghai, September 2023 in Bentonville, and June 26 2011 memorial for Grandpa Mains in Pennsylvania)

Chris always brought sunshine to those around. It was so wonderful to be in her presence. She was always smiling and working hard to make things happen for the benefit of all. That bright attitude was seen in all her children. I had the privilege of having Melissa as a student. I wanted to always be better like she was.

Whenever I was with Chris, she would make me feel like I was important to her. That, somehow, I would brighten her day - when, in fact, she would brighten mine. She will be missed.

Chris is a amazing person . Any room she walked in she made you feel special . She is truly one of a kind and so loved

As long as I can remember Chris has been there for me. Whether it was driving together out to my first year of BYU or cracking up laughing in the temple. When we lived together at Presidio and then when I came back from my mission and we played kung fu at her apartment while Todd was working at Wal-Mart. Chris taught me that keeping commitments was important and her Christ-like example has always guided me down the right path. Chris is the person who I turned to when I had life troubles. She always had the advice I needed to hear or she had a story of her own to share. She made everything ok. She sent me the best Instagram reels that would make me smile. Chris showed me how to love life and do the things you love. Chris, I love you. I will watch over your family and I will see you at the finish line on the other side.

There are so many words that I can use to describe Chris. Joy is the first word I think of when I think of her. She had such a zeal and love for life! She had such a cheery disposition and made me feel like her favorite person when she was with me. I have happy memories with her—sharing a laugh together, going on a nice walk wherever we were, talking about life, cooking in the kitchen, and sharing delicious treats with her. She always asked the best questions and loved with her whole heart. She has shown so much love and kindness to me over the years, always cheering me on—she gave the best hugs and loved me without reservation. I will be forever grateful for all the memories I have with her.

She taught me many things about being a wife, mother, and friend. She exemplified Christlike love and showed me through small and simple ways—joy can be had, even in the most challenging situations.

It has been the greatest gift to have Chris in my life as my sister and friend. ♥️

Hey Chris, been a moment. I was so glad to see you at Nathan’s wedding. It would have been too long if not. One vivid memory I have of you was the weekend I was getting married to Mike. The three of us were standing there and you looked mike straight in the face and, in a kind of warning way, said, “ if you do anything to hurt my cousin… (implied).” And you meant it. lol. I was kind of surprised you said anything, but it was coming from your heart. Mike told me later, that’s the 3rd warning he’s received since meeting my family. I told him, “well I guess he better be careful. lol.”
Chris, you will be forever missed. Missed by so many. You’ve always been one of the most compassionate, patient, and loving people I’ve known.
I wish you the best on your next journey - as it is obvious the Lord needs you now. You and Kimmy (both). Know we all wait to see you again, especially Todd, Eric, Melissa and Ryan. {{BIG ETERNAL HUGS}}
~ your cousin, Jana

This is Mary Arrington, one of Anne and David’s daughters. I just wanted to say that Sister Mains made a deep impact on me. I can remember when she taught my Sunday school class when I was a teenager. Class was always painfully awkward because the boys my age never wanted to say anything or engage in the lesson, so I felt like it was “uncool” to be spiritual. I tried to engage anyway, but it was so uncomfortable. plus, it was just an awkward phase for me personally.

Lessons could be mind numbingly dull, but Sister Mains was so cheerful and bright from the moment she walked in the door. She was able to thaw our awkwardness and get us to actually talk with her warmth and genuine kindness.

I remember that she asked us to consider what we liked about ourselves, and she gave the example of liking her calves and how she was really proud of them now. For me as a very insecure teenage girl that was taught my social media and school to hate my appearance, I was amazed at her confidence and positivity. It really made me pause and think, “Whoa, so, it’s okay to like my body?”

The spirit she brought into the room was beautiful. She just radiated light, and she is one of the most genuine people I’ve ever met. I’m so grateful to have known her and been touched by her life.