Chesca Nery (Tan)

Working with Chesca was truly a gift. Her passion for her work was unmatched—driven, creative, and full of heart. She had a rare ability to run with anything, no matter how complex or uncertain, and she did it with a level of dedication and drive that inspired everyone around her.

Chesca was the kind of teammate you could trust completely—someone who didn’t just deliver, but did so with heart. She led with care and warmth, meeting every interaction with genuine kindness. And somehow, she had this effortless, beautiful way of winning people over. Her openness, her humor, her optimism—she made spaces brighter simply by walking into them.

I feel incredibly lucky to have shared so many meaningful memories with her. I can’t count how many postcards she helped me build during our Accenture project back in Manila. She didn’t just assist—she taught me. And she taught me so well that it inspired me to make my own wedding invitations. And of course, she showed up again when I needed invitations for Ethan’s birthday. That was Chesca—always giving, always there, always sharing her talents with love.

Beyond work, our connection was personal. When I needed a godmother for my son Ethan here in the US, she volunteered without hesitation, with such genuine joy. She became part of my family, not just in title but in the way she cared.

She also stood by me in my hardest moments. When I opened up about the pain of losing my mom, she listened deeply, compassionately. I’m grateful that our talks touched her too—that they inspired her to travel and eventually bring Cassie to visit family in the Philippines. Knowing that meant so much to me.
And then came a pain none of us were prepared for—the loss of her daughter, Cassie. That heartbreak shook all of us. Cassie was like a daughter to our entire Accenture SoCal circle. Losing her was devastating, and seeing Chesca carry that grief with such strength was both humbling and heartbreaking. I admired her resilience more than she ever knew.

I vividly remember the day she invited me to lunch, only to find out she was sick. My heart broke all over again. From that moment on, I carried her in my thoughts constantly—wondering what small things I could do, how I could support her, how I could lighten even a tiny piece of her burden. I wanted her to feel, in every way possible, that she was never facing anything alone.

One of the greatest honors of my life was learning—from her mom—that Chesca looked up to me. I will never forget that. Because in truth, I looked up to her too. Her strength, her kindness, her laughter, her brilliance—these are the things that will forever stay with me.

Chesca was more than a colleague. She was family. I treated her and her family as my own. Her absence leaves a space in our lives that can never be replaced.

But we carry her with us—in the memories, in the lessons, in the love she gave so freely. In the way she made us feel. In the way she lived.

Thank you, Chesca. For the joy, the wisdom, the compassion, the friendship, and the love. You will always be remembered. Always cherished. And always deeply missed.

May you and Cassie rest in eternal peace.

I may not have always been present in your life, but you always showed me kindness. Ches, back in 2018 you showed me one of the most generous acts of kindness when you lent me money to help with my apartment. I was struggling, and even without me asking, you stepped in and helped—that’s the kind of person you were. I loved singing with you; you were always a true rockstar. I will always remember Ches for her kindness, generosity, and beaming personality. Her love for karaoke and the joy she brought to every moment will continue to shine brightly in our hearts.

Ches and Frank, we always remember you when we pass by Wildflour Podium where we talked about your planned wedding. We’re sad to see you go, Ches, but your love for and from your family and friends transcends this world.

I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Chesca. Working with her was truly a gift. Chesca brought kindness, patience, and genuine warmth into every interaction, and made our workplace better just by being in it. I’ll always remember her positivity and the way she treated everyone with respect. My thoughts are with her family and loved ones during this difficult time. May she rest in peace.

Ches...it still seems unreal.

This is my 3rd attempt. The last 2 times I tried to write something were in vain. I guess it's hard to type when your eyes are filled with tears.

I don't know if I ever told you this, but in the early stages of our friendship I wasn't quite sure if we'd vibe. You were so quiet that I had mistaken it as being standoffish, but I'm glad to find out I was wrong. You're one of the sweetest and most genuine people I knew - quiet, reserved, shy.

You've been present in a lot of the milestones in my life - from our first pregnancy announcement, to the baby showers and the kids' birthday parties.

Thank you for your friendship, Ches. It still seems surreal. We will miss you, but we're comforted to know that you're no longer suffering and you're with Cassie

Chesca was a wonderful person. I will always remember her kindness and beautiful smile. May she rest in peace. 🤍

In loving memory of a soft-hearted and kind woman who always helped others. She will live in our memories.

Chesca was such an amazing person. She was calm, collective, soft spoken and organized. She lead with example and managed her work efficiently. She was always positive and had an unmatched passion for her work. She will be remembered for her kindness. May her soul rest in peace.

Chesca is one of the sweetest souls you could ever meet. I still can’t quite believe you’re gone, but I want you to know that I will always treasure our friendship. I hold so close to my heart the memories of our karaoke nights, wandering around Manila looking for the perfect spot, and all of us staying up late at my place.

I’ll never forget our live choir performance of Seasons of Love during our early years at work, or your visit to Seoul and that beautiful trip to Nami Island and around the city. And every time I thought about visiting LA, I was always excited knowing it meant an adventure with you and a wonderful meal shared together.

Thank you for all the laughter, love, and moments that will stay with me forever.

Ches was the sweetest soul—quiet, thoughtful, and deeply meticulous. A teammate you could trust to run with it, who led with care and warmth and could win anyone over. I feel incredibly lucky to have shared meaningful memories and moments of fun together. Taken far too soon. She’s with Cassie, and I hold that image with love. Rest in peace. 🤍

I met Ate Myca in 2022, and since then, she has showered me with kind compliments and gifts. We even bonded over being July babies. I wish I could've gotten to know you longer. We'll continue to honor your memory in our hearts. 😢 Rest in peace, ate myca 🙏

We would have small chats during recog practices and worked together for our yearbook. Apart from being responsible and a true leader lives by all, she loved her classmates deeply and her writing shows not just mastery of English, but sincerity of the heart. I am blessed to have known a true angel like you :)

Your story truly touched my heart, Chesca. Your strength, love, and hope shine so brightly through everything you shared. Thank you for allowing us to witness your journey with such grace and courage. Your fight was meaningful, and your legacy will live on. Rest peacefully.

Although I only had the chance to work with Chesca for a short time, you made a lasting impression. Your kindness and humility stood out, and you handled challenging situations smoothly and effectively. You made a positive impact on the team and set an example for others. It's hard to believe you're no longer here. You will always be remembered. Rest in peace.

You were a remarkable leader, mentor, and guide. Your kindness, positivity, and support left a lasting impact on my life. I will always remember you in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in Peace.

My first theater experience in the U.S. was back in January 2018, when Ches asked us to go watch Rent. She picked us up from the house, dropped me off afterward, and sang in the car the whole time—she and her husband both had such great voices. I still remember her excitedly explaining their hybrid Toyota Prius like a salesperson, which was actually the first time I’d ever heard of that car. That whole night stuck with me and got me into watching theater and really appreciating how amazing the actors are, and years later I even ended up buying my own hybrid car.

I'll always remember your kindness and friendship Ches. You'll be forever in my heart. Take care of Cassie ok?

I worked with Chesca on the L3 coordination effort, and I can say she was a great person to work with; she engaged with me on issues and picked up quickly on the many discussions we had. I sincerely send my condolences to the family and her loved ones, RIP.

It was a pleasure working with Chesca on a couple of project here. She was always positive and knew how to cheer up the day with you. She help our project move forward to meet our task deadlines. May she rest in peace and love to her and her family.

It has truly been an honor working with you. Your commitment, hard work, and expertise have been deeply appreciated by every team member as well as our clients. You will be greatly missed!

Your absence leaves a profound void; I am deeply grateful for the time we shared and will forever carry your memory in my hearts.

It was always a pleasure and an honor working with you Chesca. You helped me so much on a lot of the projects we both worked on and I can't thank you enough for always lending a hand, patiently explaining things even when times were stressful. You always had a gentle and calm demeanor and dedicated to your work. I remember feeling seen and heard by you, especially when things got crazy busy and at times confusing. I'm glad you're no longer in pain and can rest easy with your daughter Cassie. We need more Chescas in this world....

Rest in peace Chesca. Our prayers are with your family.