
Catherine Margaret Josephine (Frisz) Conrady

In loving memory of a life well-lived and deeply cherished. Catherine had a truly creative and vibrant soul.
Obituary
Catherine Margaret Josephine Conrady, a woman of sharp wit, boundless ambition, and an adventurous spirit, passed away peacefully on December 30, 2025, at Providence Health Care at St. Mary-of-the-Woods, Indiana. She was 93.
Born on Mother’s Day in 1932, Catherine’s life was colored by a unique childhood at The Shades State Park, managed by her father, Fabian Frisz. These formative years among the trees alongside her sisters Barbara, Elizabeth, and Cece, instilled in her a lifelong love for Indiana’s natural beauty. After attending Immaculate Conception Academy in Oldenburg—where she famously and fiercely competed with her sister Barbara for the best grades—Catherine set her sights on the world.
She moved to Chicago to attend the prestigious Katharine Gibbs Secretarial School, harboring dreams of high-powered careers and global travel. Her ambition led her to the CIA in Washington, D.C., where she worked for the head of the French department, often recalling the high-stakes environment where even typewriter ribbons had to be locked away at night.
It was in D.C. that Catherine’s life took a romantic turn. At the suggestion of a classmate, she looked up a handsome Naval Academy midshipman named Denis Conrady. Faced with a choice between her CIA career and a life with Denis, she chose love. They were married just after Christmas in 1954, beginning a 60-year journey that took them across the United States and the world.
While raising her children, Denise and David, in Florida, Ohio, Colorado, Massachusetts, and Texas, Catherine never stopped growing. She balanced secretarial work with evening classes in French and art. When the family settled in North Texas, she turned her "hobby" into a profession, earning her Bachelor’s degree in Interior Design from NTSU the same year her daughter graduated high school. She founded her shop, Designs for Today, and through perseverance became one of Denton’s most successful designers, proving to herself and to her younger classmates that she was a force to be reckoned with.
In 1987, Catherine followed her heart back to Indiana, purchasing a Victorian shotgun house in Terre Haute in need of renovation. She spent years meticulously transforming it into her "dream house" on South Center Street, eventually moving back permanently in 2006. She became a pillar of the Terre Haute community, active in the Historical Society and the Newcomers Society, where her decorating talents and leadership earned her the "Newcomer of the Year" honors.
In her later years, Catherine finally achieved her dream of seeing the world. Alongside Denis and her sisters, she cruised the globe—from the Baltic Sea and the Danube to China, Australia, and the southern tip of South America.
Catherine is survived by her daughter, Denise; her son, David (Catherine); grandsons Thomas (Chris) and Alexandre (Melanie); and five great-grandchildren: Bruce, Luke, Isa, Ivy, and Jack. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband Denis and her sisters.
She leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion that will be treasured by her family, friends, and community.
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She shared my love for Lawrence and Kansas City, and I always had a blast when she visited me, either with Mom or Uncle Denny or both. She was delighted to find Calamity Jane’s, a dress shop on Mass Ave, where she bought a lacy, retro-prairie chic dress (lavender, naturellement) that she wore to Amy’s wedding. She shared my love of whimsical art that we found in unexpected places. Most of the art I own was purchased during expeditions with her, or given to me by her, or by Mom based on BAC’s recommendation.
She knew I admired the Eastlake bedroom set she had (it was worth almost as much as her Italianate gingerbread house on South Center). She saw one in Indianapolis, negotiated an incredible price, bought it tax-free through her business, got it delivered to an antique restorer in West Terre Haute who converted the bed from full-size to queen, and only then called me to say she found just the right thing for me. She didn’t have to ask me if I wanted to buy it before she went out on a limb and paid for it. She understood what people wanted sometimes before they knew it themselves. All I had to do was rent a U-Haul and get it to Kansas City.
Mom’s house at 9 Adams was a BAC joint. It was warm, lush but understated, and inviting. There was something comforting about the attention to detail, knowing that someone had already thought of everything, and you could sit back and relax because you were taken care of. Mom trusted BAC’s taste without question, like we all did. Mom said, “I just write the checks.”
BAC was a force of nature. She could be a tempest; she could be a warm, Spring meadow blanketed in flowers. Her temperament was like her aesthetics, ranging from Baroque to Victorian to Mid-Century Modern to the cutting edge. When she got to Rococo, you had better pay attention because you didn’t know what you were going to get one way or the other, but you knew it was going to be the full sensory experience. Mom said she always wore her heart on her sleeve. If you screwed up, you heard about it, but she was better at showing her love for you than most people.
Having BAC and Aunt Cece in my life was like having three moms. Who could be so lucky? There’s a place in western Mass called the Three Sisters Sanctuary. It’s a garden full of quirky, home-made mosaics, curious found objects, metal sculptures, and rhinestone- and tessera-encrusted concrete fountains, benches and terraces. It is a microcosm created out of nothing with intent and a loving eye. Kind of like the families they created. There’s also a wood stove museum and store, because we all need to stay warm. Every time I drive by it, I will think of them.
Given we lived far away for a big chunk of my life, the times I did get to spend with Grandma was always THE BIGGEST highlight of my kid life. I will always cherish those memories.
We were definitely spoiled, she was one of a kind.
J’ai eu la chance et le bonheur de faire la connaissance de Mom, my american mother, grâce à un programme d’échange franco-américain qui devait durer une année scolaire. J'ai donc partagé la vie de la famille Conrady à Denton, Texas à l'âge de 15 ans, il y a 50 ans !
Je me souviens de l'importance de Mom à mes yeux quand débarquant pour la première fois aux Etats-Unis pour y partager les us et coutumes du pays, je faisais connaissance de la sympathique famille Conrady.
Un peu perdue par la barrière linguistique ainsi que tous les changements de mode de vie, Mom, grâce à son intelligence, son caractère raisonnable et pondéré, a su me soutenir pour une meilleure intégration.
Amoureuse de la France, elle s'y est rendue à maintes reprises ; elle est même venue en Corse en compagnie de Denis, my américan Dad. Elle a également accueilli ma maman et ma sœur ravies de leur expérience américaine ainsi que mon compagnon, Thierry et ma fille Maéva quelques années plus tard.
Depuis 1996 nous sommes restés en contact et avons eu le bonheur de recevoir une carte de vœux TOUS LES ANS au moment des fêtes. Ainsi nous suivions la famille Conrady malgré la distance. Quelle fidélité dans l'amitié ! Merci Mom de ne jamais m'avoir oublié.
Lorsque Mom a dû devoir se faire aider dans ses gestes quotidiens, Denise et David lui ont trouvé un lieu agréable où elle a pu finir ses jours paisiblement.
Merci à mon frère et ma sœur de s’être aussi bien occupés de leur maman. Quel dévouement !
Merci Denise d'avoir pensé à moi en m’envoyant régulièrement photos et vidéos qui, malgré la distance nous séparant, m’ont permis de rester en contact avec Mom jusqu'à son dernier souffle.
Mom, tu vas tellement me manquer.
At the time of my stay in Denton Mom was starting her career in interior designing. I admired her dedication to the new profession. In spite of long hours at work she found time to be the area representative of the youth exchange organisation. She truly believed in positive effects of international relations between people. After my stay with the Conradys our connection stayed alive thanks to the travels of Mom, Denis (Dad), Denise and David. They all took turns to visit us in Finland.
I visited Mom and Dad in Terre Haute in 2005. The house they lived in was a true proof of Mom’s decorative skills and creativity. It was a warm gettogether and the last time I met them in person.
I have a beautiful recollection of Mom from our summer house in the Turku archipelago. There we have a bench that gives a lovely view to the surrounding sea and the islands. She would sit there in silence for a long time and enjoy the beauty of the nature. The bench is my favorite place, too, and this coming summer I am sure I will be thinking of her when I sit there feeling on my face the same sea wind that she felt many years ago.
I remember how awed I was at seeing her studio, Designs for Today. Her flamboyant style, with church relics and gorgeous colors showed so much of her creative personality. She had a gorgeous painting of flowers hanging up, beautifully lit, and was proud to tell me it was done by my cousin Denise when I admired it.
The connection Aunt Catherine had with her sisters was special. They’d gone through some loss together. In later years I realized they just preferred their trio when they were together, and that was OK. They meant so much to each other. They say sisters are the ones who are together from the cradle to the grave. I’m glad they get to be together again.
Shelli Berwick

I'm so sorry for your loss but I do know your mom had a good life and surrounded by your love, and that of her grandchildren, great grandchildren and rest of the family and friends
I vividly remember the first time I met your mom, with the parrot on her shoulder and some larger than life fancy jewelry (necklace and rings, and such). That followed by more events including a meal at Clay Pot Eatery. I loved how culturally open and accepting they were, having exchange students at home. Something I then promised myself i'd do when I grow up. I did that but not as well as them.
That openness to other cultures, love of traveling to other countries made me feel so comfortable and accepted, in a totally nonjudgemental surrounding - again of great importance to me, especially given the 1979-80 timeframe, not the best time for an Iranian champ to immigrate to Texas (which by the way, I love to this day).
Open, unpretentious, comfortable with themselves, supportive and full of love for their kids, they were.
I loved her sense of humor, which is also instilled in both of you.
All these years, especially through my friendship with your dad (who was one of my absolute dearest and best professors, turned a friend), and thanks to Denise, from a distance I stayed in touch and admired the love and support I always saw in your family, for one another.
I know how tough it is for you to lose your mother (i lost my dad around 15 months ago and I still get moist-eyed thinking of him each day). My thoughts and prayers are with her, your dad, you and your family.
Love, Mehran





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Terre Haute IN 47807
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Dear Family and Friends,
In honor of our beloved mother, Catherine Conrady, we invite you to contribute to the repair of the beautiful stained glass windows at St. Benedict Catholic Church—something that brought her immense joy during her lifetime. Mom had a deep appreciation for the artistry and light that stained glass windows embodied, and it is our heartfelt wish to carry on her legacy through this meaningful tribute.
Your generous donations will not only help restore these cherished windows but will also serve to reflect the compassion and kindness that Catherine shared with all who knew her. Together, we can create a lasting testament to her spirit and love for the community she treasured.
If you would like to make a donation, please send it to St. Benedict Catholic Church, 111 S. 9th St., Terre Haute, IN 47807. Kindly include a memo indicating "for stained glass window in memory of Catherine Conrady." Donation envelopes will be available at the Memorial Mass, providing an opportunity for those who would like to contribute at that time.
Let us come together to celebrate Catherine’s life and continue her legacy of love and kindness through this beautiful project.

