

Well done, good and faithful servant... Enter into the joy of your Lord.
— Matthew 25:23
From the Family
With profound sadness and thanks to God almighty, we announce the passing of Catechist Sylvester Imobhio Esekie, who was born on 22 June 1938 and peacefully passed on to eternal glory on 18 June 2026 in Edo State.
A devoted Catechist and faithful servant of God, Sylvester dedicated much of his life to working in the Lord's vineyard, sharing the Gospel, nurturing faith, and guiding countless souls with humility, wisdom, and compassion. His unwavering commitment to God and the Church left an enduring impact on all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Catechist Sylvester will be remembered for his kindness, generosity, and remarkable ability to bring people together. Family, friends, neighbors, parishioners, and colleagues experienced the warmth, sincerity, and grace that made every encounter with him meaningful and memorable.
Throughout his life, he touched many hearts through simple acts of love, encouragement, and service. Whether through his ministry, his words of counsel, or his everyday interactions, he inspired others by the example of a life faithfully lived. His conversations, prayers, and acts of care created lasting memories that will continue to comfort and inspire those he leaves behind.
Family was at the center of Sylvester's life, and he nurtured every relationship with patience, devotion, and unconditional love. Friends cherished his loyalty and sincerity, while those who worked alongside him admired his dedication, integrity, and gentle spirit.
Though his passing leaves a void that cannot be filled, we take comfort in the assurance that he has gone to be with the Lord whom he served so faithfully. His legacy of faith, love, service, and devotion will continue to live on in the hearts of his family, friends, and all whose lives he touched.
Catechist Sylvester Imobhio Esekie will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever cherished.
May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Forever in Our Hearts
We miss you. But we are comforted by the assurance that you are safe in the Lord’s arms, resting in eternal peace.
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Today, I join the family in honoring the life of a truly remarkable man.
Though he was my friend’s father, he treated me with so much kindness, warmth, and care that I always felt welcomed and valued in his presence.
He had a generous heart, wise words, and a gentle spirit that touched everyone who knew him. His encouragement, his smiles, and his quiet acts of kindness will always remain in my memory. I am deeply grateful for the love and support he showed me over the years.
His passing is a great loss, but the beautiful legacy of compassion, humility, and selflessness that he left behind will continue to inspire us.
May God grant him eternal rest, and may He give the family the strength and comfort to bear this painful loss.
Rest well, Daddy.

Oje! (THE KI....NG)That’s the name you fondly called me,
and I called you Grandpa!
Grandpa, you were my protector.
You never allowed anyone to bully me while you were alive.
You always prayed for us, every day.
You always had snacks ready for me,
stories to make me laugh,
and songs to teach me.
I will miss you so much, Grandpa.
But I promise to be brave like you taught me.
I love you forever.
See you again one day.
Love,
Your Grandson Oje 💙
THE KING👑

DPG (Devine Precious Gift) — as you fondly called me
and I called you Grandpa.
Grandpa, you were my superhero.
You called me DPG and made me feel so special.
Thank you for your hugs, your stories, and your prayers.
I will miss you, but I will remember you always.
I love you forever, Grandpa.
Until we meet again in Heaven.
Your DPG 💛

ESEKIE.
With heavy heart and tears in my eyes, I mourn Your departure to the great beyond. You were a very loving father to your children and daughters in-law. A loving and desciplined husband to mama, your wife. You were a man of God, a Soul’s winner for Christ and an educationist.
For the fourteen years or there about we came to know each other, we became good friends. We shared the gospel of Christ each time we talked. You were a man of prayers.
My great in-law, thank you for the good up-bringing you gave to your children. I will miss you dearly but thank God for the ressurection morning. Adieu Babaliba.
Tony Oghuma -Eghiemai
I called you Daddy, and you called me “Women Leader.”
I have known you all my life. I always said I was a daughter in your home, not a daughter-in-law, and you always treated me as your own. You never failed to call and pray for me.
One thing I will never forget is your unwavering faith. No matter what you were going through, whenever I asked, “Daddy, how are you?” your response was always, “We thank God.”
You were a pillar of strength, a listening ear, an advisor, a counsellor, and a father—all rolled into one. Words cannot fully express how I feel as I write this.
Yet, I am grateful. Grateful for the life you lived, for the untarnished legacy you left behind, and even more grateful that I knew you long before the pain and the challenges came.
Okinbue Daddy, rest on in the bosom of the Lord, where I am confident you are. Thank you for the love, the prayers, the wisdom, and the example you gave us all.
You will forever be cherished and fondly remembered.
Your Women Leader
Osose Esekie
The very first time I met Baba, what struck me the most was his warm smile. He smiled so effortlessly in a way that made everyone feel welcome. It wasn't just a smile; it reflected the kind, gentle and amiable man that he was.
One thing that always amused me was his love for what we Nigerians call "big English." Babaliba loved his grammar. He was so eloquent and had a way of using the most unconventional English words. Conversations with him were never dull; they always left me smiling.
He was also a man of discipline and contentment. My husband once shared how particular he was about appearance, always insisting that his children tuck their shirts neatly into their trousers. It may have seemed like a small thing, but it reflected the values he believed in.
Baba appreciated what God had blessed him with and lived a life of gratitude and contentment. More importantly, he passed that mindset on to his children. Today, you can still see that same spirit reflected in them, a quiet confidence, grateful hearts, and the understanding that true wealth is found in family, faith, and good character rather than in material possessions.
His faith was not something he merely spoke about; he lived it every day. As a catechist, he served God faithfully, and his love for Christ shaped not only his own life but also the lives of his children. His legacy of faith is one that will continue for generations.
There are so many little things I will miss. I will miss going into his room to greet him. I will miss hearing him call out, "Osekhoemen!" and lovingly hail my son as "the Lagos boy," in that familiar voice that always brought a smile to our faces. And I will miss calling him "Babaliba," a name that became so special to me.
Thank you, Babaliba, for welcoming me into your family with warmth and love. Thank you for the example you set and for the legacy you leave behind. Although our hearts are heavy because you are no longer with us, we are comforted by the life you lived.
As St. Paul reminds us, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." Those words remind me of the life you lived.
May the Lord whom you served so faithfully welcome you into His eternal kingdom.
Rest well, Babaliba. Your smile, your wisdom, your faith, and your love will never be forgotten. Amen.
Hope Esekie
There are some people whose lives speak louder than words, and Baba was one of them. Though his passing has left a deep void in our hearts, we find comfort in the remarkable life he lived and the lasting legacy he leaves behind.
Baba was a man of exceptional character, kind, humble, disciplined, and unwavering in his integrity. He treated everyone with respect and fairness, regardless of their status. His life was a testament to the fact that genuine strength is expressed through kindness, patience, and selflessness.
Baba had a joyful spirit. He was jovial, warm, and approachable. His smile was infectious, and his sense of humor brought laughter and light into every gathering. He had a unique way of making people feel welcome and at ease, turning ordinary moments into cherished memories.
Growing up, I could clearly see that Baba was a devoted catechist and a faithful servant of God. His commitment to the Catholic faith was evident in both his words and his actions.
Although we mourn his departure, we also celebrate a life well lived, a life marked by faith, compassion, integrity, and service. His memory will continue to live on in the countless lives he touched, the values he instilled, and the love he freely shared.
As we bid you farewell, we pray that the Lord whom you served so faithfully welcomes you into His eternal kingdom, where there is no more pain or sorrow, but everlasting peace and joy.
May your gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace. Amen!!!!!
Tuoyo Ofuya (PhD)

Baba’s presence, wisdom, strength, and love left an enduring mark on everyone privileged to have known him. Words can never fully capture the depth of his impact.
Baba was more than a parent; he was a guide, protector, teacher, and example of integrity and discipline. Through his sacrifices, hard work, and unwavering commitment to his family, he taught us the values of honesty, resilience, humility, and discipline. And not just us his children attest to this, but all those who knew him, including the students that passed through him do too.
Baba had a nickname for all of us, his children and everyone who was close to him. I remember the family games he played with us that ran into the early hours of the morning. I remember how gentle he was with us whenever any of us was ill and the privilege of sleeping on his bed and picking any meal one desired while recovering and how he quickly returned to his firm and disciplined demeanor upon recovery.
I remember the many lessons he taught me at every point, whenever opportunity arose. When I was to write my GCE, he said to me in presence of my uncle Tom, his younger brother, “do not cheat and do not be intimidated”, I have always stayed true to those words. When I was ill in 1997 and was referred for specialist care, he stayed with me in OAUTH, Ife and I remember the endless, sometimes very deep and sometimes meaningless conversations we had which only he and I know now. While in Ife, he had to go into town one day to get me stationary and stamps because I wanted to write letters to my Uncles, Tom and Anselm and then to the post-office to post the letters during the thick of the Ife-Modakeke crisis. How many can I mention?
As I grew older and had left home, he would, any time I came home and heard my voice, shout from his bedroom or sitting room, “is that Osi my guy”? I’d respond “Baba my good man”, he’ll then hail me again, “Osi Bulldozer!” I take all these memories and more with me.
Baba, you will forever be remembered, forever cherished, and forever loved.
Goodbye Baba, the man who thought nothing too much for a son.

Baba was a warm, loving, and caring man who was also known for his firmness — a strictness that came from how much he cared.
I remember one day he threatened to give me an injection in my tongue because I was being too talkative — I was so scared! But that was just his way of looking out for us, even in the little things. My parents laughed about it then, and even now, we still laugh about it, because he really did "cure" me of my talkativeness.
Baba may have been firm, but his heart was always in the right place, and that is one of the many reasons he will be dearly missed.
May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Onomhen Ojeh-Oziegbe
You will always be remembered with respect and gratitude, Baba. Our families have shared a special bond for many years, dating back to when my late father and you worked together at Ayogwiri Grammar School. The friendship you both built laid the foundation for a relationship that has remained strong across generations.
You were a man of quiet strength and deep faith, known for your warmth and the wisdom you so freely shared with all who crossed your path. Your devotion to your family was evident in the values you instilled and the legacy you leave behind.
, we join your family and community in mourning your passing. We stand with your son, our brother Emmanuel Osemudiamen Esekie, and the entire Esekie family, sharing in this loss together. We pray that God will comfort and strengthen all of us in this difficult time, and grant us His peace.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace, Baba, and may your memory remain a blessing to all who knew and loved you.
AB Oziegbe

I grew up to know Daddy Esekie as a part of our family. A very close friend to my parents, and a father figure to us all in my family.
Sharing the same birthday with him was something I cherished, and I will always remember his warmth, kindness, and the quiet wisdom he brought into the lives of those around him.
His passing, just a day before the anniversary of my father's death, makes this season especially emotionally overwhelming, reminding me of two remarkable men whose love, friendship, character, and influence left an enduring mark on my life and the lives of all they interacted with.
I am grateful for the privilege of knowing him and for the example of humility, generosity, and integrity that he lived. May God grant him eternal rest, comfort to all he left behind till we meet at the feet of our LORD and Savior.
Ojeh Aigbavboa (nee Ojeh- Oziegbe)
For over 20 years, you were more than my guardian — you were my father, my mentor, and my greatest example.
As a teacher and catechist, you laid my foundation. You refused to let me settle for ordinary, and you taught me what it truly means to be a man of character and faith.
I will forever miss your warm smile, and the sound of your laughter when I called you "Babaliba."
Thank you for loving me as your own.
Rest in perfect peace, my beloved Baba, my guardian angel.
Your son,
Christian

It has been hard to write this, because I still cannot believe you are no more, Daddy.
I remember how kind you were to me right from the first time I came to your house in Irrua as a visitor. I remember how you would always call me *"my guy"*.
I remember our talks, and how you would proudly introduce me to your visitors as *"my son"* whenever I was around.
You taught me, without saying it directly, that being a good person is a gift that cannot be bought with all the money in the world.
I wept silently the last time I came to see you, when you could no longer recognize me or call me *"my guy"* anymore.
Yet I am grateful for all your teachings, your words of wisdom, and the love you showed me throughout the time I knew you, sir.
Daddy, I will miss you deeply. But I take comfort knowing that heaven has gained an angel.
May your humble soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Rest in peace, sir.
*Your Son-in-Law*
Kenneth Ibe
"Your guy"

**BABA ESEKIE IMOBHIO SYLVESTER**
We write this tribute with mixed feelings. Just two days before our planned visit, the Lord called you home. What a great dad and friend we had in you. You were always so ready to lend your ears to us whenever we approached you for counsel.
As an educationist, Principal of all Principals, who believed in raising children and siblings with faith, discipline, and good character, a man of prayer who lived by example, you would always tell us, *"The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still,"* referencing Exodus 14:14.
Your labor in God's vineyard was not in vain.
Though we didn't get to see you one last time, but your love, your prayers, and your example will stay with us forever.
Sleep on, dear Baba! Rest well, till we meet on the resurrection morning.
*OKINBUE BABA!!!*
Mrs. Celestina.
"Weeweewon," as you were so fondly called by my children—words completely fail me to describe the deep, painful vacuum your passing has left in our hearts, my dear Cousin.
To me, you were never just a cousin; I have known you all my life as my dad. I called you that because you loved, protected, and cared for me as your very own daughter. You taught me everything I know today, fought for my education, and insisted that I go to school. Whenever life brought challenges, you were my safe harbour. I always came to you for guidance, and without fail, you lifted me with words of encouragement and provided exactly what I needed.
You were entirely selfless—a true giver, a patient teacher, a devoted lover of God, a mentor, and a man of noble character whose life is worth emulating.
Goodnight, Dad. I find comfort knowing you are dancing with angels now, loving every single move. Rest well.
Forever in my heart,
Your
*Mrs. Isi Okosun*.
Today, we remember a man of strength, dignity, Disciplinarian,Educationist and kind hearted brother.He lived a life that touched many hearts and left a footprint of love wherever he went .
Though you are no longer with us physically ,your memories will continue to inspire us .
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Mr and Mrs Ilevbare
Lizzy Ehebha
I remember hearing that he nicknamed me “African Beauty,” and now perhaps he would say “American Beauty” 😜. Those memories will forever be cherished.
S.I, Elder Esekie will be greatly missed. His warmth, wisdom, and remarkable presence will remain in our hearts. May God comfort the family and grant them the strength to bear this irreplaceable loss. 😭🙏Rest on grand uncle! Rest on!
Ebi Ehebha
Very old friend of Daddy, in the '70s.
May is jovial soul rest in peace.
Meg Ehebha
I was told that he nicknamed me IDI Amin in my infant days.
He was popular for use of Magic pet names to motivate, inspire and connect with his beloved students for maximum performance.
May his soul rest in peace. Amen.
It took 24 lashes of koboko to stop a _Teen Don_ from addiction to use of ACC 2nd gate when I almost assumed 2 iC to Comrade Bastard 😂😂.
He monitored us and ensured our school results reached our late father before the date of release and also celebrated our successes.
I kept him an enemy until he rescued me from the itching hands of staff by referring me to his office only to come after two hours later to free me with a verbal warning.
The ever busy charismatic catechist. A linguistic per excellence. Nothing compares to his handwriting and Caligraphic Sagacity.
_The Saints and Pan African Enigmas are leaving one by one_ . This one go pain (James bond), (Ol'Soja), (Bully) et al .😭😭😭
May God bless his soul.
Polycarp Ehebha
I still miss your fatherly counsel
Griffith Ehebha
Farewell,you lived a life worth emulating.
you were a father indeed,though I wasn't your biological son, you took me as yours,I can't forget the role you played during my wedding, you stood as a father for me. A God fearing man, who saw the good in everyone that came his way.Your good legacy live on, we will never forget all the good morals you taught us.Rest in the Lord papa, till we meet to part no more.
Eromosele Akhaze
Babe, you were my dad, husband, helper and companion.
You were very *energetic, strong, intelligent* and humble.
A man who never liked to offend anybody. Anytime you did, you quickly rendered an apology.
You had passion for teaching and religious work, and you were very committed.
You were *obedient*, and very meticulous in any assignment given to you,
hence I nicknamed you *"Obedient Servant."*
I cherished one thing in you while *alive*: you never wavered in your faith despite your long health *challenges*.
I can vividly recall what you always told me:
*"The situation you cannot change in your life, take it with faith."*
You demonstrated it even in your painful moments.
Well, I have nothing to regret so much about your *death* because we both paddled the canoe
of your painful period together.
It is *God's* decision that you should leave this sinful world.
It is my prayer that *God* gives you a place in His kingdom where there is no sickness, pain or *sorrow*.
*GOOD NIGHT BABA*
*YOUR BELOVED WIFE*

Babaliba, as we fondly called you, you were a father, a disciplinarian and a teacher.
You were a father to me who would crack jokes, *gist* with me, and *taught* me many good things in life.
You nicknamed me *"Fran-Koikoi!"*
You will be greatly missed and be forever in our hearts.
I know the angels in heaven are rejoicing because they have received a great soul.
*Rest on Babaliba!*
From your one and only,
*Frankoikoi*

You were more than family by marriage—you were a cherished part of our lives. Your love and devotion to my dear sister, your care for your family, and the respect you showed everyone around you will always be remembered. May God Almighty grant your soul eternal rest in His Bossom.

CATHECHIST PA SYLVESTER IMOBHIO ESEKIE
(1938 – 2026)
Cathechist Pa Sylvester Imobhio Esekie.
Daddy was more than a father to me; he was a teacher, mentor, counselor, and a shining example of Christian faith.
*OLO-LOLO* was the pet name he gave to me, though up till date l never knew the meaning of that name, but the name made me feel that I had a friend in my father.
As a devoted catechist, he served God faithfully and touched many lives through his humility, wisdom, and dedication to the Church. His life reflected love, discipline, honesty, and compassion.
He was a loving friend, husband, a caring father, a cherished grandfather, a dependable uncle, and a true friend to many.
He worked tirelessly for the growth and unity of his family and community. His words of advice, prayers, and encouragement will remain in our hearts forever.
Though we mourn his departure, we take comfort in the legacy he left behind a legacy of faith, service, integrity, and love. We thank God for the 88 wonderful years He granted him on earth.
May your soul rest in perfect peace until we meet again in the Lord’s kingdom.
Forever remembered, forever loved.
MR. INNOCENT EJIELE ESEKIE.

No words will be enough to describe what I feel in my heart since you left us.
You were a good teacher, a leader, a helper, a kind man.
Truthful, faithful to the core, and a very good adviser.
*Rest in Peace, my God-son.*
*Mrs. J. I. Onogbosele*
From Your Daughter-in-Love, Nk Dumuje
Daddy,
Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure.
You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.
Thank you for the beautiful moments we shared during your daughter’s wedding, *Joy*, in Irrua, Edo State.
It is a memory that will not be forgotten soon.
I pray the Almighty God continues to grant you eternal rest,
and comfort your family and numerous relatives in this moment of mourning.
*Rest in Peace, Daddy.*
From,
*Nk Dumuje*
Though you’re no longer here,
You live deep in our hearts.
Loved beyond words, missed every day.
From your son in law
Japheth Olubumi Ajiboye

He was a pillar, a source of counsel, and a living example of perseverance and humility. Through the changing seasons of life, he remained steadfast, offering words of comfort, sharing stories rich with experience, and reminding us all of the value of patience, integrity, and faith.
His legacy continues to live on in the lives he touched, the lessons he taught. He has fought the good fight, finished his race, and now rests in eternal peace.
"Catechist par excellence", rest well with the Almighty.
Akhabue

I admired you a lot, especially how you loved and took care of my sister; the depth of your peaceful nature, your free spirit, your generosity, your kind heart, your acceptance of people to your house. Which of your awesome characters would I mention? There are so many of them.
Thank you for the advice and joy you brought to my family. I would always have beautiful memories of you.
Rest in the bosom of the Lord. Okinbue
LUCY (L.L.Y as you fondly called me)

*CATECHIST SYLVESTER ESEKIE*
It is a great privilege to have known you.
A great teacher, a great father, and a great Catechist - true teacher of faith.
Thank you for everything you did for me. I will never forget our early morning Masses — 5am, 4:30am, 6am and the adorations we attended together.
Thank you for teaching me the Catholic faith. Because of you, today marks 20 years of my service at God’s altar.
You served faithfully under different priests and organizations.
You gave everyone nicknames, and I couldn’t escape mine “Bobolibo.”
I still remember how you would divide your food and say, “Bobolibo, come and take.”
It is painful that I will never hear that name from you again.
But I am comforted knowing you are now in a place of no pain, no sorrow — only peace, love and unity.
May God who called you to Himself grant you eternal rest through Christ our Lord. Amen.
*From your Bobolibo, Augustine*

Thank you daddy for your Love, Care, Counsels, Prayers, Guidance and your Genuine Smiles that brightens up any room you enters, daddy you will be greatly missed. All I can do now is remember the fun and memorable times we had, especially your 2by2 plank. Keep resting with the Lord, the Lord knows best.


I did not just know Mr. Esekie from afar. I grew up with him. He was my father's closest friend, but long before I could fully understand what that meant, he had already become family to me. We lived together, shared meals, weathered difficult seasons side by side, and came out the other side still bound to one another. That kind of closeness is not something you plan, it simply grows, quietly and permanently, until you cannot imagine life without it.
I called him Mr. Esekie out of respect, but in my heart, he was always Uncle Esekie. He had a warmth that made formality feel almost unnecessary, even when you held onto it out of love.
He loved to tease me when I was younger. I was very thin back then, and he never let me forget it. He would look at me with that mischievous glint in his eye and declare that my backside was like a brick wall, flat, hard, and thoroughly unimpressive🤣🤣(uwedin dia bi egbegbuwa nor va a)😂🤣🤪. I would squirm with embarrassment while he laughed his big, generous laugh. Now, those moments make me smile more than anything else. They were his way of saying I see you, I love you, and you belong to this family.
Our two families grew even closer with time. When Osemudiamhen married my younger sister Osose, what had always felt like family became family in every official sense. He had not just befriended my father, he had planted himself at the very root of who we are.
Eighty-eight years of warmth, laughter, loyalty, and love. He lived fully and he loved generously, and those of us who were lucky enough to be close to him are better for it.
I will miss his teasing. I will miss his laugh. I will miss the quiet reassurance of simply knowing he was there. But more than anything, I am grateful, very grateful that he chose my father as his friend, and in doing so, chose all of us.
Rest well, Uncle Esekie. I was so fond of you, and I always will be.
With love and fond remembrance - Osehojie OC Ojeh-Oziegbe - a.k.a Ogua

Joan Emmanuel- Tok

A beautiful soul left this earth into the bossom of Christ Jesus. An in-law of inestimable value.
To the Igene family, you were a son and friend who received us with open arms whenever we visited your home.
You were a disciplinarian to the core. You were a bundle of inspiration to all around you. However, I take solace in the fact that you relocated to a better place where there will be no more pains.
May your gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace.
Rest on my beloved in-law until the resurrection morning.
Your sister in-law,
Mrs Agnes Ototobor.

Daddy,
Daddy was a disciplinarian.
He believed in doing things right, in hard work, in respect and in character.
But behind the firm voice was the softest heart i knew.
You will always call me, "The light"my daughter_ and _i fundly called you BABA DUDULUDU and you always respond with Efua DUDULUDU_.
That was your song for me.
I can never forget the egg rolls when i was younger and every morning tea, you will always fulfill my egg roll need because you know the cry that will come after it.
And you will always call me on the phone, just to remind me to pray.
“Pray, my daughter.” at all times say your holy rosary,
Three simple words that held me, guided me, and taught me that God goes before me.
Those calls were more than check-ins.
They were blessings. They were protection. They were love reaching across any distance.
The phone doesn’t ring with your voice anymore.
But I hear you now in different ways —
in every prayer I say,
in every time I choose faith over fear,
in every time I show up for the people I love.
Thank you, Daddy, for raising me, for praying for me, for covering me.
Because of you, I know what a father’s love looks like.
Because of you, I know how to keep going.
I’m still that _your favourite daughter Efua DUDULUDU_.
And I promise to keep praying, just like you asked.
Rest well.
I love you. I miss you.
And I will see you again one day.
Amen.
"The light"
Efua Esekie .J. Ajiboye

It is with deep sadness that I join the Esekie family, especially my dear friend Ehime, in mourning the passing of Catechist Sylvester Imobhio Esekie.
Papa Sylvester lived a life of faith, service, and integrity. As a catechist, he devoted himself to God and touched many lives through his guidance, kindness, and unwavering commitment to his community. His legacy is one of love, humility, and selfless service.
May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace, and may God grant Ehime and the entire family the strength and comfort to bear this loss.
Bro Kalu Johnson
They called him many things. Teacher. Grammarian. Devoted Catholic. Disciplinarian.
I called him Babaliba.
He called me JJ.
My great dad was a man of words and a man of prayer. A disciplinarian who could correct your English mid-sentence, then correct your spirit at the Rosary by 6pm sharp. His prayer life wasn’t casual, it was serious business. Mass, novenas, Benediction - he showed up like clockwork. Heaven knew his voice.
And oh, he had a nickname for everybody. No one escaped. If he named you, you were family. But his highest qualification? He had a full degree in YABBING! That man could tease you into next week and have you laughing while he did it. Witty, sharp, never malicious just pure, classic Dad banter.
He was a caring father and, ha! a very romantic husband. Even in his 80s, you’d hear it ring through the house: BABE! and my mum would roll her eyes and smile like a teenager. That was them. Love that didn’t age.
His generosity? Legendary. He didn’t just give he made sure the whole world felt his generosity. Food, advice, school fees, time, encouragement, if you met him, you left fuller. And as a teacher, he didn’t just teach subjects. He taught passion. He taught you to stand tall, speak well, and pray hard.
Babaliba, as we fondly called him, pampered me with reckless abandon. That’s the only way to describe it.
Even after marriage, home never changed. Each time I visited:
He bought me egg roll every single day, no negotiations.
He made tea for me every morning. Even if I had other breakfast plans, how could I reject it? I couldn’t. So I named it “love tea” because that’s what it was.
After every meal, he’d call me: “JJ, come take meat.” He always kept a piece for me by the side of his plate. Always.
Every afternoon, without fail, he shared his snacks with me. His groundnuts, his biscuits, his plantain chips half was mine before I even asked.
He was grammar and grace. Discipline and doughnuts. Rosary and romance. Yabbing and yams.
Baba, you were a whole syllabus.
A devoted Catholic who taught me God.
A grammarian who taught me words.
A disciplinarian who taught me right.
A romantic who taught me love.
A father who taught me how to be loved with egg rolls, love tea, and meat from your own plate.
*I can still see his classic handwriting* those neat, deliberate letters in black ink, correcting our homework and writing prayer points with the same care. *I'm sure he will definitely be God's secretary in heaven!* Keeping the records straight, dotting every _i_ and crossing every _t_ for the angels.
They say when an elder dies, a library burns.
But Dad, your library lives in us. In every “BABE!” we’ll hear in our heads. In every prayer we say on time. In every person we nickname. In every egg roll I buy for my own children.
Rest well, my great dad!
Keep a plate for me in heaven.
Save me some meat.
*Your JJ*
Forever your pampered daughter.
Joy Esekie Ibe

There are fathers who provide, and there are fathers who build. My father, Pa Sylvester Imonbhio Esekie, did both.
He did not merely raise children; he shaped lives. His greatest inheritance was not material wealth but the values of discipline, integrity, contentment, and an unwavering love for God. Those values became the compass that has
guided me throughout my life.
One lesson from him remains etched in my heart.
Shortly after I gained admission into the university, he called me by the childhood nickname he fondly gave me, "Gbegbegbe." He said, "Learn to say no to some things; otherwise, you will end up saying yes to everything." At the time, I did not fully understand what he meant.
Years later, I came to appreciate the profound wisdom behind those words. They taught me discernment, self-control, and the courage to stand by my convictions. That single lesson has shaped my leadership, my career, and the decisions I make every day.
My father believed that discipline was an act of love. He corrected us not to break our spirits but to build our character. He taught us that our name was our greatest asset and that integrity should never be traded for temporary gain.
Above all, he loved God wholeheartedly. As a catechist, he lived the Gospel he preached. His faith was not confined to the walls of the church; it was evident in his humility, compassion, honesty, and service to others. He showed us that the truest measure of greatness is a life lived for God and for people.
He was a father not only to his biological children but to countless others who sought his counsel, encouragement, and prayers. His home was open, his heart was generous, and his wisdom was freely shared. Many found in him a mentor, a teacher, and a father figure.
Today, I mourn his passing, but I celebrate a life well lived. I am grateful to God for the privilege of being called his son. If I have become a man of purpose, resilience, and faith, it is because I first learned those virtues at his feet.
Though your voice is now silent, your teachings continue to speak. Though your journey on earth has ended, your legacy lives on in the lives you touched and in the values you instilled in us.
Thank you, Daddy, for your sacrifices, your prayers, your discipline, your wisdom, and your unconditional love.
Rest well, Baba, faithful servant of God. You have fought the good fight, you have finished the race, and you have kept the faith. May the Lord whom you served so faithfully grant you eternal rest, and may perpetual light shine upon you always.
Until we meet again, thank you for showing us how to live a life that truly matters.
Ehimen

Seeing how deeply you loved and cherished my aunt was a beautiful lesson in marriage.You were her rock,her confidant and her greatest joy.Thank you for always protecting her and making her smile.
You weren't just an uncle by marriage,you were a true father figure to us.
We will forever cherish your kindness.
Rest peacefully,You lived a life full of warmth and quiet strength.
Though you are no longer here,your legacy of love,laughter,and generosity will always remain in our hearts.
Rest Well Baba!

Seeing how deeply you loved and cherished my aunt was a beautiful lesson in marriage.You were her rock,her confidant and her greatest joy.Thank you for always protecting her and making her smile.
You weren't just an uncle by marriage,you were a true father figure to us.
We will forever cherish your kindness.
Rest peacefully,You lived a life full of warmth and quiet strength.
Though you are no longer here,your legacy of love,laughter,and generosity will always remain in our hearts.
Rest Well Baba!

He was a devoted father, an inspiring teacher and a faithful catechist who never failed to encourage what was right and gently correct what was wrong. His life touched many and his values will continue to inspire those who had the privilege of knowing him.
May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace and may his legacy of love, service and integrity live on.


Lots of sweet memories of you..
The man with the golden voice when he was at his peak. Those esan songs you always sang were refreshing. Catechist extraordinaire..
Rest in the Lord's bosom till we meet to part no more..
Adieu baba!!!

Rest in peace great man.
Akhirevbulu Ivy



