CHIDINMA ALUBA INEM

Mum,
I thank God for the gift of your life and for the grace that allowed me to be your daughter. Even in this moment of deep sorrow, I am reminded that God remains faithful, and I surrender to His wisdom in all things.

My mother lived with a force that stayed with you. Even in the everyday moments, there was something unmistakably strong about her, the way she moved with purpose and approached each day with a clear sense of what she wanted. Those qualities shaped me more than I realized at the time, and I see them now in the way I carry myself and meet the world.

Over the past few months, I’ve read so many reflections from those whose lives she touched. Their words have offered comfort and perspective, stories of her generosity, her drive, her fierceness, and the determination she poured into everything she did. Seeing the impact she had beyond our home has humbled me. It has reminded me that the parts of her I carry were planted with intention, and that her influence reaches farther than I ever knew.

Her absence has left a space nothing can replace. There is so much I wish I could say, and so much I wish I could still experience with her. Yet I know the strength she lived with is now ours to continue, each of us reflecting something she gave, whether through the lessons she taught directly or the ones we absorbed simply by watching her live life boldly and in deep faith.

Today, I honor her with gratitude. Gratitude for her sacrifices, her persistence, and her love expressed in her own way. Gratitude for her example of courage, selflessness, and determination, qualities I now recognize within myself. And gratitude to God for the years we shared, for the memories that shaped me, and for the grace that carries our family through this loss.

May God comfort our hearts and carry us through this season. May He grant her perfect rest. And may her memory remain a blessing to us all.

May you find comfort and solace to bear this loss

Dear Mr. Nwaka Inem,

On behalf of Ohafia True Voice Multimedia Limited, I extend our deepest condolences to you and your family on the passing of your beloved wife, Mrs. Chidinma Aluba Inem.

We pray that her soul rests in perfect peace and that you find strength and comfort in these sorrowful moments.

May the upcoming funeral service and burial on 19th December 2025 bring you and your loved ones peace and closure.

Sincerely,

Comr. Amos Oge Kalu
CEO, Ohafia True Voice Multimedia Limited (OHAFIATV)

TRIBUTE TO OUR BELOVED OLD GIRL,
MRS. CHIDINMA ALUBA NWAKA IMEM


With deep sorrow, yet with gratitude to God for a life that made impact, we pay tribute to our dear sister and old girl, Mrs. Chidinma Aluba Nwaka-Inem, as we gather at this Service of Songs.

Chidinma was a proud alumna of Immaculate Heart Secondary School and one of the founding members of the Old Students’ Association. She was an active member of the Lagos Chapter and served as a member of the Executive Committee (Exco), contributing her time, energy, and convictions to the growth and administration of the Association.

She was known for her strong views, forthright nature, and willingness to stand firmly for what she believed in. In meetings and activities, Chidinma made her presence felt and did not shy away from responsibilities or difficult conversations. Her contributions, perspectives, and commitment form part of the history and development of the Association.

Her passing after a brief illness has left us with a deep sense of loss. While we mourn her departure, we also acknowledge the role she played and the mark she left as an old girl and leader within our Association.

On behalf of the Immaculate Heart Secondary School Old Students’ Association worldwide, we extend our heartfelt condolences to her family, friends, and loved ones. We pray that God grants them comfort, strength, and peace during this difficult time.

As we lift our voices in song tonight, may our praises rise as prayers, thanking God for her life and committing her soul into His eternal rest.

May the Lord grant her eternal rest, and may perpetual light shine upon her.
Amen.

Signed:
Ifeoma Nwuke
Global Secretary and Lagos Chapter President

On your earthly birthday our dearest Chidinma , we finally found some release to write a few words in celebration of your essence.... a truly remarkable person! Our paths didn't cross early enough although our Fathers' were conferred with titles in Abiriba on the same day in 1982. I remember the time I met you a jewel shining in the sun as your Uncle" Chubasky " reintroduced us , you radiated such warmth and yet confidence ... you had just lost your Dad , Enyi , Abiriba! Then your home with Nwaka became our welcoming place .. our watering hole, a place were your culinary excellence filled our bellies. Your smile and laughter always belied your pain or should I say your exhaustion as you catered for the world... the unending flock congregated at your home . You loved your privacy , yet you felt compelled to give of your self beyond measure .
Your home for a season was our " Obu Abiriba in diaspora " !
We all failed to thank you enough for being the compassionate person you were !
As we celebrate you today with thanksgiving and yet aching hearts, we must also thank you for the four lovely and exceptional " Nwajims " ( in the voice of your beloved Father in law Ete Ogbonnaya Inem) you gave us .... In them you continue to live on, on this side of time !
If only we knew how short your time with us would be ... perhaps we would have cherished you more dearly in the fleeting moments we had with you . You were absolutely fearless ( at least in our eyes) Thank you so much for your devotion and love for us all. May your gentle soul find. Eternal rest as His light perpetual shine upon you ... rest on in His bosom Aluba! "Nwami ka umu wa ewuru !"

Service of Songs (YOUTUBE LIVE): www.youtube.com/live/pDsxqK3g0yw

TRIBUTE TO CHIDINMA

Life often brings people our way for reasons we may not fully understand, and Chidinma was one of those people God
allowed me to meet on my journey. We became friends through our husbands, and in time discovered that we had even
attended the same secondary school, though our paths never crossed back then. From those early days, we shared
laughter, encouragement, and heartfelt conversations that brought warmth and understanding. Those memories remain
a precious part of my story.

As the years went by, life took us on different paths and our closeness gradually faded. But even with the distance, I
often remembered her fondly and quietly hoped that someday God would allow our paths to reconnect in peace and
understanding.

Some time after my August 2025 vacation, I received a message from her brother's wife, Vicky, in California, sharing
that Chidinma was unwell. My husband visited her at the hospital, and when he returned, our hearts were moved with
compassion. We joined our faith together and began to lift her up before God, trusting Him "the Great Physician" to
show mercy and restore her health.

On one of those occasions when my husband was praying for her, she asked after me. He immediately brought the
phone to me, and I spoke with her. I told her, "I am here, Chidinma, and I am praying for you." She responded softly,
"OK, OK, OK," and we prayed together, committing her into God's hands. It was a sacred and tender moment that
reminded me of the enduring bond of friendship and the mercy of God that reaches across time and distance.

Not long after, news came that she had passed. My heart was heavy, but I found comfort in knowing that in her final
moments, she was surrounded by her children and siblings and that she left this world carried by love and prayers.

Even though time and circumstances had separated us, I choose to remember the good times; the laughter we shared,
the encouragement, the dreams, and the bond that once was. Life teaches us that love and forgiveness are far more
powerful than any misunderstanding. Her passing reminded me deeply that life is fragile, and that we must cherish
every opportunity to show kindness, grace, and love while we still can.

Chidinma, I believe you are now at peace, free from pain and embraced by God's mercy. I pray that the Lord comforts
your husband, your children, and every heart that mourns you. May His peace that surpasses all understanding surround
them and give them strength to carry on.

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."- Matthew 5:4

"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." - Psalm 34:18

My heartfelt condolences to my dearest aunty, the wife of my father’s brother. She was truly a giver—kind, generous, and always thinking of others. Her good heart will never be forgotten. May her soul rest in perfect peace, and may God comfort the entire family during this difficult time.” Ogb ibe

9/11 will forever be a day that now holds a double meaning in my heart. It still feels surreal and difficult to put words to paper, because a part of me truly wants to believe it’s a prank.

Our very own Baby Elephant.
The name fit you perfectly, gentle but strong, soft-hearted yet unshakably bold, the one who carried so much love and joy on your back without ever complaining.

You never failed to welcome me with a warm smile and a playful tease. I could never pass you without hearing one of your jokes or light-hearted comments , always followed by that laugh of yours, the kind that filled the whole room and wrapped me in warmth. If you saw even the smallest opportunity for me to grow, you pushed me toward it. You believed in my shine long before I learned how to step into it. This love you extended to my family.


I know you’re at peace now, watching over us, but the loss still sits heavy. You were genuine and elegant, with a happiness that felt contagious, the type of woman who didn’t have time for anything fake. Just pure heart. Pure light.

And now I keep thinking… does this mean that the next time I come back to Lagos, you won’t be there? No teasing. No hugs. No, “you’re doing well, keep going.” It feels unreal, maybe because I’m not home yet, but the thought hits differently.

I look at Nene, Adaku, Ogb, and Jojo, and in each of them I see you. Not just through their faces, but through their fire, their strength, and their calm. They carry you; your essence, your spirit, your boldness. They are your living legacy, and through them, our Baby Elephant still stands tall.

We will miss you deeply, but we will forever remember the laughter you brought, the honesty you lived by, and the love you poured into all of us.

Rest well, Sister Chidinma.
Your footprints remain on every heart you touched.
Your light stays with us.
Your memory is forever.

Forever Loved
The CKOs
Urenna & Chikezie Onuma

It’s really hard to find the right words to say goodbye to you, Chidinma. You’ve been such a big part of my life and family for over 15 years. You weren’t just a colleague—you were like a bright light, always bringing so much joy and laughter wherever you went. I’ll never forget the fun times we had on outings, our travels, and all those little moments that made life feel richer.Working with you taught me a lot about life’s ups and downs, friendship, motherhood, and everything in between. You were our Mother Hen, always looking out for the junior colleagues with so much care and warmth. You made work feel like family.You had that amazing way of making even the smallest moments special. I’ll always remember how you’d celebrate birthdays with your playful catchphrase, “Remilekun, when are you washing your birthday?” It’s those little things that showed how much you cared and made everyone feel loved.Even when you were in the hospital, your jokes and smiles never faded. Those memories are precious to me and will always hold a special place in my heart.You’ll be deeply missed, but the happiness and kindness you spread will live on in all the joyful memories we shared.

GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.
Chidinma will live on in the stories we share, the love she instilled in her family, and in every beautiful sunset we see.
Her memory is a treasure we will hold close.
To my dear friend Chief Nwaka, the children (Nene, Adaku, OGB & Okoh) and the entire family, my heart breaks with yours. I am here for you, now and always. We are all.
Chidinma will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.

I received the news of your demise with deep shock. You were such a gentle soul, with a large heart and easy going. I recount working with you on the Harvest Planning Committee at LPC Yaba, where your leadership and tireless dedication made every event organized and memorable. I also cherish our time serving together as patrons in the Boys’ Brigade and as members of the same district. You will be greatly missed. We take comfort in knowing that you’ve lived a life of faith, of purpose, and of service. May your gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace, and may God grant comfort to your entire family and all who mourn this great loss.

Tribute From Ruthhouse Sisters Lpc Yaba.
Chy, it's quite shocking and unfortunate that death came calling when we least expected it, not even at this time.
While with us, you played your part as a house member to the best of your ability. You always radiated a lot of smiles and joy. You will be sadly missed.
We cannot question God,we know you are in a better place.
Ga nke oma. May your beautiful soul rest in peace. May God grant your family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.Amen.
Lolo.
For ruthhouse.

A sister, a friend, a guiding light,
Chidinma Aluba, a gentle soul, now shines so bright.
A strong pillar that connected hearts and lives, A bridge that spanned distances, bringing love and kindness that survives.

Her journey on earth may have ended, but her legacy remains,
A testament to her love, compassion, and unwavering faith that sustains. She's gone to a place where there's no more pain, Where tears are wiped away, and love is the only refrain.

May her gentle soul rest in peace, surrounded by love and light, May her memory be a blessing to all who knew her, and may her spirit take flight.
Rest in peace, dear Chidinma, may you find joy and peace in the afterlife. 🕊️

“Honoring a life filled with love and impact. Praying comfort and warm memories over the family during this celebration of life.”

So beautiful and elegant! Gave without measure , her love so gentle, her heart so pure! For months I have tried to come up with a line or even as much as to say goodbye, but words truly fail me. Thank you for loving me , thank you for the endless encouragement! For everytime I visited, I never felt any different from your kids, one could hardly tell! It’s really hard to say goodbye! May your soul find rest ! And may light continually shine on your path! I miss you so dearly!


Emmanuel ugbaja

Even though she’s gone, her love remains in our heart, in our memories, and in every part of us she helped shape. RIP

Aluba, may the Almighty God have mercy on your soul,and may you rest eternally at the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏. To the Family she left behind, may God give u the fortitude to bear the loss.

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED ANUTY
My Anuty chi have gone to met her maker,these news is a big blow to me because you are one person that show me love when I think is over,your kindness and care you gave me and my daughter is something I hold dearly.Anita said she will tell her big Mummy to come and carry her back to lagos to see Jojo not knowing that her big mum has gone.thank you for your love.thank for your care,thank you for support.you gave me shoulder to cry on thank you.sleep on still we met again my beautiful Anuty chi.Rest in peace.

URENNA MBA

TRIBUTE TO MY NIECE
The news of your demise shattered both I and the entire family. Your passing leaves a void in my life that words cannot express.
You will forever be in our heart.
Rest in peace.

*TRIBUTE TO OUR DEAR CHIDINMA*

On September 11, 2025, we woke up to the devastating news that one of our very own had passed on after a brief illness. 9/11 happened to us all over again.
She was only 51 years old, a mother and wife who held down a hectic banking career for over 20 years.
She was full of life, beauty, love, laughter, and promise. There was never a dull moment with Chidinma around. Even in tough job situations, she had a way of adding humor to calm the tension.

It still doesn’t feel real. Moments like this remind us of how fragile life is and how quickly everything can change.

At this difficult time, our hearts ache for answers. We ask, “Why now, Lord?” But even in our tears, we are reminded that God’s presence doesn’t leave us when life hurts, He draws even closer. The same God who walks with us through joy also sits beside us in our sorrow.

Though we may not understand the “why,” we can hold on to the “Who”, the One who gives peace that surpasses all understanding and promises that death does not have the final word.

Grief has a way of shaking us, but it also awakens something sacred in us: a deeper awareness of how precious every moment is, and how much we need to love and forgive while we have the chance.

Our loved one is gone from this life, but we trust she is safely in God’s arms now, where pain and sorrow no longer exist.
And though we weep😭😭 today, we know that one day, we will see her again in the glorious presence of Christ.

Our Chidi, because you have God, death is not the end of your story.
We love you, but God loves you more
*Adieu, our dear Chidinma* ♥️ Continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord.
*From Eric Moore Family*

Chy my darling, the news of your demise hit me like thunderbolt, it took days to accept it even up to this moment of writing this, I still pray and hope it is a bad dream.
Memories of you will linger on for so so long and i hope that will help me and all your loved ones carry on. Hmmm the long phone calls, the late nights gist frequently to discuss dreams and aspirations of ourselves and family, oh no Chy, this hurts. You were beautiful inside out, a friend and sister worthy to have, ever ready to go the extra mile even when it was not convienient.
In conclusion, i am anchoring on the word of God, i quote
"Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is
his unfailing love."
-Lamentations 3:32

Eyoanwan Ndiyo-Aiyetan

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BABY ELEPHANT

………..for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the Lord of hosts. Malachi 3 v 12

A delightsome land suggests not only abundance, but also a place or person that brings joy and satisfaction.

Chi, my baby elephant, brought joy and satisfaction to all who knew her and truly loved her.

Chi stood tall, towering over the many challenges she faced with equamity.
She was beautiful, fearfully and wonderfully made. Original tomato Jos; Nwa ekere n’ ubochi Sunday!
Chi was elegant, graceful and stylish. She was my self appointed fashion police and plug; seriously committed to making sure I didn’t show up looking like ‘Mummy GO’ as she would say.
Chi could russle up an outstanding outfit with a low budget and show up effortlessly looking like a million bucks!

My baby elephant was content with what she had and was not one to covet what anyone had. Instead she was apt to rejoice and call for a party to celebrate wins.
And boy! Did she love a good party?
Be it with her immaculate girls or AWCO. She was a natural event planner, co-ordinator, decorator, terrific cook, MC and amazing dancer! The true life of a party.
Shortly after we laid our son Abbah to rest, Chi rallied friends, organized food and drinks and came to celebrate a birthday I was going to spend in tears. That was Chi for you.
I remember how happy she was at her last birthday celebration, hosted by Ug, Dec 2024. Little did we to know it would be her last.

Chi was a committed worker. An employee any employer would want on their pay roll. She put in over twenty years in Zenith bank, where her integrity and work ethic were clearly displayed.

A dedicated mother hen, aka ochiri ozuo, Chi’s love for her siblings and her children, Nene, Adaku, Ogb, Okoh, Grace and Uk, was legendary. She was generous to a fault, selflessly giving her time, energy and resources to family and friends. Fiercely loyal but relentlessly unforgiving when she felt betrayed.
Last summer, when she visited the USA, most of her luggage was clothes and food items she sewed, bought, ground and prepared for friends and family members across several states, from California to North Carolina; from Georgia to Texas.

My baby elephant was deeply spiritual and enjoyed fellowship with her savior and brethren. She grew up in the Assemblies of God church and joined Presbyterian church upon marriage.
At PCN she was active in Women’s guild, Boy’s brigade, CGIT, TAP and the harvest committee, where she managed to rope me in for harvest committees 2020 and 2021
Many didn’t know Chi had a lovely voice, which she inherited from her late father, Chief Jonah Nwokeka aka junior PICO, and passed on to her daughter Adaku.
Recently, one of her favorite songs was Eze Abata by Amb Chinyere Udoma

The African proverb says, ‘the cow know not what her tail is worth until she has lost it’
We knew Chi’s worth while she was here with us. She loved, cared, nurtured and lived like no other and we loved her in return.

Her premature demise is very painful and has left a huge void. We are consoled only because she is in a better place, resting in peace.
Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints. Psalm 116 v 15

Adieu Chi, till we meet to part no more.
Lots of love,
Always,
Your ‘Aunty’
Dr Effiem Jackson Abbah

Aunty Chidinma was a Bright light, that lit up every room she walked into..May your sweet soul keep resting and shining in the Bossom of Christ 💕

I pray God strengthens the Inem family and may her beautiful soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.

Rest well dearest aunt . You will forever remain in our heart 🕊️🕊️❤️

May her soul rest in peace.
She has gone to rest with the lord 🕊️🤍

She was a beautiful soul, met briefly but she was welcoming, she had a large heart.
She’s resting now and may her soul rest in perfect peace.

Praying for strength and healing for the Inem Family. May her soul rest in peace.

I’ll never forget how warm and welcoming she always was. Every time I visited, she made me feel like family, always laughing, always making sure we were happy. One memory that stands out is one of Nene’s birthdays when she had us dancing, laughing, and just being silly. She had a way of lighting up every room she walked into. That’s who she was, kind, joyful and full of love.

My dearest friend Chidimma.
It took me a while, to be honest, I don't really know what to say 💔 Aluba, you are a strong woman, full of life. Friendship of over 30years.First time being and knowing Abiriba was because of you. I recalled our school days 😭all the memories. You will be missed more than words can say. A very hard pill to swallow. I remembered telling Adii that we should go to the mortuary to see if you come back alive. Saying goodbye is the hardest part.🤔
May God show you mercy and bless your heart.🙏 I will keep memories alive with our old pictures.
Rest on, you live.
Chidiebere as you fondly call me

A TRIBUTE TO A BELOVED WIFE AND MOTHER

From Ministry of Works

Tribute to my Big mummy

I call her big mummy because she was my mother,a mother that take care of me when the world turn they back on my birth mum.As a child she accepted me when blood relative never ask my mother how I'm doing ,I called my mum and told her that I will spend my Christmas with you and she gave the big blow the my big mummy have gone to met her marker,tear row God why,my heart is heavy but God know the best sleep on my guided angle still will met again !!

Your daughter Roselyn Nwokoro

Aunty Chidinma,
It’s so sad to see you go. From my younger years until now, you’ve always been such a present and loving aunt. From all the Decembers spent in Nigeria over the years to now in my adulthood, it’s crazy how much can change in such a short time. Just this past December, I was in your office in Lagos opening my first account in 9ja, laughing and reflecting on all the good times to come with the December festivities.

You have always been a woman of great character, kind, loving, gentle, and a light to everyone around you. Love you dearly. May your soul rest in perfect peace. 🙏🏾❤️

Your departure,though painful reminds me of how ephemeral life is.I can still see you come into the office,ask for reports,feedbacks,laugh out loud and give your submissions during internal meetings.We take solace in the many memorable times spent with you and cherish them as an eternal legacy.
Rest well,Machi.

OUR CONDOLENCES

The Patrons of the 8th Mainland Company of The Boys' Brigade are deeply saddened by the loss of Patron Chidinma. Her support and dedication to the Company especially the boys, were truly inspiring. She was a vibrant and dynamic member, always full of energy and innovative ideas that helped shape the lives of our young boys.

Her passion and commitment to the Brigade's mission will be greatly missed. May God comfort you with His presence and grant her soul eternal rest. We pray that His words in Psalm 34:18 bring you peace: 'The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit.'

Rest in peace, Patron Chidinma.

Sincerely,
For the Patrons of the 8th Mainland Company, The Boys' Brigade

OUR CONDOLENCES

We, the members of Eko Synod CGIT, are deeply saddened by the sudden loss of our beloved Mother Chidinma Inem. Her dedication, love, and support will forever be remembered. Our hearts go out to you and her beloved children during this challenging time.

Mother Chidinma was a pillar of strength and a shining example of faith. Her selfless service and commitment to CGIT will be greatly missed.

May God's words in Isaiah 41:10 comfort you and the children: 'Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.'

May her legacy live on through the lives she touched. We pray that God grants her soul eternal rest and comforts you with His presence.

Rest in peace, Mother Chidinma.

Sincerely,
Eko Synod CGIT

The Board of Trustees, Executives and entire members of Abiriba women cultural organization (AWCO) write with a heavy heart felt with sympathy on the death of your dear beloved daughter, wife, mother and aunt late Mrs. Chidinma Aluba Inem who's death occurred on 11th September 2025, at the age of 52years after a brief illness.

The news of her demise came to us as a big shock because we were not informed of her being sick but her sudden death. Well we cannot question God because he knows all that concerns our beloved member Chidinma.

Your late wife, mother, and aunt lived a dedicated Christian life of emulation and imparted greatly to her immediate/extended families.

AWCO and the Abiriba community in general. To say we have lost a dedicated and active AWCO member is an understatement because she was a jolly, joyous and kindhearted young lady who was a foundation member of AWCO Lagos Branch.

In fact AWCO has lost a rare gem, though her life was short but it is not how long one lives on earth but how well she has left a vacuum which is not easy to fill.

We pray that the Almighty God will grant the husband, Children, entire family, AWCO and Abiriba community the fortitude to bear this great and irreparable loss.

May her gently soul continue to rest in peace until we meet on the resurrection morning to part no more in Jesus name Amen.

Once again accept our heartfelt condolences.

AWCO EEE!

Progress!

Progress!!

AWCO!!

Eld. (Mrs) Georgina Mma Agbagha
General President


Dcns (Mrs) Esther Kelly Dike
General Secretary

A TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR COLLEAGUE, MACHY-CHY

For more than thirteen years, I had the privilege of working alongside a remarkable personality , Chidinma Aluba Nwaka-Inem.
To call her merely a colleague would fall short of the truth. She was a friend, a sister and a source of strength in moments when work felt overwhelming.

We shared countless memories—moments of laughter that echoed through the office halls, moments of stress when deadlines seemed impossible, and moments of victory(ordering isiewu or nkwobi) when our hard work finally paid off, celebrating little wins and even creating a reason to wash as we often coin celebrations .( You were indeed the life of every party).
Through every season,good and bad, you remained steady ,navigating calm in chaos, clarity into confusion, and joy into simple everyday interactions.

Of course, like any relationship that spans so many years, we saw each other at our best and our worst. We had disagreements, we could argue endlessly cz you felt like an encyclopedia, knowing just every and anything But even in those moments, your heart spoke louder than any misunderstanding. You always found your way back to kindness,. That was who you were—soft in spirit, but strong at her core.Need I forget , you were our Google map, navigating through the busy city of Lagos like the back of your palm .

When news of your demise broke out, I was hysterical for a bit ,refusing to take calls from people who tried to confirm the news . I momentarily despised everything as I saw in an instant how bad news travels faster than the speed of light.

The hardest memory I hold is of the last time I saw you—at the hospital. The room was quiet, the air heavy with the weight of things we could not change. Yet even then, your presence filled the space. You managed a faint smile when you saw me, and I held your hand, knowing words were no longer enough. We talked—softly—about work, about life, about faith in God, and about peace( for I knew you bore a lot on your mind )You gave me a glimmer of hope as I charged you to hurriedly get better and resume work as we miss the "Enyi" herself.We prayed n joked that you were yet to do Omugwuo duties and thus you ain't going nowhere, little did I know that it was my last view of your beautiful face.

To everything that has a beginning, surely an end must come.A bright light in our lives dimmed—but it did not go out. Your legacy lives in every life you touched, in every smile you inspired, in every lesson you silently taught. You leave behind not emptiness, but a reminder to love deeply, to give generously, and to live with faith.

Chi, thank you.
For the years.
For the memories.
For the laughter, the lessons, the sisterhood.

We will miss you dearly, but surely we carry you in our hearts forever.

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.


With all the love
From Vivien Nonso-Ibekwe ( Your Nwa Teacher)

My sweet aunty Chidinma, I never thought I’d have to ever do this, especially not for you, you. You always took care of everyone around you and it didn’t go unnoticed, I’m grateful to have had you in my corner and I appreciate you stepping up for me my brothers when we needed family the most, you have always treated me as one of your daughters and I will always be eternally grateful 🥹. I watched you fight so hard to live, I know it was not easy to let go and leave your family behind but rest assured that we will all be okay, I pray that the lord will continue to guide and protect us and you will always have reason to smile down on us. Rest in perfect peace Aunty Chidinma, I love you 🌹

To My Dearest Beloved Cousin

Chi, words fail to capture the depth of my sorrow and the emptiness I feel since you left us. You were more than a cousin — you were a dear sister, and a beautiful soul whose kindness, laughter, and love touched everyone around you.
I miss you sorely — the conversations we shared, your warm smile, and the joy you brought into every room. Though your time here was far too short, the memories we created will live in my heart forever.
Rest peacefully, my beloved cousin. Your light may no longer shine beside me, but it will never stop shining within me. Until we meet again... 💔🌹

Lubabriba , as I fondly call you.
I have picked up my phone to post a "tribute" several times but to no avail.....how I wish these tributes were to show admiration .......Life indeed does happen.
Our path crossed at Immaculate heart secondary school umungasi Aba, we were in the same class all through our junior secondary school days , we sat adjacent to each other and shared many fond memories together , memories we reminisce on our Alumini platform .
Lubs, The Firm Lady!!!
The Fashonista!!!
Nwanyi ihu China!!!( Chinese face).
Chidinma Pico!!!
May your path lead you to paradise.

In memory of my special Machi beloved boss, Late Mrs Chidinma Nwaka Inem. Your exemplary leadership, kindness, and vision will forever be remembered. You led with compassion, integrity, and strength, leaving an indelible mark on nay lives. May your legacy continue to inspire me, and may your soul rest in eternal peace.

A Tribute to My Sister-Friend, Aluba

By Chinedu Nwafor

 

Aluba, you were truly one of a kind, full of love, courage, and authenticity.
You lived your life boldly, spoke your truth, and gave your heart freely.
You loved God deeply, and it showed in how you lived.
You had this incredible way of making everyone around you feel seen, valued, and cared for.

You weren’t just a friend; you were a sister and a guide.
I’ll always remember the moments we shared, the laughter, the deep conversations,
the times you lifted me up when I felt down.
You had a heart that gave endlessly,
and your kindness and courage left a mark on everyone who knew you.

Aluba, your memories are my life’s only solace.
I miss you.
Rest easy, my sister-friend.

A TRIBUTE TO MAMA NENE
Death according to scripture is an appointment to everyone has to keep but the day and time is unknown to the person the LORD in His infinite wisdom withheld this great knowledge from humanity. Ecclesiastes 8:7-8 say. Indeed how can people avoid what they don't know is going to happen? None of us can hold back our spirit from departing. None of us has the power to prevent the day of death. There is no escaping that obligation, that dark battle. And in the face of death wickedness will certainly not rescue the wicked. Oh! Death struck without minding, Chai! You were unable to fight back to live on. Your death shook the world leaving all in a great shock and confusion. It is hard to say goodbye
Rest on Aluba

Just when I felt we have wedding to plan, you left without a sign . But God knows the best I will always miss your here.thanks for your care and love over the years . keep resting in peace mummy.

Tribute to Mama Nene
Your passing has left an undeniable void, a truly surreal moment that has marked this year indelibly. You were so vibrant and full of life, you left us far too soon.
Mama Nene was a woman defined by her remarkable strength and unwavering dedication. She approached every responsibility with a grace that inspired all who knew her, facing challenges with both determination and steadfast commitment. Her work and personal ethic were truly exceptional; she carried her duties not as burdens, but with a profound sense of dignity and purpose.
She lived a life of integrity and grace, a true blessing to her family and to everyone who knew her. While we deeply mourn her loss, we are profoundly grateful for the time we shared and for the powerful example she set for us all.
Rest peacefully, Mama Nene. You will be deeply missed.

💐 A Personal Tribute to My Beloved Aluba!

My dear sister,
It’s still hard to believe you are gone. You were more than a sister to me — you were my confidant, my encourager, my young friend. Your love was deep and genuine, your passion for life contagious, and your faith in God unwavering.

You lived with purpose and conviction, never afraid to stand for what you believed in. You spoke the truth boldly, loved freely, and gave selflessly. Everyone who knew you felt your strength, your openness, and your heart of gold.

You were a devoted Christian, a loving mother, and a dependable sister — ever ready to defend, to provide, and to plan for others. You touched so many lives with your kindness, wisdom, and courage. You showed us that faith is not just spoken but lived, even in difficult times.

You were a pillar of IMMAHACO Lagos Chapter,
Steadfast, faithful, and true.
For eight devoted years you served,
As Financial Secretary, through and through.
With grace, integrity, and heart sincere,
You gave your best, year after year.
So accountable, so full of care,
Your service blessed us everywhere.

Your love for our Alma Mater never waned,
Your loyalty and zeal remained.
In every duty, large or small,
You gave your heart, you gave your all.

Though your departure has left an emptiness words cannot fill,
I find comfort in knowing you are resting in the arms of our Lord,
where pain and sorrow no longer reach.
Your legacy of love, truth, and devotion lives on
in all of us who were blessed to know you.

Indeed, Aluba, you walked this path and left an indelible trail.

Sleep on, my beautiful sister, until we meet again in glory.
You will forever live in my heart.

Adieu Aluba!
Adieu Chidinma!!

Constance Chika Onyeani-Nwosu

A painful tribute to our precious Chidinma Inem.

All of our Words cannot really explain it.

Our feelings cannot express it either.

If it was within our strength and resources to save you, we wouldn't have let you go Chy dear

We only hold unto the lasting memories and legacies that you left behind.

You were our sunshine, a dedicated and selfless Caregiver, very jovial and equally the glamour of all our meetings.

You were always available and resourceful whenever AWCO beckoned on you both home and abroad.

You were very supportive both financially and otherwise to AWCO and to everyone who reached out to you for help.

When we heard of your illness, we all sat on the bare floor and cried and prayed and hoped that you would survive as the strong woman that you were but God's permission had to prevail and we can't question God.

When we heard that you had gone home, none of us could muster enough courage to pen it down. We kept hoping that it wasn't true.

How are the mighty fallen??

You had the strength of a unicorn, the heart of a lion, the beauty of a diamond and yet the feminism of a woman.

We will surely miss you Chidinma as we hope of seeing you again at the resurrection morning when we will understand it better.

Adieu our baby elephant!
Adieu our Oguzo-okangwo.
Adieu Chidinma bekee!!!

May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.

Amen.

Signed.

Elder Mrs Nina Udunma
Ibeh
President Awco Lagos

Mrs. Ihuoma Emmanuella Ude
Secretary Awco Lagos

AWCO Lagos Chapter

To my favorite aunt♥️
I was so privileged to have you as my very special aunt that meant so very much to me, you were such an important part of our family. If only we could have had you here longer, your time was so short while you were here with us. I am so grateful that some day I will see you again and get to spend eternity with you.

To aunty Chi ❤️
Onyi baby has about five close friends, and she’s never missed a chance to let them know how much she loves them, And boy, did she love you. From the moment you stepped into her (our) lives, you radiated a light that was impossible to ignore. Honestly, it feels unreal writing about you in the past tense.

This morning, as I helped your daughters sort through your final laundry, I found myself reflecting on how fragile life is (I saw you 6 weeks ago). I thought about how I used to be scared of coming over because you’d insist on overfeeding me, how you created such a safe, warm space where Onyi could simply be a girl again. She adored you for that. I’ve just remembered when I made that compilation for her 50th birthday and forgot to include you, she made me re-edit it because of course you had to be there. 😂

Thank you for being my bonus mummy. Thank you for opening your arms to Nicole and me in July. Your kindness will outlive you, your love will echo in our hearts, and your light will never dim. I will carry you in my heart always ❤️. Rest in peace, our Aunty C. 💛

My dearest Chi baby, I'm still coming to terms with the fact that you're really gone, I say ‘coming’ because i doubt that this will ever be real to me. September 11th is always a painful reminder of the tragedy that happened 24 years ago but now, September 11th has a new meaning to me, it started like any other day, but ended with me losing my shinning star, sister and a beautiful soul who touched countless lives. As I sit down to write this, I'm overwhelmed with emotions, tears streaming down my face, just thinking about the void you've left in my life and that of our loved ones.

We were more than friends; we were sisters, bound by laughter, tears, and unforgettable memories. Your kindness, generosity, and compassion inspired me every day. Your children, oh, your precious babies! They're going to miss their amazing mom so much. Jojo, your little bundle of joy, will grow up with memories of your love and sacrifice. Every time I think about him, my heart breaks.

And my children, whom you lovingly took as your own, who spent countless days and nights under your roof, they're heartbroken too. They miss you so much, and I can see the pain in their eyes. Some bonds never break; they just change address from earth to heaven. You're now our angel, watching over us from above, till we meet again.

I'll cherish the memories we made together, like hanging out whenever I was in Lagos, taking jokes, and bringing out the little girl in each other's lives. Those moments were truly special. I know you're in a better place now, where you feel no hurt or sorrow. Heaven gained an angel, and we're left with memories of your love and laughter.

As I fondly call you,chichi and we called each other "Nwa Aba Ibem," our bond will never fade. I still cry every day, thinking about the moments we shared, the conversations we had, and the plans we made. The silence left by your absence is deafening. I'm going to miss our late-night chats, our silly jokes, and our deep, meaningful conversations. You're more than just a friend to me; you're a part of me.

As we prepare to lay you to rest on December 19th, I want you to know that we'll miss you more than words can express. Your family, your friends, and everyone who knew you will cherish your memory and strive to emulate your kindness. Rest now, dear Chidinma. Your soul is free, and your legacy will live on in our hearts. We miss you so much, Chichi. Till we meet on the last day, rest in peace, Nwa Aba Ibem. 🌹❤️"

TRIBUTE TO MAMA NENE

A TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR BEAUTIFUL, KIND HEARTED, BURDEN CARRIER, ELEGANT, INTELLIGENT, WONDERFUL ELDER SISTER.
WORDS CAN’T CONTAIN THE MEMORIES I HAVE BUILT OVER THE YEARS OF YOU AND IT HURTS THAT I CAN’T BUILD MORE BECAUSE I ALWAYS CHERISHED THEM AND LONGED FOR MORE.

IN 1994, AFTER THE DEATH OF OUR FATHER, YOU AT A YOUNG AGE BECAME A WOMAN. CARRIED THE BURDEN OF THE FAMILY.
YOU OFFICIALLY BECAME MY MUM OF MUMS.
A LADY LOVED BY ALL. YOUR PRESENCE BROUGHT COORDINATION AND PEACE.
ALWAYS WANTED EVERY THING DONE IN PERFECTION AT YOUR DETRIMENT, GIVING ALL.
AF IF YOU KNEW YOU WERE GOING TO DEPART, YOU STARTED GIVING GIFTS.
IN DEATH I SEE, HEAR AND STILL GETTING TESTIMONIES OF THE LIVES YOU AFFECTED POSITIVELY, BURDENS BEYOND YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY YOU CARRIED.

HOW CAN ONE PERSON SO SMALL BE DOING SO MUCH AS THIS ?
EVEN IF I CALL NAMES, NO BOOK CAN CONTAIN IT.
I CALL YOU ENYI.....
I CALL YOU ENYIOHA...
I CALL YOU GOLIATH....
I CALL YOU ,I CALL U, I CALL U I CALL U I CALL U I CALL U WHAT WORDS CANT EXPRESS.

IN YOUR LAST MINUTES AND HOURS YOU REQUESTED FOR ME THROUGH YOUR DAUGHTER ADAKU , I TOOK IT FOR A PRANK , FINALLY CAME, CALLED YOUR NAME U LOOKED AT ME WITHOUT WORDS. I CALLED YOU NAMES TO LIFT YOUR SPIRIT UP ENCOURAGING YOU THAT YOU WOULD MAKE IT AND COME OUT STRONGER. ALL U DID WAS SHOW SIGNS OF NODDING WITH THE LITTLE STRENGH YOU HAD AND I PRAYED FOR YOU BELIEVING.
I WATCHED YOU TAKE YOUR FINAL BREATH AND LEFT US .

EVEN IN DEATH ,YOUR CONCERNS ABOUT PEOPLE NEVER LEFT YOUR FACIAL EXPRESSION.

I LOVE YOU MUM, ELDER SISTER.
I CHERISH ALL YOU DID FOR ME.
YOUR CHILDREN REGINA AND JONAH MISS U SO MUCH THAT IT HURTS,UR PROMISES TO THEM ,I PRAY GOD HELPS ME WITH GRACE TO FULFIL THEM ALL.

YOU FOUGHT YOUR FIGHT LIKE EVERYONE IS SUPPOSE TO AS EXPECTED BY GOD,NOW ITS TIME TO REST.

I PROMISE YOU THAT YOUR TESTIMONIES WILL NEVER LEAVE MY LIPS TILL I DIE
REST ON TILL WE SEE AGAIN.

FROM YOUR BROTHER

CALEB UKOHA JONAH NWOKEKA & FAMILY

In Loving Memory of Mrs. Chidinma Aluba Inem, one of the nicest people I've had to call family, and a big part of my childhood. She was always full of love and kindness and carried so much grace.

Her radiant personality brought so much light and beauty to the house of ogbonnaya inem, you were taken from us too soon, but we trust that you are now resting peacefully in the arms of our Maker.

To my cousin and their siblings: Your mother's love surrounds you still. The values she instilled, the memories you shared, and the beautiful life she lived will continue to guide and comfort you.

She will be forever missed and always remembered.

A Tribute to our beloved sister in the Lord, Chidinma. It was a devastating and rude shock when I heard of your passing to the great beyond, you will be dearly missed in church and your memories will continue to live on in the hearts of everyone who had the opportunity and honour of knowing your beautiful smile and kind personality. Rest well our lovely sister chidinma and May God give your family, church family and friends the strength to bear this incredible loss, You will be dearly missed but not forgotten.

TRIBUTE TO MY LOVELY AUNTY

When God called Sarah a mother of many nations, it is my belief that He also had you in mind. With you, love was not determined by blood, tribe, religion or locality. It flowed naturally.

I still have not come to terms with the fact that you have left us physically.
Thank you for all you taught me through your actions, your words and your silence.

Your death left a deep void in our hearts, but the memory of your tenderness, kindness and loving ways still get me especially through my lonely days

My children can't even get over you, they kept asking questions that I can't even provide satisfying answers for them to understand. You were a loving big mummy to them. I lack words to really express my pain. It's well. Your legacy live in us.

Rest on, cause I know you are in a better place, where there's no pain or sickness.

Adieu Ezinne!
Good night Aunty!!
La n'udo nwanyi obioma!!!

TRIBUTE TO THE WORLD BEST NAMESAKE (MY OGBO)

Chai, I never knew that I would be writing a tribute to my OGBO so soon. I was praying and expecting to see or hear that you are well again but God knows the best.

It's hard to believe that a beautiful damsel, loving mother, caring OGBO has gone. My OGBO was a caring and loving mother figure to me. Her house was always open and accommodating even on the shortest holiday. Oh! Death, you are wicked. Why did you take such a beautiful soul away from us?

She would always send money or celebrate each of my birthday for me. I loved and cherished you (my OGBO) so much just the same way you did towards me. O! Death, where is thy Sting?
My OGBO, I'm honored to share your name and I will strive to follow your kind footsteps. Mum, I miss you so much.

I know you are resting in the bossom of the Lord. Good night! Big mummy.

Your Ogbo
Chidinma Abosi Peter.

Chidinma,

Your strength was quiet, your courage profound.

Though you carried a heavy burden in silence, your dedication never wavered. You gave your best, even in the hardest moments, and left behind a legacy of grace, resilience, and quiet excellence.

We had our heated moments but I remember you not just for the work you did, but for the heart you brought to it....You always retorted that " Sir we would do Well"
You will be deeply missed, and forever cherished.

Rest in peace dearest Chidinma.

Chidinma you came you lived and added colours to everythings you touched and everyone who encountered you on your journey. I met you only once when you were invited to my birthday party by my younger sister Onyinye who was your friend. . You instantly made a remarkable impact. Thank you for coming.
Go well great woman of impact. We will forever miss you.

M

A Meteor Dimmed

Aluba—as I fondly called her from the very beginning—was my bosom friend from childhood. I was privileged to grow up in a contented family that lived among the affluent in Abiriba, a neighbourhood graced by notable figures such as the late Chief Nnanna Kalu of Star Paper Mill, Elder Chief Echeme Emole (former Minister of Town Planning, Eastern Nigeria), Dr. Ezikpe Anagha Ezikpe of Aloma Medical Hospital, Umuahia, and our respected nonagenarian Chief Kalu Kalu Onuma of the famous Aku International... just to name a few.

Then came PICO International's Chief Jona Nwokeka Ndukwo, whose magnificent mansion was crowned by a giant elephant sculpture. On the flip side of this privileged society was me—a confirmed Abiriba Uluo area boy with an unrestrained, open-hearted spirit. I entered homes and hearts with reckless abandon; in my world, a fine city girl made no difference. Back then, the rich and poor mingled freely, and friendship knew no class boundaries.
From our Egwuena Girls’ Secondary School abode, I often straddled across the road to those affluent homes in search of innocent mischief. During one of those festive seasons, the Nwokekas returned home, and out of the blue, Aluba appeared—like a meteor. She shone so brightly that her brother, Nwokeka, had a hard time keeping us away from her. But Aluba was no ordinary girl; she was a confirmed tomboy—she no gree for Musa! We would swing, run around their large compound until an emissary came to recall me home, or her parents stepped in to end our escapades, or I simply had to “change sim” and port to another mansion in search of mischief. Had those interruptions not occurred, we might have played for Africa and made everyone proud!

Years later, when my family moved to the city of Aba, we came even closer to our neighbours. Aluba and I remained friends, though our meetings became less frequent. I could no longer stroll across the road to her house as before—city life had built its own wall of Jericho. Yet, we maintained mutual respect and a warm connection whenever our paths crossed. Sadly, those were the days before mobile phones, so keeping in touch wasn’t easy.

I vividly recall throwing a party at our home on 12 Ekenna Street, Aba—she attended with three others: her girlfriend (whose name I can’t recall), Oti Onwuka, and her cousin, the young heir of the PICO family, the late Okechukwu Ndukwe (Okas). Aluba was as decent, respectful, and radiant as ever—a true shooting star, maturing gracefully with every passing year, especially in spirit. She too had caught the righteous bug.

Eventually, she graduated and got married to my relation, Chief Nwaka Inem. Though our contact reduced with life’s demands, Aluba never missed a chance to reconnect. If we were at an event together, she would not only greet me warmly but sit with me. I remember seeing her again at The Redeemed Christian Church of God campground—she was expectant then, perhaps with her first child. Walking past, amidst the large crowd, she waved until I noticed her. That was Aluba—ever warm, ever genuine.

I recollect seeing her again at AWCO events: first at Dover Hotel in Lekki, where we shared a table, teasing each other like old times; and later at Virgin Rose Hotel. She spotted me with my wife and still came over to give me a hug—thankfully, my wife already knew her. There was also a Thanksgiving event her husband hosted; I was with the Inems all day.

Another occasion was when, as Secretary of ACIU Lagos Chapter, I was tasked with planning the burial ceremony, in concert with AWCO, for our late Vice President, Madam Ure Asiegbu—a former executive of AWCO Lagos and the first female executive in any ACIU body. Aluba was a member of that committee. Throughout planning and execution, she became my go-to person for tough decisions and delicate tasks. Her dedication and wisdom were unmatched.

Whenever we met, it was always with genuine respect. Though by modest bragging rights I am older by at least a year, she always jokingly called me her age-mate—a term I gladly accepted, out of deep respect for her beautiful soul. I, in turn, often called her “Nwanta m” (my younger one), and she fondly replied, “Nwanta Ukem” (my age-mate).
Our last meeting was at Barrister Chijioke Emole’s family double wedding event at Ikoyi and Lekki. We sat together at both occasions until AWCO duties called her away.

I was deeply pained when I heard of your passing, Chidinma. The grief cut deeper when I learned that my sister, Lady Chinyere Azike, was with you in the hospital when I called her, unaware you were hospitalized. I never got to hear your voice again or share our usual banter, nor was I offered the chance to pray with you—the least I could have done.
Aluba, you brought so much light, laughter, and strength in everything you did—a true meteor whose brilliance illuminated everyone around you.
From her early days, Aluba embodied courage, excellence, and grace. It was no surprise that from the moment she joined Zenith International Bank around 2008 (if my memory has not collapsed like the national grid), she became an invaluable asset—serving faithfully in a competitive industry with a high career mortality rate, until her untimely transition.

My heart goes out to her lovely children—Nnenne, Adaku, Ogbonna, and Okoh—who must now navigate life without their loving mother’s guiding light. I also extend my deepest condolences to my elder brother, Chief Nwaka Inem, who must now bear the loss of a devoted wife and soul partner, while caring for their four beautiful children. To Nwokeka, her dear brother and lifetime bodyguard, and to her younger siblings, family, friends, and associates who loved her—we are united in grief.

Aluba, you came into this world and left when your light was still needed. Though your time was brief, your impact is etched in the sands and hearts of time. You will forever remain our beloved, unforgettable meteor—the light that dimmed too soon.

Sleep on, Chidinma Aluba Inem.
May your new abode be paved with peace and comfort forevermore.