CHIDINMA ALUBA INEM

TRIBUTE TO MY NIECE
The news of your demise shattered both I and the entire family. Your passing leaves a void in my life that words cannot express.
You will forever be in our heart.
Rest in peace.

*TRIBUTE TO OUR DEAR CHIDINMA*

On September 11, 2025, we woke up to the devastating news that one of our very own had passed on after a brief illness. 9/11 happened to us all over again.
She was only 51 years old, a mother and wife who held down a hectic banking career for over 20 years.
She was full of life, beauty, love, laughter, and promise. There was never a dull moment with Chidinma around. Even in tough job situations, she had a way of adding humor to calm the tension.

It still doesn’t feel real. Moments like this remind us of how fragile life is and how quickly everything can change.

At this difficult time, our hearts ache for answers. We ask, “Why now, Lord?” But even in our tears, we are reminded that God’s presence doesn’t leave us when life hurts, He draws even closer. The same God who walks with us through joy also sits beside us in our sorrow.

Though we may not understand the “why,” we can hold on to the “Who”, the One who gives peace that surpasses all understanding and promises that death does not have the final word.

Grief has a way of shaking us, but it also awakens something sacred in us: a deeper awareness of how precious every moment is, and how much we need to love and forgive while we have the chance.

Our loved one is gone from this life, but we trust she is safely in God’s arms now, where pain and sorrow no longer exist.
And though we weep😭😭 today, we know that one day, we will see her again in the glorious presence of Christ.

Our Chidi, because you have God, death is not the end of your story.
We love you, but God loves you more
*Adieu, our dear Chidinma* ♥️ Continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord.
*From Eric Moore Family*

Chy my darling, the news of your demise hit me like thunderbolt, it took days to accept it even up to this moment of writing this, I still pray and hope it is a bad dream.
Memories of you will linger on for so so long and i hope that will help me and all your loved ones carry on. Hmmm the long phone calls, the late nights gist frequently to discuss dreams and aspirations of ourselves and family, oh no Chy, this hurts. You were beautiful inside out, a friend and sister worthy to have, ever ready to go the extra mile even when it was not convienient.
In conclusion, i am anchoring on the word of God, i quote
"Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is
his unfailing love."
-Lamentations 3:32

Eyoanwan Ndiyo-Aiyetan

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BABY ELEPHANT

………..for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the Lord of hosts. Malachi 3 v 12

A delightsome land suggests not only abundance, but also a place or person that brings joy and satisfaction.

Chi, my baby elephant, brought joy and satisfaction to all who knew her and truly loved her.

Chi stood tall, towering over the many challenges she faced with equamity.
She was beautiful, fearfully and wonderfully made. Original tomato Jos; Nwa ekere n’ ubochi Sunday!
Chi was elegant, graceful and stylish. She was my self appointed fashion police and plug; seriously committed to making sure I didn’t show up looking like ‘Mummy GO’ as she would say.
Chi could russle up an outstanding outfit with a low budget and show up effortlessly looking like a million bucks!

My baby elephant was content with what she had and was not one to covet what anyone had. Instead she was apt to rejoice and call for a party to celebrate wins.
And boy! Did she love a good party?
Be it with her immaculate girls or AWCO. She was a natural event planner, co-ordinator, decorator, terrific cook, MC and amazing dancer! The true life of a party.
Shortly after we laid our son Abbah to rest, Chi rallied friends, organized food and drinks and came to celebrate a birthday I was going to spend in tears. That was Chi for you.
I remember how happy she was at her last birthday celebration, hosted by Ug, Dec 2024. Little did we to know it would be her last.

Chi was a committed worker. An employee any employer would want on their pay roll. She put in over twenty years in Zenith bank, where her integrity and work ethic were clearly displayed.

A dedicated mother hen, aka ochiri ozuo, Chi’s love for her siblings and her children, Nene, Adaku, Ogb, Okoh, Grace and Uk, was legendary. She was generous to a fault, selflessly giving her time, energy and resources to family and friends. Fiercely loyal but relentlessly unforgiving when she felt betrayed.
Last summer, when she visited the USA, most of her luggage was clothes and food items she sewed, bought, ground and prepared for friends and family members across several states, from California to North Carolina; from Georgia to Texas.

My baby elephant was deeply spiritual and enjoyed fellowship with her savior and brethren. She grew up in the Assemblies of God church and joined Presbyterian church upon marriage.
At PCN she was active in Women’s guild, Boy’s brigade, CGIT, TAP and the harvest committee, where she managed to rope me in for harvest committees 2020 and 2021
Many didn’t know Chi had a lovely voice, which she inherited from her late father, Chief Jonah Nwokeka aka junior PICO, and passed on to her daughter Adaku.
Recently, one of her favorite songs was Eze Abata by Amb Chinyere Udoma

The African proverb says, ‘the cow know not what her tail is worth until she has lost it’
We knew Chi’s worth while she was here with us. She loved, cared, nurtured and lived like no other and we loved her in return.

Her premature demise is very painful and has left a huge void. We are consoled only because she is in a better place, resting in peace.
Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints. Psalm 116 v 15

Adieu Chi, till we meet to part no more.
Lots of love,
Always,
Your ‘Aunty’
Dr Effiem Jackson Abbah

Aunty Chidinma was a Bright light, that lit up every room she walked into..May your sweet soul keep resting and shining in the Bossom of Christ 💕

I pray God strengthens the Inem family and may her beautiful soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.

Rest well dearest aunt . You will forever remain in our heart 🕊️🕊️❤️

May her soul rest in peace.
She has gone to rest with the lord 🕊️🤍

She was a beautiful soul, met briefly but she was welcoming, she had a large heart.
She’s resting now and may her soul rest in perfect peace.

Praying for strength and healing for the Inem Family. May her soul rest in peace.

I’ll never forget how warm and welcoming she always was. Every time I visited, she made me feel like family, always laughing, always making sure we were happy. One memory that stands out is one of Nene’s birthdays when she had us dancing, laughing, and just being silly. She had a way of lighting up every room she walked into. That’s who she was, kind, joyful and full of love.

My dearest friend Chidimma.
It took me a while, to be honest, I don't really know what to say 💔 Aluba, you are a strong woman, full of life. Friendship of over 30years.First time being and knowing Abiriba was because of you. I recalled our school days 😭all the memories. You will be missed more than words can say. A very hard pill to swallow. I remembered telling Adii that we should go to the mortuary to see if you come back alive. Saying goodbye is the hardest part.🤔
May God show you mercy and bless your heart.🙏 I will keep memories alive with our old pictures.
Rest on, you live.
Chidiebere as you fondly call me

A TRIBUTE TO A BELOVED WIFE AND MOTHER

From Ministry of Works

Tribute to my Big mummy

I call her big mummy because she was my mother,a mother that take care of me when the world turn they back on my birth mum.As a child she accepted me when blood relative never ask my mother how I'm doing ,I called my mum and told her that I will spend my Christmas with you and she gave the big blow the my big mummy have gone to met her marker,tear row God why,my heart is heavy but God know the best sleep on my guided angle still will met again !!

Your daughter Roselyn Nwokoro

Aunty Chidinma,
It’s so sad to see you go. From my younger years until now, you’ve always been such a present and loving aunt. From all the Decembers spent in Nigeria over the years to now in my adulthood, it’s crazy how much can change in such a short time. Just this past December, I was in your office in Lagos opening my first account in 9ja, laughing and reflecting on all the good times to come with the December festivities.

You have always been a woman of great character, kind, loving, gentle, and a light to everyone around you. Love you dearly. May your soul rest in perfect peace. 🙏🏾❤️

Your departure,though painful reminds me of how ephemeral life is.I can still see you come into the office,ask for reports,feedbacks,laugh out loud and give your submissions during internal meetings.We take solace in the many memorable times spent with you and cherish them as an eternal legacy.
Rest well,Machi.

OUR CONDOLENCES

The Patrons of the 8th Mainland Company of The Boys' Brigade are deeply saddened by the loss of Patron Chidinma. Her support and dedication to the Company especially the boys, were truly inspiring. She was a vibrant and dynamic member, always full of energy and innovative ideas that helped shape the lives of our young boys.

Her passion and commitment to the Brigade's mission will be greatly missed. May God comfort you with His presence and grant her soul eternal rest. We pray that His words in Psalm 34:18 bring you peace: 'The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit.'

Rest in peace, Patron Chidinma.

Sincerely,
For the Patrons of the 8th Mainland Company, The Boys' Brigade

OUR CONDOLENCES

We, the members of Eko Synod CGIT, are deeply saddened by the sudden loss of our beloved Mother Chidinma Inem. Her dedication, love, and support will forever be remembered. Our hearts go out to you and her beloved children during this challenging time.

Mother Chidinma was a pillar of strength and a shining example of faith. Her selfless service and commitment to CGIT will be greatly missed.

May God's words in Isaiah 41:10 comfort you and the children: 'Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.'

May her legacy live on through the lives she touched. We pray that God grants her soul eternal rest and comforts you with His presence.

Rest in peace, Mother Chidinma.

Sincerely,
Eko Synod CGIT

The Board of Trustees, Executives and entire members of Abiriba women cultural organization (AWCO) write with a heavy heart felt with sympathy on the death of your dear beloved daughter, wife, mother and aunt late Mrs. Chidinma Aluba Inem who's death occurred on 11th September 2025, at the age of 52years after a brief illness.

The news of her demise came to us as a big shock because we were not informed of her being sick but her sudden death. Well we cannot question God because he knows all that concerns our beloved member Chidinma.

Your late wife, mother, and aunt lived a dedicated Christian life of emulation and imparted greatly to her immediate/extended families.

AWCO and the Abiriba community in general. To say we have lost a dedicated and active AWCO member is an understatement because she was a jolly, joyous and kindhearted young lady who was a foundation member of AWCO Lagos Branch.

In fact AWCO has lost a rare gem, though her life was short but it is not how long one lives on earth but how well she has left a vacuum which is not easy to fill.

We pray that the Almighty God will grant the husband, Children, entire family, AWCO and Abiriba community the fortitude to bear this great and irreparable loss.

May her gently soul continue to rest in peace until we meet on the resurrection morning to part no more in Jesus name Amen.

Once again accept our heartfelt condolences.

AWCO EEE!

Progress!

Progress!!

AWCO!!

Eld. (Mrs) Georgina Mma Agbagha
General President


Dcns (Mrs) Esther Kelly Dike
General Secretary

A TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR COLLEAGUE, MACHY-CHY

For more than thirteen years, I had the privilege of working alongside a remarkable personality , Chidinma Aluba Nwaka-Inem.
To call her merely a colleague would fall short of the truth. She was a friend, a sister and a source of strength in moments when work felt overwhelming.

We shared countless memories—moments of laughter that echoed through the office halls, moments of stress when deadlines seemed impossible, and moments of victory(ordering isiewu or nkwobi) when our hard work finally paid off, celebrating little wins and even creating a reason to wash as we often coin celebrations .( You were indeed the life of every party).
Through every season,good and bad, you remained steady ,navigating calm in chaos, clarity into confusion, and joy into simple everyday interactions.

Of course, like any relationship that spans so many years, we saw each other at our best and our worst. We had disagreements, we could argue endlessly cz you felt like an encyclopedia, knowing just every and anything But even in those moments, your heart spoke louder than any misunderstanding. You always found your way back to kindness,. That was who you were—soft in spirit, but strong at her core.Need I forget , you were our Google map, navigating through the busy city of Lagos like the back of your palm .

When news of your demise broke out, I was hysterical for a bit ,refusing to take calls from people who tried to confirm the news . I momentarily despised everything as I saw in an instant how bad news travels faster than the speed of light.

The hardest memory I hold is of the last time I saw you—at the hospital. The room was quiet, the air heavy with the weight of things we could not change. Yet even then, your presence filled the space. You managed a faint smile when you saw me, and I held your hand, knowing words were no longer enough. We talked—softly—about work, about life, about faith in God, and about peace( for I knew you bore a lot on your mind )You gave me a glimmer of hope as I charged you to hurriedly get better and resume work as we miss the "Enyi" herself.We prayed n joked that you were yet to do Omugwuo duties and thus you ain't going nowhere, little did I know that it was my last view of your beautiful face.

To everything that has a beginning, surely an end must come.A bright light in our lives dimmed—but it did not go out. Your legacy lives in every life you touched, in every smile you inspired, in every lesson you silently taught. You leave behind not emptiness, but a reminder to love deeply, to give generously, and to live with faith.

Chi, thank you.
For the years.
For the memories.
For the laughter, the lessons, the sisterhood.

We will miss you dearly, but surely we carry you in our hearts forever.

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.


With all the love
From Vivien Nonso-Ibekwe ( Your Nwa Teacher)

My sweet aunty Chidinma, I never thought I’d have to ever do this, especially not for you, you. You always took care of everyone around you and it didn’t go unnoticed, I’m grateful to have had you in my corner and I appreciate you stepping up for me my brothers when we needed family the most, you have always treated me as one of your daughters and I will always be eternally grateful 🥹. I watched you fight so hard to live, I know it was not easy to let go and leave your family behind but rest assured that we will all be okay, I pray that the lord will continue to guide and protect us and you will always have reason to smile down on us. Rest in perfect peace Aunty Chidinma, I love you 🌹

To My Dearest Beloved Cousin

Chi, words fail to capture the depth of my sorrow and the emptiness I feel since you left us. You were more than a cousin — you were a dear sister, and a beautiful soul whose kindness, laughter, and love touched everyone around you.
I miss you sorely — the conversations we shared, your warm smile, and the joy you brought into every room. Though your time here was far too short, the memories we created will live in my heart forever.
Rest peacefully, my beloved cousin. Your light may no longer shine beside me, but it will never stop shining within me. Until we meet again... 💔🌹

Lubabriba , as I fondly call you.
I have picked up my phone to post a "tribute" several times but to no avail.....how I wish these tributes were to show admiration .......Life indeed does happen.
Our path crossed at Immaculate heart secondary school umungasi Aba, we were in the same class all through our junior secondary school days , we sat adjacent to each other and shared many fond memories together , memories we reminisce on our Alumini platform .
Lubs, The Firm Lady!!!
The Fashonista!!!
Nwanyi ihu China!!!( Chinese face).
Chidinma Pico!!!
May your path lead you to paradise.

In memory of my special Machi beloved boss, Late Mrs Chidinma Nwaka Inem. Your exemplary leadership, kindness, and vision will forever be remembered. You led with compassion, integrity, and strength, leaving an indelible mark on nay lives. May your legacy continue to inspire me, and may your soul rest in eternal peace.

A Tribute to My Sister-Friend, Aluba

By Chinedu Nwafor

 

Aluba, you were truly one of a kind, full of love, courage, and authenticity.
You lived your life boldly, spoke your truth, and gave your heart freely.
You loved God deeply, and it showed in how you lived.
You had this incredible way of making everyone around you feel seen, valued, and cared for.

You weren’t just a friend; you were a sister and a guide.
I’ll always remember the moments we shared, the laughter, the deep conversations,
the times you lifted me up when I felt down.
You had a heart that gave endlessly,
and your kindness and courage left a mark on everyone who knew you.

Aluba, your memories are my life’s only solace.
I miss you.
Rest easy, my sister-friend.

A TRIBUTE TO MAMA NENE
Death according to scripture is an appointment to everyone has to keep but the day and time is unknown to the person the LORD in His infinite wisdom withheld this great knowledge from humanity. Ecclesiastes 8:7-8 say. Indeed how can people avoid what they don't know is going to happen? None of us can hold back our spirit from departing. None of us has the power to prevent the day of death. There is no escaping that obligation, that dark battle. And in the face of death wickedness will certainly not rescue the wicked. Oh! Death struck without minding, Chai! You were unable to fight back to live on. Your death shook the world leaving all in a great shock and confusion. It is hard to say goodbye
Rest on Aluba

Just when I felt we have wedding to plan, you left without a sign . But God knows the best I will always miss your here.thanks for your care and love over the years . keep resting in peace mummy.

Tribute to Mama Nene
Your passing has left an undeniable void, a truly surreal moment that has marked this year indelibly. You were so vibrant and full of life, you left us far too soon.
Mama Nene was a woman defined by her remarkable strength and unwavering dedication. She approached every responsibility with a grace that inspired all who knew her, facing challenges with both determination and steadfast commitment. Her work and personal ethic were truly exceptional; she carried her duties not as burdens, but with a profound sense of dignity and purpose.
She lived a life of integrity and grace, a true blessing to her family and to everyone who knew her. While we deeply mourn her loss, we are profoundly grateful for the time we shared and for the powerful example she set for us all.
Rest peacefully, Mama Nene. You will be deeply missed.

💐 A Personal Tribute to My Beloved Aluba!

My dear sister,
It’s still hard to believe you are gone. You were more than a sister to me — you were my confidant, my encourager, my young friend. Your love was deep and genuine, your passion for life contagious, and your faith in God unwavering.

You lived with purpose and conviction, never afraid to stand for what you believed in. You spoke the truth boldly, loved freely, and gave selflessly. Everyone who knew you felt your strength, your openness, and your heart of gold.

You were a devoted Christian, a loving mother, and a dependable sister — ever ready to defend, to provide, and to plan for others. You touched so many lives with your kindness, wisdom, and courage. You showed us that faith is not just spoken but lived, even in difficult times.

You were a pillar of IMMAHACO Lagos Chapter,
Steadfast, faithful, and true.
For eight devoted years you served,
As Financial Secretary, through and through.
With grace, integrity, and heart sincere,
You gave your best, year after year.
So accountable, so full of care,
Your service blessed us everywhere.

Your love for our Alma Mater never waned,
Your loyalty and zeal remained.
In every duty, large or small,
You gave your heart, you gave your all.

Though your departure has left an emptiness words cannot fill,
I find comfort in knowing you are resting in the arms of our Lord,
where pain and sorrow no longer reach.
Your legacy of love, truth, and devotion lives on
in all of us who were blessed to know you.

Indeed, Aluba, you walked this path and left an indelible trail.

Sleep on, my beautiful sister, until we meet again in glory.
You will forever live in my heart.

Adieu Aluba!
Adieu Chidinma!!

Constance Chika Onyeani-Nwosu

A painful tribute to our precious Chidinma Inem.

All of our Words cannot really explain it.

Our feelings cannot express it either.

If it was within our strength and resources to save you, we wouldn't have let you go Chy dear

We only hold unto the lasting memories and legacies that you left behind.

You were our sunshine, a dedicated and selfless Caregiver, very jovial and equally the glamour of all our meetings.

You were always available and resourceful whenever AWCO beckoned on you both home and abroad.

You were very supportive both financially and otherwise to AWCO and to everyone who reached out to you for help.

When we heard of your illness, we all sat on the bare floor and cried and prayed and hoped that you would survive as the strong woman that you were but God's permission had to prevail and we can't question God.

When we heard that you had gone home, none of us could muster enough courage to pen it down. We kept hoping that it wasn't true.

How are the mighty fallen??

You had the strength of a unicorn, the heart of a lion, the beauty of a diamond and yet the feminism of a woman.

We will surely miss you Chidinma as we hope of seeing you again at the resurrection morning when we will understand it better.

Adieu our baby elephant!
Adieu our Oguzo-okangwo.
Adieu Chidinma bekee!!!

May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.

Amen.

Signed.

Elder Mrs Nina Udunma
Ibeh
President Awco Lagos

Mrs. Ihuoma Emmanuella Ude
Secretary Awco Lagos

AWCO Lagos Chapter

To my favorite aunt♥️
I was so privileged to have you as my very special aunt that meant so very much to me, you were such an important part of our family. If only we could have had you here longer, your time was so short while you were here with us. I am so grateful that some day I will see you again and get to spend eternity with you.

To aunty Chi ❤️
Onyi baby has about five close friends, and she’s never missed a chance to let them know how much she loves them, And boy, did she love you. From the moment you stepped into her (our) lives, you radiated a light that was impossible to ignore. Honestly, it feels unreal writing about you in the past tense.

This morning, as I helped your daughters sort through your final laundry, I found myself reflecting on how fragile life is (I saw you 6 weeks ago). I thought about how I used to be scared of coming over because you’d insist on overfeeding me, how you created such a safe, warm space where Onyi could simply be a girl again. She adored you for that. I’ve just remembered when I made that compilation for her 50th birthday and forgot to include you, she made me re-edit it because of course you had to be there. 😂

Thank you for being my bonus mummy. Thank you for opening your arms to Nicole and me in July. Your kindness will outlive you, your love will echo in our hearts, and your light will never dim. I will carry you in my heart always ❤️. Rest in peace, our Aunty C. 💛

My dearest Chi baby, I'm still coming to terms with the fact that you're really gone, I say ‘coming’ because i doubt that this will ever be real to me. September 11th is always a painful reminder of the tragedy that happened 24 years ago but now, September 11th has a new meaning to me, it started like any other day, but ended with me losing my shinning star, sister and a beautiful soul who touched countless lives. As I sit down to write this, I'm overwhelmed with emotions, tears streaming down my face, just thinking about the void you've left in my life and that of our loved ones.

We were more than friends; we were sisters, bound by laughter, tears, and unforgettable memories. Your kindness, generosity, and compassion inspired me every day. Your children, oh, your precious babies! They're going to miss their amazing mom so much. Jojo, your little bundle of joy, will grow up with memories of your love and sacrifice. Every time I think about him, my heart breaks.

And my children, whom you lovingly took as your own, who spent countless days and nights under your roof, they're heartbroken too. They miss you so much, and I can see the pain in their eyes. Some bonds never break; they just change address from earth to heaven. You're now our angel, watching over us from above, till we meet again.

I'll cherish the memories we made together, like hanging out whenever I was in Lagos, taking jokes, and bringing out the little girl in each other's lives. Those moments were truly special. I know you're in a better place now, where you feel no hurt or sorrow. Heaven gained an angel, and we're left with memories of your love and laughter.

As I fondly call you,chichi and we called each other "Nwa Aba Ibem," our bond will never fade. I still cry every day, thinking about the moments we shared, the conversations we had, and the plans we made. The silence left by your absence is deafening. I'm going to miss our late-night chats, our silly jokes, and our deep, meaningful conversations. You're more than just a friend to me; you're a part of me.

As we prepare to lay you to rest on December 19th, I want you to know that we'll miss you more than words can express. Your family, your friends, and everyone who knew you will cherish your memory and strive to emulate your kindness. Rest now, dear Chidinma. Your soul is free, and your legacy will live on in our hearts. We miss you so much, Chichi. Till we meet on the last day, rest in peace, Nwa Aba Ibem. 🌹❤️"

TRIBUTE TO MAMA NENE

A TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR BEAUTIFUL, KIND HEARTED, BURDEN CARRIER, ELEGANT, INTELLIGENT, WONDERFUL ELDER SISTER.
WORDS CAN’T CONTAIN THE MEMORIES I HAVE BUILT OVER THE YEARS OF YOU AND IT HURTS THAT I CAN’T BUILD MORE BECAUSE I ALWAYS CHERISHED THEM AND LONGED FOR MORE.

IN 1994, AFTER THE DEATH OF OUR FATHER, YOU AT A YOUNG AGE BECAME A WOMAN. CARRIED THE BURDEN OF THE FAMILY.
YOU OFFICIALLY BECAME MY MUM OF MUMS.
A LADY LOVED BY ALL. YOUR PRESENCE BROUGHT COORDINATION AND PEACE.
ALWAYS WANTED EVERY THING DONE IN PERFECTION AT YOUR DETRIMENT, GIVING ALL.
AF IF YOU KNEW YOU WERE GOING TO DEPART, YOU STARTED GIVING GIFTS.
IN DEATH I SEE, HEAR AND STILL GETTING TESTIMONIES OF THE LIVES YOU AFFECTED POSITIVELY, BURDENS BEYOND YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY YOU CARRIED.

HOW CAN ONE PERSON SO SMALL BE DOING SO MUCH AS THIS ?
EVEN IF I CALL NAMES, NO BOOK CAN CONTAIN IT.
I CALL YOU ENYI.....
I CALL YOU ENYIOHA...
I CALL YOU GOLIATH....
I CALL YOU ,I CALL U, I CALL U I CALL U I CALL U I CALL U WHAT WORDS CANT EXPRESS.

IN YOUR LAST MINUTES AND HOURS YOU REQUESTED FOR ME THROUGH YOUR DAUGHTER ADAKU , I TOOK IT FOR A PRANK , FINALLY CAME, CALLED YOUR NAME U LOOKED AT ME WITHOUT WORDS. I CALLED YOU NAMES TO LIFT YOUR SPIRIT UP ENCOURAGING YOU THAT YOU WOULD MAKE IT AND COME OUT STRONGER. ALL U DID WAS SHOW SIGNS OF NODDING WITH THE LITTLE STRENGH YOU HAD AND I PRAYED FOR YOU BELIEVING.
I WATCHED YOU TAKE YOUR FINAL BREATH AND LEFT US .

EVEN IN DEATH ,YOUR CONCERNS ABOUT PEOPLE NEVER LEFT YOUR FACIAL EXPRESSION.

I LOVE YOU MUM, ELDER SISTER.
I CHERISH ALL YOU DID FOR ME.
YOUR CHILDREN REGINA AND JONAH MISS U SO MUCH THAT IT HURTS,UR PROMISES TO THEM ,I PRAY GOD HELPS ME WITH GRACE TO FULFIL THEM ALL.

YOU FOUGHT YOUR FIGHT LIKE EVERYONE IS SUPPOSE TO AS EXPECTED BY GOD,NOW ITS TIME TO REST.

I PROMISE YOU THAT YOUR TESTIMONIES WILL NEVER LEAVE MY LIPS TILL I DIE
REST ON TILL WE SEE AGAIN.

FROM YOUR BROTHER

CALEB UKOHA JONAH NWOKEKA & FAMILY

In Loving Memory of Mrs. Chidinma Aluba Inem, one of the nicest people I've had to call family, and a big part of my childhood. She was always full of love and kindness and carried so much grace.

Her radiant personality brought so much light and beauty to the house of ogbonnaya inem, you were taken from us too soon, but we trust that you are now resting peacefully in the arms of our Maker.

To my cousin and their siblings: Your mother's love surrounds you still. The values she instilled, the memories you shared, and the beautiful life she lived will continue to guide and comfort you.

She will be forever missed and always remembered.

A Tribute to our beloved sister in the Lord, Chidinma. It was a devastating and rude shock when I heard of your passing to the great beyond, you will be dearly missed in church and your memories will continue to live on in the hearts of everyone who had the opportunity and honour of knowing your beautiful smile and kind personality. Rest well our lovely sister chidinma and May God give your family, church family and friends the strength to bear this incredible loss, You will be dearly missed but not forgotten.

TRIBUTE TO MY LOVELY AUNTY

When God called Sarah a mother of many nations, it is my belief that He also had you in mind. With you, love was not determined by blood, tribe, religion or locality. It flowed naturally.

I still have not come to terms with the fact that you have left us physically.
Thank you for all you taught me through your actions, your words and your silence.

Your death left a deep void in our hearts, but the memory of your tenderness, kindness and loving ways still get me especially through my lonely days

My children can't even get over you, they kept asking questions that I can't even provide satisfying answers for them to understand. You were a loving big mummy to them. I lack words to really express my pain. It's well. Your legacy live in us.

Rest on, cause I know you are in a better place, where there's no pain or sickness.

Adieu Ezinne!
Good night Aunty!!
La n'udo nwanyi obioma!!!

TRIBUTE TO THE WORLD BEST NAMESAKE (MY OGBO)

Chai, I never knew that I would be writing a tribute to my OGBO so soon. I was praying and expecting to see or hear that you are well again but God knows the best.

It's hard to believe that a beautiful damsel, loving mother, caring OGBO has gone. My OGBO was a caring and loving mother figure to me. Her house was always open and accommodating even on the shortest holiday. Oh! Death, you are wicked. Why did you take such a beautiful soul away from us?

She would always send money or celebrate each of my birthday for me. I loved and cherished you (my OGBO) so much just the same way you did towards me. O! Death, where is thy Sting?
My OGBO, I'm honored to share your name and I will strive to follow your kind footsteps. Mum, I miss you so much.

I know you are resting in the bossom of the Lord. Good night! Big mummy.

Your Ogbo
Chidinma Abosi Peter.

Chidinma,

Your strength was quiet, your courage profound.

Though you carried a heavy burden in silence, your dedication never wavered. You gave your best, even in the hardest moments, and left behind a legacy of grace, resilience, and quiet excellence.

We had our heated moments but I remember you not just for the work you did, but for the heart you brought to it....You always retorted that " Sir we would do Well"
You will be deeply missed, and forever cherished.

Rest in peace dearest Chidinma.

Chidinma you came you lived and added colours to everythings you touched and everyone who encountered you on your journey. I met you only once when you were invited to my birthday party by my younger sister Onyinye who was your friend. . You instantly made a remarkable impact. Thank you for coming.
Go well great woman of impact. We will forever miss you.

M

A Meteor Dimmed

Aluba—as I fondly called her from the very beginning—was my bosom friend from childhood. I was privileged to grow up in a contented family that lived among the affluent in Abiriba, a neighbourhood graced by notable figures such as the late Chief Nnanna Kalu of Star Paper Mill, Elder Chief Echeme Emole (former Minister of Town Planning, Eastern Nigeria), Dr. Ezikpe Anagha Ezikpe of Aloma Medical Hospital, Umuahia, and our respected nonagenarian Chief Kalu Kalu Onuma of the famous Aku International... just to name a few.

Then came PICO International's Chief Jona Nwokeka Ndukwo, whose magnificent mansion was crowned by a giant elephant sculpture. On the flip side of this privileged society was me—a confirmed Abiriba Uluo area boy with an unrestrained, open-hearted spirit. I entered homes and hearts with reckless abandon; in my world, a fine city girl made no difference. Back then, the rich and poor mingled freely, and friendship knew no class boundaries.
From our Egwuena Girls’ Secondary School abode, I often straddled across the road to those affluent homes in search of innocent mischief. During one of those festive seasons, the Nwokekas returned home, and out of the blue, Aluba appeared—like a meteor. She shone so brightly that her brother, Nwokeka, had a hard time keeping us away from her. But Aluba was no ordinary girl; she was a confirmed tomboy—she no gree for Musa! We would swing, run around their large compound until an emissary came to recall me home, or her parents stepped in to end our escapades, or I simply had to “change sim” and port to another mansion in search of mischief. Had those interruptions not occurred, we might have played for Africa and made everyone proud!

Years later, when my family moved to the city of Aba, we came even closer to our neighbours. Aluba and I remained friends, though our meetings became less frequent. I could no longer stroll across the road to her house as before—city life had built its own wall of Jericho. Yet, we maintained mutual respect and a warm connection whenever our paths crossed. Sadly, those were the days before mobile phones, so keeping in touch wasn’t easy.

I vividly recall throwing a party at our home on 12 Ekenna Street, Aba—she attended with three others: her girlfriend (whose name I can’t recall), Oti Onwuka, and her cousin, the young heir of the PICO family, the late Okechukwu Ndukwe (Okas). Aluba was as decent, respectful, and radiant as ever—a true shooting star, maturing gracefully with every passing year, especially in spirit. She too had caught the righteous bug.

Eventually, she graduated and got married to my relation, Chief Nwaka Inem. Though our contact reduced with life’s demands, Aluba never missed a chance to reconnect. If we were at an event together, she would not only greet me warmly but sit with me. I remember seeing her again at The Redeemed Christian Church of God campground—she was expectant then, perhaps with her first child. Walking past, amidst the large crowd, she waved until I noticed her. That was Aluba—ever warm, ever genuine.

I recollect seeing her again at AWCO events: first at Dover Hotel in Lekki, where we shared a table, teasing each other like old times; and later at Virgin Rose Hotel. She spotted me with my wife and still came over to give me a hug—thankfully, my wife already knew her. There was also a Thanksgiving event her husband hosted; I was with the Inems all day.

Another occasion was when, as Secretary of ACIU Lagos Chapter, I was tasked with planning the burial ceremony, in concert with AWCO, for our late Vice President, Madam Ure Asiegbu—a former executive of AWCO Lagos and the first female executive in any ACIU body. Aluba was a member of that committee. Throughout planning and execution, she became my go-to person for tough decisions and delicate tasks. Her dedication and wisdom were unmatched.

Whenever we met, it was always with genuine respect. Though by modest bragging rights I am older by at least a year, she always jokingly called me her age-mate—a term I gladly accepted, out of deep respect for her beautiful soul. I, in turn, often called her “Nwanta m” (my younger one), and she fondly replied, “Nwanta Ukem” (my age-mate).
Our last meeting was at Barrister Chijioke Emole’s family double wedding event at Ikoyi and Lekki. We sat together at both occasions until AWCO duties called her away.

I was deeply pained when I heard of your passing, Chidinma. The grief cut deeper when I learned that my sister, Lady Chinyere Azike, was with you in the hospital when I called her, unaware you were hospitalized. I never got to hear your voice again or share our usual banter, nor was I offered the chance to pray with you—the least I could have done.
Aluba, you brought so much light, laughter, and strength in everything you did—a true meteor whose brilliance illuminated everyone around you.
From her early days, Aluba embodied courage, excellence, and grace. It was no surprise that from the moment she joined Zenith International Bank around 2008 (if my memory has not collapsed like the national grid), she became an invaluable asset—serving faithfully in a competitive industry with a high career mortality rate, until her untimely transition.

My heart goes out to her lovely children—Nnenne, Adaku, Ogbonna, and Okoh—who must now navigate life without their loving mother’s guiding light. I also extend my deepest condolences to my elder brother, Chief Nwaka Inem, who must now bear the loss of a devoted wife and soul partner, while caring for their four beautiful children. To Nwokeka, her dear brother and lifetime bodyguard, and to her younger siblings, family, friends, and associates who loved her—we are united in grief.

Aluba, you came into this world and left when your light was still needed. Though your time was brief, your impact is etched in the sands and hearts of time. You will forever remain our beloved, unforgettable meteor—the light that dimmed too soon.

Sleep on, Chidinma Aluba Inem.
May your new abode be paved with peace and comfort forevermore.

A loving and caring woman who ensures the family is together always. My best experience of her was during JoJo's birthday where she ensured all guest were well feed and looked after. Rest well ma

May your sweet and gentle soul rest in perfect peace. I pray you find solace and peace in heaven as the Lord comforts your beloved family and wipe away all your tears..rest on Ma(ONCEsq) Edward Nnamdi Okonji

Chi my loving sister, you were the pillar of Jonah Nwokeka’s Clan,A sister like no other and my confidante. Your laughter and kindness filled our lives with warmth, and I will carry your spirit with me always. Though my heart aches, I find solace in the knowledge that you are at peace in the bossom of our lord.. I love you and miss you more than words can say.
Adieu Mama Nene…Adieu Ada ukwu..You will be missed and your memory lives on…Myself,Nene,Regina and your Ogbo Chidinma will miss you

Aunty MMA!
The beautiful one in and out ✨I choose not to mourn you but to celebrate you 🥰You alwaysss lit up rooms as you enter them with your beautiful aura. You love freely and to this you love, you go extra. Thanks for the love you always showed me and my family. You’ll forever be missed. We all do love you. And we are glad you are resting in the bosom of our creator. Go well sweet aunty MMA💐

Dear Mummy,

It is with deep sadness that I write this. It still feels unbelievable that you’re gone. The last time I spoke with you was during a video call with Nene, and as was your custom, you asked about my wellbeing and that of my family.

I am grateful for the beautiful life you lived and for your amazing children. You were full of love, light, and warmth.

I remember the first time I met you — one of those days when we (Nene’s friends) came to your house to eat after school. I remember being in awe of your beauty and kindness. Thank you for opening your arms, heart, and home to us. You took all of Nene’s friends as your own children. I remember you taking us to parties and to thanksgiving services at the Presbyterian Church. You were always the life of the party. I’ll never forget your radiant smile.

Thank you for always allowing us to have sleepovers at your home and for ensuring that we were always well fed. The last sleepover we had was in 2021 before I left Nigeria. Dumebi, Oluchi, Khadi, Nene, and I had a wonderful time creating memories and laughing into the night. Thank you, Aunty, for your love over the past 13 years. I pray that the Lord comforts your children.

I am comforted knowing that you are at the feet of your Saviour.
I love you, Aunty.
Till we meet again, to part no more.

Martha

Dear aunty Chidinma,
Your death came as a shock, and till now I am still in doubt of your demise. I lack words to describe your type of person, may you find rest and may God continue to heal the ones you left behind, sleep well aunty.

It's with a heavy heart that I write this. Cause it's only being a while and knowing you through my friends your children, and it has been a blessing to me.

You treated me as a son rather than a stranger you welcomed me with open arms and indeed showed me a mother's love while I came to Abriba for the first time.

I remember when I was told about your demise it broke me because I had earlier lost someone close to me just 2 days before your passing into glory. We love you ma'am but the God loves you best. I will forever cherish your goodness towards me and your care keep resting ma'am. Until we meet again in his glorious day.

Machi, I still can't believe all that I'm hearing. It's just a rude shock to know that you have gone to be with your maker.
I still remember the first day you walked into our branch(old Ojo Rd). We worked together and of a truth, you are such a lovely & free spirited person. I still remember the last time we chatted was on my wedding anniversary.
I'm glad our paths crossed.
I also remeber the December washing we did together and working with you was such a good experience.
God be with your husband,kids and Old Ojo Rd Branch and may He give them all the strength they need to get through this.
I miss you Machi and that lovely smile of yours.
Keep resting in peace with the host of heaven.
-Amalachukwu Agwuegbo

Dear Dimma,
It’s so hard to accept this news-That Chy is no more??How????This is unbelievable!!!Chy with a bewitching smile,good hearted,kind hearted,jovial,amiable,hardworking,resilient woman.An Amazon,and a queen in her own right!!!
Death why???
Death be not proud!!
You have achieved nothing ,but rather put her at the foot of Her maker.,but alas so early!!!
Dimma,as I call you,was is not you and I ,that were roommate the Boat Cruise???
You couldn’t stay a day without calling OGB,et al,and will insist on a video call with the last ,while the boat rolled us to beautiful places.Was teasing you to drop the phone and enjoy the moment.Mother-Hen , that’s who you are.What about your sleepless nights during COVID,you told me how worried you were about your children in China,and we consoled ourselves that “Omnipotent reigneth “and He did come through,Nothing missing and Nothing broken.
But came this ugly news-Dimma dead???
This reminds us that Man is nothing but a passing shadow,here today and tomorrow no more.We cannot question THE I AM,He has the final say.May I put up allocutus before HIM to pray for Mercy,and Merciful He is,for He will grant you rest eternal.To OGB ,siblings and hubby,pls be consoled .Tasie.,
Rest in peace,lovely one,Asanwa,Omalicha,Oyoyonwa till resurrection morning.
Emily

My beautiful Aunty Chidinma, Amanda and I are deeply saddened by your passing .You were such a kind, loving, and blessed woman who lived her life beautifully and raised her children with so much love and grace. It was always a joy seeing you during the summer; your warmth and gentle spirit will never be forgotten.
Amanda and I miss you dearly. We’re praying that God comforts your family and gives them the strength in this painful time. May your soul rest peacefully in God’s eternal light. We love you!!

With love and heartfelt sympathy,
Comfort & Amanda

My Dear Chidinma, my heart is deeply saddened to hear of your loss.
You were so loved , with such a beautiful soul, graceful, kind, and full of warmth. It was always such a delight to see you; you always had a way of brightening every space you entered and leaving people feeling better just by your presence. Your gentle spirit and genuine kindness touched so many hearts, mine included.
In moments like these, words can never truly capture the depth of pain we feel, but God knows best. Your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. May God grant them the strength to endure this season, the peace that surpasses understanding, and the comfort that only His love can bring.
May your memory continue to live on through all the lives you touched, and may your family find solace in the beautiful legacy of love you left behind.

With my deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers,
Lolo Nkechi Jombo

Beloved Machi,

I am still in shock over this news. As much as I know that death is a reality of life, this hits very hard.

I am grateful for the time we shared at Old Ojo Road branch.

I am grateful for the purpose-driven life you led.

I am grateful for the children God blessed you with.

God rest your beautiful and kind soul.

May He watch over your children and may the Holyspirit the Comforter comfort all who mourn your passing.

I love you Machi. Rest easy.

You were exceptional and humble. I recall your advice to me and hold it close to my heart. We love and miss you, but God loves you more. Rest in peace Chidinma.

A Tribute to My Friend, Aluba (Our Beloved Lubas)

There are some people whose presence lights up every room they walk into — whose laughter lingers long after they’ve left. Aluba, fondly called Lubas, was one of those rare souls. Losing her at just 51 feels like the world has dimmed a little.

I met Lubas through Immahaco, our beloved old girls’ association. What started as shared laughter at our monthly alumni meetings in Lagos grew into a genuine friendship — one built on mutual respect, shared memories, and the bond of sisterhood that only those who walked the same school halls can understand.

We served together in the alumni executive for several years — she as the Financial Secretary, I as the Secretary. And what a team member she was! Meticulous in keeping records, transparent to the core, and fiercely committed to accountability. Lubas was the kind of financial secretary every organization prays for — one whose books could speak for themselves, because they were kept with integrity and pride.

Beyond her role, she was the life of every gathering. A natural organizer and event planner with an eye for detail and a heart for people. She could turn the simplest meeting into something memorable. Her generosity knew no bounds — not just in giving, but in spirit. She celebrated others sincerely, lifted her friends in their low moments, and always had the right words to bring laughter even when things got heavy.

Lubas was bold, driven, and unstoppable. A go-getter who believed that no dream was too big and no task too daunting. Her humor was unmatched — quick, witty, and warm. She had a way of making people feel seen, valued, and loved.

To say she will be missed feels like an understatement. Her passing leaves a void in the Immahaco family, in her circle of friends, and most painfully, in the hearts of those who loved her. But though her journey was short, her impact was profound. She lived well, gave much, and left behind a legacy of laughter, loyalty, and love.

Sleep well, dear Lubas.
You ran your race with grace and fire.
Your memory will forever be a blessing to all who knew you.

Rest in peace Lubas, beautiful friend and sister

Throw back to early 2002, when we first met as pioneer staff of Eric Moore branch. On that first day of opening Eric Moore branch of Zenith bank, I met Chi Chi, she was very receptive, warm and welcoming. For another 23 years plus, she remained a very good friend, ally and trusted confidant. We grew and progressed together. We shared a lot of memorable and unforgettable times and events. We studied and learned together. In good times, we rejoiced and celebrated. In challenging times, we encouraged and supported each other.
Until that early morning of 11th September, 2025 when the grim reaper numbered her among its victims, Chi Chi remained very lively, full of energy, and determination to reach the pinnacle of her career.
She left this world in a hurry. Even when millions of her admirers would have wished she continued, Possibly forever. In her short journey here, she left in our minds an indelible mark of kindness, love and affection in all of us. She was a very positive woman.
It is hard to say good bye. But the call you answered is stronger than ours. Continue to rest in Heaven my friend.
Evans Egbule (ACIB, AFIOR, FERP, MCIS)

Our Dearest Sister and friend Aluba,

This is the hardest truth we’ve ever had to face—
And yet, it is our new reality.
It feels unreal, like a story written wrong,
A dream we desperately wish to wake from.

You were our compass, our planner,
The architect of joy and togetherness—
We were meant to journey through life with you,
To laugh on holidays,
To celebrate milestones,
To grow old, side by side.
This was never part of the plan.

Sweetheart, where did you go
Without a word, without a goodbye?
Why this silence, so final, so sudden?
How can the sun rise the same way,
When you are no longer here to greet it?

We are shattered—
Fragments of ourselves scattered in grief.
The world has tilted,
And nothing will ever feel right again.

From the playgrounds of childhood
To the promises of shared dreams,
You were always there.
Now those memories sting,
Because the future we imagined
Has been torn from our grasp.

But oh, the love we shared—
Deeper than this loss,
Stronger than this sorrow.
We were the 4 Chys,
Sisters not by blood but by heart—
No rivalry, no gossip,
Just unwavering love.
Even with distance, life’s challenges, and change,
Our bond held firm.

Now, silence echoes where your laughter lived.
We are numb,
Our words, inadequate to carry the weight of this grief.
This pain cuts deeper than we knew was possible.

Life, we now see, is a kaleidoscope—
Forever shifting,
Forever fragile,
A tapestry of moments,
Each one a fleeting glimmer in the vast unknown.

And yet…
We cannot fight the hand of God.
If He has called you home,
Then we release you with trembling hearts,
Praying you rest in His eternal embrace.

Sleep well, beloved sister.
Until we meet again—
Where no goodbyes are spoken,
And no love is lost.

Forever Your Soul Sisters,
(Once known as ‘The 4 Chys’)

Tribute to My Beloved Friend and Sister

Some friendships are so deep that they go beyond blood, and that was what we shared. From secondary school, through our university days, and then reconnecting again in Lagos, it was as though God Himself destined our paths never to part. And truly, we never did, until death came to separate us.

You were more than a friend; you were my sister. We shared our dreams, our truths, and we were always a great team, planning events, coordinating activities on various platforms, we made everything look easy without people knowing how much efforts we put in, most importantly not leaving anyone behind. Yes, we also had our disagreements and our quarrels, but the love of sisterhood we shared always won. Nothing was ever strong enough to linger between us, because love always brought us back together.

This last month has been one of the hardest of my life. Watching you struggle with your health, spending time with you, praying with you, holding on to hope and faith that God would bring you through. I remember so vividly the day before you passed, I was there, holding your hand, rubbing your hair, whispering words of encouragement. You couldn’t speak, but I know you heard me, especially when I saw that single tear drop from your eyes. I kept telling you that God was with you, that you should hold on. Never, not even for a second, did I think that would be the last time I would hold you alive.

When the call came the next day, telling me you were gone, my world shook. I questioned God, I asked why. Slowly, painfully, reality began to set in, that you were truly gone. My heart still struggles with it, and I know this pain will take a lifetime to heal.

But my dearest sister, I refuse to remember you in those final moments. Instead, I will hold on to the beauty of who you were: our laughter, our dancing, our endless conversations, our unbreakable bond. Those are the memories I will carry in my heart forever.

I pray for your children, for your family, and especially for Jojo, your handbag. May God Himself comfort them and give them the strength to bear this unimaginable loss.

Babe, like we always called each other, I will miss you more than words can ever say. Rest peacefully, sis. I loved you in life, I love you still in death, and I will continue to love you until we meet again.

Rest in peace, my dearest Luba-Briba. 🙏💔

Nekky Onochie

Although we are first cousins, I’ve always called you Sister Chidinma, and we’ve treated each other like true siblings. You always wanted to take care of everyone and make sure they were having a good time. Your visits to the U.S. were always full of joy and new adventures.

Your last trip last year was one of my favorite visits. I felt that we truly got to know each other on a deeper level than ever before. We shared stories we had never shared before, and something about that trip felt profoundly different—meaningful in a way that I’ll always treasure. I’m so grateful we had that time together.

My dear Sister Chidinma, you are deeply missed. The vibrancy you brought into every room is no longer here, and that truth is hard to accept. But God has called you home—to be with your mom, your dad, and so many beloved family members.

The village you nurtured is the same village that will now surround your children, your siblings, and your loved ones. We know that grief does not end in a day, and we will continue to honor your legacy by living with the same love and grace you showed to all.

Rest in peace, my dear sister, until we meet again.