Bradley Hyrum Buttars

September  19th, 1994 October  15th, 2024
Titusville, Florida
Bradley Hyrum Buttars

Alana would like this to be a space where you can share any memories you have had with Bradley. The good, the sad, the happy, the bad. Bradley was a part of a lot of people's stories, and she would love to hear how he was part of your story.

Obituary

Bradley Hyrum Buttars was born September 19, 1994 in Salt Lake City, Utah to Brock and Arlene (Hall) Buttars. In his early years, Bradley enjoyed college life with his parents. He loved going on bike rides around the university village, sitting on his dad‘s shoulders while walking to the Ute football games, and growing vegetables in the community garden. At five years old Bradley’s family, which now included his little sisters Hailey and Eliza, moved to Prosser, Washington. There, Bradley started kindergarten and later graduated from Prosser High School. Two more sisters, Jenna and Emma, were welcomed into the family during these years.

Much of Bradley's love for learning may have been initiated while his parents were both earning their degrees in Salt Lake City. It was preferred that one parent or the other would be home with him, so schedules for work and classes were arranged to give each parent time with him. During Brock’s time watching Bradley and studying, sports were often on the TV, particularly the Utah Jazz basketball games. At the age of two you could ask Bradley who played for the Jazz and he would give the first and last names of the entire starting lineup (John Stockton, Karl Malone, Bryan Russell, Jeff Hornacek, Greg Ostertag) and then you would say, “Who is the coach?” and he would say, “Jerry Sloan”. He spent time in the local museums and parks exploring and learning often with other little friends.

Bradley really enjoyed his role as big brother, and his sisters looked up to him as someone incredibly determined, intelligent, thoughtful, explorative, and passionate. He was a genuine listener and great at taking interest in what his sisters were interested in. As the oldest sibling, Bradley was deeply impactful in his sisters’ own journeys and was instrumental in breaking barriers when it came to understanding and talking about mental health. His sisters will cherish many memories of days spent riding bikes, imaginary wizarding world play in the backyard, bush-wacking along the Yakima river, catching tadpoles, weekend tackle football, blowgun hunting, the many long stories he would tell his sisters - including the entire plot (in great detail) of the Hobbit on a bike ride from Prosser to Grandview, and so much more. Before he left home, he took each sister on an ice cream date where each felt his individual love for them.

Bradley approached life with a remarkable intensity, always challenging himself intellectually, spiritually, and physically. Scouting provided Bradley with meaningful time alongside his father, from his early days in Cub Scouts through earning his Eagle Scout rank. With his dad, Brock, often serving as his scoutmaster, they shared many adventures together—camping, hiking, and canoeing throughout Washington. These experiences not only strengthened the bond between father and son but also created lasting friendships for Bradley with his fellow Scouts. History Club was another outlet for Bradley's creativity and love of learning. He participated in this with Alana from the origins of the club at Housel Middle School to the founding of it at Prosser High School.

He was always engaged in a new hobby or “phase” that he would dedicate himself wholeheartedly to, some of which included robotics, wilderness survival, a brief stint of dubstep music and dancing during his teenage years. He also excelled as a runner, competing at the state level multiple years in track and cross-country. He ran a 4:17 mile and was the fastest long distance runner in the school. His teammates remember him as a kind leader who made everyone feel welcome, with a sense of humor that lightened even the toughest of practices.

Bradley’s capacity for love was evident from an early age. In 5th grade, he fell for the love of his life Alana Peters, a kind and intelligent girl who would become his lifelong partner. Their love story began with anonymous notes left in her locker in 6th grade and grew throughout middle and high school as the two attended school, church, and activities together. Everyone knew they were best friends and displayed leadership together in their involvement in many extra curricular activities like student body leadership. Bradley graduated from Prosser High School in June of 2013 and decided to serve as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. He served in the Malaga, Spain mission from July 2013 to July 2015. He was a dedicated and passionate missionary, and his compassion for others grew as he served. This time was made sweeter when he was assigned to be companions with Zach Christiansen, who became a dear friend.

Upon returning from his mission, Bradley started school at Brigham Young University, where he and Alana were happily reunited. They were married in the temple on December 19th, 2015. This was both of their biggest dreams come true and the happiest day of their lives. Together they enjoyed being foodies, dancing, music, traveling the world, learning new things, and exploring nature.

During his time at BYU, Bradley built the university’s rocketry club from the ground up. His team built several composite rockets, and competed at the Spaceport America Cup, where they placed as high as second place in the nation. He interned with Orbital ATK/Northrupp Grumman. He also built a lightweight, high-mileage vehicle as part of his senior capstone project. Bradley always made time for hobbies including jujitsu and teaching himself to play the cello.

Bradley and Alana welcomed their first son, Brody Hyrum, on May 23rd, 2017. Bradley embraced fatherhood with the same enthusiasm he brought to all aspects of his life, finding immense joy in watching his son’s moments of discovery- from marveling at the moon to picking up ants on the sidewalk. Bradley and Alana fostered a spirit of hospitality and togetherness, organizing weekly sibling dinners with those siblings attending BYU, often with a fun international theme. Their home was always filled with generosity and laughter, even in their tiny basement apartment. In the spring of 2019, Bradley earned his Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering from BYU.

After graduation, Bradley began an internship at Blue Origin as a Materials and Process Engineer and moved his young family in order to work in the Cape Canaveral area. His internship opportunity turned into a dream job offer, prompting his family to settle down in Florida. He was the first engineer in the test lab and one of the first employees at the OLS facility. He built the lab and test procedures from the ground up. What was originally just Bradley as the only engineer with 2 technicians expanded into a team of 40 in the lab that serviced all of New Glenn. His colleagues remember him as an especially competent and bright engineer, always willing to work his way through any problem to see that it was done right and with engineering integrity. On December 9th, 2019 Bradley and Alana welcomed their second son, Gabriel Troy (“Gabers”). Bradley continued to work as a materials test lab engineer for the New Glenn rocket, and he was looking forward to the upcoming launch.

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In addition to his professional accomplishments, Bradley found time to enjoy Florida life—he learned to surf, explored local cuisine, and spent many happy days at the beach with his family. Bradley and Alana worked hard and in 2020, bought their first home in Titusville. Having their own home brought them joy, and they enjoyed filling it with travel souvenirs, games, themed get-togethers, dance parties, and so much more. Bradley was a deeply loving and engaged father, always eager to connect with his boys. He showcased that love by learning about each of his son’s interests including learning how to play Pokémon, DnD, and chess with Brody, and imaginary legos with Gabe. The three of them would play the “stick game” outside together, LARPing for hours at a time. He loved Alana passionately, leaving her for work every day with a quick kiss, returning from work with a long kiss, never going anywhere together without holding her hand, and often doting on her like a princess at the end of a long day. He encouraged her to follow her heart in teaching dance, preschool, school, and supported and helped with her hobbies- directing children's productions, traveling to see family, and doing home improvement projects. He enabled her biggest dream, which was to be a stay-at-home Mom while her boys were toddlers and hadn't gone to school yet. He supported her passions and aspirations and loved to make her feel loved.

Bradley made many cherished friends in Florida who will deeply miss him. He especially enjoyed trivia nights, pool parties, and outdoor adventures (hiking, fish tank scaping, kayaking, rock climbing, fishing, surfing). He built many personal engineering projects at home. He was often the life of the party, doing backflips, dancing, always bringing party laser lights, glow sticks, and his beloved portable speaker, just in case. He was often the only adult chasing on the playground, the first in the pool and the last to leave, and the one cracking the best jokes. Others often told him they appreciated his energy or would smile when they noticed him. His crazy, energy-packed, no skill dance moves were something else.

Bradley had a deep passion for science, learning, and advancing exploration for the human race. Reading Wikipedia for hours on end turned him into a walking encyclopedia. He could remember it all, bursting with knowledge of so many engineering, science, history, and political topics. Rockets and space as the final frontier held his fascination like nothing else from a young age. He was privileged to be a small but important part of getting humans to the moon, Mars, and beyond into the deep unknown.

Bradley’s later years saw him diving into personal growth, intellectual honesty, and spiritual healing. He found solace and joy in listening to EDM music and attending music festivals, where he connected with a community that embodied acceptance and love. Music became a creative outlet for him, and he spent countless hours composing with his synthesizers.

Bradley’s journey was not without challenges. He fought severe depression and managed ADD. He faced each one with courage, humility, and determination to be his very best to take care of his wife and his boys. He had a growth mindset and humility- he was always willing to try one more medication, one more counseling or therapy appointment, one more difficult conversation, one more personal challenge or lifestyle change. He was committed to never abandoning Alana or the boys. His commitment prolonged and improved his life and led him to live his final years in deep peace, contentment, and lasting satisfaction.

On October 14, 2024 Bradley unexpectedly passed away at thirty years old. His last day was lived happily, healthily and perfectly- working at his dream job, tenderly kissing and hugging his wife before and after work, wrestling his boys, silly dancing to music in the living room with the family, snuggling with his boys on the couch to watch the Lego movie, laughing and chatting in the kitchen with a friend. Bradley’s friends, family, and community will deeply miss his unobstructed passion, relentless pursuit of knowledge, generous spirit, and loving heart.

Bradley is survived by wife Alana (Peters) Buttars, sons Brody and Gabe Buttars, mother Arlene (Hall) Buttars, father Brock Buttars, sisters Hailey Nordwald, Eliza Buttars, Jenna Hale, and Emma Buttars.

Celebration of life services will be held in Titusville, FL (Oct 24), Prosser, WA (Nov 30), and Burley, ID (date).

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December 14, 2024
I met Bradley in Spain, we were in the same group that started at the MTC, though I didn’t know him too well until we were in the same district in Jaén! It was the final two transfers of my mission and wintertime and just not the easiest transfers but being friends with Bradley really helped! He was always just so much fun, super friendly. He was so easy to talk to, once on a bus ride to some training we ended up talking for like an hour straight and he told me all about how he’d loved Alana since 5th grade and their crazy cute story! I also remember hanging out with the elders on a Pday like only a couple weeks before I went home and he called me “Casey” out of the blue instead of Hermana Andrew as a way of teasing me about going home and I was so taken aback because I was not used to hearing my own first name anymore hahaha. It’s hard to remember a lot of specifics when it’s been 10 years but I’ll always remember him as one of my favorite people I served with in Spain!
Casey Allen
November 11, 2024
Rocket Launch in Idaho 11/10/2024
https://youtube.com/shorts/ObhZlG-sB-U
Glade Boldt
October 25, 2024
I didn't know Bradley well, but I have such great memories of going to music festivals with him. I've never met someone who was as captivated by music as he was. When he danced, the music would fill him up. His whole body would resonate and move to it, like he couldn't help it. It was a joy to be around someone so authentic and uninhibited. I quickly learned from talking to him what a brilliant, curious, hungry mind he had. He loved talking about science, philosophy, or projects he was working on. Even more than that, he loved talking about his wife and his boys. When I spent time with him and Alana together I experienced how much they cared for each other and how they made others feel like a part of their family. Bradley will be missed by everyone he crossed paths with, and I'm so sorry for the loss suffered by those closest to him.
J.R. Griswold
October 24, 2024
I've known Bradley since we were little kids.
I remember the first time Alana told me she had a crush on Bradley, I was so excited for her and not just because it meant we didn't like the same boy anymore. But because he was a little bit country, a little bit city just like she was becoming. They were both kind and caring to those around them. And she was my sister so totally excited, spending many hours talking about it.
I remember the day she told me she was sure she was going to marry him when we were still teenagers. And then the day the ward split. We were in one ward and he was in the other. It was devastating, she was so sad she wouldn't get to see him as much, I mean other than everyday at school, every morning at seminary, every Wednesday at mutual, and all the other times we hung out. But no more on Sundays would she be able to be in class with him.
Bradley's were the first and only wrestling matches I ever went to. Cheering him on with Alana was a lot of fun, and he did pretty good. (For as much as I knew about wrestling).
We went on a double date to our junior prom and the look in Bradley's eyes watching Alana come down the stairs at her house was so full of love it was amazing to see.
Our senior year we did AutoCAD together and for our robotics competition Bradley, Dan and Bailey turned out sumo plate for the robot into a totally decked out heavy duty plate, and we destroyed everyone in the round.
I didn't get to spend much time with Bradley in later years living so far apart, but through childhood, teenager, and young adult memories those will always be good times.
Debra Wagner
October 24, 2024
Like many people at Blue, I met Brad when he interviewed me for my job at Blue. I had no idea he would end up being coming my best friend there. But we hit it off quickly. At work he was intense, somebody who was always trying to push boundaries with technology and processes, and willing to challenge authority. He was living his dream working in the space industry. Outside of work, he was uninhibited and had a great sense of adventure. He was a devoted husband and father, raising two kids even while he was still a kid himself. Gone too soon, and I’ll definitely miss him.
Chris Kain
October 24, 2024
I met Bradley, Alana, and Hailey while working at BYU. He was friendly, kind, and easygoing.
Holly Parker
October 23, 2024
Although Bradley is an adult and a Dad and a husband…..most often in my head, Bradley is still that twinkly-eyed, skinny, adorable kid with his suit and tie on headed up to share his testimony. Bradley was an example of kindness, service, inclusiveness, hard work and all things good. My kids grew up looking up to Bradley. Invitations from he and Alana to the infamous barn dances were always exciting and Bradley made it fun for everyone. Watching Bradley grow up has been a pleasure. He will be greatly missed by so many and the vacancy left behind will be immense. Alana, you and your boys are family to ALL of us. Always reach out. ALWAYS know we are here.
Sunny Wright
October 21, 2024
Bradley is in some of my best memories. Meeting Alana and Bradley in Florida changed my life. Even after I moved we visited each other’s families often. Many beach days, game nights and other adventures together. Bradley was a great father and he is going to be missed so much in this life.
Kayla Kirsch
October 21, 2024
Bradley, or more often just “Buttars”, was a name you would hear often at school. Usually in recognition for his success as a cross country/ track and field runner, or other extra curricular groups. Although we were never friends who hung out outside of school, we sure spent a lot of time together over the years through our common interests. Sports, ap/honors classes, history day, math team, open door, etc.
One thing imprinted in my memory about Bradley is that he was always cool calm and collected under pressure. In both academic and athletic competition, he never seemed too worried about the results and I think he performed better because of that mentality. While myself and others (Sara Durant comes to mind) were anxiously pacing in the hallway or reciting some lines, Bradley’s job was to crack jokes and help us keep our sanity. Bradley always found little moments to have fun and that’s where most of my memories of him are. On the bus, coming from somewhere, going to somewhere, waiting in some classroom or lobby, killing time outside Mr. Yetters portable, etc.

Which brings me to the one specific memory I want to share. I can’t remember who the other culprits were, but Bradley was definitely one. It was a warm sunny afternoon in late September, and we were waiting for cross country practice to start outside of Mr. Yetters portable. Bradley and some others had constructed a giant slingshot out of surgical tubing. I have no doubt it was designed for launching water balloons, but the walnuts were falling from the trees in the Prosser park, and Buttars had other ideas. Big heavy walnuts, with the green fruit still on the outside. About the size of a baseball, but maybe a tad heavier. I walk around the corner and the slingshot is set. They had it mounted on the gate posts that led to the football practice field between the portables. I’m sure the goal was to launch this walnut back into the park from whence it came. But that’s not what happened. Like a green flash of light, the walnut cleared the roof of the museum, then the tallest trees of the park, and then it was gone. Still gaining elevation. Our best guess was that it either landed up on hospital hill, or perhaps down past food depot. But I have a feeling that walnut entered low orbit and is still circling the earth to this day. By reading this thread, I have pieced together that Bradley became a rocket scientist after school? I hope that in his free time, perhaps during lunch breaks, he was allowed to use company resources to try to track down that walnut and discover its fate.

I also remember thinking about Bradley: “Wow, for such a skinny guy, he sure has a firm handshake, just like his dad.” I know that sounds silly, but it was memorable to me.

For the rest of you reading and posting on this thread, including Alana and Hanna and Hailey. I have not seen most of you since high school, but I think of you all often. And I cherish the memories we made and our extracurricular achievements we shared together over the years. Let’s be honest, we were the nerds and I am very proud of that. I wish you all well, and you have my condolences.
Christopher Wiley
October 19, 2024
Bradley was one of my first friends when we moved to Prosser. We had a lot of fun experiences while growing up together. It started in cub scouts with hikes, camp-outs, birthday parties, dirt-clod wars, pigeon hunting and rock rolling. We participated in several sports together and double-dated to the prom.

Although the years have separated us, I will always appreciate his friendship.
Sterling Clark
October 18, 2024
In just one year since we’ve met Bradley, our family feels so blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know him, and build so many amazing memories. He definitely knew how to host the most fun get-togethers! I can’t help but to watch on repeat, videos of karaoke and trivia at Alana‘s Taylor swift-themed birthday bash! Always so lighthearted and welcoming, he was one of the most fun-loving people to be around. I remember at my son Max’s birthday in the trampoline park, all the kids could barely keep up with him in the styrofoam pits and obstacle courses! You could just tell he was a kid at heart, and so full of energy! We will miss you terribly Bradley. Thank you so much for being a dear friend. The impact of your kindness will be remembered forever.
Hannah Edwards
October 18, 2024
I didn't have the pleasure of spending too many days with Bradley, but the one thing that stands out, was that he was always laughing or telling a funny story. He had a natural ability to be a key part of any group; a leader, a comedian, a thoughtful helping hand, a considerate soul. It's rare to find people who are so easy to get along with. Bradley genuinely wanted everyone to be comfortable, make the most of the moment, and create lasting memories. It's the World's loss to not have that positive force with us anymore. Gone too soon, I'm thankful to have had a window of time to be in his company, and will remember the experience for life.
David McKee
October 18, 2024
I was just thinking about Brad while on a morning run the other day near a lake by my house. I smelled an aroma that took me right back to the marismas (marshes) of San Fernando, Spain where Bradley and I would sometimes go running in the morning, although I could hardly keep up with his pace! It’s far too soon for him to be gone, and I send my deepest condolences to Alana, their two boys and all of Brad’s family and friends.

Bradley and I lived and served together as church mission companions in Spain for about 3 months. Of all the people I had the privilege to serve with, Bradley was one of the most impactful.

On day one arriving in San Fernando with Bradley, he had me running (quite literally *running*) from place to place, even when there wasn’t a set appointment to be at. It was immediately apparent to me that he was a purpose driven individual and had a strong drive to do what’s right. He taught me how great it feels to work hard for something you believe in.

I remember having so much fun with Bradley. It seemed like a day didn’t go by that we didn’t end up laughing hard about something, even on long hot days of hard work and rejection.

He was truly a joy to be with. I remember feeling emotional dropping him off at the train station when he was transferred to a new area. I see that as a sign of the brotherly love I couldn’t help but have for him after spending nearly every minute of every day with him for 3 months. Bradley is a good soul, through and through.

If I had to sum up Bradley as I knew him in a few words, they would be: genuine, kind, funny, and strong-willed. I am a better person for having known him.

‘Til we meet again, brother. Love you.
Ben Adamson
October 17, 2024
Bradley was part of a friend group that I desperately needed when entering high school, a group that celebrated being yourself and having fun.
Many memories were made at History Day competitions. I remember thinking Bradley was so cool that he had the skills to make a documentary (and very last minute too).
One state competition a group of us were running around exploring the campus during down time. We came across a spiral bike rack. Lance and Bradley, with arms out, tried to twist themselves through. As they lacked the ability to float midair, it didn’t work.
During that same competition’s award ceremony Lance and Bradley were taking turns holding their breath, but they had to keep pausing their “game” to cheer when first Alana’s group placed and qualified for Nationals, and then my own project placed and qualified.
When I went to my first stake dance, my mom asked Bradley and Kaleb to look out for me. I remember they flanked me and walked me into that dance like I was the president and would periodically appear at my side during the dance to resume their role.
My first week in seminary, Bradley and Kaleb performed one of many skits that were inspired by Monty Python. That particular skit (galloping into the room with coconut shells) stands out to me as a moment I decided anything could be made fun with the right attitude and willingness to be yourself. I think it was also this skit (and not totally understanding it) that led to my first viewing of The Holy Grail.
I remember many times Bradley trying to finish homework during lunch.
I remember Bradley being curious and focused during physics.
I remember when our ward boundaries were adjusted and our youth group was suddenly a lot smaller. Bradley was one that remained constant during that time and we continued to have fun activities and insightful Sunday discussions.
One activity I remember in particular was what the boys called “Meat Fest.” It was a well established tradition by the time the girls were invited. I remember trying bear, deer, llama, and frog legs. My contribution was a pumpkin pie. Undeterred by my lack of sticking to the theme, Bradley topped his pumpkin pie with bacon and whipped cream which we all discovered was a delicious combination.
As I’ve been reflecting on these memories and reading through old journals, it is apparent how important that group of friends was to me and how it affected so much of who I am today. Bradley was a main player in that group and I will forever remember his infectious joy and spirit.
Sara (Durrant) Weeks
October 17, 2024
Also, here’s some photos I found of Bradley.
Kaleb Merrick
October 17, 2024
I have a couple random memories of Bradley.

One is how nice he was to underclassmen, including myself, during Cross Country. He was wicked fast but that didn't stop him from cheering us slower people on!

Another is one time at a stake dance, when he was showing me and a few others a fun dance that he made to the song "This is Africa" by Shakira. I thought it was fun how much he sold it and enjoyed living up the moment.

A third is when there was a service project we were doing for our church one Saturday morning. He was saying that he had gotten up that morning and started to play a video game ("medal of honor" was the game, if that tells you anything about how random this memory is!) when he remembered there was a service project, so he changed gears and came to help.

The last memory I'll share is of a seminary read-a-thon we had. I remember seeing Alana and Bradley sitting against a wall and just enjoying being together. I remember thinking something along the lines of "I hope to have something like that someday." I think Alana and Bradley are wonderful, wonderful people. I'm blessed to know them and count them as friends.
Peter Cook
October 17, 2024
Bradley was one of my best friends in high school. For the last day I have had memory after memory flooding my mind.

When we were in Boy Scouts in middle school, we went on a week long camping trip. Bradley, Ricks Munn and I were in the same group for our wilderness survival merit badge. We made a shelter together and slept in it overnight. But probably the most memorable event of that trip was when Ricks, Bradley, and I were goofing off playing with fire. Ricks would grab a handful of dry pine needles, light them on fire, spray the homemade torch with bug spray, then throw it on the dry forest floor and kick or stomp it out. After doing this a few times, Ricks kicked the small fire to try and put it out but only spread it. It wouldn’t go out. Frantically, Ricks yelled to us, “Pee on it!” and began to undo his pants. I was about to follow suit, but Bradley kept his head and said, “No, let’s tell the leaders!” And began running back to camp to tell his dad and our other leaders, me close behind. By the time they got the fire put out, it had burned probably about a 15x15 foot patch of dry forest floor and was only a couple feet from catching a dry pine tree with moss all over it. It was Bradley’s quick thinking that stopped us from starting a real forest fire that day.

Spanish II in high school was a class me and Bradley really bonded. We goofed off and had lots of fun.

I remember stake dances hanging out with friends and dancing with girls.

I remember having airsoft wars in the hills behind my house.

I remember one time hanging out in the creek at the Peters house. Bradley caught a frog, and we decided to roast it on the fire behind their house. It got a little overdone, but still tasted good.

One time, we decided to get a bunch of pumpkins and blow them up with our rifles and shotguns. We loaded up the back seat of my old Honda Civic with pumpkins and guns. Unfortunately, my license plate was expired and a cop pulled us over. I was sure we were going to get into some kind of trouble since we were under 18 and had an armory of weapons in the back seat, but I only got a ticket for expired car insurance.

I remember hours spent in fields on the Horse heaven weeding, pulling sugar beet seeders, and talking. It was hard work but I loved having Bradley there working alongside me. We even called in to a radio show one day and won a giveaway.

I remember young men encampments and firesides, church classes together on Sundays and seminary weekday mornings. I remember talking and recounting mission stories on the front porch of his house right after getting back home from our missions.

I knew Bradley as a fun, hardworking, loyal friend. The kind of guy you want to be around. I’ll miss you man. ‘Til we meet again!
Kaleb Merrick
October 16, 2024
Bradley is in some of my oldest memories, so old that I think I had only started having memories not too long before. When we were all very, very little, my parents and his parents had an arrangement where when his parents would go to the temple, my parents would watch the kids, and when my parents went to the temple, the Buttars' would watch the kids.
Bradley had a whole bucket of LEGOs that he and my older sister would dump all over the floor and make up stories and games with. I, being the uncool little sister, would attempt to join in before being given a portion of LEGOs and "encouraged" to play by myself. Such is the way of little kids.
My older sister and I have birthdates near each other, so we often shared birthday parties - since he was in her age group, he was naturally at those birthday parties, and then there was the ward parties like the many Fourth of July celebrations where we would all race from the big, brown, metal pavilion to the trees that separated our church building from the Catholic church right next door.
There are not many memories of activities, events, parties, temple trips, service projects, dances and barn dances, and bon fires where Bradley was not part of - there was one time that he and Kaleb caught a frog in the Peters' canal/creek and some of us tried frog meat for the first time.

While we were never close friends (different age group), he was a regular and friendly presence in my life, and I had the privilege of watching him grow up. I am grateful to have known him - he will be remembered.

I hope that Alana and their children are able to take the time and space to grieve and I hope that they will find and be given strength, love, and support.

Liara Wilson (Yoakum)
October 16, 2024
My only interactions with Bradley were through cross country. He was always so kind to younger classes and welcoming to the XC family. It always impressed me when he ran with weights around his ankles to better himself in the sport.
Emma Wiley
October 16, 2024
As a fellow Prosser alumn, I was blessed to know Bradley in school and onward. His birthday was one day after mine, so when we had class birthday parties, we would usually combine the celebration for one big party :). I have fond memories with both Alana and Bradley in Open Door classes, honors, calculus, Mrs. Warriner, National History Day, and so on.

After having too many concussions in football, Bradley joined the XC team and he was an AMAZING runner and so fun to cheer for during the boys’ races! When he qualified for State XC, I remember sprinting along the last 200m stretch yelling with all my might. In the spring, he ran an amazing 800m and 1600m race & was an inspiration to many on the track team.

My fondest memory of Bradley is from our senior year. I had a vision for our senior skit & Bradley was one of few boys to volunteer to dance in front of the whole school. He was silly & animated & exactly what we needed in this HOCO winning skit. He was an amazing swing dancer and Alana made the best dancing partner for him.

I was honored to have taken so many classes at HMS & PHS alongside Bradley and Alana. The two of them were lovebirds from an early age & I will always remember the light that glistened in both their eyes when they would dance together <3. At our school reunion this past summer, it was incredible to see how much their love for one another had continued & grew into a wonderful family with two incredible boys.

You will be missed Bradley!
Mackenzie Lopez
October 16, 2024
As a younger classmate my interactions with Bradley were limited, but I will always remember him for one thing - smiling. When he passed you in the hallway, overheard a joke someone told, or when he inevitably passed you (again) while running laps during conditioning class, Bradley was sure to smile at you. He always made you feel so welcome and known, even in that small gesture.

As time has gone on and I've continued to hear stories about Bradley (in the way small towns and social media are best at) I've grown to admire him for who he was; kind, vulnerable, compassionate, and smart. Just the other day I heard him on a podcast and was struck by the honesty, curiosity, and empathy he led his life with. I hope to live mine like that too.
Kelly (Little) Hansen
October 16, 2024
Bradley was nothing short of incredibly kind, extremely intelligent, overwhelming gracious and true light to the world. Everyone in the PHS class of 2013 got to witness the beginning of Bradley & Alana’s love story 🤍 what an honor that is! Sending love & prayers to Alana, their beautiful boys and the entire family 🫶🏼
Cortney White
October 16, 2024
I have great memories of Bradley. He was always so encouraging during cross country in high school. I remember hanging out with Alana and Bradley throughout the years in high school. Bradley consistently had an encouraging word for people, and I remember he had a great sense of humor, and he was the source of many laughs in high school with his humor. I am sending love to you, Alana, and family, and to the Buttars family. I don't have words to convey my condolences. To say, "I'm so sorry for your loss" seems incapable of conveying the gravity of such a loss. You are in my heart and thoughts during this time.
Anna White
October 16, 2024
I frist met Bradley in 2018, when he and Alana, my second grade bestie visited Israel. I remember him being a charmer, a great man to talk to. He was so interested in everything, excited, a true explorer. And Bradley and Alana were just the greatest couple. I loved watching, from afar, them grow their family and bring two amazing boys into this world. I then met Bradley again in 2022, when I got to visit the family in Florida. I had the best time being shown around, taken out, and treated amazing by such great friends. I'll always remember Bradley as an open, interested, curious man. Our conversations were so interesting, no matter the topic. I felt like Bradley was so open, honest and forthcoming and wanted to know so much and expand his knowledge. I love you, and Alana so deaply and I am truly so heartbroken.
Naomi Ben-Gal
October 16, 2024
Bradley is one of the smartest people I have ever met. I still feel so cool saying my brother-in-law is a rocket scientist 😁 He also spent lots of time teaching me about his current hobbies everytime we visited. He took me and Brenden on private tours of his work. He let me play with his music synthesizers and would show me what he was working on. He taught me how to surf, and took us rock climbing. He explained all the complicated niches in his almost self-sufficient aquarium and inspired me to set up a similar one of my own one day. When I was younger, he stayed up until 4AM with me playing Minecraft one night and made me feel like the coolest kid in the world 😂 He set the bar high for my own search for a husband, and I am so grateful for that. My life would have been very different without him, and it will never be the same. Bradley, you are an inspiration. Thank you for everything ❤️ You are so dearly missed already ❤️‍🩹
Aspen (Peters) Johnson
October 16, 2024
Richard and I took Bradley on dates with us in high school and to football games when he was staying with Grandma and Grandpa. He was the first grand baby on the Hall side. Richard loved having a little side kick nephew. It was so fun seeing the wonder of him exploring in Grandpa’s sagebrush and dirt and the cool things he would find.
Then it was giving him advice about high school sweethearts and encouraging him and Alana when he was on his mission. The kids loved to write letters to Elder Buttars and draw him pictures. It was sharing corny jokes and laughing at Studio C sketches. He had the best sense of humor. It was catching frogs at Grandma and Grandpa’s house and naming him “Toad-ally Awesome”.
Then seeing him marry Alana and be such a great Dad. I loved when he would talk for hours with Grandpa about rockets and science stuff. You’ve left us way too soon, Bradley. We love you so much! 💙
Marlene Hall
October 16, 2024
Bradley has always been so kind to me. I've known him since we were 6 years old. Through so much time and different stages of life, it's really his kindness that stands out most to me. At stake dances, he always made sure to include me, even though I was shy. In high school, he helped me feel included, even though I was new. He was a hard worker, a kind and loyal friend, and my life is better because of him.

I thought of a few more specific memories:
- I remember as a teenager attending a performance of Swan Lake where Alana had the lead role, and Bradley was there, front row if I'm remembering right, watching the ballet as a teenage boy because he loved Alana. I remember being so impressed by that. He had brought flowers too.
- He sat next to me in AP Calculus. We had it right before lunch, and I remember he was always starving by 11 so he would start sneaking PBJs out of his lunchbox to eat during class.
- We also took AP Physics together and I remember he sat behind Alana and would sometimes play with her long hair during class. It was obvious he cared for her very much.
Claire (Cook) Ashdown
October 16, 2024
We are so unbelievably sorry to hear about Bradley. We were so fortunate to meet him and call him a friend. We will forever miss our summer swim parties and how he always went all in when it came to a themed get together. His friendship will always be a core memory for us. He was, undoubtedly, one of the greatest people we’ve met.
Brian and Chelsey True
October 16, 2024
I’m in shock. I will miss Bradley so much. We had some great times in college. He is a central reason for my finding community in very dark times. I can’t count how many wonderful times I spent with Bradley in college. We were together in the good times and the dark times, for both of us. He was and is a very dear friend to me and a truly central part of my story. My college years truly wouldn’t have been the same without him. They would have been so much darker and lonelier. He will be dearly missed.
David Sardoncillo
October 16, 2024
I have so many fun memories of high school with Alana and Bradley. Bradley was always so kind and yet teasing of me as Alana’s younger sister, like I was his younger sister too. I loved getting to be ‘in’ on some of the many things both Alana and Bradley would do out of love for each other - Bradley setting up a banner for Alana to run through to invite her to a dance when they ran cross country together - Alana picking out all the green M&Ms to send with him when he went on his mission. I loved party-hopping with them with everyone’s senior parties when they graduated. I still don’t know why they let me come. Bradley brought such a life to the party and so many fun ideas to his friends, his family, and our home. It was fun to see what he was interested in because he had such an intense interest and investment in the things he loved (including his family) that it was contagious. As an adult I have been so inspired by how much conscious and purposeful effort he and Alana put into mental health, counseling, healthy boundaries and communication and it has inspired my life and our whole family for the better. Their home in Florida was always so welcoming it felt like home to me too and I was always so excited to visit whenever we could. It was obvious how beautiful their life was there with their community, the simple day to day actions with family and the boys, and their adventures. Bradley showed me the beauty of healing and health and peace and the beauty of a new spirituality. It hurts so much that it is way too soon. I am grateful for the time we had with Bradley.
Hanna Jacobson

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Bradley's unexpected death has put some undue hardship on his wife and children. If you would like to donate, please send any donations via Venmo to @alana-buttars. Thank you for any support you can give her at this time. 
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