Betty Bolatito  Awe

Two months today 29th May 2025 that you left us.
We still miss you everyday.
I miss the calls.
Miss the laughter.
Miss the stories.
Miss the love.
Miss all the little and big things you did that made you irreplaceable and left me with five decades of love and memories.
We miss you.
Not a day has gone in the last 60 days that we do not wish God gave you more time with us.
Our hearts are heavy but filled with the warmth of your love and memories.
Sleep well Mum. You will always remain alive in our hearts . 💛💛💛💛
Betty Bolatito Awe
11 October 1947 -29 March 2025
Your daughter.

Still seems like a dream, our aunty Tito, ever bubbling, full of life, massive energy, never a dull moment, accommodating, giver. Uhmm just like that. We are comforted that you are resting in God's blossom. We pray for strength and comfort for the families you left behind. Sleep on dear aunty Tito..

Special Tribute to Chief Mrs Betty Boltito Awe – Our Beloved “Mummy”

It is with a heavy heart and deep sense of loss that I write this tribute to a truly remarkable woman—Chief Mrs Betty Boltito Awe, fondly known to us simply as Mummy. Her passing, just five weeks ago, has left an irreplaceable void in our lives, but her legacy of love, truth, and compassion will live on in each of us.

I have known Mummy all my life. She was my aunty by relation, but so much more than that in spirit—a second mother to me and my siblings. Our families were incredibly close growing up. I can still vividly remember the joy of seeing Mummy, Aunty Kike, Aunty Eni, Akinwale and Oluwole visiting our home in that unforgettable bright blue Bluebird. Those visits were full of laughter, stories, and the kind of warmth only true family can bring.

Equally etched in my memory are the times we visited Mummy at her former home inside the Forestry Research Institute of Nigeria in Jericho, Ibadan and later on at her house at Oluyole Estate, Ibadan. Those visits were filled with joy, endless food, generous love, and memories that have become part of the foundation of who we are.

Mummy was many things to many people. She was not just a mother to her own children, but a mother to all of us—a safe haven, a counsellor, a provider, a peacekeeper. In her, you found someone who never pretended, never sugarcoated the truth, but still spoke with love and intention. As my sister said just this morning, “Mummy was a very nice person.” It’s such a simple sentence, but one that says it all.

She was also extremely accommodative. There were times when my siblings and I had to spend a few weeks with her, and not once did we ever feel like visitors. Her home became our home, and there was always an abundance of food, care, and comfort. So much so that when it was time to return, I often wished I could stay longer.

What stood out most, however, was how deeply loyal Mummy was. She always had my back, especially during disagreements with my dad. She was one of the very few people who could speak to him, calm him down, and help him see things differently. During those childhood moments of turmoil, Mummy was our saviour, our bridge to peace.

Her influence on our lives was not only practical but deeply moral and spiritual. She lived a life of faith and instilled in us the values of integrity, love, and kindness. Her guidance helped shape us into better human beings. As my brother beautifully put it, “Mummy was selfless, compassionate, and very caring.”

Losing Mummy has been incredibly painful for me. I loved her so much. She left us too soon. But I take comfort in knowing that she is in heaven, resting in the presence of God, hearing our hearts and watching over us still.

Mummy, we love you dearly. I, along with my siblings, owe you a debt of gratitude for your love, affection, and unwavering support. You gave of yourself without expecting anything in return, and your impact on our lives is something that words alone cannot fully capture.

You will never be forgotten. Your name will forever be spoken with honour and love in our hearts. Thank you for everything, Mummy. Till we meet again, rest in peace, surrounded by God’s eternal light.

With all my love, Adeyinka Amole

Akinwale’s Mummy!
You were such a beautiful presence in our lives, from our days at All Saints right through adulthood. Thank you for your kindness, love, prayers, support and for always showing up for us. Your family and those left behind are evidence of the wonderful seeds you’ve sown here on earth. We will miss you greatly Ma!

Tribute to our dearest Aunty Tito - An Unforgettable Rare Gem!!!

As I write this tribute, the reality of your passing is becoming increasingly real. It's ironic that you, who often helped me craft my tributes, are now the one being celebrated. Aunty Tito, you were more than just a cousin; you were a big sister; a kind, generous, and selfless individual who loved people and was loved by many. Your commitment to relationships, your strong work ethic, and your faith in God and service to humanity were truly inspiring and a testament of your true character. You played a significant role in our family, drawing everyone together and serving as a pillar of strength.

I have fond memories of spending holidays with you and your late sister, Auntie Dupe Aina in the Ladapo Compound, Abebi, lbadan. You took me under your wings, introducing me to your friends, relatives especially from your maternal side, and showing me love and care. Your influence on my life is immeasurable, and I will cherish the memories we shared.

The news of your passing broke on Mothering Sunday, March 29, 2025, was a shock, especially as you had recently commiserated with me over the death of another loved one. Yet, we take comfort in knowing that you lived a fulfilled life, and raised four successful children who are excelling in their chosen careers. You fought a good fight, and now you rest in the Lord's bosom. Amen 🙏🏽

You will be deeply missed, especially by those who knew you best. No more will we share laughter, stories, and secrets. No more will I walk away with one of your ankara iro and buba from your wardrobe or have you shower me with various foods whenever I visited; indeed it was a “crime” not to eat anything once I stepped into your house. No more will you confide in me, each time saying, “you know I must tell you, but don’t tell anyone”, knowing that whatever you shared was safe with me. Your absence leaves a void that can never be filled. I cherish the conversations we had, including our last one two weeks before your passing. Your love, support, and guidance meant the world to me. My husband and children will also miss you dearly.

Rest in peace, dear Aunty Tito. May your gentle soul find eternal rest, and may your legacy of love, kindness, and generosity continue to inspire us all. You will forever be in our hearts and memories.

Farewell, dear Aunty Tito….Sun re e oo.

Still seems like a dream, our aunty Tito, ever bubbling, full of life, massive energy, never a dull moment, accommodating, giver. Uhmm just like that. We are comforted that you are resting in God's blossom. We pray for strength and comfort for the families you left behind. Sleep on dear aunty Tito..

Still seems like a dream, our aunty Tito, ever bubbling, full of life, massive energy, never a dull moment, accommodating, giver. Uhmm just like that. We are comforted that you are in resting in God's blossom. We pray for strength and comfort for the families you left behind. Sleep on dear aunty Tito..

Sis,
Its hard to believe you were taken from us just like that…………. We are still in shock!

When we both visited you more than fifty years ago, your warmth erased all the initial anticipation about this ‘big cousin’ that Deji was very fond of. You immediately took us as one. From then, I also got a big sister in you. Your love and affection for family was clear, exemplary and inspiring.

You approach people anywhere without needing much introduction. Your voice and enthusiasm says it all, and we all recognize ‘Sister Tito is around’ even before we see you in person. On arrival, you light up the room with your bubbly, director and can do personality to ensure things get done on time and in the right way. Someone once described you stating, ‘‘you know she is headmistress, the she who must be obeyed”. Those words typify you taking charge while extending love and consideration to all around you everywhere you are.

Your hospitality is heartwarming, your welcoming nature makes it a joy to be around you. Did we ever hear you ask about not calling or visiting enough?? Even when the schedule was tight, you always kept in touch and showed us to do the same, continually encouraging us to reach out to family. It's amazing how you thread those you know together with your love. We will miss your outreach and connections, your availability and dependability.

Thank you for your generosity. It’s always “ you need to take this”, “use this”, “I reserved this for you” You are always ready to give of your time and resources from your heart. This is a treasure in you that we will surely miss.

Adieu, Sister Tito.
We love you, Jesus loves you more.
Goodnight and sleep well in the bosom of the Almighty.

Adejoke Fatunde

TO A DEAR FRIEND AND AUNTY

Her later days were spent listening to great ministers of God in word and music as well as church services from the comfort of her bedroom.
I know she had her overages just like each of us but they were all born out of a loving heart.
That I (we) will miss you Aunty is an understatement.
You kept planning to come to Iseyin to spend some days with us but it never happened.

To the dear children and loved ones, may the Lord strengthen and comfort you on all sides.
To cope with life without Mummy is a tall order, but I know God is able to comfort you and carry you and all who mourn her through.
She lived life well.
She lived life in full.
She did all that she wanted to do.
She knew her God and served Him and her generation well.
She has gone to rest.
Rest on Oh daughter of Zion
Goodnight Aunty until we meet you in heaven to part no more!!!

From Professor Mrs Chinedum Peace Babalola

Farewell message to my dear friend.
It is with a heavy heart that I pay tribute to my dear friend.
Bolatito, you were a constant presence in my life for almost 60 years.

Your sudden passing has left a void that words can scarcely fill.
We first became close during our university days, where we shared countless memorable experiences and were a source of strength and support for each other.
Those early bonds only deepened with time. Even after we embarked on our individual journeys in life, our friendship remained unwavering.

As we raised our children, we leaned on each other for advice, encouragement and practical help when needed.

Bolatito, you were an affectionate and generous person, always ready to go out of your way to help a friend or anyone fortunate to know you. At the same time you were fearless in expressing yourself when something did not sit well with you, but always without malice or prejudice.

Your strength, discipline and unwavering work ethic shone through. You succeeded admirably in raising your four wonderful children, each of whom has gone on to build successful lives and loving families. This undoubtedly was a true testament to your character and perseverance.

I will miss you dearly my friend, but will forever cherish the beautiful memories we shared. My heart especially goes to your beloved children and grandchildren who have lost a true gem. It is my prayer that the Lord Almighty will comfort and uphold them during this difficult time and always.

Adieu my dear friend. May the angels watch over you and may you find eternal rest in the Father’s place. Amen.

In Loving Memory of My Dear Friend, Bolatito
It is with a deeply heavy heart that I write this tribute to Bolatito — my friend of 55 years. We met as young women at university, full of hope and ambition, not knowing then that our friendship would become one of the most enduring and meaningful parts of our lives.

Bolatito was a unique and unforgettable soul. She was frank, outspoken, and never afraid to speak her mind. Yes, she could get angry or irritated quickly — but it never lasted.
Behind that fiery spirit was someone incredibly loyal, loving, and deeply caring.

She was the kind of friend who would always show up, who stood firm in her beliefs, and who loved without hesitation.

She often said, “I am a woman of faith, and my mind does not deceive me.” That faith was the anchor of her life, and it guided her in everything she did. Her wisdom, her strength, and her unwavering conviction were part of what made her such a powerful presence in the lives of everyone who knew her.

We were fortunate to spend this past Christmas and New Year together. She also joined me and my family as we celebrated my husband’s 85th birthday, staying with us for four joyful days.
Those final memories are now treasures I hold close to my heart.

Her sudden passing on March 29 has left a space that cannot be filled. But in the pain of her absence, I also feel immense gratitude — for the gift of her friendship, for her laughter, for her strength, and for the love we shared over a lifetime.

To her dear children and family — thank you for allowing me to share this tribute. Know that Bolatito’s light touched many lives, and that her memory lives on in all of us who loved her.
May her soul rest in peace
 

Here's remembering and wishing my dearest cousin Chief Mrs. Bolatito Awe nee Ladipo of Ibadan (Oct 11th 1948- 29th March 2025) an easy passage into the next world.

She was a most lovely and dedicated mother of four wonderful, loving, caring and successful children... Kikelomo Ogunlela Anunobi , Eniola Obikoya , Akinwale Awe and Oluwole who have achieved a lot in her life time.

She had the grace to attend her first grandson 's graduation.
Oh cousin was ever so proud of her children and grandchildren.
My cousin Tito was a socialite in her own right .
She was a great and generous hostess.. I’m yet to know someone who had as many close friends as she had. Most from wayyy back!
Some of them became my egbons.
Cousin was proud of me too.... don't ask me why- won ma npon mi le pupo.
She loved my mother, her aunt and my mum let her know how much she loved her.
Cousin loved her family on both sides.

She was a genuine human being.
My dear cousin Tito introduced me to Mr. Akin Aofiyebi by personally bringing him to my house. The rest is history. Abi?

Orun're re ebon mi.
May you awaken to joyful activities.
May helpers surround you to lead you on a smooth path to your new abode. 🌹🌹🌹

Today, we celebrate a truly remarkable woman — a loyal friend, a fierce protector, and the heart of her family.

Her circle of friends is large, a testament to the loyalty, kindness, and unwavering support she gives so freely.

To her family, she is a constant source of strength, standing guard with a love that knows no limits. No one is more cherished by her than her beloved grandchildren, who are the shining lights of her life and the joyful recipients of her endless affection.

Through all of life’s challenges, she has met each one with remarkable resilience and a courageous determination that inspires us all.

We are so blessed to know her, to be loved by her, and to walk in the light of her extraordinary spirit.
Olujimi OBIKOYA
(Son-in-law)

A Tribute to an amazing Mother.
A mother is described as one who brings up a child with care and affection. This encapsulates you. It is a cruel irony that it was on Mother’s day I heard you had gone to be with the Lord. If it takes a village to raise a child, you were one of the elders of my village.
When I think through all the milestones of my life, you have been a constant presence: praying, cheering, encouraging and whenever was necessary, correcting. In the way you lived your life: with wisdom, excellence, discipline and the importance of family, you shaped us to be the people we are today.
You have set a wonderful standard for us now we are parents ourselves. This is your legacy.
We rejoice knowing you are in a much better place now, the only sadness is the next generation have not had the same time with you as we’ve had. You will be sorely missed but never forgotten. You lived a full and glorious life. We are all blessed to have had you. Sleep on Mum.

Mummy Mummy, You were mother to all as you embraced all Akinwale’s friends as your own children, We will miss you but I’m glad you will be resting at the bossom of the Lord🙏🙏🙏

A Tribute to a Remarkable Woman

It is never easy to say goodbye, especially to someone as kind and generous as you. You were truly one of a kind, a woman with a warm heart and a giving soul.

I called you mum, because you ware a mother to many of us, not just your biological children. I was blessed to experience your love, kindness and generosity.

Though you are no more with us, your spirit lives on in the memories we carry.

Mummy, may your soul rest in peace.

A Tribute to My Mummy, My Person, My Friend

Writing a tribute to you feels surreal! knowing I will no longer hear your voice, no longer have our endless conversations full of laughter, stories, advice, and love.

Writing this tribute has been very difficult and overwhelming, not just because of the pain but also not knowing what to write, where to start and end. Not for lack of words to write rather that there is so much to say. How do I begin to capture the impactful life of an incredible woman I had the privilege of calling my Mummy?

The pain of your passing is indescribable, but even in this pain, I have drawn strength from the many beautiful tributes shared by those whose lives you touched.

People you loved. People who loved you. Some strangers to each other, yet united by the truth of the person you were. You were consistent, authentic, and fiercely loving.

Mummy, you lived a life free of pretence. What you saw was what you got. You were the same to everyone; family, friend, stranger alike. Your heart was open, your spirit generous, and kind. To have you in one’s corner was to have unwavering loyalty, unshakeable support, and a kind of sacrificial love that is rare to find in this world.

Mummy, you were truly in a league of your own. You gave your all in everything you did. As a mother, your love and loyalty were unmatched.

Your love for us your children was sacrificial, selfless and all-encompassing.

You went without so that we could have what we needed. You gave your all and more, and you never once made us feel like it was a burden. All while holding everything together, single-handedly. You were our “Sikira and Sikiru.” the mother, the provider and the nurturer. I remember a childhood full of unforgettable experiences and cherished memories. You gave us a childhood rich in love, joy, travel, and exposure. I still remember the trips abroad, the day outings, the special moments.

You made magic from nothing, and those memories will remain with me forever. And you didn’t just raise us, you raised us well.

You instilled values that continue to guide us every single day; kindness, generosity, respect, gratitude, compassion.

You reminded us to speak the truth, to check in on people, to express gratitude and to stand up for what is right no matter who was involved.

Mummy, you were tough, Strong, a straight talker and a disciplinarian. You never minced your words, but beneath the tough exterior was the kindest, softest heart. You held no grudges, you sought peace and unity always.

You were misunderstood at times, but to know you, truly know you, was to love you without question.

Your loyalty was uncompromising, you solidly stood by the ones you loved and cared for.

You had integrity; If you said you would do something, it was as good as done, immediately, excellently, no delays and no excuses.
You went above and beyond, always.

The things you did, Mummy very few could have done them. You were a pillar for so many, strong, dependable, loving, and ever-present.

You gave and gave, and asked for nothing in return. Very few people can love the way you did. Very few will.

Mummy, you welcomed everyone into your heart and your home. Our friends loved you, They speak of you with such fondness; they speak about your warmth, your humour, your generosity. You had a gift for making people feel seen and celebrated. You truly rejoiced with those who rejoiced and celebrated them.
Whether it was a wedding, a new home, a graduation, a well-written article, a new born baby, or well-behaved children. If someone had good news, you were excited as if it were your own. You would call me or one of us immediately, just to share the joy. And oh, our phone calls, I will miss them terribly. The laughter, the stories, the reflections and the way you would narrate a whole movie to me. You made life so colourful.

I would miss getting those text messages saying “call me hot gist dey” and I would wait till I had ample time in the day to enjoy the “gist”. You always had my back, you celebrated every milestone with me, no matter how small. You worried when I worried, you knew when things were not right even when you have not been told. You prayed with me and for me. You were my constant.

Mummy, you lived a full, impactful life, you gave so much of yourself to others. You touched countless lives with your authenticity, your warmth, your strength, and you did it with grace and humility.

You’ve left behind a legacy, one that I will strive to carry forward every day. Your absence leaves a hole in my heart, but your legacy lives on and you will live on forever in my heart and in the hearts of your “D’ Engine” and your “Jopsy my darling/Jopsy e o”.

Sleep well my mummy, my person, my friend.
Your daughter,

Aunty Tito Contributed her part to the development of humanity, a very eloquent and seasoned administrator. She left a remarkable standard that will difficult to match. You will forever remain a gem aunty. May your gentle soul rest in peace. Adieu dear aunty.

Tribute to my Mother in Love

I still have not come to terms with doing this all over again for another mother. The shock of your passing hits me anew each day, as if I’m hearing the news for the first time, again and again.
You lived with such boldness and light that I almost forgot you were mortal. It never felt like this day would reach you.

I am grateful for the time we spent together. I’m thankful I got to know you. You lived life fully, and unapologetically on your own terms. You stood firm in your beliefs and loved without limits. You touched so many lives with your warmth, your generosity, and your courage. You gave so freely of yourself, not just to your family but to everyone around you.

When I lost my own mum less than a year ago, you stepped in with so much love. You reminded me that I was not motherless, you told me I had a mother in you. I held on to those words. Now all we have are memories, each one aching with your absence.

We are still listening for your morning phone calls. Who will call us by our Oriki? Who will call me “Ayoks”? Even your three-year old grandchild is impacted by your absence. We miss you dearly but we find comfort in the fact that you are resting with the Lord. Rest well Mummy.

Love,
Dunni

Bolatito, it feels just like yesterday that you, Funmilayo Da-Silva (nee Ajayi), Ronke Onayemi (nee Akisanya), Lolade Adefulu (nee Okusanya), Remi Olowu (nee Komolafe), Tokunbo Gbadamosi and I were together in the then Female Hall, as first year students in the newly built University of Ife home campus in Ile-Ife.

Whilst Ife was renowned for placing a heavy academic workload on its students, you, Remi and I along with Sunmade Akin-Olugbade, made it our mission to serve as members of the Student Union Government. You as the Public Relations Officer (PRO), Sunmade as President, Remi as his Vice and I as a nominated representative of the Female Hall.

I truly believe the world class academic and welfare facilities we enjoyed (weekly laundry and three sumptuous meals a day) instilled in us a sense of confidence that we could effect positive change wherever we went.

The drive for excellence you imbibed at the university is reflected in the contributions you made through your career and private interactions.

Bolatito, my dear friend, your legacy is not only to your children and grandchildren, but to the nation itself.

You came. You lived. You conquered.

Sun re, ore mi. O di owuro ajinde.

Omobola Adeola Imianvan mni
(née Osisami)

"Those we love never truly die." - Mummy Awe

I write this homage from the bottom of my heart; I never thought this day would come, which is why it has taken me so long. You are a wonderful mother to me and everyone else Mummy. You have a huge heart and showed everyone how much you care. You have so much love within you that you have more than enough to give.

I met you on my first day at university, you brought your daughter Eniola. I also met Eniola on that day, which was more than thirty years ago. For reasons that only God knows, I bonded with you, and you loved me like a daughter until the day you died.

Because of your kindness, I have visited Ibadan numerous times with Eni and have become friends with the other members of the family. When I'm with you in Ibadan, I always have a great time - the never-ending gist, oh, your beans! Nobody ever cooks beans that good, as far as I can tell ☺️

Even though Eni and I lost touch for a while, we all fell in love again when we found each other again more than twelve years ago, and you were there on that day as well.

As if I were one of your children, you celebrate my birthday on Facebook and have contacted me on each of my childrens birthday to pray for them. You have visited my home a few times to see us because of your unwavering affection for my family.

We spoke at length on January 31st, exuding your typical vivacity; nothing appeared amiss. I never anticipated that it would be our final conversation. The revelation of your departure was a profound shock, requiring considerable time in prayer for me to reconcile with the reality of your absence.

Mummy the children you left behind are a testament to your legacy; they are truly a remarkable bunch. Your life has taught me to be giving with my time, to love without limits, and to care for others around me biology or not. Though you are no longer with us, your spirit lives on in every act of kindness. As you go forth mummy, know that I will miss you more than words can say, and that you will be remembered and cherished forever. RIP ma 🙏 💔💔

Dear Mummy,

Words fail me in this moment, but my heart overflows with gratitude for the role you played in my life. Thank you for your constant support, your encouragement, and your ever-present ginger.

I’m especially grateful for all the times you showed up for me — one of my most cherished memories is the mid-term break I spent with you. That time remains dear to my heart.

I love you, Ma. Your voice and your words of encouragement will forever echo in my ears.

I’m praying for God’s strength and comfort for Auntie Kike, Auntie Eni, Akinwale, and Oluwole.

Our dearest Auntie Bolatito will be sorely missed. She was full of life which we experienced at her 70th birthday in Valencia and whenever we had the opportunity to either visit her or she visited us. She captured and savoured every moment with her phone camera. She was full of love and selfless. I remember when we visited her in Ibadan, she offered us her laces to take as a gift. She was so full of life that you felt her presence wherever she went. Recently she introduced us to her friends at a wedding. Very difficult shoes for us her nieces to fill. May her gentle soul rest in peace

Tribute to Mama Awe
Our Mama is gone. Chief Mrs Betty Awe was one of the early members of our society, Young Women Christian Association. She joined the society shortly after becoming a member of St Mary’s Anglican Church Oluyole Ibadan.

Mama was a committed member of YWCA. Her commitment was even recognized at our Head Quarters in Oyo state (YWCA center), where she was given an award in recognition of her services and commitment to her branch and the association at large.

In March 2022, in appreciation of her services to the society, YWCA members of St Mary’s Anglican Church Oluyole Ibadan thought it fit to make her a matron of the society- a position which she served in till her death.
Mama was a giver to the core. She enjoyed being in the company of people. She enjoyed the company of people who visited her, and whenever you did , the visit could never be a short one. She always had things to give out.
Whenever we held meetings in her house, Mama store was open to all to pick whatever you wanted. Mama gave selflessly at our society anniversary in 2024, mama singlehanded gave every member a gift . As if that was not enough, our 2024 Jesus festival Ankara was a gift to every member from Mama Awe. Little did we know it was her parting gift to us.

Mama enjoyed social gatherings. She never wanted a dull moment around her. Hence, she was a friend of many. Mama Awe did not hide her feelings and opinions on things. She would tell you her mind and leave you to go through what she has said . She was open-minded, a Counsellor and a lover of all. Mama you have done your best. We will surely miss you. Rest on, our dear Mama.
Mrs Ifebogun
President, YWCA
St Mary’s Anglican Church
Oluyole, Ibadan

*Tribute to Late Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo)*

It is with profound sadness that we bid farewell to an extraordinary woman, a pillar of strength, and a shining example of devotion, dedication, and love. Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo) may have left us, but her legacy, impact, and memories will continue to inspire and guide us.

Born on October 11, 1947, Auntie Chief Betty lived a life of purpose, touching countless lives through her various roles and endeavors. As a resident of Oluyole Estate, Ibadan, she was a beloved figure, known for her warmth, kindness, and generosity. Her home was always open, welcoming family, friends, and neighbors alike.

Auntie Chief Betty's Awe commitment to her faith was unwavering. As a devoted member of St Mary's Anglican Church, Oluyole, she served with distinction, using her gifts and talents to uplift and edify the congregation. Her love for God and her community was evident in everything she did.

Professionally, Auntie Chief Betty Awe was a trailblazer. As the Director of Administration at the National Horticultural Research Institute (NIHORT), Ibadan, she brought her expertise, experience, and passion to the role. Her leadership, guidance, and mentorship inspired countless colleagues and mentees, leaving an indelible mark on the institution.

To her children, Kike, Eni, Akin, and Oluwole, Auntie Chief Betty Awe was a loving, supportive, and selfless mother. She poured her heart and soul into raising them, instilling in them the values of hard work, integrity, and compassion. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren adored her, and she was always ready to shower them with love, laughter, and wisdom.

As we say goodbye to this remarkable woman, we take comfort in the knowledge that her legacy will live on through us. We will miss her dearly, but we will continue to celebrate her life, her love, and her impact on our world.

Rest in peace, dear Auntie Chief Betty Awe. Your memory will be a blessing to us all.

*Condolences:*

To the family of Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo), we offer our deepest condolences. May God comfort and strengthen you during this difficult time.

To the entire Oluyole Estate community, St Mary's Anglican Church, Oluyole, and the National Horticultural Research Institute (NIHORT), Ibadan, we share in your grief. May the memories of Auntie Chief Betty Awe's love, kindness, and dedication continue to inspire and uplift you.

May her soul rest in perfect peace.

Aunty Tito
The one and only “Mama Keeks”.

My mother’s oldest and dearest friend. My sister’s godmother. A mother to so many — including me.

Your recent passing is a profound loss, one that has left a deep ache in our hearts. But even in the sadness, I choose to hold on to the light you brought into every space you entered — your warmth, your laughter, and that unforgettable smile that could brighten any room.

You had a gift for making people feel seen and loved. I’ll always remember your joy in capturing moments, never without a camera or phone in hand, documenting life so beautifully through photos. I’ll miss those snapshots you used to send — of your outings, your gatherings, your world. It always felt like a little window into your joy.

Thank you for your presence in our lives.
Thank you for loving us like your own.
Thank you for the grace with which you carried yourself.
Thank you for raising such incredible children — your legacy lives on in them.
Thank you for your light, your laughter, and your unwavering kindness.

You were truly one of a kind.

Rest well, Aunty Tito. You will always be remembered, always loved.

All my love,
Dolapo Sijuwade

So surreal, unimaginable, it is unbelievable that I am writing this tribute for ‘Mum Ak’, mummy as I always called her.

Before I met her son Akinwale, I had never met ANYONE like her - yes I mean that, NEVER! When Akinwale and I started dating, my first impressions of her were kind, loving, doting to a fault, loud- she never entered into a room quietly😀, always in our business and then only a brief while after our first few encounters I got to see the other side of her, the one many people who really knew her have seen; the ‘tell it as it is, no sugar coating side’. I remember vividly that first time she told me off, I straightaway thought to myself ‘I can’t do this, I won’t get along with her’… but I loved her son and knew I had to make it work. I’m glad I stuck in and tried to get to know her better. I got to know her well, got to really understand who she was, to understand that even when she told you off it was coming from a place of love and the more I knew her, the more I grew to love her, to appreciate and admire who she was, one who was generous to a fault, had genuine care and love, so much of it to give. She didn’t do things halfway, when mummy loved you you knew it.

She was so full of life, ever so present for anyone she cared about. She celebrated every success of ours, of her granddaughters, wanted to fix any problems we had even when we didn’t tell her about it, she sensed it. “Julie tell me what’s wrong, what are you people hiding”she wanted to advise on everything and yes I mean EVERYTHING, including telling me how to hang up our living room curtains, where to place our flower pots, the list goes on. 🤦‍♀️

Mummy was so full of life, so strong, she had a big presence in any room she entered. Selfishly, we expected we would have her with us for very much longer. We loved her dearly and we knew she felt this. We tried in our own way to show her that she was special to us.

In the blink of an eye, she has gone without saying goodbye, without telling us one more time how proud she was of us, how happy she was that everyone was doing well, how her grand daughters, our girls, made her very proud. I’ve played it over and over in my head, how can this be. God please tell me it’s a bad dream, that we awake from this bad dream and just have another chance to show her how much she meant to me, to us, but alas mummy’s gone. That she will not come to visit us for another Easter holiday, Summer, Christmas, the girls so much looked forward to grandma visiting. She left us with so many wonderful memories, so many to hold dear to our hearts. I am thankful for getting to know her, to love her and to feel her love.

Rest well mummy, you may be gone from us to be with the angels, but you will never be forgotten. We miss you dearly.

TRIBUTE FOR CHIEF (MRS) BETTY BOLATITO AWE (NEE LADAPO)

It is a great honour and privilege for me to write a tribute for our dear departed, an amazing woman, fondly called Mama Kike and who fondly referred to me as Uncle B.

I got to know Mama Kike at the onset of the seventies when she was being courted and eventually got married to my late immediate senior brother, Dr Abiola Olugboyega Ogunlela, of blessed memory. Even though the marriage was short lived, but blessed with two wonderfully beautiful daughters, Kikelomo and Eniola. However short lived the marriage was, it was long enough for me to interact well with Mama Kike and discover the wonderful virtues that made her such an amazing woman.

I thank God that quite early in Life, I was able to come to the realisation that as human beings we are all wonderfully and fearfully made by God with our inherent strengths and weaknesses like all mortals. For me, i had decided quite early to always emphasise on people's virtues and strengths and downplay their weaknesses. Thus, like other relationships I have had in my Life, I was able to quickly identify the God given virtues inherent in Mama Kike that made us to flow so well with each other up to her Life's end.

Mama Kike was beautiful in and out. Indeed a God fearing, loving woman with such a good heart. She was a very honest and straightforward person, ever loyal to her friends and would always express herself very clearly without being deceitful. She harboured no bitterness or grudges against people and was always willing to help others.
This was exemplified by the fact that despite the fact that her marriage to the Ogunlela family was short-lived, she continued to identify with the Family, featuring in the functions of Family members all through to the end and showing love, kind gestures and helping out wherever and whenever she could.

Her last major social outing was probably at my 75th birthday celebration on 22nd February, 2025, when as usual she was all over the venue showing so much love and warmth to the Family members and friends who attended the event. I will forever cherish the last photograph I took with her on that day. Of course there was no way her dear Uncle B will be celebrating anything without her being conspicuously present.

I thank God for giving me the opportunity to know and interact with Mama Kike so well. Her demise was so painful, but we thank God for the fulfilled Life she Lived. May the good Lord grant her eternal bliss and also grant us all comfort and fortitude to bear her loss in Jesus name. Amen.

Sir Bode Ogunlela, KSJ.

While we weren’t always together, I always knew grandma loved me. From phone calls on birthdays to family gatherings, she always was full of love and gratitude to be with family.

Her passing is sad and will affect us all, but I know she is with God and continues to love us all.

You will be greatly missed mummy! Thank you for the exemplary love and warmth you shared with us. Rest I peace ma❤️‍🩹🙏🏾

*TRIBUTE TO A MOTHER AND AN AMAZON -:*
*The news of the shocking demise of Mummy Awe as I fondly called her,was the least we expect to happen.We never dreamt or imagined it.*
*I had known Mummy Betty Bolatito Awe for some time before we eventually became her Vicar in 2017,and immediately herself and my wife bonded together in an uncommon and unusual manner.She had a kind of special likeness for us (my wife and I),this is not to suggest that we don't have our differences,of course we do.It was not too long when I discovered the reason behind this bond:Mummy Betty Bolatito Awe and I shared the same birthday - 11th October,and we celebrated together each year.*
*Mummy Awe was an open book without guile.She was blunt to a fault,and say things the way she sees it without minding whether you're hurt or not.She was a woman with a good heart and lover of God who could give out anything for the sake of God's Kingdom work and care of His ministers;I remember a number of times that she sewed vestments (Cassocks & Surplice) for Priests in this Diocese.She even gave one of her cars to the Church during our tenure which was given to one of baby Churches.*
*The last time I saw her was at my father's burial on Friday 28th February.I'm not sure if that was not her last major social outing/function.Mummy Betty Awe was an epitome of Motherhood (that which Yoruba elders would call "ABIYAMO TOOTO",who was always praying to protect her children with all her might.Little wonder why she was so knitted and loved by her children.Inspite of the distance between her and them,they connect virtually everyday.I also would like to sincerely appreciate the children (Kike,Eniola,Akinwale and Oluwole) for not just showing her love,but for showering her with love.God bless you immensely.Amen.*
*Some dreaded her,because she was a no - nonsense and principled person,but a lovely,pleasant,Godly, spiritually inclined to mention a few,and generous to a fault.*
*We are going to miss her,but my wife will surely miss her more as Mama's foster daughter.*
*Sleep on, Sleep well,and goodnight.*

Tribute to a loving Soul BolatitoAwe.I first met Bolatito at my family house in Okebola Ibadan.She usually came to visit my cousin, Dr Shina Fawole of blessed memory.Tito,as she was fondly called, was a very pretty, friendly and courteous lady. We lost touch for many years but were reunited through our daughters, kike and Dolapo,who met at the Medical School and became friends.
Bolatito was a loving,lovable, unassuming, kindhearted lady who lived a useful, happy and purposeful life.She was always fun to be with. Bolatito was a wonderful and devoted mother to her children and grandchildren.To her friends and family, she was loyal and generous to a fault. She served and worshipped her God diligently and has now been called home for higher service.
I pray that the Lord will comfort, strengthen and uphold Kike and her siblings as well as her grandchildren and extended family.
Bolatito, may the Angels of Jesus, Angels of Light welcome you home.
Adieu beloved Tito.
You will be solely missed
Professor Oladunni Akinnawo.

I’ve been putting off writing this tribute for a while, because I truly did not want to accept that my grandma was no longer with us. That I would never be able to call her and tell her when I had gotten an A in a class. She would celebrate for me, harder than I would even celebrate for myself. I would never get another birthday phone call, where grandma would be the first one to pray for me every year. I couldn’t send her any more pictures of the Nigerian food I had just cooked, or tell her that I was making gbegiri, just like she taught me. I would never hear her call me her “Ashaks baby” again.

I think about all of the tumeric and ginger we used to buy when grandma came to visit, or the decaf coffee with two sweeteners and evaporated milk she used to drink in the morning (I always found this quite weird, why she would insist on evaporated milk and not the fresh milk we had in the fridge😂). I think about the gold chain grandma had bought me, and saved to give me on my 18th birthday, along with one of her pendants that I told her I really liked, and how she would always remind me to polish it because I refuse to ever take it off. I think about her calling me to bring her phone that was ringing (very loudly😅) upstairs. I think about all the emojis grandma would use when she would send a message, it always made me laugh. I think about the million times grandma would make us stand and pose for a picture. I never minded taking a few pictures, but grandma would take hundreds. When we were leaving the house, when we were in the car, when we were outside the venue, again inside the venue… the list goes on. Now I look back on all the pictures we have with grandma and I’m glad she made us just stop and smile.

I am grandma’s first granddaughter, and I see that as an honour and a privilege. I am blessed to have learned so much from her. She taught me to be kind (almost to a fault), to value hard work and determination, to be generous, to always say my mind, and most importantly, to love with my whole heart. My grandma was one of the most caring people I have ever met. The last time I spoke with her, she was more concerned with how my semester was going and how I was progressing with my driving lessons than anything else. And whilst I have cried more in the past 2 weeks than I have in my whole life, I am comforted by the memories I have with grandma, and her legacy that will live on forever.

One of my favourite messages from grandma, a response to a picture of the ogbono soup I had just cooked.

YUMMY, YUMMY!!!😀👌🏼👍🏻👊🏻 That’s my All Rounder G’Child, in whom I am so Proud👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻To The Sportslady, Brilliant enough,Well Mannered, Social Mixer, Reliable & Disciplined enough, to be made Assr. Head girl in her Sixth Form, Worthy Friend, & All Cuisine Expert!!🤣👍🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻 MyPrecious ASHAKE AGBO! Just Keep it Up, & ensure you keep Excelling 😀 Much Love💕Have A Beautiful Uni Year!

Grandma would never say goodbye to me when we ended the phone, so I too will say, I love you grandma, goodbye for now🩷.

When I first heard the news that grandma has passed, I didn’t believe it. I refused to believe that our grandma, a person filled with so much light and care for others, was no longer here. When someone passes, you never expect it, but when it’s someone who was so kind, caring, funny and encouraging, it feels even more surreal. I spent some days wondering why such an amazing person would be taken from this earth, but I realised that God makes everything happen for a reason , and that grandma will be resting well in heaven. But, when something happens, we must move forward, and instead of questioning why she passed, we must look back on all of the fond memories we have with her, and remember her as who she was, a generous, loving individual. When Grandma would call us, she would never talk about herself or any of her problems, but instead ask about how I am, how I’m doing in school, and just making sure I’m ok. I will miss those phone calls deeply, and although she isn’t here anymore, she is still with me, guiding me everyday. Over the past couple days, I’ve learnt a very valuable lesson; never take love for granted. Never miss a phone call, never hesitate to tell someone you love them before you go to bed. Grandma was not only a leading figure in my life, but in everyone’s she ever met. Everyone knew her as a bubbly and all around kind hearted person, and even though she isn’t here anymore, it still feels like she’s here with us, still calling us every day, still encouraging me to keep working hard. So, this isn’t a goodbye, it’s just a see you soon. Love you Grandma, may your journey be a peaceful one.

A TRIBUTE TO MRS. BETTY BOLATITO AWE

Bola and I met in the Lower 6th Arts class at Comprehensive High School, Aiyetoro in January 1967. She was sweet, smart and studious. She lived with her parents and siblings at Abebi in Ibadan and I lived at Children's Home School, Molete with my parents.

Our core Ibadan heritage helped to bring us close and our friendship grew both at school and during the holidays when we visited each other at home. Very friendly and easy going, Tito had many friends and she encouraged close relationships between me and them, which I appreciated. When I relocated to the UK for my A Levels, we continued our friendship. After A Levels/ HSC, we went to university and met only during summer holidays.

Marriage and the children came, and our shared teaching profession helped us to enjoy our child-bearing years as we had plenty of time for ourselves and our children. Adunade and Kike were very studious while Kunmi and Eniola were very playful. Later, Princess, my twins, Akin and Wole came. It was always a joy seeing the children bond when we visited each other.

Tito was ambitious and wanted more from life. This, she found as an Administrator in the Forestry Research Institute of Nigeria. She was diligent and resourceful. She had remarkable maturity and boldness yet was very playful. She loved life, lived well and always listened to her heart in addition to her commitment to her Creator. Bola was generous and very hospitable. My husband, Dr. Aderemi Adio - Moses and I had lovely memorable times with her and her family in the warmth of her home in Lagos, at Idi-isin/Jericho and later at Oluyole Estate, Ibadan.

Bolatito's passing was most unexpected and is still a great shock. My dear friend and sister, you have gone home to our Lord Jesus whom you loved and served while here on earth. May your sweet soul rest in perfect peace and may light perpetual shine upon you. May the Lord comfort and uphold your children, grandchildren and the entire family in Jesus name. Amen.

Till we meet again to part no more, goodnight Bolatito mi...

With love from
Mrs. AnuOluwapo Adio - Moses
On behalf of Dr. & Mrs. Aderemi Adio - Moses and family

For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die.
(Ecclesiastes 3:1–2)

It is with a heavy heart and eternal gratitude to God Almighty that I write to commiserate with you—the children and entire family of the late Mrs. Bolatito Betty Awe. A mother, a leader, and a mentor.

The very first day I came to her office seeking placement for my primary assessment, my life was transformed. She took me in as a daughter and offered me her support without hesitation.

To call her a “boss” feels inadequate. Mrs. Awe was a mentor and a visionary. With grace and quiet strength, she redefined leadership—blending unwavering professionalism with deep compassion.

Mummy’s door was always open, not just to ideas, but to hearts. She listened intently, guided patiently, and celebrated our wins as if they were her own. Her integrity and dedication inspired us to push boundaries, while her warmth made challenges easier to bear. She didn’t merely manage tasks; she nurtured growth—turning colleagues into family and the workplace into a safe haven for innovation. She was a woman of integrity, resilience, and gracious care for everyone around her.

At NIHORT, many fondly called us omo Iya Awe—children of Mrs. Awe. Under her stewardship, NIHORT thrived. But more importantly, her greatest legacy lies in the countless lives she touched and shaped. She taught us that true leadership is about lifting others—leading not from a pedestal, but from beside us, in the trenches.

Her generosity and love were unmatched. She impacted so many lives and was truly a blessing.

Thank you, Mummy, for your light, your wisdom, and your heart. I will miss you always.

Rest on, Mummy, until we meet again to part no more.

With love,
Tifase Eunice Olanike

Bolatito!!!
Thank you for displaying what a good human being should be like.
One life that touched so many.
We didn’t have a day to day friendship, but the uniqueness of our relationship is written in the hearts of our children- yours and mine and probably the story will be told someday by one of them.
Thank you for your friendship and for those long conversations. I am glad I always told you who you were to me because you cannot read this- but, who knows?

Kikelomo, Eniola, Akinwale and Oluwole , thank you for reinforcing and living the Yoruba adage” Omo laso aiye” God bless you all.

Bolatito you are not a memory but a living presence. May your passing be a blessing in Jesus name.

See you in the morning

Yomi

My Tito, the news of your passing on the 29th, nine days after you phoned me on the 20th was a shock to me. We met through my friends, the Akinjides but the relationship became closer and stronger knowing you to be related to Deji, my Dejoke's husband. I had always admired your caring attitude and I cannot forget your advising me when you phoned 'aunty e ma ni e sare bo wa si ile, e joko ke gbadun ara yin.' I had always admired your passion as a mother who had no limit to the sacrifice she would make for her children. I must thank the children for your exceptional care especially these past years. You all will enjoy the love, care and goodness of God all your days.
May God have mercy on you and grant you eternal rest in His Bosom in Jesus Mighty Name.
It is bye for now, my darling Tito.

Tito! Tito!! Bolatito!!!
Wow! Wow!! Wow!!!
Where do I start from. I am short of words. The news of your transition hit me like a lightning bolt, totally unexpected. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I was paralyzed with shock initially, thinking it was a dream that I would soon wake up from but Alas it was real.
Little did I know that when I was speaking with you that fateful Saturday that the angels in heaven were already preparing for your homecoming and reception into the bosom of your creator later that day.
You said something during our conversation that now in hindsight I think you had a premonition and you were already prepared to leave this sinful world.
Tito, you were such an amazing and reliable friend. We shared our successes, joys,pains, challenges, trials,and tribulations with each other. We leaned on each other’s shoulders as occasions demanded. We gave each other both physical and emotional support. You were always happy to celebrate our children’s achievements and even broadcast them. Tito always showed up for her friends not minding the inconvenience.
My children always loved to be in her company and said “Aunty Tito is fun to be with and every introvert needs a friend like her”
What is left now are the sweet memories of over five decades of friendship.
As a believer, you don’t get buried, you get planted! “So also is the resurrection of the dead. The body is sown in corruption, it is raised in incorruption. It is sown in dishonour, it is raised in glory. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power’ (1 Corinthians 15:42-43). You have fought the good fight, You have finished the race, You have kept the faith and now waiting for the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, will give to you on that Day.
You shall be sorely missed but I will not mourn like those who have no hope because I know there is another fellowship in heaven where we shall meet to part no more.
Tito was an extrovert while I can call myself an introvert. She loved to attend parties but not just any party.
Anytime Tito came to Lagos for events and wanted me to accompany her she would not take “no” for an answer. She would insist until she gets her way. We nicknamed her “The Headmistress” because she was always ready and willing to take charge.
She was always bubbling with energy, confidence, warmth and contagious happiness but had a limitation with technology which she eventually overcame. Tito would rely on someone most of the time to open her emails and help her send messages. I always make fun of her. I would say “Director, B.A. English you are letting this simple technology defeat you, please liberate yourself”. I made so much fun of her until she took the challenge and began to learn the basics.She was very quick to learn and soon became more proficient than her teacher. She soon became an expert and began to bombard all her friends and family with messages, emails and pictures taken at any event she attended.
I commiserate with the children: Kike, Eni, Akin, and Oluwole; the grandchildren and the larger the family. I encourage you to hold on to the sweet memories and the good legacy she has left behind. 
May the good Lord bind you together with the cord of love that cannot be broken in Jesus Christ Name. May the Lord comfort you all and take care of you. It is well in Jesus Name.
Bolatito, may your soul rest in perfect peace.
Goodnight Tito, my darling friend.
Wunmi Ashiru

Dear Mummy,
The news of your passing brought deep sadness, but we give all the Glory to God for your life and who you were.
I see myself as one of your daughters. In those days, it was Myself, Kike and Eni. We grew up together and your love and bond for my mom was so great. You always showed love and support for us during and long after your sister, our mom passed away. Your kind words and compassion remained dear to us.

Your presence at our mom’s post humous 80th birthday celebration last year was so much appreciated. It was a great honor to have had that time with you. Little did I know that would be the last time I’ll see you.

Mummy, you are a kind and gentle soul. The news of your passing was a shock to me because you looked so good the last time I saw you.

Our consolation is knowing you are with Christ because you lived a godly life. Now you will be with your sister, my mom and both of you can catch up!

You have left a great legacy in your wonderful children and grand children.

Sleep on mummy, until we meet again at the foot of Jesus Christ. You will always be in our hearts.

When I first heard the news of my Grandmother’s passing, I was very confused, I knew there was always a possibility that this day would come but, I thought that Grandma was too strong willed to pass away before all her grandchildren had graduated university! However as much as we want things to be a certain way, it is important to remember that there is a much larger plan for all of us and it may not always be in line with our own. The confusion was quickly followed by immense sorrow and sadness, but the more stories I heard about her life, the more calls my family received and the more visitors that came by, I understood even better the type of woman my Grandma was. My Grandmother was kind and compassionate, and cared deeply about others, even more than herself. To name one example, a few days before her passing, I was told she was feeling unwell, and I called her to check in, and despite this, she was more concerned about my schoolwork, how I was preparing for my exams and if I was ‘feeling strong’. Alongside her kindness, was her generosity, Grandma was generous with her time and her resources, she loved spending time with me, and I with her. Each time Grandma would visit, she would offer to pay for a meal or buy us a new item of clothing. What was important to me was never what she could give me, but her going the extra mile to make us happy, which has always been one of her defining traits. These, among all the other beautiful stories I have heard, paint an extraordinarily clear picture of who my dear Grandma, truly was. My sadness then turned into pride, the pride of being able to call such a wonderful woman my Grandmother for 19 years, and I will dedicate my time living life in a way that would make her proud. Despite her not being here physically, a person only dies in this world, when they are forgotten, so I am confident that she will live within us all for a very long time, and we will see her when the time is right, for now we all have a guardian angel. I am grateful that she left us peacefully, with her dignity intact as she always wanted. I will miss my Grandma dearly; no one to say “Jopsy my darling”. We will continue to check in on loved ones and be diligent in our care for others, like Grandma would want us to.

A Tribute to My Dearest Aunty

The news of your sudden passing shook me to my core. It’s hard to believe you’re gone, and even harder to imagine life without your bright smile and warm presence.

Your laughter lit up every room, and your unwavering support gave me strength through my toughest days.
I will always cherish the memories of your visits to my house. How we talked for long hours the progress of our children and all your support and words of encouragement.

You always cheered me on, celebrated every small win, and encouraged me.

Though we grieve her passing, let us also celebrate the beautiful life she lived and the lasting impact she had on each of us. Her spirit, her kindness, and her love will continue to live on in our hearts and through the memories we share.

I will miss you dearly, Rest In Peace Dear Aunty Tito


With all my love,
Shade Akinpelu

The passing of my Grandma has been one that has come with a sense of great shock; My Grandma was strong willed, determined and unshaken by most challenges which are some of the high quality characteristics she had that convinced me that she would have many more years to come.

However when God has declared that it’s time, then it is truly time. We can only give thanks for the richness and abundance of a life well lived.

Though we have heavy hearts we take solace in the memories and the stories she has left us with. I pray that her legacy will live on through the cherished moments and the stories that we continue to share.

I look back and think of the pleasure and privilege it was to be her grandson, to know her closely and to have spent quality time with her. My Grandma was generous in all aspects of her life, she was kind, she had a great love for people, especially her family and she was loved by many especially us. My grandma was quite humorous too, especially in unintentional moments. My Grandma will be greatly missed but I can only give thanks to God for a life well lived. I will miss her dearly.

News of mama Kike's passing on came so suddenly, but we are consoled and thankful to God for her impactful life.

Sister Tito was a very warm personality, overtly friendly and very loyal to all her friends.

I have known many of her close friends with her for over fifty years now.
Mama Kike was kind, generous, supportive, open, hospitable and helpful. She was however frank and would not mince words to prove a point.

She was sociable , always made time out to attend family engagements.

We shall all miss her and pray that God keeps the family she left behind.

May her kind soul rest in perfect peace.
Modupeola David ( née Ogunlela)

It is with a heavy heart and deep surrender to God's will that I received the news of Mom's passing. Mom was not just a friend of my late mother; she was an incredible source of support and love. Their friendship blossomed when she became a teacher at my secondary school, and I witnessed their unwavering bond through the years. Even after my own mother’s passing, Mummy Awe stood by us, offering her prayers and words of encouragement. Her love for our mother remained palpable, a testament to their enduring connection.

Reflecting on her life, I am grateful we had the chance to honour Mummy Awe at our mother’s 80th posthumous celebration last year. She was a remarkable woman, full of empathy and kindness, touching the lives of everyone she encountered. Her spirit will be cherished and remembered by so many. I have no doubt that she is now at peace in Christ Jesus.

Farewell, Mummy. Your legacy of love will forever resonate in our hearts.

A Heartfelt Tribute to Aunty, Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe – A Mother in Every Sense

It is with deep respect, affection, and profound gratitude that we pay tribute to an extraordinary woman - Aunty, as we fondly called her. Though she was a close friend of our Aunty, Dr. Olawunmi Ashiru, she embraced us wholeheartedly as family and loved us like her very own.
Our special bond was truly sealed in 2002, when I was temporarily transferred to Ibadan to relieve the Branch Manager at my office. Hoping not to inconvenience anyone, I quietly checked into a hotel. However, by the second day, Aunty learned of this—thanks to my senior brother, who worked in the same office with her. She was visibly displeased—not out of annoyance, but out of genuine concern that I hadn’t informed her. With the open-hearted warmth that so deeply defined her, she insisted I leave the hotel immediately and stay with her.
From that moment on, I experienced firsthand the depth of her love and the beauty of her character. She received me into her home with open arms, ensured I was well cared for, and made sure I lacked nothing. My mornings began with hearty breakfasts, and my evenings ended with warm, lovingly prepared dinners. Her home was more than just a place to stay - it was a sanctuary filled with comfort, peace, and grace.
When my wife and our four-year-old daughter came to visit and stayed with us for a week, Aunty’s generosity shone even brighter. She embraced them wholeheartedly, showering us with kindness and affection. She and my wife had long been gist partners, but that visit deepened their bond—countless hours of stories, shared laughter, and late-night movies often kept me up past my bedtime. Yet even in those moments, Aunty’s warmth, liveliness, and boundless heart were unmistakable.
Aunty, Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe, was free-spirited, genuinely kind, and deeply God-fearing. Her life was marked by quiet but powerful acts of love, unshakable faith, and an unwavering commitment to serving others. She was a rare soul who gave without measure, loved without limits, and lived with grace, humility, and strength.
She was not only a devoted mother to her biological children, but also a true mother-figure to many of us who were privileged to know her. Her life was an embodiment of virtue - nurturing, compassionate, selfless, and wise. She left an indelible mark on everyone she encountered, and her legacy lives on in the many lives she touched and uplifted.
Though she has gone to be with the Lord, her memory continues to inspire us. Her legacy of love, faith, and generosity will forever remain in our hearts.

May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.

Lovingly remembered by,
Oluwakemi and Oluwayemisi Sulaiman

I still find it so hard to believe that my darling Aunty Tito(as I fondly called her) is gone, transited to a better place. Referring to her in the past tense is extremely traumatic for me but I just have to write this tribute in her honor. Aunty Tito was special to me because of her heart of gold. She was not perfect as nobody is but she was a lovely, loving, beautiful and genuinely caring person. I met her through my Father when I was in secondary school in Ibadan. He introduced her to me as my cousin and traced our connection to Aunty's mother, who I understand was much loved by my late grandfather, the late Alake Of Egbaland Sir Ladapo Ademola 2. I guess it was this love that my late father transferred to Aunty Tito, he loved her and they were very close. I immediately took to Aunty because of her genuine warmth and kindness and we formed a bond. I remember when she got married to Dr Ogunlela(Baba Kike) and they were living at the UCH quarters, Aunty would come to pick me up in her car to her house. She taught me how to eat pork meat. She would take me to the stores in those days to buy snacks for me, Premier hotel etc. She later relocated to Lagos. We reconnected at the University of Ife
( now OAU, Obafemi Awolowo), when she came for her post graduate studies and I was an undergraduate there. It was as if the years of separation were not there and we resumed our closeness. Eventually I got married and went to live Ilorin and because of the poor communication system then,we were not able to keep in touch for many, many years. Years after she moved back to Ibadan and eventually our communication was now firmly established with the advent of cellular phones. we were now able in adulthood to establish a more consistent and endearing relationship. We called each other often and she was always asking after me. She attended the weddings of my daughters in Ilorin. Anytime I came for a program in Ibadan, I always stayed with her and we slept on the same bed. We would talk and talk she would feed me till my stomach would start revolting from the excess feeding. She would still pack food for me to take with me back to Ilorin. You could not leave Aunty's house empty handed. We traveled for some of her family events together. Aunty was such good company, NEVER a dull moment with her, you won't even feel like leaving her. I remember in those days when she came visiting my Father, you could hear his boisterous laughter from her jokes, Aunty was fun to be with. Aunty's genuineness was disarming, in a world filled with a lot of hypocrisy, her genuineness was indeed a breath of fresh air, she said what she meant and meant what she said, she was reliable and deeply caring. I guess to a large extent Aunty was in a class of her own. She deeply revered and honored God in her Christian faith and this permeated her relationship with others. She loved and cared for all her biological children, spouses and grandchildren and celebrated all their milestones. She was always interceding for her children, praying for their peace, progress, prosperity, all round well being and long life. She prayed that all of them would outlive her and The Almighty God granted her request. I feel deeply honored to have been connected to her in her lifetime. I could go on and on writing loads about her but I will stop here.
I pray for all her children(spouses and grandchildren inclusive), that The Almighty God will grant them the fortitude to bear this great loss in Jesus' Mighty Name Amen.

Mama, I was shocked to hear of your passing away. Your kindness and impact meant so much to me.My life story is not complete without you

I will never forget the day you extended your hand and helped me secure a position at NIHORT, opening doors I never thought possible. Your belief in my potential gave me the courage to believe in myself.


You will continue to inspire my journey.

Thank you for everything, Ma. May you rest peacefully knowing you have left an indelible mark on this world.

Forever grateful,
Funmilola Abeke Adetoye

I went to my Facebook wall to check for an information and I saw a picture larger than life that incase admiring only to read further and I realised that Chief Mrs Bolatito Betty Awẹ has passed to glory. I was terribly disturbed and called her mobile number with the hope that somebody will tell me contrary to what I read on that social platform
I was disturbed the more.
My first contact with her was in 1989 when another family friend that they were living together in forestry quarters in Ibadan invited me and a family friend who came to visit me from the USA to a dinner in Chief Mrs Betty Awe's house. That night became a turning point. She and other family members that were present gave there life's to Christ. Awesome moment. Her growth in Christ was very dynamic and real with testimony. A true disciple of Christ. She was a financial mission partner of our ministry- Occupy World Outreach Ministries (OWOM). Like the partners of apostle paul she makes efforts to contact me anytime she's in England or other continents. Miss is the least to express my emotion because I see you as my big auntie as you consider me your spiritual mentor. I will always remember the fellowship over the phone and even in your house. I commiserate with the entire family. A ku ara fera kú. Odun yoo jina sira lagbara Jesu. Sleep on ma, until the resurrection morning when we shall meet to part no more.
Victor G Amosun
President: Occupy World Outreach Ministries (OWOM)

My dearest Kike good morning. This is Aunty Nike Makinde( nee Adebayo)
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved Mother and our dearly loved Aunty Bolatito. It’s so sad. Your Mum came into our lives so many years ago when your Aunty Sade Oyekanmi married my brother Sola Adebayo over 35 years ago. Aunty Bolatito took us Adebayo siblings as her own family. She was at our family occasions and joined us in so many celebrations. I am truly unable to imagine that we will not have her with us . But thanks be to God that she is resting in Peace. You and your siblings are so blessed by the Legacy of love and sacrifice your Mum has left for you . May the lives of all of you her children continue to celebrate her in your successes. Do know that we are all here for you . Love always❤️
Stay blessed 🙏🏾

There are certain people who walk into our lives and leave an indelible mark, not just by their words but by their actions, their kindness, and the love they share so freely. Mummy was one of those truly remarkable people.

Mummy’s impact on my life—and on the lives of so many others—cannot be overstated. She was a mother, a mentor, and a guiding light. Her warmth and generosity knew no bounds. She was a rare gem, a blessing to everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.

Though her physical presence may no longer be with us, her legacy of love, mentorship, and kindness lives on.
Rest in peace, Chief Mrs. Bolatito Awe. You will forever be missed, but your light will never fade from our hearts.

With love and gratitude,
JUMOKE ODOFIN (NIHORT)

TRIBUTE TO AUNTIE BOLATITO, ALIAS 'CHIEF MRS'

The Lord is near to the
brokenhea
ted and saves the crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18

What can I say about Auntie Tito? Words indeed fail me. For almost 15 years now, we had been neighbours, turned sisters, and very close confidants. A big sister with a large heart, who would do everything within her ability to ensure your issues are resolved.
She was not only accommodating but also hospitable. I record with nostalgia the many late night tete-a-tetes over sumptuous food with good wine discussing everything, state of our dear nation- Nigeria, other common interests,but mostly the progress and wellbeing of children and grandchildren!! These could be either at her place or ours or even at some eateries in town. She would always
have intelligent and productive ideas brought to the table!
She loved God and Ministers of God. She would give her all to the ex̌pansion of God's work .
Her demise leaves a painful dent in our hearts!!
Adieu auntie , you will be greatly missed by my family,children inclusive.
🩷always.
Dame Oluyemisi Idowu. JP

Grateful for mummy’s life, she was indeed a beacon of light. I fondly remember her laughter and warmth - truly special. Praying that the good Lord continue to give all family and friends the strength to get through this season. May His loving arm of comfort wrap everyone. Adieu mummy till we meet again.

*ADIEU "CHIEF* MRS"

" _Good people pass away, but no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come. For those who follow godly paths will rest in peace when they die" (Isaiah 57:1-2)._
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This quotation explains what the sudden demise of Chief Mrs Betty Bolatito Awe connotes to me. Or how else do you explain bidding her goodbye on Friday in respect of a trip to Lagos only to receive a call on Saturday night that she had passed on to glory!!!

It is, therefore, with a heavy heart that I write this Tribute about a principled, forthright woman of substance, though considered very tough by most people but someone I knew to be soft at heart.

I first met her at Abuja during the interview conducted to fill the vacant post of The Executive Director/ Chief Executive Officer, National Horticultural Research Institute(NIHORT), Idi-Ishin, Ibadan. Chief Mrs Awẹ and I eventually worked at NIHORT, though, for a short period, as Director of Human Resources and The Executive Director, respectively.

I found her to be highly resourceful and dependable. In the Institute, she established for herself a good reputation as a "no nonsense" administrator who was ready to speak the truth to all categories of staff. Members of staff referred to her as "Margaret Thatcher." She detested the antics of self seeking sycophants and those who attempted to abuse the trust and privileges of her friendship and love.

From being colleagues at work, we became family friends. The friendship blossomed when we became neighbours at Unique Estate, Orange Gate, Oluyole Extension, Ibadan. She never dwelt on the fact that she was older than my wife and I. She referred to me as "Ọga mi" and my wife as "Ìyàwó Ọgá mi or simply as Dame." This demonstration of humility by her, we never took for granted. We fondly called her " *Chief Mrs".* She enjoyed life to the best of her ability. She loved parties, but she wouldn't attend just any party!. She was a "fashionista" and relished being an " Ọmọ Ìbàdàn". She unrepentantly believed in a better future for Nigeria.

Chief Mrs. had a large heart. Whatever she wanted for herself and her family, she even wished more for others. Her children and grandchildren added value and joy to her highly impactful and eventful life. God will bless and sustain them, amen 🙏.

Yẹmisi, I, and our family members wish the gentle soul of " *Chief Mrs"* eternal rest in perfect peace.

Sir Dr Ademola Idowu KJW

TRIBUTE TO ELIZABETH BOLATITO AWE

TRULY UNBELIEVABLE

I stand on the Lord’s commandment (1 Thessalonians 5:18) to give THANKS in ALL THINGS.

I thank God for the divine providence that brought our paths to cross as teenagers at Oke-padre St Mary’s Catholic Church in Ibadan during the 1960s.

I thank God for the unbreakable love and cherished experiences we shared during our teenage years, our secondary school days, and our time at the University of Ife.

I thank God for the Grace and Special Favors bestowed upon us throughout our lives, as wives, mothers, and grandmothers, in the loving presence and directives of our Heavenly Father.

I thank God that on your final journey, you did not ‘da awọn ọmọ, ẹbi, ara, ọrẹ lamu’ when you finally met with your Maker.

Well, Bolatito, Mọmọ Ibadan, a truly loving, caring, giving, and genuine friend.
She had represented me on many occasions at different parts of Nigeria where I could not be physically there. 'A se Oju, a se Ehin' in full gear.

She loved and trusted God in all things, especially with her children, grandchildren, family, and friends.

Her relationship with God was evident in her active participation in church matters.

We shared many enjoyable social lives and made a promise to continue to enjoy each other’s company by traveling together and visiting one another to combat boredom in our golden years.

God granted us some of these cherished moments, and Bolatito relished having her friends over and entertaining them even while she was a guest in our house, she would invite her own guests to come over, and the more, the merrier. She never stopped at ‘showing off’ how she was being ‘extravagantly’ taken care of, supporting her views with videos and pictures of food, drinks, gifts, and more.
Some of us affectionately called her “Headmistress-teacher,” a fitting nickname for her disciplinarian nature. While she could sometimes be lovingly overbearing, we still loved her dearly.

During my visit to Nigeria, Bolatito kindly requested that I spend a week with her. I spent four unforgettable days in her last month of life, in March 2025, which will forever be etched in my memory. (Oh, death, where is your sting?)

I didn’t realize I was seeing, interacting, enjoying her warmth, caring, doting, schooling, and foods for the last time. I thought she’d recover from her state of “feeling unwell” with medications, rest, and then this?! Mọmọ, you fought a good fight.

Rest peacefully in the embrace of your Maker, Bolatito Awe. You have left behind Kikelomo, Eniola, Akinwale, and Oluwole, your admirable children whom God blessed you with the special grace to raise up well in all aspects of life, just as you had envisioned.

May God take care of them, their spouses, and your grandchildren. Amen. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Bolatito, my children, and grandchildren miss you too and will always cherish fond memories of you.

Sun re o until we meet again on Resurrection.

Anti Ti-to as I used to call you, your sudden departure has shaken me to the marrow. You played a significant role in starting me off on an enviable foundation. In my early years, I followed you everywhere you went. First to Sacred Heart Convent School, Idikan, Ibadan, and then to Maryway and later to Comprehensive High School, Aiyetoro. How can I ever forget you, my darling mentor and friend? You were always there for me at the most critical period. Thank you for taking care of my children in 1989 when I had to go for an executive training at the Maastricht School of Management in the Netherlands. You cared and shielded me like a mother would. I bless the Lord for all that you were able to do for me while on this divide. I cherished and loved you dearly. You have fought a good fight, now is the time to rest. Rest on my small Mommy, till we meet again on the Ressurrection day.
-Your dear Titi
Omo Shewu l'Ekotedo
O.L.A Maryway (965-69 Set)
😭😭😭

I only met your daughter Dr Kike. Just going by the wholesomeness of her being, I can relate to the life you have lived. A legacy of love indeed. May the soul of the faithful departed rest in peace and all the family and friends be comforted. Amen.

Mama Betty you were very loving and generous to my family, thanks for being such a wonderful , trustworthy and understanding mum to me and I am really missing you, May God grant your children , family members and friends you left behind the grace to bear the pain of your departure, May your sweet soul rest in perfect peace in Jesus name
(ADIEU mama good night) I remain loyal as you usually uses to chat with me during your life time.😭🥺❤️

A heartfelt tribute to a special mommy, Chief Mrs. Bolatito Betty Awe.

It is painful that I I have to write this tribute to soon, because I thought we still have more time with you on this side of life.

I write to celebrate a legacy of Love and selfless Motherhood.

Your legacy lives on through the countless lives you've touched, including yours truly.
Your unconditional love, kindness, care, and devotion have left an indelible mark on my heart.

Cherished Memories
I'll always treasure the memories of your counsel and encouragement, especially during my marriage choice. Your concern for every aspect of my life – academics, moral, spiritual, and career – was truly remarkable.

Your presence at my wedding, alongside Oluwole, will forever be etched in my memory.


Our bond is indeed unbreakable, a tie that's strong, a love that's forever. I'm grateful for your love, support, and care. You've been more than just a mother of my friend, Kike. You have been a true mom to me.

Your legacy will continue to inspire and strengthen us, especially Kike, Eni, Akinwale, and Oluwole. My husband, Dare, joins me in mourning your sudden exit.

Rest in peace, dear Mom, till resurrection morning. You will be forever missed, but your love and legacy will live on in our hearts.

This tribute is a beautiful testament to your love and impact on those around you.


Oluwatosin Adewole (Nee Owolabi).

Mummy was amazing in her kindness and generousity and love to everyone. She always went the extra mile to help people. She was an epitome of kindness.

The Almighty God be praised and adored for a life well spent and the legacy of her kindness and goodness she has left behind.

The Almighty God will watch over Kike, Eni, Akinwale and Oluwole and all her lovely grandchildren.

May the beautiful and gentle soul of Mummy rest in perfect peace IJMN!

Carmela.