Betty Bolatito Awe
In honor of a life that left footprints of love.
Celebration Of Life
With heavy hearts but in total submission to the will of God; we announce the passing unto glory of our beloved mother, grandmother, sister, cousin, aunt and friend to man
Our Mother, a beacon of love, life,warmth and generosity, departed this world on March 29, 2025, at the age of 77. Born on October 11, 1947, in Ibadan, Nigeria to the family of Chief P.P Ladapo and Ebunoluwa Aduke( née Osoba) . She was married and blessed with four children, Kikelomo. Eniola Obikoya (Jimi). Akinwale(Julia). Oluwole (Dunni) and seven grandchildren; Lani. Kelo, Rolake, Jope,
Lara, Nimi and Muyiwa. She was a completely devoted, loving and selfless mother and grandma.
Mum led a full and joyous life devoted to her family, friends, and her faith.
She started her education at the sacred heart primary school Ibadan. She had her secondary education at Our Lady of apostles, Maryway. Ibadan from 1960-1966. She then proceeded to Aiyetoro Comprehensive for her higher school certificate from 1966-1967.
She taught for a year and served as house mistress at Odinjo grammar school before proceeding to the University of Ife from 1969-1973. She was a member of the student union executive at the university of Ife and served as public relations officer. She later returned to the university of Ife for her Masters
Mum was one of the first set of Nigerian university graduates to participate in the premier National youth service corps-NYSC IN 1973
Mum regaled us throughout our childhood with fond stories and memories of her time in school and all the adventures she had. We enjoyed hearing the stories Many of her lifelong friendships began in school. Mum indeed lived a full life and enjoyed school.
She began a career as a pioneer teacher of Government College Agege. She served as house mistress and is remembered fondly by many of her students.
Bolatito later joined the Lagos state civil service and worked in various arms of the Lagos state civil service as an administrator.
She later moved to the Federal civil service and worked at the Forestry research institute of Nigeria before retiring as a Director of administration from the National Horticultural Research Institute. Ibadan. She loved her years in services and dedicated years of work with a blend of diligence and compassion.
Bolatito was known for her warmth and generosity. Mum’s spirit was infectious. She surrounded herself with people and her relationships meant everything to her.
She had many friends she had known since childhood with friendships spanning six and five decades.
Betty Bolatito Awe was an extremely loyal friend. She was always ready to celebrate life’s joys with others. Her heart and home were always open to others. Mums home was a place of welcome and her table was a gathering of comfort and laughter.
Mum’s heart found its greatest joy in the company of her beloved family. She loved and was a devoted mother and grandma to her four children and seven grandchildren.
She was selfless, loving and generous and very little gave her more joy than being with them and celebrating them and their various milestones
She enjoyed her friendships, travelling and capturing countless moments through the lens of her phone camera. Her photographs told stories of love and unity, snapshots of memories that will be cherished by those she leaves behind.
Central to mum’s life was her unwavering faith in God. She was an active member of her church community, offering her time and spirit to serve others. Her devotion was evident in her actions and kindness, grounded by a deep sense of loyalty that marked her as a true friend to many.
Mummy was candid and forthright yet completely forgiving. She always spoke her mind but was never one to hold a grudge. Her ability to move forward with grace made her presence a soothing balm in many lives.
Though she is no longer with us, her legacy of love, generosity, and faith leaves an indelible mark on everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
As we honor her memory, we celebrate the abundant life she lived and the lasting impact of her kindness and joy.
Mum, Betty Bolatito Awe will be dearly missed, yet her spirit will forever guide and inspire those who loved her.
We will love you and honour your legacy always.
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April 19, 2025
Tribute to Mama Awe
Our Mama is gone. Chief Mrs Betty Awe was one of the early members of our society, Young Women Christian Association. She joined the society shortly after becoming a member of St Mary’s Anglican Church Oluyole Ibadan.
Mama was a committed member of YWCA. Her commitment was even recognized at our Head Quarters in Oyo state (YWCA center), where she was given an award in recognition of her services and commitment to her branch and the association at large.
In March 2022, in appreciation of her services to the society, YWCA members of St Mary’s Anglican Church Oluyole Ibadan thought it fit to make her a matron of the society- a position which she served in till her death.
Mama was a giver to the core. She enjoyed being in the company of people. She enjoyed the company of people who visited her, and whenever you did , the visit could never be a short one. She always had things to give out.
Whenever we held meetings in her house, Mama store was open to all to pick whatever you wanted. Mama gave selflessly at our society anniversary in 2024, mama singlehanded gave every member a gift . As if that was not enough, our 2024 Jesus festival Ankara was a gift to every member from Mama Awe. Little did we know it was her parting gift to us.
Mama enjoyed social gatherings. She never wanted a dull moment around her. Hence, she was a friend of many. Mama Awe did not hide her feelings and opinions on things. She would tell you her mind and leave you to go through what she has said . She was open-minded, a Counsellor and a lover of all. Mama you have done your best. We will surely miss you. Rest on, our dear Mama.
Mrs Ifebogun
President, YWCA
St Mary’s Anglican Church
Oluyole, Ibadan
Our Mama is gone. Chief Mrs Betty Awe was one of the early members of our society, Young Women Christian Association. She joined the society shortly after becoming a member of St Mary’s Anglican Church Oluyole Ibadan.
Mama was a committed member of YWCA. Her commitment was even recognized at our Head Quarters in Oyo state (YWCA center), where she was given an award in recognition of her services and commitment to her branch and the association at large.
In March 2022, in appreciation of her services to the society, YWCA members of St Mary’s Anglican Church Oluyole Ibadan thought it fit to make her a matron of the society- a position which she served in till her death.
Mama was a giver to the core. She enjoyed being in the company of people. She enjoyed the company of people who visited her, and whenever you did , the visit could never be a short one. She always had things to give out.
Whenever we held meetings in her house, Mama store was open to all to pick whatever you wanted. Mama gave selflessly at our society anniversary in 2024, mama singlehanded gave every member a gift . As if that was not enough, our 2024 Jesus festival Ankara was a gift to every member from Mama Awe. Little did we know it was her parting gift to us.
Mama enjoyed social gatherings. She never wanted a dull moment around her. Hence, she was a friend of many. Mama Awe did not hide her feelings and opinions on things. She would tell you her mind and leave you to go through what she has said . She was open-minded, a Counsellor and a lover of all. Mama you have done your best. We will surely miss you. Rest on, our dear Mama.
Mrs Ifebogun
President, YWCA
St Mary’s Anglican Church
Oluyole, Ibadan
April 18, 2025
*Tribute to Late Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo)*
It is with profound sadness that we bid farewell to an extraordinary woman, a pillar of strength, and a shining example of devotion, dedication, and love. Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo) may have left us, but her legacy, impact, and memories will continue to inspire and guide us.
Born on October 11, 1947, Auntie Chief Betty lived a life of purpose, touching countless lives through her various roles and endeavors. As a resident of Oluyole Estate, Ibadan, she was a beloved figure, known for her warmth, kindness, and generosity. Her home was always open, welcoming family, friends, and neighbors alike.
Auntie Chief Betty's Awe commitment to her faith was unwavering. As a devoted member of St Mary's Anglican Church, Oluyole, she served with distinction, using her gifts and talents to uplift and edify the congregation. Her love for God and her community was evident in everything she did.
Professionally, Auntie Chief Betty Awe was a trailblazer. As the Director of Administration at the National Horticultural Research Institute (NIHORT), Ibadan, she brought her expertise, experience, and passion to the role. Her leadership, guidance, and mentorship inspired countless colleagues and mentees, leaving an indelible mark on the institution.
To her children, Kike, Eni, Akin, and Oluwole, Auntie Chief Betty Awe was a loving, supportive, and selfless mother. She poured her heart and soul into raising them, instilling in them the values of hard work, integrity, and compassion. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren adored her, and she was always ready to shower them with love, laughter, and wisdom.
As we say goodbye to this remarkable woman, we take comfort in the knowledge that her legacy will live on through us. We will miss her dearly, but we will continue to celebrate her life, her love, and her impact on our world.
Rest in peace, dear Auntie Chief Betty Awe. Your memory will be a blessing to us all.
*Condolences:*
To the family of Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo), we offer our deepest condolences. May God comfort and strengthen you during this difficult time.
To the entire Oluyole Estate community, St Mary's Anglican Church, Oluyole, and the National Horticultural Research Institute (NIHORT), Ibadan, we share in your grief. May the memories of Auntie Chief Betty Awe's love, kindness, and dedication continue to inspire and uplift you.
May her soul rest in perfect peace.
It is with profound sadness that we bid farewell to an extraordinary woman, a pillar of strength, and a shining example of devotion, dedication, and love. Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo) may have left us, but her legacy, impact, and memories will continue to inspire and guide us.
Born on October 11, 1947, Auntie Chief Betty lived a life of purpose, touching countless lives through her various roles and endeavors. As a resident of Oluyole Estate, Ibadan, she was a beloved figure, known for her warmth, kindness, and generosity. Her home was always open, welcoming family, friends, and neighbors alike.
Auntie Chief Betty's Awe commitment to her faith was unwavering. As a devoted member of St Mary's Anglican Church, Oluyole, she served with distinction, using her gifts and talents to uplift and edify the congregation. Her love for God and her community was evident in everything she did.
Professionally, Auntie Chief Betty Awe was a trailblazer. As the Director of Administration at the National Horticultural Research Institute (NIHORT), Ibadan, she brought her expertise, experience, and passion to the role. Her leadership, guidance, and mentorship inspired countless colleagues and mentees, leaving an indelible mark on the institution.
To her children, Kike, Eni, Akin, and Oluwole, Auntie Chief Betty Awe was a loving, supportive, and selfless mother. She poured her heart and soul into raising them, instilling in them the values of hard work, integrity, and compassion. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren adored her, and she was always ready to shower them with love, laughter, and wisdom.
As we say goodbye to this remarkable woman, we take comfort in the knowledge that her legacy will live on through us. We will miss her dearly, but we will continue to celebrate her life, her love, and her impact on our world.
Rest in peace, dear Auntie Chief Betty Awe. Your memory will be a blessing to us all.
*Condolences:*
To the family of Auntie Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe (Nee Ladapo), we offer our deepest condolences. May God comfort and strengthen you during this difficult time.
To the entire Oluyole Estate community, St Mary's Anglican Church, Oluyole, and the National Horticultural Research Institute (NIHORT), Ibadan, we share in your grief. May the memories of Auntie Chief Betty Awe's love, kindness, and dedication continue to inspire and uplift you.
May her soul rest in perfect peace.
April 18, 2025
Aunty Tito
The one and only “Mama Keeks”.
My mother’s oldest and dearest friend. My sister’s godmother. A mother to so many — including me.
Your recent passing is a profound loss, one that has left a deep ache in our hearts. But even in the sadness, I choose to hold on to the light you brought into every space you entered — your warmth, your laughter, and that unforgettable smile that could brighten any room.
You had a gift for making people feel seen and loved. I’ll always remember your joy in capturing moments, never without a camera or phone in hand, documenting life so beautifully through photos. I’ll miss those snapshots you used to send — of your outings, your gatherings, your world. It always felt like a little window into your joy.
Thank you for your presence in our lives.
Thank you for loving us like your own.
Thank you for the grace with which you carried yourself.
Thank you for raising such incredible children — your legacy lives on in them.
Thank you for your light, your laughter, and your unwavering kindness.
You were truly one of a kind.
Rest well, Aunty Tito. You will always be remembered, always loved.
All my love,
Dolapo Sijuwade
The one and only “Mama Keeks”.
My mother’s oldest and dearest friend. My sister’s godmother. A mother to so many — including me.
Your recent passing is a profound loss, one that has left a deep ache in our hearts. But even in the sadness, I choose to hold on to the light you brought into every space you entered — your warmth, your laughter, and that unforgettable smile that could brighten any room.
You had a gift for making people feel seen and loved. I’ll always remember your joy in capturing moments, never without a camera or phone in hand, documenting life so beautifully through photos. I’ll miss those snapshots you used to send — of your outings, your gatherings, your world. It always felt like a little window into your joy.
Thank you for your presence in our lives.
Thank you for loving us like your own.
Thank you for the grace with which you carried yourself.
Thank you for raising such incredible children — your legacy lives on in them.
Thank you for your light, your laughter, and your unwavering kindness.
You were truly one of a kind.
Rest well, Aunty Tito. You will always be remembered, always loved.
All my love,
Dolapo Sijuwade
April 18, 2025
So surreal, unimaginable, it is unbelievable that I am writing this tribute for ‘Mum Ak’, mummy as I always called her.
Before I met her son Akinwale, I had never met ANYONE like her - yes I mean that, NEVER! When Akinwale and I started dating, my first impressions of her were kind, loving, doting to a fault, loud- she never entered into a room quietly😀, always in our business and then only a brief while after our first few encounters I got to see the other side of her, the one many people who really knew her have seen; the ‘tell it as it is, no sugar coating side’. I remember vividly that first time she told me off, I straightaway thought to myself ‘I can’t do this, I won’t get along with her’… but I loved her son and knew I had to make it work. I’m glad I stuck in and tried to get to know her better. I got to know her well, got to really understand who she was, to understand that even when she told you off it was coming from a place of love and the more I knew her, the more I grew to love her, to appreciate and admire who she was, one who was generous to a fault, had genuine care and love, so much of it to give. She didn’t do things halfway, when mummy loved you you knew it.
She was so full of life, ever so present for anyone she cared about. She celebrated every success of ours, of her granddaughters, wanted to fix any problems we had even when we didn’t tell her about it, she sensed it. “Julie tell me what’s wrong, what are you people hiding”she wanted to advise on everything and yes I mean EVERYTHING, including telling me how to hang up our living room curtains, where to place our flower pots, the list goes on. 🤦♀️
Mummy was so full of life, so strong, she had a big presence in any room she entered. Selfishly, we expected we would have her with us for very much longer. We loved her dearly and we knew she felt this. We tried in our own way to show her that she was special to us.
In the blink of an eye, she has gone without saying goodbye, without telling us one more time how proud she was of us, how happy she was that everyone was doing well, how her grand daughters, our girls, made her very proud. I’ve played it over and over in my head, how can this be. God please tell me it’s a bad dream, that we awake from this bad dream and just have another chance to show her how much she meant to me, to us, but alas mummy’s gone. That she will not come to visit us for another Easter holiday, Summer, Christmas, the girls so much looked forward to grandma visiting. She left us with so many wonderful memories, so many to hold dear to our hearts. I am thankful for getting to know her, to love her and to feel her love.
Rest well mummy, you may be gone from us to be with the angels, but you will never be forgotten. We miss you dearly.
Before I met her son Akinwale, I had never met ANYONE like her - yes I mean that, NEVER! When Akinwale and I started dating, my first impressions of her were kind, loving, doting to a fault, loud- she never entered into a room quietly😀, always in our business and then only a brief while after our first few encounters I got to see the other side of her, the one many people who really knew her have seen; the ‘tell it as it is, no sugar coating side’. I remember vividly that first time she told me off, I straightaway thought to myself ‘I can’t do this, I won’t get along with her’… but I loved her son and knew I had to make it work. I’m glad I stuck in and tried to get to know her better. I got to know her well, got to really understand who she was, to understand that even when she told you off it was coming from a place of love and the more I knew her, the more I grew to love her, to appreciate and admire who she was, one who was generous to a fault, had genuine care and love, so much of it to give. She didn’t do things halfway, when mummy loved you you knew it.
She was so full of life, ever so present for anyone she cared about. She celebrated every success of ours, of her granddaughters, wanted to fix any problems we had even when we didn’t tell her about it, she sensed it. “Julie tell me what’s wrong, what are you people hiding”she wanted to advise on everything and yes I mean EVERYTHING, including telling me how to hang up our living room curtains, where to place our flower pots, the list goes on. 🤦♀️
Mummy was so full of life, so strong, she had a big presence in any room she entered. Selfishly, we expected we would have her with us for very much longer. We loved her dearly and we knew she felt this. We tried in our own way to show her that she was special to us.
In the blink of an eye, she has gone without saying goodbye, without telling us one more time how proud she was of us, how happy she was that everyone was doing well, how her grand daughters, our girls, made her very proud. I’ve played it over and over in my head, how can this be. God please tell me it’s a bad dream, that we awake from this bad dream and just have another chance to show her how much she meant to me, to us, but alas mummy’s gone. That she will not come to visit us for another Easter holiday, Summer, Christmas, the girls so much looked forward to grandma visiting. She left us with so many wonderful memories, so many to hold dear to our hearts. I am thankful for getting to know her, to love her and to feel her love.
Rest well mummy, you may be gone from us to be with the angels, but you will never be forgotten. We miss you dearly.
April 18, 2025
TRIBUTE FOR CHIEF (MRS) BETTY BOLATITO AWE (NEE LADAPO)
It is a great honour and privilege for me to write a tribute for our dear departed, an amazing woman, fondly called Mama Kike and who fondly referred to me as Uncle B.
I got to know Mama Kike at the onset of the seventies when she was being courted and eventually got married to my late immediate senior brother, Dr Abiola Olugboyega Ogunlela, of blessed memory. Even though the marriage was short lived, but blessed with two wonderfully beautiful daughters, Kikelomo and Eniola. However short lived the marriage was, it was long enough for me to interact well with Mama Kike and discover the wonderful virtues that made her such an amazing woman.
I thank God that quite early in Life, I was able to come to the realisation that as human beings we are all wonderfully and fearfully made by God with our inherent strengths and weaknesses like all mortals. For me, i had decided quite early to always emphasise on people's virtues and strengths and downplay their weaknesses. Thus, like other relationships I have had in my Life, I was able to quickly identify the God given virtues inherent in Mama Kike that made us to flow so well with each other up to her Life's end.
Mama Kike was beautiful in and out. Indeed a God fearing, loving woman with such a good heart. She was a very honest and straightforward person, ever loyal to her friends and would always express herself very clearly without being deceitful. She harboured no bitterness or grudges against people and was always willing to help others.
This was exemplified by the fact that despite the fact that her marriage to the Ogunlela family was short-lived, she continued to identify with the Family, featuring in the functions of Family members all through to the end and showing love, kind gestures and helping out wherever and whenever she could.
Her last major social outing was probably at my 75th birthday celebration on 22nd February, 2025, when as usual she was all over the venue showing so much love and warmth to the Family members and friends who attended the event. I will forever cherish the last photograph I took with her on that day. Of course there was no way her dear Uncle B will be celebrating anything without her being conspicuously present.
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to know and interact with Mama Kike so well. Her demise was so painful, but we thank God for the fulfilled Life she Lived. May the good Lord grant her eternal bliss and also grant us all comfort and fortitude to bear her loss in Jesus name. Amen.
Sir Bode Ogunlela, KSJ.
It is a great honour and privilege for me to write a tribute for our dear departed, an amazing woman, fondly called Mama Kike and who fondly referred to me as Uncle B.
I got to know Mama Kike at the onset of the seventies when she was being courted and eventually got married to my late immediate senior brother, Dr Abiola Olugboyega Ogunlela, of blessed memory. Even though the marriage was short lived, but blessed with two wonderfully beautiful daughters, Kikelomo and Eniola. However short lived the marriage was, it was long enough for me to interact well with Mama Kike and discover the wonderful virtues that made her such an amazing woman.
I thank God that quite early in Life, I was able to come to the realisation that as human beings we are all wonderfully and fearfully made by God with our inherent strengths and weaknesses like all mortals. For me, i had decided quite early to always emphasise on people's virtues and strengths and downplay their weaknesses. Thus, like other relationships I have had in my Life, I was able to quickly identify the God given virtues inherent in Mama Kike that made us to flow so well with each other up to her Life's end.
Mama Kike was beautiful in and out. Indeed a God fearing, loving woman with such a good heart. She was a very honest and straightforward person, ever loyal to her friends and would always express herself very clearly without being deceitful. She harboured no bitterness or grudges against people and was always willing to help others.
This was exemplified by the fact that despite the fact that her marriage to the Ogunlela family was short-lived, she continued to identify with the Family, featuring in the functions of Family members all through to the end and showing love, kind gestures and helping out wherever and whenever she could.
Her last major social outing was probably at my 75th birthday celebration on 22nd February, 2025, when as usual she was all over the venue showing so much love and warmth to the Family members and friends who attended the event. I will forever cherish the last photograph I took with her on that day. Of course there was no way her dear Uncle B will be celebrating anything without her being conspicuously present.
I thank God for giving me the opportunity to know and interact with Mama Kike so well. Her demise was so painful, but we thank God for the fulfilled Life she Lived. May the good Lord grant her eternal bliss and also grant us all comfort and fortitude to bear her loss in Jesus name. Amen.
Sir Bode Ogunlela, KSJ.
April 18, 2025
While we weren’t always together, I always knew grandma loved me. From phone calls on birthdays to family gatherings, she always was full of love and gratitude to be with family.
Her passing is sad and will affect us all, but I know she is with God and continues to love us all.
Her passing is sad and will affect us all, but I know she is with God and continues to love us all.
April 17, 2025
You will be greatly missed mummy! Thank you for the exemplary love and warmth you shared with us. Rest I peace ma❤️🩹🙏🏾
April 17, 2025
*TRIBUTE TO A MOTHER AND AN AMAZON -:*
*The news of the shocking demise of Mummy Awe as I fondly called her,was the least we expect to happen.We never dreamt or imagined it.*
*I had known Mummy Betty Bolatito Awe for some time before we eventually became her Vicar in 2017,and immediately herself and my wife bonded together in an uncommon and unusual manner.She had a kind of special likeness for us (my wife and I),this is not to suggest that we don't have our differences,of course we do.It was not too long when I discovered the reason behind this bond:Mummy Betty Bolatito Awe and I shared the same birthday - 11th October,and we celebrated together each year.*
*Mummy Awe was an open book without guile.She was blunt to a fault,and say things the way she sees it without minding whether you're hurt or not.She was a woman with a good heart and lover of God who could give out anything for the sake of God's Kingdom work and care of His ministers;I remember a number of times that she sewed vestments (Cassocks & Surplice) for Priests in this Diocese.She even gave one of her cars to the Church during our tenure which was given to one of baby Churches.*
*The last time I saw her was at my father's burial on Friday 28th February.I'm not sure if that was not her last major social outing/function.Mummy Betty Awe was an epitome of Motherhood (that which Yoruba elders would call "ABIYAMO TOOTO",who was always praying to protect her children with all her might.Little wonder why she was so knitted and loved by her children.Inspite of the distance between her and them,they connect virtually everyday.I also would like to sincerely appreciate the children (Kike,Eniola,Akinwale and Oluwole) for not just showing her love,but for showering her with love.God bless you immensely.Amen.*
*Some dreaded her,because she was a no - nonsense and principled person,but a lovely,pleasant,Godly, spiritually inclined to mention a few,and generous to a fault.*
*We are going to miss her,but my wife will surely miss her more as Mama's foster daughter.*
*Sleep on, Sleep well,and goodnight.*
*The news of the shocking demise of Mummy Awe as I fondly called her,was the least we expect to happen.We never dreamt or imagined it.*
*I had known Mummy Betty Bolatito Awe for some time before we eventually became her Vicar in 2017,and immediately herself and my wife bonded together in an uncommon and unusual manner.She had a kind of special likeness for us (my wife and I),this is not to suggest that we don't have our differences,of course we do.It was not too long when I discovered the reason behind this bond:Mummy Betty Bolatito Awe and I shared the same birthday - 11th October,and we celebrated together each year.*
*Mummy Awe was an open book without guile.She was blunt to a fault,and say things the way she sees it without minding whether you're hurt or not.She was a woman with a good heart and lover of God who could give out anything for the sake of God's Kingdom work and care of His ministers;I remember a number of times that she sewed vestments (Cassocks & Surplice) for Priests in this Diocese.She even gave one of her cars to the Church during our tenure which was given to one of baby Churches.*
*The last time I saw her was at my father's burial on Friday 28th February.I'm not sure if that was not her last major social outing/function.Mummy Betty Awe was an epitome of Motherhood (that which Yoruba elders would call "ABIYAMO TOOTO",who was always praying to protect her children with all her might.Little wonder why she was so knitted and loved by her children.Inspite of the distance between her and them,they connect virtually everyday.I also would like to sincerely appreciate the children (Kike,Eniola,Akinwale and Oluwole) for not just showing her love,but for showering her with love.God bless you immensely.Amen.*
*Some dreaded her,because she was a no - nonsense and principled person,but a lovely,pleasant,Godly, spiritually inclined to mention a few,and generous to a fault.*
*We are going to miss her,but my wife will surely miss her more as Mama's foster daughter.*
*Sleep on, Sleep well,and goodnight.*
April 16, 2025
Tribute to a loving Soul BolatitoAwe.I first met Bolatito at my family house in Okebola Ibadan.She usually came to visit my cousin, Dr Shina Fawole of blessed memory.Tito,as she was fondly called, was a very pretty, friendly and courteous lady. We lost touch for many years but were reunited through our daughters, kike and Dolapo,who met at the Medical School and became friends.
Bolatito was a loving,lovable, unassuming, kindhearted lady who lived a useful, happy and purposeful life.She was always fun to be with. Bolatito was a wonderful and devoted mother to her children and grandchildren.To her friends and family, she was loyal and generous to a fault. She served and worshipped her God diligently and has now been called home for higher service.
I pray that the Lord will comfort, strengthen and uphold Kike and her siblings as well as her grandchildren and extended family.
Bolatito, may the Angels of Jesus, Angels of Light welcome you home.
Adieu beloved Tito.
You will be solely missed
Professor Oladunni Akinnawo.
Bolatito was a loving,lovable, unassuming, kindhearted lady who lived a useful, happy and purposeful life.She was always fun to be with. Bolatito was a wonderful and devoted mother to her children and grandchildren.To her friends and family, she was loyal and generous to a fault. She served and worshipped her God diligently and has now been called home for higher service.
I pray that the Lord will comfort, strengthen and uphold Kike and her siblings as well as her grandchildren and extended family.
Bolatito, may the Angels of Jesus, Angels of Light welcome you home.
Adieu beloved Tito.
You will be solely missed
Professor Oladunni Akinnawo.
April 16, 2025
I’ve been putting off writing this tribute for a while, because I truly did not want to accept that my grandma was no longer with us. That I would never be able to call her and tell her when I had gotten an A in a class. She would celebrate for me, harder than I would even celebrate for myself. I would never get another birthday phone call, where grandma would be the first one to pray for me every year. I couldn’t send her any more pictures of the Nigerian food I had just cooked, or tell her that I was making gbegiri, just like she taught me. I would never hear her call me her “Ashaks baby” again.
I think about all of the tumeric and ginger we used to buy when grandma came to visit, or the decaf coffee with two sweeteners and evaporated milk she used to drink in the morning (I always found this quite weird, why she would insist on evaporated milk and not the fresh milk we had in the fridge😂). I think about the gold chain grandma had bought me, and saved to give me on my 18th birthday, along with one of her pendants that I told her I really liked, and how she would always remind me to polish it because I refuse to ever take it off. I think about her calling me to bring her phone that was ringing (very loudly😅) upstairs. I think about all the emojis grandma would use when she would send a message, it always made me laugh. I think about the million times grandma would make us stand and pose for a picture. I never minded taking a few pictures, but grandma would take hundreds. When we were leaving the house, when we were in the car, when we were outside the venue, again inside the venue… the list goes on. Now I look back on all the pictures we have with grandma and I’m glad she made us just stop and smile.
I am grandma’s first granddaughter, and I see that as an honour and a privilege. I am blessed to have learned so much from her. She taught me to be kind (almost to a fault), to value hard work and determination, to be generous, to always say my mind, and most importantly, to love with my whole heart. My grandma was one of the most caring people I have ever met. The last time I spoke with her, she was more concerned with how my semester was going and how I was progressing with my driving lessons than anything else. And whilst I have cried more in the past 2 weeks than I have in my whole life, I am comforted by the memories I have with grandma, and her legacy that will live on forever.
One of my favourite messages from grandma, a response to a picture of the ogbono soup I had just cooked.
YUMMY, YUMMY!!!😀👌🏼👍🏻👊🏻 That’s my All Rounder G’Child, in whom I am so Proud👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻To The Sportslady, Brilliant enough,Well Mannered, Social Mixer, Reliable & Disciplined enough, to be made Assr. Head girl in her Sixth Form, Worthy Friend, & All Cuisine Expert!!🤣👍🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻 MyPrecious ASHAKE AGBO! Just Keep it Up, & ensure you keep Excelling 😀 Much Love💕Have A Beautiful Uni Year!
Grandma would never say goodbye to me when we ended the phone, so I too will say, I love you grandma, goodbye for now🩷.
I think about all of the tumeric and ginger we used to buy when grandma came to visit, or the decaf coffee with two sweeteners and evaporated milk she used to drink in the morning (I always found this quite weird, why she would insist on evaporated milk and not the fresh milk we had in the fridge😂). I think about the gold chain grandma had bought me, and saved to give me on my 18th birthday, along with one of her pendants that I told her I really liked, and how she would always remind me to polish it because I refuse to ever take it off. I think about her calling me to bring her phone that was ringing (very loudly😅) upstairs. I think about all the emojis grandma would use when she would send a message, it always made me laugh. I think about the million times grandma would make us stand and pose for a picture. I never minded taking a few pictures, but grandma would take hundreds. When we were leaving the house, when we were in the car, when we were outside the venue, again inside the venue… the list goes on. Now I look back on all the pictures we have with grandma and I’m glad she made us just stop and smile.
I am grandma’s first granddaughter, and I see that as an honour and a privilege. I am blessed to have learned so much from her. She taught me to be kind (almost to a fault), to value hard work and determination, to be generous, to always say my mind, and most importantly, to love with my whole heart. My grandma was one of the most caring people I have ever met. The last time I spoke with her, she was more concerned with how my semester was going and how I was progressing with my driving lessons than anything else. And whilst I have cried more in the past 2 weeks than I have in my whole life, I am comforted by the memories I have with grandma, and her legacy that will live on forever.
One of my favourite messages from grandma, a response to a picture of the ogbono soup I had just cooked.
YUMMY, YUMMY!!!😀👌🏼👍🏻👊🏻 That’s my All Rounder G’Child, in whom I am so Proud👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻To The Sportslady, Brilliant enough,Well Mannered, Social Mixer, Reliable & Disciplined enough, to be made Assr. Head girl in her Sixth Form, Worthy Friend, & All Cuisine Expert!!🤣👍🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻 MyPrecious ASHAKE AGBO! Just Keep it Up, & ensure you keep Excelling 😀 Much Love💕Have A Beautiful Uni Year!
Grandma would never say goodbye to me when we ended the phone, so I too will say, I love you grandma, goodbye for now🩷.
April 15, 2025
When I first heard the news that grandma has passed, I didn’t believe it. I refused to believe that our grandma, a person filled with so much light and care for others, was no longer here. When someone passes, you never expect it, but when it’s someone who was so kind, caring, funny and encouraging, it feels even more surreal. I spent some days wondering why such an amazing person would be taken from this earth, but I realised that God makes everything happen for a reason , and that grandma will be resting well in heaven. But, when something happens, we must move forward, and instead of questioning why she passed, we must look back on all of the fond memories we have with her, and remember her as who she was, a generous, loving individual. When Grandma would call us, she would never talk about herself or any of her problems, but instead ask about how I am, how I’m doing in school, and just making sure I’m ok. I will miss those phone calls deeply, and although she isn’t here anymore, she is still with me, guiding me everyday. Over the past couple days, I’ve learnt a very valuable lesson; never take love for granted. Never miss a phone call, never hesitate to tell someone you love them before you go to bed. Grandma was not only a leading figure in my life, but in everyone’s she ever met. Everyone knew her as a bubbly and all around kind hearted person, and even though she isn’t here anymore, it still feels like she’s here with us, still calling us every day, still encouraging me to keep working hard. So, this isn’t a goodbye, it’s just a see you soon. Love you Grandma, may your journey be a peaceful one.
April 15, 2025
A TRIBUTE TO MRS. BETTY BOLATITO AWE
Bola and I met in the Lower 6th Arts class at Comprehensive High School, Aiyetoro in January 1967. She was sweet, smart and studious. She lived with her parents and siblings at Abebi in Ibadan and I lived at Children's Home School, Molete with my parents.
Our core Ibadan heritage helped to bring us close and our friendship grew both at school and during the holidays when we visited each other at home. Very friendly and easy going, Tito had many friends and she encouraged close relationships between me and them, which I appreciated. When I relocated to the UK for my A Levels, we continued our friendship. After A Levels/ HSC, we went to university and met only during summer holidays.
Marriage and the children came, and our shared teaching profession helped us to enjoy our child-bearing years as we had plenty of time for ourselves and our children. Adunade and Kike were very studious while Kunmi and Eniola were very playful. Later, Princess, my twins, Akin and Wole came. It was always a joy seeing the children bond when we visited each other.
Tito was ambitious and wanted more from life. This, she found as an Administrator in the Forestry Research Institute of Nigeria. She was diligent and resourceful. She had remarkable maturity and boldness yet was very playful. She loved life, lived well and always listened to her heart in addition to her commitment to her Creator. Bola was generous and very hospitable. My husband, Dr. Aderemi Adio - Moses and I had lovely memorable times with her and her family in the warmth of her home in Lagos, at Idi-isin/Jericho and later at Oluyole Estate, Ibadan.
Bolatito's passing was most unexpected and is still a great shock. My dear friend and sister, you have gone home to our Lord Jesus whom you loved and served while here on earth. May your sweet soul rest in perfect peace and may light perpetual shine upon you. May the Lord comfort and uphold your children, grandchildren and the entire family in Jesus name. Amen.
Till we meet again to part no more, goodnight Bolatito mi...
With love from
Mrs. AnuOluwapo Adio - Moses
On behalf of Dr. & Mrs. Aderemi Adio - Moses and family
Bola and I met in the Lower 6th Arts class at Comprehensive High School, Aiyetoro in January 1967. She was sweet, smart and studious. She lived with her parents and siblings at Abebi in Ibadan and I lived at Children's Home School, Molete with my parents.
Our core Ibadan heritage helped to bring us close and our friendship grew both at school and during the holidays when we visited each other at home. Very friendly and easy going, Tito had many friends and she encouraged close relationships between me and them, which I appreciated. When I relocated to the UK for my A Levels, we continued our friendship. After A Levels/ HSC, we went to university and met only during summer holidays.
Marriage and the children came, and our shared teaching profession helped us to enjoy our child-bearing years as we had plenty of time for ourselves and our children. Adunade and Kike were very studious while Kunmi and Eniola were very playful. Later, Princess, my twins, Akin and Wole came. It was always a joy seeing the children bond when we visited each other.
Tito was ambitious and wanted more from life. This, she found as an Administrator in the Forestry Research Institute of Nigeria. She was diligent and resourceful. She had remarkable maturity and boldness yet was very playful. She loved life, lived well and always listened to her heart in addition to her commitment to her Creator. Bola was generous and very hospitable. My husband, Dr. Aderemi Adio - Moses and I had lovely memorable times with her and her family in the warmth of her home in Lagos, at Idi-isin/Jericho and later at Oluyole Estate, Ibadan.
Bolatito's passing was most unexpected and is still a great shock. My dear friend and sister, you have gone home to our Lord Jesus whom you loved and served while here on earth. May your sweet soul rest in perfect peace and may light perpetual shine upon you. May the Lord comfort and uphold your children, grandchildren and the entire family in Jesus name. Amen.
Till we meet again to part no more, goodnight Bolatito mi...
With love from
Mrs. AnuOluwapo Adio - Moses
On behalf of Dr. & Mrs. Aderemi Adio - Moses and family
April 15, 2025
For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die.
(Ecclesiastes 3:1–2)
It is with a heavy heart and eternal gratitude to God Almighty that I write to commiserate with you—the children and entire family of the late Mrs. Bolatito Betty Awe. A mother, a leader, and a mentor.
The very first day I came to her office seeking placement for my primary assessment, my life was transformed. She took me in as a daughter and offered me her support without hesitation.
To call her a “boss” feels inadequate. Mrs. Awe was a mentor and a visionary. With grace and quiet strength, she redefined leadership—blending unwavering professionalism with deep compassion.
Mummy’s door was always open, not just to ideas, but to hearts. She listened intently, guided patiently, and celebrated our wins as if they were her own. Her integrity and dedication inspired us to push boundaries, while her warmth made challenges easier to bear. She didn’t merely manage tasks; she nurtured growth—turning colleagues into family and the workplace into a safe haven for innovation. She was a woman of integrity, resilience, and gracious care for everyone around her.
At NIHORT, many fondly called us omo Iya Awe—children of Mrs. Awe. Under her stewardship, NIHORT thrived. But more importantly, her greatest legacy lies in the countless lives she touched and shaped. She taught us that true leadership is about lifting others—leading not from a pedestal, but from beside us, in the trenches.
Her generosity and love were unmatched. She impacted so many lives and was truly a blessing.
Thank you, Mummy, for your light, your wisdom, and your heart. I will miss you always.
Rest on, Mummy, until we meet again to part no more.
With love,
Tifase Eunice Olanike
(Ecclesiastes 3:1–2)
It is with a heavy heart and eternal gratitude to God Almighty that I write to commiserate with you—the children and entire family of the late Mrs. Bolatito Betty Awe. A mother, a leader, and a mentor.
The very first day I came to her office seeking placement for my primary assessment, my life was transformed. She took me in as a daughter and offered me her support without hesitation.
To call her a “boss” feels inadequate. Mrs. Awe was a mentor and a visionary. With grace and quiet strength, she redefined leadership—blending unwavering professionalism with deep compassion.
Mummy’s door was always open, not just to ideas, but to hearts. She listened intently, guided patiently, and celebrated our wins as if they were her own. Her integrity and dedication inspired us to push boundaries, while her warmth made challenges easier to bear. She didn’t merely manage tasks; she nurtured growth—turning colleagues into family and the workplace into a safe haven for innovation. She was a woman of integrity, resilience, and gracious care for everyone around her.
At NIHORT, many fondly called us omo Iya Awe—children of Mrs. Awe. Under her stewardship, NIHORT thrived. But more importantly, her greatest legacy lies in the countless lives she touched and shaped. She taught us that true leadership is about lifting others—leading not from a pedestal, but from beside us, in the trenches.
Her generosity and love were unmatched. She impacted so many lives and was truly a blessing.
Thank you, Mummy, for your light, your wisdom, and your heart. I will miss you always.
Rest on, Mummy, until we meet again to part no more.
With love,
Tifase Eunice Olanike
April 15, 2025
Bolatito!!!
Thank you for displaying what a good human being should be like.
One life that touched so many.
We didn’t have a day to day friendship, but the uniqueness of our relationship is written in the hearts of our children- yours and mine and probably the story will be told someday by one of them.
Thank you for your friendship and for those long conversations. I am glad I always told you who you were to me because you cannot read this- but, who knows?
Kikelomo, Eniola, Akinwale and Oluwole , thank you for reinforcing and living the Yoruba adage” Omo laso aiye” God bless you all.
Bolatito you are not a memory but a living presence. May your passing be a blessing in Jesus name.
See you in the morning
Yomi
Thank you for displaying what a good human being should be like.
One life that touched so many.
We didn’t have a day to day friendship, but the uniqueness of our relationship is written in the hearts of our children- yours and mine and probably the story will be told someday by one of them.
Thank you for your friendship and for those long conversations. I am glad I always told you who you were to me because you cannot read this- but, who knows?
Kikelomo, Eniola, Akinwale and Oluwole , thank you for reinforcing and living the Yoruba adage” Omo laso aiye” God bless you all.
Bolatito you are not a memory but a living presence. May your passing be a blessing in Jesus name.
See you in the morning
Yomi
April 14, 2025
My Tito, the news of your passing on the 29th, nine days after you phoned me on the 20th was a shock to me. We met through my friends, the Akinjides but the relationship became closer and stronger knowing you to be related to Deji, my Dejoke's husband. I had always admired your caring attitude and I cannot forget your advising me when you phoned 'aunty e ma ni e sare bo wa si ile, e joko ke gbadun ara yin.' I had always admired your passion as a mother who had no limit to the sacrifice she would make for her children. I must thank the children for your exceptional care especially these past years. You all will enjoy the love, care and goodness of God all your days.
May God have mercy on you and grant you eternal rest in His Bosom in Jesus Mighty Name.
It is bye for now, my darling Tito.
May God have mercy on you and grant you eternal rest in His Bosom in Jesus Mighty Name.
It is bye for now, my darling Tito.
April 14, 2025
Tito! Tito!! Bolatito!!!
Wow! Wow!! Wow!!!
Where do I start from. I am short of words. The news of your transition hit me like a lightning bolt, totally unexpected. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I was paralyzed with shock initially, thinking it was a dream that I would soon wake up from but Alas it was real.
Little did I know that when I was speaking with you that fateful Saturday that the angels in heaven were already preparing for your homecoming and reception into the bosom of your creator later that day.
You said something during our conversation that now in hindsight I think you had a premonition and you were already prepared to leave this sinful world.
Tito, you were such an amazing and reliable friend. We shared our successes, joys,pains, challenges, trials,and tribulations with each other. We leaned on each other’s shoulders as occasions demanded. We gave each other both physical and emotional support. You were always happy to celebrate our children’s achievements and even broadcast them. Tito always showed up for her friends not minding the inconvenience.
My children always loved to be in her company and said “Aunty Tito is fun to be with and every introvert needs a friend like her”
What is left now are the sweet memories of over five decades of friendship.
As a believer, you don’t get buried, you get planted! “So also is the resurrection of the dead. The body is sown in corruption, it is raised in incorruption. It is sown in dishonour, it is raised in glory. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power’ (1 Corinthians 15:42-43). You have fought the good fight, You have finished the race, You have kept the faith and now waiting for the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, will give to you on that Day.
You shall be sorely missed but I will not mourn like those who have no hope because I know there is another fellowship in heaven where we shall meet to part no more.
Tito was an extrovert while I can call myself an introvert. She loved to attend parties but not just any party.
Anytime Tito came to Lagos for events and wanted me to accompany her she would not take “no” for an answer. She would insist until she gets her way. We nicknamed her “The Headmistress” because she was always ready and willing to take charge.
She was always bubbling with energy, confidence, warmth and contagious happiness but had a limitation with technology which she eventually overcame. Tito would rely on someone most of the time to open her emails and help her send messages. I always make fun of her. I would say “Director, B.A. English you are letting this simple technology defeat you, please liberate yourself”. I made so much fun of her until she took the challenge and began to learn the basics.She was very quick to learn and soon became more proficient than her teacher. She soon became an expert and began to bombard all her friends and family with messages, emails and pictures taken at any event she attended.
I commiserate with the children: Kike, Eni, Akin, and Oluwole; the grandchildren and the larger the family. I encourage you to hold on to the sweet memories and the good legacy she has left behind.
May the good Lord bind you together with the cord of love that cannot be broken in Jesus Christ Name. May the Lord comfort you all and take care of you. It is well in Jesus Name.
Bolatito, may your soul rest in perfect peace.
Goodnight Tito, my darling friend.
Wunmi Ashiru
Wow! Wow!! Wow!!!
Where do I start from. I am short of words. The news of your transition hit me like a lightning bolt, totally unexpected. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I was paralyzed with shock initially, thinking it was a dream that I would soon wake up from but Alas it was real.
Little did I know that when I was speaking with you that fateful Saturday that the angels in heaven were already preparing for your homecoming and reception into the bosom of your creator later that day.
You said something during our conversation that now in hindsight I think you had a premonition and you were already prepared to leave this sinful world.
Tito, you were such an amazing and reliable friend. We shared our successes, joys,pains, challenges, trials,and tribulations with each other. We leaned on each other’s shoulders as occasions demanded. We gave each other both physical and emotional support. You were always happy to celebrate our children’s achievements and even broadcast them. Tito always showed up for her friends not minding the inconvenience.
My children always loved to be in her company and said “Aunty Tito is fun to be with and every introvert needs a friend like her”
What is left now are the sweet memories of over five decades of friendship.
As a believer, you don’t get buried, you get planted! “So also is the resurrection of the dead. The body is sown in corruption, it is raised in incorruption. It is sown in dishonour, it is raised in glory. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power’ (1 Corinthians 15:42-43). You have fought the good fight, You have finished the race, You have kept the faith and now waiting for the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, will give to you on that Day.
You shall be sorely missed but I will not mourn like those who have no hope because I know there is another fellowship in heaven where we shall meet to part no more.
Tito was an extrovert while I can call myself an introvert. She loved to attend parties but not just any party.
Anytime Tito came to Lagos for events and wanted me to accompany her she would not take “no” for an answer. She would insist until she gets her way. We nicknamed her “The Headmistress” because she was always ready and willing to take charge.
She was always bubbling with energy, confidence, warmth and contagious happiness but had a limitation with technology which she eventually overcame. Tito would rely on someone most of the time to open her emails and help her send messages. I always make fun of her. I would say “Director, B.A. English you are letting this simple technology defeat you, please liberate yourself”. I made so much fun of her until she took the challenge and began to learn the basics.She was very quick to learn and soon became more proficient than her teacher. She soon became an expert and began to bombard all her friends and family with messages, emails and pictures taken at any event she attended.
I commiserate with the children: Kike, Eni, Akin, and Oluwole; the grandchildren and the larger the family. I encourage you to hold on to the sweet memories and the good legacy she has left behind.
May the good Lord bind you together with the cord of love that cannot be broken in Jesus Christ Name. May the Lord comfort you all and take care of you. It is well in Jesus Name.
Bolatito, may your soul rest in perfect peace.
Goodnight Tito, my darling friend.
Wunmi Ashiru
April 13, 2025
Dear Mummy,
The news of your passing brought deep sadness, but we give all the Glory to God for your life and who you were.
I see myself as one of your daughters. In those days, it was Myself, Kike and Eni. We grew up together and your love and bond for my mom was so great. You always showed love and support for us during and long after your sister, our mom passed away. Your kind words and compassion remained dear to us.
Your presence at our mom’s post humous 80th birthday celebration last year was so much appreciated. It was a great honor to have had that time with you. Little did I know that would be the last time I’ll see you.
Mummy, you are a kind and gentle soul. The news of your passing was a shock to me because you looked so good the last time I saw you.
Our consolation is knowing you are with Christ because you lived a godly life. Now you will be with your sister, my mom and both of you can catch up!
You have left a great legacy in your wonderful children and grand children.
Sleep on mummy, until we meet again at the foot of Jesus Christ. You will always be in our hearts.
The news of your passing brought deep sadness, but we give all the Glory to God for your life and who you were.
I see myself as one of your daughters. In those days, it was Myself, Kike and Eni. We grew up together and your love and bond for my mom was so great. You always showed love and support for us during and long after your sister, our mom passed away. Your kind words and compassion remained dear to us.
Your presence at our mom’s post humous 80th birthday celebration last year was so much appreciated. It was a great honor to have had that time with you. Little did I know that would be the last time I’ll see you.
Mummy, you are a kind and gentle soul. The news of your passing was a shock to me because you looked so good the last time I saw you.
Our consolation is knowing you are with Christ because you lived a godly life. Now you will be with your sister, my mom and both of you can catch up!
You have left a great legacy in your wonderful children and grand children.
Sleep on mummy, until we meet again at the foot of Jesus Christ. You will always be in our hearts.
April 13, 2025
When I first heard the news of my Grandmother’s passing, I was very confused, I knew there was always a possibility that this day would come but, I thought that Grandma was too strong willed to pass away before all her grandchildren had graduated university! However as much as we want things to be a certain way, it is important to remember that there is a much larger plan for all of us and it may not always be in line with our own. The confusion was quickly followed by immense sorrow and sadness, but the more stories I heard about her life, the more calls my family received and the more visitors that came by, I understood even better the type of woman my Grandma was. My Grandmother was kind and compassionate, and cared deeply about others, even more than herself. To name one example, a few days before her passing, I was told she was feeling unwell, and I called her to check in, and despite this, she was more concerned about my schoolwork, how I was preparing for my exams and if I was ‘feeling strong’. Alongside her kindness, was her generosity, Grandma was generous with her time and her resources, she loved spending time with me, and I with her. Each time Grandma would visit, she would offer to pay for a meal or buy us a new item of clothing. What was important to me was never what she could give me, but her going the extra mile to make us happy, which has always been one of her defining traits. These, among all the other beautiful stories I have heard, paint an extraordinarily clear picture of who my dear Grandma, truly was. My sadness then turned into pride, the pride of being able to call such a wonderful woman my Grandmother for 19 years, and I will dedicate my time living life in a way that would make her proud. Despite her not being here physically, a person only dies in this world, when they are forgotten, so I am confident that she will live within us all for a very long time, and we will see her when the time is right, for now we all have a guardian angel. I am grateful that she left us peacefully, with her dignity intact as she always wanted. I will miss my Grandma dearly; no one to say “Jopsy my darling”. We will continue to check in on loved ones and be diligent in our care for others, like Grandma would want us to.
April 13, 2025
A Tribute to My Dearest Aunty
The news of your sudden passing shook me to my core. It’s hard to believe you’re gone, and even harder to imagine life without your bright smile and warm presence.
Your laughter lit up every room, and your unwavering support gave me strength through my toughest days.
I will always cherish the memories of your visits to my house. How we talked for long hours the progress of our children and all your support and words of encouragement.
You always cheered me on, celebrated every small win, and encouraged me.
Though we grieve her passing, let us also celebrate the beautiful life she lived and the lasting impact she had on each of us. Her spirit, her kindness, and her love will continue to live on in our hearts and through the memories we share.
I will miss you dearly, Rest In Peace Dear Aunty Tito
With all my love,
Shade Akinpelu
The news of your sudden passing shook me to my core. It’s hard to believe you’re gone, and even harder to imagine life without your bright smile and warm presence.
Your laughter lit up every room, and your unwavering support gave me strength through my toughest days.
I will always cherish the memories of your visits to my house. How we talked for long hours the progress of our children and all your support and words of encouragement.
You always cheered me on, celebrated every small win, and encouraged me.
Though we grieve her passing, let us also celebrate the beautiful life she lived and the lasting impact she had on each of us. Her spirit, her kindness, and her love will continue to live on in our hearts and through the memories we share.
I will miss you dearly, Rest In Peace Dear Aunty Tito
With all my love,
Shade Akinpelu
April 12, 2025
The passing of my Grandma has been one that has come with a sense of great shock; My Grandma was strong willed, determined and unshaken by most challenges which are some of the high quality characteristics she had that convinced me that she would have many more years to come.
However when God has declared that it’s time, then it is truly time. We can only give thanks for the richness and abundance of a life well lived.
Though we have heavy hearts we take solace in the memories and the stories she has left us with. I pray that her legacy will live on through the cherished moments and the stories that we continue to share.
I look back and think of the pleasure and privilege it was to be her grandson, to know her closely and to have spent quality time with her. My Grandma was generous in all aspects of her life, she was kind, she had a great love for people, especially her family and she was loved by many especially us. My grandma was quite humorous too, especially in unintentional moments. My Grandma will be greatly missed but I can only give thanks to God for a life well lived. I will miss her dearly.
However when God has declared that it’s time, then it is truly time. We can only give thanks for the richness and abundance of a life well lived.
Though we have heavy hearts we take solace in the memories and the stories she has left us with. I pray that her legacy will live on through the cherished moments and the stories that we continue to share.
I look back and think of the pleasure and privilege it was to be her grandson, to know her closely and to have spent quality time with her. My Grandma was generous in all aspects of her life, she was kind, she had a great love for people, especially her family and she was loved by many especially us. My grandma was quite humorous too, especially in unintentional moments. My Grandma will be greatly missed but I can only give thanks to God for a life well lived. I will miss her dearly.
April 12, 2025
News of mama Kike's passing on came so suddenly, but we are consoled and thankful to God for her impactful life.
Sister Tito was a very warm personality, overtly friendly and very loyal to all her friends.
I have known many of her close friends with her for over fifty years now.
Mama Kike was kind, generous, supportive, open, hospitable and helpful. She was however frank and would not mince words to prove a point.
She was sociable , always made time out to attend family engagements.
We shall all miss her and pray that God keeps the family she left behind.
May her kind soul rest in perfect peace.
Modupeola David ( née Ogunlela)
Sister Tito was a very warm personality, overtly friendly and very loyal to all her friends.
I have known many of her close friends with her for over fifty years now.
Mama Kike was kind, generous, supportive, open, hospitable and helpful. She was however frank and would not mince words to prove a point.
She was sociable , always made time out to attend family engagements.
We shall all miss her and pray that God keeps the family she left behind.
May her kind soul rest in perfect peace.
Modupeola David ( née Ogunlela)
April 12, 2025
It is with a heavy heart and deep surrender to God's will that I received the news of Mom's passing. Mom was not just a friend of my late mother; she was an incredible source of support and love. Their friendship blossomed when she became a teacher at my secondary school, and I witnessed their unwavering bond through the years. Even after my own mother’s passing, Mummy Awe stood by us, offering her prayers and words of encouragement. Her love for our mother remained palpable, a testament to their enduring connection.
Reflecting on her life, I am grateful we had the chance to honour Mummy Awe at our mother’s 80th posthumous celebration last year. She was a remarkable woman, full of empathy and kindness, touching the lives of everyone she encountered. Her spirit will be cherished and remembered by so many. I have no doubt that she is now at peace in Christ Jesus.
Farewell, Mummy. Your legacy of love will forever resonate in our hearts.
Reflecting on her life, I am grateful we had the chance to honour Mummy Awe at our mother’s 80th posthumous celebration last year. She was a remarkable woman, full of empathy and kindness, touching the lives of everyone she encountered. Her spirit will be cherished and remembered by so many. I have no doubt that she is now at peace in Christ Jesus.
Farewell, Mummy. Your legacy of love will forever resonate in our hearts.
April 12, 2025
A Heartfelt Tribute to Aunty, Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe – A Mother in Every Sense
It is with deep respect, affection, and profound gratitude that we pay tribute to an extraordinary woman - Aunty, as we fondly called her. Though she was a close friend of our Aunty, Dr. Olawunmi Ashiru, she embraced us wholeheartedly as family and loved us like her very own.
Our special bond was truly sealed in 2002, when I was temporarily transferred to Ibadan to relieve the Branch Manager at my office. Hoping not to inconvenience anyone, I quietly checked into a hotel. However, by the second day, Aunty learned of this—thanks to my senior brother, who worked in the same office with her. She was visibly displeased—not out of annoyance, but out of genuine concern that I hadn’t informed her. With the open-hearted warmth that so deeply defined her, she insisted I leave the hotel immediately and stay with her.
From that moment on, I experienced firsthand the depth of her love and the beauty of her character. She received me into her home with open arms, ensured I was well cared for, and made sure I lacked nothing. My mornings began with hearty breakfasts, and my evenings ended with warm, lovingly prepared dinners. Her home was more than just a place to stay - it was a sanctuary filled with comfort, peace, and grace.
When my wife and our four-year-old daughter came to visit and stayed with us for a week, Aunty’s generosity shone even brighter. She embraced them wholeheartedly, showering us with kindness and affection. She and my wife had long been gist partners, but that visit deepened their bond—countless hours of stories, shared laughter, and late-night movies often kept me up past my bedtime. Yet even in those moments, Aunty’s warmth, liveliness, and boundless heart were unmistakable.
Aunty, Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe, was free-spirited, genuinely kind, and deeply God-fearing. Her life was marked by quiet but powerful acts of love, unshakable faith, and an unwavering commitment to serving others. She was a rare soul who gave without measure, loved without limits, and lived with grace, humility, and strength.
She was not only a devoted mother to her biological children, but also a true mother-figure to many of us who were privileged to know her. Her life was an embodiment of virtue - nurturing, compassionate, selfless, and wise. She left an indelible mark on everyone she encountered, and her legacy lives on in the many lives she touched and uplifted.
Though she has gone to be with the Lord, her memory continues to inspire us. Her legacy of love, faith, and generosity will forever remain in our hearts.
May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
Lovingly remembered by,
Oluwakemi and Oluwayemisi Sulaiman
It is with deep respect, affection, and profound gratitude that we pay tribute to an extraordinary woman - Aunty, as we fondly called her. Though she was a close friend of our Aunty, Dr. Olawunmi Ashiru, she embraced us wholeheartedly as family and loved us like her very own.
Our special bond was truly sealed in 2002, when I was temporarily transferred to Ibadan to relieve the Branch Manager at my office. Hoping not to inconvenience anyone, I quietly checked into a hotel. However, by the second day, Aunty learned of this—thanks to my senior brother, who worked in the same office with her. She was visibly displeased—not out of annoyance, but out of genuine concern that I hadn’t informed her. With the open-hearted warmth that so deeply defined her, she insisted I leave the hotel immediately and stay with her.
From that moment on, I experienced firsthand the depth of her love and the beauty of her character. She received me into her home with open arms, ensured I was well cared for, and made sure I lacked nothing. My mornings began with hearty breakfasts, and my evenings ended with warm, lovingly prepared dinners. Her home was more than just a place to stay - it was a sanctuary filled with comfort, peace, and grace.
When my wife and our four-year-old daughter came to visit and stayed with us for a week, Aunty’s generosity shone even brighter. She embraced them wholeheartedly, showering us with kindness and affection. She and my wife had long been gist partners, but that visit deepened their bond—countless hours of stories, shared laughter, and late-night movies often kept me up past my bedtime. Yet even in those moments, Aunty’s warmth, liveliness, and boundless heart were unmistakable.
Aunty, Chief (Mrs) Betty Bolatito Awe, was free-spirited, genuinely kind, and deeply God-fearing. Her life was marked by quiet but powerful acts of love, unshakable faith, and an unwavering commitment to serving others. She was a rare soul who gave without measure, loved without limits, and lived with grace, humility, and strength.
She was not only a devoted mother to her biological children, but also a true mother-figure to many of us who were privileged to know her. Her life was an embodiment of virtue - nurturing, compassionate, selfless, and wise. She left an indelible mark on everyone she encountered, and her legacy lives on in the many lives she touched and uplifted.
Though she has gone to be with the Lord, her memory continues to inspire us. Her legacy of love, faith, and generosity will forever remain in our hearts.
May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
Lovingly remembered by,
Oluwakemi and Oluwayemisi Sulaiman
April 12, 2025
I still find it so hard to believe that my darling Aunty Tito(as I fondly called her) is gone, transited to a better place. Referring to her in the past tense is extremely traumatic for me but I just have to write this tribute in her honor. Aunty Tito was special to me because of her heart of gold. She was not perfect as nobody is but she was a lovely, loving, beautiful and genuinely caring person. I met her through my Father when I was in secondary school in Ibadan. He introduced her to me as my cousin and traced our connection to Aunty's mother, who I understand was much loved by my late grandfather, the late Alake Of Egbaland Sir Ladapo Ademola 2. I guess it was this love that my late father transferred to Aunty Tito, he loved her and they were very close. I immediately took to Aunty because of her genuine warmth and kindness and we formed a bond. I remember when she got married to Dr Ogunlela(Baba Kike) and they were living at the UCH quarters, Aunty would come to pick me up in her car to her house. She taught me how to eat pork meat. She would take me to the stores in those days to buy snacks for me, Premier hotel etc. She later relocated to Lagos. We reconnected at the University of Ife
( now OAU, Obafemi Awolowo), when she came for her post graduate studies and I was an undergraduate there. It was as if the years of separation were not there and we resumed our closeness. Eventually I got married and went to live Ilorin and because of the poor communication system then,we were not able to keep in touch for many, many years. Years after she moved back to Ibadan and eventually our communication was now firmly established with the advent of cellular phones. we were now able in adulthood to establish a more consistent and endearing relationship. We called each other often and she was always asking after me. She attended the weddings of my daughters in Ilorin. Anytime I came for a program in Ibadan, I always stayed with her and we slept on the same bed. We would talk and talk she would feed me till my stomach would start revolting from the excess feeding. She would still pack food for me to take with me back to Ilorin. You could not leave Aunty's house empty handed. We traveled for some of her family events together. Aunty was such good company, NEVER a dull moment with her, you won't even feel like leaving her. I remember in those days when she came visiting my Father, you could hear his boisterous laughter from her jokes, Aunty was fun to be with. Aunty's genuineness was disarming, in a world filled with a lot of hypocrisy, her genuineness was indeed a breath of fresh air, she said what she meant and meant what she said, she was reliable and deeply caring. I guess to a large extent Aunty was in a class of her own. She deeply revered and honored God in her Christian faith and this permeated her relationship with others. She loved and cared for all her biological children, spouses and grandchildren and celebrated all their milestones. She was always interceding for her children, praying for their peace, progress, prosperity, all round well being and long life. She prayed that all of them would outlive her and The Almighty God granted her request. I feel deeply honored to have been connected to her in her lifetime. I could go on and on writing loads about her but I will stop here.
I pray for all her children(spouses and grandchildren inclusive), that The Almighty God will grant them the fortitude to bear this great loss in Jesus' Mighty Name Amen.
( now OAU, Obafemi Awolowo), when she came for her post graduate studies and I was an undergraduate there. It was as if the years of separation were not there and we resumed our closeness. Eventually I got married and went to live Ilorin and because of the poor communication system then,we were not able to keep in touch for many, many years. Years after she moved back to Ibadan and eventually our communication was now firmly established with the advent of cellular phones. we were now able in adulthood to establish a more consistent and endearing relationship. We called each other often and she was always asking after me. She attended the weddings of my daughters in Ilorin. Anytime I came for a program in Ibadan, I always stayed with her and we slept on the same bed. We would talk and talk she would feed me till my stomach would start revolting from the excess feeding. She would still pack food for me to take with me back to Ilorin. You could not leave Aunty's house empty handed. We traveled for some of her family events together. Aunty was such good company, NEVER a dull moment with her, you won't even feel like leaving her. I remember in those days when she came visiting my Father, you could hear his boisterous laughter from her jokes, Aunty was fun to be with. Aunty's genuineness was disarming, in a world filled with a lot of hypocrisy, her genuineness was indeed a breath of fresh air, she said what she meant and meant what she said, she was reliable and deeply caring. I guess to a large extent Aunty was in a class of her own. She deeply revered and honored God in her Christian faith and this permeated her relationship with others. She loved and cared for all her biological children, spouses and grandchildren and celebrated all their milestones. She was always interceding for her children, praying for their peace, progress, prosperity, all round well being and long life. She prayed that all of them would outlive her and The Almighty God granted her request. I feel deeply honored to have been connected to her in her lifetime. I could go on and on writing loads about her but I will stop here.
I pray for all her children(spouses and grandchildren inclusive), that The Almighty God will grant them the fortitude to bear this great loss in Jesus' Mighty Name Amen.
April 11, 2025
Mama, I was shocked to hear of your passing away. Your kindness and impact meant so much to me.My life story is not complete without you
I will never forget the day you extended your hand and helped me secure a position at NIHORT, opening doors I never thought possible. Your belief in my potential gave me the courage to believe in myself.
You will continue to inspire my journey.
Thank you for everything, Ma. May you rest peacefully knowing you have left an indelible mark on this world.
Forever grateful,
Funmilola Abeke Adetoye
I will never forget the day you extended your hand and helped me secure a position at NIHORT, opening doors I never thought possible. Your belief in my potential gave me the courage to believe in myself.
You will continue to inspire my journey.
Thank you for everything, Ma. May you rest peacefully knowing you have left an indelible mark on this world.
Forever grateful,
Funmilola Abeke Adetoye
April 11, 2025
I went to my Facebook wall to check for an information and I saw a picture larger than life that incase admiring only to read further and I realised that Chief Mrs Bolatito Betty Awẹ has passed to glory. I was terribly disturbed and called her mobile number with the hope that somebody will tell me contrary to what I read on that social platform
I was disturbed the more.
My first contact with her was in 1989 when another family friend that they were living together in forestry quarters in Ibadan invited me and a family friend who came to visit me from the USA to a dinner in Chief Mrs Betty Awe's house. That night became a turning point. She and other family members that were present gave there life's to Christ. Awesome moment. Her growth in Christ was very dynamic and real with testimony. A true disciple of Christ. She was a financial mission partner of our ministry- Occupy World Outreach Ministries (OWOM). Like the partners of apostle paul she makes efforts to contact me anytime she's in England or other continents. Miss is the least to express my emotion because I see you as my big auntie as you consider me your spiritual mentor. I will always remember the fellowship over the phone and even in your house. I commiserate with the entire family. A ku ara fera kú. Odun yoo jina sira lagbara Jesu. Sleep on ma, until the resurrection morning when we shall meet to part no more.
Victor G Amosun
President: Occupy World Outreach Ministries (OWOM)
I was disturbed the more.
My first contact with her was in 1989 when another family friend that they were living together in forestry quarters in Ibadan invited me and a family friend who came to visit me from the USA to a dinner in Chief Mrs Betty Awe's house. That night became a turning point. She and other family members that were present gave there life's to Christ. Awesome moment. Her growth in Christ was very dynamic and real with testimony. A true disciple of Christ. She was a financial mission partner of our ministry- Occupy World Outreach Ministries (OWOM). Like the partners of apostle paul she makes efforts to contact me anytime she's in England or other continents. Miss is the least to express my emotion because I see you as my big auntie as you consider me your spiritual mentor. I will always remember the fellowship over the phone and even in your house. I commiserate with the entire family. A ku ara fera kú. Odun yoo jina sira lagbara Jesu. Sleep on ma, until the resurrection morning when we shall meet to part no more.
Victor G Amosun
President: Occupy World Outreach Ministries (OWOM)
April 11, 2025
My dearest Kike good morning. This is Aunty Nike Makinde( nee Adebayo)
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved Mother and our dearly loved Aunty Bolatito. It’s so sad. Your Mum came into our lives so many years ago when your Aunty Sade Oyekanmi married my brother Sola Adebayo over 35 years ago. Aunty Bolatito took us Adebayo siblings as her own family. She was at our family occasions and joined us in so many celebrations. I am truly unable to imagine that we will not have her with us . But thanks be to God that she is resting in Peace. You and your siblings are so blessed by the Legacy of love and sacrifice your Mum has left for you . May the lives of all of you her children continue to celebrate her in your successes. Do know that we are all here for you . Love always❤️
Stay blessed 🙏🏾
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved Mother and our dearly loved Aunty Bolatito. It’s so sad. Your Mum came into our lives so many years ago when your Aunty Sade Oyekanmi married my brother Sola Adebayo over 35 years ago. Aunty Bolatito took us Adebayo siblings as her own family. She was at our family occasions and joined us in so many celebrations. I am truly unable to imagine that we will not have her with us . But thanks be to God that she is resting in Peace. You and your siblings are so blessed by the Legacy of love and sacrifice your Mum has left for you . May the lives of all of you her children continue to celebrate her in your successes. Do know that we are all here for you . Love always❤️
Stay blessed 🙏🏾
April 11, 2025
There are certain people who walk into our lives and leave an indelible mark, not just by their words but by their actions, their kindness, and the love they share so freely. Mummy was one of those truly remarkable people.
Mummy’s impact on my life—and on the lives of so many others—cannot be overstated. She was a mother, a mentor, and a guiding light. Her warmth and generosity knew no bounds. She was a rare gem, a blessing to everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
Though her physical presence may no longer be with us, her legacy of love, mentorship, and kindness lives on.
Rest in peace, Chief Mrs. Bolatito Awe. You will forever be missed, but your light will never fade from our hearts.
With love and gratitude,
JUMOKE ODOFIN (NIHORT)
Mummy’s impact on my life—and on the lives of so many others—cannot be overstated. She was a mother, a mentor, and a guiding light. Her warmth and generosity knew no bounds. She was a rare gem, a blessing to everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
Though her physical presence may no longer be with us, her legacy of love, mentorship, and kindness lives on.
Rest in peace, Chief Mrs. Bolatito Awe. You will forever be missed, but your light will never fade from our hearts.
With love and gratitude,
JUMOKE ODOFIN (NIHORT)
April 10, 2025
TRIBUTE TO AUNTIE BOLATITO, ALIAS 'CHIEF MRS'
The Lord is near to the
brokenhea
ted and saves the crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18
What can I say about Auntie Tito? Words indeed fail me. For almost 15 years now, we had been neighbours, turned sisters, and very close confidants. A big sister with a large heart, who would do everything within her ability to ensure your issues are resolved.
She was not only accommodating but also hospitable. I record with nostalgia the many late night tete-a-tetes over sumptuous food with good wine discussing everything, state of our dear nation- Nigeria, other common interests,but mostly the progress and wellbeing of children and grandchildren!! These could be either at her place or ours or even at some eateries in town. She would always
have intelligent and productive ideas brought to the table!
She loved God and Ministers of God. She would give her all to the ex̌pansion of God's work .
Her demise leaves a painful dent in our hearts!!
Adieu auntie , you will be greatly missed by my family,children inclusive.
🩷always.
Dame Oluyemisi Idowu. JP
The Lord is near to the
brokenhea
ted and saves the crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18
What can I say about Auntie Tito? Words indeed fail me. For almost 15 years now, we had been neighbours, turned sisters, and very close confidants. A big sister with a large heart, who would do everything within her ability to ensure your issues are resolved.
She was not only accommodating but also hospitable. I record with nostalgia the many late night tete-a-tetes over sumptuous food with good wine discussing everything, state of our dear nation- Nigeria, other common interests,but mostly the progress and wellbeing of children and grandchildren!! These could be either at her place or ours or even at some eateries in town. She would always
have intelligent and productive ideas brought to the table!
She loved God and Ministers of God. She would give her all to the ex̌pansion of God's work .
Her demise leaves a painful dent in our hearts!!
Adieu auntie , you will be greatly missed by my family,children inclusive.
🩷always.
Dame Oluyemisi Idowu. JP
April 10, 2025
Grateful for mummy’s life, she was indeed a beacon of light. I fondly remember her laughter and warmth - truly special. Praying that the good Lord continue to give all family and friends the strength to get through this season. May His loving arm of comfort wrap everyone. Adieu mummy till we meet again.
April 10, 2025
*ADIEU "CHIEF* MRS"
" _Good people pass away, but no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come. For those who follow godly paths will rest in peace when they die" (Isaiah 57:1-2)._
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This quotation explains what the sudden demise of Chief Mrs Betty Bolatito Awe connotes to me. Or how else do you explain bidding her goodbye on Friday in respect of a trip to Lagos only to receive a call on Saturday night that she had passed on to glory!!!
It is, therefore, with a heavy heart that I write this Tribute about a principled, forthright woman of substance, though considered very tough by most people but someone I knew to be soft at heart.
I first met her at Abuja during the interview conducted to fill the vacant post of The Executive Director/ Chief Executive Officer, National Horticultural Research Institute(NIHORT), Idi-Ishin, Ibadan. Chief Mrs Awẹ and I eventually worked at NIHORT, though, for a short period, as Director of Human Resources and The Executive Director, respectively.
I found her to be highly resourceful and dependable. In the Institute, she established for herself a good reputation as a "no nonsense" administrator who was ready to speak the truth to all categories of staff. Members of staff referred to her as "Margaret Thatcher." She detested the antics of self seeking sycophants and those who attempted to abuse the trust and privileges of her friendship and love.
From being colleagues at work, we became family friends. The friendship blossomed when we became neighbours at Unique Estate, Orange Gate, Oluyole Extension, Ibadan. She never dwelt on the fact that she was older than my wife and I. She referred to me as "Ọga mi" and my wife as "Ìyàwó Ọgá mi or simply as Dame." This demonstration of humility by her, we never took for granted. We fondly called her " *Chief Mrs".* She enjoyed life to the best of her ability. She loved parties, but she wouldn't attend just any party!. She was a "fashionista" and relished being an " Ọmọ Ìbàdàn". She unrepentantly believed in a better future for Nigeria.
Chief Mrs. had a large heart. Whatever she wanted for herself and her family, she even wished more for others. Her children and grandchildren added value and joy to her highly impactful and eventful life. God will bless and sustain them, amen 🙏.
Yẹmisi, I, and our family members wish the gentle soul of " *Chief Mrs"* eternal rest in perfect peace.
Sir Dr Ademola Idowu KJW
" _Good people pass away, but no one seems to care or wonder why. No one seems to understand that God is protecting them from the evil to come. For those who follow godly paths will rest in peace when they die" (Isaiah 57:1-2)._
__
This quotation explains what the sudden demise of Chief Mrs Betty Bolatito Awe connotes to me. Or how else do you explain bidding her goodbye on Friday in respect of a trip to Lagos only to receive a call on Saturday night that she had passed on to glory!!!
It is, therefore, with a heavy heart that I write this Tribute about a principled, forthright woman of substance, though considered very tough by most people but someone I knew to be soft at heart.
I first met her at Abuja during the interview conducted to fill the vacant post of The Executive Director/ Chief Executive Officer, National Horticultural Research Institute(NIHORT), Idi-Ishin, Ibadan. Chief Mrs Awẹ and I eventually worked at NIHORT, though, for a short period, as Director of Human Resources and The Executive Director, respectively.
I found her to be highly resourceful and dependable. In the Institute, she established for herself a good reputation as a "no nonsense" administrator who was ready to speak the truth to all categories of staff. Members of staff referred to her as "Margaret Thatcher." She detested the antics of self seeking sycophants and those who attempted to abuse the trust and privileges of her friendship and love.
From being colleagues at work, we became family friends. The friendship blossomed when we became neighbours at Unique Estate, Orange Gate, Oluyole Extension, Ibadan. She never dwelt on the fact that she was older than my wife and I. She referred to me as "Ọga mi" and my wife as "Ìyàwó Ọgá mi or simply as Dame." This demonstration of humility by her, we never took for granted. We fondly called her " *Chief Mrs".* She enjoyed life to the best of her ability. She loved parties, but she wouldn't attend just any party!. She was a "fashionista" and relished being an " Ọmọ Ìbàdàn". She unrepentantly believed in a better future for Nigeria.
Chief Mrs. had a large heart. Whatever she wanted for herself and her family, she even wished more for others. Her children and grandchildren added value and joy to her highly impactful and eventful life. God will bless and sustain them, amen 🙏.
Yẹmisi, I, and our family members wish the gentle soul of " *Chief Mrs"* eternal rest in perfect peace.
Sir Dr Ademola Idowu KJW
April 9, 2025
TRIBUTE TO ELIZABETH BOLATITO AWE
TRULY UNBELIEVABLE
I stand on the Lord’s commandment (1 Thessalonians 5:18) to give THANKS in ALL THINGS.
I thank God for the divine providence that brought our paths to cross as teenagers at Oke-padre St Mary’s Catholic Church in Ibadan during the 1960s.
I thank God for the unbreakable love and cherished experiences we shared during our teenage years, our secondary school days, and our time at the University of Ife.
I thank God for the Grace and Special Favors bestowed upon us throughout our lives, as wives, mothers, and grandmothers, in the loving presence and directives of our Heavenly Father.
I thank God that on your final journey, you did not ‘da awọn ọmọ, ẹbi, ara, ọrẹ lamu’ when you finally met with your Maker.
Well, Bolatito, Mọmọ Ibadan, a truly loving, caring, giving, and genuine friend.
She had represented me on many occasions at different parts of Nigeria where I could not be physically there. 'A se Oju, a se Ehin' in full gear.
She loved and trusted God in all things, especially with her children, grandchildren, family, and friends.
Her relationship with God was evident in her active participation in church matters.
We shared many enjoyable social lives and made a promise to continue to enjoy each other’s company by traveling together and visiting one another to combat boredom in our golden years.
God granted us some of these cherished moments, and Bolatito relished having her friends over and entertaining them even while she was a guest in our house, she would invite her own guests to come over, and the more, the merrier. She never stopped at ‘showing off’ how she was being ‘extravagantly’ taken care of, supporting her views with videos and pictures of food, drinks, gifts, and more.
Some of us affectionately called her “Headmistress-teacher,” a fitting nickname for her disciplinarian nature. While she could sometimes be lovingly overbearing, we still loved her dearly.
During my visit to Nigeria, Bolatito kindly requested that I spend a week with her. I spent four unforgettable days in her last month of life, in March 2025, which will forever be etched in my memory. (Oh, death, where is your sting?)
I didn’t realize I was seeing, interacting, enjoying her warmth, caring, doting, schooling, and foods for the last time. I thought she’d recover from her state of “feeling unwell” with medications, rest, and then this?! Mọmọ, you fought a good fight.
Rest peacefully in the embrace of your Maker, Bolatito Awe. You have left behind Kikelomo, Eniola, Akinwale, and Oluwole, your admirable children whom God blessed you with the special grace to raise up well in all aspects of life, just as you had envisioned.
May God take care of them, their spouses, and your grandchildren. Amen. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Bolatito, my children, and grandchildren miss you too and will always cherish fond memories of you.
Sun re o until we meet again on Resurrection.
TRULY UNBELIEVABLE
I stand on the Lord’s commandment (1 Thessalonians 5:18) to give THANKS in ALL THINGS.
I thank God for the divine providence that brought our paths to cross as teenagers at Oke-padre St Mary’s Catholic Church in Ibadan during the 1960s.
I thank God for the unbreakable love and cherished experiences we shared during our teenage years, our secondary school days, and our time at the University of Ife.
I thank God for the Grace and Special Favors bestowed upon us throughout our lives, as wives, mothers, and grandmothers, in the loving presence and directives of our Heavenly Father.
I thank God that on your final journey, you did not ‘da awọn ọmọ, ẹbi, ara, ọrẹ lamu’ when you finally met with your Maker.
Well, Bolatito, Mọmọ Ibadan, a truly loving, caring, giving, and genuine friend.
She had represented me on many occasions at different parts of Nigeria where I could not be physically there. 'A se Oju, a se Ehin' in full gear.
She loved and trusted God in all things, especially with her children, grandchildren, family, and friends.
Her relationship with God was evident in her active participation in church matters.
We shared many enjoyable social lives and made a promise to continue to enjoy each other’s company by traveling together and visiting one another to combat boredom in our golden years.
God granted us some of these cherished moments, and Bolatito relished having her friends over and entertaining them even while she was a guest in our house, she would invite her own guests to come over, and the more, the merrier. She never stopped at ‘showing off’ how she was being ‘extravagantly’ taken care of, supporting her views with videos and pictures of food, drinks, gifts, and more.
Some of us affectionately called her “Headmistress-teacher,” a fitting nickname for her disciplinarian nature. While she could sometimes be lovingly overbearing, we still loved her dearly.
During my visit to Nigeria, Bolatito kindly requested that I spend a week with her. I spent four unforgettable days in her last month of life, in March 2025, which will forever be etched in my memory. (Oh, death, where is your sting?)
I didn’t realize I was seeing, interacting, enjoying her warmth, caring, doting, schooling, and foods for the last time. I thought she’d recover from her state of “feeling unwell” with medications, rest, and then this?! Mọmọ, you fought a good fight.
Rest peacefully in the embrace of your Maker, Bolatito Awe. You have left behind Kikelomo, Eniola, Akinwale, and Oluwole, your admirable children whom God blessed you with the special grace to raise up well in all aspects of life, just as you had envisioned.
May God take care of them, their spouses, and your grandchildren. Amen. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Bolatito, my children, and grandchildren miss you too and will always cherish fond memories of you.
Sun re o until we meet again on Resurrection.
April 8, 2025
Anti Ti-to as I used to call you, your sudden departure has shaken me to the marrow. You played a significant role in starting me off on an enviable foundation. In my early years, I followed you everywhere you went. First to Sacred Heart Convent School, Idikan, Ibadan, and then to Maryway and later to Comprehensive High School, Aiyetoro. How can I ever forget you, my darling mentor and friend? You were always there for me at the most critical period. Thank you for taking care of my children in 1989 when I had to go for an executive training at the Maastricht School of Management in the Netherlands. You cared and shielded me like a mother would. I bless the Lord for all that you were able to do for me while on this divide. I cherished and loved you dearly. You have fought a good fight, now is the time to rest. Rest on my small Mommy, till we meet again on the Ressurrection day.
-Your dear Titi
Omo Shewu l'Ekotedo
O.L.A Maryway (965-69 Set)
😭😭😭
-Your dear Titi
Omo Shewu l'Ekotedo
O.L.A Maryway (965-69 Set)
😭😭😭
April 8, 2025
I only met your daughter Dr Kike. Just going by the wholesomeness of her being, I can relate to the life you have lived. A legacy of love indeed. May the soul of the faithful departed rest in peace and all the family and friends be comforted. Amen.
April 8, 2025
Mama Betty you were very loving and generous to my family, thanks for being such a wonderful , trustworthy and understanding mum to me and I am really missing you, May God grant your children , family members and friends you left behind the grace to bear the pain of your departure, May your sweet soul rest in perfect peace in Jesus name
(ADIEU mama good night) I remain loyal as you usually uses to chat with me during your life time.😭🥺❤️
(ADIEU mama good night) I remain loyal as you usually uses to chat with me during your life time.😭🥺❤️
April 8, 2025
A heartfelt tribute to a special mommy, Chief Mrs. Bolatito Betty Awe.
It is painful that I I have to write this tribute to soon, because I thought we still have more time with you on this side of life.
I write to celebrate a legacy of Love and selfless Motherhood.
Your legacy lives on through the countless lives you've touched, including yours truly.
Your unconditional love, kindness, care, and devotion have left an indelible mark on my heart.
Cherished Memories
I'll always treasure the memories of your counsel and encouragement, especially during my marriage choice. Your concern for every aspect of my life – academics, moral, spiritual, and career – was truly remarkable.
Your presence at my wedding, alongside Oluwole, will forever be etched in my memory.
Our bond is indeed unbreakable, a tie that's strong, a love that's forever. I'm grateful for your love, support, and care. You've been more than just a mother of my friend, Kike. You have been a true mom to me.
Your legacy will continue to inspire and strengthen us, especially Kike, Eni, Akinwale, and Oluwole. My husband, Dare, joins me in mourning your sudden exit.
Rest in peace, dear Mom, till resurrection morning. You will be forever missed, but your love and legacy will live on in our hearts.
This tribute is a beautiful testament to your love and impact on those around you.
Oluwatosin Adewole (Nee Owolabi).
It is painful that I I have to write this tribute to soon, because I thought we still have more time with you on this side of life.
I write to celebrate a legacy of Love and selfless Motherhood.
Your legacy lives on through the countless lives you've touched, including yours truly.
Your unconditional love, kindness, care, and devotion have left an indelible mark on my heart.
Cherished Memories
I'll always treasure the memories of your counsel and encouragement, especially during my marriage choice. Your concern for every aspect of my life – academics, moral, spiritual, and career – was truly remarkable.
Your presence at my wedding, alongside Oluwole, will forever be etched in my memory.
Our bond is indeed unbreakable, a tie that's strong, a love that's forever. I'm grateful for your love, support, and care. You've been more than just a mother of my friend, Kike. You have been a true mom to me.
Your legacy will continue to inspire and strengthen us, especially Kike, Eni, Akinwale, and Oluwole. My husband, Dare, joins me in mourning your sudden exit.
Rest in peace, dear Mom, till resurrection morning. You will be forever missed, but your love and legacy will live on in our hearts.
This tribute is a beautiful testament to your love and impact on those around you.
Oluwatosin Adewole (Nee Owolabi).
April 7, 2025
Mummy was amazing in her kindness and generousity and love to everyone. She always went the extra mile to help people. She was an epitome of kindness.
The Almighty God be praised and adored for a life well spent and the legacy of her kindness and goodness she has left behind.
The Almighty God will watch over Kike, Eni, Akinwale and Oluwole and all her lovely grandchildren.
May the beautiful and gentle soul of Mummy rest in perfect peace IJMN!
Carmela.
The Almighty God be praised and adored for a life well spent and the legacy of her kindness and goodness she has left behind.
The Almighty God will watch over Kike, Eni, Akinwale and Oluwole and all her lovely grandchildren.
May the beautiful and gentle soul of Mummy rest in perfect peace IJMN!
Carmela.
April 7, 2025
*Tribute To Our Esteemed & Passionate Mother*
Ps 116:15 "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His faithful servants".
We mourn a Colossus, Gallant Soldier of the Lord, a Mother of impeccable, inestimable jewel and an epitome of Christ's love - a Christian extraordinaire.
Honestly, we are deeply saddened by the news of your exit but we thank God for you have fought the good fight. You kept the faith and you conquered - Glory be to God.
There is no doubt that the more we struggle to understand the phenomenon TIME, the more difficult it becomes as we seem to need more of it. Sincerely, TIME seems to elude us all, if we could write a story about *Our Great and Matchless Mother*, it would be the greatest ever told, if we could write a million pages, it would not really express how much we love and miss you ma. Your life added a huge value certainly to everyone. You are God's sent to confirm our divine repositioning from Lagos to Ibadan few decades ago.
Mummy, your generous and large heart of kindness, your deep insight, your impactful act of benevolence will be missed. Though, very painful that you will remain unseen, unheard but the memory of your legacy, counsel, love, support and help shall remain indelible.
"Thou has instructed many and thou hast strengthened the weak hands. Thy words have upholden him that was falling, and thou hast strengthened the feeble knees. You were eyes to the blind and feet to the lame. You were a Father to the poor." That is the testament that you're God's sent Angel to our lives.
Mummy, you are gone but not forgotten. Sleep on the bosom of Our Saviour Jesus Christ till resurrection morning.
PST Ben & PST(Mrs) Nike Badejo, nee Ogunlela.
Ps 116:15 "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His faithful servants".
We mourn a Colossus, Gallant Soldier of the Lord, a Mother of impeccable, inestimable jewel and an epitome of Christ's love - a Christian extraordinaire.
Honestly, we are deeply saddened by the news of your exit but we thank God for you have fought the good fight. You kept the faith and you conquered - Glory be to God.
There is no doubt that the more we struggle to understand the phenomenon TIME, the more difficult it becomes as we seem to need more of it. Sincerely, TIME seems to elude us all, if we could write a story about *Our Great and Matchless Mother*, it would be the greatest ever told, if we could write a million pages, it would not really express how much we love and miss you ma. Your life added a huge value certainly to everyone. You are God's sent to confirm our divine repositioning from Lagos to Ibadan few decades ago.
Mummy, your generous and large heart of kindness, your deep insight, your impactful act of benevolence will be missed. Though, very painful that you will remain unseen, unheard but the memory of your legacy, counsel, love, support and help shall remain indelible.
"Thou has instructed many and thou hast strengthened the weak hands. Thy words have upholden him that was falling, and thou hast strengthened the feeble knees. You were eyes to the blind and feet to the lame. You were a Father to the poor." That is the testament that you're God's sent Angel to our lives.
Mummy, you are gone but not forgotten. Sleep on the bosom of Our Saviour Jesus Christ till resurrection morning.
PST Ben & PST(Mrs) Nike Badejo, nee Ogunlela.
April 7, 2025
I’m am indeed saddened by the news of Mama’s passing. My condolences to the family and prayers to the Almighty for the soul of the departed.
April 6, 2025
What can I say?
I am trying to conjure all the superlative words that can describe the impact that Mrs Awe had upon the Agenes.
She traveled all the way to Otan Ayegbaju , in Osun State in 2001 for our wedding.
Her car broke down . She left it in the care of her driver and still made the trip to register her presence on our special day.
Or when she would come to Abuja to visit friends and invite me to come have dinner with them as my wife was still in school and Mommy wanted to ensure that I had a good meal.
And the numerous acts of kindness and thoughtfulness that were always so effortless.
When she offered me tea, she always remembered that I liked the teabag to steep inside the tea cup.
It was the little things.
So to Kikelomo, I am very thankful that you shared your Loving Mom with us.
She was an angel living among mere mortals.
How else can one describe such feelings of love , comfort, joy , equanimity she always evoked with every interaction.
I promised to host her one day in Virginia Beach.
I am deeply sad that it never came to pass.
But I know that the Perpetual Light of the Most High will shine upon her.
I grieve with you because it is all the unspent love we carry in our hearts for Mommy.
May God bless you, Kike and your siblings and comfort you immensely.
Amen.
I am trying to conjure all the superlative words that can describe the impact that Mrs Awe had upon the Agenes.
She traveled all the way to Otan Ayegbaju , in Osun State in 2001 for our wedding.
Her car broke down . She left it in the care of her driver and still made the trip to register her presence on our special day.
Or when she would come to Abuja to visit friends and invite me to come have dinner with them as my wife was still in school and Mommy wanted to ensure that I had a good meal.
And the numerous acts of kindness and thoughtfulness that were always so effortless.
When she offered me tea, she always remembered that I liked the teabag to steep inside the tea cup.
It was the little things.
So to Kikelomo, I am very thankful that you shared your Loving Mom with us.
She was an angel living among mere mortals.
How else can one describe such feelings of love , comfort, joy , equanimity she always evoked with every interaction.
I promised to host her one day in Virginia Beach.
I am deeply sad that it never came to pass.
But I know that the Perpetual Light of the Most High will shine upon her.
I grieve with you because it is all the unspent love we carry in our hearts for Mommy.
May God bless you, Kike and your siblings and comfort you immensely.
Amen.
April 6, 2025
I will cherish my memories of dear Aunty Tito forever.
She was always so incredibly loving, kind and warm.
I have such happy memories of our times spent together in Ibadan when my mum still lived there and we were home on holidays from schooling in the UK.
Wonderful times spent at her residence in Forestry, hanging out with Kike, Eniola, Akinwale and Oluwole.
Enjoying a delicious lunch, MTV and hot, hot gist!
Aunty Tito celebrated all our successes with genuine pride and joy.
There was never an ounce of jealousy or resentment within her.
And she commiserated with us when we experienced any losses.
I will forever treasure her making the effort to come and see me and my son when we were last in Ibadan in 2016.
She made an effort to prioritise time with us both, and this meant more to me than she could ever imagine.
Dearest aunty - thank you.
For your kindness.
For your love.
Your legacy will live on forever xxx
[Photo taken during our last visit to Ibadan in 2016.]
She was always so incredibly loving, kind and warm.
I have such happy memories of our times spent together in Ibadan when my mum still lived there and we were home on holidays from schooling in the UK.
Wonderful times spent at her residence in Forestry, hanging out with Kike, Eniola, Akinwale and Oluwole.
Enjoying a delicious lunch, MTV and hot, hot gist!
Aunty Tito celebrated all our successes with genuine pride and joy.
There was never an ounce of jealousy or resentment within her.
And she commiserated with us when we experienced any losses.
I will forever treasure her making the effort to come and see me and my son when we were last in Ibadan in 2016.
She made an effort to prioritise time with us both, and this meant more to me than she could ever imagine.
Dearest aunty - thank you.
For your kindness.
For your love.
Your legacy will live on forever xxx
[Photo taken during our last visit to Ibadan in 2016.]
April 6, 2025
The legacy you leave behind in Your children and grandchildren is testament to the Amazing woman you were…..:so full of life and ever so warm and welcoming.
Who else will call me Dr. Salawu? You will be sorely missed.
Who else will call me Dr. Salawu? You will be sorely missed.
April 6, 2025
It was an honour to have known you. Your unbelievable warmth was evident from the first day I met you at Kike's place. May the good Lord grant your family the fortitude to bear the loss.
April 6, 2025
She was a lovely, thoughtful Aunty. What you saw is what you got. Straight to the point and took no prisoners. She was real funny too. May she continue to RIP... 🕊️
April 6, 2025
My Twinee, My Heartache!
In my wildest imagination, I never thought a day like this would come so soon. I always knew it would come someday—but not this soon. I am not shocked because death is the inevitable end of every man. We all must leave this world one day. But how and when—that is for the Almighty, the Creator of the universe, to decide. Still, I am deeply pained and heartbroken that death took you when we least expected it.
My Twinee! As I fondly call you, you were the heartbeat of our extended family- The Ladapo Dynasty. A woman who embraced everyone with open arms, yet carried the wisdom and discipline of a leader. Highly principled, yet tender and kind—a sweet soul who made everyone feel special. You took a special interest in me, perhaps because we shared so many traits. You were always in touch, always checking on my children and their father, always praying for me. Mummy ni Ibadan—you were a true mother in every sense.
I still vividly remember 2006, when I fell ill and was referred to UCH Ibadan from Adeoyo General Hospital. The officials at UCH refused to admit me because they were on strike. But you, my Twinee, would not have it! You stood your ground at the hospital with my parents, telling anyone who cared to listen that you would not leave without them attending to me. You reintroduced yourself, reminding them that your first daughter—my cousin, Sister Kike—had done her housemanship there. You started calling out the names of top consultants at UCH, reaching out to everyone you knew, because to you, your daughter was sick. People thought you were fighting for your biological child. And after so much tension, I was finally admitted. Throughout my five days at UCH, I received the best care, all because of you.
That was who you were—fiercely loving, selfless, and protective. I still can’t believe I have to speak about you in the past tense. You made me feel so special, and I loved you deeply in return.
Mummy, I am grateful to God for the life you lived. You lived well, and you lived strong. I am especially happy that in your last days, you became deeply committed to the things of God. My only regret is that you never got to meet my husband and children, as you always asked, "Funkie, nigba wo lo n bo wa ki mi pelu oko ati omo e? I want to meet them."
Thank you for loving me intentionally. Thank you for always looking out for me. Thank you for loving your dearest and favorite brother, Ayomie—he is struggling with this loss, but I know all will be well.
I love you, my Twinee, Adufe Agbo! Omo a shakasiriki!
Your Favorite "Twin"Niece,
Eyedofin Oluwafunke Asagunla nee LADAPO
In my wildest imagination, I never thought a day like this would come so soon. I always knew it would come someday—but not this soon. I am not shocked because death is the inevitable end of every man. We all must leave this world one day. But how and when—that is for the Almighty, the Creator of the universe, to decide. Still, I am deeply pained and heartbroken that death took you when we least expected it.
My Twinee! As I fondly call you, you were the heartbeat of our extended family- The Ladapo Dynasty. A woman who embraced everyone with open arms, yet carried the wisdom and discipline of a leader. Highly principled, yet tender and kind—a sweet soul who made everyone feel special. You took a special interest in me, perhaps because we shared so many traits. You were always in touch, always checking on my children and their father, always praying for me. Mummy ni Ibadan—you were a true mother in every sense.
I still vividly remember 2006, when I fell ill and was referred to UCH Ibadan from Adeoyo General Hospital. The officials at UCH refused to admit me because they were on strike. But you, my Twinee, would not have it! You stood your ground at the hospital with my parents, telling anyone who cared to listen that you would not leave without them attending to me. You reintroduced yourself, reminding them that your first daughter—my cousin, Sister Kike—had done her housemanship there. You started calling out the names of top consultants at UCH, reaching out to everyone you knew, because to you, your daughter was sick. People thought you were fighting for your biological child. And after so much tension, I was finally admitted. Throughout my five days at UCH, I received the best care, all because of you.
That was who you were—fiercely loving, selfless, and protective. I still can’t believe I have to speak about you in the past tense. You made me feel so special, and I loved you deeply in return.
Mummy, I am grateful to God for the life you lived. You lived well, and you lived strong. I am especially happy that in your last days, you became deeply committed to the things of God. My only regret is that you never got to meet my husband and children, as you always asked, "Funkie, nigba wo lo n bo wa ki mi pelu oko ati omo e? I want to meet them."
Thank you for loving me intentionally. Thank you for always looking out for me. Thank you for loving your dearest and favorite brother, Ayomie—he is struggling with this loss, but I know all will be well.
I love you, my Twinee, Adufe Agbo! Omo a shakasiriki!
Your Favorite "Twin"Niece,
Eyedofin Oluwafunke Asagunla nee LADAPO
April 6, 2025
I met Aunty in 1988/89 at FGBMFI Premier Hotel and we just clicked! I became her aburo and she introduced me to her children- Kike, Eni, Akin and Wole. She was a nice and humble person who welcomes all. Her hospitality is per excellence! She was at my wedding and was always available to provide guidance and support at the teething stage of our marital journey.
Aunty was very kind and generous. I remember the time she came to visit us with a pot of fresh fish… 🐟 My first set of maternity dresses were over sized batik gowns she gave me😂😘 and I proudly wore them because they were elegant - she was a fashionista💃🏻
She even loaned me her pram when I had my first born😢
Aunty was very welcoming, humble and down to earth. She will tell you her story, ask for prayers and go for deliverance if needed. She will tell you “eni ba da ke….😲
I call her my Excellent Role Model(ERM). She was one of the people God brought into my life at a very strategic and pivotal time and I thank God for her. I know she is with her Lord and resting in peace.
May the Lord continue to bless Kike, Eni, Akin Wole and all the precious grandchildren
Orun ire my beloved Aunty🕊
Aunty was very kind and generous. I remember the time she came to visit us with a pot of fresh fish… 🐟 My first set of maternity dresses were over sized batik gowns she gave me😂😘 and I proudly wore them because they were elegant - she was a fashionista💃🏻
She even loaned me her pram when I had my first born😢
Aunty was very welcoming, humble and down to earth. She will tell you her story, ask for prayers and go for deliverance if needed. She will tell you “eni ba da ke….😲
I call her my Excellent Role Model(ERM). She was one of the people God brought into my life at a very strategic and pivotal time and I thank God for her. I know she is with her Lord and resting in peace.
May the Lord continue to bless Kike, Eni, Akin Wole and all the precious grandchildren
Orun ire my beloved Aunty🕊
April 5, 2025
My siblings and I were with our mum on a video call when she went to be with her maker.
Mum was so full of life and was such a force of nature to me that I had no inkling she would leave us now even as we saw her leave this earth, I believed she would be revived to us.
No words I write can do her life and her heart of love justice.
My mum was so many things to do many people but to me she was a MOTHER INDEED.
Her love for us was without question. She gave us her all, her best. We lacked for nothing.My mother was a no-nonsense disciplinarian but her love for us was never in doubt…not for one second.
She almost single handedly ensured we had the best education, bought every book on the syllabus, made sure we had every facility and comfort when in school, made personal sacrifices to pay for expensive higher degrees and helped us to get soft landings as we became adults.
My mum was well known at my hall of residence whilst I was in medical school as she would faithfully bring me cooked food supplies every week so I could concentrate on just studying.
The best gift she gave us however were the character traits she modelled and instilled often without a word.
We learned from our mother the importance of family and relationships. She was a unifier. She loved nothing more than her house bustling with family and friends.
To my mum, honest and integrity was everything. One of the mantras she would tell constantly was that it was better to die saying the truth than to lie. She said it so much that I learned the importance of integrity early in life.
Just by watching how she lived her life, we were taught contentment and self confidence.
We learned from her throughout her life that the giving hand never lacks. Mummy would literally give the shirt of her back. I will never be able to match her in that sense but I will do more of it in honour of her.
She taught us to be welcoming of anyone that came through our doors. She modelled to us respect for all humans, for authority, for those older than us.
The best gift she gave me personally was the ability to rejoice with others and to celebrate them and be happy for their successes.
The best of who I am came from my mum.
I felt safe in my mother’s love. I knew she was always in my corner even when it was preceded by a “piece of her mind” ( often a large piece. 😅)
I knew she was always praying for me and my family. The last thing she did before we both went to bed the night she died was to pray for my son and I.
Mummy was our backbone, she did not suffer fools gladly but she was the one we ran too when we were in trouble knowing she would have a solution.
My Mum poured her all into the four of us and she told us regularly of how proud we made her not only by our achievements but by the kind of life we lived.
She loved her social media and would regularly post long essays on our walls and family groups with an abundance of emojis 😊 telling us how much she loved us.
My mum would call to remind me to take my passport with me when travelling 😀 and tell me to call her when I arrived where I was going whenever I drove more than hour…I sometimes felt a twinge of irritability when she did this telling her mum I’m a full fledged adult but gosh how much will I miss those acts of love now…
Mummy’s greatest desire was that the four us were close and unified and mummy you did a great job there. The day our mother died, the three of us that lived in the same country together with a sister-in-law spent the day together. We were all on a video call together with her on the same phone with her and watched her leave this heart. I hope it assured you that we will always be there for each other.
These words do not do my mother justice but paints a little front page of her devotion to us.
Our hearts ache, our lives are changed forever and the pain runs deep but we will strive to bring honour always to the mother you were.
Iya ni wura'
Iya ni wura iyebiye ti a ko le fowo ra
Iya ku itoju mi.
Mum was so full of life and was such a force of nature to me that I had no inkling she would leave us now even as we saw her leave this earth, I believed she would be revived to us.
No words I write can do her life and her heart of love justice.
My mum was so many things to do many people but to me she was a MOTHER INDEED.
Her love for us was without question. She gave us her all, her best. We lacked for nothing.My mother was a no-nonsense disciplinarian but her love for us was never in doubt…not for one second.
She almost single handedly ensured we had the best education, bought every book on the syllabus, made sure we had every facility and comfort when in school, made personal sacrifices to pay for expensive higher degrees and helped us to get soft landings as we became adults.
My mum was well known at my hall of residence whilst I was in medical school as she would faithfully bring me cooked food supplies every week so I could concentrate on just studying.
The best gift she gave us however were the character traits she modelled and instilled often without a word.
We learned from our mother the importance of family and relationships. She was a unifier. She loved nothing more than her house bustling with family and friends.
To my mum, honest and integrity was everything. One of the mantras she would tell constantly was that it was better to die saying the truth than to lie. She said it so much that I learned the importance of integrity early in life.
Just by watching how she lived her life, we were taught contentment and self confidence.
We learned from her throughout her life that the giving hand never lacks. Mummy would literally give the shirt of her back. I will never be able to match her in that sense but I will do more of it in honour of her.
She taught us to be welcoming of anyone that came through our doors. She modelled to us respect for all humans, for authority, for those older than us.
The best gift she gave me personally was the ability to rejoice with others and to celebrate them and be happy for their successes.
The best of who I am came from my mum.
I felt safe in my mother’s love. I knew she was always in my corner even when it was preceded by a “piece of her mind” ( often a large piece. 😅)
I knew she was always praying for me and my family. The last thing she did before we both went to bed the night she died was to pray for my son and I.
Mummy was our backbone, she did not suffer fools gladly but she was the one we ran too when we were in trouble knowing she would have a solution.
My Mum poured her all into the four of us and she told us regularly of how proud we made her not only by our achievements but by the kind of life we lived.
She loved her social media and would regularly post long essays on our walls and family groups with an abundance of emojis 😊 telling us how much she loved us.
My mum would call to remind me to take my passport with me when travelling 😀 and tell me to call her when I arrived where I was going whenever I drove more than hour…I sometimes felt a twinge of irritability when she did this telling her mum I’m a full fledged adult but gosh how much will I miss those acts of love now…
Mummy’s greatest desire was that the four us were close and unified and mummy you did a great job there. The day our mother died, the three of us that lived in the same country together with a sister-in-law spent the day together. We were all on a video call together with her on the same phone with her and watched her leave this heart. I hope it assured you that we will always be there for each other.
These words do not do my mother justice but paints a little front page of her devotion to us.
Our hearts ache, our lives are changed forever and the pain runs deep but we will strive to bring honour always to the mother you were.
Iya ni wura'
Iya ni wura iyebiye ti a ko le fowo ra
Iya ku itoju mi.
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