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Betty Daliessio

JulJuly 5th, 1929 JunJune 24th, 2025
Boothwyn, PA
Betty Daliessio

“I’ll find you in the morning sun, and when the night is new, I’ll be looking at the moon, and I’ll be seeing you.”

Obituary

Betty Lorraine Daliessio (neé Passwater), age 95, of Boothwyn, PA, passed away peacefully Tuesday evening, June 24th, 2025, at her residence. She was born July 5, 1929, in Delaware County, PA, a daughter of the late Orban and Edna Passwater.

Betty was preceded in death by her husband, Joseph Daliessio; son David Daliessio, brother, Ben Passwater; and sisters June Pinnock, and Joyce Taylor.

Known as Mom, Mommom, GiGi Mom, and Nanny, Betty was an incredible grandmother and great-grandmother to both her biological and chosen families. Food was her love language. If you knew her, she fed you at one time or another, or at least handed you a homemade loaf of pumpkin bread, ginger bread, or banana bread to take with you. Her happy place was in her kitchen, and her cheesecake was second to none. In addition to cooking, Bettin’ Betty loved hitting the casino, playing cards and bingo, and spending time with her family. She loved to sing and dance, and if there were Mummers anywhere within earshot, she was up and strutting. She created amazing hats for all occasions. A widow at 49, she had to start her life over again, including learning to drive. She helped raise her grandkids. She was a bartender, a cook, a restaurant manager, a babysitter, and so much more.

She would surprise you with hilarious stories, like one Thanksgiving when she regaled the family with the tale that in her 50s, her dream job was to become the madame of a brothel. The entire Philadelphia region got to hear this story live on the radio as she was interviewed by Preston and Steve of WMMR ahead of the Granny Grand Prix, where she raced a go-cart at age 80.

Betty is survived by her children, Lorraine Daliessio, Christine Reeder, and George Daliessio; her grandchildren Nickolette Phillips (Steve Playo), Shannon Diiorio (Michael), Joseph Daliessio (Donetta), Gretchen Reeder (John Wisniewski), Rachel Lovano (Michael), David Daliessio (Meghan), and 7 great-grandchildren, as well as the Oropeza family.

When Betty learned there was a shortage of cadavers for medical students, she decided to donate her body to science. In 2003, she made arrangements with the Humanity Gifts Registry of PA, and is currently teaching students at Thomas Jefferson University in Philadelphia.

The family is making plans for a Celebration of Life at a later date.

Timeline

1929
July 5th
Birth in Delaware County 
Born Betty Lorraine Passwater to parents Orban and Edna Passwater
Delaware County, PA
1947
August 3rd
Wedding
Married Joseph Daliessio at St Rose of Lima Roman Catholic Church
Eddystone, PA
2025
June 24th
Passed away peacefully
at her home, being cared for by loved ones
Boothwyn, PA

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"Days may not be fair, always
That's when I'll be there, always
Not for just an hour, not just a day
Not for just one year but always
Always"

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August 1, 2025
So many memories. Some that I treasure from childhood: All of the aluminum foil stars she would hang from the living room ceiling at Christmas time. She'd tape them up one by one. Just beautiful. And napping in the bedroom off the kitchen while the adults played penny poker. Those clinking coins and the murmurs of my relatives and parent was a great lullaby. Ill remember you forever Aunt Betty - until we meet again on the other side of the veil.
Mary Ann Daliessio

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Other family members
The Oropezas
Orban Passwater
Edna Turner
Joseph Bruce Daliessio
June Pinnock
Ben Passwater
Christine Daliessio Reeder
Children
Gretchen Reeder
Rachel Lovano
Lorraine Daliessio
Children
Nickolette Phillips
David Daliessio
Children
David Daliessio
George Daliessio
Children
Shannon DiIorio
Joseph Daliessio
Joyce Taylor
June Pinnock
Ben Passwater
Joyce Taylor
Joseph Bruce Daliessio
Christine Daliessio Reeder
Gretchen Reeder
Rachel Lovano
Lorraine Daliessio
Nickolette Phillips
David Daliessio
David Daliessio
George Daliessio
Shannon DiIorio
Joseph Daliessio
Betty Daliessio

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What was Betty's favorite Drink?
Tea! She loved a cup of hot tea with just a tiny drop of milk, or a glass of iced tea with lemon
What was Betty's favorite Food or Dish?
She loved her own cooking the best :) But was also known to favor the kids menu....chicken fingers and french fries!
What was Betty's favorite Color?
Blue
What was Betty's favorite Sports Team?
Betty loved watching football, especially her Philadelphia Eagles! And she was certainly known to call up her bookie to make a few bets....Bettin' Betty!
What was Betty's favorite Book?
She loved reading crime novels and detective stories
What was Betty's favorite TV show?
Betty was addicted to the old game shows on the Buzzr Channel....but you may want to BYOEP (bring your own ear plugs)...the volume was usually turned way up :)
What was Betty's favorite dance?
When she was younger, she was known to jitterbug all around the dance floor! But those who knew Betty, also knew her love for the Mummers strut! You could always bet on seeing Betty with a fancy hat, a parasol, and struttin' with the string bands! 
What was Betty's favorite hobby?
So hard to choose just one! Her favorite pastime was certainly cooking. She adored making her family and friends' favorites, like cheesecake, cookies, pies, breads and soup. Music was a big part of her life, as she loved to dance and sing. Betty was also skilled at crochet and many of us have her beautifully woven blankets and snowflake ornaments.
What was Betty's favorite Game to play?
Betty enjoyed crossword and word find puzzles. You could also find her at many local bingo games

Service


Please join us for a Celebration of Life for Betty Daliessio.
A buffet luncheon will be provided
CELEBRATION of Life
Location
The Ballrooms at Boothwyn
Lia's Catering
1405 Meetinghouse Rd, Boothwyn, PA 19061
Date/time
Saturday, November, 22nd, 2025, 12pm-4pm

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In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to a GoFundMe https://gofund.me/8432406c  which will help cover costs from her end-of-life care, a Celebration of Life even planning(TBD), and costs associated with her body donation to the Humanity Gifts Registry of Pennsylvania, or donations can be made to Humanity Gifts Registry of Pennsylvania at www.hgrpa.org in Betty's name. 
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