Your legacy of kindness will forever resonate.
Biography of Late MR. Benjamin Amorieghoye Edun
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ARLY LIFE AND FAMILY TREE
Mr. Benjamin Amorieghoye Edun was born on December 30, 1948, in Egbudu Warri, to the distinguished families of Late Pa. James Oritseretserundede Edun, an activist and great-grandson of Chief Olomu Asoruku of Ebrohimi and Koko. Chief Olomu was once the Governor of the Benin River Protectorate in the 18th century, tracing lineage back to the Ofoluwa line of King Abejoye, the 10th Olu of Warri. His mother, Late Matilda Eghoweyineye Ikomi (née Ogisi), was a teacher and a great-granddaughter of Prince Yonwuren, a son of King Akengbuwa, the 16th Olu of Warri.
EDUCATION
Benjamin's education began at St. Luke’s School in Sapele (1955-1959), followed by secondary school at Hussey College, Warri (1961-1966), where he obtained his WAEC certificate. He pursued his HSC/GCE Advanced Level at the same school from 1967-1968. His academic journey continued as an apprentice teacher at Urhobo Community Grammar School, Oghara Sapele (1970-1971). That same year, he enrolled at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, earning a B.Sc. (Hons) in Sociology/Anthropology in 1974.
NATIONAL YOUTH SERVICE CORPS (NYSC)
During his NYSC service, Benjamin's love for sports shone. He served as the Secretary/Public Relations Officer at the Sports Centre in Sokoto (Northern Western Region) from 1974-1975 and represented the Sports Council in Niamey, Niger, organizing sports competitions.
CAREER
In August 1975, Benjamin joined the Nigerian Customs and Excise as an Assistant Preventive Superintendent at Marina, Lagos. Over his illustrious career, he served in various stations, including Benin, Tin Can Port, Gembu Gongola (now Taraba), Ikeja International Airport, Onne/Port Harcourt, and Abuja. Known for his dedication and diligence, he retired as the Deputy Comptroller of Customs for Kano/Jigawa states in 2008.
MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE
On October 20, 1979, Benjamin married Princess Adebisi Oriyomi Edun (née Togun) in Sagamu, Ogun State. Together, they were blessed with children. A devoted father and husband, Benjamin was compassionate, selfless, and always prioritizing his family's needs. He was an avid historian, with a library brimming with books, and was particularly proud of his children, often speaking of them with great affection.
SOCIAL LIFE
Affectionately known as “Sir Benji” by friends, “Ogbonja/Obobo” by close companions, and “Baba Cossy” by his wife’s family, Benjamin was beloved for his warm smile and generosity. He was a member of “Klub B Nigeria,” a social group of professionals in Lagos. His interests included following the British Royal family, watching Indian TV shows, and enjoying music in Itsekiri, Yoruba, and Gospel genres.
CHRISTIAN LIFE
Born and raised in a Baptist family, Benjamin remained a devout Christian. He was an active member of Winners Chapel Ota and a participant in the Winners Chapel satellite fellowship in Egbe, Lagos.
FINAL MOMENTS
Mr. Benjamin Amorieghoye Edun passed away on Friday, August 9, 2024, at 76. He is survived by his wife, five children, twelve grandchildren, siblings, in-laws, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
May His Soul rest in perfect peace, Amen!
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My brother, your departure has not sunk in yet and I don't know when it will. I miss you and will always miss you.
You have left a mark that no one will erase. You fought hard. You tried your best. I know you tried your very best.
It is sad to note that I will not hear your voice again. It is goodbye from me and peace be with you. Rest in peace.
Your sister,
Olu
I still can't believe you are not here with us, but I'm comforted knowing that you have gone to a much better place. Your life was an inspiration and a blessing, and I thank God that I had the privilege of sharing precious moments with you, smiling and laughing wholeheartedly.
Thank you for being the best father-in-law and a true example of compassion and selflessness. You will always hold a special place in my heart, and your legacy of kindness will continue to inspire us all. Rest in peace; you will be deeply missed.
Emi Edun
You were a pillar of support throughout the years for my mother, her one and only brother and we all loved you dearly.
May Our Lord comfort and sustain your family, your wife and children now and always. Death cannot be a person's end if he can live on in those who have been left behind because our bodies are only wilted leaves on the tree of life. R.I.P Uncle.
From the time I was picked up by you & mum in your Volkswagen car when I arrived Nigeria as a kid for the very first time till the day i left, all i saw was a family man who did all he possibly could to make the lives of those around him better. Providing essential resources from financial to good counsel, an act of one who strongly desires to see people move forward in life, a selfless man who wants all to arise and be, a generous giver who was a springboard for many to succeed.
My uncle-in-law whom i called daddy; thank you for your love, kindness and care.
We'll remember and tell the kids what it means to be a true
helper and lifter of people. As
we celebrate your legacy, rest
in perfect peace.
Kola
kola
Sir Benji as my husband will always call him.
I got close to him over 30yrs ago in port Harcourt . Very humble, gentle and quiet. He gave his 504 then to discharge me when I gave birth.He also grace d marriage of that child few years back.
My last contact with him is take me to Sammy 's room to tie my wrapper.
Bros indeed will be missed for his humility.
Rest in peace.
Mrs D.E Neburagho.
Adieu Bros Sir Benji and I pray Almighty God to grant Soul Eternal Rest.
His gentle soul rests in peace.
Dad taught me about integrity—not just through words but through his actions. He showed me what it meant to be honest, to work hard, and to treat everyone with respect. His values were simple but profound, guiding me every day. I learned from him that true strength is quiet, not boastful, and that resilience is found in patience and kindness.
He had a way of making everyone feel seen and heard. No matter what he was dealing with, he would listen wholeheartedly and offer his advice or just a reassuring presence. In his company, people felt understood and valued. His generosity, both with his time and his heart, was limitless.
Some of my best memories are of the time we spent together—simple moments that have now become treasures. Whether we were laughing over a shared joke, working side by side, or even just sitting in comfortable silence, these moments are now precious memories, pieces of him that I’ll hold onto forever.
His passing leaves a void that cannot be filled, but his legacy lives on. I see him in the choices I make, the kindness I try to show, and the strength I try to find within myself. Though he may no longer be here in person, I feel his presence every day, guiding me and reminding me to be the best version of myself.
Dad, thank you for everything. Thank you for your love, your wisdom, and your unwavering support. I miss you beyond words, but I know that you’re watching over us..I promise to carry forward all that you taught me, keeping your spirit alive in everything I do. You were, and always will be, my hero.
From your loving daughter,
Buge Buge.
The goodness of a man does not lie in the amount of fortunes he is able to acquire in his life, neither is it in the number of material possessions he acquired therein. A man’s greatness lies in the number of lives he is able to positively impact.
Your sudden death came to me as a rude shock. My brother Ben, you have fought a good fight, finished your course, and also kept the faith. You are not dead but only transited unto the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to an innumerable company of Angels. Also to the general assembly and church of the firstborn, which is written in heaven, to God the Judge of all, and the spirit of just men made perfect.
Glory to God as we also hope of meeting you on the resurrection day.
Your Brother DCN Erebor F.A
May God Almighty grant you eternal rest in his bosom.
Adieu my big bros!
Adieu my dear friend!
Adieu my dear Sir Benji!
Continue to Rest in Perfect Peace.
Godwin Okoturo FCA
Though he has gone to be with the Lord, I find solace in knowing that his spirit lives on through the lessons he taught me and the love he generously shared. I will miss him sincerely every day, but I am grateful for every moment we shared every smile, and every conversation. His legacy of love, kindness, and unwavering faith is something I will always carry with me.
Rest in peace, Dad. Until we meet again, I will hold you in my heart.
Your loving Son,
Eyituoyo
Baba Cossy, the news of your death came as a shock to me and my family, but I know you have gone to a better place to be with your creator , our Lord Jesus Christ.
You were generous, honest and plain to everyone. Your gentle nature and ability to stay calm at all times was admirable.
You were very accommodative to everyone including your in-laws.
We miss you Baba Cossy.
May your kind loving soul rest in perfect peace .
Your in-law,
Mrs Dupe Adelaja.
August 9th will forever be etched in my memory. Losing you was incomprehensible and so painful….but Almighty God knows best.
Dad, I’m so blessed and lucky to be loved and raised by you. You were such an inspiration to me and my siblings.
You were a man of great integrity with a humbling personality, generous, patient, so knowledgeable and full of wisdom.
I will always remember your words of encouragement, warm smile, cheeky sense of humour and our historical conversations.
Thank you daddy for your dedication towards our education, your support, guidance and unwavering love.
I will miss you dearly!!!
May your gentle soul rest peacefully with the Lord.
Odejuma Babami.
Your Daughter,
Bes-deeee ( Barr. Besidone A. Edun)
How does one begin to eulogize a man as kind, gracious, and loving as my dear in-law, Mr. Benjamin Edun?
The day I received the news of his passing was one of the darkest days of my life. It was a shock that left me shaken, with tears that came from a place I could not explain. Although we all know that death is an inevitable part of life, it is still a moment we are never fully prepared for. We do not know the time, the place, or the hour when it will come.
Mr. Edun was a man of quiet strength and gentle kindness. His peaceful nature, warm smile, and compassion for those in need made him truly special. He lived with virtue and integrity, earning the respect and admiration of many. Among countless people, he stood out as a beloved and esteemed in-law.
He was not only a devoted family man but also a friend to all who had the privilege of knowing him. His passing is a profound loss, not just to his family and children, but to everyone who had the honor of crossing paths with him.
We will miss you deeply, Mr. Edun. Though we love you dearly, we know that God loves you more.
You will remain in our hearts and memories always, until that blessed day of resurrection when we meet again, never to part.
Rest in peace, Mr. Edun.
Adieu!
Yeyeoba M. O. Ogunjimi
I will miss preparing your favorite meals and the countless ways you showed your love and care. Thank you for everything, Dad—for your love, your support, and your endless generosity to our family. I am forever grateful to God for giving me such a wonderful father. You will always be in my heart, and I will miss you dearly.
Rest in peace, my beloved Dad.
Your loving daughter,
Molagbemi
You brought joy, happiness and laughter to those around you and you will be deeply missed by everyone.
Saying goodbye to a family member is so difficult however I will treasure the memories I have of you and I feel blessed to have had you as an uncle. You have raised amazing children, so I am glad and proud to have them as my cousins.
May your heart truly be at peace.
From you niece, Lesley
It has been very hard to come to terms with your transition to glory on Friday, August 9th, 2024.
You was a huge blessing to your siblings and loved ones, always giving so much care and support during challenging times.
My mother Olu always talked fondly of you especially about helping others in their time of need.
That's how I want to remember you. As a selfless man, with an infectious laughter, and giving solid advice when needed.
I miss you dearly and did not expect your loss, however God in His infinite wisdom knows best.
May our Lord comfort and sustain us and keep you in perfect peace in Jesus mighty name.
Your loving neice Annette
I miss you greatly but I take solace in the hope that you are in a better place with our lord Jesus. May your soul rest in perfect peace, till we meet to part no more.
Adieu , Sir Bonja!
Prosper Bobby Vee Erhabor
With a heavy heart, I write this tribute in memory of my dear husband, Mr. Benjamin Amorieghoye Edun, fondly known as Baba Cossy. He was my partner in every sense, a loving and caring man.
Words cannot fully capture the essence of who he was. His kindness knew no bounds, and he was deeply committed to the education and well-being of our children. We will miss him dearly, especially the warmth of his affection.
May the soul of our beloved husband and father rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Sun re o.
From your loving wife,
Ayomi Edun