Benjamin (Big-Ben) Kwabana Opoku Nkromah

Ben you were my Brother from another mother, My bodyguard, My raving partner, my dining partner and my friend. All the live boxing matches we went to, and blaged to get to ringside seats, untill we got hit by blood and spit at the O2 centre.Thank you for being in my life, thank you for not choosing sides, Thank you for trusting me. You were so many things to so many people. I remember you came to my house with face paints and a photo and made me make your face up for a Halloween Party, I made you go with my student Dasa, you both got on like a house on fire.
You celebrate every birthday with me , whethter i wanted to or not!
you where born and lived one way, but you died and new person when you gave your live to christ and got baptized, you won in The end!
I will forever miss you Dee Dee

So sorry to hear Jen. He is at peace now and we shall never forget him. x

Jenny,
I'm so sorry!
Please accept my condolences.
We can take some solace in that he is at peace now!
He fought and struggled hard to give us ALL another day - to share his being - each day he did and I will be forever greatful for that!
I pray for strength for you at this beyond difficult time!
Kojo
❤️🙏🏾

Words can’t really describe how I feel right now after this devastating news
Ben was one of the bravest Men I knew, to face such an inevitable diagnosis with the courage and humility that he showed.
He stood stead fast in his predicament and never complained once to me.
His love for life his wife and “little Bubba” (his daughter ) always came first.
When I last saw him, he reminisced about his beloved Arsenal wining the title his trip to Ghana with his family…both an incredible experience.

He is so blessed with strong a support system which really shows how much people love and respect him….what a tremendous loss to us all his laughter his jokes his story telling.

THE MIND IS STRONGER THAN THE BODY

BEN IS ONE OF THE REAL ONES

May his soul rest in perfect peace 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

This is not a Eulogy it’s just my reaction to this terrible news

These are some videos of when he got married in ghana I hope you enjoy them as well etc

May his soul rest in peace. My condolences to Bens family and Jenny. My thoughts are with you. He was a good man and a very brave man. I will always remember his strength!

Ben was Burnt Oaks philosopher, he always had questions floating around in his mind. When we were late teens/early twenties I used to drop him off after we finished Boxing training, but I knew had another hour before I could drive the next 300mtrs to my side of the estate!
He always loved a good chat especially over a nice ‘bit of munch’. For almost 20 yrs we would meet every couple of months or so in London for a nice lunch and discuss/debate whatever topic was on his mind.
Very much missing my oldest friend, but concreting on 47 yrs of memories that still make me laugh and smile🙏🏼

Looking at this picture of Ben in the middle brought back so many memories.

Whenever Ben saw me, he’d always say, “I was with Dean Kelly the other day…before shouting my surname in his loud voice and asking if I’d spoken to this person or that person from North Road. He knew some of them used to come to my gigs. We’d end up chatting for ages, reminiscing about our childhood and the people we grew up with.

Seeing Ben’s size in this photo also reminded me of how he used to tell everyone he was my cousin. That’s what many of us Ghanaians did back then,and still do today. On my side of the estate, Ben’s classmates would ask me, “Is Big Ben your cousin?” I’d proudly say, “Yes,” with my chest puffed out.

Ben always looked out for me and my siblings. He was loyal, protective, and someone you could always count on. I loved our Arsenal conversations too. He was a very intelligent man, and this new football season won’t be the same without him.
These words I never imagined I would say so soon in my life
Rest easy, my brother. You’ll always be remembered and deeply missed. 💔😢

That is truly amazing testimony to the impact that Ben made in your life and in the lives of his family and friends. Remember Ben is now absent in the body but in presence of Lord. Lord Jesus we give you thanks for preserving Ben’s soul and for bringing him into your kingdom without spot or blemish. Lord we are eternally grateful for your sacrifice, love, grace and mercy a gift we can never repay. God bless and strengthen Ben’s family and friends as they navigate this journey of grief together. Let your peace that surpasses all understanding reign in their hearts and in their minds as they look unto you.

Love Amanda ❤️🙏🏾

Janny may God be with you for what ever steps you take, be strong and trust in God. Ben is in the bosom of the Lord, where there is no pain no suffering . Our prayers are behind you. Stay blessed.

Mate my deepest condolences to you and all the family.
Benjamin was a friend as you know a lot of laughs with that man and as a boy He was some boy!
I Hope it all goes well Saturday, I'm in scotland still mate Thinking of you all

Peace Mate
RIP Big Ben

The message below is from Nikki with no filter My brother Ben had an impact in their lives this photo is at her brothers funeral who was in the same class as Moses her Dad was mine Dean’s and Ben’s Football Coach!!

Oh fucking hell! Oh my gosh! That's put me in tears! Oh my my! God bless him. 🙏🏻
I wish I got to tell him how much I adored him! He has gone too bloody soon. He didn't deserve that! He was a big man but such a softy and I always got on so so well with him all my life! I am truly truly sad he isn't here anymore. I feel for his family so so much.
Oh gosh I am devastated. Love ya Ben! U was a darling friend and I will miss u big man! ❤️
Are u gonna be OK?? U was with him thru it all and that's the best respect u could give him. U truly truly are the very best and a massively great friend to us both! Love you and send u the biggest of hugs ever. Ben would have loved u too always know that! Be strong friend! 💙

Uncle Ben was not just my uncle, he was one of the most important people in my life. He was my father figure, my brother, my mentor, and my best friend. We lovingly called him Big Ben, and sometimes Thinking Man, but to me he was a source of love, strength, and guidance that shaped who I am today.
From my childhood, he played a huge role in my life and in the lives of my brothers. We laughed together, played together, and created memories that I will cherish forever. He taught me how to box, encouraged me to be confident, and even bought me my first Manchester United jersey. That simple gift sparked a lifelong love for Manchester United, and every time I support my team, I will think of him.
I always called him Mr. Thanking Man because gratitude was part of who he was. He had a generous heart and quietly helped so many people without expecting anything in return. Behind the scenes, he stood by me during some of the most difficult moments of my life. When others doubted me, Uncle Ben believed in me. His faith in me gave me strength to keep moving forward.
Without Uncle Ben, my father would never have made it to the United Kingdom. His love and sacrifices changed the course of our family’s life in ways that words can never fully express. His kindness opened doors and created opportunities that will continue to bless generations.
When I finally came to the UK, Uncle Ben couldn’t wait to see me. He was so excited and welcomed me with open arms. He called often just to check that I was doing well, visited me, and every time we met, the atmosphere was filled with love, laughter, and positive energy. He always wanted to make sure I was okay. That was simply who he was—he cared deeply about the people he loved.
What makes saying goodbye even harder is that in his final days, he was full of life, happiness, and hope. We shared wonderful conversations, laughed together, and reflected on beautiful memories. I never imagined that those moments would become some of the last memories I would have with him. I will treasure them forever.
Writing this tribute has been one of the hardest things I have ever done because how do you put into words the life of someone who meant so much? How do you describe a man who loved so deeply and so unconditionally? Uncle Ben was my daddy, my best friend, my mentor, and my hero. His love shaped the person I am today.
Although our hearts are broken, we thank God for the gift of his life. His legacy is not only in what he achieved but in the lives he touched, the love he gave so freely, and the values he instilled in all of us. His kindness, wisdom, strength, and generosity will never be forgotten.
Uncle Ben, thank you for believing in me, loving me, guiding me, and always being there for me. Thank you for every sacrifice you made, every word of encouragement, every smile, every phone call, and every embrace. I will carry your lessons and your love with me for the rest of my life.
You may be gone from our sight, but you will never be gone from our hearts. Your love will continue to guide us, your memories will continue to comfort us, and your legacy will continue to inspire us.
Rest peacefully, Uncle Ben.
You were deeply loved, and you will be deeply missed.
Until we meet again, may God hold you in His eternal peace.

It is with a heavy and broken heart that I say goodbye to my dear uncle. The news of your sudden passing in the UK shook us all. You weren't just an uncle; you were a guiding light, a pillar of support, and a true blessing to our family. I will forever cherish your warmth, your wisdom, and the beautiful memories we shared,Uncle you may be gone from this world, but you will never be gone from our lives. Even though he was far away in the UK, his love and kindness always made us feel close. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family during this incredibly painful time He was one of the most generous and loving people I have ever known. I will never forget how he looked out for me—like the time he surprised me with a PS5, or when I didn't even have a working phone and he made sure I got one. He always wanted to see me happy and connected. Distance never stopped him from showing how much he cared.I miss you so much already, and I will never forget the love you showed me."Heaven has gained an angel. Sleep well, Uncle. You will always be my hero💔💐

RIEP Roy, both you and Ben are undoubtedly reunited by now within the heavenly roads of glory and our saviour’s protective arms.🙏🏿🇬🇭 Uncle Adam 🇰🇳

47 years of friendship and a million memories. I am blessed to have had so much time with my friend, my brother.

Ben has been a great team player. Our meeting will never be the same. I am glad to have met him. His humour during our meetings always made everyone laugh even though he was in hospital. We will always remember Ben. He was always for developing the youth and we have lost one of ours. Until we meet again. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family especially Jenny and Naomi. We love Ben but God loves him best.

My brother, may your soul rest in peace.