Barbara Fay Zeller
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Barbara Fay Zeller, a loving wife, devoted mother of five, cherished sister, devoted aunt and wonderful friend, passed away peacefully on December 26, 2025 at the age of 86. She was the devoted wife of Aloysius Zeller and a proud mother to Charmaine O'Quinn, Pamela Zeller, David Zeller (Jane), Sharon Kronk (Jim), Denise Zeller. Family was the center of her life and her love for her children was unwavering.
She shared a close and loving bond with her sister, Norma Good and held a special place in her heart for her brother-in-law, Frank Good. She was also a devoted aunt to her nephews and nieces, always offering love, guidance, and support.
Her greatest joy and sense of pride came from her granddaughters, Nicole McGuyer, Brooke Pennington (Jordan), Kelly Jancovech (Kyle), Caitlin O'Quinn, and Priscilla Zeller. Her great-grandchildren brought her much happiness, Jude McGuyer, Andrew and Benjamin Jancovech, Caleb and Hannah Pennington, and great-great granddaughter Vira Garza.
She will be remembered for her kindness, strength, and loyalty-not only to her family, but to the many friends whose lives she touched.
She will be deeply missed and forever loved.
A celebration of life service will most likely be held in Texas at a later date.
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January 24, 2026
It’s been 30 days since your passing Barb and I still feel your presence around us. Your light is not dimming and your smile will not be forgotten. ♥️
January 13, 2026
Sending my love and heartfelt condolences to our entire family. As my grandma-in-law, Barbara was always so incredibly sweet to me. I'll forever cherish our visits together.
I’m deeply grateful that Kelly and I found each other and that our relationship is rooted in our shared Indiana ties. Kelly has shared so many cherished memories of growing up / visiting Northwest Indiana, and those stories always felt familiar and close to my own heart.
Barbara’s love for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren—our beloved GiGi—will never be forgotten. Her legacy lives on through the generations she adored and the countless lives she touched.
I’m deeply grateful that Kelly and I found each other and that our relationship is rooted in our shared Indiana ties. Kelly has shared so many cherished memories of growing up / visiting Northwest Indiana, and those stories always felt familiar and close to my own heart.
Barbara’s love for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren—our beloved GiGi—will never be forgotten. Her legacy lives on through the generations she adored and the countless lives she touched.
January 10, 2026
Aunt Barbara
I’ll always remember you as my dearest Aunt.
Soft spoken, sweet, kind soul.
A devoted sister, sister-in -law, Aunt & Great Aunt.
We spent summers hanging out with our cousins, mostly at their house , as Aunt B didn’t yet drive.
I loved going there. Aunt B was much more lenient than our mom, we always had fun while moms visited.
We spent many summer days swimming at the public park in East Chicago, moms sat under a shade tree waiting for us to come out waterlogged & eat lunch.
Uncle Al was a blast, he loved to joke around & play. Aunt Barb’s response was always”OH AL!” as if she was annoyed, but we knew she loved it!
These memories of family times together will live on in my heart.
RIP Aunt Barbara❤️
I’ll always remember you as my dearest Aunt.
Soft spoken, sweet, kind soul.
A devoted sister, sister-in -law, Aunt & Great Aunt.
We spent summers hanging out with our cousins, mostly at their house , as Aunt B didn’t yet drive.
I loved going there. Aunt B was much more lenient than our mom, we always had fun while moms visited.
We spent many summer days swimming at the public park in East Chicago, moms sat under a shade tree waiting for us to come out waterlogged & eat lunch.
Uncle Al was a blast, he loved to joke around & play. Aunt Barb’s response was always”OH AL!” as if she was annoyed, but we knew she loved it!
These memories of family times together will live on in my heart.
RIP Aunt Barbara❤️
January 1, 2026
Grandma,
When I look back on my childhood, nearly every joyful, loving memory somehow leads back to you. Even with the miles between us, it never felt like we missed a moment—we were always connected. I am endlessly grateful that Kelly and I shared those summers together in Northwest Indiana. Those days are woven into my heart forever.
Being with you brought a sense of peace and comfort that felt like home. We laughed so much, and we hugged even more. Your hugs were one of the safest places I knew. I was always so proud to be your granddaughter. People often say we look alike, and I’ve always cherished that as one of the greatest compliments—it makes me feel closer to you still.
You helped guide me to my relationship with God, a gift I will carry with me for the rest of my life. I know you are in Heaven now, the very place I asked you about so many times as a little girl, and you always answered with such patience and grace. I can only imagine the joy of your reunion with Gramps—what a beautiful moment that must have been.
You will always live in my heart, Grandma. I love you more than words can say. Until we meet again, I’ll see you in my dreams. 💕
Lots of Love,
Brooke
When I look back on my childhood, nearly every joyful, loving memory somehow leads back to you. Even with the miles between us, it never felt like we missed a moment—we were always connected. I am endlessly grateful that Kelly and I shared those summers together in Northwest Indiana. Those days are woven into my heart forever.
Being with you brought a sense of peace and comfort that felt like home. We laughed so much, and we hugged even more. Your hugs were one of the safest places I knew. I was always so proud to be your granddaughter. People often say we look alike, and I’ve always cherished that as one of the greatest compliments—it makes me feel closer to you still.
You helped guide me to my relationship with God, a gift I will carry with me for the rest of my life. I know you are in Heaven now, the very place I asked you about so many times as a little girl, and you always answered with such patience and grace. I can only imagine the joy of your reunion with Gramps—what a beautiful moment that must have been.
You will always live in my heart, Grandma. I love you more than words can say. Until we meet again, I’ll see you in my dreams. 💕
Lots of Love,
Brooke
December 30, 2025
I’m so sorry for your loss . Barb was also like a second mom to me. I remember being a teenager sitting at her kitchen table on Saturday mornings, there was always coffee and donuts. Lots of laughter I hear her laugh in all her kids. She had such a big heart. I had the good fortune of escorting her to Texas and we just picked up where we left off. When I was in elementary school at Paul Saylor which was essentially in your backyard I thought you had the best mom I was jealous. She always made lunch for you guys and it was a privilege to get invited to go to your house for lunch. Truth be told I didn’t always have a lunch. Your mom was a safe place for me for many years. So many memories what a blessing to have those memories I love you guys. I feel so lucky to grow up with you Sharon and Denise . I know I’ll have more memories that will pop up and I will share them . Most importantly, she loved her family so much and you could feel it and see it when you are around.
December 29, 2025
So sorry for the Zeller family and close friends on the loss of Barb.
Barb you were a gem, you were not just my friend Chars mom, but a friend to me.. I spent many of days in my late teenage years at your home especially after my son was born he’ll be 50 his next Bday, my then husband gone in service.. I had the best time over at your place, what I enjoyed the most you made me always feel welcome, I could always make you laugh. You were loved and will be missed, Love Bren
Barb you were a gem, you were not just my friend Chars mom, but a friend to me.. I spent many of days in my late teenage years at your home especially after my son was born he’ll be 50 his next Bday, my then husband gone in service.. I had the best time over at your place, what I enjoyed the most you made me always feel welcome, I could always make you laugh. You were loved and will be missed, Love Bren
December 29, 2025
My heart goes out to all of you. I loved your mom. She was my second mom for many years when Char and I were young. She made me laugh so much, as we did a lot of laughing in those days. All my thoughts and prayers for your family. She will be missed ❤️
December 28, 2025
December 27, 2025
My deepest condolences are being sent to all of Barbs family. She held a special spot in my heart and over these 51 years, she touched my husband’s as well, he grew to care for her very much.
I have plenty of fond memories with her and I am honored to have been blessed knowing this special lady.
I told your Mom when I was saying my goodbyes to her the day she passed, she can go knowing exactly where she was going and that she had done a good job as your Mom, a friend to many and was a good steward of faith and our Lord will guide her and hold her until she rejoined your Dad. They are looking down on you all now so look up and when you see that brightest star just know they are beaming with pride. Barb will not be forgotten nor her smile. I will miss you. Enjoy your peace Barb “Job well done” ✝️♥️
I have plenty of fond memories with her and I am honored to have been blessed knowing this special lady.
I told your Mom when I was saying my goodbyes to her the day she passed, she can go knowing exactly where she was going and that she had done a good job as your Mom, a friend to many and was a good steward of faith and our Lord will guide her and hold her until she rejoined your Dad. They are looking down on you all now so look up and when you see that brightest star just know they are beaming with pride. Barb will not be forgotten nor her smile. I will miss you. Enjoy your peace Barb “Job well done” ✝️♥️
December 27, 2025
Mom,
Such a gentle , kind soul. You taught me everything!!! Thank you for loving me , even when I was unlovable. Thank you for loving my children, how they loved you and gramps. Uncle Frank and Norma too!! It is a privilege to have you in my heart forever!!! When I think of you , I smile .
Rest in peace. I know you are completely healed now and free!! Love You Forever!!!
Such a gentle , kind soul. You taught me everything!!! Thank you for loving me , even when I was unlovable. Thank you for loving my children, how they loved you and gramps. Uncle Frank and Norma too!! It is a privilege to have you in my heart forever!!! When I think of you , I smile .
Rest in peace. I know you are completely healed now and free!! Love You Forever!!!
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