Babatunde Felix Opokiti

You were truly a brother to all. You supported and encouraged me when we were in 6th form together. You supported and encouraged me when I tried something new. I remember your words I'll paraphrase "don't get into trouble, don't fight anyone' be good' and if anyone tries you, let me know" You never looked down on anyone or undermine anyones age. You'd go the extra mile for anyone even if it wasn't convenient for you. That's what I always remember! Now I'm reminded that you have lived a fulfilling life and you've left a legacy and a mark. This fleeting world as short as it may be, and the sorrows it may bring us, we are reminded that one day we shall rejoice again. Sleep well my brother. You will be missed!

Felix Opokiti
"Jogunomi 1" ,
Yesterday, we laid you to rest, but our hearts have not stopped calling your name.
Auntie Eni has been inconsolable, and every tear she sheds reminds us of the love you planted so deeply in this family.
We all carry you inside us, Jogunomi every smile you sparked, every kindness you showed, every moment you stood as brother, friend, and pillar.
There are too many things you did that will be missed…
Too many ways you made life lighter for others.
To list them would be to write a book of love, and even that would not be enough.
I didn’t say goodbye to you yesterday.
My spirit couldn’t release you with a word so small.
Instead, I asked God to hold you close and give you the rest this world never could.
I prayed that His light, which never fades, would welcome you gently and keep you in peace until the day our paths cross again.
Jogunomi, your journey hasn’t ended
it has only returned to the hands of the One who created you.
And though we ache with the weight of missing you,
we hold onto the promise that love doesn’t die,
souls don’t disappear,
and heaven keeps what we cannot.
Rest well, beloved brother and friend.
Rest in God’s grace, where your joy lives on,
and where we will meet again, whole and unbroke

BabaT,

I still can't believe you're gone. Yesterday's posts about your funeral felt surreal, like a bad dream I'd wake up from. I knew you through my husband and Tolu - you were kind, soft-spoken, and always grateful. Our chats about sports were the highlight - I still can't believe Arsenal's doing well, and I'm sad you'll miss their next big win (as a Chelsea fan)..As a Mental Health Advocate myself, I thrive because of people like you,BabaT.

You had plans with my husband, Armani for this December ooo so what happened? You have dreams, and so much life ahead. Your absence leaves a gap, but your memory stays with us. As an Angel, now, watch over Yoel, your family, and all who loved you.

Till we meet again, BabaT. Odigba! A pade lese Jesu!

Tribute to a Dear Friend/brother/mentor

Today, we honour the life of someone whose presence shaped our lives in ways words can only begin to express. Losing Baba T suddenly has left us with a heartbreak that feels impossible to put into sentences, yet it also reminds us of the extraordinary impact one life can have.

Baba T was so much more than a friend. He was a guiding light—a professional mentor who believed in our potential even when we doubted ourselves and a family friend whose kindness felt like an extension of home. Your wisdom was never loud but always steady. Your generosity came naturally. Your laughter, their warmth, their way of making people feel seen and valued—these are gifts we will carry with us forever.

What made Baba T truly remarkable was not just what they accomplished but how they moved through the world: with humility, with compassion, and with an unwavering sense of integrity. They touched people in quiet, meaningful ways, leaving behind a legacy of encouragement, love, and genuine connection.

While we grieve the suddenness of your departure, we are also deeply grateful for the time we were given. We will remember the conversations that inspired us, the support that steadied us, and the moments of friendship that now feel like treasures.

Though Baba T is no longer with us in body, their influence lives on in the choices we make, the paths we follow, and the kindness we pass forward in your honour. May we find comfort in the memories that bring us light, and may their spirit continue to guide Yoel as you always did.

Rest peacefully, dear friend. You will be missed more than words can say and remembered more deeply than silence can. ADIEU.

Every time I saw you, you were always smiling and in good spirit. You will always tease about something to make me laugh. The life of every party. Watching back the videos from some of the events and I know you will continue to watch over your family and friends. Rest well uncle

Hmmmmmm I saw how lovely you were at Aunty Kike’s party and Ibile’s events
You supported your sister , we took your images and you were smiling all through

I was shocked !!! I saw you 2 weeks before the ugly incident

Oh death you are cruel!! You take the good ones

But who are we to question God

I still have your videos I sent to your sister from the after party 😩😩😩🥹we hope you are resting with the angels

It is well

Didun ni iranti awon olododo

Short of words and expressions.

Thanks for your unending love and kindness.

It’s obvious you lived an impactful life. Short but beautiful and fulfilling.

Continue to rest easy. The heavens gained another soldier of Christ.

BABA-T you will never be forgotten.

"It is from you that we came, and it is to you that we shall return."

My your soul rest in eternal peace.

Ah, Felix! It's hard to accept this, you were so full of life and fun. Serious at the right time but playful when it's time to lift one's spirit. So respectful and kind, at work or outside. Knowledgeable and encouraging. It is too soon but rest on, brother, and may God console your loved ones left behind

My dear little brother, Baba T — always hyped, always happy, always bringing that energy that could lift an entire room. Anywhere we met, you made me feel good. You never failed to gas me up, letting everyone know how sophisticated my drip was. You were my hype man, any time, any day.

From the gym where the banter never stopped, to the owambes where we scattered the place with laughter, to the house parties back in the day — our combo was lit. Through you I got to know Tolu, your brother, and your parents. You connected people effortlessly, just by being you.

Rest easy, my bro, till we meet again. God knows best.
My heart is broken. 💔💔

In moments like this, it’s hard to find the right words. Your time on earth was short, but from everything people have shared and the very little I know, it is clear that you touched many lives. I first met you through your sister back in 2013 during her graduation, and even then, you were kind and welcoming. Anytime I meet you at events over the years, you always banter with me, especially around the fact that I didn't understand yoruba. My husband often spoke about how accommodating you were during the time he stayed with you for work.

Your passing still feels unreal, not the kind of news anyone who knows you ever wants to hear. I pray that God will give your family the strength to navigate this difficult chapter and bring healing to their hearts.

Rest in peace BabaTee, and may you continue to watch over the loved ones you’ve left behind.

You brought so much happiness and love into this world, and I’m grateful I got to feel the warmth of your spirit. Your joy, your kindness, and your light will stay with me always. Thank you for being such a beautiful friend Felix

Ah Cool Uncle. I cannot even gather the words to express my feelings. My heart is broken. I keep asking God why, why you of all people. We all love you so much but no one loves you as much as God Almighty. I will make you proud, and you will never be forgotten. Rest in peace cool uncle 🙏

Felixo! Jogunomi Baba!
I remember when we first met in the Porta-cabin consultation room in Kingswood surgery. You were very receptive and we enjoyed the Fuji vibes after seeing patients and thereafter working together with you have been fun ! Miss you

Rest well brother, heaven gained one. Please keep watch over your loved ones

Baba T,

Whoever knew Tolu, knew you and the huge role you gracefully played as egbon, I met you physically twice and it felt like had known you all my life!

Baba T life of the party, hmmm

We go really miss you, please dance with the angels! The Lord comfort the whole family

I don’t know what to write or what to type BabaT…. You said Rose, Swindon is nice place, malmesbury is too quiet, cos u live in Bristol and London… Swindon will be better for you…. How can I move to Swindon now when u are not there BabaT? ??? 💔💔💔💔💔 U gone too soon my brother

Babatunde

Have you seen your paternal & maternal grandparents yet? Did they welcome you with open arms?

Have you looked back yet? Can you attest to the fact that you were and are still loved??

Can you truly see us but we can’t see you??? If you can, please sprinkle a bit of comforting dust on us all (especially mum and dad) because this hurt we are feeling is not good at all….. I told Yomi that he’s lost weight yesterday and he replied “well, that’s what heartbreak does to you”…. Our hearts aren’t only broken, Babatunde, they are shattered! 💔

I’m sure the angels are treating you well… are you dancing real good up there? Are you enjoying all the songs and sounds up there? I’m sure they sound soooo heavenly! You loved dancing, so I’m sure you’ve been dancing non stop since the 14th November💔

I have nothing but fond memories of you. You were truly a kind big brother, a gentle giant, a lover of people, a generous giver, and a joyful soul.

Thank you for your life. Thank you for your kindness. Thank you for protecting me and standing up for me in those early days. Thank you for hearing me out, man to man, and most of all, thank you for your advice and the wisdom you shared so freely.

I really wish our weekend plans had happened bro. I’m so sorry I didn’t push harder and this I’m going to regret for a very long time. I’m going to miss you so so much my brother.

However, I’m grateful that I was never shy about telling you how much I loved you in our chats, and how much I missed you even when I could’ve just driven down to Swindon unannounced. Now I have to learn to live with the reality that I’ll miss you for the rest of my life.

To anyone reading this, please don’t just make plans with the people you love, make sure you follow through. Capture the moments. Be vulnerable with one another and truly enjoy every second of the time spent together, because none of us knows when the clock will stop.

I love you Baba T. I miss you so much my brother. Continue to rest in the bosom of Almighty God

The loss of you has touched so many people because of the impact you had on so many people’s lives. Working alongside you was always a privilege and never a dull moment!! I wouldn’t be where I am today in my dream career if you hadn’t pushed me to complete the application, given me the confidence and believed in me, the way you always do for everyone. I’ll miss bumping into you on shift all the time. The biggest heart and the kindest soul, you’ll never be replaced Felix x

“You walked through life with grace, touching hearts without even trying Baba T. Your laughter warmed homes, and your wisdom guided so many people's steps. Though we now face the silence of your absence, we hold tightly to the memories that keep you close. You may have completed your journey here, but your spirit lives on in every life you touched. Rest on eternity Babatunde Felix Opokiti.

Ahmed & Ayoade Tejuosho

The power of death have done their worst my heart is broken and heavy when I heard your demise Tunde opokiti my favorite lovely friend ma sun olufe k o si ma si mi a fe o su gbon jesu fe o ju wa lo may your soul rest in perfect peace

Hummm Baba T Your death is rude shocked to me!!!!!!you never say goodbye when I drop you at mummy's house after party (Kiki 50th birthday) haaaaa Babatunde kò yé mí òòò continue to rest in your blossom of your maker

I had the pleasure of working alongside you at SIS. You were helpful, funny, caring, hardworking, and a passionate advocate for service users. You admired my work bag, and a Dior belt I'd found in a charity shop, and said your wife would like it. I still have them, and will always now associate them with you.
I'm so sad you're gone. I'll always remember your laugh and your kindness.

Huumm Baba T I still can’t believe you are gone it’s still like I’m dreaming and waiting for someone to wake me up, but who are we to question God the all knowing one. Having you around during my jubilee celebration was a pleasure and thank God you made it as it was your only way of saying good bye to majority of people in Bristol that hasn’t seen you in years. You are such a bubbling young man that’s always fun to be with never a dull moment around you, I know you are in a better place, sleep on Babatunde in the bosom of your maker.

My heart is broken when I heard your demise Tunde omo Opokiti, dear friend it's true that yoruba says igi to to kii peni gbo, hmmm oye Olorun, but Tunde why so soon. It's well, may God rest your soul and comfort us. We love you but Jesus loves you more. Adieu.

My heart is broken 💔💔💔😭😭😭 and heavy , your sudden death is still a mystery to me ,Babatunde rest in peace dear.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Backing the days of when boys are now men..I miss those days of this homie around general hospital in Ondo...his smiles and encouragement when we are together back then down to his isles always ring in ma skulls...all I know is that Legend never die...The legacy remains forever!!!Bro we love♥️ you but God love you most..Rest on in the bossom of the almighty....pain 😢is love brotherman...Can't stop the cries but God will comfort us all... peeps know this that we came from the soil...we will go by the soil..If you like be good or bad...Baba T ma G..rest in peace 👑

It has been very difficult to find words to express the emotions of loss someone so full of life as you Felix, you made so much difference both in your professional or personal life. You lived a short life but yet very impactful, every where you went you left your print. I know one day your son will be able to read all this and know how much you impacted life's, how much you are loved and will be truly missed by everyone you loved and loved you. Heaven gained an angel, rest in peace brother till we meet again in glory

Indeed we lost a listening and kindhearted friend. The world is lucky to have had you for a short but impactful while.

We love you Baba T but God loves you more, and may you find peaceful eternal rest in Him.

I pray fortitude to us all to bear this irreplaceable loss...

Baba T, your stay here on earth was short, but it was worthwhile. I thank God for your life. You deserve the good rest but you will be greatly missed. Rest well brother till resurrection day. Peace with your soul...

Words may fail me but memories won't.
I remember Tunde from Demonstration as that slim guy, of course I was skinnier than most. Although we never shared a class I knew him as that cool guy, rarely gets in trouble with anyone.
Color me surprised when I bumped into him around Esporta sometime I think 2021. He was looking very beefy and well-built and I commented on that as we hugged and did quick chitchat before we parted.
In the alumni group I would always see his name helping someone or the other but still the very reserved guy.
The shock of this will take a while to wear off because this age bracket is the ripe peak when men begin to install the generals that will continue their journey.
You have come, you have seen and truly conquered this world as we know it leaving the rest of us in its dreary misery.
Even wine will not drown this sorrow but raise a glass we will.
Fare thee well Oponne!

We have lost a dear classmate (DSS, Ondo) and friend.
May your memory live on in all who knew you.
Wishing comfort to all who are grieving. Rest on Tunde.

It feels so sad and hurt writing this. Because it’s hard to believe you’re truly gone. The kindness you show at all times will never be forgotten. Rest in peace Tunde Opokiti.

In loving memory of my dear uncle [BABATUNDE JOGUNOMI OPOKITI], a guiding light whose love, wisdom, and kindness left an indelible mark on our hearts. Your warmth, laughter, and unwavering support shaped cherished moments we'll forever treasure. Though you're no longer with us, your legacy of love, strength, and generosity continues to inspire us. Rest in peace, dear Uncle. Your memory will forever be a blessing to us.
Sarah(ore, ondo state).

Thank you Felix for being part of my amazing team. We all enjoyed working with you so much over so many years! You are already sorely missed by so many at work. Missing your ‘morning boss’ and no one else tells me to clean my trainers!!😉😘

Baba T but why,why would you go just like that without even saying goodbye. Those special memories of you will always bring a smile. I remember each time i come to your place in Swindon you always pampered me like little baby...Smile.... Bàbá T you re such a nice and amazing bro.your life was a blessing to me and many others. if only i could have you back for just a little while then we could sit and talk again just like we used to do. You always meant so very much and always will do too the fact that you're no longer here will always cause me pain but you're forever in my heart.i may not have had time to say goodbye but everyday is a chance to say. I miss you.Untill we meet again,May your soul rest in peace Amen.

When I worked with Felix I always felt safe, he had your back. He made me feel seen and brightened up my day. He was the office prankster but took his caring role to his colleagues and patients very seriously. I will miss his greetings on the phone, his conversations about chickens and his hugs.

I just can’t believe that you are gone
When we worked together you always made me feel safe and your warmth and laughter always got us through the shift
I will miss that hug you would give me
Rest in peace Felix x

Fearless like a lion and strong as an ox, yet you gave cuddles like a giant teddy bear. You are my brother, and my heart is truly broken—shattered into more shards than can ever be replaced.

I will miss your laughter, your cheeky smile, your mischief and playfulness, the way you lit up a room when you walked in—but most of all, your wisdom well beyond your years and your warm hugs.

“I believe we die twice: once when our heart stops, and again when our name is spoken for the last time.”

I will keep your memory alive with Aria and with others.

May you rest in peace, my brother. This is not goodbye, but until then. Something in the heavens tells me that we will be together again.

BABA TEE

It’s hard to put into words what it means to lose someone who made life brighter just by being in it. Baba Tee had a way of showing up, really showing up, in moments big and small. Whether it was a quick message to check in, a laugh that could lift the whole room, or the steady kind of support you don’t realize you’re leaning on until it’s gone, he gave himself fully.

What I’ll remember most is his kindness. Not the loud, flashy kind, but the quiet, steady version that made people feel seen. He had a gift for making you feel like you mattered, even on days when you weren’t quite sure yourself. And somehow, he always knew when someone needed a little extra care.

Losing you hurts. But having you around was a gift—one I’ll carry with me. The memories, the conversations, even the ordinary moments feel like treasures now. And while your absence leaves a space nothing can fill, the mark you left on the people who knew you is deep and lasting.

I’ll keep honoring you in the way I try to move through the world: with a little more patience, a little more warmth, and a little more of the generosity you showed without hesitation. Your life made others better, and that’s something I’ll always hold close.

Rest in Perfect Peace 🕊️

Seeing your photo everywhere feels unreal.
Your passing broke all of our hearts.
No caption can express this—
rest well.
Condolences to your family and everyone who loved you.

Even though I didn’t really know you sir, I feel like I knew you through your sister (Mrs Tolu). The way she posted about you, the love she showed, and the pride she carried whenever your name came up told me everything about the kind of person you were, kind, gentle, and deeply loved by everyone.
Your presence was felt even from afar. Your impact reached people who never met you, like me, simply because the light you carried was reflected so clearly in your sister’s words and actions.

You lived a life that left footprints on the hearts of those around you. And even in your absence, your love continues to flow through your family, guiding them, strengthening them, and reminding them of the beautiful soul you were.

Rest peacefully sir.

My brother (in every sense of it), just like I used to call you, it’s hard to make peace with the fact that you’ve transitioned. I’ve got so much to say, but here can’t contain it.
Go well. Your legacies lives on.
May the good Lord accept your soul, comfort, reassure and protect loved ones you left behind 🙏🏾

Baba T, as you were fondly called, I met you only a few times, but your energy and impact were truly unforgettable. You always carried a smile and a positive spirit. I haven’t been able to shake the news since the Friday I heard of your passing. I pray you rest in perfect peace, and may God comfort and protect all those you left behind. Till we meet to part no more. RIP.

Baba T,
You were more than just a friend — you were a light in our lives.
Every step I took, every milestone I reached, you were there, cheering me on with a heart full of pride and love. You never held back your joy for me. You never showed envy, only endless support.
You celebrated my wins like they were your own.
You stood by me in silence when I needed strength, and in laughter when I needed joy.
You were the kind of soul that made life feel safer, warmer, better.
But God, in His wisdom, called you home — too soon for us, but right on time for heaven.
You were a real angel walking among us.
Now you’re watching over us from above.
I will carry your love with me always.
And I will never stop missing you.
You was a big brother I never had.
Rest in peace, Baba T.
You were truly one of a kind.

I still find it difficult to believe you’re gone Babatunde Felix Opokiti. You’ve been my mentor since have stepped my foot in this country and through my university life. The word is always “YOU CAN DO IT SMITH”. I cry to you whenever i needed a shoulder to lean on you’re always there for me. Even when i thought death was the only option for me, Baba T you’re there for me, you called the ambulance to my rescue but no one was there for you when you needed one. Words failed me but till we meet again and the good paths you left will definitely be followed. This is my hardest goodbye 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️. Rest well my brother, my mentor and my always shoulder to lean on. Till we meet again 🥲🥲🥲🥲

Still feels like a dream when I heard of your passing..words failed me and I’m still in shock of it .. rest well big bro you are an amazing human being inside and heart and impacted so many lives with your love and kindness
You’ve gone but never forgotten.🙏💔

DADA AWURU MII,AKANDA OMO. MY HAPPY PILLS 💊LIKE I ALWAYS CALLED YOU. MY DANCING PATNER, YOUR DISMISSED WAS A BIG HEARTBREAKING
RIP.(BFO).

The news of Felix’s passing came as a rude shock, leaving our hearts shattered and our spirits heavy with grief. It feels unbearable to accept that a man so vibrant, kind, and steadfast in his faith is no longer here.
Felix, a proud Ekiti Man, was a beacon of joy and hope, with whom we shared a deep connection during our time at True Worshippers’ Church and Great Western Hospital in Swindon. His bubbly spirit and radiant warmth reached into every corner of our lives, making each of us feel appreciated and welcomed.

In this overwhelming sorrow, may you find a measure of peace in knowing how deeply Felix touched our lives. His legacy of love and faith remains alive in every heart he touched. Our most profound and heartfelt condolences go out to his son and to all who were privileged to know such a rare and beautiful soul. Together, we grieve, holding tight to the love and memories that will never fade, carrying Felix’s spirit with us always.
Felix,May your gentle soul rest in peace.

Ah death, you didn’t do well.

I don’t think I have ever seen my husband cry like this before. The pain!!! I truly thought it was a sick joke on us. Ah, we planned to see you before the year ends. If we knew, we would have made it earlier, that will stick with us. Time is for no man.

Oh, I have cried, seeing your empty apartment. Oh Mr T… you did not try at all. Who will tell my husband off for me and make my head go big? Who will thank me for putting up with your best friend, as you always say, and make everyone aware that Patrick is your best friend, even having speech battles about who is the best of friends at our wedding?

Who will cook me asun and pepper stew when I am craving it, and make sure I have enough available for days?

The seamless friendship Patrick and you had, more like brothers, was so refreshing to see. I especially enjoyed the personal shopping you and Patrick had when you came to each other’s homes, and the numerous banters which seemed endless. I loved the spontaneous visits you guys had with each other, and I also made sure I tagged along to Swindon, because who does not want to be in Baba T’s presence?

Fun and loving you are.
Your presence was always electric and special to us.
Laughter and joy were your essence.

Even at social gatherings, you always made sure you came to check in on me and made sure I was okay, especially when Patrick was not around, having that sense of duty to make sure your best friend’s wife is okay.

Who will post mental health awareness messages that resonate with me so I can repost?

Heaven has gained a treasure, because we are worse off not knowing when we will get to hear your voice again and the jovial way you had about you. I don’t think I realised how much you meant to us, you were loved.

I keep scrolling through my phone hoping we had a picture together. Still haven’t found one… we were always having too much fun to take pictures, only our wedding ones. I haven’t given up yet!!

We have really lost a treasure.
Life will not be the same.
Patrick will truly miss you.
Ah death, you didn’t do well.

This is the least I could write. There are so many memories, nearly two decades’ worth that Patrick could share, but he is too torn to write. This is my decade’s worth of knowing you. Oh death, why?

Rest well, because we know you are only sleeping, travelled, in fact, enjoying some nice bubbly, and there’s probably bad network where you are.

We will not cry too much, because laughter will always end when we think of you, and I know if you were around you would say, “Kwasia, why?” in your usual Twi insult.

Mr T, till you get a better signal and we all reunite.

Patrick and Rita

We love you Tunde but God loves you more, May your soul rest in Peace

May your sweet soul rest in peace. May God specially comfort your family in this tough time.

Words fail me!
It is just insane that you are no more, big bro.
May your soul find a place of rest. 🕊️

My sweet daddy,

Since I heard you were gone, I’ve been stuck somewhere between not believing it’s real and this ache in my chest that won’t go away. You were this light, the kind that just filled every room you walked into. You were always there for me, always had my back.

I was your baby. You never missed a chance to call me daughter and oh, I loved hearing that.

Even though you’re not here anymore, I’m going to live the life you pushed me to go after. I’m going to be the person you always saw in me.

I’ll always be your daughter. And I’ll always love you.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Forever my gentle giant. Met at college and always kept in touch. Words fail me as it was not long we was chatting about my trip to Nigeria. You will always be remembered. I will treasure our memories till we meet again

I may not have known you in person, but everything your sister Ibile shared about you showed what a truly remarkable person you were. Every time I see your photos and remember the things she posts, I can’t help but think about you and wonder why someone so good had to leave so soon. But only God knows best. You will always be remembered with love, and your memory will continue to live in our hearts. Rest peacefully in the loving arms of your Maker

You were an angel in human form, it was always smiles and laughter anywhere your presence was. You forever live in our hearts Baba T

Hmmmmm, words failed me.
All I know is that you are in a better place.
You lived a short but very impactful life.

Hmmm…Baba T, a jovial, cheerful and respectful man I have known. I met you at Ibile’s house, my encounter with you was awesome. You had a way of making people feel good, seen, cherish and important.

News of your demise💔 was a bullet to everyone you had crossed their path .Thank God for the life you lived. Rest in the bosom of our Maker.