Arlene D. Rios
My Plan IS God's Plan!
Obituary
With broken hearts, we share the passing of our beloved Arlene, born February 23, 1959, who left us on August 21, 2026, in Brea, California.
Arlene was a cherished daughter, sister, cousin, niece, auntie, and friend. She was so many things to so many people, but to our family, she was the glue that held our world together. Her absence has left a space that words cannot begin to describe.
Arlene fought with superhuman strength and determination. For nearly 6 months she kept her amazing attitude and most importantly, her Faith! She never wavered in belief and fully trusted that everything is (and always will be) according to “God’s Plan”. She was passionate, daring, and unafraid (or at least never let fear stop her) from loving, living, laughing and most of all dancing.
Her family and friends were always by her side. Thank you all! Whether through thought, prayer or physical presence, she was always surrounded by everyone's love and support. Even though her body could endure no more, she bravely fought til her very last breath. Even then, she never faced this alone.
We find comfort in knowing that Arlene is now in God’s presence, reunited with her family and loved ones. She is free — no longer hurting, no longer struggling, and finally whole again. We picture her dancing, looking at all of us and saying, "Don't be sad, I WILL see you all again."
Arlene’s love, strength, humor, and unforgettable spirit will remain with us always. She was deeply loved, she will be profoundly missed, and she will never be forgotten.
Timeline
1959
February 23rd
Birthday
Arlene was the first daughter of Art & Lily Hernandez. Arthur (Artie) the oldest sibling born in 1957. Rozanne in 1960 and Robert in 1973.
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October 7, 2026
You will be missed my dear friend. You brought light to every room. I’m so blessed to call you a friend. 🙏🏽🕊️💕
September 25, 2026
Love You for Life and Thanking GOD we were 30 year coworkers turned friends, turned room mates, turned family. Your Great spirit and smile live in my heart forever. Rest with God Comadre! Juan♡
September 12, 2026
I will miss sharing our Hen Party Birthdays together. We will continue to save you a seat and a place setting to celebrate your day with us always. We love and miss you Sista Arlene.
September 12, 2026
Arlene was the sweetest, funniest, loving person. Always smiling and laughing. She was such a beautiful blessing to everyone who knew her! She will truly be missed!
September 12, 2026
Sista, So many great memories 🙏🏻✝️
September 11, 2026
Arlene brought so much fun to all of our girls gatherings (known as Hen Party’s) it was such a pleasure meeting her and getting to know her over the years. She will truly be missed 💔
September 10, 2026
I was blessed with many years of friendship, fun and faith with Arlene. I treasure every moment and memory. Until we meet again Amiga…
September 10, 2026
Neighbors friend's since childhood . Your an angel Arlene
September 10, 2026
I was a great person and you to the union. She was a very special person.
September 10, 2026
🙏❤️RIP very nice person and friend. Always had a smile.
September 10, 2026
Portland, OR - December 2025.
September 10, 2026
Arlenie I miss you and your smile and the fun you bring with it. You loved life and adventures. Was loved by many and everyone you met. You were a bright light here on earth and now shinning up there among the stars. I love you and cherish the memories we shared. Thank you for being in my life. See you later yaya ❤️
September 10, 2026
Your smile and your dancing will always be forever in my heart. Everyday felt like a party when you were there. You made everyone feel loved and cherished. I will miss you immensely. I loved that you had a travel buddy in your car . You introduced her to everyone who got in your car. That was the turtle I made you. That meant the world to me.
September 10, 2026
This was taken in Seattle, Washington in 2016. She met us at Pike Place Market and bought these flowers. Look at her beautiful smile ❤️💐
September 10, 2026
Arlene, when I think of you, I think of what a love for life you had and how infectious your joy was. You remind me to live life to the fullest, dance like nobody is watching, keep the people you love most near and always let them know you love them. Your beautiful spirit will always be with us.
September 8, 2026
My forever beautiful bestie Iam trying to navigate this world without you. I love you so much and will always cherish our crazy wonderful adventures together. Rest assurred that i will see you again. Please save a beachy spot up there with lots of animals for us to spend eternity! I love you forever, Pinchie ❤️💔
Family tree
Arturo Hernandez
Lydia Bustillos Hernandez
Arthur Hernandez
Rozanne Medina
Robert Hernandez
Arthur Hernandez
Rozanne Medina
Robert Hernandez
Arlene Rios
Favorites
What was Arlene's favorite Travel destination?
What was Arlene's favorite Quote or Saying?
For her younger brother... "Dammit Robert!"
What was Arlene's favorite TV show?
Any Reality Show!
Service
Important Schedule Update — Service Now Begins at 11:00 AM
11:00 AM — SeaCoast Grace Church (Community Life Center)
Click on link for Directions to Seacoast
https://maps.app.goo.gl/VnrCpABFWvHc9rkS9
This is at the Community Life Center (old auditorium east of main hall)
12:00–1:00 PM — Coffee & Chat (Same location as Service)
Please stay after the service for coffee, water, and a sweet treat. This will give us time to visit and be together before changing venues. Also gives us some time to set up at The Base
2:00–7:00 PM — Joint Forces Training Base (Meal & Gathering)
(Click on the link below for directions to The Base)
https://maps.app.goo.gl/xnusi5TEg6XtHDeC9
We will continue the celebration at the Joint Forces Training Base, less than two miles from the church. A meal will be served at 3 PM.
After 7:00 PM — Griffin’s Restaurant & Bar (Banquet Room)
(Click on the link below for directions to Griffins from the base)
https://maps.app.goo.gl/H8eP4yEhCfcYFQ1t7
Immediately following the celebration, anyone who would like to continue spending time together is invited to join us in the banquet room at Griffin’s.
Please Update Your RSVP asap if it has changed
You are welcome to attend one, two, or all three gatherings. To help us plan food and seating, please let us know:
• Which gathering(s) you will attend
• The total number of people in your party
Please wear something comfortable and make sure it would be something you would go out with Arlene in!
Your presence would mean a great deal to us as we remember, reflect upon, and celebrate our dear sister, Arlene.
11:00 AM — SeaCoast Grace Church (Community Life Center)
Click on link for Directions to Seacoast
https://maps.app.goo.gl/VnrCpABFWvHc9rkS9
This is at the Community Life Center (old auditorium east of main hall)
12:00–1:00 PM — Coffee & Chat (Same location as Service)
Please stay after the service for coffee, water, and a sweet treat. This will give us time to visit and be together before changing venues. Also gives us some time to set up at The Base
2:00–7:00 PM — Joint Forces Training Base (Meal & Gathering)
(Click on the link below for directions to The Base)
https://maps.app.goo.gl/xnusi5TEg6XtHDeC9
We will continue the celebration at the Joint Forces Training Base, less than two miles from the church. A meal will be served at 3 PM.
After 7:00 PM — Griffin’s Restaurant & Bar (Banquet Room)
(Click on the link below for directions to Griffins from the base)
https://maps.app.goo.gl/H8eP4yEhCfcYFQ1t7
Immediately following the celebration, anyone who would like to continue spending time together is invited to join us in the banquet room at Griffin’s.
Please Update Your RSVP asap if it has changed
You are welcome to attend one, two, or all three gatherings. To help us plan food and seating, please let us know:
• Which gathering(s) you will attend
• The total number of people in your party
Please wear something comfortable and make sure it would be something you would go out with Arlene in!
Your presence would mean a great deal to us as we remember, reflect upon, and celebrate our dear sister, Arlene.
We will gather to remember—and, more importantly, celebrate—Arlene. Please join us to eat, tell stories, play music, (dance?), and share memories of her many adventures. Together, we will keep her spark burning brightly.
Seacoast Grace Church
5100 W Cerritos Ave, Cypress, CA 90630
11:00am
Friday October, 23, 2026
Friday October, 23, 2026
Joint Forces Training Base
4745 Yorktown Ave., Bldg. 19
Los Alamitos, CA 90720
Los Alamitos, CA 90720
2pm-7pm
Griffins Sports Bar & Grill
11272 Los Alamitos Blvd, Los Alamitos, CA 90720
8pm - ???
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RSVP
Please RSVP for the Church Service AND again if you are attending the gathering afterwards.
MEAL AND CELEBRATION AT "THE BASE"
There are some requirements to enter. Please bring your state issued ID and contact Robert if you have any questions. The Training center is not an active military base so please don't worry.
GRIFFINS BAR & GRILL
Please let us know if you can make it.
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