Alison Dupee

February  10th, 1982 March  5th, 2025
Wyoming, Ohio
Alison Dupee

To know Alison was to know joy. Whether it was creating magic in a classroom as a French teacher for 19 years, hosting lively dinner parties and conversations with friends and loved ones, playing music, or serving the vulnerable, Alison lit up the room with wide-eyed wonder wherever she went. Her joy was contagious. She carried this joy with her to the very end, buoyed by her hope in Christ and a future reality where death does not have the final word.

Obituary

Alison Heck Dupee went home to her Lord on Ash Wednesday, March 5, 2025. Born in Dayton, OH on February 10, 1982, Alison’s family moved to Cincinnati when she was 5, and it was then when she first met her soul mate, David, at Hilltop Elementary School. For the next 38 years (20 of those married) the two journeyed side by side: from Wyoming Schools to Davidson College to Joplin, MO, to Milwaukee, WI. In 2023 the journey came full circle as the Dupees moved back to Cincinnati to live directly across the street from Hilltop Elementary where their beautiful love story first began.

To know Alison was to know joy. Whether it was creating magic in a classroom as a French teacher for 19 years, hosting lively dinner parties and conversations with friends and loved ones, playing music, or serving the vulnerable, Alison lit up the room with wide-eyed wonder wherever she went. Her joy was contagious. She carried this joy with her to the very end, buoyed by her hope in Christ and a future reality where death does not have the final word.

Alison’s love of language, travel, and culture intersected with her heart for refugees and international justice. She spent several summers serving in rural Honduran villages and a Ghanaian refugee camp. Most recently she taught ESL to Mauritanian refugees in the Lockland community. Alison’s heart for the vulnerable was as big as her smile.

Alison was loved deeply by her husband, David Dupee; her children David, Owen, and Carder Dupee; her parents, Jeff and Cathy Heck; her siblings, Jeffery Heck (Hannah), Stephen Heck (Carolyn), Parker Heck (Kendal), and Jody Heck Wortman (Zack); her nieces and nephews, Teddy, Kenser, Liza, Aully, Leo, Summer, Gideon, Abby, Tilly, Sally, Lulu, Theo, and James; her in laws and lifelong friends, Dave, Meg, and Sarah Dupee; many adoring aunts, uncles and cousins; and countless others she befriended and came into contact with during her earthly pilgrimage.

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April 13, 2025
Alison was my mentor teacher when I started at University School of Milwaukee. She quickly became more than a mentor. She was always smiling and had such a calming demeanor. She was my confidant, someone I could laugh, cry, vent, or sit in silence with. Alison embodied all of the best qualities of a human being. I aspire to be just a little bit like her and promise to live whole brokenheartedly. Alison, you will never be forgotten.
Brooke Bernbeck
March 16, 2025
I remember the day I first met Allison, at the 9th grade parent orientation in August of 2023. We met in the gym with our kids David and Julian. She oozed warmth and love, and I remember vividly saying to myself, “ I want to get to know her.” It was when she joined our Wyoming ladies’ small group where I finally got to know her and experience what attracted me to her, it was her spirit, and how the light of Jesus shined so brightly in her. It was through our small group conversations or school activities that I got to experience her joy, spiritual maturity and the sincere caring she had for those around her. As one of the co-leaders for the group, we were going to ask her if she would like to join our team and help with the growth plan for the group, but she was diagnosed the next week. I have been forever changed by how she lived her life, how she exuded the light and joy you gain when you choose Christ. As part of your Wyoming community and brothers and sisters in Christ, we commit to carry her joy on and be there to support your family in any way we can. Tess Harper (and family)
Tess Harper
March 15, 2025
Incandescent joy: that’s the phrase the captures Alison’s beautiful life and light for us. What a gift to have known her and also to have taught alongside her in our church’s ESL ministry. Remembering her in the years ahead, we will practice choosing joy in her honor and for the glory of Jesus Christ, whom she loved and served so faithfully.
Jen and Ryan Michel
March 15, 2025
We were so sorry to hear of Alison’s passing. We will keep all of you in our daily prayers. May God Bless! The service was so moving. Sorry we didn’t get to see you in person to give our condolences. It was so apparent how many people’s lives she touched. David and your grandchildren honored her so beautifully.
Becky and Chris Cornella
March 15, 2025
The Alvarez Family offers its deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Adam Alvarez
March 15, 2025
Alison’s life was so beautifully honored today. It was overwhelming to see and hear about the width and depth of the reach of her love for her family and her communities, all fueled by her deep love for Christ. Thank you for sharing this day and for the courageous and loving words you spoke about your precious mom and wife. What an incredible woman she was.

In the brief year that knew Alison, I was warmed by the welcome that she so immediately embodied, as if she already knew and loved the people she was first meeting. The word that comes to mind, as I reflect on the large impact that she had on me in the few months I knew her, is “inspiring.” Her enthusiasm for pouring into opportunities to serve, her bubbling-over delight when she talked about her love for each family member, her desire for more of God, her creativity in how to impact others, her eagerness to laugh and enjoy moments of fellowship - all so inspiring. I’m thankful to have known her.

Thank you for sharing the gift of Alison, Samm
Samantha Poteat
March 15, 2025
Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort. Que Dios esté con su familia.

Maesta Bajeca
Diane Bajeca
March 15, 2025
I have such wonderful memories of you and your family. Our youngest kids are the same age and I just ponder how our lives have been parallel in so many ways.
One memory stands out in particular: your endless energy in leading the over night camp with College Hill Presbyterian Church. I remember being so impressed by your joyful leadership. As a councilor I had Jody and so many other precious girls in my cabin: it was your fun - filled energy that enlivened the camp. How incredible! ! I treasure that memory of your light and joy.
Melinda Welch (cantey)
March 15, 2025
It was a true honor to know Alison. And as we remember her we will hold fast to the Joy that she shared and projected. Prayers of peace and strength to David and family. 💕
~The Fent Family
April Fent
March 15, 2025
I knew Alison for a short period of time at work but she had a big impact on my heart during that time. She made me feel so welcomed, always went out of her way to say hi to me and to ask how I was doing. I will truly miss her presence at work and singing wicked songs with her. I’ll be continuously praying for everyone’s hearts as they grieve ❤️
Amber Race
March 15, 2025
I got the privilege of working with Alison. She not only made coming to work full of joy, she also was the best convention travel buddy. One of my favorite memories with her was our inventory day. I got to spend a good portion of the day counting instruments & singing to the Wicked sound track with her. We exchanged life stories as I asked her for some counsel & advice on a few life matters. She brought so much encouragement and wisdom to those situations. Very thankful for the impact she’s had on my life.
Angelica Primachenko
March 15, 2025
Sorry for your loss
Chad Seymour
March 15, 2025
The Zender family gives our condolences to the entire Dupee and Heck families. Alison was a gem and instantly made you feel like a friend from the first conversation you had with her. We had a lot of fun with homecoming float building, ballgames and serving team meals together. She will be greatly missed in the Wyoming community.
Lezley Zender
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