Alex Chaszczewski

Be yourself; everyone else is already taken" ~ Oscar Wilde

Obituary

Alexandra Catherine Chaszczewski, born on 26th December 1980 at a British Military Hospital in Germany, was the beloved daughter of Vic and Carla Chaszczewski, younger sister to Kat and Adam, and cherished partner to Hannah.

Alex had a gift for storytelling, delighting us with her anecdotes. She was happiest when on, in or near the sea; her love for it matching the depth of her spirit. An adventurer at heart, Alex loved to travel and embraced every new experience with open arms and wide eyes. She was most comfortable in jeans and a hoodie; New Balance trainers on her feet, and a can of Fosters in hand, ready for the next adventure.

A cherished partner, daughter, sister, niece, cousin, and friend to so many, Alex touched countless lives with her warmth and wit.
We find solace in knowing that Alex’s final act of service through organ donation will enrich and save the lives of others—and perhaps even help create new lives. This will echo her generous spirit in the world, for many years to come. 

Alex, you were truly brilliant—smart, sassy, funny, kind, loving, sarcastic, sensitive, tall, oh so tall, and utterly one of a kind. You will never be forgotten. May your stories continue to inspire, and your spirit live on in all who loved you. Forever in our hearts.

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December 2, 2024

I will always remember your humour and that big smile. When I was first introduced to you though slightly nervous of meeting Kat’s sister I soon realised that I had nothing to worry about, you made me feel at ease straight away, probably because we cracked open a beer or two. Always the one to make light of a situation with a hint of Alex sarcasm. Thank you for introducing me to Buzz, so much so I had to request it for my 40th Bday. You will be sorely missed Alex but never ever forgotten. RIP & be free xx

Sarah West

November 29, 2024

We so loved Alex’s magic card tricks. She never gave anything away it’s such a shame we never managed to get her to perform them at Acoustic at the Constant. Her big smile will be massively missed in the local community❤️

Julie&Jon

November 26, 2024

There will never be enough words to sum up my dearest niece, Alex. She was funny, kind, smart, determined… In the eyes of me and her parents, she lit up every room she walked into. Alex threw herself at every opportunity – she never did things by half and never suffered fools gladly. If Alex seen or heard something that was wrong, she would have no hesitation in letting you know. I know many a time she's put me right. I thought I was good at sarcasm, but she was so much better, quick and very witty. People were drawn to her, and her passion for life. But no matter how many friends she made, she’d never be without her best one: Hannah, she loved you so much, and your wild stories will live on forever. Alex, thank you for everything. For being the life of the party, for always knowing how to make us all laugh, and for showing us how to live life to the fullest. There will never be a day we don’t miss you, but we’ll carry your love wherever we go. Alex you may no longer be with us in body, but your spirit will continue to bloom in our hearts, reminding us of the beauty and joy of life. As we bid farewell to Alex, let us carry forward her legacy of love, laughter, and resilience.

Love from Uncle Mark x

Mark Pritchard

November 23, 2024

Sadness doesn't even explain it. Working with you was always an experience, and not like many of the others in the department. I'll never forget the laughs, the heart to hearts about our social awkwardness and to the point tactics that others may not have understood, but we both absolutely appreciated. The jobs we did in the unit form an inexplicable bond and you were so incredible in your job as DC and even better as Acting DS. You believed in me when others didn't see me as equal, and although I told you at the time, and after, how much that meant, I don't think you ever would have understood the impact that had on me then, or the rest of my career outside the police. Be in peace, and love to all those who loved you, of which there were so many xx

Sacha Titherly

November 21, 2024

How do you say goodbye when there's still so much left unsaid? When you still can't process that it's real? That you're gone and there won't be any more meet ups, or big hugs or chatting shit like we've never been apart?

We came into each others lives right when we needed each other. We were both facing big challenges in our lives and #FTP became our motto!

You were the biggest light - fiercely loyal, sarcastic as hell and the smartest person I've ever met. Your blunt honesty was a breath of fresh air and we just clicked together 🥰

Our mutual love (aka total obsession!) for ALL things Glee, Dolly Parton and karaoke made for the most incredible experiences and memories made 💖

Getting to experience so much with you, finding the fun and lightness in those hard, long shifts at work, endless dog walks and cosy nights in watching Glee! Partying with you and Nic in Spain is definitely a highlight and spending time with your wonderful mum and dad at their Spanish abode was beautiful 😍

You made some of the toughest times bearable and were always there. You told me once that I inspired you to never give up... I'm so sorry I couldn't live up to that.

My heart breaks for your beautiful Hannah, your mum, dad, sister, brother and anyone who had the absolute pleasure of knowing you 💔

Alex, I love you. Thank you for being such a huge part of my life, for all the fun we shared, the memories we made....

For being you, a beautiful soul inside and out. I'm truly blessed that I was able to call you my friend.

Claire Tully

November 21, 2024

I'm so sad to hear of you passing away Alex, I remember all the fun and laughs we had when you joined the police and I was your tutor, you were fearless and brave and intelligent to boot and always a pleasure to.work.with. RIP mate xxx

Gav Crute

November 20, 2024

Alex...I can't believe you have gone. Thank you for letting me see you in your darkest hours and for still being one of the funniest and brightest people ever, even during these challenging times. Thank you for your honesty and allowing me to try to help, even though we knew that it was too hard for you to stay. You are the shining star, the bright spark...too wonderful for this world. Sleep well beautiful soul. Xxx

Shelley ward

November 15, 2024

It was a privilege to know you so intensely, Alex, I don’t know what I would have done without fate crashing us two together. You were the funniest and most kindest person even in difficult times. I am going to miss you so badly. I love you, mate; you’ll never not be in my thoughts. Love your friend, boring arms xxxxxxxxxx

Louise Harman

November 15, 2024

I remember Hannah’s first date with Alex. I wasn’t there, obviously, but remember the before and the after and how happy Hannah was. Until I met Alex, Hannah was probably the funniest person I had ever met (Pol Pot/Paul Potts – if you know, you know). So you can imagine the two of them together.

The first time I met Alex, was the first time Hannah brought her to the Constant Service. I was at the other end of the bar making totally inappropriate remarks to Hannah (I was drunk). Anyway Alex came straight over, stony faced, to confront me, and there was drunken little me trying to explain/apologise, ‘I didn’t mean to offend you…’ Fortunately, she didn’t make me suffer for long. From that moment, we were friends.

I had so many amazing nights with them, dancing, drinking, chatting. Hugs and kisses, love and laughter. Always laughter. I think my favourite Covid memory didn’t even involve me. It was (as told brilliantly of course by Alex afterwards) Alex, dressed as nun, walking down to Londis to buy beer. Deadpan as ever. Completely throwing everyone she met along the way, and as for the poor shopkeeper. It still makes me laugh (and happy that the XL nun outfits which I had passed on to Alex and Hannah when I left for Italy got such good use).

I wish we’d got more time together, but I am so glad I knew her, loved her and was loved by her.

Rebecca Lloyd

November 15, 2024

I remember Alex recanting a story of the time she took it upon herself to do the weekly online shop. Super proud of herself because she got some real bargains and it only came to around £25. When the delivery driver dropped off one bag, she was somewhat confused, only to discover that she had selected all travel size items! This was soooo Alex. Love and miss you to the moon and back xxx

Kat (little big sis)

November 14, 2024

This photo is how I will remember you…. happy and smiling. This was 2008 at my 30th in the Biscuit Factory in Hove with lots of B and E section. We didn’t cross paths often after our early days on response but when we did you always had time for a smile and a chat! ❤️

Katy Hartley

November 14, 2024

Alex I’m so very sad that this is where we are, writing on a tribute page for you. We reconnected recently about our experiences and for that I feel privileged. You were a good one Alex.x

Abigail Bryan

November 14, 2024

This has really hit home as to how fragile life is & just how little you may know about someone!

On the surface such a wonderful, friendly and loving person who was always dedicated to her work and helping those most at risk. Professional and supportive of others. Underneath some serious struggles for which I am personally sorry that I was not there for you more.

Rest in peace Alex. I will always have fond memories of the time spent working together and your unique dry sense of humour!

DC003 💙🖤

Laurie Burrett

November 14, 2024

My last memory of Alex was her sitting in front of me checking to see if I was still cognitive after fainting and falling under a table in the pub.
She was a true professional even at birthday parties.

Tristram Share

November 14, 2024

Can’t believe you’ve gone. One of the original hardcore nutfest Mad Cow thirsty Thursdays massive.

Lots of happy memories, they will never fade. Rest well my lovely xx

Richie Danton

November 14, 2024

Alex,
The memories I have of our friendship and antics have been making me laugh and cry simultaneously since I heard this devastating news. The earliest is you making me call in sick to your Saturday job at Iceland pretending to be your mum because we were still hunging from the night before! My thoughts are with your lovely family and partner, god only knows how they are making sense of this. Your legacy will live on with your final acts of heroism. Love you bud xxxx

Kate Streete

November 14, 2024

Mate…..you are the funniest person I have had the pleasure of meeting, knowing and laughing with ever. Shine bright you beaut and Thank you for advice, beers and smiles Xxx

Jaynie Hayes

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