Ajibola Omolola Falaye

IN LOVING MEMORY OF MUMMY

WHEN I DIE….

When my time here is up,
Please commemorate the person I’ve been, for I rest with the hope of rebirth.
Celebrate who I was and the impact I had, regardless of how minor it may seem.
Rejoice in my accomplishments, whether they were monumental or modest.
Honor the trials I faced and the resilience I displayed. Embrace my vulnerabilities and my quest for self-improvement. Applaud my aspirations, whether they were fulfilled or remained unfulfilled.

Cherish the essence of the person I aspired to become, and glean wisdom from my journey.

As I take temporary leave, take a part of me and let it be a beacon, guiding you towards thriving and self-discovery. I’ll watch from the vantage point of eternity, cheering you on….

Be compassionate, be generous, persist unwaveringly, and always strive for excellence as you reach for the stars.
Find beauty in the world around you and in every soul; pause to revel in the magnificence of God’s creation, to which we all belong.

This is my heartfelt wish—when I die…..
(By Ade Ogunyomade)

YOU WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN MUMMY. 🧡🧡🧡

Kike Anunobi
(Dunni’s Sister-in-law)

Dearest Jibs,
It is so painful to know that you are gone. I can never forget our fellowship in UI, the IVCU. I still remember the remarkable tun around you exhibited when you gave your life to Christ. You proved to the world that Christ’s death on the cross was not in vain. You were always there to help me whenever I needed to do something in UI. You were there for my son in his first year in UI to give him guidance and motherly counsel.
It is not the number of years we lived on earth that matters, but the fulfilment of that which has been written in the book concerning us.
Dear Jibs I am confident that you fulfilled that which was written in the volume of the book concerning you.
May the lord comfort your dear husband, your lovely children and all the other loved ones you left behind.

Rest on Jibs, till we meet at the loving feet of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

Abimbola Uzomah (Nee Oladiji)

Tribute to my Mentor, Mother , Supervisor — Prof. Ajibola Omolola Falaye

It is with a heavy heart and tear-filled eyes that I write this tribute to my beloved supervisor, Professor Ajibola Omolola Falaye.

My journey with her began in 2017, when I was admitted to the University of Ibadan for my Master’s degree. My first encounter with Professor Falaye was in our developmental psychology (GCE 731) class — a course I had never particularly enjoyed during my undergraduate studies. However, her teaching style was different. She had a unique way of bringing the subject to life with relatable examples that made even the most complex concepts understandable and engaging. Under her guidance, I developed a newfound passion for the course, which became evident in my transcript, as it was the course in which I achieved my highest grade during my Master’s program.

When I decided to pursue a PhD in 2019, I sought out Professor Falaye to be my supervisor. Our first one-on-one meeting was the start of a relationship that felt more like that of a son and mother than a student and supervisor. From that day on, she guided me with wisdom and care, helping me navigate the challenges of gaining admission and laying the foundation for my research. Her support was unwavering, and our official supervisory relationship soon blossomed into a deep personal connection.

Professor Falaye did not merely see me as her student; she treated me as her son. She granted me privileges that I never imagined, allowing me to gain invaluable experience. I fondly remember the times we sat together to review promotion assessments together from various universities. I accompanied her on visits to many other institutions where she served as an external examiner, and from these experiences, I learned so much about the academic world. Her approach to answering research-related questions, her calm demeanor, and her ability to listen to and consider new ideas left a lasting impression on me.

Despite her health challenges, Professor Falaye remained dedicated to her work. She was not one to raise her voice or dismiss anyone’s ideas; instead, she welcomed discussions and collaborated with me on every aspect of my PhD dissertation. It brings me great sorrow that she will not be present to see me defend this work, which she so carefully helped shape.

I will never forget the day I visited her in the emergency unit. Even in her weakened state, she recognized me and asked about the department affairs. Just a day before her passing, we spoke about her accumulated leave days of 517 working days— a testament to her commitment to her work even in the face of illness. She was hardworking to the very end, often continuing her duties despite her need for hospital visits and medical care. There were times when I supervised teaching practice on her behalf, yet she still made an effort to visit her students, even in her fragile health.

Professor Falaye always called me “Ernestiele” with such warmth. I will miss hearing her voice, her guidance, and the motherly love she extended to me. My heart aches knowing that she is no longer with us, but I take comfort in knowing that she is now resting in the bosom of the Lord.

Mummy, I will miss you deeply. Rest in peace until we meet again in the eternal embrace of our Creator.

*A Tribute to Our dearly beloved Sister and Friend:*

We met Jibola at University of Ibadan in 1976 and that has translated into a lifelong relationship! Jibs/Jiblo, as we fondly called her, loved the Lord with all of her heart. We remember her transformed life when she came to know and follow the Lord Jesus in UI. Her face literally glowed with the joy of salvation. She epitomised 2 Cor 5:17. She very quickly panted after God and loved to spend time in His presence, often retreating to the Chapel of Resurrection for personal prayer and worship of her Lord and Saviour. She lived for Him and impacted our lives with her love, care and empathy. In spite of the varied challenges that life threw at her, her faith was unwavering and steadfast until the day she was called to glory.

There is a Yoruba saying which translated, says “twenty children cannot play together for twenty years.” The Lord, in His mercy has been gracious to us, as He has helped us to defy the odds because in our case ‘a ti ṣerè’ for almost fifty years! At our last fortnightly prayer time that Jibola was able to join in, she brought a praise report and reminded us to continue to pray for Nigeria as things were really getting tougher for people. We learnt about her initial admission to hospital but when she was discharged, we thought the worst was over, only to be told a few days later that she'd joined the saints triumphant- that she had gone home to her Lord and Saviour.

Jibs, your passing has left a huge vacuum, our prayer time will never be the same and you'll be sorely missed by your Dynamite Sisters. Nevertheless, we rejoice in the fact that you have fought the good fight (2 Tim 4:7). Sleep on, beloved sister, until we meet to part no more. ‘A o pade lese Jesu.’ The Lord will wipe away all our tears and death shall be no more! (Rev 21.4). Adieu, Jiblo.
Your Dynamite Sisters -
Comfort, Funto, Nike, Bimbola and Ayo.

*A Tribute to Our dearly beloved Sister & Friend:*

We met Jibola at University of Ibadan in 1976 and that has translated into a lifelong relationship! Jibs/Jiblo as we fondly called her, loved the Lord with all of her heart. We remember her transformed life when she came to know and follow the Lord Jesus in UI. Her face literally glowed with the joy of salvation. She epitomised 2 Cor 5:17. She very quickly panted after God loved to spend time in His presence, often retreating to the Chapel of Resurrection for personal prayer and worship of her Lord and Saviour. She lived for Him and impacted our lives with her love, care and empathy. In spite of the varied challenges that life threw at her, her faith was unwavering and steadfast until the day she was called to glory.

There is a saying that “twenty children cannot play together for twenty years.” The Lord, in His mercy has been gracious to us, as He has helped us to defy the odds because in our case ‘a ti ṣerè’ for almost fifty years! At our last fortnightly prayer time that Jibola was able to join in, she brought a praise report and reminded us to continue to pray for Nigeria as things were really getting tougher for people. We learnt about her initial admission to hospital but when she was discharged, we thought the worst was over, only to learn a few days later that she'd joined the saints triumphant- she had gone home to her Lord and Saviour.

Jibs, your passing has left a huge vacuum, our prayer time will never be the same and you'll be sorely missed by your Dynamite sisters. Nevertheless, we rejoice in the fact that you have fought the good fight (2 Tim 4:7). Sleep on, beloved sister, until we meet to part no more. ‘A o pade lese Jesu’ and the Lord will wipe away all our tears and death shall be no more (Rev 21.4). Adieu Jiblo.

Your Dynamite sisters -
Comfort, Funto, Nike, Bimbola and Ayo.

Tribute to Professor Mrs. Ajibola Falaye.
ASFUI Staff Adviser (2003/2004 to 2023/2024 session)

It is with profound sadness and deep respect that we write in honour our beloved Staff Adviser, a great woman and Counsellor, Professor Mrs. Ajibola Falaye.

Mummy was more than just an Adviser; she was a beacon of wisdom and compassion. Her love for God, for the brethren and the things of the Lord as exemplified, has served and still serves as a worthy example for us younger generation to emulate.

As we mourn her loss, we also celebrate her remarkable life and the enduring contributions she made. Thank you, Professor Falaye, for everything you have given us. Your memory will forever be cherished, and your spirit will continue to inspire us for greater works ahead.

From Students and Alumni
ANGLICAN STUDENTS' FELLOWSHIP, UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN.

A Heartfelt Tribute to My Mentor, Prof Ajibola Falaye: A Guiding Light in My career Journey

My LECTURER
Just like any other undergraduate or post graduate students of Department of Counselling and Human Development Studies, University of Ibadan, Nigeria, late Professor Ajibola Falaye taught me GCE 107 and GCE 731/MPP731 (Development across the lifespan and the psychological processes) at both undergraduate and post graduate levels respectively. Our paths crossed when she became the coordinator for Masters in Personnel Psychology (MPP) students Programme and I was the MPP class representative. It was at that point I started relating intimately with her (2003). That period offered me insight into her passion for humanity and warm nature and I started admiring her personality.

My SUPERVISOR
In 2004, I was transferred from Prof. Charles Uwakwe to late Prof. Ajibola Falaye as my PhD supervisor. I can attest that from the stage of title selection to my completion of the PhD Programme in 2009 she offered me quality supervision and mentorship. She was always available to attend to me promptly irrespective of where she was or what she was doing. This made it possible for me to know her hair dresser, tailors, grocery shops that she patronized etc. This is because to ensure that she would not delay my work, she will describe the location where I should meet her and she would give me prompt feedback thereafter. This culminated to the completion of the Ph.D. Programme at a good time. I have lost the world’s acknowledged mentor!

MY COLLEAGUE AND FRIEND
In 2010 when opportunity for academic position was opened in my University, she contacted me to come and apply according to her “ Ndidi, I know you will add value to the department”. This is just typical of her and how she expresses herself. She doesn’t mince words to agree or disagree with what she believes in or disagrees with. She supported me throughout the phases- preparation of CV, appearance at interviews and she even went extra miles following up to ensure that the recruitment process was transparent. When she felt that the process was not objective she went extra mile to write a petition disagreeing with what she felt was not properly done. This justifies why I follow her anywhere she goes, yes, in her quest for the deanship of the Faculty of Education, I automatically became her campaign manager. We may have lost the election, but she has satisfied her desire to put herself up for services to humanity as usual. We co –taught several courses in the department (GCE 107, GCE 731. MPP 731, GC E 782, GCE 783). She was already on sick bed when my promotion from Senior Lecturer to Associate Professor as a result, I could not announce to her the decision of UI senate to change my cadre. I know that she would have danced and call me Ndidi Nwa M! A name she calls me smilingly! We also belonged to Counselling Association of Nigeria where she encouraged me to take the leadership position of CASSON National Public Relation Officer (PRO). I will surely miss my dependable mentor and colleague. Our relationship as colleague dovetailed into a strong bond with our families, spouses and children.

MY LOSS, OUR LOSS
Prof. Falaye was a beacon of hope, a pillar of strength, a companion in joy and sorrow, and above all, very caring. Her loss has created a void in my hearts that can’t be filled, but her legacy lives on in the memories we shared, and the lessons I learned from her. She was a woman of integrity, whose actions spoke louder than words. Prof. Falaye was there for me in our darkest hours, and she was there to celebrate our biggest victories. She loved deeply, and she was deeply loved in return. She valued friendship and family above all else, and treated every person she met with kindness and respect. Prof ’s life was a testament to the power of love, friendship, and kindness. As we remember her today, let us not focus on the loss, but on the life she lived, the love she shared, and the legacy she leaves behind. Let us honour her by living our lives with the same kindness, passion, and love that she showed us every day. As we say our final goodbyes today, let’s remember Prof. for who she was – a beacon of light, a pillar of strength, and above all, a woman who loved with all her heart. Oh who will call me Ndidi Nwa M again? Rest in perfect peace, dear Prof. You will forever be missed, but your spirit will forever live on in our hearts. Your voice will always echo in my head, at seminars and at meetings. Thank you for being an amazing teacher, mentor, colleague and friend.

Dr Ndidi Ofole

Tribute to my mother in love

I did not think I will need to write this tribute so soon. However, Abba decided that it was okay to have you home.

I thank you for opening up your home to me. You made me feel so welcome. I thank you for Dunni.

Over the years, I had come to know you more and had been endeared by your nature and approach to life. You were a true child of God.

Thank you for your love, kind words and prayers always.

Rest in the bosom of your Father ma.

Losing you has left a void in my heart that words can hardly capture. Mum, you were my unwavering rock, my guiding light, and the source of my strength. Your love and support shaped who I am, and every memory with you is a treasure I hold dear. I miss your comforting presence and the way you always knew how to lift me up, no matter how tough things got. Life feels so different without you, and I find myself lost at times, longing for your advice and warmth. You will always be in my heart mum and I will always honor the incredible person you were and the love you gave so freely. Your strength and kindness will forever inspire me, and though you’re no longer here, your spirit guides me through every challenge. I will carry your love with me always.

Tribute to my mother

I celebrate the incredible life of my mum, who was so much more than just a mother to me—she was my best friend, my confidante, my rock. Every day, she filled my life with warmth, love, and wisdom. Her kindness knew no bounds, and her generosity touched everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.

Mum was the heart of our family, always putting my brother and I first, ensuring we had everything we needed and more. She did it all with such grace, never asking for anything in return. Her love was a constant in my life, a source of comfort and strength that I could always rely on.
We talked every day, sharing our hopes, our worries, and our dreams. She was the person I could turn to for anything, knowing she would always listen with an open heart and offer the best advice.
Her kindness and generosity were limitless, always thinking of others, always giving more than she received.

Mum, you were the light in our lives, guiding us through good times and bad. The love and care you showed us will stay with us forever, a legacy of the beautiful person you were. Though you are no longer with us, your spirit lives on in our hearts, and we will carry your memory with us always.
Thank you for everything you did for us, for every sacrifice, every moment of joy, and every ounce of love. We miss you more than words can express, but we find comfort in knowing that you are at peace, watching over us with the same love and care that you showed every day of your life.
Rest in peace my sweet mother.
I love you, and I will never forget you.

TRIBUTE TO PROFESSOR AJIBOLA OMOLOLA FALAYE
A MEMBER OF THE WOMEN’S LEAGUE SOCIETY, CHAPEL OF THE RESURRECTION, UI

The news of the glorious home call of our dear sister Prof (Mrs) Ajiobola Falaye was a rude shock to all of us at the Women’s League, Chapel of the Resurrection, University of Ibadan. We however bless God for the exemplary and committed life she lived. Prof Falaye joined the Women's League society over twenty years ago and participated actively in the League’s programmes regularly until few years ago when she had challenge with her leg. She was always on time for meetings and made positive contributions towards the success of the society. She was a prayer warrior and a daughter of the Most-High to the core who loved singing.

Professor Falaye was a very friendly and a forthright person who will speak her mind on any issue, making reference to what the word of God says regarding the matter. She related very well with everyone irrespective of their status and ensured she made contributions towards the welfare of members and support for the church. Few weeks before her passing she was among members of the League who paid condolence visit to the family of one of our former presidents (DR Patricia Bakare) who went to be with Lord. She was radiant and full of life, but little did we know that, that was going to be the very last outing she will make with members of the society. Although she will be sorely missed by the League, we are rest assured that she has gone to a better place, where together with the hosts of Angels she will continue to sing to the praise and glory of her Creator. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen!

The Executive Committee and all members of the League commiserate with her darling husband, children and grandchildren and indeed the entire family members of our beloved sisterl and pray the you all, as well as members of the Women’s League will be comforted with the comfort of the Holy Spirit in Jesus Name.

Sleep on our beloved sister, auntie and mother, in the bosom of the Almighty until we meet to part no more.

Professor (Mrs) Georgina Odaibo
President, Women's League.
Chapel of the Resurrection
University of Ibadan

It was a shock when I received a call from Pa Richard informing me of Prof. Falayis' transition.
It was so shocking because I reached out to her in April when I marked a decade of my PhD, appreciating her immensely for the role she played as my supervisor without which I wouldn't be here.
In a conversation I had with her she would say to me, "You are cerebral " and I told her I was on career break due to childcare commitments. She laughed and said I had to practice.
I thank God for the opportunity to work with you as a PhD student and may God comfort your beloved husband and children.

Since we received the news of Prof. Ajibola Omolola Falaye’s passing, our hearts have felt a deep void. Yet, we trust that God, in His comforting love, will surround us with His peace.

We are deeply mourning our beloved Mummy – A Mother-in-Israel – A Mighty Warrior – who has now entered eternal rest with the Lord.

Though her departure was sudden and unexpected, we humbly accept God’s will, knowing that He does all things in His perfect wisdom. The Scriptures remind us that He is our Lord and we find comfort in trusting His ways.

We grieve for our Precious and Beloved Mother-in-Israel because of the deep love we hold for her and our desire to have had her with us for much longer.

May the Lord, in His infinite grace and love, comfort each of us during this difficult time.

Let all who were blessed by Prof. Ajibola Omolola Falaye’s kindness and wisdom join in remembering her, as she touched so many lives in their time of need.

How greatly we will miss her in this journey of life! Yet, we trust in the will of the Sovereign LORD, who has called her home to rest. As Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 says there is a time for everything and while it may be painful to us, it has pleased the Lord to call you home to join him and his host of angels. O what a glorious reunion it would be on the last days (Thessalonians 4: 16 - 17).

We hold you in our hearts, Prof. Ajibola, our Beloved Sister, Mother, and Grandmother. Your love and care for us, and for all who had the privilege to know you, were more precious than words can express.

Though we mourn your absence, we find solace in the belief that you completed your journey here on earth, ran a good race and are now at peace. Until we meet again in eternity.

Rest peacefully, Beloved.

Subomi, Segun, Seun (Dami) Lara & Lanre OYELADE.

Aunty Jibola was indeed a mother, teacher ,easy going, an encourager, a mentor .She is a soldier with the heart of raising others and an epitome of a good wife to her husband. I will never forget the good time we spent together.
It's a pity she's gone too soon. She will always be missed and remembered.
We love you but God loves you most . Sleep on till we meet at the bossom of our creators.
Abimbola.
Cousin.

Purer Than Diamond: A Tribute to my Darling wife -
Ajibola Omolola Falaye.

We met in 1982 at the University of Ibadan. We were both in Ibadan Varsity Christian Union (I. V. C. U.) and we got married on September 29, 1990. She was an epitome of peace, happiness, joy, humility, friendliness, cheerfulness and intelligence. She was supportive, kind, benevolent resourceful, creative and Christianly. She was a typical virtuous woman. She was hard working and dutiful. Very spiritual and upright .She was a prayer warrior. She was genuine, simple, straight forward and steady. I can continue on and on but space will not permit me.
I will surely miss my Darling Ajibola Omolola Falaye. Adieu.

It is my belief that the Kingdom of God and paradise is your home now. Bye for now till we meet at the feet of Jesus to part no more.

Tiwatola Abidemi Falaye - Husband.

I will like to thank God for your life for a life well spent. You were an achiever and an educationist.

May God rest your soul.

Rest on Dear Sis Jibola

Professor Ajibola Omolola Falaye (1958-2024): A Tribute

The morning I received the news of Professor Ajibola Omolola Falaye’s passing, disbelief washed over me. It felt like a cruel dream, impossible to accept. Her steadfast spirit, a constant presence in my life in recent years, had unexpectedly departed. Her passing, at the age of 66, just four years short of her retirement, marked the end of an illustrious and impactful academic career that began 42 years ago. She started lecturing in 1982 at what was then the Ogun State University (now Olabisi Onabanjo University), before transferring to the University of Ibadan in 1995 as a senior lecturer.

Many things can be said of her, but she could hardly be described without such adjectives as passionate, principled, affable, humble, forthright, and motherly. She was an uncanny gift that enriched our world and left it better with her amiable touch...
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Professor Falaye was indeed a mother, teacher and mentor to me and many of us. She stood her ground, to ensure that my PhD was successful. I will miss you. Rest on Mama Falaye as fondly called.

Mummy we appreciate God in your life.Death is an inevitable thing according to the book of Hebrew 9:27.
You were known for your compassionate love and generosity.
We love you but Jesus loves you more.Sleep in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ till we part to meet no more.
Adieu Ma.

Prof. Ajibola Falaye: A Colossal Loss.
How are the mighty fallen! Mama Prof. Falaye has gone. You were a repertoire of wisdom. Only heaven can tell of your impacts on us all. Mama Developmental Psychology, you groomed us. Mama was a teacher, encourager, motivator, mentor and mother. We will miss you. Your smiles, words of encouragement will be missed. Our great department will miss you. CASSON (State & National) will miss you. Rest on in the bosom of your Lord, till we meet to part no more. Adieu mama Falaye!

I am shocked to hear about your demise. You were an amazing Supervisor.

Continue to rest in God's bossom.

I met mummy at a time when I found it very difficult to connect and warm up to people outside my immediate family, She was so warm and kind to me and she gave me a home away from home. She was so easy to love and always had kind words.

She made me feel welcomed in her home even when I believe I was not easy to have around. She and Dunni taught me how to smile, hug people and accept people into my life as I saw how their home was a home to all. I strongly believed that her hugs healed something that was broken in me as a child.She was very accommodating and always had a welcoming smile.

She also provided support and guidance to me in the most difficult period of my life, and for that i would be forever grateful to her and your family.

I really admired her strength and her brilliance, she was the first female Professor that I knew personally and I looked up to her career achievements. She was so humble and a lot of people fondly called her “mama jeje”.

I can never forget the shy smile she always has on her face whenever Olu comes around her, or the weekends she cooked breakfast which we were always so excited about. I can still remember the aroma and taste of her geisha sauce. I remember the prayer meetings we attended with her and the owambes. She always showed up as her authentic self.

I believed you would always be there and I took your presence for granted. I wish i was able to come around and spend more time with you. I will hold on to the good memories that we shared.

Mummy was an angel, and because of that she has to go back home to her father earlier, and I take solace in that. We love you but God loves you more. Continue to rest in the bosom of our Savior.

It is with the greatest shock that I received the news of the passing of my darling’Mummy Dunni’ as she was fondly called who later became known as ‘Grandma’

To think we spoke at the end of June just before I travelled, only to receive the news of her passing.

Mummy Dunni was a very sweet, loving and caring In-law. She was a mother indeed to her children. She was a delight of a mother to my son, Dunni’s husband.
She showed an appreciation and respect of him always.

Brilliant, simple, humble, warm and generous. Mummy Dunni always showed an appreciation for any and all things. She was an epitome of what a good wife looked like; a attribute that is also evident in her daughter Dunni.

She has already made an impact on her very young grandchildren and they loved her as much as she did them.

I and my entire family will surely miss her. It will always be a privilege that I got to know her and she will be always be missed and remembered.

We will keep her memory alive through her children snd precious grandchildren.
Mummy Dunni, Ano Atata. Omoluabi.
E sun re o!
“Grandma Oluloye”

You were such a warm, easy going and accommodating person. From the time I’ve known you, you always opened the doors of your home and made strangers like myself feel like family. I saw you be mum to so many people. What a beautiful heart you had and i’m forever grateful. Your love and teachings shine through your children who also have such a beautiful heart. We love you but are comforted that you knew the Lord so you are resting in Jesus’ embrace. You will be missed ma!

HOW THE LATE PROFESSOR (MRS) AJIBOLA O. FALAYE INFLUENCED MY CAREER CHOICE IN THE YEAR 2003 (21 YEARS AGO)

In all honesty, it will be pretty difficult to write about my career choice and success story in the field of Human Resources & Personnel Psychology without mentioning the active positive impact of Late Professor ( Mrs.) Ajibola O. Falaye, of the Department of Counselling and Human Development Studies, University of Ibadan.

As an undergraduate Student of the University of Ibadan, my passion and interest to build a career in the field of Human Resources was really influenced by a book title " PSYCHOLOGICAL PRINCIPLES FOR SUCCESS IN LIFE AND WORKPLACE" published by Stirling Horden Publishers Nig Ltd (Ibadan) in the year 2002.

The book title " PSYCHOLOGICAL PRINCIPLES FOR SUCCESS IN LIFE AND WORKPLACE" has 341 pages and contained 19 chapters which was jointly contributed by 10 Academic SCHOLARS from the Department of Counselling and Human Development Studies University of Ibadan.

The 10 Academic SCHOLARS that jointly published that book in 2002 were: (1) J.O. Akinboye (2) C.B.U Uwakwe (3) A.O Falaye (4) S.O Salami (5) J. O Osiki (6) A. O. Aremu (7) D. A Adeyemo (😎 T. A Hammed ( 9) B. O Sokan (10) E. A Awoyemi.

It all started in 2003, when Professor J. O Akinboye strongly recommended the above mentioned book to all of us in the Department. Without wasting any time, I went to U.I bookshop to purchase a copy and getting that book really gave me a clear direction about my career path in life.

By divine arrange, the first chapter of that book was title " PSYCHOLOGY FOR HUMAN RESOURCES PERSONNEL" which contained 11 pages and was written by Professor Ajibola Falaye.
Consequently, there is no how, one can start reading such a big book (341 pages) without first reading chapter one. It was in the process of reading chapter one, that I deeply fell in love with the field of Human Resources as a profession and I made up my mind to build my career in that field of Human endeavor.

Professor Ajibola Falaye structured her SCHOLASTIC contribution in the chapter one of that book as follows: (1) Introduction (2) The Human Resource Officer (3) Understanding People in Organization (4) Factor Affecting Individual Behavior (5) The Perception Process (6) Effective Communication (7) Motivating People (😎 Personal Development of Individuals (9) Personal qualities of a Human Resource Officer (10) Conclusion (11) References.

Truth be told, the late Professor (MAMA) Ajibola Falaye cared enough to inspire her students. It was very obvious that she was up to date with current advances in both research and pedagogy. Through her depth knowledge and enthusiasm, she made a subject and topic that can be difficult (Developmental Psychology), interesting and fun.

MAMA had superior teaching techniques which allow her students to grasp complex information by performing exercises that are fun and practical.

Looking back today, all I just want to say is that I am so blessed to have come across the late Professor Ajibola Falaye as my Lecturer, Role model, Academic & Professional mentor in life.

On this note, my heartfelt condolence goes to the Falaye’s family, The Department of Counselling and Human Development Studies, The Faculty of Education, and The University of Ibadan Community in General.

My Prayer is that God will comfort the family she left behind and give them fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.

May MAMA gentle soul rest in perfect peace

It was with great shock and a heavy heart that I received the News of your home call my darling great aunt Jibson. You were such a loving, amiable, caring daughter of the most high GOD. It's a pity you are gone too soon. I'll never forget the good times we spent together while you were still at this end of the divide.
My heart aches so much, but who are we to question GOD? 😔
To live in the heart of those you loved is not to die. Continue to rest in the bosom of our LORD JESUS CHRIST.
Adieu my sweet great aunt. Goodnight.

Sis Jibola, as I fondly called you while we were co tenants in Ijebu-Ode, some thirty five years, ago.

You were an epitome of Love, with positive and indelible impact on my life and family.

May your gentle and loving soul rest in perfect peace.
Adieu ! ❤️

Jiblo! Ore mi atata!!
This wasn’t meant to be our farewell… Huuum … this is hard to swallow but we cannot question God. Continue to rest in the bossom of our Lord and Saviour till we meet to part no more.
Adieu My Sweet Dynamite Sister!

Rest on ma. You will be greatly missed. I can never forget the part you played in my life. Adieu. See you on the resurrection morning.

Sister Jibola, my sister and friend. You were a daughter of Zion, humble, loving and with a passion to please God and be a blessing to everyone. Your service to God and humanity will ever be remembered. You were a Christian at heart. The comfort is you are resting in the bosom of your Lord. Rest on darling sister till we meet to part no more.

I'm still in shock to hear about your demise Mummy. You were such an amazing personality. My contact with her at faculty of education was not too deep until when she was appointed Queen Idia Hall Mistress, University of Ibadan and I was one of the Assistants Warden in 2017. You were a mother indeed, kind, loving and down to earth. I pray that God will continue to strengthen and keep all she left behind. May her soul rest in perfect peace in Jesus name 🙏

E pele o!
May her legacy endure in Jesus Name.🙃🙌

You were the most humble Priest wife I have ever met. I remembered your perseverance when your husband was posted to our village as a vicar. You tolerated all the church members despite your interlectual. May the Lord rest your soul and uphold the family you left behind. Adieu

It is shocking and not easy to comprehend that an Iroko tree had fell down. Your good memory and good heart will forever be cherished ma. Ka to rerin odugbo, ka to refon o di odan. Sleep on the beautiful wife of our father in academia.

We lost a quintessential mother. Unassuming and seasoned academic. Ever ready to help, reliable, humane and humble. Mummy Falaye, you came, you saw and you Conquered. Glory to God, for the sky not the grave is our goal. Continue to rest in the bosom of your Maker, whom you loved with all heart and served with all your might. May God watch over the family and the church you left behind.

Gentle, humble, easy going child of God. Although I don't think I saw her since she left the Ogun State University (now Olabisi Onabanjo University), Ago-Iwoye in 1995, the memory of her smiling, innocent face is hard to forget.
Keep on resting, dear sister Jibola, in the bosom of the Lord.

Aunty, I believe you are in a better place. You have indeed left your footprints in the sands of time. Adieu!

‘Mummy” as she was fondly called by me ever since my youngest brother married her daughter Dunni.

Mummy was a joy to know . Her good and loving heart radiated in the way she spoke to and treated all members of her son in law’s family..

It is with a lot of sadness we received the news but we are grateful for a life that left a legacy of love and impact in all the lives she touched.

You will be missed Ma. Sleep well Mummy, daughter of God. Till we meet again. 💛💛💛