Adefemi Kayode Obasa

Daddy,
You were kind, warm and easy to talk to.
Keep resting until the resurrection morning.

May God continue to comfort, sustain and bless your beloved family and friends left behind.

Goodnight Daddy.

Pa Obasa is a Christian that is steadfast and firm in the WAY. I knew him as a Sunday School Teacher at Lighthouse Baptist Church Ibadan. He is very jovial and easy to approach. He has left his mark and we commiserate with the family. The Lord will surely stand by you in Jesus Name.

My father, my brother in law. I thank you for the love you showered on me and your advice.
I miss your fatherly advice as well as your jabs that made me laugh😂🤣😅
Rest on in the bossom of your maker.
Till resurrection morning!
Rest on!

Mr Adefemi Kayode Obasa: 19 April 1954 to 01 March 2026:

Good night to my Mentor and older friend. He showed me the path as a teacher in Ibadan Grammar School and I continued to enjoy his friendship and love till the very end. He had a spirit full of love, faith, courage and fortitude. I am very grateful and pay tribute to his loving memory.

May the Lord comfort Moji, Sile, Sogo, Boma, the entire family and us all. Amen.

- Yinka Sanni, Member IGSOSA 1977/82 Class Set

It is an honor to write this in memory of Baba Obasa, who I was privileged to care for and to know as a friend.
He believed deeply that everyone deserved respect, no matter the circumstances. He was knowledgeable, thoughtful, and never afraid to stand his ground on what he believed. Our conversations were often rich, sometimes spirited, but always meaningful.
Caring for him was a privilege; learning from him was a gift.
He will be remembered with great respect and gratitude. Rest well,Baba.

We knew Baba not quite long ago. My son was one of his carers. He told us baba's health conditions and how his children cared very much for him. We debated about him at home that he must have been a very good father to his children which have prompted this type of intentional care. My son also testified that baby made him laugh and admonished him about life. We knew him towards the end of his life and we can still testify that he was a good man. Rest in peace sir.

I pray that God will grant Moji, Sogo and Sile the strength to keep fighting this good fight. Uncle Gaga made many of us smile. He was a joy to be around, the laughter was even in his speaking voice.

The Lord will keep watch over the family in Jesus name.

Tribute from First Baptist Church Ibadan, Idikan Street, Ibadan, Oyo State.

I first had an encounter with Pa Adefemi Obasa in 1979 while at Ibadan Grammar School where he was posted to teach Agricultural Science. Though l did not offer his subjects, but l come to dread his discipline while strolling around the School Compound to hasten us for the General Assembly with his cane and catching late comers to the School. He was a disciplinarian and later in life, l got to know about his marriage to one of our seniors and Prefect then ( late Titi Iroko). He was one of the few teachers that the School could be proud of who was diligent in discharge of his teaching skills.. Providence made me to meet him briefly in 2009 when l joined Lighthouse Baptist Church before his prior to his confinement at home due to his sight challenges but l know his son 'Sile' very well who took after the height of Baba's wife and continued the Christian discipline in Church. Times and challenges could not allow me familiarise and bond with him as l would have loved to as a former alma mater teacher due to his occasional attendance at Church. He fought his right with dignity and l can boldly say that he conquered. Glory be God's name. God will comfort the children, the family and the Church of God he left behind. Adieu great teacher.

I met Pastor Obasa over 30 years ago. He loved the Lord and was always excited that the work of the Lord progressed.
I can’t quickly forget how he rose to the occasion when our church needed a place to hold our services. He took me round and used his influence to get Jesus a place to share His love to the world.
Your death is earth’s loss but heaven’s gain.
Rest in the bosom of the Lord.

Tribute to an Icon
Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa, my cousin, was a caring and loving man. He loved his immediate and extended family deeply. He was very industrious, intelligent, and humble.
Anywhere you met Femi, you would laugh away your sorrows because of his jokes. He had a way of bringing joy to people and lifting their spirits with laughter.
He was a man of prayer, with strong faith, and a Christian to the core. Despite all he went through, he held firmly to his faith.
May his gentle soul rest in peace.
Adieu.

Your cousin,
Omotunde Ajayi

Bros Femo as I called my big cousin was my mentor in business. He gave me a big business responsibiy in 1979 as a young undergraduate at University of Ife. ILE  IFE. Bros Femi told me he wanted me to run his restaurant called Forks& Finger. My initial response to him was that i was a student but he looked at me straight in the face and said you will not only do it but you must also bring innovation and variery to the meals and the image of the restaurant . His encouraging words was strong and i immediately aggred . He asked how much i wanted to be paid but i told him that rather than collect a salary,  he should permit me to eat twice a day without paying .Deal closed.!! . He agreed and the business went on successfuly till I graduated . Forks & Fingers became the restaurant for the elite amongst students . Been a manager of the biggest and funkiest restaurant on campus it  elevated my status and made it easy to be a favourite of the female gender . 

Bros Femo was a  kind , large hearted and humorus gentle man.Makes Jokes of everything and tries to keep.a straight face. 

Bless his soul.


Your aburo

Lanre Delano.

Bros Femo as I called my big cousin was my mentor in business. He gave me a big business responsibiy in 1979 as a young undergraduate at University of Ife. ILE IFE. Bros Femi told me he wanted me to run his restaurant called Forks& Finger. My initial response to him was that i was a student but he looked at me straight in the face and said you will not only do it but you must also bring innovation and variery to the meals and the image of the restaurant . His encouraging words was strong and i immediately aggred . He asked how much i wanted to be paid but i told him that rather than collect a salary, he should permit me to eat twice a day without paying .Deal closed.!! . He agreed and the business went on successfuly till I graduated . Forks & Fingers became the restaurant for the elite amongst students . Been a manager of the biggest and funkiest restaurant on campus it elevated my status and made it easy to be a favourite of the female gender .
Bros Femo was a kind , large hearted and humorus gentle man.Makes Jokes of everything and tries to keep.a straight face.
Bless his soul.

Your aburo
Lanre Delano.


Bros Femo as I called my big cousin was my mentor in business. He gave me a big business responsibiy in 1979 as a young undergraduate at University of Ife. ILE IFE. Bros Femi told me he wanted me to run his restaurant called Forks& Finger. My initial response to him was that i was a student but he looked at me straight in the face and said you will not only do it but you must also bring innovation and variery to the meals and the image of the restaurant . His encouraging words was strong and i immediately aggred . He asked how much i wanted to be paid but i told him that rather than collect a salary, he should permit me to eat twice a day without paying .Deal closed.!! . He agreed and the business went on successfuly till I graduated . Forks & Fingers became the restaurant for the elite amongst students . Been a manager of the biggest and funkiest restaurant on campus it elevated my status and made it easy to be a favourite of the female gender .
Bros Femo was a kind , large hearted and humorus gentle man.Makes Jokes of everything and tries to keep.a straight face.
Bless his soul.

Your aburo
Lanre Delano.


Bros Femo as I called my big cousin was my mentor in business. He gave me a big business responsibiy in 1979 as a young undergraduate at University of Ife. ILE  IFE. Bros Femi told me he wanted me to run his restaurant called Forks& Finger. My initial response to him was that i was a student but he looked at me straight in the face and said you will not only do it but you must also bring innovation and variery to the meals and the image of the restaurant . His encouraging words was strong and i immediately aggred . He asked how much i wanted to be paid but i told him that rather than collect a salary,  he should permit me to eat twice a day without paying .Deal closed.!! . He agreed and the business went on successfuly till I graduated . Forks & Fingers became the restaurant for the elite amongst students . Been a manager of the biggest and funkiest restaurant on campus it  elevated my status and made it easy to be a favourite of the female gender . 

Bros Femo was a  kind , large hearted and humorus gentle man.Makes Jokes of everything and tries to keep.a straight face. 

Bless his soul.


Your aburo

Lanre Delano.

Bros Femo as I called my big cousin was my mentor in business. He gave me a big business responsibiy in 1979 as a young undergraduate at University of Ife. ILE IFE. Bros Femi told me he wanted me to run his restaurant called Forks& Finger. My initial response to him was that i was a student but he looked at me straight in the face and said you will not only do it but you must also bring innovation and variery to the meals and the image of the restaurant . His encouraging words was strong and i immediately aggred . He asked how much i wanted to be paid but i told him that rather than collect a salary, he should permit me to eat twice a day without paying .Deal closed.!! . He agreed and the business went on successfuly till I graduated . Forks & Fingers became the restaurant for the elite amongst students . Been a manager of the biggest and funkiest restaurant on campus it elevated my status and made it easy to be a favourite of the female gender .
Bros Femo was a kind , large hearted and humorus gentle man.Makes Jokes of everything and tries to keep.a straight face.
Bless his soul.

Your aburo
Lanre Delano.

Some people leave a kind of warmth behind that never really fades. Uncle Gaga was one of those people.

In my childhood and youth, being around him was always a good time. He had this jovial spirit that could fill a room, and he had a way of making everyone feel welcome the moment they stepped in. Being around him just felt easy.

Losing him broke my heart. But at the same time, I find comfort knowing he is finally at peace. And in a strange but beautiful way, his love still finds its way back to me through my cousins. When I see them, I see pieces of him, the warmth, the laughter, the kindness.

Some people don’t just pass through your life. They leave something in you that stays. That was him.

Rest well, Uncle Femi (Gaga). You are deeply loved, and you will always be remembered.

O’death where is your sting to take Brother Femi from us at this time
Our dear brother Femi deep in our heart your life was kept to love and cherish not forgotten.
A silent thought, a secret tear keeps a memory of yesterdays are always there in moments shared, both small and grand. You gave with all your heart, guiding hand like waves upon the sand.
Your love ripple through the family, colleagues, friends, acquaintances.
Your Strength endured through trials and tribulations.
You walked with grace, in. dignity in every mile.
Brother Femi you are a pillar, strong, industrious , zealous, passionate in what you believe in.
You are a conqueror seated in the heavenly places.
Adieu
Sunre ooo

Uncle Femi was a great example to me of how to live a good life. His upbeat, jovial, and can-do attitude, even in the face of adversity, enabled him to excel in wide-ranging fields, including as an author. In at least one vivid childhood memory, over the years, and through his book, The Tragedy and The Comedy of Fate, he shared a lot of Love, Warmth and Wisdom. As he would have done, we look on the bright side in this time of grief, taking comfort in knowing he is at rest and at peace in a better place.

Didun ni iranti olododo; may his memory be a blessing to us all.

REUBEN:- Pa, Adefemi Obasa wasn't just a Landlord to us, he was a man with a large heart, loving, caring, firm and down to earth. He is my gistman(landlord). I always look forward to see him whenever i come home. Its painful you left without saying goodbye. February 8th 2026 when we talked on phone i told you I'll
be home soon but death took you away before my arrival. May your soul rest in peace sir.

Mrs Reuben:- Grandpa as i fondly call you is kind, generous and a no- non-sense man. Hes always looking out for everyone, playing with the kids on the streets, giving them food and goodies, hes always singing with them. The way he loved my hubby without reservations even though he's not Yoruba makes me jealous at times😃. Story short, he never made anything difficult for us as tenants, rather he took us as his own. We started missing him right from his health challenges season and till his demise because he was always there as part of our lives. At his own expense, Grandpa will send his househelp to come take care of me when i was sick and hubby is out of town. A selfless man you are! We miss you already. Adieu!

A TRIBUTE TO A MAN OF COURAGE AND FAITH.

Bro. Femi Obasa left indelible mark on the sand of history. He was committed to whatever he believes in. He was an encourager and a dogged defender of faith.

Yes, he went through diverse challenges towards the latter part of his life but the truth is that he was strong in faith till he breathed his last breath.

His love and admiration for brethren generally and Lighthouse Baptist Church family in particular is never in doubt. He served the Lord and His church as a faithful Sunday school teacher and was committed to the ministry of the word.

Of a truth he would be sorely missed. We can only pray that the faithful Lord whom he served doggedly while he was here with us will watch over the family and legacies he left behind.

Till we meet again at the other side, I say good night to a dearly beloved brother.

John Akin OYELADE - The Pastor, Lighthouse Baptist Church, Akobo, Ibadan.

The sun rises and sets, but this sun that rose for brother Femi got set so sooner than expected.
Brother Femi, though my cousin, represented my dad, uncle and brother.
Our closeness started from my adolescent age , as i was
always the one to be sent to his house by my dad whenever he felt like seeing him , especially when he was sick,’Dehun loo ba mi pe Femi wa’ thinking that he would die and be telling him his last wishes.
Brother Femi will now say’ But uncle you have not died yet? , and sooner he will get well and his life went on till my dad later died years after.
Brother Femi was an upright man and would always call a spade, a spade.
He never tolerated bad behavior.
He loved his children and was always happy seeing young children around him and this made him and these children happy.
His role as a father was not compromised at all, as he was a family man.
Obasa Family will miss him because he was the rallying point in the family, and God really gave him the wisdom and humor to be able to understand life’s challenges and ways of solving them, even among family, friends and his school mates.
An outstanding teacher of great talent, a successful businessman and a brilliant entrepreneur of his time.
God gave him these excellent talents to execute on the sands of time and was successful with them, to God be all the glory.
He was also the custodian of Obasa estate and a great leader in it’s administration.
He will be sorely missed .
Rest on, till resurrection morning sir.
Moradehun

In loving memory of our dear landlord, Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa, who left us on March 1, 2026. Pa Adefemi was more than just a landlord; he was a guiding light in our lives. His warmth and kindness created a welcoming atmosphere that made us feel like family. He nurtured our talents and shared moments filled with laughter and joy, especially with our children, whom he adored.

We remember the thoughtful gifts he would bestow upon us, a testament to his generous spirit and love for the community. Pa Adefemi's legacy will forever live on in our hearts, reminding us of the beautiful memories we created together. With gratitude, we honor you, Pa Adefemi, from Mummy Iyiola, Mummy Reuben, and Mummy John. You will be deeply missed.

Tribute by Mr. & Mrs. Awojole

It is with deep sadness, yet sincere gratitude to God for a life well lived, that we write this tribute in honour of our dear landlord, Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa.

The news of his passing came as a painful loss, not only to his immediate family but also to those of us who had the privilege of living under his roof and knowing him personally. Pa Obasa was more than just a landlord to us; he was a fatherly figure, a man of calm wisdom, kindness, and quiet authority whose presence commanded respect and admiration.

In our interactions with him, we saw a man who valued peace, fairness, and mutual respect. He treated his tenants with dignity and understanding, always showing concern for the wellbeing of those around him. His words were often gentle yet meaningful, and his approach to people reflected patience, maturity, and a deep sense of humanity.

Pa Obasa carried himself with humility and grace. He belonged to a generation that believed strongly in hard work, discipline, and responsibility. His life stood as a testament to these virtues, and anyone who encountered him could easily see the depth of his character and the warmth of his heart.

Even during the difficult season of illness that preceded his passing, we are told he bore it with courage and faith. That strength of spirit reflects the kind of man he was—resilient, composed, and deeply rooted in his beliefs.

His passing has created a vacuum that will certainly be felt by many. However, we take comfort in the memories of his kindness and the legacy of decency he left behind. The impact of a good man never truly fades; it continues to live in the hearts of those who knew him.

We pray that God Almighty grants the entire Obasa family the strength and comfort needed during this difficult time. May the memories of his good life bring you peace, and may the soul of Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa find eternal rest.

Sun re o, Baba rere.
Your life was a blessing, and your memory will remain with us.

With heartfelt condolences,
Mr. & Mrs. Awojole

Tribute to a dear brother

The passing away of Fẹmi represents a special event in the lives of a group of us, twelve cousins, who were brought to live under one roof due to certain twists and turns of life. What we ended up sharing under that roof in Molete is a bond that has kept us all glued together for well over six decades now. Fẹmi is the first to whom the group is bidding farewell, and his demise leaves a gaping hole. Our incredible storyteller, our gifted and witty communicator, has gone. We will miss him.

Fẹmi's large heart also embraced all the spouses who joined the group over time, ever ready to share laughter and fun. We thank God for his life.

Funso & Remi Sonaiya

In Loving Memory of Brother Femi Obasa

"Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts."
We honor the life of a true gentleman, Brother Femi Obasa. From his youth, he was defined by his tireless work ethic and his entrepreneurial spirit, yet it was his warmth that truly set him apart. To know brother Femi was to love him; he carried a constant smile and a peace that radiated to everyone he met.
On behalf of the entire Akingbade family, we thank you, for your selflessness and the pure joy you brought into our lives. We will forever cherish the laughter, the warmth, and above all, the love you shared so freely.
It is not goodbye, but goodnight. May your soul find eternal rest.
Sun re o, Brother Femi.
May God protect and bless the family you left behind.
Odaro.
The Akingbades

TRIBUTE IN HONOUR OF PA ADEFEMI OBASA.

Daddy Obasa and I were in-laws and became very close friends, and he became a friend of the family. Daddy Obasa was a great man who left a lasting legacy of love, wisdom, and strength; this will continue to inspire people for years to come. His life was a testament to kindness, integrity and mentorship. He was a remarkable grandfather, father, a friend and a family man whose spirit remains in our hearts. A week before he passed away, he called me and we discussed on phone. We prayed for his quick recovery and we spoke about change in weather among other things. Little did I know that while the weather was changing, he was also set to change position. He will forever be remembered as a great man that he was. Adieu Pa Adefemi Obasa. Olufemi Oluwole.

Alagba Adefemi Obasa Ore pataki, alanu omo eni keji. Ore pataki si mi ti nko le gbagbe lailai ni igesi aiyemi. Sun re o. Titi A O fi pade ni ojo idaja.

TRIBUTE TO LATE PA ADEFEMI KAYODE OBASA

We mourn the passing of our beloved Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa, a man whose life was marked by wisdom, kindness, and devotion to family.

Though we grieve his departure, we thank God for the impactful life he lived and the legacy of love, unity, and integrity he leaves behind.

His memory will remain in our hearts and continue to inspire us.

The Bible reminds us in 2 Timothy 4:7, “I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith.” We believe Uncle Femi has completed his earthly journey and now rests peacefully in the Lord.

We extend our heartfelt condolences and prayers to the entire Obasa family.

May the Lord grant us all strength and comfort during this difficult time.

Rest in peace, dear Uncle Femi. Your memory will forever remain with us.

– The Aliu Family

Through the Love of God our Saviour, all is well!
The above song was what I could think of when I heard the demise of Grandpa. I didn't know it would be this soon, I was still planning to go and visit him at the hospital! But I take comfort in the truth that God is good and He loves us. He loved him more than we could ever do.
I still can not believe that he is not in this world anymore, his memories and imagery are fresh in my mind. I still picture how he used to speak clearly so, it's just as if he is still alive. Yes, he has only transitioned, we will see to part no more someday, through the love of Jesus Christ our Saviour. Amen!
I must also add that Grandpa was very generous, he gave freely and bountifully. One thing that thrilled me about him was his beautiful love for his granddaughter, EriOluwa. He loved her so much that one could touch the love.
I believe that all is well through the love of God our Saviour!
Amen!

Wow! Wow! Wow! Erin ti wo! We the Dawodu family are heart broken and devastated at the news of our dear, dear, wonderful, loving cousin Adefemi Obasa. He was such a loving, caring, thoughtful person, with a huge love for the entire family young and old. He will be sorely missed. To cousin Femi's children, the Dawodus are thinking of you all, and holding you close to our hearts. The Lord will wipe away your tears, and wrap His arms around you at this difficult time. Your dad's home-going has left a huge gaping hole in all our lives, he will be sorely missed. Eternal rest grant him O Lord.

With love and sympathy, from the Dawodus.

TRIBUTE IN HONOUR OF PA. ADEFEMI KAYODE OBASA. Death is merely an exit to eternity for a complete reunion of the saints to our maker and for rewards for the works we have done in our earthly bodies. The news of the call to glory of Pa. Adefemi Obasa came suddenly to me. However, we give glory to God for a life well spent in the service of the Lord by the departed. I can testify that Pa. Adefemi Obasa has won the final victory over Satan and hell. 1Thess 4:13. As christians, we have hope. Pa. Adefemi Obasa has gone to glory, and we are gathered here to celebrate his home call, knowing that we will meet on the resurrection morning. On behalf of the entire members of PFN/CAN, Benue State chapter and indeed the Christian community, I wish to say good night to Pa. Adefemi Obasa till we meet again.

Pastor Ajeh

Today we are all gathered to remember Mr. Femi Obasa. Mr. Obasa as I fondly call him was a neighbour who became far more than that to me, he became a father figure.

When I was just 15 years old, he took the time to teach me how to start a piggery farm. What began as a simple lesson grew into a business that supported me all the way through university. That opportunity changed my life, and it started with his willingness to guide a young person who needed direction.



But Mr. Obasa gave me much more than practical knowledge. He opened his home to me, and even more importantly, he opened his heart. In his presence I learned wisdom, patience, humility, and grace. He showed me what it means to care for others and to invest in someone's future.



Mr. Obasa was a truly good man whose kindness and generosity shaped my life. I will forever be grateful for his guidance, his belief in me, and the example he set. He would forever have a place in my heart.



Adieu Mr. Obasa.


Bankole Eniola
"Corgi to ergo sum - I think therefore I am"

TRIBUTE TO OUR DEARLY BELOVED CLASSMATE.
It is with sadness that we are bidding farewell to a dear friend and classmate through this Tribute. Late Adefemi Obasa was a loving, jovial and caring friend to all. He was our storyteller and memory bank of our school days/activities, even after over 55+ years of admission into our great school. This was a mark of his intellectual prowess and his prolific writing skills. Femi was also known for his integrity and truthfulness, as he spoke the truth, supporting this with his chest. Even in the difficult and trying times of his illness, Femi bore it all with quiet vicissitude, not bitter, managing to crack jokes and remind us of interesting escapades of our school days. He always made us laugh heartily at ourselves. We shall miss you Femi, but we take solace in the fact that you left a book which you wrote before your passing. This was presented at your 70th birthday, where many of your classmates were present. We therefore thank God for a life well-lived and your contributions to the literary genre. Rest well, as we believe you will shine with the saints in light as your abode in heaven.
Chief(Mrs) Elizabeth Iyabode Ogunjulugbe. Chairperson, IGS 1966-70/72 Class-set.

Goodnight beloved brother. You lived well, a Champion over death. Though your latter days were crisis driven, yet, you fought a good fight of faith. Heaven has received you into glory, where there is no pain or sorrow. We had a good time on Facebook for a long period before we both abandoned Facebook for one reason or the other. You were lively, lovely and jovial. Your life of peace and harmony with everyone was admirable. How we desire you be with us longer but, You're now in a better place. A place of eternal rest with your Lord and Saviour. Sleep on my dear brother. Sleep is good for the righteous.

Mrs Remi Babalola.

I didn’t know Daddy Obasa until sometime in September of 2009, after the passing of his beloved wife; Aunty Titi Iroko in August of the same year. So basically, i got to know and meet Daddy at a time when life had just tested him in one of the harshest ways possible. This is why a certain story always comes to mind, anytime i think about him. It is the story of the day he heard of his wife’s passing.

He was out of Ibadan when he got the call. I don’t remember exactly which far-away State he was in, on that day, but I remember hearing of how the dreaded news reached him. After which he instantly got into his car, put it in gear, and started driving straight to Ibadan. Alone!

Each time I think of that story, I try to picture that drive to Ibadan on that fateful day. Our typical highways stretching endlessly, flanked by wild bush on either side, potholes intermittently shaking the car. I imagine that every stretch of kilometre must have felt like he was carrying the weight of the world on his shoulders. Alone with nothing but his thoughts, reminiscing about all the memories that had made life beautiful and feeling the hollow ache of her demise pressing at his chest like a weight he could never set down.
No one beside him to speak to. No one to steady his heart. Just a man, a steering wheel, and the unbearable weight of loss.

Each bump on the roads must have been like a jolting reminder that grief can be brutal and relentless, yet life must be travelled. And Daddy Obasa travelled it! Mile by mile, thought by thought, heart by heart. He traversed those roads, with each turn of the wheel bringing him closer to the moment where reality would strike deeper, where the weight of her passing would become undeniable, and where he would have to meet it with quiet courage, make peace with it, and somehow find strength to move on.
When he finally arrived in Ibadan, the physical journey was over. But the inner journey; the slow, steady work of learning to live without Aunty Titi’s physical presence, of coping and shaping the new reality, of moving on even when a part of him felt gone. That journey had only just begun. And for nearly Seventeen years, Daddy kept her alive in his heart with tenderness and courage, never letting the pain harden him, never letting the void steal warmth from his spirit.

Sometime in March 2024; a few weeks before his 70th Birthday, I had the chance to visit him whilst in Ibadan for a court case. He was still the same man, grateful, kind, stronger, particularly extremely aware and appreciative of small gestures.
He later told me that I was the first to wish him a Happy 70th Birthday. To me, it was just a simple gesture, but apparently, it meant much more to him. He was a man who deeply cherished even the littlest, smallest, moments of connection.

Now, having completed his journey of life, my mind still drifts back to the story of that long, lonely drive to Ibadan; when he carried that fresh grief and the precious memories; through the nearly Seventeen years of carrying Aunty Titi in his heart. He is now finally reunited with her! The weight of years and longing is lifted, the ache of her absence is gone.
I like to imagine Daddy Obasa smiling now, finally at rest. The heart that carried so much is whole again with his beloved wife whom he never stopped loving.

Dear Daddy Obasa, thank you for all the lessons! Keep resting in the loving arms of Jesus Christ; your everlasting joy! And may the angels in Heaven continue to guide you into the fullness of this joy!

It is with profound sadness, yet with a heart full of hope that I remember Daddy Obasa who left this sinful world early this month.
To say he will be missed is an understatement. My deepest condolences go to his beloved family, to the Ibadan Grammar school 1966 sets and to my dad (Segun Ogunnaike) who has lost a dearest friend and companion.
We will miss him dearly, but we will hold on to the beautiful memories especially the friendship he shared with my dad. Their bond was a source of joy.
I will always remember his gentle spirit and the quiet strength he possessed or the way his eyes lit up when he talked about his princess ( his grand daughter),
More than anything, I will cherish the memory of his friendship with dad, it was a bond built on loyalty and mutual respect. That kind of friendship is a reflection of good and kind soul.
Thank you for the laughter, the loyalty and the love you showed our family.
Rest in perfect peace till we meet again and part no more. Good night Daddy Obasa.

Teach us to number our days that we may apply our hearts to wisdom (Psalm 90:12).
Though death is inevitable, yours is difficult for me to accept. I am filled with both sadness and gratitude to God when I reflect upon a life you lived.
My closeness to you as my husband's close friend and classmate made me to know how kind hearted, loving, hospitable, generous, disciplined, transparent and caring you were. With you and my family, there never be a dull moment when we were together. We're going to miss your jokes.
I usually got swollen headed when you called me the "Best".
Daddy as I used to call you, thank God I was able to be at your bedside few hours before your demise, this gave me consolation.
Thank God for a life well spent in Godliness.
With tears and heartache I say goodbye to the loving one till we meet again at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Adieu Baba Basiri Basiri.

Mrs. Remi Ogunnaike JP.

IN MEMORY OF DADDY ADEFEMI OBASA


I bless the name of the LORD for the life of Daddy ADEFEMI OBASA it was well spent. I got to know him closely in 2019. He followed a matter to my court in iyaganku that's when I got to know his deficiency. I did advise him, he listened and took to it. He won the case.Later I got to know that he was a member of Sunday school of the lighthouse Baptist church. I visited him to conduct Sunday school class with him alongside some diaconate members. He quickly identified your voice and asked about your family.
He was resilient, strong and straightforward. Eager to meet with us on Sundays, contribute scriptures meaningfully by heart, you will love listening to him. A man of faith. Adieu beloved of God. Good night continue sleeping in the bossom of the LORD Jesus till the resurrection morning. We love you But Christ loves you most. Dele-Adisas

Pa Adefemi Olukayode Obasa was a good man,a good father.
Grandpa was patience and thoughtful, humble without making humility a performance, generous in time and attention even when his own energy was thin: he chose word carefully less to impress than spare and stayed steadfastly kind in d hospital, from a bed that wasn't his , he still asked d nurses their names, asked after their families and apologize wen pain made him short,
His humor stayed dry and warm appearing at d right moment to loosen worry in d room
At home he was steady and reliable , dignified, without pride, meticulous about small promises
He was quick to notice other burden, slower to name his own , he treated apologies as routine maintenance and argument as wasted weathers, as his caregiver I saw his goodness in daily act giving advices, helping to make plans, turning help into partnership rather than dependence
He was flawless - none of us are -but he practiced a quiet ethic; listen more, assume less, repair quickly
Pa Adefemi's legacy is patience long enough to let people grow , listening close enough to hear what isn't said and generosity that never needed an audience, Deeply missed,Lastly respected🫡

O death, where is thy sting? O grave where is thy victory?. (1st Corinthians 15:55) With heavy hearts, l and my entire family have to submit to the will of Almighty God, the creator of Heavens and Earth and everything there in.
Femi you came, you endured and won the horn of victory to the glorious place where there is no more pains or sorrows. Though death is inevitable, but we take solace in Almighty God. Who are we to query Him. He giveth and taketh . Glory be to His Holy name.
Though no season lasts forever, but it's painful to loose a loved one.
We will definitely miss your jokes and sense of humour. You were loving, kind hearted, generous, accommodating and trustworthy.
Little did we know you had less than 48hrs left to leave this sinful world when we visited you in the hospital.
Tasiba, (Baba bashiri, bashiri) we are going to miss you dearly.
Adieu, a friend, brother and classmate till we meet at the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ amen. Sleep on till resurrection day. (Segun Ogunnaike JP) (Classmate 1966-70).

Our profound love continues for the entire family of Uncle Femi. He was a well respected Egbon & teacher with a pure, caring, genuine heart of gold laced with impeccable character. I am still in denial...

When I first met Pa Obasa, I met him in my professional role as his nurse. But it didn’t take long before he became more than just a patient on my shift. In a short time, he became someone whose presence I looked forward to on my days off.
Grandpa had a special way of turning ordinary moments into memorable ones. Even on days when I came in ready to do my serious “nurse duties,” he would say something that made me laugh. I sometimes wondered who was really taking care of who, because there were moments when his humor and calmness made my shift lighter.
One thing I truly admired about him was his strength and peaceful spirit. Daddy was a strong soldier and he fought to the end. Despite everything he was going through, he still carried himself with grace. As nurses, we care for many people, but every now and then we meet someone who leaves a mark on our heart. Grandpa was one of those people for me.
I may not have known him for many years, but the short time I spent caring for him gave me beautiful memories I will always cherish. He reminded me why nursing is not just about medications and procedures, but about kindness, patience, and human connection.
To his children and family, please know that your father was deeply respected and cared for. He spoke and carried himself like a man who had lived a meaningful life, and it was truly an honor to care for him.
Pa Obasa, thank you for the laughter, the small conversations, and the moments that made my shift brighter. You will always be remembered not only as a patient but as a wonderful man who left warmth in the hearts of those around him.
As the Bible promises at John 5:28-29, “the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.” This promise reminds us that death is not the end, and that one day we will see our loved ones again.
Until that beautiful day, may you rest peacefully.

* Tribute to my friend's dad Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa*

Today we remember and honour a wonderful father whose greatest legacy is seen in his children.

The strong bond they share and the many achievements in their lives reflect the love, guidance, and values he instilled in them. Through them, we see the kind of man he was — a father who cared deeply, supported his family, and laid a strong foundation for their future.

Although he is no longer with us physically, his influence lives on in the lives of his children and the impact they continue to make.

May his soul rest in peace, and may God comfort the entire family during this difficult time.❤️❤️

A Tribute to a Life Fully Lived In Loving Memory of Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa


I met pa Adefemi Obasa through Shogo his son who is my friend.

It was back in our undergraduate days at the University of Ibadan. He was such a present and loving father. There was no doubt about how much he loved and cherished his children and they felt the same way about him. Everyone who crossed paths with them knew. He poured all his love into his children, he emptied his heart into them.

He was a devoted Christian, who raised amazing children that adore each other. He did everything possible to fill the void the children felt losing their mum. This also reflected the loving relationship he shared with his late wife. He was always there, putting them first and I admired that about him.

When I visited their home in Ibadan, he gave me such a warm welcome.
I know that if he could be here forever, for the love he had for his children he would have because they were his “reason”; but we are grateful to God for his time here and the lives he touched.

His kind of heart is rare and I pray for everyone hurting from the pain of this great loss, especially his beloved children that they will be comforted and celebrate his legacy and the cherished memories they made.

You will be greatly missed sir, journey well.

Juliet Adigwe-Ogun

**Tribute To A Friend And Brother, Adefẹmi Kayode Ọbasa.**

Writing a tribute to a friend so close to you like Femi was close to me, is like writing your own obituary.

We got to know each other in January 1960, when we were enrolled at St. Paul's Anglican Primary School I, Yemẹtu, Ibadan. He, myself, and another classmate, Joseph Akachukwu Ezeobele, formed a "tripod that stabilized the pot of stew." We established an academic rivalry amongst us that had the effect of uniting us rather than turning us against each other.

The three of us were again admitted to Ibadan Grammar School in January 1966 and we remained like one, until July 1966, when Akachukwu had to leave for the East because of the Civil War. On reuniting with Akachukwu after the war, guess who he first asked for? If you said Femi, you are very right.

Femi was many things to many people. The various eulogies to him in this pamphlet will bear testimony to this. From my own perspective, I will write about his loyalty as a friend.

On the death of my wife, Funmi, in 2021, he served as one of my counselors, consoling me with copious quotations from the Bible. I was impressed that he refused to remarry even though he lost his wife twelve years before I lost mine. Needless to say that I wasn't able to follow his example.

At IGS, he defended my interests in ways that were sometimes risible. I'll not be able to relate them here.

He was funny, fun to have around, and he loved sports, especially cricket which he played for the school. He was into acting, and he loved singing.

He was the official keeper of secrets (Aláṣìírí) of our class set WhatsApp group. I dare not say how he acquired this title!

Femi: You have fought the good fight. You have finished your course. You have kept the faith. Rest in perfect peace until the good Lord raises you up on the Last Day.

Oladapo Odumosu.
Litchfield Park, AZ, USA.

Tribute to Femi

My brother Adefemi Kayode Obasa is a good man. He was a hardworking and generous man. He was a great family man. Always fun to be around. He will e missed by all of us.
May he continue to rest in peace. May God console and comfort the family he left behind.

Muyiwa

O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? (1st Corinthians 15:55)
With heavy hearts, l and my entire family have to submit to the will of God who is the creator of Heavens and Earth and everything there in.
Femi, you came, you endured and won with the horn of victory to the glorious place where there is no more pains or sorrows.
It is hard to believe that you've gone beyond the veil, all the same death is inevitable, and no season lasts forever. We will definitely miss your jokes and sense of humour.
You were loving and kind hearted.
God gave us the grace of seeing you at the hospital unknown to us you had 48 hours before departing this sinful world,
but who are we to query God, He giveth and taketh, Glory be to His Holy name.
Adieu Tashiba (Baba bashiri, bashiri) we meet to part no more at the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Sleep well. (Segun Ogunnaike JP) (Classmate 1966-70)

Though I did not know Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa personally, his legacy is clear through his children, whose character reflects his values, discipline, and kindness. His life shaped many and leaves a lasting impact.

Some people enter your life and create a presence so genuine and warm that their absence leaves a space that can never truly be filled.
May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may God comfort all who mourn him.

Tribute to Adefemi:-
lati ọwọ Ajibade Ọbasa ati ẹbi rẹ
Ẹ jẹki a fọpẹ fun Oluwa Ẹlẹda wa lasiko yi nitori to ṣeun nitori ti aanu rẹ duro lailai
O wuu ninu a anu rẹ ki a le pejọ ni irẹpọ latiṣe ẹyẹ ikẹhin fun ẹni wa ọwọn julọ, arakunrin wa Adefẹmi Ọbasa; ẹni ti o fi ile aiye yi silẹ ni wọrọ yi lẹhin igbati o ti ṣ’ aisan fun igba pupọ.
A nbẹbẹ ki Ọlọrun gba ẹmi rẹ sọdọ Rẹ ko si fun ni simi pipe titi aiye ainipẹkun.
Ki Edumare ba wa tọju gbogbo idile ati awọn ẹbi rẹ fun rere o.
Adefẹmi ṣọwọn pupọ fun gbogbo ẹbi patapata nigba aiye rẹ ni ọrọ ati ni iṣe: ki Oluwa wa ma jẹki aiye rẹ ko ṣofo lailai Amin.
Our very dear Fem Fem, sun re o! Ku isẹ rere nla rẹ o!
Oluwa yio si fi adun isẹ naa yin ọo.
Ba wa ki awọn ẹni wa gbogbo to ti rekọja lọ si ode ọrun ṣaaju.

A TRIBUTE IN LOVING MEMORY OF PA ADEFEMI KAYODE OBASA
A Devoted Member of the Aronke Dynasty, Entrepreneur, Father, Grandfather, and Church Elder
19th April 1954 – 1st March 2026
With heavy hearts yet deep gratitude to God for a life well lived, we honor the memory of Pa Adefemi Kayode Obasa, a man whose life was marked by love, dedication, and service to family, community, and God.
Pa Obasa was a proud and committed member of the Aronke Dynasty, a man who valued family heritage and unity. He carried himself with dignity and warmth, always maintaining strong bonds with relatives and loved ones.
As an entrepreneur, he demonstrated determination, wisdom, and resilience. His hard work and commitment were admirable, and he served as an inspiration to many who looked up to him for guidance and encouragement.
To us, he was more than a successful man—he was a lovely and humorous cousin and uncle, whose presence brought joy and laughter to family gatherings. His cheerful spirit, kindness, and sense of humor made him deeply loved by all who knew him.
He was also a devoted father and a proud grandfather, whose love and care for his children and grandchildren were evident in all he did. His guidance, values, and life lessons will remain a lasting legacy in their lives.
In the church, Pa Obasa served faithfully as an elder, offering wisdom, spiritual guidance, and support to many. His life reflected strong faith, humility, and a commitment to serving God and humanity.
Though his departure leaves a deep void in our hearts, we are comforted by the beautiful memories he leaves behind and the legacy of love, faith, and integrity that will continue to live on through his family and the many lives he touched.
May the Almighty grant his soul eternal rest and give his family the strength and comfort to bear this loss.
Forever in our hearts, forever remembered.

Akin Akinbo
Secretary, Aronke Family

It's so painful to hear about your demise. But I thank God for the worthy life you lived. Continue to rest till the resurrection morning. Adieu brother.....DUNNI

Daddy, Granpa, Pa, Femoooooo!!

Words cannot capture the depth of the vacuum you left behind. You were a force of life. Ever smiling, Amiable, Jovial. Full of life and energy. Always with a word in due season.
Ah Erin wo! Continue to rest in the bosom of you maker.

You exemplified the word Father to not just to your biological children but also to all those who looked up to you in all facets of life.