Abisola Olayinka Okusanya
London, United Kingdom
Abisola Olayinka Okusanya
Ecclesiastes 3 vs 1-4
1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: 2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; 3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance
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Abisola Olayinka Okusanya was born on May 1, 1964, to Surveyor Biola Folarin Okusanya and Mrs. Catherine Ebun Okusanya, both of blessed memory, in Ibadan, Oyo State, Nigeria.
She began her education at Victory Nursery and Primary School in Ibadan, Oyo State, Nigeria. She continued her education at St. Mary’s High School Iwo, Oyo State, Nigeria, where she obtained her secondary leaving certificate (WAEC). She also attended Ibadan Grammar School. She proceeded to the Polytechnic Ibadan, Oyo State, where she obtained an Ordinary National Diploma (OND) in Insurance.
She relocated to the United Kingdom in the year 1987. She attended Middlesex University, Hendon, North London and became an Insurance graduate. She got married in 1995 and was blessed with a son, Oluwatobiloba, in 1997.
She worked in various establishments in the UK and served meritoriously. Our dear Abisola worked as a customer service officer in Barnet Homes' contact centre for over 10 years. Also, many years ago, she worked for the London Borough of Barnet in their social care services teams. She brought sunshine and warmth everywhere she went and was adored by customers and colleagues alike. Recently, she worked for Barnet Homes from 2023 as an Income Officer till the time of her demise. Her kindness and benevolence cannot be quantified among colleagues and family members.
Abisola Okusanya was a member of Christ United Ministries International for more than 20years, where she served in various capacities, she was ordained as a Deaconess because of her selfless service to the kingdom of God. She was a dedicated member of the church, and she served as a minister in few branches of CUMI and as an official within various departments. Her dedication to the service of God is unmatched, such that she continued with her ministry assignment even up until the time she answered the call of her maker. She was part of many evangelistic outreaches in the UK, Europe and in Africa, especially in Nigeria.
There is no doubt she is in a better place.
Adieu! Our precious mum, sister, aunt, in-law and friend Abisola Olayinka Okusanya aka Mama Damola; aka The Great Mama Nee; aka The Governor; aka The Grand Garrison Commander. We love you, and you will remain in our hearts till we meet on the resurrection morning.
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August 21, 2025
It’s sad that you are gone so soon. Knowing that you knew and served God is a consolation. Rest on in the bosom of our God.
August 21, 2025
Sister Bisi, as we called you then,
You were such an outgoing and fun-loving person while I was quiet and reserved. Still, I loved to accompany you to places and we’ll go all over Ibadan for hours and sometimes return home late! Though we were first cousins, you were a big sister to me, easygoing and I have very fond memories of growing up together. You are gone too soon but God knows best. May the Lord grant you eternal rest in His bosom. Sun re o, omo Agoro bo’gun bo’lu.
You were such an outgoing and fun-loving person while I was quiet and reserved. Still, I loved to accompany you to places and we’ll go all over Ibadan for hours and sometimes return home late! Though we were first cousins, you were a big sister to me, easygoing and I have very fond memories of growing up together. You are gone too soon but God knows best. May the Lord grant you eternal rest in His bosom. Sun re o, omo Agoro bo’gun bo’lu.
August 20, 2025
I met Bisola some 37 years ago when I visited my sister, Dupe at the then Abeokuta Continuing Education center. Then she was known as Lady Di. Fast forward to the early 90s, we met again in the UK. We fondly called her 'Sista'. I was her chief brides maid. Hmmmmmm, Bisola rest well in the Lords bosom . Rest in peace Sis.🙏🏾
August 19, 2025
Abisola was a great woman of God. She's always happy and light up wherever she was. She never gets offended, no matter what you did or say to her. Abisola sleep well in the blossom of God your maker. You will always be missed. You gave me the nickname Aunty Agba, which everyone called me till today whenever we have the opportunity to socialise. I never knew that l will not see you again. But God knows best. May God protect your son and your siblings you left
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August 18, 2025
Deaconess Bisola was a Great Woman of God that lived a life of total dedication to the Things of God .You had a heart of Gold and no distance it too long or far for you to cover.Your love for God's peaple is incomparable.You loved so freely and without any reservations.You were an exampilary woman of God and your life was a great Epistle to mankind.
Sleep on Dear Deaconess till we meet to part no more
God Bless your Son Toni and the Family and the Body of Christ you left behind
.Eternal Rest God will grant you and make His Perpetual light shine upon you in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏❤️
Joanna Olajide
Sleep on Dear Deaconess till we meet to part no more
God Bless your Son Toni and the Family and the Body of Christ you left behind
.Eternal Rest God will grant you and make His Perpetual light shine upon you in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏❤️
Joanna Olajide
August 17, 2025
Mama nee❤️
She was sooo sweet, lovely and kind.
There are so many things I will remember you for. Thank you for everything ma, I will greatly miss you.
May you continue to rest in peace ❤️
She was sooo sweet, lovely and kind.
There are so many things I will remember you for. Thank you for everything ma, I will greatly miss you.
May you continue to rest in peace ❤️
August 14, 2025
Sis Busola was just a very sweet soul,kind ,very helpful ,friendly and always with a beautiful smile. She was a lady full of encouragement .
She will greatly be missed and also her prayers. May she continue to rest in the blossom 🌸 of the lord.
She will greatly be missed and also her prayers. May she continue to rest in the blossom 🌸 of the lord.
August 13, 2025
Sista/Lady D,
Our Lord knows best. If I say am over your death. I would be lying. I keep recalling memories of Abeokuta Conti -Ibadan Poly and London. They are memories that can never be replaced. May your soul rest in peace. Amen. I pray for God’s presence to me with the family and friends left behind IJN, Amen.
Adieu Abisola Omo baba surveyor.
Our Lord knows best. If I say am over your death. I would be lying. I keep recalling memories of Abeokuta Conti -Ibadan Poly and London. They are memories that can never be replaced. May your soul rest in peace. Amen. I pray for God’s presence to me with the family and friends left behind IJN, Amen.
Adieu Abisola Omo baba surveyor.
August 13, 2025
Abisola as I fondly call you,goodness gracious God.You left us loved ones too soon. I had to summon courage in other to write this tribute..I believed in my heart that God almighty knew that your assignment had been completed that is why he took you home.The Birthday wishes that you sent to me recently,was so soothing and I did not know that it was a fairwell wish. Your love for your family near and far was so genuine. Talking about believing in God for resolutions,You made sure that you visit me whenever you come to town .We shared memories of good times.It is well with your soul. Rest in the bossom of the almighty God until we meet to part no more..Omo Agoro bogunbolu . Sunre ooo.
August 13, 2025
A tribute to my dearest sister, as I fondly call you, Mama Nee
I still can’t believe I’m writing goodbye to you at this point in my life. It’s still so unreal to me. I knew you through my dear friend Bose Ogunleye and ever since you took me as your own blood sister. You’d constantly check on me and my family’s wellbeing. Every time you called it’d be all about words of God. You had so much care for everyone around you. You are such a humble person who loves to serve God. You are a woman of large heart. I remember June last year when you came down for my 50th birthday. We had a very good conversation about you coming back to the US when you retired to be with your loved ones, but I guess man proposes and God disposes. When I heard the news of your departure I was distraught, but the consolation I had was knowing you were in a better place than any of us right now. You came, you saw, and you conquered. You will forever be missed, continue to rest in the bosom of your creator. We miss you, but God loves you more. Goodnight Mama Nee.
Kehinde Hassan
I still can’t believe I’m writing goodbye to you at this point in my life. It’s still so unreal to me. I knew you through my dear friend Bose Ogunleye and ever since you took me as your own blood sister. You’d constantly check on me and my family’s wellbeing. Every time you called it’d be all about words of God. You had so much care for everyone around you. You are such a humble person who loves to serve God. You are a woman of large heart. I remember June last year when you came down for my 50th birthday. We had a very good conversation about you coming back to the US when you retired to be with your loved ones, but I guess man proposes and God disposes. When I heard the news of your departure I was distraught, but the consolation I had was knowing you were in a better place than any of us right now. You came, you saw, and you conquered. You will forever be missed, continue to rest in the bosom of your creator. We miss you, but God loves you more. Goodnight Mama Nee.
Kehinde Hassan
August 13, 2025
In Loving Memory of our dearest Deaconess Abisola Olayinka🌿
Words cannot fully describe how grateful we are to God for the gift of your life, our dear, amiable Abisola.
Your love filled the gap when Folawe went to be with the Lord. You were always there for us.
You always remembered every birthday.
We miss you deeply. None can question God, and we take comfort knowing you now rest in His presence.
You will forever be in our hearts.
The Faluyi Family
Words cannot fully describe how grateful we are to God for the gift of your life, our dear, amiable Abisola.
Your love filled the gap when Folawe went to be with the Lord. You were always there for us.
You always remembered every birthday.
We miss you deeply. None can question God, and we take comfort knowing you now rest in His presence.
You will forever be in our hearts.
The Faluyi Family
August 12, 2025
Deaconess Bisola called to glory is still a bitter pill, which was hard for me to sallow. I'm still believing that she would appear to say here i am. Deep down inside me, I know heaven has welcome home a Saint.
She's my big sister that I call (Debe debe) our own secret name. If she looks down, from heaven, she will laugh. She's not just a church member to me, but we have become family.
Dcnss was such a bubbly and cheerful person by nature. She doesn't get angry easily. Honest and truthful in all her ways
Dcnss was a lover of God with her last breath, and I'm a witness to it. Anything to do with the work of God she doesn't miss out on it, to name a few crusades, missionaries, and evangelism.
She was a woman with a large heart of gold. A rare gem 💎. She will be well missed by all.
Good night, ma. Continue to rest at the bossom of your Father. Adios
Abike
She's my big sister that I call (Debe debe) our own secret name. If she looks down, from heaven, she will laugh. She's not just a church member to me, but we have become family.
Dcnss was such a bubbly and cheerful person by nature. She doesn't get angry easily. Honest and truthful in all her ways
Dcnss was a lover of God with her last breath, and I'm a witness to it. Anything to do with the work of God she doesn't miss out on it, to name a few crusades, missionaries, and evangelism.
She was a woman with a large heart of gold. A rare gem 💎. She will be well missed by all.
Good night, ma. Continue to rest at the bossom of your Father. Adios
Abike
August 12, 2025
TRIBUTE TO A WOMAN PER EXELLENCE!!
How do one write tribute of a woman per excellence? It took about 2 weeks to finally come to terms that you are no more here and this tribute must be written. Your words the last time we spoke was that I keep in touch. How do i keep in touch in this instance? You came you saw you conquered. You
showed genuine love to everyone around you. You were always concerned about everyone's wellbeing. You preached love,
lived love and gave love to all.
You will forever be missed, but who are we to question your maker, rest well in the
bossom of your
creator. Good night Mama Ne.
How do one write tribute of a woman per excellence? It took about 2 weeks to finally come to terms that you are no more here and this tribute must be written. Your words the last time we spoke was that I keep in touch. How do i keep in touch in this instance? You came you saw you conquered. You
showed genuine love to everyone around you. You were always concerned about everyone's wellbeing. You preached love,
lived love and gave love to all.
You will forever be missed, but who are we to question your maker, rest well in the
bossom of your
creator. Good night Mama Ne.
August 10, 2025
Always cheerful, always smiling, you brought a lot of joy and laughter, sad but good to know you have gone to a better place. Continue to rest in the Lord. God bless and comfort your family
August 10, 2025
Tribute to a Remarkable Woman
The news of your passing came as a deep shock to me, and it is still hard to accept.
I first met you through my dear friend, Bukola Okusanya. My very first trip to the U.K. was to visit her and her husband, who had recently relocated and just welcomed their new baby. You didn’t know me personally at the time, yet you graciously gave me a letter of invitation that made that journey possible. That act of kindness opened the door to one of my most treasured memories.
From that moment on, you treated me like family—always asking after me and my loved ones, always warm, caring, and accommodating. Your compassion was genuine, and you had a way of making people feel seen, welcomed, and valued.
You were more than my friend’s sister-in-law—you became like a big sister to me. Your thoughtfulness, generosity, and beautiful spirit will never be forgotten.
Rest peacefully, dear sister. Your light touched many hearts, and your legacy of love will continue to live on in all of us who were blessed to know.
The news of your passing came as a deep shock to me, and it is still hard to accept.
I first met you through my dear friend, Bukola Okusanya. My very first trip to the U.K. was to visit her and her husband, who had recently relocated and just welcomed their new baby. You didn’t know me personally at the time, yet you graciously gave me a letter of invitation that made that journey possible. That act of kindness opened the door to one of my most treasured memories.
From that moment on, you treated me like family—always asking after me and my loved ones, always warm, caring, and accommodating. Your compassion was genuine, and you had a way of making people feel seen, welcomed, and valued.
You were more than my friend’s sister-in-law—you became like a big sister to me. Your thoughtfulness, generosity, and beautiful spirit will never be forgotten.
Rest peacefully, dear sister. Your light touched many hearts, and your legacy of love will continue to live on in all of us who were blessed to know.
August 9, 2025
Dcness Abisola since we have known you as a member of CUMI over 20 years ago.
You were a very vibrant, energetic and always a willing vessel to serve in the ministry and this you did within many departments.
One important thing which you did and will remain unique was your service to God with us. During our deployment to Milton Keynes as the ministers in-charge, instantly you were committed to serve with us and this you did without fail for over five years. Yourself and Tobi will drive us every week to MK for service and join us on weekly basis for vigil in London. You made the ministry work so easy for us, you impacted lives of branch members in MK, at Ilford branch and at Liberty Kingdom.
To us have become more than a church member or a co-worker in His vineyard, you were indeed to us as a family, everyone in our family know you very well from Nigeria, from UK and from US through many functions that we have embarked on together, your unwavering comradeship was notable to them all and they loved you.
Few of the accolades that you bare which no one is likely to replace: such as Commando,
Governor, Governor of Düsseldorf, Iya-ijo and mama ne. It shows how unique and a huge personality that you were.
We will miss you, but God loves you more for now we say good night.
You were a very vibrant, energetic and always a willing vessel to serve in the ministry and this you did within many departments.
One important thing which you did and will remain unique was your service to God with us. During our deployment to Milton Keynes as the ministers in-charge, instantly you were committed to serve with us and this you did without fail for over five years. Yourself and Tobi will drive us every week to MK for service and join us on weekly basis for vigil in London. You made the ministry work so easy for us, you impacted lives of branch members in MK, at Ilford branch and at Liberty Kingdom.
To us have become more than a church member or a co-worker in His vineyard, you were indeed to us as a family, everyone in our family know you very well from Nigeria, from UK and from US through many functions that we have embarked on together, your unwavering comradeship was notable to them all and they loved you.
Few of the accolades that you bare which no one is likely to replace: such as Commando,
Governor, Governor of Düsseldorf, Iya-ijo and mama ne. It shows how unique and a huge personality that you were.
We will miss you, but God loves you more for now we say good night.
August 8, 2025
Abie as we fondly call you, you are one amazing lady. You were so good to the people in your life, so considerate and caring. You were so selfless that when you give it’s easy to see that that it comes straight from your heart. You are much deserving person. Your passion for the words of God, your generosity towards people and the sisterly love between us, and between you and many others, irrespective of age, colour or race made the world a better place to live. Hmmm 🤔 Thursday 17th July robbed me of the joy, happiness, gossip, love, tears and laughter that we shared for 15 years or more. Since that fateful day I have been calling out to you in tears because I can sense your presence around me. I keep listening out for your late night call as we usually do. It broke my heart ♥️ to lose you Abie because I have lost my confidant, my ever caring, ever supporting sister. I love you Abisola and forever you will live in my heart. My loving memories of you will never fade. It was said that a sunset on earth, is sunrise in heaven. I believe there is jubilation in heaven right now welcoming your arrival. I love you but the Lord loves you more. You are now in the bosom of the almighty Father, your creator, where there is no more pain, no more sorrow, no more crying, no more tears, most of all no more dying! As I reflect on our fellowship and prayer sessions over the years, especially towards the end of your earthly Christian journey, I have conviction in the words of 2 Timothy 4: 7-8; Abisola Okusanya, you have fought the good fight, you have finished your course and have kept the faith. There is a crown 👑 of righteousness laid up for you, which the Lord, the righteous judge shall give to you on that day. My dear sister and friend sleep in eternal peace till we meet at Jesus’ feet. I pray that God will grant your entire family, friends and well wishers the strength and courage to bear the irreparable loss. My thoughts, prayers and heartfelt condolences are with your entire family, friends and well wishers. Love Funmi 💕✝️🌹
August 8, 2025
Deaconess Abisola, you were a remarkably dedicated servant of God, an exceptional church administrator, a wonderful friend to our family, and an example of steadfast faith in good times and challenging times alike. You showed us what a loving heart looked like with your welcoming smile for everyone who had the good fortune to come your way. From the day we walked in as pastors of CUMI Liberty Kingdom, you stood out with your commitment to the vision and mission of the church and your unwavering support for our work.
You were always ready to lend a helping hand and offer a word of support. Usually first into the building, you always waited, even after everyone else had gone home, until we left – you were typically first online even whilst we have had online services. CUMI does not officially have the “Iya Ijo” role, but we all fondly bestowed on you the title of our unofficial “Iya Ijo” – such was your presence and importance in the House of God.
To our children, you were “Aunty Abisola”, and that meant so many good things to each of them. You leave with us a legacy of love, kindness, generosity, and uncompromising faith. Although you are no longer with us physically, you will never be forgotten. We celebrate your life, knowing that you are now at peace with the Lord you served so diligently. We wish your beautiful soul a peaceful rest. Sleep well, “Iya Ijo”, until the beautiful day we all long for.
You were always ready to lend a helping hand and offer a word of support. Usually first into the building, you always waited, even after everyone else had gone home, until we left – you were typically first online even whilst we have had online services. CUMI does not officially have the “Iya Ijo” role, but we all fondly bestowed on you the title of our unofficial “Iya Ijo” – such was your presence and importance in the House of God.
To our children, you were “Aunty Abisola”, and that meant so many good things to each of them. You leave with us a legacy of love, kindness, generosity, and uncompromising faith. Although you are no longer with us physically, you will never be forgotten. We celebrate your life, knowing that you are now at peace with the Lord you served so diligently. We wish your beautiful soul a peaceful rest. Sleep well, “Iya Ijo”, until the beautiful day we all long for.
August 8, 2025
Dearest Abisola,
I remember when you joined the Homeownership Team as a work experience trainee many years ago. You were always so cheeeful, willing to do any and every task required. So determined to do well in Housing. You worked hard and were so very encouraging to manage. I remember when you applied for a role at the Contact Centre and so excited asked for a reference. You remained loyal to Barnet Homes and then more recently progressed to the Rental Income Team. Abisola, you were consistently kind, full of integrity, sincere and genuinely cared about your customers and my kids!!. How are "my babies"? your voice of concern whenever we met in the kitchen area at work.
You are such an immense loss to so many Abi. I am thankful I had the privilege to know you.
Our sincerest condolences to your dear son, family and friends.
Rest in Peace my dear sister and May you rise in Glory. With love Jean, Denzil, Paris, Patrick and Leah xx
I remember when you joined the Homeownership Team as a work experience trainee many years ago. You were always so cheeeful, willing to do any and every task required. So determined to do well in Housing. You worked hard and were so very encouraging to manage. I remember when you applied for a role at the Contact Centre and so excited asked for a reference. You remained loyal to Barnet Homes and then more recently progressed to the Rental Income Team. Abisola, you were consistently kind, full of integrity, sincere and genuinely cared about your customers and my kids!!. How are "my babies"? your voice of concern whenever we met in the kitchen area at work.
You are such an immense loss to so many Abi. I am thankful I had the privilege to know you.
Our sincerest condolences to your dear son, family and friends.
Rest in Peace my dear sister and May you rise in Glory. With love Jean, Denzil, Paris, Patrick and Leah xx
August 8, 2025
Sister,
This is not the farewell we envisaged at all. This is too sudden and shocking. It is with heavy hearts and total submission to God that we bid you goodbye.
We are consoled knowing that you have gone to be with the Lord. We do not mourn like those who do not have Christ.
Sister, may your soul rest in peace. God loves you more than we ever could.
This is not the farewell we envisaged at all. This is too sudden and shocking. It is with heavy hearts and total submission to God that we bid you goodbye.
We are consoled knowing that you have gone to be with the Lord. We do not mourn like those who do not have Christ.
Sister, may your soul rest in peace. God loves you more than we ever could.
August 7, 2025
As we say goodbye to Deaconess Abisola, let us carry her love and laughter in our hearts. Though she is no longer with us physically, her spirit will always resonate within us, reminding us to cherish every moment and value our family bonds.
My family and I, along with many others, celebrate the life of our dear friend Deaconess Abisola, whose radiant smile and infectious laughter brought happiness to everyone fortunate enough to know her.
What I admired most about Deaconess Abisola was her unwavering optimism—even in tough times, she stayed resilient, found light in darkness, and was a pillar of strength at CUMI Liberty Kingdom. She encouraged us all.
I will never forget our trips to the seaside last summer with church members—creating small traditions through inside jokes, sharing food and drinks, and cherishing every moment that helped us bond and support each other.
As we bid farewell to Deaconess Abisola, let us remember the memories we shared and keep alive the traditions we began. Though she may no longer walk beside us, her spirit will live on in our hearts forever and ever.
Sign Deacon Deaconess
Ikechukwu Hope
My family and I, along with many others, celebrate the life of our dear friend Deaconess Abisola, whose radiant smile and infectious laughter brought happiness to everyone fortunate enough to know her.
What I admired most about Deaconess Abisola was her unwavering optimism—even in tough times, she stayed resilient, found light in darkness, and was a pillar of strength at CUMI Liberty Kingdom. She encouraged us all.
I will never forget our trips to the seaside last summer with church members—creating small traditions through inside jokes, sharing food and drinks, and cherishing every moment that helped us bond and support each other.
As we bid farewell to Deaconess Abisola, let us remember the memories we shared and keep alive the traditions we began. Though she may no longer walk beside us, her spirit will live on in our hearts forever and ever.
Sign Deacon Deaconess
Ikechukwu Hope
August 7, 2025
Rest in peace, Mama.
From the moment I landed in the UK, you took me in like your own. You didn’t have to, but you did — with so much love and care. You made sure I felt comfortable , You checked on me constantly, and spoke words of encouragement that kept me going more times than I can count.
You made a strange place feel like home. You filled a gap I didn’t even know I had. I’ll never forget your kindness, your warmth, or the way you always looked out for me like a true mother would.
Thank you for everything. I miss you already.
Rest well.
Samuel ikott
From the moment I landed in the UK, you took me in like your own. You didn’t have to, but you did — with so much love and care. You made sure I felt comfortable , You checked on me constantly, and spoke words of encouragement that kept me going more times than I can count.
You made a strange place feel like home. You filled a gap I didn’t even know I had. I’ll never forget your kindness, your warmth, or the way you always looked out for me like a true mother would.
Thank you for everything. I miss you already.
Rest well.
Samuel ikott
August 6, 2025
DCNS Bisola, you were an epitome of genuine godly love 💕 and kindness.
Rest well my dear sister till we meet to part no more
Rest well my dear sister till we meet to part no more
August 6, 2025
My dear sis Abi, I'm actually lost for words. I never in my wildest dreams thought your time was near. You were so full of life, very bubbly, kind hearted, God fearing, always wanted to solve everyone else's problem. You were the definition of selfless...always gave your best in everything you did. Very hard working and dedicated to both the things of God and your job...you will surely be missed!!!
May your soul rest in eternal peace my dear sis 🙏🏽 ❤️
May your soul rest in eternal peace my dear sis 🙏🏽 ❤️
August 6, 2025
My Big Mom,Friend and Flatmate,The greatest Mama Nee!
It is really sad to have to wish you goodbye.You are a rare Gem the world doesn't have Right now..Your Happiness in chaos,Radiance and Selflessness can't be described.
May the lights lead you home Mama nee🕊️
Continue to rest in the Father's Arms till we meet to part no more
It is really sad to have to wish you goodbye.You are a rare Gem the world doesn't have Right now..Your Happiness in chaos,Radiance and Selflessness can't be described.
May the lights lead you home Mama nee🕊️
Continue to rest in the Father's Arms till we meet to part no more
August 6, 2025
My dear British Garrison Commander can't believe you've passed on...We Thank GOD for your Life and All that you've done as a GOOD Christian Soldier while here on Earth...Adieu my General...GOD BE WITH You TILL WE MEET AGAIN...
August 6, 2025
To our beloved MAMA NEE
Your light may have faded, but your memories will forever shine bright in hearts.
Your love, kindness and spirit touched countless lives, leaving an indelible mark that will never be forgotten.
Can’t believe I will not hear you call me “Principal” again. Thanks for taking care of my children and ensuring that my family is always okay.
You’re a Soildier of Christ, a lovely sister and a caring mother.
Rest on dear Mama Nee, your legacy lives on.
Principal will sure miss you
Your light may have faded, but your memories will forever shine bright in hearts.
Your love, kindness and spirit touched countless lives, leaving an indelible mark that will never be forgotten.
Can’t believe I will not hear you call me “Principal” again. Thanks for taking care of my children and ensuring that my family is always okay.
You’re a Soildier of Christ, a lovely sister and a caring mother.
Rest on dear Mama Nee, your legacy lives on.
Principal will sure miss you
August 6, 2025
Auntie Bisola a.k.a. Mama Ne .
It's still unbelievable that we were discussing about what to wear at your BURIAL!
There's a time , season and purpose for everything in life.
You came,you saw and you conquered.
Thanx for your unwavering Love to Tobi,for your selfless devotion in nurturing Him and your constant commitment to Tobi's well being.
You're a great and devoted Mother to Tobi.
May your gentle soul continue to rest in Perfect peace and you will always remain in our hearts till we meet to part no more, Aminnnnnn 🙏.
Sun re o,omo Agoro bogunbolu,
omo raboye lofi
Omo Olode Ebute
Omo ogun Efon r'ebi ija
Omo Olowo,omo Olokinne
Sun re o.
It's still unbelievable that we were discussing about what to wear at your BURIAL!
There's a time , season and purpose for everything in life.
You came,you saw and you conquered.
Thanx for your unwavering Love to Tobi,for your selfless devotion in nurturing Him and your constant commitment to Tobi's well being.
You're a great and devoted Mother to Tobi.
May your gentle soul continue to rest in Perfect peace and you will always remain in our hearts till we meet to part no more, Aminnnnnn 🙏.
Sun re o,omo Agoro bogunbolu,
omo raboye lofi
Omo Olode Ebute
Omo ogun Efon r'ebi ija
Omo Olowo,omo Olokinne
Sun re o.
August 6, 2025
Sis , I remember my last meeting with you we sat for over 3 hours catching up on old gists. May your soul rest in peace.
August 6, 2025
You will be greatly missed Abiskoko as I fondly called. Rest on till we meet on the resurrection day.
August 6, 2025
A Tribute to a Remarkable Woman:
Mrs. Abisola Okusanya was truly a remarkable woman, a pillar of strength and love in our community. As a devoted mother and ministry helper, she went the extra mile to touch countless lives with her kindness, compassion, and generosity. She poured her resources, heart, and soul into nurturing her son, never losing faith in believing in him. Her selfless devotion to her son is a testament to her unwavering commitment to his well-being and happiness. She would travel miles to check up on him.
A Ministry Helper's Heart:
As a ministry helper, she demonstrated a remarkable gift for serving others. Whether it's lending a listening ear, offering a helping hand, or providing words of encouragement, she was a source of comfort and strength to me. Her humility, compassion, and generosity made a profound impact on our community. I was always sure to receive her calls after every program to encourage and give advice, with resources backing it, to ensure the work of God prospers.
A Personal Touch:
Mama Ne, you gave me the name "PSD" that has now become a household name in ministry. You called me your first son and looked after my family every day, and distance was never a barrier. In her fight and struggle with death, she was unwavering in faith and did her best not to disturb anyone with her problems, yet sticking her neck out for everyone that came her way.
A Memory of Love:
I daily wake up expecting your call and chat as we used to do, but each day ends in emptiness and pain, knowing you are no more. The only hope I have is that you died in Christ and you are now in heaven's gain, till we meet again at the feet of our Lord and master. "Sun Re O Mama Ne".
From:
Prophet Sunday Dopamu
Mrs. Abisola Okusanya was truly a remarkable woman, a pillar of strength and love in our community. As a devoted mother and ministry helper, she went the extra mile to touch countless lives with her kindness, compassion, and generosity. She poured her resources, heart, and soul into nurturing her son, never losing faith in believing in him. Her selfless devotion to her son is a testament to her unwavering commitment to his well-being and happiness. She would travel miles to check up on him.
A Ministry Helper's Heart:
As a ministry helper, she demonstrated a remarkable gift for serving others. Whether it's lending a listening ear, offering a helping hand, or providing words of encouragement, she was a source of comfort and strength to me. Her humility, compassion, and generosity made a profound impact on our community. I was always sure to receive her calls after every program to encourage and give advice, with resources backing it, to ensure the work of God prospers.
A Personal Touch:
Mama Ne, you gave me the name "PSD" that has now become a household name in ministry. You called me your first son and looked after my family every day, and distance was never a barrier. In her fight and struggle with death, she was unwavering in faith and did her best not to disturb anyone with her problems, yet sticking her neck out for everyone that came her way.
A Memory of Love:
I daily wake up expecting your call and chat as we used to do, but each day ends in emptiness and pain, knowing you are no more. The only hope I have is that you died in Christ and you are now in heaven's gain, till we meet again at the feet of our Lord and master. "Sun Re O Mama Ne".
From:
Prophet Sunday Dopamu
August 6, 2025
You were like a mother and a guardian to me and I appreciate all your love and advice.
May your family always receive the love and care that you showed to others.
Rest in perfect peace x x
May your family always receive the love and care that you showed to others.
Rest in perfect peace x x
August 6, 2025
A tribute to Mama Ne
What a woman!
Mama Ne was the kindest, happiest,
most caring person I think I’ve ever met
From her great smile to her considerate actions
she would be positive in every moment
She was always looking out
for people even on her ‘bad’ days
Anything you might be struggling with she’ll always put your feelings first
I’ve loved all the memories with her that I have shared
She could make you smile,
laugh and feel safe to show she really cared
The infamous spicy red stew that I needed 10 glasses of water for
She couldn’t tell the difference because that is what she had made before
Her selfless act of kindness made me cheer up when I was down
Even arguments with my family she always stuck around
She always called me “Pumblyshook” as that was her favorite nickname for me
Oh how I loved that name she said to me every time she called me
What a woman I say
What a wonderful, beautiful, kind person!
I’ll keep her my heart forever and never ever forget her and all the love she had shown me
and others.
What a woman!
Mama Ne was the kindest, happiest,
most caring person I think I’ve ever met
From her great smile to her considerate actions
she would be positive in every moment
She was always looking out
for people even on her ‘bad’ days
Anything you might be struggling with she’ll always put your feelings first
I’ve loved all the memories with her that I have shared
She could make you smile,
laugh and feel safe to show she really cared
The infamous spicy red stew that I needed 10 glasses of water for
She couldn’t tell the difference because that is what she had made before
Her selfless act of kindness made me cheer up when I was down
Even arguments with my family she always stuck around
She always called me “Pumblyshook” as that was her favorite nickname for me
Oh how I loved that name she said to me every time she called me
What a woman I say
What a wonderful, beautiful, kind person!
I’ll keep her my heart forever and never ever forget her and all the love she had shown me
and others.
August 6, 2025
The Great Mama Nee,
Bet you’re looking down from heaven with the angels, smiling and wishing we’d stop crying; knowing you’re in a better place.
Words can’t express how we feel or the void your departure will leave. You are one of a kind. A truly remarkable, strong woman. A child of God.
Still unbelievable to think you won't be here again. Despite your hard exterior and shakara (lol), you are one of the most generous people I know. Always giving, always loving.
London for us will never be the same.
Rest well, the one, the only, the Great Mama Nee. We love you dearly. Till we meet again at the feet of Jesus.
Your daughter - Bukiiiiiii (in your voice).
Bet you’re looking down from heaven with the angels, smiling and wishing we’d stop crying; knowing you’re in a better place.
Words can’t express how we feel or the void your departure will leave. You are one of a kind. A truly remarkable, strong woman. A child of God.
Still unbelievable to think you won't be here again. Despite your hard exterior and shakara (lol), you are one of the most generous people I know. Always giving, always loving.
London for us will never be the same.
Rest well, the one, the only, the Great Mama Nee. We love you dearly. Till we meet again at the feet of Jesus.
Your daughter - Bukiiiiiii (in your voice).
August 6, 2025
To me, Mama Ne was a second mother. She was someone who cared for me and my family greatly. She was an amazing woman who always thought of others before herself – selfless, kind and always joyful.
I cherish the time we spent together whenever we visited and stayed with her, times full of laughter and jest. She was kind and always loved to spoil me and my sister – I have fond memories of times she took us around London, to parks, the cinema and making us feel at home with her. Although I wish for more, I thank God for all the wonderful time I got to spend with her.
The way Mama Ne cared for you was special; she would always check up on me and how I was doing. She would support and pray over me powerfully - especially in busy periods and through exams. I have learnt from her what it is to care, and I am inspired to carry that forward in my life and care for others better.
“My dearest” Mama Ne you will always hold a place in my heart.
I cherish the time we spent together whenever we visited and stayed with her, times full of laughter and jest. She was kind and always loved to spoil me and my sister – I have fond memories of times she took us around London, to parks, the cinema and making us feel at home with her. Although I wish for more, I thank God for all the wonderful time I got to spend with her.
The way Mama Ne cared for you was special; she would always check up on me and how I was doing. She would support and pray over me powerfully - especially in busy periods and through exams. I have learnt from her what it is to care, and I am inspired to carry that forward in my life and care for others better.
“My dearest” Mama Ne you will always hold a place in my heart.
August 6, 2025
Mama Nee. It still feels so unreal that you are gone. You were a very caring and wonderful person. It’s no doubt that you will be greatly missed. I believe you are in a better place now. I pray your soul rests in perfect peace, amen.
Love you forever❤️
Love you forever❤️
August 6, 2025
Mama Nee, I can't believe I'm writing your tribute this early. Words fail me soo bad and the tears have been hard to control.
Losing Mama Nee has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever faced. Her passing still feels unreal, and I don’t think I’ll ever fully understand it. But even in my pain, I choose not to question God, He knows best.
Mama Nee was more than an aunty to me. She was my mummy, my big mummy. Despite the distance between us, I always felt her love deeply. She had so much love to give, and she gave it freely to me, my siblings, all our cousins and everyone lucky to have known her.
I’ll always remember our long phone calls, talking about everything and anything.
Who will I discuss the latest Nollywood movies with now? "Sharon, Funke Akindele ti drop new movie lori Netflix sho ti wo" Ahh Mama Nee I miss you sooo much, it hurts.
Your prayers, your excitement when it's our birthday, the way you’d be the first to celebrate us on the family group chat, and of course, the many, many gifts. Mama Nee will always come bearing giftsssss, for the entire compound and possibly the entire neighbourhood!
Another amazing thing about Mama Nee was her love for God. She loved the Lord deeply, and she loved the church too. That gives me comfort, knowing she’s resting in His presence now.
It breaks my heart that she won’t be here to witness my other milestones. But I’ll carry her with me in my heart through it all. Her love, her words, and her memory will always be part of me.
This pain is deep, and moving on has been hard. I miss her voice. I miss her laughter. I miss everything about her.
I love you, Mama Nee. I’m glad I said it often during our calls, but I wish I had said it even more the last time we spoke. I didn’t know it would be our last.
Rest well, Mama Nee. I hope you’ve found peace in the arms of our Lord.
Like you'd always say at the end of our calls "Love youuuuu, bye bye bye bye bye bye bye"
Your Amoke.
Losing Mama Nee has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever faced. Her passing still feels unreal, and I don’t think I’ll ever fully understand it. But even in my pain, I choose not to question God, He knows best.
Mama Nee was more than an aunty to me. She was my mummy, my big mummy. Despite the distance between us, I always felt her love deeply. She had so much love to give, and she gave it freely to me, my siblings, all our cousins and everyone lucky to have known her.
I’ll always remember our long phone calls, talking about everything and anything.
Who will I discuss the latest Nollywood movies with now? "Sharon, Funke Akindele ti drop new movie lori Netflix sho ti wo" Ahh Mama Nee I miss you sooo much, it hurts.
Your prayers, your excitement when it's our birthday, the way you’d be the first to celebrate us on the family group chat, and of course, the many, many gifts. Mama Nee will always come bearing giftsssss, for the entire compound and possibly the entire neighbourhood!
Another amazing thing about Mama Nee was her love for God. She loved the Lord deeply, and she loved the church too. That gives me comfort, knowing she’s resting in His presence now.
It breaks my heart that she won’t be here to witness my other milestones. But I’ll carry her with me in my heart through it all. Her love, her words, and her memory will always be part of me.
This pain is deep, and moving on has been hard. I miss her voice. I miss her laughter. I miss everything about her.
I love you, Mama Nee. I’m glad I said it often during our calls, but I wish I had said it even more the last time we spoke. I didn’t know it would be our last.
Rest well, Mama Nee. I hope you’ve found peace in the arms of our Lord.
Like you'd always say at the end of our calls "Love youuuuu, bye bye bye bye bye bye bye"
Your Amoke.
August 5, 2025
Mom,
You were the heart of our home — full of grace, strength, and unconditional love.
You gave without expecting anything in return, always putting others before yourself.
You taught me how to love, how to pray, how to forgive, and how to keep going even when life felt heavy.
Your hands were never still — always cooking, cleaning, giving, and comforting.
Your smile lit up every room.
Your faith in God was unwavering, and your love was endless.
I thank God for every moment I had with you.
Though you are no longer here physically, your spirit lives on in everything I do.
I carry your lessons, your laughter, and your love with me always.
Rest peacefully, Mama.
You’ll forever be missed, forever remembered, and forever loved
August 5, 2025
Mama Née thank you for all that you have contributed in my life. From the time you came with us to Barcelona to the time in Canada. Don’t worry the efo legusi is in heaven now. Let us now celebrate the work God has done in your life as you are a testament of God’s goodness. May you rest in peace Mama nee love you.
August 5, 2025
"Mama Née, your passing leaves a void in the lives of those who loved you, but your memory will live on in our hearts. Your love, kindness, and generosity touched so many lives, and we'll cherish the memories we shared with you. May you rest in peace, surrounded by love and peace. May your loved ones find comfort in the memories of your life and the impact you had on theirs."
August 5, 2025
Mama Nèe, I still can’t believe or wrap my head around the fact that you’re gone. I know you’re resting now and that comforts me but I long to hear your voice, your laughter, you telling me how the royal family is doing, and you calling me professor and your “daughter” again. You were always so attentive to details, kind, and caring, to everyone and wanted to show the love of God. We now celebrate the work God has done in your life as you are a testament of God’s goodness. Your soul will continue to live on eternally, I love you very much mama née, you are missed dearly.
August 5, 2025
The Great Mama Nee, I am writing this tribute with a heart full of sorrow and still in disbelief that you are gone. Words written here can never fully capture the depth of your spirit or the impact you had on our lives. You were more than a Sister to me, my second Mummy. We are infinitely grateful for the years we had you. Your legacy is not in what you did, but in who you were, a truly beautiful soul, so selfless till the end. You said on the morning of your passing away that you are going home which I believed. You fought till the end. You have fought the good fight, finished the race, and kept the faith. We will remember your smile, cherish your love, and honour your memory by living with the kindness and strength you exemplified. You are forever in our hearts, our precious sister, our irreplaceable Greaaaat Mama Neeeeee. Until we meet again Sunre o, Sunre o, Sunre o
August 5, 2025
Mama nee, writing this so soon is soooo difficult😭, is it your thoughtfulness, selflessness, giving heart, humor, prayerfulness, service and dedication to God and His work even on your sick bed, well I submit to God’s total will cos heaven has just gained a renowned soldier, rest in Him till we meet again my sweet sweet stylish sister for life. UNFORGETTABLE, that’s who you are, missed you dearly 😥🥰
August 4, 2025
The great mama née!!! You took your wings just like that and it is still unbelievable that you’re no more, God knows best. You always look out for everyone: family and friends. You’re always cooking and supporting others even when it’s not convenient for you. You’re a soldier of Christ running towards Christ and making heaven your goal, those chicken fights has no meaning now, I will definitely miss you my biggest sister, Maggie T will definitely miss you. May your soul rest in peace, our whole family will miss you, the great mama née. Sun re o omo agoro bogunbolu.
August 4, 2025
With heavy heart, I'm writing this tribute, my dearest and precious sister, I didn't know it will come so soon, you were my confidant,helper, we shared a lot of useful talks, advice etc together, sister words cannot describe your benevolence and sacrifice to the family, I still cannot comprehend that you are no more, ha sister you fought a good fight of faith but we cannot question God, sister I will forever miss you, you always call me bajoki bajoki, thanks for all your efforts in keeping us together as a family, you will forever live in our hearts, sister mi, I know you are in a better place,that gave us succor because you gave your life to Christ and you served him till the very end, good night sister mi, adieu, till we meet on the resurrection morning
August 2, 2025
Wow this is very sad and shocking.
May Aunty Bisola's soul continue to rest in peace.
May Aunty Bisola's soul continue to rest in peace.
Service
Please join us to pay a last tribute.
We will come together to remember and pay tribute to our dearest Abisola aka Mama Nee.
While we mourn the loss of our dear mum, sister, in-law, friend and colleague, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy she brought into our lives.
Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
We will come together to remember and pay tribute to our dearest Abisola aka Mama Nee.
While we mourn the loss of our dear mum, sister, in-law, friend and colleague, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy she brought into our lives.
Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
Service of songs
St Peter's Church Hall Muswell Hill
Albion avenue, London N10 1AQ
Albion avenue, London N10 1AQ
20th August 2025 / Time: 7pm
Funeral Service
Islington Cemetery Chapel
278 High Rd, London N2 9AG
278 High Rd, London N2 9AG
21st August 2025; 11:00am
INTERNMENT
Islington and St Pancras Cemetery
278 High Rd, London N2 9AG
278 High Rd, London N2 9AG
21st August 2025; 12:00 noon
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