Abie J. Adese
Abie J. Adese
"Well done, good and faithful servant"
Matthew 25:23 ESV
Obituary
With deep sorrow, yet unwavering faith in God’s grace, we announce the passing of Mrs. Abiemwense (Abie) Adese (née Aghayere), a beloved wife, mother, entrepreneur, and friend whose life reflected love, service, and devotion to God and others.
Abie was born on November 21, 1975, and spent her formative years at 41 Aruosa Street in Benin City, Nigeria. From a young age, she displayed a remarkable motherly instinct, caring for everyone around her with joy and dedication. Whether cooking meals, running errands, or helping to keep the home, she did all things with a cheerful heart. Indeed, her life reflected the beauty of Scripture: “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come” (Proverbs 31:25). Her contagious smile and joyful laughter brought warmth and light into every room she entered.
She attended Idia College before pursuing greater opportunities abroad, immigrating to Canada on October 11, 1997. With determination and resilience, she earned a diploma in Accounting from Humber College and later obtained a degree in Health Studies from York University. Her strong work ethic and entrepreneurial spirit led her to establish Fountain Cleaning Services in 2006, which she faithfully operated with excellence and integrity until her passing. In all she did, she embodied the principle: “Let all that you do be done in love” (1 Corinthians 16:14).
Her beautiful love story began in 1994 at the United Bank for Africa (UBA) on Akpakpava Street in Benin City, where a simple errand led to a life-changing encounter with her future husband, Sam Adese. Sam was first drawn to Abie by her thoughtful nature and her habit of making detailed, long to-do lists. After admiring her from afar, he approached her, and the rest is history—to the glory of God. To Sam, Abie’s stunning beauty, reminiscent of her mother’s, was an added blessing. Their love blossomed into a lifelong partnership, and on April 1, 2000, she married her beloved husband, Sam Adese, in Cook County, Chicago. Together, they built a loving home and settled in Brampton, Canada, in 2003, raising their family with care, faith, and devotion. In Sam’s words, Abie truly lived out the virtues of Proverbs 31.
Abie was a devoted follower of Jesus Christ. She and her family attended Hope Church in Mississauga, Ontario, where she served faithfully in the choir. She was also actively involved in Hope Kids, the Welcome Ministry, and the women’s ministry. She was a woman of deep and abiding faith who loved the Lord Jesus wholeheartedly. Her life was marked by selfless love, generosity, compassion, empathy, and a joyful spirit that uplifted all who knew her. Even in this time of loss, we hold firmly to the promise of Christ: “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die” (John 11:25).
She is lovingly remembered by her devoted husband, Sam Adese; her cherished daughters, Onome and Robor; and her beloved son, Toby. Though our hearts are heavy, we take comfort in knowing that “the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18).
As we grieve this great loss, we lean on the assurance of God’s presence and care, trusting that “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want” (Psalm 23:1). We pray that He will continue to strengthen and uphold her family in the days ahead. Abie’s legacy of selfless love, generous giving, compassion, and deep faith will continue to live on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her. And we rest in the hope of eternal reward, hearing the words: “Well done, good and faithful servant… Enter into the joy of your Lord” (Matthew 25:23).
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April 18, 2026
My dearest aunty Abies, I can’t bring myself to use past tense when I think of you. So I won’t until I have to. I struggle to find the right words to convey just how much you mean to me. How do I describe the weight of your absence?
Maybe a metaphor? Being loved by you feels like being hugged by the sun. You can’t leave my aunty’s table without 2 things. A full belly and a smile. Last year my husband found himself in Toronto for work — Aunty Abi offered her place to kick back and what he didn’t know at the time is the single backpack he brought with him on the plane would be far too small for the 20 pounds of Nigerian food she sent him home with. I still have some of her egusi soup saved in our freezer.
How about a song?
“I’ve got the joy joy joy joy down in my heart.”
If the essence of who you are could be captured in a verse, you, my darling aunty, the person you are and the way you danced… the way you dance through this life, juicing it for all it’s worth, marked by such joy…
THAT would be your song.
Maybe there is a word that could hold the part of you Aunty that I’m most desperate to hold close.
“AH-WAH-WREEH-VMEE”
It’s means “enjoy life”. It’s meant to be lived. It’s a word I borrowed from you. — and you did — enjoy life with all your loving heart.
“AH-WAH-WREEH-VMEE”
Like a blessing. A benediction. A call to action. Words fail me, aunty. But you never did.
You are a light. A path. And nourishment for the journey… (SO much nourishment)
And you were…… no. You ARE loved.
Thanks aunty.
Maybe a metaphor? Being loved by you feels like being hugged by the sun. You can’t leave my aunty’s table without 2 things. A full belly and a smile. Last year my husband found himself in Toronto for work — Aunty Abi offered her place to kick back and what he didn’t know at the time is the single backpack he brought with him on the plane would be far too small for the 20 pounds of Nigerian food she sent him home with. I still have some of her egusi soup saved in our freezer.
How about a song?
“I’ve got the joy joy joy joy down in my heart.”
If the essence of who you are could be captured in a verse, you, my darling aunty, the person you are and the way you danced… the way you dance through this life, juicing it for all it’s worth, marked by such joy…
THAT would be your song.
Maybe there is a word that could hold the part of you Aunty that I’m most desperate to hold close.
“AH-WAH-WREEH-VMEE”
It’s means “enjoy life”. It’s meant to be lived. It’s a word I borrowed from you. — and you did — enjoy life with all your loving heart.
“AH-WAH-WREEH-VMEE”
Like a blessing. A benediction. A call to action. Words fail me, aunty. But you never did.
You are a light. A path. And nourishment for the journey… (SO much nourishment)
And you were…… no. You ARE loved.
Thanks aunty.
April 18, 2026
Abie is one of a kind. God gave her so many wonderful gifts, which she used for His glory and the good of everyone around her everyday.
One such time was about 15 years ago when I was a young mom with 4 little kids and had just given birth to our 5th baby. Abie asked to come over and, not only did she bring our family food, but she also brought her cleaning supplies and spent the next several hours cleaning our house from top to bottom. She cleaned places and things that I had never cleaned before. She cleaned with joy and a song on her lips. Even though she was likely tired from cleaning all week at work, she didn’t hesitate to help another tired and weary friend. She loved our whole family and we all loved her and her family! We will miss her so much. And we’ll be praying particularly for Sam, Onome, Robor, Tobore & all of Abie & Sam’s extended family as we grieve together.
These photos were taken a few years ago at a New Year’s Eve Party with a bunch of our church family. Abie thought it was so fun that we were twinning that night so of course we had to capture a picture together!
One such time was about 15 years ago when I was a young mom with 4 little kids and had just given birth to our 5th baby. Abie asked to come over and, not only did she bring our family food, but she also brought her cleaning supplies and spent the next several hours cleaning our house from top to bottom. She cleaned places and things that I had never cleaned before. She cleaned with joy and a song on her lips. Even though she was likely tired from cleaning all week at work, she didn’t hesitate to help another tired and weary friend. She loved our whole family and we all loved her and her family! We will miss her so much. And we’ll be praying particularly for Sam, Onome, Robor, Tobore & all of Abie & Sam’s extended family as we grieve together.
These photos were taken a few years ago at a New Year’s Eve Party with a bunch of our church family. Abie thought it was so fun that we were twinning that night so of course we had to capture a picture together!
April 18, 2026
Abby,
I’m still struggling to accept that you’re gone. It doesn’t feel real.
After more than thirty years, I saw you again last December—and somehow, in just a few hours, it felt like no time had passed at all. We laughed, we talked, we slipped so easily back into the warmth of old memories. I remember thinking how effortless it was, how natural it felt to be around you again.
What stayed with me most was you—unchanged in all the ways that mattered. Still warm. Still graceful. Still carrying that quiet, beautiful energy that made people feel comfortable and welcome. It was so clear that life had only added to who you were, never taken away from it.
I left our meeting in December with a quiet happiness, believing we had found our way back to each other and that there would be more moments, more conversations, more laughter ahead. I didn’t know I was saying goodbye.
There’s a deep ache in that. But alongside it, there’s gratitude. I’m grateful that I saw you again. Grateful that we shared that time. Grateful that I got to be reminded of the kind of person you were—and always will be in my memory.
I will carry that moment with me. .
Rest well, Abby.
— Osagie
I’m still struggling to accept that you’re gone. It doesn’t feel real.
After more than thirty years, I saw you again last December—and somehow, in just a few hours, it felt like no time had passed at all. We laughed, we talked, we slipped so easily back into the warmth of old memories. I remember thinking how effortless it was, how natural it felt to be around you again.
What stayed with me most was you—unchanged in all the ways that mattered. Still warm. Still graceful. Still carrying that quiet, beautiful energy that made people feel comfortable and welcome. It was so clear that life had only added to who you were, never taken away from it.
I left our meeting in December with a quiet happiness, believing we had found our way back to each other and that there would be more moments, more conversations, more laughter ahead. I didn’t know I was saying goodbye.
There’s a deep ache in that. But alongside it, there’s gratitude. I’m grateful that I saw you again. Grateful that we shared that time. Grateful that I got to be reminded of the kind of person you were—and always will be in my memory.
I will carry that moment with me. .
Rest well, Abby.
— Osagie
April 18, 2026
A dear sister in Christ walking together in prayer! I will miss her, and see her again one day! ❤️
April 18, 2026
What a huge loss to this generation indeed!!! Aunty Abie I remember the first day I meet you, you were warm, welcoming and a great host. I remember the love you showed to me and my new born, you would commonly say, chinwe give me this baby and go get some sleep. Thank you aunty Abie for your love and generosity. You were full of life and light, my condolences to uncle Sam, Onome, Robor and Toby whom you left behind and to all your family; siblings, sisters in law may God console them also.
Go well Aunty Abie!!!
Go well Aunty Abie!!!
April 17, 2026
If there's anything I learned from knowing Mrs. Adese as "Robor's mom", it's that she set an incredible example for both of her daughters in how to be truly good and kind people. It is a privilege to have grown up with Robor and Onome throughout our middle school and highschool years. It was always clear to me how supportive Mrs. Adese was of both of her daughters' achievements and inherited love of music. Without fail, she was always there for all of the Rosebud Orchestra and Gage concerts, and many school celebrations. She has and will always have so much to be proud of, with her legacy and contagious smile carrying on in her three children. Sending my sincerest condolences to Robor, Onome, Toby, Mr. Adese, and the many friends and family Abie was so deeply loved by.
April 17, 2026
May the angels welcome you home. May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace. May your memory forever be a blessing to all in Jesus's name. Amen
April 17, 2026
I didn't see you physically but I met you through the testimony of the kind of God woman that were. I actually hoped to see you one until I heard you have gone to be with your maker. Auntie Continue to rest well.
April 16, 2026
Aunty Abiessssssss
It’s hard to think of you in past tense. I’m grateful I got to experience your light, your love and the essence of you. We will hold those memories dear to our hearts, we love you deeply but God loves you more. Rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.
It’s hard to think of you in past tense. I’m grateful I got to experience your light, your love and the essence of you. We will hold those memories dear to our hearts, we love you deeply but God loves you more. Rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.
April 16, 2026
Dearest childhood friend abievbenmwense aghayere as i have always called you since primary school,
.our mums where also friends ,your absence leaves a profound void in my heart,
I will forever cherish the laughter and memories we shared.
Your spirit, so vibrant and full of life, will continue to inspire me.
Though you are no longer with us, your light will never fade.
Rest in peace, dear friend, you will be deeply missed. Abievbenmwense .
.our mums where also friends ,your absence leaves a profound void in my heart,
I will forever cherish the laughter and memories we shared.
Your spirit, so vibrant and full of life, will continue to inspire me.
Though you are no longer with us, your light will never fade.
Rest in peace, dear friend, you will be deeply missed. Abievbenmwense .
April 16, 2026
Hi auntie
I miss you....I miss your calls, your voice, your beautiful and astonishing smile...I miss you
I really hoped to see you one day, to finally hug my auntie, to see her beautiful smile in person...
The way you encouraged me...your soft words could make anyone happy even in his most depressing days
So it is true....I won't see your beautiful smile again, nobody is going to call me 'winny' again, nobody.....
I really wanted to make you proud auntie, to see that your words of encouragement finally paid off
Auntie, I promise, I will make you proud, I will....just wanted you to be there to see it💔
Couldn't imagine that I will ever say these words to you.....
Rest in peace auntie Abie
You had the prettiest smile ever, and we will all do our best to keep that smile forever
Goodbye..... auntie Abie💔
I miss you....I miss your calls, your voice, your beautiful and astonishing smile...I miss you
I really hoped to see you one day, to finally hug my auntie, to see her beautiful smile in person...
The way you encouraged me...your soft words could make anyone happy even in his most depressing days
So it is true....I won't see your beautiful smile again, nobody is going to call me 'winny' again, nobody.....
I really wanted to make you proud auntie, to see that your words of encouragement finally paid off
Auntie, I promise, I will make you proud, I will....just wanted you to be there to see it💔
Couldn't imagine that I will ever say these words to you.....
Rest in peace auntie Abie
You had the prettiest smile ever, and we will all do our best to keep that smile forever
Goodbye..... auntie Abie💔
April 16, 2026
My deepest condolences to you Uncle Sam, Onome, Robor and Toby.
Auntie Abies was truly heaven-sent. She was a true blessing in our lives, especially during my early days of motherhood. The love and care she showed to my son Nigel and I will never be forgotten.
Her nurturing spirit, gentle heart, and selfless love were a reflection of God’s grace. She was an angel on earth, and I feel so blessed to have experienced her presence in our lives.
May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace and continue to watch over all of us 🕊️ She will forever live in our hearts.
Auntie Abies was truly heaven-sent. She was a true blessing in our lives, especially during my early days of motherhood. The love and care she showed to my son Nigel and I will never be forgotten.
Her nurturing spirit, gentle heart, and selfless love were a reflection of God’s grace. She was an angel on earth, and I feel so blessed to have experienced her presence in our lives.
May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace and continue to watch over all of us 🕊️ She will forever live in our hearts.
April 16, 2026
Abie you were a sister to my family and I both in the Lord and in deed. A rare gem with no "airs", direct and honest, always lighting up every room or person you met. You were always kind, basking confidently in your substantial gifts for hospitality and generosity, ever ready to put in a hand when help needed at Small group or elsewhere. Amongst so many memories one that stands out for me was on your last Saturday returning from watching your daughter Robor's drama performance in Waterloo unexpectedly turning up at our door afterwards at 10pm in driving rain with a large food parcel. When I quizzed you on why didn't leave this till tomorrow at church, you replied "no, I really didn't want this to wait till Sunday". This was classic Abie: always placing her "Light on a stand" just as Jesus implored his disciples in Mat 5:16. Adieu sister, you are so missed but hoping to join you again sometime at the feet of our Father in heaven.
April 15, 2026
Abies was such a kind and gentle soul. May God comfort and strengthen the family and may her soul rest in peace. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
April 15, 2026
Heaven has gained a beautiful soul. Abie’s life was a true reflection of God's love and kindness, and her faith shone brightly to everyone who knew her.
I had the pleasure of serving with Abie on Team 3 for many years at Hope Church. Abie would light up the room with her beautiful smile. She gave the best hugs and I will surly miss those.
Sam and family, may the peace of Jesus, which passes all understanding, bring solace to your heart during this difficult time. Abie was such a wonderful blessing and will be missed by all who knew her. ❤️
2 Timothy 4:7-8: "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."
I had the pleasure of serving with Abie on Team 3 for many years at Hope Church. Abie would light up the room with her beautiful smile. She gave the best hugs and I will surly miss those.
Sam and family, may the peace of Jesus, which passes all understanding, bring solace to your heart during this difficult time. Abie was such a wonderful blessing and will be missed by all who knew her. ❤️
2 Timothy 4:7-8: "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."
April 15, 2026
Rest peacefully our dear Aunty Abie. Your infectious smile lights up any room you step into.
Thank you for the love and support you showed us when we landed in Canada, those memories we will forever cherish. It’s hard to say goodbye but we are consoled that God knows best.
Till we meet again on the resurrection morning, Adieu “Mother of all” as I fondly called you💔
Thank you for the love and support you showed us when we landed in Canada, those memories we will forever cherish. It’s hard to say goodbye but we are consoled that God knows best.
Till we meet again on the resurrection morning, Adieu “Mother of all” as I fondly called you💔
April 14, 2026
Auntie Abie. I leave these words as a tribute to your remarkable strength of character, your loving heart, and your beautiful laugh. I leave them for your beautiful babies - our sweet Onome, Robor, and Tobore - and your beloved, my dear brother-in-law Sam. I do not know that I have met a better person in this life, someone so selfless and giving, whose faith guided them to treat every person with overwhelming dignity and respect. You welcomed me into your home and your family, united as we were in loving our Sam Adese's, brothers of the same name. We were united in raising princes (and in your case, princesses), and as we love yours, you have loved ours so completely. You were the one to hold us in our darkest moments when I was so very sure that we could not go on, and you celebrated our truest joy with us, widening your family circle even further for an additional young prince. You gave us all a home, and a family, and reminded us that in a world that can often seem so isolating, that true human connection is at the very foundation of how we should strive to live our lives. The many lessons you taught me, I will carry them forward for the rest of my life (except jollof - you tried, but I'm sorry Auntie Abie, I'll never be able to replicate your jollof). From Adavono, for whom there will never be another Auntie who holds such a place in his heart: "You are the best auntie ever. And your puff puff is the best in the world. Thank you for teaching me your special ingredient." While our faiths may have taken us down different paths, I know that in the end we will see one another again and I look forward to that day. For now, we will thank you every day for your generosity of spirit and care by loving Sam and your beautiful children as fiercely as they will allow us. Rest well, my sister.
April 14, 2026
My beloved Aunty Abies
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Words have failed me oooh Aunty Abie, this shouldn’t be happening. I have been waiting patiently for all this to be a prank 😢
How do we all live without you Aunty Abie?
How do we celebrate new years, birthdays and parties without you, you brought so much joy and laughter to our lives
How do we recover from this Aunty Abie?
Life indeed isn’t fair.
I always looked forward to hearing from you and seeing you Aunty Abie, we don’t talk often but whenever we do, you always remind me of how beautiful life is with your kind words and beautiful smile, Ahhhh that Smile Aunty Abie, it was heavenly 😢😢.
Words have really failed me, my heart is so heavy, I can’t believe I’m writing a tribute to you my Beloved Aunty Abie
Please rest well my Beautiful Aunty Abie
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Words have failed me oooh Aunty Abie, this shouldn’t be happening. I have been waiting patiently for all this to be a prank 😢
How do we all live without you Aunty Abie?
How do we celebrate new years, birthdays and parties without you, you brought so much joy and laughter to our lives
How do we recover from this Aunty Abie?
Life indeed isn’t fair.
I always looked forward to hearing from you and seeing you Aunty Abie, we don’t talk often but whenever we do, you always remind me of how beautiful life is with your kind words and beautiful smile, Ahhhh that Smile Aunty Abie, it was heavenly 😢😢.
Words have really failed me, my heart is so heavy, I can’t believe I’m writing a tribute to you my Beloved Aunty Abie
Please rest well my Beautiful Aunty Abie
April 14, 2026
Siz Abi, words fail me at this moment. I am forever grateful to you and your family for welcoming me to Canada. I am deeply indebted for how selfless you were as a person never have I met anyone with such an amazing heart. When I was ready to move to my own place you gifted me so many things that I still use in my house today.
To uncle Sam and the kids, may you be comforted. Rest well Abies.
Always, Karibu.
To uncle Sam and the kids, may you be comforted. Rest well Abies.
Always, Karibu.
April 13, 2026
I still can’t believe you’re no more, but as the days went by I realized that it is not a dream. I am confident that you had gone to be the lord. You were such an amazing sister and cousin. Your love for everyone will be greatly missed. You lived a short but impactful life as anyone who came close to you can attest to this. Thank you for all the love you shared. May your gentle soul rest in peace. Osatohanmwen Gudbadia
April 13, 2026
A gentle woman, quiet light. Morning star, so strong and bright. Gentle mother , peaceful dove. Always teaching wisdom and love. A real sister in-law. Heaven"s gain. Perfect peace Abie J. Adese.
Miss you.
Osasenaga D. Guobadia
Classmate/In-law
Miss you.
Osasenaga D. Guobadia
Classmate/In-law
April 12, 2026
Abie, this is too soon. I avoided writing this because doing so felt like accepting a reality I was not ready to face. But now, for the sake of your memory, and for your wonderful children and husband, I must come to terms with this painful loss: the loss of you, my wife (in-law, as I sometimes call you). There is little I can say that has not already been said, I suppose, at this point. But I came to know Abie here in Canada, meeting her a few months after the birth of her child. She welcomed me with open arms. It was a couple of years before I saw her again, yet when I did, it felt as though no time had passed. Perhaps it was because of the warmth with which she welcomed me into her home, the same home where, sadly, she passed, so genuinely happy to see me. I am sure others have spoken about her cooking, but I do not know many people, perhaps this is my bias, who could compare. Abie always made sure I had something to eat and even something to take home. Even when I arrived unannounced, she would insist on preparing a meal, warmly urging, Brother Sam, you must have something. My personal relationship with her was special, but her kindness extended beyond me to my wife and my son. I could go on and on, but one of the most important things to say is this: she was an incredible mother and wife to her three wonderful children (my children by familial bond). I experienced her motherly love and care firsthand during holidays, when my wife and I would stay with the family visiting after moving away. What I am trying to say, in this moment of grief, is that we have lost a truly wonderful person, a remarkable woman and wife. Her passing has left a deep vacuum in the family. Her gentle spirit and her ability to make even strangers feel at home make this loss all the more heartbreaking. To my nieces and nephew, I love you. And to my brother, I grieve with you; in sorrow, and in remembrance of her joy. Take heart in knowing that she has gone to a place where there is peace, where pain no longer exists, and where her beautiful soul will rest, and may perpetual light shine upon her.
April 12, 2026
We knew Abbie for years, she was one of our church families. Her confident and contagious big smiles, hugs, and little jokes were always a part of our Sunday mornings' greet at church. When one of us was not on her sight, she would ask about it. Although my son has not been attending church for a long time, she would from time to time asked about him.
I look forwad to see her again in the future.
So long, sister. We have Hope, Hope has us. One day everything will be revealed as an eternal reality, together we will sing joy for the Lord is our Salavation forever and ever.
Enil, Jeff, Nathaniel
I look forwad to see her again in the future.
So long, sister. We have Hope, Hope has us. One day everything will be revealed as an eternal reality, together we will sing joy for the Lord is our Salavation forever and ever.
Enil, Jeff, Nathaniel
April 12, 2026
Thank you Aunty Abies. Thank you for loving us and being kind to us. You always exemplified motherly and godly warmth, grace, and mercy; and you always lived out the beauty of your first name (you’re truly indeed born well, Abiemwense). You nurtured each person you came across the only way a sweet mother knows how to. Your arms are always open wide for all to embrace. My earliest memory of you was your traditional wedding at Arousa. I remember being so excited about it. Then, I remember how sweet the turkey you made for Thanksgiving at dem Aunty Ivie and Aunty Adesuwa’s house was. Every time, I enter their house, I try to relive that taste. I appreciate how you try to cherish every moment by taking a picture at some point during a hang out. I’m heart broken we can’t hear your voice anymore or hug you anymore. I’m especially heartbroken for Onome, Robor, and Toby because their sweet mother is not here anymore to care for them. Although we know your beautiful spirit still dwells with us, we know we can never replace your physical presence. All we can say is thank you for your enduring love, pretty smile, warm hugs, amazing cooking, and tender loving. Thank you Aunty Abies💙
April 12, 2026
I honestly don't know what to write as I'm still in shock about Abbie's passing, but I just wanted to let you guys know I am truly sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine what your family is going through.
She watched me grow up from a little boy to the man I am today and I will miss hearing from her every Sunday and getting my hugs. I just wanted you guys to know that she made a deep impact on my life and again I will miss her deeply.
She watched me grow up from a little boy to the man I am today and I will miss hearing from her every Sunday and getting my hugs. I just wanted you guys to know that she made a deep impact on my life and again I will miss her deeply.
April 10, 2026
Abi luv, it is still quite a shock and unbelievable that you are no longer with us. You are such a beautiful soul. It hurts that you left so soon but you are with your maker and the one who loves you most. I pray that the Lord comfort and strengthen your husband, children, entire families and numerous friends. Adieu for now until we meet at Jesus feet. Rest in peace dear.❤️❤️🌸🌸♥️♥️💋💋🌸🌸❤️❤️♥️
April 10, 2026
I can’t believe this is my reality! That I would never see your smiling face again is too hard to bear! How are you no longer here. I want to wake up from this nightmare😭 I spoke with you the Wednesday before for 24 minutes before you rushed off. If I had known that will be the last time I would ever hear your voice, I would have used my big sister authority voice to keep you on the phone longer. Who is going to tease me for not acting my age even though I’m a senior citizen according to you, and me firing right back that you’re 10 years closer and climbing that hill right behind me. My heart is broken and there will forever be a void that will never close. We just hung out together with the cousins in VA this past November and now you’re gone? This cannot be real! We just talked about going on at least one cruise and you promised me it was a done deal, and I’m tearing up because you loved to go on cruises and always had the time of your life!
I’m writing this at 1:44am because I just couldn’t bring myself to do this. I wish I can hug you one more time! My heart aches!
Please watch over Sam, Nome, Robo and Toby.
God knows best🙏🏽 Rest In Heaven sis till we meet again🙏🏽
I will always love you and NEVER forget you🥰
I’m writing this at 1:44am because I just couldn’t bring myself to do this. I wish I can hug you one more time! My heart aches!
Please watch over Sam, Nome, Robo and Toby.
God knows best🙏🏽 Rest In Heaven sis till we meet again🙏🏽
I will always love you and NEVER forget you🥰
April 9, 2026
My dear Abie, knowing you is knowing a joyful and peace loving person. My first encounter with you was when we served in the planning committee of Nigerians in Brampton when the group started. You were always ready to serve and then you introduced yourself as my high school friend Ayin's sister.
You were a caring, inseparable sister to my friend Ayin and travel buddy.
You were such a loving person, a wonderful mother and wife and I truly admired your lovely smiles and your very respectful and gorgeous disposition.
You will be really missed by your family, church family and the Nigerians in Brampton Community.
We hope to meet on the resurrection morning to continue singing hallelujah. Love and miss you 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 ❤️
You were a caring, inseparable sister to my friend Ayin and travel buddy.
You were such a loving person, a wonderful mother and wife and I truly admired your lovely smiles and your very respectful and gorgeous disposition.
You will be really missed by your family, church family and the Nigerians in Brampton Community.
We hope to meet on the resurrection morning to continue singing hallelujah. Love and miss you 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 ❤️
April 8, 2026
My dearest cousin Abies you may be gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.
You will always be remembered, cherished, and forever loved.
Ehiosu Uhuangho.
You will always be remembered, cherished, and forever loved.
Ehiosu Uhuangho.
April 6, 2026
My sister, it is hard for me to believe that I will not see your smiling face again on this side of heaven.
You touched my life in a way I can not find words to express.
I can boldly say,that you are a Dorcas of our generation.
Your warmth and generosity tells who you are.
I am glad that you loved the Lord and you served Him.I believe you are now with Him.
I miss you but I am consoled that we will meet again at the feet of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
May your soul rest in peace.
. Christie.
You touched my life in a way I can not find words to express.
I can boldly say,that you are a Dorcas of our generation.
Your warmth and generosity tells who you are.
I am glad that you loved the Lord and you served Him.I believe you are now with Him.
I miss you but I am consoled that we will meet again at the feet of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
May your soul rest in peace.
. Christie.
April 6, 2026
My dearest sister Abie ,your passing to glory has kept me speechless but l trust God that you are now in heaven smiling with other loved ones who have passed. Enjoy your journey to heaven and continue smiling with Jesus. I will surely miss your beautiful smiles. Love, Patricia
April 4, 2026
After many upteenth attempts, It’s taken me these very many days to express my thoughts, even though I was the first to be notified that this website had gone live!
ABIES! Words are not sufficient for me to begin to describe my pain and shock, what a genuinely loving, sacrificial, caring and joy you brought to me and anyone who encountered you for even 5 minutes! Oh that electrifying signature smile, warmth , humble and respectful demeanor you carried with such beauty grace and empathy !
My mind still goes over that fateful morning when I got that call at work from uncle Sam and while driving to the hospital with only a phrase “Lord please have mercy on my sister” Nothing prepared me for 9:26 a m..
When we sat at church less than 24 hours before, singing our hearts in worship to the Lord and nodding to each other in agreements listening to the sermon series on our bodies as jars of clay…
When you insisted that we take a photo after church which I vehemently refused initially…
when I reminded you not to forget saturday’s womens worship and you said “ sista , make today finish saturday still far…”
When you called me later that eve and we had a long convo as we did regularly…
I had no idea what lay ahead the following morning at 9:26 a m . But God knew .
Yesterday as I joined Good Friday service online, I kept remembering our road trip plan to Kentucky right after the first service to see sis E and bro O. You expressed countless times your excitement looking forward to 10 hours drive together and all the food and things we will take to them reharshing the list of things. That was who you were. You had so much love to give to everyone without making anyone feel less loved.
For me, I know I have lost an irreplaceable sister and life in Toronto, weekly is forever changed.
But I choose to trust our sovereign God who is still Faithful even in the midst of this confusion, pain and hurt of your loss! I confess that I’m still trying to make sense of what seems only like a movie.
Praying God’s peace, comfort and strength for your beloved hubby, uncle Sam, Onome, Robor and your “Prince” Tobore.
You are sorely missed !
Sleep on my beloved Lil’ sis, good Night.
until that resurrection morning.
“Sista…”
ABIES! Words are not sufficient for me to begin to describe my pain and shock, what a genuinely loving, sacrificial, caring and joy you brought to me and anyone who encountered you for even 5 minutes! Oh that electrifying signature smile, warmth , humble and respectful demeanor you carried with such beauty grace and empathy !
My mind still goes over that fateful morning when I got that call at work from uncle Sam and while driving to the hospital with only a phrase “Lord please have mercy on my sister” Nothing prepared me for 9:26 a m..
When we sat at church less than 24 hours before, singing our hearts in worship to the Lord and nodding to each other in agreements listening to the sermon series on our bodies as jars of clay…
When you insisted that we take a photo after church which I vehemently refused initially…
when I reminded you not to forget saturday’s womens worship and you said “ sista , make today finish saturday still far…”
When you called me later that eve and we had a long convo as we did regularly…
I had no idea what lay ahead the following morning at 9:26 a m . But God knew .
Yesterday as I joined Good Friday service online, I kept remembering our road trip plan to Kentucky right after the first service to see sis E and bro O. You expressed countless times your excitement looking forward to 10 hours drive together and all the food and things we will take to them reharshing the list of things. That was who you were. You had so much love to give to everyone without making anyone feel less loved.
For me, I know I have lost an irreplaceable sister and life in Toronto, weekly is forever changed.
But I choose to trust our sovereign God who is still Faithful even in the midst of this confusion, pain and hurt of your loss! I confess that I’m still trying to make sense of what seems only like a movie.
Praying God’s peace, comfort and strength for your beloved hubby, uncle Sam, Onome, Robor and your “Prince” Tobore.
You are sorely missed !
Sleep on my beloved Lil’ sis, good Night.
until that resurrection morning.
“Sista…”
April 3, 2026
Abie, hearing the news of your passing hit me like a shock to the heart. You were always so full of life and so genuinely lovely.
I still remember how you hosted me, my wife, and some of our AOL friends with so much warmth. And when our daughter was born, you even came all the way to visit us. Those moments meant the world.
I met you through AOL Academy, and from that day, you became a real sister to me. Losing you now feels so sudden and painful. I’m still struggling to wrap my head around it.
My deepest condolences to your family. May the Lord comfort and strengthen you all as you go through this heartbreaking loss.
Sleep well, dear sister. Journey well.
We’ll miss you greatly, but thank you for being such a wonderful sister and family friend. You’ll always have a special place in our hearts.
I still remember how you hosted me, my wife, and some of our AOL friends with so much warmth. And when our daughter was born, you even came all the way to visit us. Those moments meant the world.
I met you through AOL Academy, and from that day, you became a real sister to me. Losing you now feels so sudden and painful. I’m still struggling to wrap my head around it.
My deepest condolences to your family. May the Lord comfort and strengthen you all as you go through this heartbreaking loss.
Sleep well, dear sister. Journey well.
We’ll miss you greatly, but thank you for being such a wonderful sister and family friend. You’ll always have a special place in our hearts.
April 2, 2026
I am still in shock about this. When I got to work and was told, I felt very confused and didn’t understand. She was such a kind and wonderful woman to work with. May God give her family strength during this difficult time and keep everyone safe.
April 2, 2026
Oh Abie! We are utterly shocked at her going home to be with the Lord. While attending Hope, I got to know her on the greeting team, and we exchanged recipes, house pictures and discussed healthy food. She was absolutely lovely. Brian’s and my deepest condolences to you, Sam, and the children. It will take a long while to return to “normal” — though nothing will ever be normal again. After the noise dies down, we pray your memories are full of deep laughter. We will be lifting you up in prayer. Please also be encouraged… there is great joy in the house of the Lord when one of His own enters His presence. Abie is walking with Jesus! There is ultimate and complete peace and rest for her, as she has come face to face with our Savior and Lord Jesus Christ.
April 2, 2026
I was truly heartbroken to hear about Abies's passing. Speaking about her now in the past tense feels disconcerting.
Abies was so pure-hearted. She was kind, lovely and welcoming. I first met Abies in 2012 through her cousin Ivie. She opened her heart and home to me and my family, and I'll never forget it. We kept in touch after that via WhatsApp and at other in-person occasions.
Our birthdays were a week apart, and she always sent me birthday greetings, words of affirmation and encouragement and asked about my family. We continued to meet up over the years – a girls' trip to Vegas one time, and Benin, Nigeria, for the funeral service for Ivie's dad. We talked about more girls' trips... alas.
In all the time I knew her, Abies remained the same: happy, ever-smiling, and positive. She was a joy to be around, and there was never a dull moment in her company. She was an amazing person, an awesome human, and a fiercely loving mom.
Abies's life was an act of service to those around her... I am blessed to have known her. I am heartbroken that her story has been cut short, but I am thankful to God for a life well lived. May God comfort all the loved ones she has left behind. I cannot begin to imagine the heartache of her absence.
Rest well, Abies. What an amazing legacy you have left behind in your children.
Vivian Omonbude
Abies was so pure-hearted. She was kind, lovely and welcoming. I first met Abies in 2012 through her cousin Ivie. She opened her heart and home to me and my family, and I'll never forget it. We kept in touch after that via WhatsApp and at other in-person occasions.
Our birthdays were a week apart, and she always sent me birthday greetings, words of affirmation and encouragement and asked about my family. We continued to meet up over the years – a girls' trip to Vegas one time, and Benin, Nigeria, for the funeral service for Ivie's dad. We talked about more girls' trips... alas.
In all the time I knew her, Abies remained the same: happy, ever-smiling, and positive. She was a joy to be around, and there was never a dull moment in her company. She was an amazing person, an awesome human, and a fiercely loving mom.
Abies's life was an act of service to those around her... I am blessed to have known her. I am heartbroken that her story has been cut short, but I am thankful to God for a life well lived. May God comfort all the loved ones she has left behind. I cannot begin to imagine the heartache of her absence.
Rest well, Abies. What an amazing legacy you have left behind in your children.
Vivian Omonbude
April 2, 2026
I am so deeply saddened to hear of this development. My deepest sympathies to her husband, children extended family, in-laws and friends.
April 2, 2026
I remember Abie in a happy way. The day before God called her home, we were at our small group meeting. In the accountability section of the meeting,we each shared what was happening in our lives. Abie who prayed for each of us. At the end of the small group meeting, it was Abie who closed the meeting in prayer. Looking back now, I can see that she was glowing.
At the end of the meeting, she burst into singing "Lord dismiss us with thy blessings:Fill our hearts with joy and peace."
I, and can say, and the small group will miss her kindness and radiant joy. She loved the Lord.
I pray that God will bless her family with peace and resilience.
At the end of the meeting, she burst into singing "Lord dismiss us with thy blessings:Fill our hearts with joy and peace."
I, and can say, and the small group will miss her kindness and radiant joy. She loved the Lord.
I pray that God will bless her family with peace and resilience.
April 2, 2026
I am still in shock today as I was last week when my sister called to tell me of Abie's passing!
While we only met during my visit to Canada last year, Abie was one of my sister's friends who made me comfortable and at home in Hope Church. I loved her bubbly and joyful spirit. She loved her family and was always there for her friends. My niece and nephews felt very comfortable in her house each time they were there and she never held back in caring and chatting with them.
To her husband and children, I am truly sorry for your loss but I pray that the Holy Spirit will comfort you and heal your deepest wound.
Abie is a lovely child of God and I am sure the Father welcomes her into His loving arms as He keeps watching over those she left here.
Rest on Abie.
While we only met during my visit to Canada last year, Abie was one of my sister's friends who made me comfortable and at home in Hope Church. I loved her bubbly and joyful spirit. She loved her family and was always there for her friends. My niece and nephews felt very comfortable in her house each time they were there and she never held back in caring and chatting with them.
To her husband and children, I am truly sorry for your loss but I pray that the Holy Spirit will comfort you and heal your deepest wound.
Abie is a lovely child of God and I am sure the Father welcomes her into His loving arms as He keeps watching over those she left here.
Rest on Abie.
April 1, 2026
I had met Abie through her sister over a decade ago. And cannot remember an encounter with her as a church member that ever made me ask if she was Ok because Abie was always so pleasantly warm with her beautiful signature smile. I also experienced her caring and thoughtful nature during a visit to the movie theatre to see a film. Abie came ready with some snacks and drinks for all 4 of us. Abie, I am deeply saddened by the news of your sudden departure to eternity. It is really heartbreaking that you had to be gone so soon. My thoughts and prayers for strength and comfort remain with your amiable husband, children and the family.
Sleep well, beautiful one. 💔
Sleep well, beautiful one. 💔
April 1, 2026
My dear cousin, words cannot express my profound sadness at learning that you have gone to be with the Lord . I pray that God will give your husband, children and siblings the strength to carry on and bear this irreparable loss . 💐🙏🏾
April 1, 2026
I truly don't know how to begin. My sista Abie has been a tower of strength to me. Her kindness knows no bounds, her love for humanity is selfless. You are truly an angel sent to us for such a short while but you impacted us for a lifetime. You will be truly missed my sista and you will be forever in my heart. Take your rest.
March 31, 2026
Auntie Abie was a true definition of a GOD fearing woman. She was my auntie, mentor and motherly figure to me. She was there in some of the instrumental times in my life- highs and lows. She was always there to provide a words of wisdom, encouragement and love. She was always so loving and supportive. No words can describe the heaviness of your loss. We love and miss you tremendously. We will see your beautiful smile one day again. May your soul rest in perfect peace 🕊️ 🤍🙏🏿
March 31, 2026
One of my cherished memories of my dear Sister Abie is in the midst of a busy Christmas season, she chose to slow down and give something truly meaningful; her time.
After church, we visited my mom at the long term care home, bringing along her sweet Onome and Robor, and together they filled the room with Christmas songs. It wasn’t just music, it was warmth, kindness, and joy from genuine love and thoughtfulness.
That special moment brought tears of joy, not just because of the songs, but because of what it represented. Even in the busyness of life, she made time for others. It was a powerful reminder of the true meaning of Christmas.
Matthew 5:16
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
I will never forget our last conversation, the day before her passing.
I will miss her big and loving hugs.
Until we meet again sweet Sister❤️❤️
After church, we visited my mom at the long term care home, bringing along her sweet Onome and Robor, and together they filled the room with Christmas songs. It wasn’t just music, it was warmth, kindness, and joy from genuine love and thoughtfulness.
That special moment brought tears of joy, not just because of the songs, but because of what it represented. Even in the busyness of life, she made time for others. It was a powerful reminder of the true meaning of Christmas.
Matthew 5:16
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
I will never forget our last conversation, the day before her passing.
I will miss her big and loving hugs.
Until we meet again sweet Sister❤️❤️
March 31, 2026
They say “harvest is no blessing when death is the crop” thus with a heavy heart but loving memory I remember Abies, beloved wife of Samson Adese.
Your gentle spirit, warm smiles and unwavering love touched everyone who knew you and I was privileged to have known you over 30 years.
May Sam, your children and family find comfort in the beautiful memories you shared and my the God of your heart accept your soul and may you rest in eternal peace. 🙏🏿
Your gentle spirit, warm smiles and unwavering love touched everyone who knew you and I was privileged to have known you over 30 years.
May Sam, your children and family find comfort in the beautiful memories you shared and my the God of your heart accept your soul and may you rest in eternal peace. 🙏🏿
March 31, 2026
It’s hard to choose just one favourite memory of Ms. Abie, but one moment that truly stayed with me was Onome’s graduation party, hosted by the Adeses in their backyard. The day was warm, and although I knew Ms. Abie was likely under a lot of stress, she moved through the house and yard with such grace and ease. I remember thinking to myself, “I hope that when I grow up and have a family of my own, I can be as lovely and hospitable as this woman.”
Everything about that day—the food, the music, the decor—was beautiful, and I know Ms. Abie had a hand in all of it. Every time I visited her home and shared a meal, it felt as though I was coming home. She didn’t let me leave that night until I took a plate home for my mom! She had a remarkable way of making people feel welcomed and cared for.
Ms. Abie truly made that night unforgettable. I can only hope to grow into someone as beautiful, resilient, and caring as her.
Everything about that day—the food, the music, the decor—was beautiful, and I know Ms. Abie had a hand in all of it. Every time I visited her home and shared a meal, it felt as though I was coming home. She didn’t let me leave that night until I took a plate home for my mom! She had a remarkable way of making people feel welcomed and cared for.
Ms. Abie truly made that night unforgettable. I can only hope to grow into someone as beautiful, resilient, and caring as her.
March 30, 2026
Hmmmmmm, it's 7 days today the sad news of your death came to my ear and from that day till this minute I still can't find the exact words to describe how sweet a person you are sis.
We chatted last on mother's Day were I thanked you for all your love and sacrifices ma, but u didn't say it will be the last whyyyyyyyyyyy.
I lack the strength to pin it down here right.
What exactly can I say 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 good bye or Rest well either of these feel ok to me sis, cause I didn't see myself saying this to you in another 30yrs from now.
Hmmmmmm sister Abies, this death cut too deeply ooo.
I can't end this write up cause it's an unending grieve.
We chatted last on mother's Day were I thanked you for all your love and sacrifices ma, but u didn't say it will be the last whyyyyyyyyyyy.
I lack the strength to pin it down here right.
What exactly can I say 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 good bye or Rest well either of these feel ok to me sis, cause I didn't see myself saying this to you in another 30yrs from now.
Hmmmmmm sister Abies, this death cut too deeply ooo.
I can't end this write up cause it's an unending grieve.
March 30, 2026
My beautiful auntie Abies. You were more than my auntie, you were like a second mother. Your love, your warmth, and the way you cared for all of us will never be forgotten. My heart aches that you’re gone, but I’m grateful for every moment we shared. Thank you for pouring into my life the way you did. Thank you for your encouragement, your wise words, your jokes and beautiful smile. I will miss you forever. You are resting in God’s arms.
Love your neice, Osa❤️
Love your neice, Osa❤️
March 30, 2026
I met Abie 20yrs ago at Liftow. We hit it off right away.
She was such a bright, lovely person who's smile lights up a room.
We had long conversations about her kids and how much she loved her family. I am so shocked and saddened of her passing and wish I could talk to her more and give her a huge hug.
My heart goes out to you Sam and your beautiful family, I'm sure she will be watching over you all.
Sending you and the family my sincerest Condolences
She was such a bright, lovely person who's smile lights up a room.
We had long conversations about her kids and how much she loved her family. I am so shocked and saddened of her passing and wish I could talk to her more and give her a huge hug.
My heart goes out to you Sam and your beautiful family, I'm sure she will be watching over you all.
Sending you and the family my sincerest Condolences
March 30, 2026
There are no words to express the void that is felt by all who knew this Wonerful Lady.
But, one word that I feel is not the most eliquent, but is my word and, that word is "Sunshine". Abie was the brightness that the sun gives us everday. She will be missed by many of us left behind.
Miss you Already......Dear Abbie.
Love Always and a bug Hug from Me..
We will meet again. for sure.
Love Always
Uncle Tony
But, one word that I feel is not the most eliquent, but is my word and, that word is "Sunshine". Abie was the brightness that the sun gives us everday. She will be missed by many of us left behind.
Miss you Already......Dear Abbie.
Love Always and a bug Hug from Me..
We will meet again. for sure.
Love Always
Uncle Tony
March 30, 2026
My darlyn Abie. It is still shocking and baffling that you are no longer here. You are such a beautiful soul and I miss that your beautiful smile already. You always had the best compliments to make one feel good. That, I will miss too. Rest peacefully in our Lord's bosom until we meet again. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸❤️❤️❤️💋💋❤️
March 29, 2026
Abies was always very thoughtful and kind.You could always see the laughter in her eyes.A true definition of family.You always left her presence with a little more hope that it will be a better day.A burbly God filled and fearing Woman.An exemplary example of a person.It is hard to see you go but your maker loved you more.Ovbiye Adieu.
March 29, 2026
In-law extraordinaire. Your smile, kindness, and love will be deeply missed am grateful to God for the time we shared. Your memory will be a blessing, and your love will live on. Rest in perfect peace. Your legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire us. Though you're gone, your impact remains.
UYIMWEN OGBOMO
UYIMWEN OGBOMO
March 29, 2026
Abie, you were truly a bright candle burnt out long before your legend ever did.
Your always smiling face will be forever missed. You had such a unique personality that will be missed by all that encountered you.
May your beautiful soul rest in peace !
Our condolences to all those you left behind.
Love from the Agholor’s
Your always smiling face will be forever missed. You had such a unique personality that will be missed by all that encountered you.
May your beautiful soul rest in peace !
Our condolences to all those you left behind.
Love from the Agholor’s
March 29, 2026
I had the pleasure of meeting you when I visited Aunty Ayin and her family in 2024.
Although we only saw each other a few times, it felt so familiar when we talked.
You made me feel truly heard.
Your death has deeply affected me. You and your family are in my thoughts.🕊️
Although we only saw each other a few times, it felt so familiar when we talked.
You made me feel truly heard.
Your death has deeply affected me. You and your family are in my thoughts.🕊️
March 29, 2026
Knowing you was a gift. You had a way of making people feel seen, heard, and valued. Your laughter could brighten the darkest days, and your kindness touched hearts in ways that will never be forgotten. You carried strength so quietly, yet so powerfully, and you gave love so freely without expecting anything in return.
I will miss you more than words can ever say. But I will also carry you with me in my thoughts Thank you for being such an incredible part of my life.
Rest peacefully, my dear friend and sister. You are loved beyond measure, and you will never be forgotten.🥲💔💔🕊️
I will miss you more than words can ever say. But I will also carry you with me in my thoughts Thank you for being such an incredible part of my life.
Rest peacefully, my dear friend and sister. You are loved beyond measure, and you will never be forgotten.🥲💔💔🕊️
March 29, 2026
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
I still don’t understand why I’m writing you a tribute.
It doesn’t feel real.
It doesn’t sound real.
It just feels wrong.
You were not supposed to become a memory.
You were supposed to be here… present, alive, loving, growing VERY old and grey. That was the plan. The only plan that makes sense.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
You were everything a big aunty should be.
Not just in words… in action, in presence, in the way you showed up for people.
You wanted the best for everyone… but not in a distant way. You pushed for it. You prayed, you called, you advised, you gave, you hoped, you showed up. You carried people like their growth mattered to you personally.
You never allowed anyone to sit comfortably in ordinary.
With you, one just had to do better.
You had this way of making people feel like “I’ve got you.”
And you meant it.
Even from far away, you never felt far.
I used to smile hearing mummy answer your calls, saying,
“My beloved sister…”
And it always sounded so full… so real.
You were truly beloved.
You loved just as freely…
“Love you, my darling.”
“Bless you, dear.”
Simple words… but from you, they felt like something to hold on to.
I didn’t see you many times…
but somehow, that never reduced who you were in my life. Because a love like yours doesn’t need proximity.
You spoiled us, silly… all of us.
Those random packages from you… the joy they brought… it felt like you were reaching across the distance, reminding us that we were seen, remembered, loved.
You were elegant, beautiful, full of life.
That smile… God… that smile.
You loved good times, laughter… you loved life. And you carried people along with you so effortlessly, like there was space for everyone to rise.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
I had plans for you.
Real ones.
I was going to make you proud… not from afar, but in front of you. I wanted you to see it… to know that everything you poured into us was not in vain.
I had already placed you at my wedding.
There was no version of that day without you. I could see you… I could hear you… I knew exactly where you would sit.
I was going to take you, mummy, and the others on trips… create memories we hadn’t even lived yet.
I didn’t think I was running out of time.
So what happens now?
They say you are gone…
but I don’t know how to accept that.
Your absence feels too big.
It hurts. Deeply.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
I miss you in a way that words cannot carry.
I love you in a way death cannot touch.
I promise to carry you with me.
In everything I become… in every step forward… in every win.
And I pray you are resting… truly resting… in God’s presence.
Held with the same love you gave so freely.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
I love you. More than my tired heart can comprehend.
Always 🤍🕊️
I still don’t understand why I’m writing you a tribute.
It doesn’t feel real.
It doesn’t sound real.
It just feels wrong.
You were not supposed to become a memory.
You were supposed to be here… present, alive, loving, growing VERY old and grey. That was the plan. The only plan that makes sense.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
You were everything a big aunty should be.
Not just in words… in action, in presence, in the way you showed up for people.
You wanted the best for everyone… but not in a distant way. You pushed for it. You prayed, you called, you advised, you gave, you hoped, you showed up. You carried people like their growth mattered to you personally.
You never allowed anyone to sit comfortably in ordinary.
With you, one just had to do better.
You had this way of making people feel like “I’ve got you.”
And you meant it.
Even from far away, you never felt far.
I used to smile hearing mummy answer your calls, saying,
“My beloved sister…”
And it always sounded so full… so real.
You were truly beloved.
You loved just as freely…
“Love you, my darling.”
“Bless you, dear.”
Simple words… but from you, they felt like something to hold on to.
I didn’t see you many times…
but somehow, that never reduced who you were in my life. Because a love like yours doesn’t need proximity.
You spoiled us, silly… all of us.
Those random packages from you… the joy they brought… it felt like you were reaching across the distance, reminding us that we were seen, remembered, loved.
You were elegant, beautiful, full of life.
That smile… God… that smile.
You loved good times, laughter… you loved life. And you carried people along with you so effortlessly, like there was space for everyone to rise.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
I had plans for you.
Real ones.
I was going to make you proud… not from afar, but in front of you. I wanted you to see it… to know that everything you poured into us was not in vain.
I had already placed you at my wedding.
There was no version of that day without you. I could see you… I could hear you… I knew exactly where you would sit.
I was going to take you, mummy, and the others on trips… create memories we hadn’t even lived yet.
I didn’t think I was running out of time.
So what happens now?
They say you are gone…
but I don’t know how to accept that.
Your absence feels too big.
It hurts. Deeply.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
I miss you in a way that words cannot carry.
I love you in a way death cannot touch.
I promise to carry you with me.
In everything I become… in every step forward… in every win.
And I pray you are resting… truly resting… in God’s presence.
Held with the same love you gave so freely.
Dearest Aunty Abbie,
I love you. More than my tired heart can comprehend.
Always 🤍🕊️
March 29, 2026
Abies as I would normally call her would call meme was not just a cousin to me, she was my big sister. We grew up together in our house at ukpasia alongside the rest of our family and cousins. She was always very selfless and would always wear a smile on her face. I remember when she helped out in her dad's company, she would hurry down to see us and grandma and always wanted to share the little she was paid by her dad. I missed her so much when she left for Canada and remember she came over to the house that night to say goodbye to us as she left. For 26 years I didn't see her but kept in contact till I visited in September of 2023.......what a reception that was.. I felt like a prince in a. Palace as she would go in and out looking for what she would prepare for me and made me feel very special... Meme as she would call me she would say remember am your big sister and am always here for you...... Abies why did you have to go so soon.. I had already planned to visit this year in summer to spent more time with you guys only to hear this sad news... My heart is broken 💔 😢 it will never be the same without you Abies never... but God knows why and we all pray he keeps your beautiful soul until we meet again 🙏
March 29, 2026
Words fail me to writing this so soon, I still wished it was all a bad dream.
Your love for people and family is amazing, you always want everyone to be okay, your love for giving goes beyond distance and family.
Growing up with you are memories I will forever cherish
Rest well my beloved sister
Your love for people and family is amazing, you always want everyone to be okay, your love for giving goes beyond distance and family.
Growing up with you are memories I will forever cherish
Rest well my beloved sister
March 29, 2026
Abiemwense n'imose!
It feels like we're currently living in a twilight zone. Desperately waiting to be pinched back to reality.....
We officially met through your sister who is my
childhood friend-turned-sister, Ayin. Your infectious smile as well as your warmth were immediately captivating.
Surprisingly, it was later revealed that our paths had actually crossed in childhood when your mother was my elder sister's hairdresser and had been very fond of my sister. It's indeed a small world!
You and my Ayin were inseparable. You getting to go on the cruise with her and her family at the last minute was not a chance occurrence. Everything is now patently clear: it was all God's timing. They got the opportunity to spend extra (now priceless) quality time with you. We therefore cannot question Him.
I am glad I too had the good fortune to experience you, even if only for short bursts each time. Your selflessness was palpable. Thanks for the pivotal role you played as peacemaker. I was a beneficiary....
What a Godly woman!
I pray God comforts your darling babies, Nomy, Robor and Toby as well as your beloved husband.
Also wishing His grace for our dear Sis Ayin, Big Daddy Abi, Big Mommy Jo and the rest of your family.
They have been inconsolable but are reminded in 1st Thessalonians 4:13 to not feel hopeless in grief....
May your sweet soul rest in peace until the Resurrection morning.
Love you kakabo, otemwen n'oma.
Aunty Cee.
It feels like we're currently living in a twilight zone. Desperately waiting to be pinched back to reality.....
We officially met through your sister who is my
childhood friend-turned-sister, Ayin. Your infectious smile as well as your warmth were immediately captivating.
Surprisingly, it was later revealed that our paths had actually crossed in childhood when your mother was my elder sister's hairdresser and had been very fond of my sister. It's indeed a small world!
You and my Ayin were inseparable. You getting to go on the cruise with her and her family at the last minute was not a chance occurrence. Everything is now patently clear: it was all God's timing. They got the opportunity to spend extra (now priceless) quality time with you. We therefore cannot question Him.
I am glad I too had the good fortune to experience you, even if only for short bursts each time. Your selflessness was palpable. Thanks for the pivotal role you played as peacemaker. I was a beneficiary....
What a Godly woman!
I pray God comforts your darling babies, Nomy, Robor and Toby as well as your beloved husband.
Also wishing His grace for our dear Sis Ayin, Big Daddy Abi, Big Mommy Jo and the rest of your family.
They have been inconsolable but are reminded in 1st Thessalonians 4:13 to not feel hopeless in grief....
May your sweet soul rest in peace until the Resurrection morning.
Love you kakabo, otemwen n'oma.
Aunty Cee.
Service
Please join us in offering a final tribute to our dear mother, wife, sister, aunt, cousin and friend. Your presence shall be a comfort in this time of remembrance.
Viewing (Friday, april 17th)
Hope Church Mississauga
7755 Tenth Line W, Mississauga, ON L5N 0C4
7755 Tenth Line W, Mississauga, ON L5N 0C4
Friday, April 17th, 2026
5PM-9PM
5PM-9PM
FUNERAL SERVICE (Saturday, april 18th)
Hope Church Mississauga
7755 Tenth Line W, Mississauga, ON L5N 0C4
7755 Tenth Line W, Mississauga, ON L5N 0C4
Saturday, April 18th, 2026
10AM-1PM
10AM-1PM
Virtual event
The funeral will be live-streamed on Youtube.
Channel: Real Magic Studios www.youtube.com/@RealMagicStudios-gf4ku
Channel: Real Magic Studios www.youtube.com/@RealMagicStudios-gf4ku
Burial (Saturday, APril 18th)
Meadowvale Cemetery
7732 Mavis Rd, Brampton, ON L6Y 6B7
7732 Mavis Rd, Brampton, ON L6Y 6B7
Saturday, April 18th, 2026
2PM
There will be a reception at Hope Church following the burial.
2PM
There will be a reception at Hope Church following the burial.
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