Abie J. Adese

Dearest Abie,
Your life is a testament to love, and each of us carries a piece of your heart within us. We were woven into one another’s lives by God, and I’ll always cherish how deeply we connected—whether it was over skincare, perfumes, clothes, blending smoothies, cooking Indian dishes in your kitchen, or singing the old hymns we both held so dearly.

I will miss you profoundly, my true friend and smoothie queen. This is not goodbye, but simply me saying, “See you later, alligator,” and hearing you reply, “In a while, crocodile.”

With love, always. Susan.

My name is Eghosa and I acted as a Shepherd. Two things Auntie Abies would never let me forget. And spoke greater volume to the importance she placed on knowing who you are, where you come from, and never forgetting that. To me she was --- Auntie, the Big Big Sister, and mother figure as she was an extension of my parents. I learned many things from my birthday twin. Both literal lessons from direct guidance, but equally if not more resounding from how she lived her life and the characteristics and traits I observed. First she was -
Compassionate - innate ability to put others first and give you all of her attention. Periodic saturday morning check-ins where she'd just call and wanted to hear how Sierra was doing, making sure I was taking care of her properly, and confirming that we are working on kids. Praying with me on the phone and reassuring that God's timing is perfect. She was extremely -
Devoted - as a young child, I was fortunate to be able to witness some sessions of counsel, when she was going through courtship with Uncle Sam, and early on in their marriage. It was palpable how intent she was on building the foundation for her marriage and becoming a mother. It was so enlightening how Auntie was able to maintain her strong will but also recognize the importance of yielding and submitting to Uncle. Next, Auntie was
Effervescent and lively - every conversation with her and I know others can relate, would leave feeling upbeat, highly encouraged, and spiritually motivated. Auntie was
Principled - values strongly rooted in Christ, family and being the best follower of Christ, wife, and mother that she could be. After that came being a successful business women and entrepreneur. Lastly, she was
Wise - beyond her years. So many marital and parenting insights that were passed along and will stick with me for my time.

Auntie truly epitomized the concept of respect your elders. The posture through which she interacted with my Dad, it was convicting at times, as I knew I didn't always exhibit that level of reverence and humility towards my older siblings.

Auntie lived a life of prioritizing others before self. She never missed an opportunity to check in on a kids birthday, wedding anniversary, or whenever she felt led to call. She made sure she showed up to special occasions no matter how logistically challenging. Including Micah's baby dedication in Maryland on short notice.

Philippians 2 captures Auntie for me:

Is there any encouragement from belonging to Christ? Any comfort from his love? Any fellowship together in the Spirit? Are your hearts tender and compassionate? Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.

Auntie thank you for showing me what it means to love others more than yourself. May you rest in peace.

Tribute to Abies
Abies, I am still in disbelief that you are no longer with us. Part of me held back from writing this tribute, telling myself that if I didn’t put it into words, then it wouldn’t be true. Even now, it still doesn’t feel real.
Though our time together was short, I cherished every single moment—your smile, your love for humanity, your zest for life, and your desire to see everyone happy and full of life. You gave so much of yourself to everyone who crossed your path, leaving a lasting impression on every heart you touched.
Your smile could light up the darkest day, bring warmth to the coldest moments, and remind us all that joy is always possible. Your creative mind was truly remarkable.
I wish we had more time together… but I can still hear your voice saying, “No sista, don’t look back—I don’t like regret. We look forward.”
So, my dear friend, I will look forward—to the resurrection morning, when we shall rejoice together and part no more.
My heart is broken in so many places.
Adieu, my friend.

A Tribute to Our Dearly Beloved Sister – Mrs. Abiemwense (Abies) Adese (née Aghayere)
Abiemwense — Omo na biese — “a child who was truly born well.” Ómónórènegbe – a highly responsible and diligent child…

My bosom sister, our Sparkle who was like a daughter to us, and who treated me like a father and my wife like a mother—your passing was, and remains, a profound shock to us. The void your absence has created is immense and cannot be filled.
You were a rare gem—a diamond in the rough. A sister who brought joy to everyone. A motherly figure despite your youthful age. A daughter who treated us with the utmost respect and love, and had an attitude of gratitude.

Your last voice note to me on March 14, 2026 (transcribed below) says it all. It came during our surprise birthday visit to our brother, Victor, in Columbus, Ohio, and our visit to our sister, Frances, in Louisville, Kentucky:

“Big Daddy, Lakun…good morning…how are you doing? Just remembered you will be traveling today
I hope the trip is going well, I wanted to wish you a safe drive and God’s blessings
May His presence go with you
Have fun with sister Frances and God bless, I really appreciate you doing this.
Thank you, you inspire me…you make me want to plan mine very soon.
I love you Big Daddy…have a nice time together, take care and love to Big Mommy.
Bye,
Abiemwense”

That was our cheerleader extraordinaire—always encouraging, always lifting others up.
Abies left a trail of love and kindness wherever she went. She was selfless—a generous giver who poured herself out for the benefit of others. She exuded the joy of the Lord and brought His light into every situation.

She was always bubbly, always radiant, there was rarely a frown on her face. It seemed as though she was on an urgent mission to share God’s love with as many people as possible—even those who were unkind to her, those who caused her stress, and even those who treated her with disdain or envy.

There are many testimonies of her quiet acts of kindness and selflessness that came to light only after her passing. Here is one of them:

A few days ago, I received a phone call from a relative in Benin who shared how Abies noticed her diligence and perseverance as she struggled to grow her start-up business. Quietly and without fanfare, Abies helped her purchase equipment and supplies, cautioning her not to tell anyone. Today, that relative is independent and thriving. With a trembling voice, she testified that Abies contributed significantly to her success.

On numerous occasions, Abies would participate in or initiate what we fondly called a “Marshall Plan” for someone in need—always giving sacrificially and with joy. We will miss her dearly.

Since her passing on March 23, we have witnessed an unprecedented outpouring of unsolicited support for the family from relatives, friends, and well-wishers. This speaks volumes about the life of impact that Abies lived. She made a lasting, positive difference in many lives.

As I close, I want to leave us all—both those here and those watching online—with a few important questions:

1. If your time on earth were to end today, are you ready to meet your God?
2. What legacy are you leaving as you journey through life?
3. What will others say about you when you are gone? Will it be a testimony of love and devotion to God and to others, like Abies did? Or will it be a life marked by professing to love God, yet failing to love your neighbor?

Which will it be?

As we reflect on these questions, I urge us all to choose wisely and to emulate Abies’ legacy of Christ-like love and a joy-filled life.

To my brother-in-love, Sam: the Lord will grant you the grace that only He can provide. As the Psalmist prayed,
“When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the Rock that is higher than I” (Psalm 61:2). The Lord is that eternal Rock of Ages, and He is comforting and strengthening you even now.

To my wonderful and adorable nieces and nephew—Onome, Robor, and Tobore—Mommy left a rich legacy of selfless love and kindness that will continue to bear good fruit in your lives in the years ahead. The Lord Jesus is with you always. He is carrying you and Daddy on eagle’s wings (Exodus 19:4). Big Mommy and I, as the Lord gives us breath, will walk alongside you every step of the way.

I would like to leave us all with this word of encouragement from Isaiah 6:1:
“In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord, high and exalted, seated on a throne; and the train of His robe filled the temple.”

In the midst of this great loss, may we lift our eyes and see the Lord Jesus Christ, high and exalted above all. He remains in control and will faithfully carry us through this season of loss.

Abies, our darling sister and daughter—you ran a good race; you kept the faith. Thank you for giving to the Lord. Because you gave so sacrificially to the least of His brethren, many lives have been changed for the better. We will always love you and forever cherish your beautiful memory.

We miss you deeply, but we take comfort in knowing that you are resting in the Lord. And we hold fast to the blessed hope:
“For the Lord Himself shall descend from heaven……. and the dead in Christ shall rise first.” — 1 Thessalonians 4:16 (KJV)

Farewell, our precious daughter, our Sparkle!
Good night, until we meet again on Resurrection morning!

With love,
Big Daddy Abi Aghayere and Big Mommy Josie Aghayere
April 18, 2026

The last time my mom called me was the Friday before she died. She was calling to let me know something that she was very excited to share. She had just spent $7 at Costco.

The last time I hugged my mom, was the Saturday before she died. My family had come down to Waterloo to watch me perform in a musical.

Before the show, she sent me a prayer that ended with the words:

"I pray God would guide your words, movements, and heart. Remind you that you are capable, prepared, and never alone."

During the show, she laughed, cried, and took notes, notes she planned on sharing with me later in the week, but a conversation we never got to have.

The last time I called my mom, was a Sunday night, the night before she died. We ended the call as we always do. "Talk later, have a goodnight, love you bye." And that was it. And overnight, a very special weekend became my last weekend with my mom.

The first thing I said when I found out was that I’m not ready, because I’m not. I have never imagined a life without my mom, and I still can’t. She is such a presence. Words cannot begin to describe her energy, her positivity, her laugh and her smile. It pains me that the world will see that smile no more. That I will see it no more.

My mom is the kind of person who considers you before considering herself. Who solves problems before you even realize they’re there. The kind that shows you what true care looks like, that takes a genuine interest in your life. The greatest host to ever host. Someone who celebrates your wins as though they’re her own.

And I am just not ready.

But I’ll see her in music and in song. In little sticky notes on the bathroom mirror. In long winded stories. In walks in the spring. In smoothies, in baking and in cleaning. In flowers, in rain and in snow. In karaoke, in harmonies. In my siblings and my family. In myself.

It does not feel like nearly enough but it will have to be.

When my mom was nineteen, her mother passed. And still, I grew up deeply aware of the undeniable love that my mother had for her. A love that you could feel, even three decades later. The same kind of love that I will have to experience for my mother from now on.

When we were younger, she would sing us a poem, the same poem that her mother would sing to her as a child.

It's called My Mother by Ann Taylor:

Who sat and watched my infant head.
And laid me on my cradle bed.
While tears of sweet affection shed.
My Mother.

When pain and sickness made me cry,
Who gazed upon my heavy eye,
And wept for fear that I should die?
My Mother.

And can I ever cease to be
Affectionate and kind to thee,
Who was so very kind to me?
My Mother.

Ah, no! the thought I cannot bear;
And if God please my life to spare,
I hope I shall reward thy care,
My Mother.

I love you so much mom.

My dearest aunty Abies, I can’t bring myself to use past tense when I think of you. So I won’t until I have to. I struggle to find the right words to convey just how much you mean to me. How do I describe the weight of your absence?

Maybe a metaphor? Being loved by you feels like being hugged by the sun. You can’t leave my aunty’s table without 2 things. A full belly and a smile. Last year my husband found himself in Toronto for work — Aunty Abi offered her place to kick back and what he didn’t know at the time is the single backpack he brought with him on the plane would be far too small for the 20 pounds of Nigerian food she sent him home with. I still have some of her egusi soup saved in our freezer.

How about a song?

“I’ve got the joy joy joy joy down in my heart.”

If the essence of who you are could be captured in a verse, you, my darling aunty, the person you are and the way you danced… the way you dance through this life, juicing it for all it’s worth, marked by such joy…

THAT would be your song.

Maybe there is a word that could hold the part of you Aunty that I’m most desperate to hold close.

“AH-WAH-WREEH-VMEE”

It’s means “enjoy life”. It’s meant to be lived. It’s a word I borrowed from you. — and you did — enjoy life with all your loving heart.

“AH-WAH-WREEH-VMEE”

Like a blessing. A benediction. A call to action. Words fail me, aunty. But you never did.

You are a light. A path. And nourishment for the journey… (SO much nourishment)

And you were…… no. You ARE loved.

Thanks aunty.

Abie is one of a kind. God gave her so many wonderful gifts, which she used for His glory and the good of everyone around her everyday.
One such time was about 15 years ago when I was a young mom with 4 little kids and had just given birth to our 5th baby. Abie asked to come over and, not only did she bring our family food, but she also brought her cleaning supplies and spent the next several hours cleaning our house from top to bottom. She cleaned places and things that I had never cleaned before. She cleaned with joy and a song on her lips. Even though she was likely tired from cleaning all week at work, she didn’t hesitate to help another tired and weary friend. She loved our whole family and we all loved her and her family! We will miss her so much. And we’ll be praying particularly for Sam, Onome, Robor, Tobore & all of Abie & Sam’s extended family as we grieve together.

These photos were taken a few years ago at a New Year’s Eve Party with a bunch of our church family. Abie thought it was so fun that we were twinning that night so of course we had to capture a picture together!

Abby,

I’m still struggling to accept that you’re gone. It doesn’t feel real.

After more than thirty years, I saw you again last December—and somehow, in just a few hours, it felt like no time had passed at all. We laughed, we talked, we slipped so easily back into the warmth of old memories. I remember thinking how effortless it was, how natural it felt to be around you again.

What stayed with me most was you—unchanged in all the ways that mattered. Still warm. Still graceful. Still carrying that quiet, beautiful energy that made people feel comfortable and welcome. It was so clear that life had only added to who you were, never taken away from it.

I left our meeting in December with a quiet happiness, believing we had found our way back to each other and that there would be more moments, more conversations, more laughter ahead. I didn’t know I was saying goodbye.

There’s a deep ache in that. But alongside it, there’s gratitude. I’m grateful that I saw you again. Grateful that we shared that time. Grateful that I got to be reminded of the kind of person you were—and always will be in my memory.

I will carry that moment with me. .

Rest well, Abby.

— Osagie

A dear sister in Christ walking together in prayer! I will miss her, and see her again one day! ❤️

What a huge loss to this generation indeed!!! Aunty Abie I remember the first day I meet you, you were warm, welcoming and a great host. I remember the love you showed to me and my new born, you would commonly say, chinwe give me this baby and go get some sleep. Thank you aunty Abie for your love and generosity. You were full of life and light, my condolences to uncle Sam, Onome, Robor and Toby whom you left behind and to all your family; siblings, sisters in law may God console them also.
Go well Aunty Abie!!!

If there's anything I learned from knowing Mrs. Adese as "Robor's mom", it's that she set an incredible example for both of her daughters in how to be truly good and kind people. It is a privilege to have grown up with Robor and Onome throughout our middle school and highschool years. It was always clear to me how supportive Mrs. Adese was of both of her daughters' achievements and inherited love of music. Without fail, she was always there for all of the Rosebud Orchestra and Gage concerts, and many school celebrations. She has and will always have so much to be proud of, with her legacy and contagious smile carrying on in her three children. Sending my sincerest condolences to Robor, Onome, Toby, Mr. Adese, and the many friends and family Abie was so deeply loved by.

May the angels welcome you home. May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace. May your memory forever be a blessing to all in Jesus's name. Amen

I didn't see you physically but I met you through the testimony of the kind of God woman that were. I actually hoped to see you one until I heard you have gone to be with your maker. Auntie Continue to rest well.

Aunty Abiessssssss

It’s hard to think of you in past tense. I’m grateful I got to experience your light, your love and the essence of you. We will hold those memories dear to our hearts, we love you deeply but God loves you more. Rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.

Dearest childhood friend abievbenmwense aghayere as i have always called you since primary school,
.our mums where also friends ,your absence leaves a profound void in my heart,
I will forever cherish the laughter and memories we shared.
Your spirit, so vibrant and full of life, will continue to inspire me.
Though you are no longer with us, your light will never fade.
Rest in peace, dear friend, you will be deeply missed. Abievbenmwense .

Hi auntie
I miss you....I miss your calls, your voice, your beautiful and astonishing smile...I miss you
I really hoped to see you one day, to finally hug my auntie, to see her beautiful smile in person...
The way you encouraged me...your soft words could make anyone happy even in his most depressing days
So it is true....I won't see your beautiful smile again, nobody is going to call me 'winny' again, nobody.....
I really wanted to make you proud auntie, to see that your words of encouragement finally paid off
Auntie, I promise, I will make you proud, I will....just wanted you to be there to see it💔
Couldn't imagine that I will ever say these words to you.....
Rest in peace auntie Abie
You had the prettiest smile ever, and we will all do our best to keep that smile forever
Goodbye..... auntie Abie💔

My deepest condolences to you Uncle Sam, Onome, Robor and Toby.
Auntie Abies was truly heaven-sent. She was a true blessing in our lives, especially during my early days of motherhood. The love and care she showed to my son Nigel and I will never be forgotten.
Her nurturing spirit, gentle heart, and selfless love were a reflection of God’s grace. She was an angel on earth, and I feel so blessed to have experienced her presence in our lives.
May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace and continue to watch over all of us 🕊️ She will forever live in our hearts.

Abie you were a sister to my family and I both in the Lord and in deed. A rare gem with no "airs", direct and honest, always lighting up every room or person you met. You were always kind, basking confidently in your substantial gifts for hospitality and generosity, ever ready to put in a hand when help needed at Small group or elsewhere. Amongst so many memories one that stands out for me was on your last Saturday returning from watching your daughter Robor's drama performance in Waterloo unexpectedly turning up at our door afterwards at 10pm in driving rain with a large food parcel. When I quizzed you on why didn't leave this till tomorrow at church, you replied "no, I really didn't want this to wait till Sunday". This was classic Abie: always placing her "Light on a stand" just as Jesus implored his disciples in Mat 5:16. Adieu sister, you are so missed but hoping to join you again sometime at the feet of our Father in heaven.

Abies was such a kind and gentle soul. May God comfort and strengthen the family and may her soul rest in peace. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Heaven has gained a beautiful soul. Abie’s life was a true reflection of God's love and kindness, and her faith shone brightly to everyone who knew her.

I had the pleasure of serving with Abie on Team 3 for many years at Hope Church. Abie would light up the room with her beautiful smile. She gave the best hugs and I will surly miss those.

Sam and family, may the peace of Jesus, which passes all understanding, bring solace to your heart during this difficult time. Abie was such a wonderful blessing and will be missed by all who knew her. ❤️

2 Timothy 4:7-8: "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."

Rest peacefully our dear Aunty Abie. Your infectious smile lights up any room you step into.

Thank you for the love and support you showed us when we landed in Canada, those memories we will forever cherish. It’s hard to say goodbye but we are consoled that God knows best.
Till we meet again on the resurrection morning, Adieu “Mother of all” as I fondly called you💔

Auntie Abie. I leave these words as a tribute to your remarkable strength of character, your loving heart, and your beautiful laugh. I leave them for your beautiful babies - our sweet Onome, Robor, and Tobore - and your beloved, my dear brother-in-law Sam. I do not know that I have met a better person in this life, someone so selfless and giving, whose faith guided them to treat every person with overwhelming dignity and respect. You welcomed me into your home and your family, united as we were in loving our Sam Adese's, brothers of the same name. We were united in raising princes (and in your case, princesses), and as we love yours, you have loved ours so completely. You were the one to hold us in our darkest moments when I was so very sure that we could not go on, and you celebrated our truest joy with us, widening your family circle even further for an additional young prince. You gave us all a home, and a family, and reminded us that in a world that can often seem so isolating, that true human connection is at the very foundation of how we should strive to live our lives. The many lessons you taught me, I will carry them forward for the rest of my life (except jollof - you tried, but I'm sorry Auntie Abie, I'll never be able to replicate your jollof). From Adavono, for whom there will never be another Auntie who holds such a place in his heart: "You are the best auntie ever. And your puff puff is the best in the world. Thank you for teaching me your special ingredient." While our faiths may have taken us down different paths, I know that in the end we will see one another again and I look forward to that day. For now, we will thank you every day for your generosity of spirit and care by loving Sam and your beautiful children as fiercely as they will allow us. Rest well, my sister.

My beloved Aunty Abies
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Words have failed me oooh Aunty Abie, this shouldn’t be happening. I have been waiting patiently for all this to be a prank 😢

How do we all live without you Aunty Abie?
How do we celebrate new years, birthdays and parties without you, you brought so much joy and laughter to our lives
How do we recover from this Aunty Abie?
Life indeed isn’t fair.

I always looked forward to hearing from you and seeing you Aunty Abie, we don’t talk often but whenever we do, you always remind me of how beautiful life is with your kind words and beautiful smile, Ahhhh that Smile Aunty Abie, it was heavenly 😢😢.

Words have really failed me, my heart is so heavy, I can’t believe I’m writing a tribute to you my Beloved Aunty Abie
Please rest well my Beautiful Aunty Abie

Siz Abi, words fail me at this moment. I am forever grateful to you and your family for welcoming me to Canada. I am deeply indebted for how selfless you were as a person never have I met anyone with such an amazing heart. When I was ready to move to my own place you gifted me so many things that I still use in my house today.
To uncle Sam and the kids, may you be comforted. Rest well Abies.
Always, Karibu.

I still can’t believe you’re no more, but as the days went by I realized that it is not a dream. I am confident that you had gone to be the lord. You were such an amazing sister and cousin. Your love for everyone will be greatly missed. You lived a short but impactful life as anyone who came close to you can attest to this. Thank you for all the love you shared. May your gentle soul rest in peace. Osatohanmwen Gudbadia

A gentle woman, quiet light. Morning star, so strong and bright. Gentle mother , peaceful dove. Always teaching wisdom and love. A real sister in-law. Heaven"s gain. Perfect peace Abie J. Adese.
Miss you.

Osasenaga D. Guobadia
Classmate/In-law

Abie, this is too soon. I avoided writing this because doing so felt like accepting a reality I was not ready to face. But now, for the sake of your memory, and for your wonderful children and husband, I must come to terms with this painful loss: the loss of you, my wife (in-law, as I sometimes call you). There is little I can say that has not already been said, I suppose, at this point. But I came to know Abie here in Canada, meeting her a few months after the birth of her child. She welcomed me with open arms. It was a couple of years before I saw her again, yet when I did, it felt as though no time had passed. Perhaps it was because of the warmth with which she welcomed me into her home, the same home where, sadly, she passed, so genuinely happy to see me. I am sure others have spoken about her cooking, but I do not know many people, perhaps this is my bias, who could compare. Abie always made sure I had something to eat and even something to take home. Even when I arrived unannounced, she would insist on preparing a meal, warmly urging, Brother Sam, you must have something. My personal relationship with her was special, but her kindness extended beyond me to my wife and my son. I could go on and on, but one of the most important things to say is this: she was an incredible mother and wife to her three wonderful children (my children by familial bond). I experienced her motherly love and care firsthand during holidays, when my wife and I would stay with the family visiting after moving away. What I am trying to say, in this moment of grief, is that we have lost a truly wonderful person, a remarkable woman and wife. Her passing has left a deep vacuum in the family. Her gentle spirit and her ability to make even strangers feel at home make this loss all the more heartbreaking. To my nieces and nephew, I love you. And to my brother, I grieve with you; in sorrow, and in remembrance of her joy. Take heart in knowing that she has gone to a place where there is peace, where pain no longer exists, and where her beautiful soul will rest, and may perpetual light shine upon her.

We knew Abbie for years, she was one of our church families. Her confident and contagious big smiles, hugs, and little jokes were always a part of our Sunday mornings' greet at church. When one of us was not on her sight, she would ask about it. Although my son has not been attending church for a long time, she would from time to time asked about him.
I look forwad to see her again in the future.
So long, sister. We have Hope, Hope has us. One day everything will be revealed as an eternal reality, together we will sing joy for the Lord is our Salavation forever and ever.
Enil, Jeff, Nathaniel

Thank you Aunty Abies. Thank you for loving us and being kind to us. You always exemplified motherly and godly warmth, grace, and mercy; and you always lived out the beauty of your first name (you’re truly indeed born well, Abiemwense). You nurtured each person you came across the only way a sweet mother knows how to. Your arms are always open wide for all to embrace. My earliest memory of you was your traditional wedding at Arousa. I remember being so excited about it. Then, I remember how sweet the turkey you made for Thanksgiving at dem Aunty Ivie and Aunty Adesuwa’s house was. Every time, I enter their house, I try to relive that taste. I appreciate how you try to cherish every moment by taking a picture at some point during a hang out. I’m heart broken we can’t hear your voice anymore or hug you anymore. I’m especially heartbroken for Onome, Robor, and Toby because their sweet mother is not here anymore to care for them. Although we know your beautiful spirit still dwells with us, we know we can never replace your physical presence. All we can say is thank you for your enduring love, pretty smile, warm hugs, amazing cooking, and tender loving. Thank you Aunty Abies💙

I honestly don't know what to write as I'm still in shock about Abbie's passing, but I just wanted to let you guys know I am truly sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine what your family is going through.
She watched me grow up from a little boy to the man I am today and I will miss hearing from her every Sunday and getting my hugs. I just wanted you guys to know that she made a deep impact on my life and again I will miss her deeply.

Abi luv, it is still quite a shock and unbelievable that you are no longer with us. You are such a beautiful soul. It hurts that you left so soon but you are with your maker and the one who loves you most. I pray that the Lord comfort and strengthen your husband, children, entire families and numerous friends. Adieu for now until we meet at Jesus feet. Rest in peace dear.❤️❤️🌸🌸♥️♥️💋💋🌸🌸❤️❤️♥️

I can’t believe this is my reality! That I would never see your smiling face again is too hard to bear! How are you no longer here. I want to wake up from this nightmare😭 I spoke with you the Wednesday before for 24 minutes before you rushed off. If I had known that will be the last time I would ever hear your voice, I would have used my big sister authority voice to keep you on the phone longer. Who is going to tease me for not acting my age even though I’m a senior citizen according to you, and me firing right back that you’re 10 years closer and climbing that hill right behind me. My heart is broken and there will forever be a void that will never close. We just hung out together with the cousins in VA this past November and now you’re gone? This cannot be real! We just talked about going on at least one cruise and you promised me it was a done deal, and I’m tearing up because you loved to go on cruises and always had the time of your life!
I’m writing this at 1:44am because I just couldn’t bring myself to do this. I wish I can hug you one more time! My heart aches!
Please watch over Sam, Nome, Robo and Toby.
God knows best🙏🏽 Rest In Heaven sis till we meet again🙏🏽
I will always love you and NEVER forget you🥰

My dear Abie, knowing you is knowing a joyful and peace loving person. My first encounter with you was when we served in the planning committee of Nigerians in Brampton when the group started. You were always ready to serve and then you introduced yourself as my high school friend Ayin's sister.

You were a caring, inseparable sister to my friend Ayin and travel buddy.

You were such a loving person, a wonderful mother and wife and I truly admired your lovely smiles and your very respectful and gorgeous disposition.

You will be really missed by your family, church family and the Nigerians in Brampton Community.

We hope to meet on the resurrection morning to continue singing hallelujah. Love and miss you 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 ❤️

My dearest cousin Abies you may be gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.

You will always be remembered, cherished, and forever loved.

Ehiosu Uhuangho.

My sister, it is hard for me to believe that I will not see your smiling face again on this side of heaven.
You touched my life in a way I can not find words to express.
I can boldly say,that you are a Dorcas of our generation.
Your warmth and generosity tells who you are.
I am glad that you loved the Lord and you served Him.I believe you are now with Him.
I miss you but I am consoled that we will meet again at the feet of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
May your soul rest in peace.


. Christie.

My dearest sister Abie ,your passing to glory has kept me speechless but l trust God that you are now in heaven smiling with other loved ones who have passed. Enjoy your journey to heaven and continue smiling with Jesus. I will surely miss your beautiful smiles. Love, Patricia

After many upteenth attempts, It’s taken me these very many days to express my thoughts, even though I was the first to be notified that this website had gone live!

ABIES! Words are not sufficient for me to begin to describe my pain and shock, what a genuinely loving, sacrificial, caring and joy you brought to me and anyone who encountered you for even 5 minutes! Oh that electrifying signature smile, warmth , humble and respectful demeanor you carried with such beauty grace and empathy !

My mind still goes over that fateful morning when I got that call at work from uncle Sam and while driving to the hospital with only a phrase “Lord please have mercy on my sister” Nothing prepared me for 9:26 a m..
When we sat at church less than 24 hours before, singing our hearts in worship to the Lord and nodding to each other in agreements listening to the sermon series on our bodies as jars of clay…
When you insisted that we take a photo after church which I vehemently refused initially…
when I reminded you not to forget saturday’s womens worship and you said “ sista , make today finish saturday still far…”
When you called me later that eve and we had a long convo as we did regularly…
I had no idea what lay ahead the following morning at 9:26 a m . But God knew .
Yesterday as I joined Good Friday service online, I kept remembering our road trip plan to Kentucky right after the first service to see sis E and bro O. You expressed countless times your excitement looking forward to 10 hours drive together and all the food and things we will take to them reharshing the list of things. That was who you were. You had so much love to give to everyone without making anyone feel less loved.

For me, I know I have lost an irreplaceable sister and life in Toronto, weekly is forever changed.
But I choose to trust our sovereign God who is still Faithful even in the midst of this confusion, pain and hurt of your loss! I confess that I’m still trying to make sense of what seems only like a movie.
Praying God’s peace, comfort and strength for your beloved hubby, uncle Sam, Onome, Robor and your “Prince” Tobore.
You are sorely missed !


Sleep on my beloved Lil’ sis, good Night.
until that resurrection morning.
“Sista…”

Abie, hearing the news of your passing hit me like a shock to the heart. You were always so full of life and so genuinely lovely.

I still remember how you hosted me, my wife, and some of our AOL friends with so much warmth. And when our daughter was born, you even came all the way to visit us. Those moments meant the world.

I met you through AOL Academy, and from that day, you became a real sister to me. Losing you now feels so sudden and painful. I’m still struggling to wrap my head around it.

My deepest condolences to your family. May the Lord comfort and strengthen you all as you go through this heartbreaking loss.

Sleep well, dear sister. Journey well.

We’ll miss you greatly, but thank you for being such a wonderful sister and family friend. You’ll always have a special place in our hearts.

I am still in shock about this. When I got to work and was told, I felt very confused and didn’t understand. She was such a kind and wonderful woman to work with. May God give her family strength during this difficult time and keep everyone safe.

Oh Abie! We are utterly shocked at her going home to be with the Lord. While attending Hope, I got to know her on the greeting team, and we exchanged recipes, house pictures and discussed healthy food. She was absolutely lovely. Brian’s and my deepest condolences to you, Sam, and the children. It will take a long while to return to “normal” — though nothing will ever be normal again. After the noise dies down, we pray your memories are full of deep laughter. We will be lifting you up in prayer. Please also be encouraged… there is great joy in the house of the Lord when one of His own enters His presence. Abie is walking with Jesus! There is ultimate and complete peace and rest for her, as she has come face to face with our Savior and Lord Jesus Christ.

I was truly heartbroken to hear about Abies's passing. Speaking about her now in the past tense feels disconcerting.

Abies was so pure-hearted. She was kind, lovely and welcoming. I first met Abies in 2012 through her cousin Ivie. She opened her heart and home to me and my family, and I'll never forget it. We kept in touch after that via WhatsApp and at other in-person occasions.

Our birthdays were a week apart, and she always sent me birthday greetings, words of affirmation and encouragement and asked about my family. We continued to meet up over the years – a girls' trip to Vegas one time, and Benin, Nigeria, for the funeral service for Ivie's dad. We talked about more girls' trips... alas.

In all the time I knew her, Abies remained the same: happy, ever-smiling, and positive. She was a joy to be around, and there was never a dull moment in her company. She was an amazing person, an awesome human, and a fiercely loving mom.

Abies's life was an act of service to those around her... I am blessed to have known her. I am heartbroken that her story has been cut short, but I am thankful to God for a life well lived. May God comfort all the loved ones she has left behind. I cannot begin to imagine the heartache of her absence.

Rest well, Abies. What an amazing legacy you have left behind in your children.

Vivian Omonbude

I am so deeply saddened to hear of this development. My deepest sympathies to her husband, children extended family, in-laws and friends.

I remember Abie in a happy way. The day before God called her home, we were at our small group meeting. In the accountability section of the meeting,we each shared what was happening in our lives. Abie who prayed for each of us. At the end of the small group meeting, it was Abie who closed the meeting in prayer. Looking back now, I can see that she was glowing.
At the end of the meeting, she burst into singing "Lord dismiss us with thy blessings:Fill our hearts with joy and peace."
I, and can say, and the small group will miss her kindness and radiant joy. She loved the Lord.
I pray that God will bless her family with peace and resilience.

I am still in shock today as I was last week when my sister called to tell me of Abie's passing!
While we only met during my visit to Canada last year, Abie was one of my sister's friends who made me comfortable and at home in Hope Church. I loved her bubbly and joyful spirit. She loved her family and was always there for her friends. My niece and nephews felt very comfortable in her house each time they were there and she never held back in caring and chatting with them.
To her husband and children, I am truly sorry for your loss but I pray that the Holy Spirit will comfort you and heal your deepest wound.
Abie is a lovely child of God and I am sure the Father welcomes her into His loving arms as He keeps watching over those she left here.

Rest on Abie.

I had met Abie through her sister over a decade ago. And cannot remember an encounter with her as a church member that ever made me ask if she was Ok because Abie was always so pleasantly warm with her beautiful signature smile. I also experienced her caring and thoughtful nature during a visit to the movie theatre to see a film. Abie came ready with some snacks and drinks for all 4 of us. Abie, I am deeply saddened by the news of your sudden departure to eternity. It is really heartbreaking that you had to be gone so soon. My thoughts and prayers for strength and comfort remain with your amiable husband, children and the family.
Sleep well, beautiful one. 💔

My dear cousin, words cannot express my profound sadness at learning that you have gone to be with the Lord . I pray that God will give your husband, children and siblings the strength to carry on and bear this irreparable loss . 💐🙏🏾

I truly don't know how to begin. My sista Abie has been a tower of strength to me. Her kindness knows no bounds, her love for humanity is selfless. You are truly an angel sent to us for such a short while but you impacted us for a lifetime. You will be truly missed my sista and you will be forever in my heart. Take your rest.

Auntie Abie was a true definition of a GOD fearing woman. She was my auntie, mentor and motherly figure to me. She was there in some of the instrumental times in my life- highs and lows. She was always there to provide a words of wisdom, encouragement and love. She was always so loving and supportive. No words can describe the heaviness of your loss. We love and miss you tremendously. We will see your beautiful smile one day again. May your soul rest in perfect peace 🕊️ 🤍🙏🏿

One of my cherished memories of my dear Sister Abie is in the midst of a busy Christmas season, she chose to slow down and give something truly meaningful; her time.

After church, we visited my mom at the long term care home, bringing along her sweet Onome and Robor, and together they filled the room with Christmas songs. It wasn’t just music, it was warmth, kindness, and joy from genuine love and thoughtfulness.

That special moment brought tears of joy, not just because of the songs, but because of what it represented. Even in the busyness of life, she made time for others. It was a powerful reminder of the true meaning of Christmas.

Matthew 5:16
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.

I will never forget our last conversation, the day before her passing.

I will miss her big and loving hugs.

Until we meet again sweet Sister❤️❤️

They say “harvest is no blessing when death is the crop” thus with a heavy heart but loving memory I remember Abies, beloved wife of Samson Adese.
Your gentle spirit, warm smiles and unwavering love touched everyone who knew you and I was privileged to have known you over 30 years.
May Sam, your children and family find comfort in the beautiful memories you shared and my the God of your heart accept your soul and may you rest in eternal peace. 🙏🏿

It’s hard to choose just one favourite memory of Ms. Abie, but one moment that truly stayed with me was Onome’s graduation party, hosted by the Adeses in their backyard. The day was warm, and although I knew Ms. Abie was likely under a lot of stress, she moved through the house and yard with such grace and ease. I remember thinking to myself, “I hope that when I grow up and have a family of my own, I can be as lovely and hospitable as this woman.”
Everything about that day—the food, the music, the decor—was beautiful, and I know Ms. Abie had a hand in all of it. Every time I visited her home and shared a meal, it felt as though I was coming home. She didn’t let me leave that night until I took a plate home for my mom! She had a remarkable way of making people feel welcomed and cared for.
Ms. Abie truly made that night unforgettable. I can only hope to grow into someone as beautiful, resilient, and caring as her.

Hmmmmmm, it's 7 days today the sad news of your death came to my ear and from that day till this minute I still can't find the exact words to describe how sweet a person you are sis.
We chatted last on mother's Day were I thanked you for all your love and sacrifices ma, but u didn't say it will be the last whyyyyyyyyyyy.
I lack the strength to pin it down here right.
What exactly can I say 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 good bye or Rest well either of these feel ok to me sis, cause I didn't see myself saying this to you in another 30yrs from now.
Hmmmmmm sister Abies, this death cut too deeply ooo.
I can't end this write up cause it's an unending grieve.

My beautiful auntie Abies. You were more than my auntie, you were like a second mother. Your love, your warmth, and the way you cared for all of us will never be forgotten. My heart aches that you’re gone, but I’m grateful for every moment we shared. Thank you for pouring into my life the way you did. Thank you for your encouragement, your wise words, your jokes and beautiful smile. I will miss you forever. You are resting in God’s arms.
Love your neice, Osa❤️

I met Abie 20yrs ago at Liftow. We hit it off right away.
She was such a bright, lovely person who's smile lights up a room.
We had long conversations about her kids and how much she loved her family. I am so shocked and saddened of her passing and wish I could talk to her more and give her a huge hug.
My heart goes out to you Sam and your beautiful family, I'm sure she will be watching over you all.

Sending you and the family my sincerest Condolences

There are no words to express the void that is felt by all who knew this Wonerful Lady.
But, one word that I feel is not the most eliquent, but is my word and, that word is "Sunshine". Abie was the brightness that the sun gives us everday. She will be missed by many of us left behind.
Miss you Already......Dear Abbie.
Love Always and a bug Hug from Me..
We will meet again. for sure.
Love Always
Uncle Tony

My darlyn Abie. It is still shocking and baffling that you are no longer here. You are such a beautiful soul and I miss that your beautiful smile already. You always had the best compliments to make one feel good. That, I will miss too. Rest peacefully in our Lord's bosom until we meet again. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸❤️❤️❤️💋💋❤️

Abies was always very thoughtful and kind.You could always see the laughter in her eyes.A true definition of family.You always left her presence with a little more hope that it will be a better day.A burbly God filled and fearing Woman.An exemplary example of a person.It is hard to see you go but your maker loved you more.Ovbiye Adieu.

In-law extraordinaire. Your smile, kindness, and love will be deeply missed am grateful to God for the time we shared. Your memory will be a blessing, and your love will live on. Rest in perfect peace. Your legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire us. Though you're gone, your impact remains.

UYIMWEN OGBOMO

Abie, you were truly a bright candle burnt out long before your legend ever did.
Your always smiling face will be forever missed. You had such a unique personality that will be missed by all that encountered you.
May your beautiful soul rest in peace !
Our condolences to all those you left behind.
Love from the Agholor’s

I had the pleasure of meeting you when I visited Aunty Ayin and her family in 2024.
Although we only saw each other a few times, it felt so familiar when we talked.
You made me feel truly heard.
Your death has deeply affected me. You and your family are in my thoughts.🕊️